I am lost at 23..(despite a good career)

In this video, I have honestly shared what I am currently feeling and going through in my life at age 23. I am a Software engineer by profession and I am running this beautiful youtube channel as well. I am very grateful for all the things I have but at this point, I am very confused about my career which I discussed in the video. Every time I sit alone, I feel What I have to do next? What is the meaning of my life? What am I good at?.
And if you are someone who is feeling LOST I have a special message for you in the video.
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[@sharvaree]

I'm also a software engineer graduated in 2021 and lost right now after 2 years of work experience. It feels like others are doing great and I'm not, there's an inferiority complex generated within ourselves. I spoke this with one of my friends and she said this is normal. Everyone is in the same phase right now. The solution is to go with the flow and listen to your intuition. Focus on present, your positives and don't worry much about future. Time heals everything. Aal is well😇

[@__i__921]

Bhagwat Gita one and only solution

[@KayasthKulSarvopari22110]

Sister, sprituality is the key

[@letitbex3635]

Marry a rich guy

[@Akashyadav-rd1eo]

I am 2019 bcom grad preparing for govt job and it's been 4 yrs gap in my CV and I feel like I m stuck and feeling devastated 😢.... Searching job of 12-15k job ...can I do software training programs as Java full stack ?? Plz guide me

[@sharvaree]

@@Akashyadav-rd1eo Getting into purely technical role is bit tough as you're from commerce background. But if you're interested in programming you can do online courses, build projects and create a good resume. You should have good skills. Go through job search websites and keep applying for new roles. You will definitely get a good job. Stay positive.

[@randomuploads4756]

I am 25 yr old and banker by profession. As you said I did not join IT because I thought I can do codeing and I also got placed during placements but I did not join IT as I thought I was not made for codeing (I did not like it) but after joining bank I feel lost and start thinking that should I pursue something else or continue. Moral of the story is we all are going through same phase and will come out of it with smile . Thankyou for talking about this issue.

[@krox477]

Koi kisi jagah happy nhi hai sabko kuch naya karna hai

[@ayushmaansural4896]

While I'm watching this video on right side of panel , I'm being suggested a YT short where Sid bhaiya his dancing and enjoying on first job selection . Acheving something makes you so happy, Eventually you drop down to the same level of monotony and self-doubt !

[@gaurishpassi4812]

This made me borderline sob ngl. You're someone I've looked upto. The happy face, the energetic Siddharth Bhaiya. Don't worry bhaiya. Set new goals for yourself! You'll surely go a long way📈

[@tejasdeshmukh8236]

I am at the same state right now, Graduated- IT Engineer . Some of them advising me to pursue Master's and family, to join a job . But I want to pursue my dream 😢 Best Wishes to you Bawa, you will achieve what you think of ♥️

[@armanthakur699]

What's ur dream ?

[@roronoazoro87118]

@OwaisKumar-se8dm 💀

[@realmemescentrall]

There is a reason for each of your struggles,believe in me and don’t give up - vasudev krishna ❤️

[@VimalKumar-vs4hb]

And I am in 23 and still jobless.😂...I got job in one MNC..but I left placement.. because I want to explore myself..1 year got over still confused...Now thinking to get Job first..I think we are very privileged generation..because we have enough roti kapda makaan..that why we are confused..👍🙄

[@ketanghogale7108]

This youtuber already more ..he is not lost he just feel boring 😂😂

[@VimalKumar-vs4hb]

@@ketanghogale7108 May be 😂

[@iamaman7090]

bro u are the first person to said this publicly even u have a good job, bro u should enter into spirituality to find your real happiness to what works make you happy.,

[@karanguitar2017]

start gym, focus on being healthy and having a great body alongside your job, you will definetly find your passion

[@radhikagarg1463]

siddharth brother dont get stressed , pray to god, be confident ,you can explore many things to find out your intrest and will surely reach at that point. and even you can analyze to your self like you can think that from childhood in which things you enjoy and you good at , by nature.

