I am so glad Judge Judy understand the value of helping family💕❤️

[@aalberto4961]

He married a baby.. this guy took advantage of this girl!! great admiration for judge Judy!! Such an intelligent lady she's the best!!! Bless this girl..

[@justme19881]

They both played the game, no victims here...

[@Collusion10]

Predator

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

thank you for sharing your thoughts

[@sophiamcnamara9851]

She certainly was not a baby and many from her country do this so men can look after them unfortunately she got a bad one dirty man he knew she was vulnerable

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ hi Mam thank you so much for sharing your thoughts appreciated much

[@Messier45_Pleiades]

Philippinos feel an intense responsibility to family. It's part of their culture.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@Messier45_Pleiades yes Mam true

[@simka4874]

I know the feeling !!! Although i am not Philippino, I had a massive responsibility to my mother and sister. I discharged my responsibility to my mum until my mum died. Respect, western fuckers will never understand

[@aneeshassan618]

Not only that people back there don’t make that much money, monthly income is one hundred and fifty dollars not enough for a family of six to survive. This man took advantage of her, he knew that her financial situation was not good

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ yes i agree

[@nabilhd1824]

Not only Philippinos, Arabs too

[@fayegarcia1616]

For a person who is under a lot of stress, she handled herself very well

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@fayegarcia1616 yes she is appreciated for sharing your thoughts

[@Vi.va.5648]

My heart breaks for her.

[@nancylobres6161]

Judge Judy....my special salute for you for helping this young Filipina....You are indeed brilliant in making judgment for this case.. again..with highregards

[@anniewebber-gs5ju]

Absolutely-he totally ghastly!! Such a older chap with such a young Philippino--he truly took advantage of this young woman!! Shocking!!

[@teresabautista1303]

@@Vi.va.5648 I’m from Cleveland, Ohio too.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@nancylobres6161 yes Mam agree ❤️

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@anniewebber-gs5ju Yeah obviously he took advantage she works hard and try to help him but seems like he ignores it I’m glad she is free now

[@nancyhoward7005]

Thank you 👍👍 Judge Judy for freeing this 23 year old from this old man.

[@johnlove6194]

'Old man' (seniors) are not like that, at that time, he was a manipulative middle aged man. Men younger that 60 should not be allowed to participate in 'mail order bride business'

[@americawalk1154]

43 aint old😂

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@johnlove6194 i hope it will serve as a lesson for him

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

Hes not old,he is compared to her !

[@SunshineAndRayne959]

He is an old man but as she tells the Judge, her family and her and him agreed on her marrying him and he would do such and such and she would do such and such. It started to go wrong when he was expecting her to just live with him, provide sex I suppose and just be a doting wife on him and him alone. I am glad judge judy found in her favor because people in the Phillipines dont have welfare like they do in countries like the US and Australia. Most who leave the Phillipines to live or work overseas will try to send money home. They are hardworking, and family orientated. As for him being old? Well 43 is not old but compared to 23, it is older than usual. I know a couple who have a huge age gap and have a child and are happy. It could have worked out if he was less stingy with his money and less of a control freak so he destroyed his own marriage unfortunately. I do hope she stays in the US and finds a good husband who understands her love of family.

[@marwaalrubaye5920]

I’m so happy JJ show compassion to the defendant you can see she make it easy for her

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@marwaalrubaye5920 yes true i do like Judge Judy she is fair and being nice

[@Wonderwoman-sp7ly]

I agree with you, and the young lady is genuine.

[@Joanna-vt8io]

She needed it too…. She’s too young.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@Wonderwoman-sp7ly yes Mam for her age she is brave

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@Joanna-vt8io Yes Mam she half age of her husband what i can is she is brave young lady

[@grizzy3727]

He should have supported her all the way. The young lady is a typical hard working Filipina and unselfish.

[@paulruano1903]

No evidence of that.

[@grizzy3727]

​@@blueskies386 most Filipina are so easy to love. He is old and if only he showed her kindness and love, she will love him back twice as much. One of the common traits of a Filipina woman. Take note that she was sending money and sending her younger sibling to school is a proof she knows how to LOVE and she has a generous heart.

[@blueskies386]

​@@grizzy3727She said she only sent money "sometimes," it sounds too vague. If the judge questioned her, we may have found it was a bit once every 3 or 4 months. She blew $450 on a quack-psychic!! That should let people know she had way more money than she let on.

