I Blew Up at My BF’s Girl Best Friend After I Walked In on Them Together, Turns Out She Was SA’d...

I Blew Up at My BF’s Girl Best Friend After I Walked In on Them Together, Turns Out She Was SA’d and Being Protected, Now They Think I’m a Monster. Plus One Update.
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[@TheDevilFromHell666]

First pin, please

[@reillycurran8508]

See at first I was sympathetic until OP admitted that she didn't just accuse BF of cheating but she also attacked GBF with the downplaying lines. That's when the response from the friend group made sense. Good on her for realizing she fucked up royal though.

[@DeeJay_Anime]

"I don't even think the SA was as bad as she makes it out to be.".... That utterly irked me. It doesn't matter what she thinks about his girl bsf, OP doesn't actually know what happened to her..... Good thing he dumped her. Also OP said: "I barely know his girl best friend," then goes on to say "but she isn't some innocent person" blunt contradiction of herself. At least she realized how messed up she was in the end.

[@illidanST7F]

Ok yeah the comments make this stories way better shes mental and a horrible person everyone has insecrities of some kind that doesnt give her a pass to judge ppl and lash out EDIT: i wrote this at 4:18, IT GOT WORSE and then better im happy she realized she was being absolutely horrible and i hope therapy helps her.

[@fives2155]

OPs comments about the girl BSF being SA'd just proves how disgusting of a human being OP is

[@fives2155]

I know she went through a come to jesus moment though, so props to OP for at least realising how shitty of a person she is and changing for the better

[@juliearmfield2634]

Omg this girl is sick and twisted. I really hope this is rage bait.

[@quitegrim5901]

It makes sense given she was literally graped at a young age, thinking it was normal.

[@RandomArts321]

4:25 “I don’t even think that the SA was as bad as the made it out to be” dude omg Look, just with the context of the beginning of this story up to this point alone; a part of me can sympathize with her jumping to conclusions when she saw Josephine and Robin together due to her own trauma of her ex’s cheating on her.. but what was NOT okay is the downplay of others trauma, SA is SA! There’s no such thing as SA being “not that bad” It doesn’t matter what Josephine looked like either since horrible people will do horrible things to literally anybody and everybody, the only thing driven behind actions like SA is pure evil, it’s not just fueled by “attraction” I know after seeing the rest of the video why OP thought that kind of stuff after what she went through at a kid, especially after what her abuser told her afterwards, and I genuinely wish her the best beyond the situation in this story since, like I said, SA is SA and sometimes a common trauma response to it is to downplay it including towards other people, so I don’t blame her for that behavior. but without the context of this story I feel that this stuff still needs be said and understood since a lot of people don’t seem to get it.

[@adamryan977]

I still can't get over the fact that she saw a room full of people caring for a crying friend and her conclusion was: Obviously she must have had sex with my boyfriend. Like is he that bad in bed or what....but in the comments she got even worse until i thought what a truly ugly personality. : I have been through so much and i made a little mistake. He always says he doesn't care what his friends think , so why should he dump me for them. He can always find better ones, but our relationship was perfect. 🤯 Such a narcissitic person. No wonder she can't find a good relationship, noone wants her arround who isn't equally horrible.

[@Sa_mageste_le_roi]

It's nice to see toxic person change, it was refreshing to see the Reddit community to help op. Also there are some wild takes about certain Sa being not as bad as others and I want to say screw that. My sa'er was affectionate to me, we play fought and cuddled but I was still a child. My sa being non-violent did not make it any less scaring

[@daikonasahinacosplay]

okay, ik I’ve made 2 comments but I’m at the end now, I’m glad op has understood the weight of her actions and is willing to change for the better. wishing op luck, but also would be wise not to date for a few years, ❤

[@daikonasahinacosplay]

4:52 ‘that’s borderline abusive and controlling’ but that’s what you want him to do for you, right? you want him to cut off all his friends and find better ones, right? you do not understand that you are the problem. you AH I hope anyone who is in a relationship with you gets out real quick.

[@Blurgamer17]

She got tunnel vision the second she saw "BF + Girl" in a room full of people and shut everything out. Perfect player for "Where's Wally/Waldo." Also. Cuckoo cat-lady-to-be. 😅

[@andrewreviewschannel883]

😂😂😂😂 op is mess up

[@daikonasahinacosplay]

3:47 ..I’m sorry, say that again?! your relationship was ‘perfect’ and you expect him to dump his all his friends who he’s known longer then you just because he can find ‘better ones’.. you need serious help.

[@kilamkam]

Never thought I'd see a survivor of SA downplay another victim.. She said she wouldn't tell her how bad it was so she doesn't actually know wtf happened to her.. Sh*t I think her dad might be innocent 😒😒....

[@jackchop1576]

Yeah, OP... he's not taking you back even as a friend.

[@wolfpawz13]

On one hand yes op was incredibly horrible, HOWEVER, trauma from past relationships and her own father they don't vanish when you start a new one and I mean seriously what was the bf thinking instead of saying hey she's(freind) going thru some tough shit and it's personal I don't feel comfy sharing that info without her permission he instead refuses to let OP know what's going on and is super secretive... reallly bf knows OPs super freaked out about girl "best freinds" and totally drops her when she freaks out because she didn't know what had happened and ofcourse assumed the worse. Idk bout the whole sa wasn't that bad, but ig from her perspective of sa = legit r@pe from your own father against geting a butt grabbed is sorta understandable. Not good but yeaaah OP needs some major therapy for those issues, I do think the bf was kinda crappy for not explaining to the freind and freind group why she freaked out so bad tho, especially when said freind is traumatized from OP freaking out yet goes on social media a few days later and post pics of them smiling and hanging out?

[@rodrigorecio7715]

She sounds like she was the abuser in every relationship

[@RedX101]

The title and thumbnail needs to be improved/fixed