I Built A Hug Machine For My Autistic Grandson | Invented

Inventor Richard Built His Autistic Grandson A Hug Machine To Help Him When He Is Feeling Down.
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[@thecrabmaestro564]

One of the first ads I've actually clicked on, very wholesome

[@blitzow3644]

Same

[@Gingerecologist9051]

Same dude

[@Mx.Phoenix]

Same

[@justanotherhappyhumanist8832]

Same - this is the first ad I’ve ever clicked on.

[@shaunchurchill4594]

Yep totally agree, beats the corporate crap any day 👍

[@JackVXR]

Never have i ever clicked an ad to watch it on purpose

[@loobylouboti]

Me neither.. Not sure why, but I always ignore the ads. This drew me in, I'm glad it did. How beautiful to have such a Grandad that cares so much and respects his Grandsons special needs.

[@gypsyloutruecrimetoo3783]

What an incredible man Ryan has as his grandfather ❤️

[@jodders619]

The principles of this were spelled out by a woman called Temple Granding (iirc) who was herself autistic. I utterly love working with folks on the sprectrum! Often people think of people with autism or learning disabilities (or both) as 'all the same' but these folks are just as diverse as us neurotypical folks.

[@stephaniewatkins8022]

Thank you ❤️

[@doinksinthePM]

You are quite correct, my friend. Temple Grandin's quite the amazing individual. Always inspired me as someone on the spectrum myself. She had a great innate ability to tell what certain animals were feeling and what was the stimulus that was provoking said response. She revolutionized the cattle industry as well, improving the treatment and quality of life of cattle and ensuring they were being treated better as livestock. And her squeeze machine was inspired by the cattle version as Grandpa said here. Definitely her design though.

[@leanndelosrios1616]

This is incredible. What a wonderful caring grandfather.

[@bobbynicole10]

Brings a tear to my eye to see this grandpa love his grandson so much that he invented something to help him. So many families just don't make an effort to know one another, not to mention a member with such challenges. What a truly special man.

[@nicolenichols240]

Absolutely! 😃🤗🌷

[@GitteThorup]

He did not invent it. Temple grandin did

[@Mattay20]

Thats amazing. Fairplay to the grandad taking 5 months to make sure it was safe. Hats off to parents who have live this day in and day out and never quit.

[@beebobean_7286]

Hats off to Ryan for having to live this day in and day out

[@clareswinney1087]

Clever Grandpa! This made my soul smile. 🥰

[@phil5592]

I work with autistic adults and my company could use two or ten of these, weighted blankets just don’t cut it for some people. What a project 👍🏼👍🏼 and well done Ryan on the job!

[@jeanettereynolds3151]

Please I'm writing to ask you for advice as my grandaughters little boy is getting so violent she doesnt know what to do.hes 6 now a lovely loving boy but is getting very agressive demanding.he started realy punching his sister who's 10 who plays and does everything for him.she only gets one to one when aston can go to respite he loves.my grandaughter works but gives him one to one as soon as hes home routine is after tea its quiet hour before bedtime but hes now coming home from school in a temper and starts punching screaming he wishes his mum was dead.she does so much with him but now hes kicking his sister and not just in leg she laid on floor normaly he likes that lays down with her to watch what he likes.but he got up and kicked her in face.my grandaughter knows there is no answer in smacking him.but she realy felt like it.she does it all alone works hard is there any advice to this be very grateful

[@phil5592]

@@jeanettereynolds3151 unfortunately autism is far too complex to give advice over the internet 😔 in times like this you have to remember the fundamentals, all behaviour has meaning, all behaviour has function. I assume he’s at a well equipped and trained school? Work with his teachers and support workers to determine the patterns and cycles, there is an answer in there, more than likely the answer will be some kind of replacement behaviour, either for the violence itself, or for whatever his triggers are x x x. Sorry I can’t be more useful!

[@roxanneandthereprobates]

@@jeanettereynolds3151 Like Phil said, it's too difficult to give advice online without actually knowing the child. If he is "masking" all day (i.e. exhausting himself by trying to stay 'well behaved' in school) then he might be venting his frustration at home after holding it in at school all day. I agree that you should find out if there have been any changes that might have set him off - speak to him if possible, his teachers, support workers etc. As an autistic person myself, I need to be left alone after a long day of socialising to process everything and recharge my batteries, so to speak. If I don't get this alone time in a quiet, calm environment I can end up having a complete meltdown. As an adult I can explain this, but when I was a kid I had no idea how to describe what I was going through. I wish you all the best anyway.