[@grizzy3727]

@@blueskies386 let's not forget that the best cure for homesickness is to call mom.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@grizzy3727 Yes i agree

[@Juniperberrie25]

This one actually made me cry. Her hurt and frustration is palpable but it felt like the language barrier was going against her. Glad JJ was reasonable

[@emmess6074]

oh please..they learn early on to cry those tears...they are fos

[@laurapoulsen276]

They were Not fake tears. Did even whatch as smiled when it was brought up at least twice that he married a child!! That girl was telling the truth. She is responsible for taking care of her parents. Did you pay attention as she provided the documents that Judge Judy asked him to provide? If what he was saying true, he would have all the documents. He would not have smiled when any bad thing he did was brought up. He was not even paying her minimum wage. He took advantage of her. Cleaning his home he still has to pay her minimum wage. Now how many jobs is she working to take care of her parents? I think she said two. Two jobs. Another thing, Judge Judy is smart enough than to fall for fake tears. ​@emmess6074

[@oliviafrenchy8553]

He wasn’t looking for a wife, he wanted a laborer.

[@Waynes-xt9gr]

he wanted a "baby cat".......just like ALL whites and blacks want.

[@doxoxo779]

Non providing American men have been told they can go get a submission foreign wife and be happier than with American women. The disconnect is American men are no longer providers. You don’t deserve that leave them alone 😂

[@Waynes-xt9gr]

he wanted a token bride..........just like how hot up they ALL ARE......especially when they fly to North Korea, Thailand, Philippines, Japan, China, S Korea........they dont like white women, all the BLACKS and whiteys want is a token bride and mixed kids.

[@kah_lan]

I've been here in the US for 20 years and I still help out. When you grow up poor, you understand the situation, so one day when you are able to help, you help.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@kah_lan thank you for sharing your experiences and opinions i think that is very nice of you that you help family i salute you ❤️

[@daisysison6830]

It's Filipinos Values..help your family esp..when you came from poor family it's our Obligation..being a good children to our parents❤

[@kah_lan]

@@theclarksadventurefashion2230 Thank you! I am also helping others. Currently, I have 6 college students that are not my family. Their own families can't afford to send them to college, so my sister in the Philippines, bless her heart, forwarded me the wishes of these kids to attend college and asked if I can help. I've been helped by strangers and I'm forever grateful, so I am extending that help to others, too. Hopefully, one day, my students will do the same :)

[@MirandaThunderMontalban]

@@daisysison6830hopefully, it will come to a point to where you are not "obliged" to but instead you do it out of love within good boundaries. But I get where you are coming from. But do not take a responsibility that is not yours anymore nor a burden you are not to carry. Love from a filipino that agrees and respect this value but sees the flaws in them hehe

[@Mila-zz8ck]

you are right just from poor family can understand the situation. Because they are only can do that than other filipinos or any race. Can Understand how without money to sent the school for kids or siblings and buy foods,school project and school supply etc. I been for family also And I wish before I here at the US I promise to my parents I help them. and I help my husband pay our bils.

[@brendapaul5950]

This old man took advantage of this poor girl❤❤

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@brendapaul5950 thank you for sharing your thoughts

[@truthteller313]

Yes, but she also took the deal for greencard and to live in America.

[@gawd4582]

She's a grown woman. They took mutual advantageof each other...... 😐

[@sheplayschess]

@@gawd4582No she didn’t this old dusty desperate 🤡 bastard destroyed this young woman’s life. She got the same bandit BM who screw over BW. Women avoid BM at all cost. These bandits are no good for any woman.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ thank you for sharing your thoughts

[@hopiamongo8119]

Filipinos do have a sense of responsibility because it gives us happiness to know our family is ok

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@hopiamongo8119 yes Mam very well said

[@polh.537]

Amen

[@felicolaesteban1193]

❤❤❤❤ that’s our nature we try our best to help almost everyone ❤❤❤❤

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ hahahaha you very right ❤️

[@tonitonibofoni9910]

@@felicolaesteban1193 toxic pinoy culture

[@caitlindooley7826]

I hope her life is better now

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

yeah hopefully she have 2 jobs now so that helps

[@TiaEdwards-vl1ct]

I had a boyfriend 20yrs younger. I felt like??? 😢😢😢

[@Gemini530]

She probably found another husband that will send money to the Philippines 😂

[@vangielacap9978]

@@Gemini530the husband was taking advantage of her thats the point..he didn’t consider her as a wife but a maid and sex slave probably.can he do that to the American women i dont think so..he might in jail now if he does..

