I Bought A Luxury Apartment, And My Debt-Ridden Boyfriend Threatened To Break Up If I...

[@TylerSamuelBennett]

It’s shocking that your boyfriend would make threats over your success instead of supporting you - you deserve someone who celebrates your achievements, not someone who tries to control you...

[@susanapol382]

He suggested to combine your savings with his debts so he can own a house that you will pay with your salary while he invests in clothes for himself.

[@RetributionRadio0289]

Yikes, when you put it that way, it sounds like a recipe for disaster! Relationships should be partnerships, not one-sided investment plans. Thanks for pointing that out-definitely food for thought!

[@ronaldjerrythompson862]

A supportive partner would never try to manipulate you into doing what they want, especially over something as personal as your finances - you deserve better...

[@seanryancHooper]

It’s tough to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t celebrate your hard work, but I hope you realize that a person like that might not have your best interests at heart...

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

He is a leech, plain and simple..if she's planning on buying a house or townhouse, she doesn't have to tell him anything. Close the deal, and move everything while he's at work, switch the utilities, redirect the mail, and change the phone number. He is not ready. He doesn't want a wife, he wants a second mom and a sponsor. Be sure the landlord tells him he has to start his own lease or leave in thirty days.

[@gregorylarryparker5100]

If he’s more focused on threats than being happy for you, then he’s showing his true colors , you worked hard for that apartment, and you shouldn’t let anyone make you feel guilty about it...

[@jameshead9119]

Any one who only pays the minimum on credit-cards is an idiot I realised early that you had to pay double the minimum just to keep your dept from growing due to charges they tack on after you’ve paid so it slowly creeps up with out you noticing

[@itsjustme7487]

My ex husband who was smarter than me, maxed out his 25% interest 10k credit card twice. My mother wasn't any better. I got tired of bailing them out.

[@Corbzer]

@@itsjustme7487 well your ex husband isnt smarter then you if he done that and you didnt haha.

[@itsjustme7487]

He and his family thought I was dumber than A box of rocks. I showed them.

[@jameshead9119]

@ I know that feeling at times it felt like hitting a brick wall trying to Explain it to my wife ( I’m still not sure she gets it )

[@Vdiaz367]

If he is forcing to buy something then you buy it on your own make sure everything's under your name you bought it with your own money but make sure it's under your name so that he has no claim over it

[@itsjustme7487]

Well said.

[@cocoace7587]

😂 His Mom thought she was slick . She tried her best to dump HER bummy SON off on a hard-working young lady . She didn't want her son to move back in with her , drive her crazy & steal her money for gambling. 😢 # run girl run 🏃‍♂️

[@cresantspoon1204]

No

[@cocoace7587]

I didn't know they got married 😳. # Sis was / is silly 🤪

[@annabordelon6663]

Stop You're being used and run

[@starnealy4550]

As a storyteller, which is what this is, you shouldn't go over and over and over again the same topic (indebtedness in this case) dragging out the story and not coming to the finish line. With your story, the entire story did this and then a quick jump off, End of Story! Say What????? Retribution Radion, I'll try to remember that name and not listen to your non-stories again.

[@RetributionRadio0289]

Ouch! I hear you, though. Sometimes pacing is tricky, and I can see how the repetition might have felt like it dragged. I’ll keep this in mind for future stories-thanks for pointing it out!

[@RoyDianaHernandez]

Threatening to break up over your apartment shows a lack of respect for your independence - I hope you prioritize yourself and don’t let him guilt-trip you...