[@sagittariusmoon1043]

@@jeanettereynolds3151 hey xx My son is also just turning 6 with autism, his high functioning so can talk he is in special school. Can you grand son talk? Does he go to main stream school? What's his sleep like? Does he watch you tube and play Video games? With had to ban certain things in our house and also his not aloud on his switch and iPad for too long x his getting his virtual reality mixed up with reality XXX happy to talk anytime, my son really does push the boundaries so ask away ❤️❤️ he has a stable door on his bedroom,,, keeps others safe when his going for it acts like a baby gate, but locked. We call it his zone when locked, his zoned in for calm down. I have 2 other little girls, ones only 7 👀 xx

[@nookbirb2769]

I know what you mean. I'm autistic and that machine looks pretty sick. Wouldn't mind one in my room

[@gilliankingston8259]

What a beautiful Man to build a hug machine for his Grandson to help him cope with life on the days when he's feeling out of control❣🙂🌹

[@postaltrash5545]

The worst feeling is losing control, some get violent, others lose verbal communication, and some just get depressed(im of the first variety listed) and often very little helps but someones warm pressence makes the dofference for me i dont want to have human contact in those moments but someone to just trust that i wont hurt them and know that im bieng watched and trusted with blind belief that im able to regain control.. So ryan keep on huging if that makes you able to face the world and dont let anyone tell you otherwise...

[@gazchant2756]

What a grandfather. Much respect sir 🙏

[@jamesrafferty7357]

This is why grandparents are so special ❤️

[@warmachineroxlol]

The grandfather is Jigsaw if he wasn’t insane

[@dansemple2]

😂

[@GarrettStelly]

I'd watch that

[@loobylouboti]

Lol!

[@suavetheman992]

🤣🤣🤣

[@TylerPhillipsAwesome]

If jigsaw was wholesome

[@fenceyhen4249]

The grandfather is a real gem who actually cares enough to understand his grandson and what he needs. That's real love

[@kevinotoole885]

Over the last 18 months during the pandemic humanity has shown the best and worst in human nature. It’s refreshing to see stories like this of kindness, thoughtfulness, compassion etc.........lovely story, nice work guys.

[@jdskfhsjd]

Even if a few people might disagree with it and i can respect opinions but i can also respect how thoughtful and loving this grandfather is

[@flowergirl5336]

What would 5grt disagree with

[@churchviewwishart8873]

@@flowergirl5336 l ask myself the same question.....what is there to disagree with? This young mans mother and grandfather are amazing and have achieved such incredible results....it cheers my heart...l speak as the grandmother of a 9 year boy who’ is non verbal and autistic and though not as talented as this dear man , l am constantly looking for ways to unlock his world and as this lovely mum has said...to give him a purposeful life....may God richly bless them....as they have blessed me!

[@pjg_77]

Temple Gardin actually invented this back in the 60s. Look her up she’s done some exceptional work.

[@AdvocateMusicOfficial]

I thought the same thing

[@TheElmospoon]

Yep. Was going to say this too.

[@mikes4719]

Sorry i have only watched this today and didn’t read your comments. Having an autistic son, and working with autistic adults. I know how hard it would be to earn acclaim if you are autistic. I Just didn’t want granpar taken credit .

[@pjg_77]

@@mikes4719 hey Mike, kudos to grandpa to. Have a look into temple gardin. Her mother pushed her into doing tremendous things in the 1950s when autism wasn’t even a diagnosis. It was her autism that changed the face of modern farming. Take a look into her you’ll be amazed

[@jodders619]

@@pjg_77 I was late to the show and made a similar comment above but I think I spelled her name wrong! Good user name too!

[@markharrisllb]

Temple Grandin built something like this when she was at University in Texas in the 60s. She very nearly got kicked out of her very conservative uni for making a 'sex toy' as they thought it was some sort of sexual perversion. She was the one who originally went on to build the machine after using one for cattle and she worked out the way cattle move to keep them calm when treating them in bulk. She was only ever happy on her aunt’s and uncle's ranch and is probably the world's most successful and famous ASD activist. She has a PhD in animal husbandry and has written several books about her autism as well as touring the world as a speaker. She is one of my disability heroes, along with Ian Dury and my (stroke affected) wife. kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJ-4Yqinj7ukrdE I’m not saying this isn’t a wonderful grandfather, who did something amazing for his grandson. I’m just saying those who have credited him with inventing it are wrong. It wouldn’t be a difficult bit of research as there’s many references to her invention on KZbin, but the only clip from the film I can find is how she came up with the idea. I highly recommend the film if you get the opportunity to watch it, Temple was very much involved in it being made.