[@Gemini530]

@vangielacap9978 ... She knew what she was getting herself into. She wanted a green card

[@nancyhoward7005]

Officer Byrd was smiling. He's also happy the girl won

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

YES we are all happy she dont have to pay phone bills thank you Judge Judy

[@mikeydoodle143]

For 23 years old, she knows the law. Good job girl

[@johnlove6194]

Good thing there are women's groups in the US who could coach her. I hope she doesn't become too manipulative in the future.

[@MaSin-ih2yz]

@@johnlove6194 She used the guy to come to the US , and playing victim

[@mikeydoodle143]

@@MaSin-ih2yz take two to tango.

[@MaSin-ih2yz]

@@mikeydoodle143 yes but people in comment section making it look like he went to the Philippines to drag her here against her wil

[@romyarzadon4558]

​@@MaSin-ih2yzlike you😂😂😂

[@Baneyaps]

Very sad case. Hope she is well.

[@bone_love]

HE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HER. He’s a predator PERIOD.

[@pammers5588]

Exactly. He couldn’t find an adult woman to marry and he’s 40?

[@bone_love]

@@pammers5588 SERIOUSLY. And he created/funded a business for other predators and employed her family. I wish JJ woulda chewed him out harder.

[@savagesfortruth]

They been doing this to women like this it’s disgusting

[@bone_love]

@ Very disgusting. I am advocating for citizenship laws for those who want to come to the US legally so they don’t have to be victim to these predators. They will use and abuse them and their families their ENTIRE existence.

[@PuddinTane270]

Idk.. I think she came over here and had high expectations, didn’t want to pay her way, (I mean she gotta pay sumthn ) and was more focused on her family back home. Home girl needs to pick a struggle cause she has to many.

[@edwardbickle4572]

I’m about to marry a Filipina and I love helping her family! The love and appreciation they show me is the greatest feeling ever and makes me love them even more!

[@elanierothenberger2467]

Thank you Ed. ❤️🙏

[@myrnasantico679]

you are lucky as a filipina you got a complete package. Loyal wife We are train to keep the house (good cook and we have good dishes) and to take care of our children. Mostly, we are college degree holder so we can contribute in the financial and also creative in making money like we can see food bec of being good cook. I wish you and your future filipina wife happy life.

[@edwardbickle4572]

@ my relationship with my Filipina is the greatest relationship I’ve ever had! Having said that, it’s not just Filipinas who are wonderful! The Filipino people as a whole are the most amazing people on planet Earth! I’ve been living here since June of this year, and I have yet to run into a rude Filipino! The people on this country our the friendliest, kindest, warmest and most fun people I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing! I truly believe that the Philippines greatest resource is its people! I’m a proud American and I love my country. However, the people in the Philippines are the number one reason I wish to continue living here! This truly is the happiest I’ve been in my entire life!

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@edwardbickle4572 awweee thar is soo sweet i so nice to hear that and Congratulations we are happy for you Sir

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@myrnasantico679 thank you for sharing your thoughts appreciated much

[@tamaravasselin8978]

She's sooo smart....figuring out the lifelong debt of an education

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

Yes Mam true thats why she prefer to work instead of going to school

[@myatthickland7935]

As a black man myself this man was totally disgusting brought the beautiful young lady to his country not even taking the time of understanding her couture which is very family oriented. And the nerve of putting that type of burden on her had me steaming, there are way’s you can set up for her to talk with her family as I did with my wife I pay for all our house bills because I know she takes care of family back in the Philippines I’m so hurt to see this young lady go through this. She just married the wrong black man because majority of us are totally opposite of this man maybe there are other reason behind his behavior but still do the right thing.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

thank you Sir for sharing your thoughts appreciated much

[@olial8342]

Naive doesn't make her blameless. Neither does his age.

[@arfriedman4577]

I'm not black. I have good friends that are responsible black men and woman. This man decided to marry someone he didn't spend much time with. They didn't discuss important things. I dont know if they went to church classes for marriage that my friends did. She is from a different culture and young. Maybe her mom said to marry him.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@myatthickland7935 thank you for sharing your thoughts appreciated much ❤️

[@stealthattack2209]

​​@@olial8342 stop talking like a fool

[@enumaofuru]

She's way smarter than he assumed she was.

[@nMommyMode]

Most women are 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m glad the judge had compassion and empathy for the young woman…and shame on that man, that creep, that basically preyed upon her and her family.

[@CanadianMonarchist]

I hope Arlene has had a good life.

[@pammers5588]

I hope she has a good life too

[@marwaalrubaye5920]

She’s you can google her name

[@jamesfox2579]

God bless her!💕🙏💕🙏💕

[@OlivePanther]

What's her name

[@peppers1237]

@@marwaalrubaye5920what Google got to do her name?

