Bro Just Avoided Forever Years Of Suffering 🤞💎

[@betabetapsi]

Men of culture, this is how it's done. No anger. No yelling. No cursing. No more being taken for granted. Peace be unto you all.

[@kelechiaguocha6125]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@mattressmarshal]

She looks like she was completely blindsided. I bet she’s acted this way in the past and gotten away with it

[@Daniel-Choe]

The correct use of men of culture. One of the only times to ever happen online. I don't get how the phrase turned into a joke for perverts 😂😂.

[@kelechiaguocha6125]

@ bingo because a significant portion of this current cohort of younger/older women writ large DO NOT heed constructive criticism, correction nor structure. Essentially, she got wake up call on national television. I had a similar conversation a week ago and I told a woman that NO ONE is obligated to tolerate her maladjusted behavior🤷🏾‍♂️ .

[@theretrogrill]

Masculine woman gets bounced like she should.

[@africareigns]

I'm a woman, and I automatically stood up and clapped for this confident, self assured, gaslight-proof man. Well Done!

[@Tangi-z9d]

You’re so right! She may not like what he said but she has to know the truth ain’t always sweet. He was clear and confident that he tried but it can’t work and it’s time to go on. I love a man that’s like that.

[@JrvVelaz]

Gas light proof that's amazing I need to become that my whole life in relationship to my father and bosses has been NOTHING BUT NARCISSISTIC AND I BEEN EXPLODING 👹💥💥💥💥

[@Money_SqueezeENT]

N if u was there in person you'd be throwing yo number and 🐈 cewchie at'm😂😂

[@africareigns]

@Bloggerzworsenitemare Respectfully, please don't judge me by the women you know. 😂

[@saxcarsnomorecigars]

Thank you sooooo much for being fair. Whoever you are you are fair and beautiful

[@CheeKiatTeo]

Bro stood his ground, immune to all that manipulation. Has my respect

[@alexism.7712]

What show is this?

[@TheHoopGod_23]

Facts 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

[@marlynhunter6384]

@@alexism.7712 Love Is Blind

[@robevans9221]

He's a very smart man

[@dndanga]

All she had to do was apologise and try to see it from his perspective. She made it all about her. She did not realise how lucky she was to have someone who lifts his share of the load without being asked

[@Tony-Gatos]

This man is the definition of pure masculinity. This man is built for respect.

[@raycharmburkett]

A great example of her listening to respond instead of her listening to understand!!! Because I understand this man plain as day!!! 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@ruthfrank8106]

But is that enough to say I never want to see you again?

[@davidwevans4132]

@@ruthfrank8106This is, most likely, not the first time that she thought only about herself! This has been a continuous problem in this Coupling! And he has had enough! He kept giving her space, to think about what she is not adding to this relationship! But she is only interested in taking advantage of it!

[@realtalkhub23]

@@ruthfrank8106what else would you have seen happen?

[@QUEENNACLASSYOFHEROWN]

​@@ruthfrank8106MAYB U MISSED HIM SAYN THERE A LOT HE COULD RESPOND TOO, given ..ITS MORE THAN THAT and PROBABLY LOTSSS MORE

[@hoodie_bron]

@@ruthfrank8106 yes?? If you aren’t being appreciated and they choose to nitpick and listen to respond instead of listening to understand the issue then yes it is. That was a dumb question 🤣

[@josephmak4999]

She's determined to "not understand" him bc he was clear, she was defensive & didn't acknowledge any of it. He delivered that like an assassin. It'll stay with her forever.

[@ab_ab_c]

Unaccountable, irresponsible, & gaslighting him that he's trying to spin the truth that they both know is true. Another selfish & ungrateful, unappreciative, & dishonest woman loses a good man. Good for him. He dodged a bullet by deciding to not marry her.

[@stacyalthen2893]

TBH. She missed out on a good guy.

[@ChineduOpara]

​@@stacyalthen2893 Most of them do, and only realize it post-wall.

[@richardagostini182]

Probably not. Entitled people don't see what others do.

[@katybee3891]

The only people who think that are people who haven’t watched the show. He asked her father for her hand two days prior and then broke up with her in this conversation because she took a nap before her night shift. His behavior was insane. The fact that he is so unemotional just shows how cold and heartless he is.

[@tanyac.6544]

I agree with him! 100%....I didn't see a temper tantrum. He communicated calmly and rationally.

[@BlazeLs-je7yo]

Exactly. There was no temper tantrum. That was just her trying to get him riled up to make him seem like he was crazy.

[@antontinney4489]

😃😃😃😃😃👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👑👑👑👑👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🏆🏆🏆🏆👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾😃😃😃

[@janiced.hatcher1272]

100 thumbs up 👍

[@CasualWatcher00]

Man can communicate verbally not mind reading communication. How dumb are you to think men can read mind they hate mind games.

[@davidjamal378]

​@@BlazeLs-je7yoI agree with y'all but she wasn't saying he threw a tantrum just then. She was saying he does it at home.... So that's different!

[@jsimms8695]

My niGg@!... 💯 Made me proud to be a good man...we need more brothers like him!

[@howardbutler3209]

He handled that situation correctly, he's a wise man.

[@Hamza-iq6gw]

When dudes have options they become so Intelligent. He knows his worth

[@nolan13075]

This dude was insane

[@JasonlaroseLaRose]

Men, don't get involved with wildebeest's to begin with.

[@jetcrews97]

He really did

[@MakeItMakeSense-w9y]

@@nolan13075She was insane. You don’t understand what it means to be a life partner. She will regret losing him because of selfish ways, lack of self awareness and lack of empathy

[@BarbaraWilliamsBrownMMsc]

I respect his bravery for speaking his Truth… to a woman. I am 75 years old woman. A man speaking his Truth in a “dignified and non threatening manner” is commendable In my opinion, for whatever it’s worth🙏

[@fantasia12341]

Its worth a lot x

[@thomasdowns6549]

It's not his truth, it's just the truth.

[@SuntanXxSuperman]

Quick question...why do women want men to treat them in a "dignified and non aggressive way" when MOST women REFUSE to do that ESPECIALLY when they get mad or they perceive a slight?

[@simmc5466]

Am with you on this 😊

[@ocimak]

@@SuntanXxSupermana) most women is a stretch. Maybe the women you know. But that says more about the women you CHOOSE ATO surround yourself with than women as a gender. B) even if a woman is aggressive it has less possibility of equally bodily harm to that man. so yes women want men to speak and behave non aggressively cause her life is on the line.

[@helenaroberson9509]

I agree with this man. If I have to ask you to be courteous and grateful and it doesn't come naturally, then No we don't need to be together! Good Job for this MAN! Be with someone that'll appreciate what you do👍

[@negative949]

AVOID BLACK WOMEN!!!