[@abhijeetjain6702]

Bhai aapne toh phir bhi itna achieve kiya and you're at a very good place and I'm very glad to see you grow. I feel like you're burnout and myself being a BBA student I have that feeling too. Like I can't enter tech at this point. The corporate world I imagined and dreamt of is actually very boring and after a point I've seen people leave the corporate world because it didn't spark for them anymore. I'm gonna graduate this month and I've yet to figure out what job I wanna do and where will I take my life to. You have a stable job for now and I believe that make a few years ka advancements into the field and then maybe purse an MBA? If again corporate isnt your thing then honestly go for a business. I do have a business where I work actively and I'm honestly thinking if business is actually more valuable than a Job. Whatever you do I'll glad to see your progress and wishing you the very best.

[@Manavparekh12]

100% relatable with all boys at this age period 🥺

[@tech-rhino4469]

100% relatable.. graduated in 2021..working in product company...now stuck..sometime think of building something... sometime IIM..sometime govt job...not sure what to do..even i am getting good salary...work is good...not very much pressure ....still not getting full filled with life..bhai if you stay up in Bangalore..lets meet

[@ganeshyelne8252]

I am also in the same situation literally struggling to get the clarity, fomo is their within me

[@richakushwah3679]

same, i have a offfer but no onboarding yet, very confused, CAT or govt job or any placement gurantee course since i am not that skilled and there are almost no jobs for IT freshers from tier 3 colleges

[@CSe_IT_Guy]

​@@richakushwah3679if you financial strong then try atleast for government Job

[@aisharawat9102]

Chill kro bhaiya...and don't compare your life with others around you. Take time ..things will get sorted and you will find something for sure ....just stay confident in yourself ❤❤

[@aryankaushik1060]

Bhai is umar me itna lost na ho , meri acc. baaki sab chod tu shaadi krle fir tujhe kbhi lost feeling nhi aayegi indeed fir to tujhe khude ke liye time nikalna mushkil ho jayega 😅😅😅😂😂😂

[@gksquad2024]

Bichare bhaiya 23 ke hai kyu jindagi karab kar rahe ho unki😂

[@arunadityamishra]

Worst advise anyone could give ever

[@aryankaushik1060]

@@arunadityamishra just kidding bro don't take it seriously 🙂

[@kunalkaushik7868]

I am also agree with this advice 😂 *Best advice*😸

[@HD-ms3zu]

​@@arunadityamishra Worst nhi h bhai shi h ; partner aane se emotional stability aati hai , isliye science opposite gender ko attract krti h .Achhi advice and 3rd Perspective bhi milta hai . INsaan Sprituality ki trf bhi bdhta hai . Esaa ess ke saath nhi jo jo Money fame kmaa lega , usko lgega ki life khali h abhibhi isliye Patanjali sutra me likha h . Last me tumhe Yoga me hi santi milegi . Pehle tum kuch bhi krlo

[@ayanvijay7139]

Bhai exact same thoughts mere bhi mind me chal rhe hai. I am also a software developer in Bangalore.. i totally agree with you ki dusro ki najar me hum success hai but internal feelings is like life kis direction me ja rhi hai kuch samajh nahi aa raha hai. I am also finding my passion because i am also feeling like i am in a trap.. Aisa lag rha tha ki meri current story tumko kaise pta. Hope will able to find something 😢

[@sanjay-fo2nu]

Aap kaunsi company me ho bhaiya

[@vladimirputin2339]

Go toward spirituality 🙏❤

[@radhikagarg1463]

i really like your you tube videos,plz be continue with ths , we really learn from this and support you

[@rohityadavmudra]

IF YOU CONFUSE THAN PLEASE START DOING GYM AND READ BOOKS 📚

[@ayushthakur2896]

more power to you Siddharth. You have the platform to speak about it while there are many people who can't express this tot anyone .

[@aaniyachoudhary529]

Sabko views chahiye.😢

[@yesharshyes]

New fear unlocked. But Bhaiya, trust the process... And koi best nhi hota kisi v chiz me...ek fixed salary rkho ...and side to side try exploring new things, travel kro, gym kro, date pe Jane ka socho, books pdho, kuch new start kro ...