[@tranimal72]

I travel to the Philippines and see these guys all the time he took advantage of her.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@tranimal72 yeah thats for sure but Im glad She is free now and were hoping she have a good life now

[@lovemyFilipina]

That's funny i live in the philippines and i have seen this very rarely most of the foreigners that are involved with Filipina there have taken very good care of them

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@lovemyFilipina thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience ❤️

[@Allynmaelabis-lk7rj]

Salute you you're only 23 and lived in the place without your family. You're Brave

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@Allynmaelabis-lk7rj yes she os Brave

[@lilibethbarker7025]

Yes she is very brave! Well, staying in other country is tough! I know because I've been through it. I experienced and understand what she've been through. This man is a user and a jerk!😡

[@chongharris3769]

So glad how it worked out .. Thank you Judge Judy .praying for her…..

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@chongharris3769 yes we are sooo glad

[@blueskies386]

Pray then that Jesus will forgive her for visiting a witch (psychic) because the Bible forbids consulting with a witch (medium, psychic.).

[@JuneVanRooyen-qm6tz]

This man knew what he was doing. This is an honest very young girl. He should be ashamed of himself

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@JuneVanRooyen-qm6tz Yes thats exactly JJ think too thank you for sharing your thoughts

[@ronaldodiaz9880]

You're right

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@ronaldodiaz9880 thank you Sir for sharing your thoughts

[@maries6232]

I still think about this case often. I hope she's doing well.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@maries6232 Yes me too❤️ thank you for sharing your thoughts

[@simka4874]

Judge Judy! She did not let this poor young woman down. She described her as vulnerable, and yes vulnerable she is. Stay in the USA and flourish young woman from far far land of Philippines. You will have a bright future xxx

[@johnlove6194]

She will have a bright future if instead of sending all the hard earned money to the Philippine, she saves it in a US bank. I know a lot of 'province girls' who commits that mistake.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@simka4874 yes i like her hoping we have more Judge like her

[@annielarson]

She will continue to send money to the philippines and continue to be miserable. I feel sorry for her and her next husband.

[@ninapictures-wz4ce]

Judge Judy! She did not let this poor young woman down.Thank you Judge Judy .praying for her…

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@ninapictures-wz4ce thank you for sharing your Thoughts

[@rumelasium6292]

11:22 my heart breaks for this really young young young young lady 😢

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@rumelasium6292 yes me too but I’m so glad she is free now

[@rockinrevivals]

When she said she’s the second oldest sibling, it actually means something in Filipino culture and kinship. My mother is the second oldest daughter and the firstborn is her brother. Her parents then had 4 children after my mother. For my mother’s entire life she took care of everybody-siblings and parents-from cooking, cleaning, and getting her younger siblings ready for school, then financially, in housing, and in physical care even as adults. I also learned this in while taking a Filipino family course in college. I feel bad for these daughters to have this responsibility and judge Judy is right to say that she should focus on herself and her family should take care of themselves. I understand this is the Filipino culture but having witness it my entire life through my mom and the hardships she went through everyday and working 16-hrs everyday, no days or holidays off just to take care of everybody, everybody relied on her and no one wanted to help her back, she physically and emotionally suffered in the end.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@rockinrevivals thank you so much for sharing yours thoughts and experience appreciated much

[@Bluebird-77]

Poor thing. My sister's husband is Phillipino and they are fiercely family-oriented. We in the US are fiercely independent. I think in poorer situations you need to work together to survive. It's understandable.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience appreciated much

[@ohlorie2105]

Nailed it!

[@ponorj]

Thank you for sharing. It made me so emotional reading this because I witnessed my mom give up her own personal dreams and goals to support her family back home and she suffered from it in the end. It’s a tough line to balance while helping others and being mindful it’s not detrimental to your own health and wellbeing.

[@blessingolomu4713]

I feel so bad for her.

[@tonycapricon4620]

Filipinos women sacrifices so much for their family. That's very inspiring

[@Aen0411]

Yes to the point a lot of them get sick and forgot to take care of themselves.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@tonycapricon4620 agree

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@Aen0411 that is true hard working to help family

[@sylvialin6453]

Not only Filipinos..Most Asians all over the world are too

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ i agree Mam

[@mahanaimshines4540]

She's so matured and smart for her age.

[@Myflopera1]

She’s 23 not 4

[@markdais8318]

❤❤ this woman is going to go far in her life, way further than he would ever get,

[@Waynes-xt9gr]

yeah black dude....smile, show your whites......but then, find OUT soon enough you aint getting that $$$$$$$ and your divorce is FINAL!!!!!!!!!