[@tarkatheotter6977]

This was just a shortened version, but even here the grandad mentions he didn’t invent it, he said he got the plans from the internet and talked of the origin of the idea in animal husbandry.

[@g-man4522]

Clever grandpa..and Ryan looks so comfortable and happy with his hugger... lots of love and hugs from London England. Enjoy the job alpaca cowboy.

[@papajeremy3713]

Duh

[@uncharteddama9861]

Best grandfather ever 💓 and really smart to find time to support his grandson glad theres still good humans out there

[@Gndlf_TheOrange]

What a fantastic man. I wish everyone had this care and understanding.

[@PoetryWitch]

We could all do with one of these..... hugs have been stamped out by covid 19 , there are someday's when you miss being hugged, what a clever man Ryan's grandfather was bless xx

[@steenystuff1075]

I'm disabled and live alone. I bought a giant V pillow for my bed. It's quite wonderful! Feel like I'm being hugged on both sides when I'm going to sleep (which, for me, could be any time of the day or night). 🤗

[@jeanettereynolds3151]

@@steenystuff1075 I know the feeling I'm 71 but I have my husband thank god.my kids have outgrown us and dont want to know but your on your own it's hard I know lots love from uk

[@steenystuff1075]

@@jeanettereynolds3151 Thanks. I'm in the UK too. Have you believed on Jesus for your eternal salvation? 😇

[@Acheron666]

@@steenystuff1075 Products like that have seen a massive increase in sales during lockdown. The products I sell, have gone from selling 2 or 3 a week, to 4 or 5 a day. A bit more expensive than pillows though and they are heavy, lol.

[@Acheron666]

@@jeanettereynolds3151 I’ve lived on my own for 10 years now....It can get quite lonely, but you get used to it after a while. I struggle to be around people for any length of time, due to PTSD and anxiety, so I kind of like being on my own a lot of the time. I keep getting told it’s not healthy to be on my own, but I’m actually happier being in my own company.......I do like visiting family and friends every now and then, but I always find that I can’t tolerate being around anyone for long periods of time. From the age of 13 to around 30, I was never at home and always out with friends. I was always out partying, or doing something with friends, or family. I was having to use drugs like diazepam back then, as without it, I couldn’t be around anyone, or work, due to PTSD and anxiety symptoms. So these days, I just want to live a quiet life and address my anxiety issues at my own pace, without the need for medication..........I find that I’m a lot happier now compared back then and I feel a lot healthier without all that medication. I do feel for the people who don’t like being alone, especially during lockdown, as if you’re not used to it, depression sets in pretty quickly.

[@angieryan2544]

Way to Ryan! What an awesome young man you are. You have the best grandfather and mother In the whole world! I wish you lots of love and light and of course lots of hugs 🤗 xx

[@cathlaurs9754]

What a fine human being to do that for your grandson. Wow 👍

[@DanielSmith-pf2mq]

That is very cool that he took all that time. It seems perfect; not only because of the compression, but that tight space appears that it would help with outside stimulation in the room. You are an awesome man. I very happy that your grandson feels better. ❤❤❤

[@pebbles4715]

Wow! What a fabulous grandad. This actually warms my heart, humanity at its best, ❤️❤️

[@amac6483]

Temple Gardin first invented such a device to help with her autism but this family have done an amazing job in making this and encouraging their son to use it. Very well done.

[@aam3361]

Similar to Temple Grandins “Hug Box” in 1965 ❤️

[@digbyovenden1600]

Truly a wonderful family

[@jeng1467]

What beautiful people through and through.

[@DMF11]

That's absolutely brilliant! Good job Granda. Enjoy Ryan 💜💖🥰

[@davoap1268]

Beautiful invention from an awesome Grandfather.

[@teelesynclair5902]

Hes lovely, what a beautiful man 💖

[@daviddawson4655]

Amazing inspirational and what a perfect grandad,using his ingenuity to solve such a deep need 10 out of 10 truly amazing....so good to see the young fella achieve so much!

