“I can’t do this again…” // (TW) // (Vent) // GachaClub

So 2 days ago my mom bought me 3 new bras because she said “I need newer ones” and I hate them… I haven’t put them in because one: never had a reason to, and two: I hate them… she then came in my room about an hour ago and said “I’ve noticed you haven’t tried on your new bras. Why don’t you try them on now?” I asked he if she men’t right then and there and unfortunately it was… I told her I was uncomfortable with it and she got mad and said “I’m your mother! You shouldn’t be uncomfortable around me!” And “we’re family so it’s fine!” She made me try on the bras right in front of her… afterwards she kept mentioning getting “sexier” bras for “just in case” scenarios… she then said “next time I’ll make sure to get more you like” and the words “next time” have just been playing in my head… I can’t do this again… I almost started crying while doing it…
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[@moonlightgazer4566]

Just because she's your mother and part of your family doesn't mean she can force you to try on things you're not comfortable with. We're all sorry for you. Don't let her "reasons" put you into a bad situation, we're all here for you though!

[@stefanolucchi5127]

your right

[@men_r_paul]

No shit >:(

[@demonwes1050]

U r right

[@y2xn.0]

@@men_r_paul language 💀

[@Storymaster_Luna]

Agreed

[@the_gay]

I'm so sorry for this happening to you and how hard it must be. I'm sorry for her actions and remember that you dot have to be forced to do anything. You can always talk to me bc I will always support you. Stay strong

[@vera_13]

"We're family so it's fine!" Words we all don't want to hear. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Even if they are your family they shouldn't have to force you to put something on that your not comfortable with putting on IN FRONT of them. Especially the 'sexier bras'. That's absolutely horrible. I'm sorry and I hope this NEVER happens again.

[@Z3N1TY0]

I seriously hope this stopped :( Just because she’s your mom doesn’t mean she has any right to disregard what you don’t like and force you to do what you find uncomfortable. Your mom is horrible :(( I’m here for you!!

[@NotAGachatuberLOL]

I won’t go to say her mother is « horrible » but I agree with everything else

[@objectionhemadefunofme7458]

Bro I feel for you my mom likes to have me try on new stuff In front of her but she's not this bad my mama gets it if I don't feel comfortable in it I hope u can get out of there as soon as possible

[@Tedi_Bear]

I'm so sorry that happened. You mother should have more boundaries. And the fact she said she'll get you more s3xy bras is disgusting. I know I'm a few months late. I hope you're doing better now 💞

[@CharlotteXMoon]

I'm so sorry you had to go through that next time you need to put your foot down, tell her how you actually feel and give her a BIG FAT NO! You can do it bro, I'm sorry if I'm not making it any better....💗🐱

[@peanutgolds4058]

Agreed. I hope you feel better now…

[@1243-Maria-_]

Those last two lines were DISGUSTING. I can’t believe someone’s own mother would do that to their literal child. What a horrible woman, sexualising her child. I really hope you’re doing better.

[@coldestbxtch]

BRO I THOUGHT THE START WAS NORMAL CAUSE MY MOM WANTED ME TO WEAR THEM BUT-

[@sulking3190]

I don't wanna be that person but this is relatable I hate changing in front of family its scary. I'm sorry that happened tho

[@regunachapex7838]

Just because somebody is a family member gives them absolutely no right to be able to see your body without permission. Nobody should be able to force things upon you especially your mother. I hope you never have to deal with this again but just know that people are there for you and we're here for you.

[@CloudyAngelLove]

I didn't know people related to me in this situation..... I thought I was completely alone, no one I could talk to about it. When I was around 10, I was an early bloomer. My mother asked me to get changed, so I started walking to the bedroom to get pjs on, but she stopped me and watched as she forced me to get dressed in front of her. She was watching even as I had 0 prices of clothing on, not even socks. Then she said, "I can see why you want to hide your body. I would too if I looked like that," that moment made me so insecure, I felt violated by my own mother! I don't know what to do, I didn't then either.