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@markdais8318 i agree

[@mariakristinahawl1640]

I just wanna hug that young lady. She dodged a bullet for the rest of her life by getting divorced. Marriage should never be about "money". He's such a tool!!

[@ihavefelines284]

My heart broke for this baby girl. Especially when she was saying yes ma'am and it sounded like "yes mom" I wish I could've hugged her. I'm so glad JJ was gracious towards her and put that creep in his place.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@ihavefelines284 Yeah right hehehhehe i like her and she is pretty easy towards her

[@pinoym371]

Thank you for the sympathy that feels me coming from your heart ❤️ ❤❤

[@ihavefelines284]

@@pinoym371 awww 🥰💕🙏🏽

[@Blazay-ru2dl]

The fact she got all the papers ready and he don’t !.😢

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@Blazay-ru2dl yes maybe he did not thought that will go for it

[@Waynes-xt9gr]

in my towns local saying "she's got her shit together".

[@JoanRechards]

This man took advantage of this poor girl

[@deebell8727]

They both tried taking advantage of each other.

[@PerAllwin1963]

He’s not a man. A real man doesn’t take advantage of anyone, especially a vulnerable woman.

[@meghan3713]

​@@deebell8727She wanted a better life. It was his choice !

[@PumaLyn]

She and her family took advantage of him as well but he's smart, not gullible. She probably just wanted a Green Card and she got it. They deserved each other.

[@ericrivera8410]

​@@deebell8727she worked for him fir his maul order brude business he never laud her

[@jenellegonzalez2873]

He’s so disgusting knowing she doesn’t even have money he’s asking for money people are so messed up

[@louchatman883]

I agree

[@michaelmantooth4235]

I guarantee you he lied and said he was rich when they met. Older dudes do this all the time, and there's literally no reason why a girl would agree to marry a 45 year old man, uproot her whole life, just to work so much that she can only get 4 hours of sleep a night. There's no way he was upfront with her about the lifestyle he could afford in the US.

[@bamgold4677]

Janelle I would take care of you he tried to help her.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@michaelmantooth4235 yeah i think you are right Sir so he can convince her she dis not thought she have to work and the-same time cook and clean for him

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@bamgold4677 Yes true but Im Glad she is free now

[@Melissa-sq2mi]

This is so sad. I hope she found a happy life.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

yes Mam we hope that is happy now

[@tingtaugo5761]

It’s a huge blessing that this case was brought into the justice system and hence, justice was served for the young Filipino wife. Otherwise, she will be trap with him. Filipinos have close family ties. It’s not a responsibility to take care or send other sibling’s to school but whether u grow up in poor or rich family where u have the compassion to help your parents, you can’t just leave them behind and live your own life. Because poverty will teach you about life to become self-sufficient, resilient, hardworking, compassionate to others and being trustworthy. Thank you to Judge Judy - God bless her all the time.🙏

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@tingtaugo5761 Yes i agree ❤️ thank you for sharing your thoughts appreciated much

[@mandojoaquin1953]

Thank You, Judge Judy for giving fair judgement to our countrymen, God bless you

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@mandojoaquin1953 thank you

[@florencedupingayvedar5427]

This is so true in my country. When a family member goes out of the country for a better life, families back home expect to be supported. Judge Judy is right, Once you leave home, you are not responsible for everyone in the family. Give them help when needed but do not support them throughout your life.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

Hi thank you so much for sharing your thoughts appreciated much

[@LucillesParadise36]

I agree she shouldn't shoulder all the obligation back home

[@perlasweety1444]

Heartwarming when she adresses herself to J. J. as mam, sounds like mom 💞

[@susanoberhauser6677]

I will say a pray for her

[@Trillock-hy1cf]

You would have to do better than that, because prayers just don't work with these mythical godz....Like if you fall off a cliff and scream out to your god to save you, what happens is that you are ignored and end up in a nasty broken messy heap on the rocks below....

[@fuego5532]

@@Trillock-hy1cf Religious people: "I will pray" Atheists: "YoUR MyThiCal SkY gOD doEsn'T ExiST 🤬😤" You foam at the mouth to tell religious people that their religion is BS, why do you care so much? Everyone has the right to believe in what they want, leave them be.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@susanoberhauser6677 thank you Mam

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@Trillock-hy1cf thank you for sharing your thoughts

[@JoyceTelmo-Ferrer]

Thank you so much, Judge Judy. You have always been compassionate and fair. This young woman and the rest of the Filipino community will never forget the kindness and understanding you have shown her. God bless you!