[@rejectionistmanifesto8836]

And 100% she ain't bringing on 50% or more of the income, she isn't doing outdoor chores, she definitely has him lift heavy object whenever needed, he takes the cars for repairs, she expects him to protect her if another man/woman attacks her and wouldnt say "I dont want you to risk your life honey". Yet she expects him to get groceries, cook and do dishes... digusting.

[@rejectionistmanifesto8836]

This wasn't the first time she has taken advantage of him. You can tell this was the last straw and repeatedly and repeatedly doing this behavior over a long time.

[@dstreet43]

Exactly

[@hotdrumchick]

AAAAAAYYYYYMEN!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@jamescaballero8581]

Men, make sure your "Yes" means yes and your "No" means no.

[@juice9428]

🗣️ My Brother took us all to school on how to communicate effectively without getting emotional. My brother I’m wishing you find yourself a woman that’s worthy.

[@Roroshadyslots]

Then why couldn’t he communicate it before? He let it get to this point.

[@axlrose357]

@@Roroshadyslotsbecause she’s all about herself and blaming him. Not once she apologized so my way or the highway. 😂

[@duece587]

​@@Roroshadyslotscommunicate what, that a relationship should be equal effort? Something's are literally better left unsaid.

[@ng5mekus]

@@Roroshadyslots like she needs to be told what her feminine responsibility shud be before she can do it. then she isn't matured enough to be married. period.

[@thabopietersen6105]

Brilliantly done. I took notes 📝

[@faithdobson3983]

He's absolutely right and his delivery is mature and respectful!💯

[@savadamcfarland-vn5pe]

He's a big red flag! Controlling at its highest!

[@bladeslayer72]

​@@savadamcfarland-vn5pehe's not bring controlling at all. Way to go on spreading lies all because you hate men😂seek help please

[@charlottesmith1662]

He is going to be single for a long time with that mentality. People are not going to do exactly what you want them to do all the time. This is foolishness at its finest.

[@bladeslayer72]

@charlottesmith1662 for doing something as simple as doing the dishes? I've seen multiple comments say that she doesn't work. Its bizarre too, because men have been saying this to women with unrealistic expectations. Expecting someone to help take care of the home you both reside in, isnt unreasonable or unrealistic. Its a simplistic task if you ask me

[@keshasmith9793]

Amazing a man who can communicate and has his standards. There is no scenario 😅😅😅

[@jessemedina4482]

Somebody raised this dude right.. VERY logical approach and very solid boundaries. No cussing, yelling, arguing.. he just made up his mind and presented the news.

[@sulski55]

And she knew she couldn't win that argument so she completely made up a straw man for him to be the victim. And it didn't work. I feel bad for her next boo

[@itinamcculler6141]

I know him and his parents personally. He and my children are friends. His parents are the most humble kindest giving people you would ever meet.

[@mattjubie]

@@itinamcculler6141 That answers my assumption this man grew up in a 2 parent home.

[@itinamcculler6141]

@@mattjubie I haven't watched this show but my daughter was telling me about it and his parents are high school sweethearts. Despite losing two children and they continue to be a beacon of light

[@karterjoseph1300]

She was not his equal I’m glad he noticed it early.

[@gailbillups6508]

Absolutely amazing job, young man 💯 From a mother of son's #PERIOD

[@marciaelainelarsen5523]

Respect to brother, man, no yelling, no bad words. No cursing pure maturity.❤

[@KellyKovergirl]

His response is valid for either sex facing situations that don't resonate with you.

[@MrChief132]

What is wrong with this woman!??? OMGoodness!

[@JC-qz8ox]

I watched the show, dude was a child

[@Nr1gotoguyV2.0-u8p]

Real one 💯

[@barbaracephas2564]

Right!!

[@3Augustin3]

Daaaaamn. This man is excellent at holding people accountable

[@lala_arpslady9577]

I love him! intelligence scares some ppl! He’s thinking about multiple things & she’s just focused on one! Like, what 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@j.bellington9733]

I am on his team!!! She has an attitude. He is a beautiful man! He deserves the best! She is out there! He deserves a loving woman, to live in harmony! God bless you!

[@laurencameron3150]

@@lala_arpslady9577Yall clearly didn’t watch the show or the reunion 😂

[@thatydanielle5867]

What show is this​@@laurencameron3150

[@FreshStar21]

@@laurencameron3150Which show, put us on

[@kathleen.heller]

He's a lucky man... to find out what she's really like now...he can cut his losses and keep his dignity and his heart intact.

[@michaelschneider6106]

And his wallet!

[@KyriToe]

dont forget its the usual suspects that behave like that

[@moonianfoster790]

​@KyriToe who your mom or dad?

[@KyriToe]

@@moonianfoster790 african americans

[@Rua007]

And his friends and family....

[@All.For.You.Lord.]

Thank you, I needed this. I've been in a shitty mood all day, and my man has been handling dishes and the kids to give me a break. I'm going to go take care of him now!

[@LeeDavisHomeOffice]

YOU...WIN🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@honeybee7197]

I don't think that's the same. Those are his kids too and it's okay for men to wash dishes. I'm sure you wash dishes and give him breaks from the kids. Don't ever feel guilty because he had to be a parent for a day.

[@carl5438]

From the fellas, we thank you for that.

[@teflo2]

I'm a woman and I completely agree with this young man. He does not need to burden himself with this type of woman. He was such a gentleman about it. Now he can keep it moving!

[@Lovelyone1]

I think she is the one who dodged the bullet.

[@nicietaylor9144]

👍 He's 💯 Right!

[@KCsunshine99]

Agree, a simple “thank you,” on her part would have turned out much differently.

[@XianeeLi]

It was not the whole story. He's a narc if you watch the show when he got mad at her because she went to sleep after spending 4 hours with his parents. He's terrible.

[@the8walls]

@@Lovelyone1and we all think you are destined to be single forever.

[@socorropeers8217]

This man is a real man. Very mature, very calm, not abusive addressing his concerns..🇵🇭👏👏👏👏

[@laceydawn690]

Very demure

[@Sevensliders]

​@@laceydawn690 demure doesn't mean a doormat

[@emeraldc.8796]

I'm a female & I completely agree with this Gentleman. My husband helps me & I help my husband. Loving your spouse or significant other means: helping them as much as possible, communication, compromise, being considerate, thinking about the other's needs, etc. I also pray daily for: my spouse, family, loved ones, friends, homeless & all people in our world. What Would Jesus Do?

