I Cheated On My Boyfriend 3 Years Ago And Slipped It In A Heated Argument To Shut Him Up. Now, He...

[@miceltusav88]

Remember ladies, it may have been in the past, but when your man finds out, it just happened

[@MONKEYDZETS]

Thank u

[@Vipershadow1]

Tuh 🎯

[@Vipershadow1]

Tuh 🎯

[@Bigotsandwich1995]

Bruh, that isn't even how this one works. She didn't tell him because she felt guilty she threw it in his face to hurt him in a petty fight

[@Frightmarelordofthenightmares]

Its not in THE PAST. Just because she managed to get away with it for a few years doesnt mean anything

[@LAOCHPadre]

She didn't black out. She knew what she was doing and just suppressed the memories so she wouldn't feel too guilty about it. Total headcase.

[@markanthony1004]

😂 is she serious? She seems too immature for a relationship

[@theexpertbc1175]

Being too immature for a relationship in your mid 40s is absolutely insane 😂

[@devhxh1558]

STORY 2: Hope she stays on the words and stays the hell away from OP. He deserves better and this woman is clearly delulu.

[@bloodypingas4356]

Story 2's Op is going to be single forever if she keeps this up

[@frgmented-dreams6140]

"I enjoy being a part of society but refuse to use societal standards as a yardstick for my humor or personality." It's really the real reason mean girls in primary school carry on as mean women.

[@Angel_Arika]

@@bloodypingas4356good, don’t bring that toxicity around any other man please!

[@luizoliveira7595]

Ok, but the guy is a little b. ...hiding behind her is a bitc# move.

[@shadout]

S1 She weaponised her own cheating against him in an argument. It was obviously not nothing.

[@crystalgemgirl731]

Seriously? Her world is burning down around her and she STILL doesn't see what she did?

[@sacredseraphim3987]

Story 2 had me cracking up. Here OP has 2 people who "showed" her what it was to be a man telling her what being a man is supposed to be, and she just says "Nah, I'm good".

[@moniquegilder4419]

I was basically thinking the same thing. The fact that her mom, dad, and brothers were all on Mark‘s side, says a lot about what she did. The fact that the “real men“ in her life told her no I understand why he left you is crazy to me. Well I like the most about what her brother said was how being a man doesn’t mean they don’t have feelings and all they do is throw punches.

[@patriciajosephs3881]

Never go full retard. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@lohrenobrien4676]

Story 2: You’re a terrible wife and we’re all glad he got some sense and left you. He did run away from his problem and it was you. The fact that you have taken absolutely no accountability, even when your family told you you were wrong proves that you’re the problem and lack all self awareness to be in a happy relationship. You’ll find your strong, brave man and he’ll probably beat the breaks off you.

[@MrBrachiatingApe]

I truly hope this is rage-bait. I truly hope that human beings like this don't exist. The levels of entitlement, shaming, cope, and self-righteous self-justification are at satire levels. The way she goes from getting shocked by his divorce papers to acting like *she* left *him* and it was *her* choice? I seriously find it nauseating that a person with this little self-awareness, self-accountability, and delusional cope actually existed.

[@cocothedino_2901]

@@MrBrachiatingApeive met a person very similar to this woman, not only are they majorly egotistical bullies, these types are usually INCREDIBLY over sensitive to boot. i guarentee that shit is probably all real and if she ever walked in on her husband joking about her shit cooking or something she wouldve turned into a raging banshee and would have seen no problem with it. based on her brothers and dads comments about her now ex husband gaining self respect, shes likely known to them as a bully, but she will only ever see herself as a victim to everyone else around her. some people genuinely rely on deluding themselves into seeing the situation as a total 180 just to preserve their sense of self. its sad really. if they ever saw their true selves in the mirror theyd probably have a psychotic break

[@HeoBaby24]

if people think "real man" are supposed to always throw punches and be emotionless zombies. don't come complaining in 10 years about how your relationship is shit

[@rugr82day]

S2: She was never in a life or death situation to know if her husband could be brave. If he's scared of dogs that was his instinct. It was not harmless jokes, she was enjoying being the center of attention. Now she has to convince herself she was in the right. Her friends agreeing are just blowing smoke, they're probably talking about her behind her back. If she had instead said how sweet and considerate her husband was, and mentioned his positives I'm sure some of the women would be envious. OP is wrong to think her husband is weak. A weak man would have stayed with her even after getting humiliated and disrespected. I'm glad her husband was strong enough to leave. Hopefully he'll find a woman who's deserving of him.

[@naughtyhieroglyph669]

Knowing women, what will happen is her "friends" will be trying to get with her husband. Modern women are crabs in a bucket. You see hollywood feel good stories of women helping each other, but those are works of fiction.