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@JoyceTelmo-Ferrer hi Mam thank you ❤️

[@ernalove2149]

It's not an obligation to our parents to help them but we do it for love , respect and that's the time we bring back the time and care they do to us when we are young,Not like in America 18 yrs old you can live and work for yourself.But we in Philippines our parents they are the one to pay our schools fees until we finish.Sometimes even we already finish still stay to our parents house

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

thank you for sharing thoughts

[@s88ped]

Same here in India. I totally feel your sentiment

[@josephinerangas3591]

I cannot help but applaud after judge Judy dismissed the charge. ❤

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

yes Sir true

[@futsuwanglu]

This is the first time I have seen Judge Judy being concerned about personal well being. Sge even went on to ask her "Do you still want to live here in USA or go back to Phillipines" that was😢 priceless 😢

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@futsuwanglu yes i like her

[@honeydate]

We are a family of a mother and 4 now grown girls. Men have always taken advantage of us to gain in life...this is the way of the world where some men think that women are under their thumb and are here to serve them. I cried through this segment and thank God that Judy could skillfully settle in a fair manner. Good luck to Rose, wishing you much success and happiness in life!

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@honeydate Awww that is awesome Congratulations Mam thank you so much for sharing your thoughts appreciated much

[@dedrathomas9222]

I hope this young lady is doing well today.

[@michellefarquharson6340]

That you Judge Judy .... that old man 😢😢😢

[@chinajimenez1951]

He’s an old Fart

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@michellefarquharson6340 yes she understand

[@johnlove6194]

That is not an 'old man', he is a manipulative middle aged man. The mail order business should police themselves not accept male applicants younger than 60 in the first place.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ hard to find like that kind of woman nowadays wife help him in his business and work she is a determined young lady

[@jinglebells6864]

I felt like it's my victory too, as a woman and as a Filipino. Thank you, Judge Judy!

[@abetskychua]

Oh, I love Judge Judy! God bless you more!

[@phylliswyllie-james2766]

I'm glad she had her paperwork he thought he was getting over but I'm glad he didn't.

[@pablofonseca13411]

This woman is amazing and I hope she is happy..

[@chandraderrickson7812]

Thank you Judge Judy for doing the right thing!

[@johnpelar]

Good Judge Judy! You have that compassion!

[@mariabattikha3051]

Wow! Praise Glory and Thank God! Like King Solomon of old t Judge Judy is truly charismatically gifted

[@lilmisssunsett]

This is where cultural competence comes in…. She’s not from AMerica and her values are different from the western world.

[@pammers5588]

There are so many of us with different cultures who have come to America over time. It’s a natural progression to change parts of your culture that don’t fit anymore. I’m sure when she has children she will be wiser and hopefully teach her children to become more independent and mature

[@chinajimenez1951]

Yes that’s how they live.. they help their families and Hispanics do the same they all send money back to help families ❤

[@ericrivera8410]

I know alot of people from different countries who support their family in yheur country

[@nangie56]

​@@ericrivera8410every culture does

[@PuppyCuddler]

​@@nangie56nope.

[@user-gv9iw9gg9u]

The Filipino people are some of the best people on the planet. I’ve never met one that had bad intentions and they’re very hard-working. I love them and this guy just totally took advantage because she was young and beautiful. She was sincere.

[@uranne]

I clicked because I was interested to see a fellow Filipino in Judge Judy. I am glad I watched this video. I learned a lot from Judge Judy and I am happy that she gave a compassionate judgment.

[@sheilamason1244]

You are a Lovely Compassionate LADY. Judge Judy. I cried for that child bride. God Bless.❤😊

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@sheilamason1244 yes She is like her ❤️❤️❤️

[@gregoryclark7566]

She is a very good woman who was very abused and manipulated.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@gregoryclark7566 appreciated for sharing your thoughts

[@gregoryclark7566]

@theclarksadventurefashion2230 I hope she is away from that man and her problems are resolved as soon as possible.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ Yes Sir me too ❤️

[@tornintheflesh5781]

I feel her emotion bc as Filipinos we're very much family oriented even though we're grownups our culture is to help our family no matter what. I know it's not our responsibility but it's our culture ❤❤❤

[@ninapictures-wz4ce]

Judge Judy! She did not let this poor young woman down.Thank you Judge Judy .praying for her…🙏🙏❤❤

[@marlenemorris7889]

That was the perfect decision.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@marlenemorris7889 yes Mam I agree

[@proudtobepinayinusa2948]

Damm tears on my eye,,I went through the same thing

[@chayamiriamweisman3733]

I'm so sorry.