[@guestguest9634]

Love this yes

[@guestguest9634]

I love the respectful way that he broke up with her. No name calling, swearing or yelling. 😅

[@romain9626]

Oh wow ❤

[@privatelyblessed1944]

Gurl … standing ovation. What would Jesus do? I keep telling folks. “The highest form of Love is consideration. “

[@David-nh2dn]

wow my girlfriend with three kids just cussed me out because i asked her to help me bring the kids to school and daycare. thank god im not married...

[@NBWDOUGHBOY]

Bro was so calm. This is mature as fvkk.

[@trevordwyer5638]

Now that's a real man. No anger, no interrupting. Just facts and knowing his worth.

[@anaayala05]

Nop

[@DreadlockRasta21]

​@@anaayala05 No?

[@ChartreuseJU]

@@anaayala05haha you stupid bitch you hate that men aren’t playing game at all any more don’t worry yall can always be fake with each other yall love being fake Yall all a 10 right 😂 you go girls

[@Khh-u1w]

Shutup you emotionally controlled being 😂 ​@@anaayala05

[@trevordwyer5638]

@@DreadlockRasta21 She must like betas she can walk on.

[@elliefernandez9403]

This man is very attentive, detailed, calm, collective, and accurate. Indeed!

[@flowersforme375]

Pick Me. That man was a disaster on the show. You can have him.

[@miss11249]

He wants a clam women

[@mosesm.2993]

💯

[@RabbiYitzchakBenForeskinowitz]

lolgroidz

[@flowersforme375]

@ Misogyny is real. You don’t even know the story.😆Tim has already been barbecued by the internet for being horrible. Calling off a wedding because of a one hour nap. He’s trifling and vindictive. At least know the facts.

[@residentdhedelamo8564]

There is serious maturity in his voice . Sis-- you missed a good person over petty. #compromise

[@lindastrickland8200]

She's sorry and appreciative.

[@LoveMcNeal-o6l]

OMG! To watch all this in motion on Love is Blind she was the worst

[@leliawinfield8278]

@@residentdhedelamo8564 she will look back on this period of her life and ask herself, " what in the heck was I thinking?" The problem with people today is their inability, or unwillingness to meet their significant other half way, or show appreciation for what the other half does for the good of making it work! 💜

[@tja.k.at-rebel3741]

​@@LoveMcNeal-o6l what season?

[@TridentShield22]

😂😂😂😂​@@lindastrickland8200

[@veliciahiley7652]

Its his calmness and clarity of his truth. He was done before he had the conversation. Relationships are a partnership, if you want a future together.

[@_f.i.s.h__4506]

The guy is a psychopath that's why he is so collected, you guys need to know the full context

[@juliusilori6615]

She lost a GOOD MAN!!!..... He dodged a bullet!!.... Well done my man, that was Class 👏👏👏👌

[@MakaiDuvall]

No they worked it out they are still together

[@juliusilori6615]

​@@MakaiDuvall Not True!!!!...He's GONE!!!...Exit stage left 😂🫡👏👏👏👏👏beep!beep!..💨

[@teri0196]

Actually she dodged a bullet

[@samearly7046]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@teri0196yes I agree with you! This dude had a whole attitude because she worked and was tired after spending all those hours with his parents. All I hear him say, is I do this for your family and you couldn’t do that for my family which is crazy. Relationship is not only about I did this and you have to this for me or whatsoever. In this case she actually dodged a bullet. I think he listened to his mama more than he listen to himself because I’m pretty sure his mom complained to him about her going to sleep. That’s why he came out of nowhere to not wanting to marry her anymore. Lol I barely watched reality show but my wife asked me to watch this episode with her lol 😂

[@Nickyteison]

True

[@jenasaisquoi9202]

Finally, an emotionally mature, articulate, intellectual communicative gentleman. I, as a woman, applaud him on how and what he has said.👏🏾👏🏾

[@tg2servicesllcgraham953]

finally? he is not an anomaly ms i just cant put my finger on it

[@savadamcfarland-vn5pe]

He's a big red flag! Too controlling!! Omg! Totally controlling!!

[@SnipsIroam]

​@@savadamcfarland-vn5pe he didn't get to control anything that's why he's out she's a full grown 🤡

[@DriedOreos]

@@savadamcfarland-vn5pe you’re joking right?

[@jamesburton8350]

​@@savadamcfarland-vn5pe you fucking women think everything is control , yall weak ass shit

[@jojodoto.9840]

How much happier would people if more men and women would just be honest!! Yaz!! Proud of this dude!

[@toniamoore1]

EXACTLY! Most people are so desperate to be in a relationship trying to force a circle into a square

[@LaiaBertran]

He did so good. Good job for standing for yourself and leaving that toxic relationship

[@ComposerTheOfficial]

I could've saved 8 years of my life looking at this perspective. Good on em.

[@killme1389]

In Gods Name May The Next 8 Be Your Best

[@bernicescott7683]

Excellently articulated! She doesn't know what she's missed out on! What man does that without question..He escaped a bullet..she didn't have a clue....her loss!

[@diamonddetails9445]

IF ONLY BLACK DUDES WERE LIKE THIS IN REAL LIFE. He's one in a BILLION. Sad but true ✅

[@ktharalson6458]

You're comment starts out pointing in your direction, change yourself and that will change your perception ​@@diamonddetails9445

[@andreagraham9991]

Beautiful couple physically, but childish mentally, so sad

[@solomonecclesia5253]

​@@diamonddetails9445 He just described me. I'm a grill master, chef, dishwasher, Gardner, electrical engineer, MBA, provider, protecter, investor, spiritually equipped Black man. Yet she's still miserable, doesn't work and provides minimal output. She has a maid service and still is unhappy.

[@zembous]

This guy is a genius! No anger, no shouting, no fight. Just calm and objective. Rational.

[@leylaelmentfakh92]

Indeed , I wish I were able to remain as calm as he is during a tense argument. I Always flare UP and lose all credibility as my anger drowns my message and I end up looking " crazy" in front of the person who actually hurt me 🤯🤯

[@happysmile7030]

This guy is a true man . Where is he ? She's just did not think of him at all . He is so amazing 🤩

[@nicbocci1694]

he saw his exit and took it. the snark from her was all it took..she looked like boo boo the fool when he said, i don't ever want to see you again. 🎤 🎤 🎤

[@imjustmeTBD]

he actually wasn't objective at all! this is a selective edit but he actually treated her like shit!

[@jsmith1909]

I'm a woman and these are also goals for me. Communication with balanced emotions. Strong boundaries. I appreciate it ❤

[@majaennabulic6930]

That great confidence is Godly, and you are a true example, God bless you, brother, real good!