[@moniquegilder4419]

I feel as though she was stupid to badmouth her husband to her group of friends because at the end of the day she is now the probably the only single one in her group of friends. All of them can you know be on her side and try to help with boosting her confidence but all of them still have THEIR relationships. I bet that her girlfriends are not bad mouthing their significant others to her like how she spoke down on her significant other to them. I feel as though they were not laughing with her they were laughing at her

[@MrBrachiatingApe]

She's so unused to be called out for anything that she cannot handle being in the wrong--notice how she immediately starts acting like *she* was the dumper, not the dumpee? And how she pretends to be fine that her dad and brother, and her husband's brother are all telling her that she's wrong, that she doesn't care? Cope and inability to admit when she's wrong. She's honestly such a disgusting slug of a barely human being that I hope the story is rage-bait.

[@MrBrachiatingApe]

@@moniquegilder4419 If she's real and that delusional, that terrified of any accountability, that terrified of being in the wrong that she immediately dismisses what every man in her life says, says she's fine with not knowing how her family relationships will be going forward, and starts pretending as though she was the one who chose to end the relationship...? Then her friends are probably delusional and foolish enough to think that telling her what her pride wants to hear in the moment is better than telling her a hard, painful truth that will help her grow into a better person and avoid spoiling all future relationships (which she's 100% on track to do.) But hey, that's part and parcel of the crisis of modern Western femininity: everybody protecting women's feelings at the expense of everything else until our society as a whole is in danger of demographic collapse.

[@Redesign24]

What 40 year old woman invites her nephew amd friends to her friends "wine night"

[@igncom1]

The same kind as a 40 year old man who invites his niece and her friends to his friends "beer night."

[@chriscarr7397]

"NO!" I don't believe for a moment that this was a one-time thing.

[@RepellentJeff]

Story 2: Uhh…why did she even marry him when it’s clear she straight-up hates his guts? It feels like her and her friends are the clique of high school mean girls who never bothered to grow up. And she shouldn’t worry. Her next boyfriend will be _exactly_ what she wants in a man, and before long she’ll be wondering why he’s so abusive. 🤪

[@williamrosmer8381]

Probably money

[@MONKEYDZETS]

​@@williamrosmer8381 Duh lol

[@artemislove2941]

That’s actually so disgusting. She basically took advantage of her friends nephew.

[@juliearmfield2634]

Story 2. Yta. I can guarantee this is not the first time she's cut him down and humiliated him. Even her family knows what a cold hearted witch she is. At least he's only marriage only 6 months and they do not have any children. Now maybe he can find someone that truly does deserve such a wonderful man

[@L4zyBumone]

Story 1: So... she remember just enough to both stroke her ego and hurt OP? Such an interesting phenomenon, I hope I could achieve this ability of selective amnesia

[@heyyitsjanea]

“i got hit with something i never saw coming” accountability??

[@overlord1ful]

People please stop using exclusivity in the context of relationships. If you agree to start dating then you are automatically exclusive, it doesn't need to be stated.

[@AA-ed6ek]

Exactly.

[@SneeDarr]

Clearly even stating it doesn't mean shit for the GF in that story.

[@miceltusav88]

Clearly it did need to be stated, given how people cheat on one another

[@MrSqurk]

@@miceltusav88People swear to their Gods that they will be faithful and still cheat.

[@MaryJane-ln3vv]

I know of a couple that got divorced 40+ because he found out his wife was a 304 in college. There is no time limit on cheating.

[@sdev88]

Dude is only 36, needs to leave her ASAP!

[@rmhartman]

"holding on to the past" for you it was three years ago, for him he just found out

[@oneuup2490]

1st story: if you were soooo drunk then you wouldn't have remembered how he looked who he was where he was where you did it at. You are so drunk that you remember kicking him out and getting him an Uber drive home. Sure you were. She had a toy.

[@Nicho_Ldn]

S2: Passable ragebait, i suppose. We all know there are partners out there who like to “own the moment” at the expense of their significant other and show zero remorse, however.

[@goldyd144]

Yeah, the writing is feeling a little too unnecessarily cruel to sound real to me. It's creative and almost passable though!

[@MrBrachiatingApe]

I hope you're right, cuz damn, I feel a little sick to my stomach knowing I'm inadvertently sharing a planet with such vile excuses for humanish beings.

[@404Kiwi]

A husband shouldn't have to defend himself from his own wife's ridicule. If you really couldn't think of any brave moments of his don't belittle him, instead bring up his good qualities. I would have slammed the door on my friend if he talked to me like that after I tried to help him. Tell him through the door don't cry to me when his wife cheats on him again.

[@fl-ri-]

Americans are so tiring in the way they write about stuff. This girl you've been with cheated on you and you're still writing sentimental crap like "I still love her with everything I have". Really, there's not a single part of you that is disgusted and not in love with her?