[@Alot_of_art20]

I can't believe that! I have a bit of advice, try to tell her how you feel, if she doesn't agree try to talk it out with her. You deserve to speak out to your mom. I am so sorry for you.

[@pandapanpan2538]

I agree, I can see her reasoning of how it’s okay for her to try on a new bra in front of her since she’s family and well saying that she’s seen her daughter in stuff like that already through out the years, but it can e very uncomfortable for her to do that. So, yea I really think she should tell her mother about how she feels since it seems like she doesn’t understand her feelings right now, hope she feels better

[@XSillygooseX]

I wish parents understood that their children can have boudaries- my mom’s a bit pushy when it comes to stuff like this but if she sees that I’m actually uncomfortable with her seeing me in such a vulnerable decision she doesn’t push my boundaries!! I hope you get out of that household as soon as possible!!

[@DragonFire9278]

I am so sorry for that happening to you if you say that you are uncomfortable then people should respect that

[@MilaSantiago-qv3nz]

I relate. It's very hard especially when they say "Why are you uncomftorable? I'm your mother." It's aggravating and it makes you really uncomftorable. Just know we're here when you need to talk ❤️

[@bunnycrybabytearzz]

Those kind of parents should learn the real meaning of a "no", istg "we are a family so that's fine" a real family understand and care about eachothers feelings, not force them something that makes someone uncomfortable with, i really hope that you're ok now

[@KaiFaulkner-vv6xu]

You deserve a better mother who doesn't force you to try on stuff that makes you fell uncomfortable.

[@pastellemons]

Ugh! I hate when people are like this. If I said no, It means NO. If I'm not comfortable, UNDERSTAND. You should be able to wear what you want! Whether you wear a bra or not, your still a good person and deserve better. I'm sorry this has happened to you!

[@MindlessConsumer.mp4]

I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope she fortunately forgets about having to buy new bras. 🤞 (Sorry, I’m not the best comforter 😞)

[@emeliaerickson990]

"we're family so it's fine" That never ends well...

[@kamsmilyer]

I’m sorry this happened to you. I understand since my mom did this to me, and I’m so sorry. No one should have to go through with this.

[@Brylie3]

I HATE when mothers do this. My mom does this too. Just know that you don't need to try om anything you don't want too! Its your choice and next time she says this tell her that your not a fan of the bras and like the ones you have now. You are a king so don't let your mother decide any differently!

[@CobyCob098]

I’m so sorry, I wish I could be there to help you, nobody should ever have to be forced to do that

[@CaeCae532]

I’m so sorry you went through that!!! I feel you! My mother always has me try on stuff in front of her.. and you looked very traumatized I’m so sorry once again..

[@mythicalwolf39]

I am so sorry. I really hope your mother has stopped doing this. And then saying that she will get you some s3xier bras to try on is awful when she can see you look really uncomfortable. I am so sorry about this and I hope you are okay. Your mother needs to learn her boundaries.

[@-zaskai-5795]

I’m sorry that happened. Please recover ok? 💗

[@-_silverbells_-]

I hate when they say that. I'm so sorry bro

[@bozo4you]

I feel you that’s my mother and sister for you I don’t know what to do with life after that incident.

[@khaulahfauzolazim7534]

Sometimes a family member can harm someone too the world is cruel place sometimes..

[@purpleanne723]

I'm *SO* sorry this happened to you, I understand this on a personal level and I think you should talk to a trusted family member or a trusted adult about this since your mom clearly won't listen to you but maybe if someone else explains it she might get it into her thick skull that just because your family doesn't mean you shouldn't have boundaries that should be taken seriously. *I AM SO SORRY* again!

[@voodoofreddy6752]

I'm sorry that this happened, she's horrible for disregarding ur feelings and forcing u to do something that's uncomfortable for u.

[@Fizzy-Lol]

I absolutely hate it when people use the phrase “we’re family” as ways to defend their side of the argument I’m truly sorry that this happened to you and since something happened to me I’m a bit familiar with the situation but once again I’m very sorry this happened.