[@siddharthbehra5250]

Hey Siddharth, at 23 you have got a lot (speaking of financial part). Feeling what you are feeling is normal because it always felt so tough to reach here but now you are here. Whats next? this question is haunting a lot of people. Usually people without jobs have a purpose of finding a job or doing something for survival so they don't get this feeling. What I would say is start Yoga and Meditation, Start reading about spirituality. Help people reach their goals. Explore the places and how people are living their life. Some of things when I did when I felt similar things, helped me realise. Hope this helps. This was your first video I saw, You seem like a good person. Just Never stop being that.

[@siddharthbehra5250]

I am also a software engineer with a pay I always dreamt of, and after some time I felt Whats Next :) Soon life gave more problems to deal with, and I am not currently seeking for whats next :D

[@itssiddharthsingh]

Thank you so much for this lovely comment It is really helpful ❤️

[@KunalSurajbansi538]

❤️❤️

[@richakushwah3679]

@@itssiddharthsingh i am 22 and i have done nothing, i aspire to be at your place.. you are doing great

[@AnjaneyaParashar]

Some things i want to add See, firstly you mentioned it more than 5 6 times - "Aas pass vale". Kindly ignore them. Untill you are happy with your life and career, stop comparing. Not giving any life lecture. But if you really want to create you own empire, take self motivation rather than vo ye krlia m ye ni kr paya Just a suggestion from your younger brother. You are living dream life of many people, accept this fact. You're not the best but you're not worst. Lot of power to you All the best for your bright future ❤❤

[@anshror2583]

I love the part coding enjoy ni karta toh hate ni karta

[@theperfectboi]

Same bruh I lost at 19 I have same intention as you same 100 percent my views towards life is same as youuuuuu 😢 same literally bruh same I m not joking 😢 literally now my perspective towards life is now enjoy the life we are going at the peak don't just achieve goals be all round things 🙏

[@crazyop5165]

Yes

[@Anonymous-wz6ky]

Bhai highly relatable video May god help you !!

[@anshumanhota8235]

Today morning itself I was in the same state. Hello bhaiya I am a first year student. In the past few months on some days I feel exactly in the same situation u are in..I am confused about doing private or govt jobs. Just like you I'm good at coding but I'm not a "coding keeda". I guess Time will answer it ! At this pt. I think you should reach out to Aman Bhaiya.😇

[@teenasingh4383]

It is said that if we don’t feel satisfied even after achieving what we’ve once dreamed, we will never be satisfied, there will be always one more thing to accomplish . Of course we should keep on trying new things to find out what we love , but to feel happy and fulfilled from within - we can work on ourself like building a routine and healthy habits , doing self care , spend time with our family and loved ones , engage in spirituality ,doing good deeds and connect with ourselves on a deeper level . Along with all these things - keep your hustle continue to find out what you love doing as a profession , and throughout the time you’ll feel a lot better because you’ll know that on personal level and spiritual level you’re growing and improving which eventually makes everything much more better and sensible. Rest is fact that “ we live a life with endless desires “ , and irrespective of accomplishing them we deserve to be happy and content .

[@goodvipe2412]

if you make lakhs lakhs in month but dont able to enjoy that , fuck tumhari life kategi bs tum life me jee nahi paoge.the lesson my father told he is 65. not in next 5 to 10 year but in next 6 month remain

[@NehaVerma-il1us]

Finally saw a vedio without filter of same age 23 and can relate to every single word 👍👍..

[@vishwanathmettu6863]

In south India bawa means brother-in-law 😂😂

[@amittripathy901]

I have a suggestion! Switch off your phone,shut down your social media and go for a solo trip to mountains! Travel in minimum budget.interact with different peoples.spend time with yourself! You will find your destiny!