[@joncox9098]

Great video, hope the young man does his parents and especially his very clever grandad proud.👍🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@jamespargeter5281]

What a wonderfully talented grandfather

[@Wrz2e]

First advert I ever clicked on. I wasn't disappointed.

[@alexearyle6159]

Such a wonderful gift. Much respect. My sons would have loved this.

[@BruceLee-dg5bv]

Nice to see there is still some good things being done in this world. What a top bloke. He should be proud to have a grandad like that

[@eeeeee38093]

This deserves way more attention, so wholesome good job

[@patty-ow9ul]

What a fantastic grandfather

[@houseofbadgers9380]

Grandad to the rescue.. 😢 😢

[@trishywishy100]

Amazing this is a fantastic piece of equipment for autistic kids and adults, I hope that this idea of the cuddle machine spreads world wide , so other parents can see this cuddle machine does really work and give inspiration so all can mabe join in to produce similar equipment, for autism and no doubt even more with every person needing just that bit more security in being cuddled, an amazing idea of a mother and grandad, very clever very useful and I hv no doubt in future seeing this kind of machine going in to production all over the world for all types of conditions like autistic kids and adults giving that extra security on demand, inspirational, evidence this machine works giving a positive outcome , and a new brilliant idea by a mother and grandad who thought ahead of something that really does work towards giving that support dedication and pure love into ensuring there son/grandson has cuddles on tap at anytime aswell as the love they hv for this lovely happy lad, it’s really just an amazing clever and effective idea all ppl around the world should pick up on, thankyou so much for sharing this, and all the love around the world sent bk to you with cuddles and more love for sharing and giving inspiration to everyone around the world, I’m truely blown away by this 💞💞💞💞💞

[@carlofelice9198]

Great man, my respect🙏

[@rosefamily2351]

Absolutely beautiful

[@billman69]

Absolute legend. Ryan you have the best granddad ever

[@VibeLuna]

What an amazing man Ryan has for a grandfather reminds me off my own rest his soul melted my heart to see all that love and also know how Ryan feels maybe not the full idea but I somewhat get it being autistic my self

[@unions100]

Absolutely fantastic well done 👍👍❤️👌

[@clairefitzpatrick7183]

amazing work, amazing family.

[@harpsailorharp6716gg]

Angel Grandfather and mother xxx

[@JonDoe-wh8ez]

What a grandad salute to you sir

[@rich21970]

Old guy is a legend 👍😎

[@robertbarry7606]

Pretty inspirational ad!! Actually made me think of one of my little boys so very informative also👍🏽

[@PeteBigChief]

This is some extremely wholesome content. 💙

[@jgp9260]

This is wonderful and what a beautiful family too.

[@lachlanlau]

This needs more views

[@metaldetectingengland]

Thats amazing 👏 well done Grandad everyone needs a hug these days 🤗

[@DannyB-cn1hk]

What a grandfather!

[@jeanettereynolds3151]

What a wonderful grandad he clearly loves his grandson.as it's not easy with a autistic child and as an adult they get frustrated .my great grandson sadly is 6 and autistic.his dad left as didnt want him.i feel for my grandaughter as she does it all on her own she works.she makes sure he gets her time before bed her daughter 10 when he goes to respite has her one to one time with her mum.but it's getting harder as hes getting agresive towards his mum.she doesnt know how to cope with that.any advise you have gone through would be so appriciated.she dont get help from my daughter the nan at all.yet I always had my grandchildren staying over to give her a break.and hers are not autistic but shes got no bond with her only grandson.i think what you made your grandson is great so are you. Xxx

[@mary-anneellis2105]

Having worked with people with autism and family members who have Aspergers, I can sympathise with what you're all going through. You sound like a great support unit for each other and have his best interests in mind. I wouldn't want to give any advice that may not suit his needs but there are some things that you could talk to his teachers and respite staff about. What does he like to do when he's feeling overwhelmed? Are there routines staff have with him that appear to help? Is he verbal, can he tell you what he likes to do? Does he use PECS cards? With everything that's been going on, there will have been some changes to his routine, both at the start of lockdown and as we're coming out of it. It could be really small but it's enough to unsettle him. If she's not already, your granddaughter could find a suport group. Other families who are going through the same. Some small things you could do today: you could get him some noise cancelling headphones, if he doesn't already have some. He can pop them on when he gets home to help with processing the day. He could go off on his own, maybe with sensory toys (things like squishy balls, light up toys, water based toys) if you pop sensory toys into Google, there are lots of websites that sell them. Or respite could tell you which are his favourites there. Sensory overload can be difficult to get through and even someone being in the same room can be enough to lead to a meltdown. If you can sit down with him when he's calm and ask him how he feels when he goes to school, when he's at school and when he comes home from school, you could help find out and work through his daily emotions. Social stories are another great aid to explain what will happen during a particular day/event. Your granddaughter could ask for a chat with both school and respite. They should be able to help in some way. You're all doing an amazing job. He will get there 💙