[@Alittlecatperson]

I’m really sorry for what’s happening to you right now and she should respect your privacy and feelings, you can always talk to us about anything and we will be there by your side. I know there’s not much I can do but I will try my best.

[@literallythedevilhimself]

I don’t like changing in front of my mom, and I think that has to do with the fact one time she told me how much I was growing in my chest area, now she gets it cause I came out as trans, but that’s horrible to do to your kid, like you didn’t feel comfortable changing in front of your mom but she still made you, that’s fucked up

[@MYCLEM4T1S]

I found this on my recommended and I just got to say, I’m really sorry you have to go through this. It must be really hard and I hope she learns from this and like knows if you are uncomfortable doing something around her you do not have to do it. Even if she is your mother hope you are okay now I just saw the end I’m so sorry that must be really really traumatising seriously your mother shouldn’t even say stuff like that

[@mistynightlight9951]

I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. Although I don’t know exactly what you’re going through, I went through a similar situation with my mother as well. And it sucks. I’m so sorry you have to go through this, you don’t deserve it, we are with you though, if you ever need to talk, im here

[@Secretly_Alex]

Even though that's never happened to me I I know how it feels. I am so sorry this is happening to you and I hope things gets better on in your life 💕

[@charlottebeard6736]

They all say it's your family it's fine but they're still breaking your boundaries

[@moonthehybrid7854]

Man I’m sorry this is happening to you My mom is a little annoying and a b sometimes But she still understands when I’m uncomfortable with her being around when I change But just only that unfortunately Also the ending with the pretty boys That’s a bit disturbing if I’m going tbh I’m really sorry you have to go through this I wish I could help I really do I hope it gets better for u soon

[@IaMp30pL3]

this is horid, im so sorry you went throught that. hope your better now!

[@Baby_Girl232]

i'm so sorry that happened i got so mad when she said she was gonna get you "sexier" bras that was terrible

[@athenagray1490]

THAT WAS A VERY UNEXPECTED TWIST

[@Huh9631]

You gotta report that, people like…that are gonna ask for more, I suggest reporting it before things get possibly worse, and if not, tell another trusted adult

[@someone-zp4ji]

My mom is exactly like that- my apologies for that behaviour

[@Mdzxian]

I also feel you.. Like i am uncomfortable. My mom says "why are you uncomfortable?! I am your mother and your my daughter. Both genders and etc."..

[@isabellakarlsson53]

I'm sorry. My mom honestly acts like that too sometimes, she doesn't understand why I'm not comfortable with certain things.

[@Simpx100]

This is so annoying when moms force their daughters to do stuff like this.. Just because she's your mother doesn't mean she can force you to do stuff you're uncomfortable with doing..

[@Champion_of_Vlaakith]

I'm months late and can wholly resonate with this. A parent should respect their child's boundaries; family or not; especially if the child says to stop. I sincerely hope things work out for you :)

[@mysterymxiary1594]

I'm sorry that happened to you. She might be your mom but it still is uncomfortable.

[@lillian1904]

Reminds me, I also super uncomfortable with people seeing me like that, but your mother just mean abt it-

[@0Blue_Rose0]

No but I relate to this so much, my mother says she can take showers with me or I can change in front of her since she “birthed me” & “seen me n*ked before”. I get rlly uncomfortable like that & she would always say “are you ashamed of your mother seeing you?” & stuff like that to make me feel bad abt not changing or showering with her.

[@emily_eddsworld_fox6976]

That is just disgusting that someone would say that to you and/or not give you any privacy to put them on!