[@OGJODIEMAC70]

Salute 🫡 to Bro for being this Viral Example to Men ...He was Articulate n Respectfully Dismissed Her.... 💯💪🏾🏁

[@maureenallies5462]

His honesty is refreshing. Love is given and taken.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

most modern women take and take

[@RelaxAndMeditateChannel]

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp unfortunately they have been taught its mainly about them. they are the partner that gets spoilt, they are the parent with the most rights etc. women lap it up because it gives them extra benefits but men resent it and are now leaving the dating pool in droves just to get some peace. women will suffer the most in the end but we will all suffer unfortunately.

[@jayrealliveson]

He doesn’t know what he wants and his tack is misguided.

[@MrRonin1234]

Poor You. 😅 Seriously ur probably a happy slave in ur relationship. 😂 ​@jayrealliveson

[@MrSKRZYNIU]

It’s not about love. As he said she didn’t even got close enough to be loved. Respect and appreciation can make you being loved more than you ever imagined.

[@alexanderwaweru4851]

My nigga...I love this dudes control of emotion. Very mature. Good for you man

[@Ninij32]

You haven’t seen the show, he was only in control cause the cameras was on him😂

[@Brickwilliams]

Yeah or just get multiple wives and not leave shawty heartbroken

[@brandnewnew9905]

@@Ninij32what’s how isThis

[@danyellwar77]

Says a person that didn't watch the show. He was a whining complaining man. He didn't deserve her at all. Nice how they flipped this to make as if she was the problem. He was a huge red flag.

[@ms.hjohnson6820]

Nah dude has issues! ….check out Steph Anya, Licensed Marriage and Family Counselor’s take on their relationship. Video is entitled “The Dog” Therapist Breaks Down Time & Alex from Love is Blind 7. He struggles with emotional regulation, so having been in the military, suppresses his anger as he thinks it’s a weakness. So will break up rather than talk things out as evidenced by his own take on his past relationships.

[@Tiffany-b9p2k]

First off, the fact that he could verbally communicate so well was the best. I’ve heard stories and dealt with men who shut down and walk away. This man verbally expressed his emotions and they were valid af… he’s telling you what he has done and how he doesn’t feel appreciated/ acknowledged. Why make it into a competition? Address his feelings. I would hate to have that done to me. I calmly lay out my stance and how your actions make me feel and you hit me with, but what about me?? Nah.. glad he will be moving on .

[@davidwagner3619]

If you’ve dealt with men that “shut down and walk away” why do not think you’re part of the problem? Men are used to having to suck up our feelings and this woman is like most modern women, entitled and selfish.

[@jeym7618]

Now that was a great response! He didn't get angry, he didn't raised his voice but he clear and precise with his words. BYE!!!

[@bettygelin4770]

Man clear and loud . ❤❤😂

[@JohnSmith-nj4zq]

He is a logical man that's why he hadn't been trapped with a slave ring yet. It's easier to give up a relationship when he is just testing his potential partner for life.

[@wps620]

That is why only 1 in 4 will ever marry.

[@PuebloRevolt1680]

BYE FELICIA!!😂

[@anonymoususer4866]

We need to normalize healthy breakups.

[@TheLatelycrew]

Some women takes advantage of good men😢prbly one of the most mature conversations ever!!

[@WillieSmith-q2v]

That's goes both was, as many of us have lost respect for each other due to so many unknown reasons. Let's just keep our eyes open for those who words meet their actions in positive ways.👍💯👏👏👏👏

[@jjnelson3232]

@@WillieSmith-q2v Unknown reason is BS. Why you both sides women Bad Behavior, stop Simpin. Men like you most likely believe that Simp BS, happy wife, happy life. Stop the weakness, that's why so many women feel they queens that should be put on a pedestal.

[@anthonywhitehurst7092]

It's refreshing and encouraging to finally see men stand strong in light of sassy, disrespectful, entitled modern women. He's done. Good on you, bro!

[@cacti485]

The hell you mean a modern woman? Well then hes a modern man, actually taking accountability for helping out with family and cleaning instead of bossing the would be wife around

[@johnfleming3236]

​@cacti485 honestly the whole household chores being shared is bs if she is a housewife that is her part of the duties. If he is working under no circumstances should he come home and have to do that.

[@cacti485]

@ yes. But typically modern day, BOTH parents are working. Also, if the wife works and the husband doesnt, he would be responsible for household chores.

[@anthonywhitehurst7092]

@cacti485 let's not add any additional scenarios that were not presented in the video. The theme is that of a man who went out of his way to perform chores for his woman's family, and she failed to show greatfulness or appreciation. Obviously, there are other issues, but now he's just done with her and the relationship. That's all we need to know.

[@cacti485]

@ yes ok. I was pointing out him using MODERN woman, as if modern women are issues.

[@thethyroidexperience65]

💯 he was on point period sister we need to get it together realize before it’s to late what u have before it’s gone but he did what was right to do

[@_f.i.s.h__4506]

The guy is a psychopath that's why he is so collected, you guys need to know the full context

[@bt7952]

It the fact that he put in so much effort & work to feel unappreciated. Who needs that.

[@chantelpurcell3331]

It’s what women do everyday. Lol

[@randywhite9278]

✌🏾

[@Sheherhis]

Yep you nailed it👍🏾

[@rhemawilliams4983]

After doing all of that he still had to turn around and clean up? That is cruel and inconsiderate. None of the family members that came to eat volunteer to help clean up in the end? Looks like being inconsiderate is a family trait.

[@liesrebsamen9867]

Well spoken, calm and to the point. Woman, men are partners and not slaves to be bossed around.

[@ms.hjohnson6820]

Obviously there were other issues present. She mentioned temper tantrums, issues with text messages, attitudes about going to sleep. So this little blurb could not possibly put everything into context. He was very calm in his delivery, but also cold. What happened to discussing issues in a safe space? A discussion about dishes should not lead to a " I could never marry you" response. Yall think he dodged a bullet. I think she did.

[@DorisPayne348]

@@ms.hjohnson6820That’s right!! The way he was smiling/ sneering in the end shows his true intentions.

[@lilacolon4180]

He was actually a POS. He wasn't mad about dishes here. This woman had two jobs at the time. His parents flew in to meet her. She spent all day with them, but in the early evening, took a one hour nap before having to go work at a bar until 3am. He threw a fit and said she was disrespectful to his parents. This is the day after he asked her father for permission to marry her. The day after... He really immediately switched up.

[@JimmyWilliam-x6u]

@@ms.hjohnson6820typical u women only see what the man did and didn’t do smh accountability issues in women is off the meter

[@sheltonvincent007]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!!​@@ms.hjohnson6820

[@agreenapple1115]

No fault can be found with this delivery! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 everyone deserves someone who matches their energy.