[@learningpath_121]

BHAI es situation se har ek vyakti ko गुजरना पड़ता है jab hame lagne lgta hai ki आखिर मेरा उद्देश्य बस यही सुबह से शाम daily Ek ही pattern को repeat करते रहना है solution ......• 1 month only focus present sometime after आप बहुत ACHA महसूस करोगे •2 HOBBIES ( daily dairy writing, meditation, newspaper read etc ) with office work •3 aap guide ker skte student ko Jo(IIT JEE) preparation ker rahe hai .....jisse aap लाखो बच्चो ke contact me aynge & now time Yu are Very good ranker & dtu student

[@ashutoshsahu5567]

Bhai me iss saal graduate hua hu still looking for first job Video dekh ke Mereko bhi same confidence aaya hai ki apan loser toh nahi hai hamne abtak har chiz me badiya kara hai aage bhi badiya hoga >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

[@pranshuatrey]

Bhaiya I admire you, and your channel, Your content is really awesome, and if u mantain consistency, then for sure this channel is going towards millions.......

[@MrX-il2jt]

That's why passion is important, if you are not passionate for something you are meaningless.

[@ooggycockroach6242]

Bawa just kidding ❤sid bro i have one advice for you . ----------♾️ my friend god is greatest lie invented by humans i know you know this very well.... Escape the rat race if you don't have much interest in 🧀. Find the conclusion work on it escape the rat race .

[@NikhilKumar-ns6zw]

bawa hum apke sath hain

[@desaimrd4190]

Ek bat batau successful KZbinr banne ke liye under se bahot strong hona padta hai koi comments me gali likhenge koi aur aisa likhenge jo dil ko hurt krta hai

[@yashjadhav3371]

100% relatable, yes you're at very good position rn but I also feel that life should not be monotonous. I'm also coming on same path, & confused about this thing :\

[@ravipratap2900]

Do MBA from IIM start a business with IIM batchmates if it works u will accomplish everything in life else if u r interested in UPSC collect some money for family nd urs from high salaried job(after switching) take a break of 2 years nd give it a go if u don't make u find plenty of options like teaching online or joining in IT again

[@hey.............]

We’re the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War’s a spiritual war… our Great Depression is our lives. We’ve all been raised on television to believe that one day we’d all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won’t. And we’re slowly learning that fact. And we’re very, very pissed off. Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club

[@VivekGupta-my4kn]

Baba aapne sahi kaha kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki hamara goal kya hai par es cheez ko khojne ka ek tarika hai ki baba aap explore Karo kyoki explore karne par kon si baat kon se cheez pasand aa jaye ye koi nahi janta too bas yahi ek tarika hai Katai jahar video thi baba ❤❤❤

[@Re-Shade]

Bro gym jao

[@yashpatidar.8506]

same problem for me.😥

[@Shivangi_Kumari]

Bhaiya aapko pehli baar serious hote hue dekha!!, Main aapki sari videos dekhti hu you are an inspiration!! and a relatable one!! kyuki baaki log hustle ye wo paisa waisa dikhate hai but aap jo ek middle class ki reality hai wo dikhate hai!!

[@Phantom_Ninja_Gamers]

Second comment first support ❤

[@subodh8748]

kbhi kbhi jo cheez hm krr rhe hai hote hai vahi hmara passion hota hai

[@Deepocean2099]

Josh ke saath hos eakhey, take meditation it will keep balance in thoughts and work

follow your passion in life and don't regret ever doing it as the journey is more lovely than the destination :)

[@kanishkapal1338]

I wish you best of luck bhaiya ❤❤

[@aryanyadav3926]

Bandi banalo bhaiya, will be good for you.

[@AryanKumar-kj1yx]

Bhai UPSC kar le abb ..😂

[@MakeSureYouAreReady]

Bhai kyu kare upsc ye baat batao

[@Akashyadav-rd1eo]

Aur gaar mrwale bhhh

[@Technoforward]

Top MNC m hai bhai wo upsc mai kyo jaayega

[@meghanath5045]

​@@Technoforwardmany people do it .