[@DemonWolfLov45]

This is when you say no. You have boundaries, you owe none of them to your family. If she says that lame excuse: "I carried you for 9 months" or "I gave birth to you" You say: "I didn't ask to be born" or "That was your choice"

[@PhionaQuitSorry]

That's actually descusting. As a girl who doesn't know her gender anymore. I hate this with every particle of my body. I hope you never have to go through that again

[@W0lfiii..x]

Im sorry this has happened..hopefully it doesn't happen again, and don't try to think about it too much or it will become more stressful and you'll worry its gonna happen again

[@Macaroni302]

God- I understand.. my mum is like that too, I hope everything has been sorted out now! :’)

[@orquideacastillonajera]

I’m sorry you passed through that girl, it’s never your fault that this happens tho ❤

[@Grag235]

I thought this wasn’t as serious, but then when I saw the end with her saying she was getting you THOSE types of bras, I was like: “Now you have officially taken it too far buddy”, cause honestly that’s just creepy

[@im_alicie]

Im sorry this happen to you you don't deserve this kinda treatment your mom should know you uncomfortable hope things get better for you

[@USER_DELETED...]

I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope stuff gets better if it hasn't already. Your mother has no right to do that to you. I hope it stops soon ❤

[@silvernevermoregaming6474]

*hugs tightly*

[@Marializ____2024]

Im so sorry of this happening to you.... I hate it of when your mom does that...

[@A.P10haveaniceday]

Honey, this subject is sensitive, I know! Your mom should make amends for the heavy words, she can't force you but I feel like she will. A family can't be perfect, despite wanting to strive for this, your mindset can be shaken and not wanting to like yourself... You are amazing! Getting support from subscribers and everything you've created...I'm sorry! I hope everything gets better in your family, in relation to your mother...you wanna scream...? Your mother must think that your problems are dramas... They are actually reasons to scold her. it sexualizes...a lot, your mother is very wrong about this... wanting your daughter to be "sexy" could be forcing you to do other things, better take care of everything that happens....anything...already know who to call!

[@Remasteredmagnolia-]

i am so srry for u , nobody deserves this , u have every right to not try them on.

[@Urmomishotxo]

I completely understand your place as I have experienced this before too, I know what it’s like and I know how uncomfortable it can be and I hope this has stopped happening for you. Stay strong and stay safe xxx 1:09

[@Faerielover]

Thats how my sister is, if I ask her to turn around or anything while I change she just looks me dead in the eyes and says "I'm your sister it doesn't matter! I'm not going to turn around."

[@gpstudios458]

Kick her ass

[@lindsayesguerra3292]

This is the same energy I get when mom makes me wear a tight shirt but when I want a loose shirt she'll say that I'll look fat I only wear loose shirts like the sleeves up to the elbow so I can cover up myself because I am aware if I wore something revealing boys would not get a hold of themselves 😞

[@mariagnaranjo1982]

That is disgusting, I'm so sorry bae, I'm here for you

[@WhatKilledTheDinosaurs]

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I can relate, my mom always makes me show her my bra to see if it’s “getting too small” and won’t take no for an answer so I get it

[@MilesCanny]

"sometimes when parents don't show true love, kids get it from somewhere else."

[@MilesCanny]

-Friday 3rd of February

[@Stevesbestie]

Oh I don’t know how this feels but I can imagine it we’re here for you

[@_TheIntrovertedArtist_]

I am so sorry about that, I sure hope you and everything gets better best whishes and good luck

[@neo1115.]

I’m so sorry :( she shouldn’t be doing that

[@PANdora95Flowers]

She ignored your feelings. She saw and knew you weren't comfortable with it and she didn't care.

[@inkykanna]

its ok say no and when she forces you keep refusing if your scared or anything dont hold back

[@LemonExists]

I feel so bad for you :( Hope your going to be ok

[@Zhunoii]

Im very sorry for all trauma that has happened to you. Some parents don't get that, 1: We don't want to show our bodies, even if you ARE our mother. 2: That we would even want bra's. Some people just don't feel comfortable wearing them and in my opinion they shouldn't be forced upon girls reaching their teenage years and up. Once again i'm very sorry that happened to you and I will be thinking of you always. Love you, /p (platonically) and I hope you heal from your trauma wounds and have a good day/night, week.. life. :) ♥

[@elenielopez6802]

Trust me my father did the same thing to me, My mother was so pissed off, My father Tried to rape me in my sleep one time but I woke up and screamed so my mom came in and they had a fight and now my mom has codify over me. But yeah I feel so so sorry for you, We here for you okay? Don’t let your mother stop you from what you don’t want to do and want to do ok? We all love yiu very much! I’ll give you all my Mexican Love! 🇲🇽🇲🇽✨✨✨🔥🔥💖💖 We’re here for you okay?