[@jeanettereynolds3151]

@@mary-anneellis2105 thank you so much for replying I cant help as much as shes southampton and I. Scotland.he loves his school and loves respite but gets angry when it's not his turn to go.but at least my grandaughter has asked for more help.shes also asked what is she doing so diferent from respite at that hour after school.as they dont get that from him.and feel because hes made friends at his respite centre he only saying he hates her and wishes shes dead as he wants and enjoys his friends..shes marvelous with him as especialy diong everything alone but he dont like cuddles which is hard for her and his sister.its just finding that breakthrough.but I sent her your reply which she thanks you for.and is giong to speak to his teachers to see what she can do more to help him from his anger once again many thanks support group sounds great shes GIONG to ask for help there as you all need others xx

[@dalehawkridge3668]

God bless you Sir 👍🏼

[@mattkirkhamm]

There are some great men out there.

[@dickieprice9644]

Wow what a man.........respect Sir 🥰

[@harryyoung7163]

Lovely video my son is on the spectrum he used cover his ears when we? Hoover and use the blender! This is a great idea and a brave boy. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@magnuswalker7957]

Brave family, as are many who have disabled children

[@reborn-gwp7972]

Fantastic and weldone on getting a job 👍

[@michaeldoyle7444]

Lovely story, well done grandad.

[@jonessenoj6753]

Hope to see these in all schools and work places in the future 👍

[@nicolenichols240]

Aaahhhh! How Beautiful! Great idea!

[@Freya12]

Amazing grandpa!!!! 😘❤️😍

[@Khalid-wf9ue]

What a inspirational video👍

[@jameshindle7342]

Get in there grandpa!awesome job

[@joshhemming3427]

Incredible what a man

[@edwardrose120]

Bless you sir 👏👏👌

[@terrypussypower]

It’s like a sense of security, like a security blanket!

[@rainingstars4]

Aww, so sweet!

[@andycampsall3832]

What a great grandad I love this ❤️

[@NoVACorpsGaming]

What an incredible man

[@chriss6733]

What a good man.

[@attentivegingy48]

This man shall be accepted into the hall of legends.

[@mikes4719]

For plagiarising someone else’s work.

[@bethkhensous3314]

What a brilliant idea x

[@crediblemulk4638]

Wonderful.

[@russnunn2456]

The old boy is a legend

[@daynahblack3958]

Grandads are the best !

[@richstarx]

Great effort. I could suggest to him to buy and actuall hug vest. U can literally feel a hug from some one half way accross the world

[@harpsailorharp6716gg]

❤

[@charlethemagne5466]

This is so heartwarming

[@kingyc8490]

Grandpas are the world's greatest creation ❤️

[@bebrave9108]

Gotta love grandpas

[@Schlong62]

no one has ever purposely clicked on an ad to watch it, but this one...

[@emmasumer8510]

Grandad ur a legend ❤️

[@cujimmi]

Top man! 👍

[@rhyswagstaff8501]

Cattle have a hug machine to calm them down .... 😦😔

[@DanceySteveYNWA]

Yeah and it lifts up their legs at the knee (one at a time, obviously), to let people trim their hooves with an angle grinder.

[@ripvanwinkle3509]

Beautiful people.

[@venomcvlt7469]

Amazing

[@the12thman63]

I have a 4 year old autistic son and would love that. He is very into his sensory stuff so the pressure of the cuddle machine would keep him occupied. In fact he would probs fall asleep. 💙

[@palmer880]

Brilliant

[@yemalad1.]

That's beautiful ❤️

[@fury0none111]

Incredible 👌👌

[@alexaustin7892]

It’s literally a “step bro, help, I’m stuck” machine

[@papajeremy3713]

That’s what I was thinking 🤔🤤🥴😫

[@JackSardonic]

Coomer

[@peterpan6443]

How wonderful, 💖💖

[@kittybuckley3]

That is a brilliant idea