[@devssxd]

Bhai Sarthak karm yog karo satisfaction hoga , Aacharya Prashant ji ki help Karo kuch

[@DanishKhan-jo1kn]

after this video i am not forgetting you in the near future . I am excited to see what you offer ( btw - going through the same phase)

[@Praveensharma-tv9fx]

Don't stressed bro...we are with you

[@op6224]

Bhai bandi pata pahele baki kaam wo bata degi

[@Educate-Advise-Zone]

🤣🤣

[@raghavgupta8053]

Baba You can try preparation of ias and never you will be lost but you can lost in preparation of ias endless journey 😂😂

[@rohityadavmudra]

LOVE YOU BRO❤BAWA WE LUB UHH A LOT 💌♾️

[@mindpower185]

Your are talking from heart Siddharth bhaiya I'm felling same as like you .. i also crack IIT but could not join it due to financial problem

[@Sahil.1507]

What are you doing right now

[@namangarg6660]

Bhaiya aap ek dam sahi raaste pe ho beleive khuki jee karne se aapke andar change aaya ki hamesha jindagi main ek goal hona chahiye jisse hum chase kare without goal life is meaningless!!! You can make your own community so you can dicscuss about your views and their views and come to vonclusion and also you can do entrepreneurship also. (shaadi abhi mat karna pls 😁😁)

[@suraj-vd5lt]

Explore spirituality brother you will enjoy your life

[@pratikbakane3583]

Solution : design script for next 2 months - doing so you will always be directed - if it works go for a long run

[@codeforpython6440]

bhai already felt this in my past but , i say that ENJOY and find HAPPINESS in your work , whatever yo do in your life 😀😀😀😀

[@Anushika-im8yy]

Just roll with the time ....the answers you seek will uncover themselves soon....keep going champ ❤️......

[@raakshas5547]

*Bhai thora philosophy para kar. Maza aa jayega life mei. Rumi, advait vedant, bulleh shah, upansihads, stoic philosophy, japanese philosophy , carl jung philosophy . * *I am 25 and it magically worked for me just within 3-4 months*

[@mr.dependable4885]

Paulo Coelho !

[@parmodmundlia7023]

3-4 mahino mein kya magic ho gaya 😂

[@siddeshborade5739]

Start Siddharth professional coding class make your own company

[@adityarajsinghranawat3434]

Me too feel the same bro... When we start something new we are excited about it but after sometime we feel exausted....

[@soulfulsourab773]

Bhai, tumhare lliye ek video hai jo kaam kar sakta hai Acharya prashant

[@radhikagarg1463]

this same situation is going on me right now.. i m also very puzzle abput my carrer, recenty i done graduation , but i analyze my self and i find out that i am very creative and artistic person , and now i will go for as a makeup artist , before that i will explore is really , i will enjoy this work or not. thats true we should do job, but that one which we really enjoy while enjoy

[@nothingspecial9370]

Views chahiye aur kuchh ni.... Channel ke views stats dek kr pta chl rha h

[@omnarayan_27]

Main bhi confused hu kya karunga kaise karunga 😢😢... Kuch pata nahi 😢😢

[@PrashantSingh.]

Best of luck bhaiya for future 🤞🤞

[@clashking4307]

Bhai open startup from your money❤ or find your passion what you love to do rather than coding😊

[@VaibhavTalks]

my situation is the same! currently, Iam doing CSE from Tier 3 college, I am doing good in Coding, Also working on this KZbin channel, placement record of my college is also good, i Know placement to chalo lag jygi further experience k baad switch karke achi salary bhi ho jygi . But I am also thinking a lot about Gate Exam. mujhe andar see feelings aarhe ki yes gate mai clear kar skta hu , its all about hard work and consistency but ak dar bhi lg rha h ki gate k preparation k karan coding mera down na ho jaye , kasie hoga sab manage , bas yehi sab overthinking ho rha h , So if any suggestion please guys reply to this comment !!