[@waynedavie5844]

I feel so bad for you even with her as a mother she cant control u and yours life!

[@peanutgolds4058]

That’s just creepy… I’m sorry you were being forced to do this…That’s just not right or fair.

[@r4e_r3gg13]

The same exact thing happened to me, im very sorry ml.

[@STR4NGERTH1NGS]

That’s NOT ok for your mom to do ily and hope your ok

[@cindygarcia2485]

I get how you feel sometimes, I can get uncomfortable like that to, and I’m sorry that happened to you and your mother should not have done that.

[@Alozie224]

dont let her do this to you we got your back

[@Hxiley317]

Sometimes,family members need to be smart. Your mom doesn't even know what 'boys' she would attract..one could be a..you know. I am sorry this is happening to you,I experienced this before. I understand what your feeling is. I hope it stopped:(

[@Kpopistherapy.]

I know how you feel and I’m sorry this happened I know that some girls get uncomfortable doing that my mom says the same thing but just know we are all here for you 🤍

[@missmooshi5471]

Im sorry your own mother expects you to follow that way. She should be able to accept how you want to be, and she shouldn't be avoiding the obvious signs that your not comfortable in the position she put you in. If she want you to try these without your acceptance, then i recommend you talk to her about it, if she still doesn't agree with you, then get someone you can rely on alot who has seen or known what she has done to you to back you up. Im sorry, this is just terrible of someone to do

[@-naomi_cats-3818]

I'm so sorry about that:(..are you feeling alright right now?? I hope you get better

[@moonrock5535]

When ever you vent to someone remember they can be bad with words or not be able to communicate as easily, for me it’s like that, I have hard times saying sorry but mainly just know that sometimes silence is how some people communicate certain things, also I can understand at least a little, I hope I don’t invalidate you at all by saying this but I have certain restrictions on very werid things even with family

[@Hakari.._.]

I am so sorry about your mom but you got this you will stay strong through this awful time with your mom.

[@AlioRBLX]

That happened to me too dont worry you are safe now i shall protect you

[@sodashaw4350]

Im so sorry that happened i wish I could do more to help stay strong 💖

[@castiel8426]

Oh my god! I hope she's stopped doing this! Fight back, don't agree because it is NOT okay. Even if she's your mother, she shouldn't be putting you in uncomfortable situations. Her comments are also horrible! Your mother really shouldn't be saying these things at all. I hope you're alright, and thank you for sharing your experience. I don't have experience here, but many people do, and it'll be great for them to know they're not alone! Same goes for you, you're not the only one who will go through this, so try to remember that next time you feel like it's just you out there. And remember, me and everyone in the comments will always be here to support you. Lots of Love, Your Neighborhood Raiden Main

[@stupidity_lolzzz]

Am so sorry you have to go through that :

[@katsukibakugo3215]

okay but why does my mum do this too? like wtf is wrong with those mums (who do this), they seriosuly need to stop this is why i dont trust any of my parents anymore. like im not comofrtable so dont force me? simple. really feel for you, you will make it through this and leave when you can. stay strong.

[@Skeetalz]

Don't worry. My grandma just straight up burged into the bathroom even if I'm butt naked showering. I told her to get out and she said the same thing as your mother. You are not alone 👍 stay strong

[@_angel_flyhightwee]

I’m so sorry. You never deserve this. I hope you the best. And not overwork yourself get all the breaks you can get!

[@sparrow2525]

*hugs*

[@TemsAccepted]

Omg, my mom has said that to me before.. I kind of know how that might feel and I’m so sorry.

[@beanyfield]

I hope you are ok am I am really sorry you have to go through this I hope you are ok are we are all here for you