[@indianrider956]

Ladles, when us men are done, we are done, and you can keep that wack ass vjj.

[@Elevatedmindset8]

That part! The energy match!! ❤

[@OliviaMitchell-b3p]

And believe you me she doesn't want to pull in the wrong force of energy. Because it mite come and bite her in the but again.

[@SolvreignNDGenyus]

Best comment hands down

[@yourwhateverhomegirl]

I respect that level of communication. Straight to the point. Like say what you saying. And he did. ❤

[@shadyloc4018]

I remember finding out one of my ex's was cheating on me. On the ride to drop her off at her parents house she looked at me and asked "why are you so calm, aren't you going to get mad?". I couldn't believe she asked me that first off. second off i said "what do you want me to do, yell and wave my arms in the air? I am mad, but mad that i wasted my time, not that you cheated". She had the audacity to look offended lol. Women don't notice the effort that good guys put into being good guys. A few weeks later shes texting me about how im the best guy she ever knew and all these other things ahe should have thought of first. it all comes down to some women being used to getting away with anything they do just because they're pretty. News flash, beauty fades but character lasts a lifetime

[@Arlene_DOTK]

Love this. Some women are horrible and need to learn the errors of their bad ways and disrespect. Know your WORTH, say your peace, and calmly walk away. I pray you find a worthy woman 🙏

[@Stephennowell]

Amen my brother!. Thanks for the share and hope you found yourself someone that brings you true peace and happiness

[@southerngypsy1894]

I recognized everything good the last guy I dated did. I was always grateful and appreciative.... He threw me away for a naggy unappreciative woman.

[@tammiecooper9671]

Yea, there are a lot of side ppl whom think, that their love making, head game, f’ in is better bcuz you’re cheating on your partner for them. That is so untrue on “sooo “ many levels! It’s called being just down right selfishness!#fixitJesus! #Onlyyoucan🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@patriciarivers6558]

Sometimes you have to be the bigger person because at the end of it all your the bigger person❤

[@leliawinfield8278]

I completely UNDERSTAND you young man! 62 y/o Black WOMAN, who Completely UNDERSTANDS!! Men, Women, did you hear him? The sword cuts both ways! 💜

[@viankarby7599]

No cursing that’s a real gentleman I applaud to you MAN🇺🇸🙏🏻❤️

[@user-cv7no8bj9v]

I don't care if he was cussing or not he still stood on business. Some folks need to be cussed out and left 😂

[@e.elliott2088]

She wasn't doing her part , got called out for NOT doing her part, THEN avoided responsibility. Bro just decided not to waste time going back n forth. He dodged a bullet. The Brotherhood is proud!🎯💯

[@nicetomeetyou2457]

This man right here is a perfect example of an emotionally intelligent man he wouldn’t argue with you and waste your time.

[@alexayaquica1150]

Waste HIS time

[@ashleydodd9145]

And if the woman said something like this..... If the woman expected her man to get up and help her in his home for his family, she would have been laughed at.

[@hamiltonblankson]

Hi. Is that the definition of 'emotional intelligence'?

[@EmpressAshe]

Facts 💯

[@bladeslayer72]

​@@ashleydodd9145only if she isnt even doing anything remotely close to what she expects. Same goes for men

[@JohnnyL22420]

He is ths role model the black community needs not rappers and thugs and crazies

[@OsceolaNola7]

Bro what?

[@Mr.foe.nickel]

@@OsceolaNola7 Bro what? did he say something outlandish or wrong?

[@JackBlaze30]

@Daniel-Christoph looking up to obama is even WORSE than rappers he literally tried to coerce blacks to vote for harris through "black guilt" over Trump

[@NOCAPPODCAST]

im cool on role models period, yall can have that in the caucasian community.

[@Kirbitz]

I'm not black, but what exactly is bad about rappers now? Last time I checked they aren't "thugs" or "crazies" by a majority, just people who sing in a certain pattern about typically darker topics than other artists.

[@carmitamcdaniel7427]

THE JOY I FELT HEARING HIM SAY THAT❤ AMEN GIRL BYE!!!

[@miguelsanabria4919]

LOL! 😂 The look on her face when he FIRED her ass! HELL YEAH! GET 2 STEPPIN "GINA" (Martin Lawrence Show)!

[@OkieDokedU]

Lol I hear Martin's voice legit

[@catrina90210]

Period. ❤ well done sir. I applaud him. Shes missing it. May the Lord order your steps.

[@irenecaldwell2251]

He handled this situation so maturely! I’m so proud of him. We need more like him!

[@this_is_it_sports20]

most women should marry a man like this the good man with boundaries and not a thug or a deadbeat. She just lost a diamond and didn't realize she had one!

[@TsarOfRuss]

All she had to say was "Sorry, i was very tired that night and wasnt thinking, yes i was a lil bit inconsiderate, i apologize, i will make it up to you" but her ego is too big for that ofcourse

[@frankwhite8432]

We out here but he said everything very calm. Want we don't need as men is more women like this. She's only hearing what her ego allowed. And dont understand the assignment at hand. Saying women need more men like him when its thousands of men out here. The dating culture is based off looks money and what someone can do for you instead of what we can do for each other. He stood on business

[@jetpackjack5985]

Need less like her

[@TheBENJAMIN1500]

Accountability factor , most women can’t handle being called out even when done nicely, did you hear her apologize? She went defensive as usual . Men are woke nowadays, thank God for red pill plus awareness

[@curiousk4083]

Oooh this purest form of self love. Brother's learn from this gentleman. He spoke respectful for his standards without being disrespectful. Salute

[@andriabrown4692]

Are you for real! He wanted an excuse to leave.

[@ace.9218]

Learn what???? Lots of good men move in a respectful way; they are just not on tv.👈🏻🤛🏽👊🏾✊🏿

[@curiousk4083]

@andriabrown4692 In my African culture there is a proverb which say"Rest is silence". Referring to, don't ask or tell someone about act of respect in life and love. Once l tell you what to do in love as a gesture of love and respect repeatedly. There is no love nor respect but a selfish person.

[@curiousk4083]

@ace.9218 Learn that disagree must be communicated with respect. How do you measure a good man?

[@j.a.c.3776]

​@@andriabrown4692We don't need an excuse to leave, we'll just do it. We need a reason to stay.

[@gxr7521]

It’s good to see a healthy conversation neither raised their voices just calmly talking things over. Overall this man is a role model 👏🏽

[@purple7970]

I feel him and as a woman I can not only relate but I appreciate his delivery, this is the type of man I remember as a child, they didn't argue nor hold passive aggressive energy we understand women posses mostly. He handled himself as what I see as a real man.