[@Child_of_the_most_High_God]

So sorry ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ virtual 🫂

[@rampagemototv2023]

BECAUSE IN OUR COUNTRY, FAMILY IS WHAT MATTERS MOST. NO MATTER WHAT.

[@alethlumagbasboniol4473]

I agree!

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@rampagemototv2023 Yes very true ❤️

[@violetafischer2023]

I'm glad to see how you handle your self during this procedure., so happy that Judge Judy hear and see where you stand and give justice, against him.. Keep your head up...take care Arlene.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@violetafischer2023 Hi Mam thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤️ appreciated much

[@16MedicRN]

I remember this case. It broke my heart 💔

[@pinoylyfeinlasvegas7793]

As a Filipino, taking care of our family is part of our culture.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@pinoylyfeinlasvegas7793 yes Mam thank you for sharing your thoughts and you are right part of being who we are

[@mabinibaluyut7590]

This guy is an opportunist and cares more of himself. He married this girl so vulnerable for his business concern not to take care of as his wife.🎉

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@mabinibaluyut7590 thank you for sharing your thoughts appreciated much

[@mabinibaluyut7590]

@@theclarksadventurefashion2230 my pleasure, i was simply moved and pitied the girls situation and her loved of family. I can relate much as many of us can't just ignore one's concern towards loved ones.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@mabinibaluyut7590 yes i understand that already part of being who we are and I salute for her loyalty and kind heart that she do anything to help her family

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ she have a good kind heart to choose to help her family for my opinion its not because culture it someone’s choice to help and to take responsibility

[@taramay8174]

He is vile

[@marcom6188]

@9:54 When JJ asked her "and what about your mother and father??" And she answered that "they worked alot for her brother and sister" there where JJ heart shattered for that girl. U can see it in her smile.. Im glad JJ help to free that woman from that sick man. I wish her well❤

[@workinprogress9613]

She's adorable!

[@reeleipark3753]

a filipina who is smart and knows where to stand. . ..so young yet very firm in her statements. Be strong girl, you have more way to go. . . you just mistakenly chose the wrong man. . next time , be careful when choosing your next man, he'll surely be just around. . stay safe kabayan

[@conniecinco-d5e]

I salute to ma'am JJ you're the best judge ever.👏👏👏 I hope Arlene is in good hands now and have better life. Be strong Kabayan 🇵🇭😘

[@Kpjulian]

Mr Lowe is Mr Low!

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@Kpjulian i hope he show the real love

[@hermittroglodyte5547]

MARK MY WORD. "TEARS ARE COUNTED".

[@marilou2207]

This girl is telling the truth. This guy took advantaged of her. She would have been better off working & be independent.

[@jacquelynrandall2316]

Slime ball to take advantage of this young girl, my heart breaks for her, blessings to her for a happier life🫶🏽

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

Yes Mam true she work work and yet he did not appreciate

[@newsstuff82]

Most Americans don’t realize the extreme STRUGGLE for many overseas.

[@Shymeen44]

Yeah we do, it's on the news like everything else.

[@barbarailarpenter6815]

newsstuff82. Thank you for what you said. So true.

[@LadyPapaMayodora]

Also differences in their cultural obligations

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@LadyPapaMayodora Yes Mam thats true

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@barbarailarpenter6815 thank you for sharing your thoughts appreciated much its so nice to bear from every other opinions

[@MerciCapili]

It's really hard to Live in other Country without your family' Im proud of You' girl You are strong to handle the situation/circumstances you facing There'....Iam Filipina and i didn't go to the United States before to Live with my Fiance' Because I'm Scared and i don't like to leave my Country and my Family' We Filipino are FAMILY ORIENTED! Take care girl and keep in Fate'☺️🙏❤️

[@helenthorpe8005]

Its a cultural thing for Filipinos to provide for their families forever...hard for us to understand but thats how it is.

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

i think its also her decision to help her siblings and yes still part of our culture and close family ties

[@sgtjoe2008]

that's the toxic culture we should change, some parents are just manipulative and use their children to do their responsibilities. it's messed up and should change, as a parent myself...i worked hard, send my kids to school, now they're graduates and working but never crossed my mind that they give back to me as obligation, if they wish to help me out of kindness or voluntary then it's ok. i don't expect 'utang na loob'. it's BS!

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@ i know right as parent our kids our responsibility and Yes you are right some parents are manipulative i think some are taking advantage of their kids like this parents she decided for her to married him so she can be partner in business with him

[@muuzikk]

You say that now, but when you get old and alone and they send you to nursing home, don’t cry!