[@niteshsaxena1066]

Don't go for GATE Chances of getting CSE in IIT in MTech are much lesser than chances of getting CSE in IIT for BTech It's more like a gamble if you are not a born genius If you are good in coding,it's better to polish this skill and capitalize on it The amount of hardwork to become excellent in coding is much lesser in comparision to cracking GATE

[@studentofyoutube2194]

Bhaiya rungta ka placement kabse mast hogya

[@Tanishq0070]

merko aisa lagta hai ke , tu kuch jyada ka soch raha hai ........ give some time to youself ..., and shant mind se jio .

[@Bharat_Rider]

10:00 the thing you are doing rn is the real bhed chal

[@ayushraghav1546]

all the best bhaiya

[@ayushraghav1546]

hare krishna

[@muneshwarsinghal655]

bhai phle to gym jaakee apna shareer bnao health she rhega to mind bh khushi rhega

[@RashmiVerma-ir3gx]

U feel this even after achieving such jobs ,,having financial securities backup but think of me a fresher In college tier 3 persuing bba always being scholar didn't land athe dream college wandering ,depressed ,,faces totally different environment being with people who's r totally careless ,free enjoying no carreer orientation ,,seeing many more scholar from my batch getting there dream colleges ,,,having no financial independence,,,not satisfied ,,thinking iam not doing right I can't to anything wht will I doo and then thinking offf what others r doing fighting from myself ,,,,it's not easy but ,,,,I am relaxed finding my passion sitting and try different things yay sometime It gives u inferiority complex when u see ur frnds achieving but at end be all thave different time to shine and uniqueness🙏✨⭐

[@Skmondal1459]

Sabko cse ot IT e chahiye iye kaisa ek myth ban gays sach me yrr, it sector job lage tab sabko samjh me ata he ki pura din iye laptop k sakne bhte rao kam karo khao pio so for r se wohi circle chala e ja raha he, tum 100 student ko pucho vi jee dene ka bad konsi branch chunoge sab cse bole ga😢

[@kartikAnand-4756]

bhaiya muzzaffpur BIHAR se ho to UPSC kyu nhi try karte

[@PrakashSawar]

God bless you

[@shivayvinaik7794]

zyada real kardi bhaii

[@navyavats47]

I would suggest you , to go towards performing arts....it will liberate you! Learn skills instruments/whatever enjoys you!

[@vikrant3011]

Donot be depressed money is not >>> then life keep in mind

[@secondthread-uc9bd]

Clickbait

[@partikiitian8482]

Same situation here but I am in 1st year and same I can do coding but not pursue this for life time and major problem our is we can't find our interest in which field. Many people says try different things to find your interest but in my opinion problem is how can try all different things because it consume lot of time and risky also and a stable life spend with coding but can not spend a next level life without know your interest. By luck some people find our interest in early ages which spend their life like heaven .

[@akshatsharma5426]

same here. I am in first year and even I feel lost in my life.btw which college?

[@shaangaming350]

I think sir jab aap college Mai job ki Tayari Kar rhe thee to uss wakt apko research , kuch nhi tech banne ki koshish jo apoa passion Hai vo karna chaiyeh thaa . Koi buissiness idea hota apke paas to usko build karte company Mai or fail ho jate to back up Mai job to Hai hi .

[@abhishektiwari6526]

shaadi krle bro

[@Educate-Advise-Zone]

Bhaiya different cheeze try karte raho ek hi life hai jisme suit kar jata hai usme aage badho aap jaise hi thinking hai meri what next😅 Best of luck bro🙏🙏

[@gadgetmania321]

Some phases come and go this phase will also go .stay strong 😊

[@Lvl-72arsalan]

Ab shaadi krlo

[@munendragaur4965]

mandir jao pahle

[@SuBhAmVLoGS]

I can related to it, everything is going well…….still kuch na kuch toh hay which is making me feel lost…..

[@studies3943]

Let me decide your goal: You become the next CEO of any MAANG company

[@yashpadiyar4952]

Bhaiya chill rhoo sab smjh aane lagega

[@MakeSureYouAreReady]

Finally some one spoke sth true nahi to yt to aadhe se jyada fake lifestyle dikhate hain

[@ChiruBillion]

calling job a rat race in the new rat race thesedays. Nice video but😗