[@HolyShabazz]

i feel the same way about women nowadays. I remember when women became moms and grew up, now women be having six kids, 4 babydaddies, 50k in debt, looking for a provider man while they are still independent and don’t need no man, with the attitude of BP 15 year old😂

[@legendll1]

I'm a man and it just seems like the women nowadays feel like thier pussy can pay for everything Like it's tge greatest thing in the world or something

[@BodyofWater_]

My wife has me watch this show with her and I knew this women was going to be a headache from day 1, glad this man stood on his morals and business and dropped this lady. Good on you brotha!

[@Nickcooperrei]

My wife did the same. Then we had an argument. 😂

[@christinapage9896]

What's the name of the show, please?

[@jahintoodeep2321]

💯 As soon as I saw how she kept her place, knowing they’d be coming there to film, I was like…🚩🏌🏾‍♂️ Lol

[@kashandrawilson5874]

Me too

[@spke532]

I literally just posted what you stated. Crazy how she tried to gaslight him into thinking he was the problem.

[@erickahale56]

OMG! Why aren't there more considerate brothers like this? He's on that grown man stance and I'm loving it 💯

[@Welder19]

We all are

[@alimantado373]

Hes not being considerate , he is standing his ground!

[@dennisbarber9528]

@@Welder19no not all of us but some of us are like this. In the old days I could say most guys were like this but in today’s world men are very feminine so it’s not the same. For those of us who are like this guy, we understand completely. Many women have dealt with a man like this but have a delusional mind and believe they haven’t. It’s quite sad really, send the asteroid!

[@captaindred342]

we are everywhere, lady. Just invisible to y'all. 😂

[@glenroybrown2028]

He's while being respectful telling her the truth, she in defence is trying to play victim.

[@idonotknowanynames]

He responds to logic with senseless emotion and marching orders. Peace ✌️

[@Coilykinkchick]

More men need to stand in THEIR truth so we can stop wasting ppl time. He kept it 💯 she/we don’t have to agree or like but now he hasn’t made a legal binding contract or deepen soul ties. I can see she is willing to ignore red flags and compromise just to later be looking goofy or become bitter. Wherever he went to get relationship advice or courses we all need this. Great job.

[@Til_I_Collapse]

There is just THE truth and it's based on fact and respect. That goes for women as well as men. It's the dichotomy between "THEIR" (men's or women's) truth and THE truth that ruins perspective.

[@bettit.rivera141]

Good for you young man. Far too many lazy women.

[@MrEJF02]

She is wasting his time. He is doing Hella work and hisnpart to please her and family. She wasted time doing nothing

[@ninshusensei412]

@@bettit.rivera141 I know a 32 year old single mother who doesn't do anything for her kids. She's one of those, "take this and get out of my face" kind of mothers. Two different baby daddies, got her tubes tied because she wouldn't stop passing herself around. Sleeping with people for drugs and she's not even an addict lol. A single man with value wants nothing to do with a train wreck like that.

[@julez4002]

Please remove his, her, their truth from your library. Men like him do no like that terminology. It's only the truth. People have opinions, not their own truth.

[@violetdreams6603]

I’m so glad he sees things for what they are and stands 10 toes down on what in a woman he is looking for! Bravo to him!!!! Love this for hom

[@MsSN518]

I love how he communicated very clearly without any yelling or use of bad words.Umm Ms.Lady you just fumbled a good man and salute to him for standing up for himself

[@ms.hjohnson6820]

Obviously there were other issues present. She mentioned temper tantrums, issues with text messages, attitudes about going to sleep. So this little blurb could not possibly put everything into context. He was very calm in his delivery, but also cold. What happened to discussing issues in a safe space? A discussion about dishes should not lead to a " I could never marry you" response. Yall think he dodged a bullet. I think she did.

[@lilacolon4180]

Whats crazy to me is that people think this man is a communicator. He's not, actually. 😂 His parents flew in to meet her. She spent ALL DAY with them. She took a one hour nap early in the evening because she was going to her SECOND JOB at a bar until probably 3am or later. He found it disrespectful and dumped her over it. What hilarious is that he is actually SO BAD at communication he cant even stay on one topic. He's bringing other things into the conversation that werent relevant. And the day before she met his parents (which is the day before this conversation cause like i said she worked until 3am) he had asked her father for permission to marry her... He literally switched up over night. Soooooo

[@brayon7ook]

@@ms.hjohnson6820idk of he is he good, don’t know the dude. anything else you said is just what I thought🔥

[@HELTONgoods]

​@@lilacolon4180seems like u r like her too😂😂😂😂😂

[@AS-wj1du]

Nah because if he could ditch her so easily he didn't love her. She dodged a 🔫

[@cocoa105]

Much respect to this man!! I love how he stated his case with a measured, respectable response. As a woman I think THIS is true masculinity.

[@iamkyaihra3654]

Bro living the life of a single parent. I feel him whole heartedly. I PRAY I get a man like this. It takes a load off when tou have HELP and not have to do HOME LIFE alone. Doing what youd do when youre single WITH someone is everything. Doing what you do when you were single FOR 2 PEOPLE is to much for anyone! Children added is overwhelming! Please be a HELP MATE otherwise you just become a HEADACHE.

[@margaritavaldez5767]

Good job. That is what women need. You need to be straightforward. This is a good man.

[@barbaradavis9136]

Her loss bro honesty is everything move on and find your forever Love 💯

[@DominiqueVictorin]

Sometimes what it takes is to fix the issue and teach the other partner if they are willing to learn. Obviously, tou dint need a lesson here for a simple task like that. I rest my case here.....😂

[@musicbynajee]

Real ones can already tell dude a good guy but he tired of her overweight body built ahh. He prolly found a fine ass Lightskin girl as a replacement and this situation was a cool escape path 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@prettyuniquell2011]

Don’t put us all in the same boat! Not ALL women are like this. She is considered “little girl “ status. Women don’t need to be “strengthen out”. Little girls do.

[@xplicitintel]

​@@prettyuniquell2011 May not be in the same boat. But yall stand so close to em

[@kool3884]

He has standards and respect for his self ❤ He dodged the grenade!

[@dhill4000]

Yes basically a taker, and lazy

[@robertfarquharson2934]

A BIG one😂😂😂

[@creatorofgods1668]

Yes, but communication is key. The couple in the video is part of a show called, “Love is Blind”. I believe and they only been in the experiment a couple weeks. Communication skills are developed as you both grow together.

[@juangarza9520]

He dodged a round from a battleship

[@charmariah4766]

@@kool3884 Not a grenade!! 😂😂

[@Zinnia1234]

I’m so proud of him !! He recognized that she was gaslighting him, and he wasn’t taking any of that !! The man dodged the bullet.