[@cinta3805]

All I can say is Honor thy father and thy mother. Hindi bs ang pagalaga sa magulang, inalagaan nila tayo nung bata pa tayo it is our time to take care of them when they are old.

[@karlaschroder1542]

And this is just one of the reasons that love judge Judy

[@antoniogarcia6531]

This Happen Before Cell phones?????i support the young Girl. Blessimgs From Sinaloa 🇲🇽

[@carolinetaguicana2830]

Good Job Judge Judy Thank you for helping this girl 👧🏻 she is a victim of men taking advantage of innocent women 🙏 for your health

[@chopsjones]

Shes lucky she got away from this creep

[@giftbyliz8702]

wish you the very best young lady. Z Hope you find your life here in the US. I agree with Judge Judy

[@naniedewar2128]

I feel sorry for this young lady I am a Filipina too married a British my husband understand that when he married me I have responsibility back home and send money every month to my family and all my salary goes to my family that is our culture God bless her

[@davidheymer2297]

thats a bit too much..

[@qgan2948]

A lot of people don't know or understand the Filipino culture of family. Even Judge Judy didn't understand why she was sending money to her family after marriage. Filipino family culture. specially poor families, a member of the family, usually the eldest, takes repsonsibilitiy of taking care of the siblings like food, clothing and specially education. That's is the Filipino culture. Foreigners sometimes have a hard time understanding this. The simplest explanation is that family is family. every family member takes care of each other.

[@kiratsi]

There are many cultures where family members support each other till the end. Glance over to Southern Europe, for example, and you'll see the same thing going on. Also, calling Americans 'foreigners' when they are in their own country, is a bit rich

[@MirandaThunderMontalban]

This is good and all but this culture should be amended don't you think? Keep the helping each other without giving the weight of every burden to one person who also has a life of their own. The parents should be able to enjoy their own money after the child/children get their own job. You don't raise the eldest just to take the responsibility of the parent. (This the amending of such a potentially good cultural trait hehe)

[@ronazams8257]

They love their family but most importantly, they know their family needs financial help.

[@ladyboss4591]

That is a very toxic family tradition of Filipinos. I'm Filipina and not proud of it. Her siblings are NOT her financial responsibility. Her parents made the decision to bring those kids to the world! Therefore it's their financial responsibility. They brainwash their older child that its their responsiblity. That is wrong!

[@madamminchin]

​@@MirandaThunderMontalban we Filipinos value our parents and family. That's how devoted we are. We don't send our parents to hospice,it's us who take care of them. Now I guess that's what Americans don't understand

[@GordyThomas]

I really hate to see these situations develop and I have zero sympathy for the man. I'm married in Southeast Asia to a wonderful Vietnamese woman AND HER FAMILY. That's part of the cultural agreement here and I've been very happy to use my social security benefits and my Veterans Administration disability compensation pension to help all of them. Living here affordably I've been able to pay off all my old bills and still have a little money left over at the end of the month to help out the local poor people and a daycare center for victims of Agent Orange poisoning. My two bonus daughters are able to attend a university here and it's ironically fulfilling that all of this is possible because of the compensation I'm paid for my injuries in Vietnam during the war. It's sad and somewhat disgusting to me that so many American men simply want to shop for a young sex partner in Southeast Asia and expect the woman to become totally detached from her responsibilities to her family back home. Good for Judge Judy!

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@GordyThomas awww that is so nice Congratulations its so nice to hear even just a little bit of your story appreciated much and i definitely agree

[@wilmahughes9879]

my favourite judge Judith ❤ thanks for Sharing, from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

@@wilmahughes9879 thank you Mam your welcome i like her too and Im happy her decision

[@SakuraUmaki]

I know that they very hard working people I wish her all the best

[@theclarksadventurefashion2230]

yes we hope that she is happy

[@Theturtleowl]

The fact that he found her in an advertisement is a big red flag. Not even meeting before wanting to marry her is the second.

[@shallymar5791]

That is our culture we help our family

[@johnmagsadia3110]

Thank Judge Judy for your decision.

[@Peacefully12344]

Ang tapang mo gurl.. Sa age 23 mo proud of you.. Your so brave

[@alethlumagbasboniol4473]

Yes, I agree! ❤

[@meilelbi]

"I dont think she is a very expensive lady to keep" - Judge Judy 😅

[@cherrymagno2903]

To tell you frankly filipinos are hard working & family oriented with close family ties. Very responsible & trust worthy that is why they are well loved by their employers & colleagues. Haven't you heard that when there is open for hire they usually choose filipinos💖. True enough😘