[@HealthyVybr8shnz]

THIS , is emotional intelligence ... He's on point and certainly made a valuable decision for self ... Accountability is everything #HealthyVybr8shnz #Compassion #Grace

[@Agbahizzal]

No... This is being a master of your emotions. The level of control he needs to be insulted and still be neutral in the moment is a testament to his character, not his intelligence. The character of this man is the type of character who feel honor bound to carrying those who carry him. This is the core of high value.

[@steliannikolov4163]

"Emotional intelligence" GTFOH with this women BS!

[@lastofthe70schildren70]

As a woman I completely support this man’s composure as he communicates his feelings. Good for him- from the few secs I’ve watched-she comes across as being extremely immature and inconsiderate. He definitely dodged a bullet with this one!👏🏾🥂

[@bernicegavin1937]

A f male like that can't be faithful

[@samsin34]

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[@lilacolon4180]

Whats crazy to me is that people think this man is a communicator. He's not, actually. 😂 His parents flew in to meet her. She spent ALL DAY with them. She took a one hour nap early in the evening because she was going to her SECOND JOB at a bar until probably 3am or later. He found it disrespectful and dumped her over it. What hilarious is that he is actually SO BAD at communication he cant even stay on one topic. He's bringing other things into the conversation that werent relevant. And the day before she met his parents (which is the day before this conversation cause like i said she worked until 3am) he had asked her father for permission to marry her... He literally switched up over night. Soooooo

[@Mona_Lisa8181]

@@lilacolon4180exactly I don’t think anyone here has watched the show. Just because you say something calmly doesn’t make it right by any means. Like I’m going to calmly blindside, belittle and disrespect you on national tv lol ok

[@AlexN0me11]

@@lilacolon4180what’s the name of this show? Episode and series number?

[@RoyfordMurithi-zx2ps]

Bro stood his ground,he told her the naked truth and asked her to leave for good ✊

[@kellypittman7004]

Excellent communication skills my man. No arguing just stating facts. Some women think that there mere presence is a blessing. No one is that self important. Relationships take work. Gaslighting at its finest. I hope this was not a skit,but if it was he just gave a masterclass

[@LuisMolina-ny6md]

That’s a real man he stood on business. Congratulations. You deserve better.

[@albertomolina3868]

Bravo to this intelligent articulate man. He just saved himself a lifetime of misery with a person that is nothing short of ingrateful. I'm sure there are hundreds of women around him that would greatly appreciate him for who he is.

[@HenriWilliams-nm3gw]

This is a mature, intuitive, articulate, self-assured man who knows who he is and refuses to settle for behavior that doesn’t value what he brings to the table. He wants a relationship that shows JOINT and mutual respect. I like this man! Whoever ends up with him kudos! A man who knows what he wants and he’s not gaslighting, he’s being very direct about, what his boundaries are. Undefined boundaries invites, disrespect.

[@terrysims4987]

This brother did the right thing & ended things b/c he new in his heart & mind she was NOT “the one”

[@RedDragonForce2]

A man communicating precisely and clearly. Women need to learn from this man.

[@carolinewilson6488]

Women and men need to learn from this man.

[@chicagopowerbrokers2144]

The women he dates need to understand this, not anyone else.

[@sanjathomas6564]

One of the best way for a man to.communicate is what he do and not what he says. Action speaks louder than words! Especially for Grown Men!

[@kxngjones4673]

The fact she tried to steer the convo another direction, shows she will not admit wrong & is def not "the one"... Well done bruh❤

[@andreafaison4758]

YES AS A FEMALE I CONCUR! WHAT’S WRONG WITH THESE YOUNG LADIES TODAY. Sweeping the floor, putting the dishes in the dishwasher, letting them dry, then putting them up is a piece of cake. I grew up in the era where I had to be the dishwasher as a Teen. Even now, I wash the dishes without a dishwasher right after eating. The younger generation do not teach their children “LIFE SKILLS”, like CHINA. By the time they graduate they’re ready to start a business! Little Toddlers, putting their shoes away, preparing the table to eat, then get up and put their plate where it belong, etc. My son was making his bed at 6, yes of age & yes! I knew he couldn’t, so I went behind him and made the corrections. Today he’s in his late 40’s his wife told me when she finished her job out of town she called him to let him know she was on her way home. When she got home she said she walked into the Apartment, smelled Clorox and the Apartment was so clean you could eat off the floor. Til this day he hates a nasty house and he cooks too! ILOVE A CLEAN, HARD WORKING MAN!

[@DallasSports-vk6wt]

​@andreafaison4758 So true statement is what's wrong with this generation.

[@LaneJobsearchEmail]

I’m getting out of a relationship with a girl like this rn. She does nothing, everything is always my fault, turns every word I’ve ever said against me. I’m now alone and at peace.

[@SBrown-ee8gz]

Watch the full clip

[@HOUSEOFTROI-td5hot]

​@andreafaison4758 I'm the same way with my home. Great job mom!

[@artieoms]

"I'm not the one for you". Wow, that one line went straight to my heart and soul. God bless this young man.

[@abbaschild1]

Love it! My hat's off to you Sir. There are thousands of women willing to love and support our men wholeheartedly! 🎉

[@sheilazimmerman3905]

All she had to say to this man is…baby, I’m sorry. I appreciate you so much and how you show me your love. I’m going to make it my priority to reciprocate the same love, honor and respect you give me. Period! 🙏💕🙏

[@Sharon174]

Usually these are in born habits that won’t die. In the long run she still will repeat that pattern. So better he finds someone else.

[@valjeanlee7060]

Artifacts...

[@shomedamoni]

But she wasn't gonna' do that! 😅🤣😂

[@sunnypraz]

​@Sharon174 Yeah so so true, in born habit that can never be changed or erased. Yes had similar issue of this kind. Better to let her go in peace period

[@asparrow9876]

BW just cannot do that. Its imposs9ble for 99.99999999% of them.

[@RGTitan901]

Good for this brother to stand on business 💯

[@minniedavidson1559]

Man if u doing all that & she cant see it, or dont weigh the real then, move on, ' cause it want ever get better

[@CAROA2257]

I'm a 64 year old black woman married for 43 years with the love of my life. Sir you are absolutely right move on move on. I can see that she don't see the problem keep walking.

[@jthpride9992]

Unrealistic expectations by someone who does not communicate and then has an attitude She should be grateful, people like this are never satisfied or content, love is change on both sides for each other If he actually wanted her he would cleaned the whole house 😂

[@priscillaworth6907]

And did it respectfully. 👏🏽

[@antuanharney7380]

​@@jthpride9992wtf ..... Dumbest comment on earth... He did clean.. wtf are you talking about??

[@phantomknoet]

“However, if I have to communicate that, I am not the one for you.” He put the mail in the coffin ⚰️ with that one.😊

[@ladygwen2463]

That man knows his worth and some woman will be very lucky to have him. Great respect to him.

[@Michelle-kj7wv]

I'm not aware of the backstory can you tell me what she was doing instead of the dishes? Is there a channel to watch the entire scenario?

[@SusanBarkman]

​@Michelle-kj7wv , she is sitting there like a slob. He is escaping from her entitled person and she mentions cuddling. 😂

[@teentaz8612]

@susanbarkman, what's the name of the show?

[@CarolynThomas-we5ij]

Alhamdulillah

[@rosehenry7664]

One LAZY female😮

[@i12cook]

Respect a REAL man. She don't deserve him. Walk bro

[@disnalee]

I need a man like this, where is he??? She is beyond spoil. Yes he needs to walk.

[@ksteele8388]

​@disnalee there are lots of men out there...I'm married but I don't ask herbfor anything i do my own laundry, clean,make my lunches,make our kids lunches , groceries, feed animals..plus work 10 hours a day lol

[@fredrickkc]

A relationship akin to a marriage requires partnership, to be a partner one must attain a certain level of maturity. A common theme this age is that people (adults) are entering relationships prematurely. Both parties are to blame, one should never enter a relationship with an individual who's not eligible.

[@Warmaster_7]

A 'REAL Man' as opposed to all the fake one's?🤣 Too many people put down all Men because one Man did something they or their Man can't. Or won't.

[@andreafaison4758]

SAY IT! These young girls don’t understand “TWO BECOME ONE” it works!

[@leely7294]

💯 if i grill or cook for your family and you see the dishes and not help wash them, sorry you're not the one. We all saw the selfishness and playing the victim.

[@WillNeNe]

It’s more things he saw in her that was selfish and annoying in her that he didn’t want in his life it all built up for him to make the decision. This example was probably the cherry on top. She just don’t get it.

[@Darian-v2d]

​@@WillNeNeshe didn't get the seriousness of it all until he said I never want to see you again. He didn't even have the energy to respond to her.

[@glamorousity79]

My family would have helped clean / Maybe they were raised different

[@feman5274]

B🤬's are the ARCHITECTS OF THAT 💩!

[@thebunker03]

@ At some point its just common sense . We cant blame everything on how we have been raised . This generation is just lazy and inconsiderate

[@adeptmop]

Proud of him for advocating for himself and being (mostly) reasonable throughout. He’s got a lot to offer a woman who will appreciate him. Good luck to you, sir! If you can’t see a dating relationship ending in marriage then that relationship needs to end at that point.

[@mathewobengktro7395]

Congratulations to another wise man. Calmly delivered the verdict like judge Judy 😂😂 Bro! You have immunity against all disrespectful women and we brother on this day knight you as SIR

[@reneemorris7197]

I like the calmness that this man showed. In a relationship, there are 2 sides of the story that should be expressed by both people. Relationships take work on a daily basis. If you see something, say something. Don't wait till you're fed up, or you will be walking out of relationships for the rest of your life.

[@ms.hjohnson6820]

100 agree! Also, Obviously there were other issues present. She mentioned temper tantrums, issues with text messages, attitudes about going to sleep. So this little blurb could not possibly put everything into context. He was very calm in his delivery, but also cold. What happened to discussing issues in a safe space? A discussion about dishes should not lead to a " I could never marry you" response. Yall think he dodged a bullet. I think she did.

[@lianxie5582]

@@ms.hjohnson6820EXACTLY

[@lilacolon4180]

He dumped her because she took a 1 hour nap after spending the day with his parents because she was going to be working at her second job in a bar that night, probably on her feet until 3 am or later. He was honestly a POS.

[@lovelysanders6767]

​@lilacolon4180 but did she plan the event for her family on a day she had to work or did he?! I'm honestly curious. Also if he did all the work for the event for her family she could have at least done the dishes.

[@Sharese-r6x]

​@@ms.hjohnson6820 periodt

[@jackiesmallwood4189]

As a mother, I just fell of the wall in joy!! Happy to know our sons😢 are putting in work but paying attention knowing what they want. She heard nothing of what you said...

[@colanderv]

I would appreciate a man who verbalizes his feelings without yelling or cursing.

[@thomasshort1784]

Thank God this man knows what he wants (and DOESN'T) and more importantly, has the self-respect to not only assert himself, but avoid a future that would've been a LIVING HELL!

[@gabrielknights]

Smart man....... if you're fighting now, it only gets worse, WORSE.....! never better... walk away from the headaches, disappointments, lonely days, and lonely nights.... I wish I had listened. 😢. I pray for peace, all I get is nasty comments, dirty looks. I bite my tongue, to keep comments to my self. The world sees smiles. There's nothing. Why do abusive people get treated better than nice people??

[@michellelaster5182]

I wish I had listened too! I can say I learned a lot from the experience.

[@Tonyrobinsongb]

Suck it up ladies 😂

[@LucyR7131]

Smart woman with lots of self respect...he can go and talk to someone else like that with his self entitlement

[@lindycollins1247]

@@LucyR7131I’m confused as to how he’s speaking in any other way than respectfully to this woman? He states WHAT he did, HOW he did it, WHO he did it for, and then finally articulated what his expectations were in relation to the circumstances surrounding that current situation all while speaking calmly in an even tone. Many many women say they want men but in reality they seem to want pets because the man isn’t allowed to have expectations/standards nor is he allowed to ever have a difference of opinion. So many men get accused of gaslighting simply by stating a belief or view that their female partner does not share. This guy was even respectful in the way he ended the relationship and didn’t take the bait by replying to some of the passive aggressive comments that were passed his way. I too hope he finds someone else that he can speak that way to…Particularly someone that values his character and stays loyal to a decent guy.

[@historyoftruecrime6488]

First of all him being capable of responding without blowing up shouldn’t be prodded like is the bar that low for men? Second having arguments is HEALTHY! Like when do you all grow up and realize that relationships and marriage aren’t easy? If you’re not arguing you have a horrible relationship because you’re both holding it inside instead of saying what you need to say.

[@slimwizzard7371]

All women nowadays need to understand that. If you take nothing away from this video, take this, I shouldn’t have to communicate that, if I have to communicate that, I’m not the one for you! 👏 Bravo sir!

[@katybee3891]

Good luck finding a mind reader. I’m sorry for whoever commits to you just to be broken up without a chance to change whatever pisses you off.

[@mr.oddduck5871]

Smart man avoided a divorce lawyer 😊