[@marcushallin4594]

21:06 if your family is on the husband's side you should know that you are in the wrong. Waiting for a post in a year or two complaining being in a toxic relationship and missing how caring and loving Mark was

[@markconner5341]

Yeah she about to get passed around by Chad and Tyrone, and slapped around when she runs her stupid mouth

[@geminiblue]

In the end, Mark showed he WAS a "real man" when he calmly walked away from that disrespectful woman. No "real man" is gonna sit around & take disrespect & disloyalty with a grin

[@MrBrachiatingApe]

She might very well complain, but I can guarantee that if this isn't pure rage-bait, then any follow-up post will be a "where have all the good men gone" whine-fest where she first blames Mark and then all men for having feelings, not checking her actions or "communicating", and for not blindly supporting her delusions at the expense of reality itself. If she does anything better, it would mean she actually learns something from this, and...nah. As long as her idiot friends continue to gas her up and she continues to believe what women say men think because it's convenient--rather than listening to what men say men think because it's uncomfortable...(and generally demanding the universe rearrange itself to suit her feelings and the people in her life keep her safe in a bubble of adolescent delusion)...then she's never growing up, never maturing, and will soon have a string of failed relationships behind her that's so massive we'll have to refer to it as 'cargo' rather than 'baggage.' For which she'll write an embittered article, childless and thrice-divorced, age 38, whining about where all the good men have gone, and blaming first Mark, and then all men collectively, for not forcing her to grow up and take accountability for herself.

[@nicknitro86]

She was disgusted, remorseful (lie), blah blah blah. Must be why she cheated.

[@jasonramsey1493]

ST 2: Why did you marry him then?

[@sdev88]

S2: Wow OP hates her husband damn. EDIT: got to the update i really hope this is fake. this woman sounds horrible.

[@rugr82day]

Denial is a thing. Some people have to convince themselves they are right and will never accept responsibility.

[@KayyyRae]

Lol blacked out and can't remember my ass. She can contact her ex friend if she really wanted to find the guy.

[@mikea491]

S2: "What could I have said?" Nothing. You could have kept your mouth shut. God damn.

[@ComaLies225]

OP in story 2 is a huge SeeYouNextTuesday. So your partner isn’t brave? Okay, there are some scenarios where being a brave partner isn’t advisable. She mocked him and she’s upset he didn’t find it funny? Shocker….

[@JordanDavila]

The way she drooled for her bil is a clear sign she wanted him but Mark was just a second choice or a throwaway so she can get near to his brother

[@elisonholace4033]

Story 2, OP is gonna come back complaining that her new man is a controlling, stubborn asshole who doesn't treat her nice.

[@TheColombianSpartan]

Story 2L Damn this woman is callous. Good on the husband for divorcing her

[@gregorycottone6288]

I am just going to put this here, if your response during a fight isn't to try to stop it using healthy methods I don't think you should be in a relationship

[@trevsdead]

Oh yea mark dodged a bullet you can clearly tell heres the thing LMAO only 6 months married? Shes been a menace ever since they tied the knot personality prolly did a 180 right after the wedding the party was most likely marks breaking point and hes been cataloguing the whole relationship cause I cannot understand how someone can divorce right after without a fight or words being thrown they def have talked about some issues in the past and when that shit happened in public he was like yup thats it theres no other way. She def witholding info and shes blind af if she thought the party was the only reason he ditched her ass

[@WTC-1990]

Story 2: she wouldn't like it if he started going on about her failures. Her family sees that she's the problem and she doesn't like it

[@andreavanhoof6047]

Story 1: You need to leave her because she did what she did to hurt you during an argument!

[@nobody-px7pz]

Story 2. She better not call her brothers or father when she finds that "Strong Man" that she needed so bad when he is strong manning her face into a wall.

[@Elmerweird818]

STORY 2: She is insufferable and the most callous person I’ve ever heard in a long while.

[@aquawavefist]

Story one is messed up, I was gonna say maybe they could try to work through it, but she used it in a fight to hurt him. Gotta get away from that one.

[@STB-jh7od]

Adults don't just make out.

[@RaizelSX]

2nd problem she not only cheated but she wanted to hurt him so badly she in their argument she the it at him

[@kevinmorrill8342]

Why marry him in the first time place then. Op sounds toxic

[@nehpets216]

S1: She cheated, hid it, and then threw it in his face in an argument. What else has she hidden? His description of how she acted afterwards makes it clear that she's lied about other things, and didn't care about anything she did until there were consequences. S2: Overreacting? OP clearly had no idea what she was doing or cared at all. Then OP just kept digging. Update: Escalated? "Harmless Jokes"? She's not ready for a relationship with anyone. Her friends are just as horrid as she is.

[@terrieBTSOT7]

S2: she is the problem

[@Skelta638]

Holy accountability Batman!

[@edgarallanalejandro641]

Pretty sure the lady in the second story is the type that gets offended when she's the one getting humiliated.

[@cashwat210]

A woman in her forties acts like this? Just leave buddy it’s only up from here.

[@Nicho_Ldn]

S1: This one is all over the place. The intro was from her perspective and then suddenly he started talking. None of the decision-making really adds up either. They both come across as too stupid to be credible.

[@Dolomite78]

Once a cheater always a cheater. I'm sure it wasn't her only time cheating.

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

Story 1 this op Let's hope he wakes up. No one but him believes she has been loyal ever since that incident but him. Story 2 ragebait or not this happens a lot, she is the kind of person that uses disrespect as a means to connect with her friends glad the ex walked away. Story 3 ahh the classic never shoot the messenger story his friend is a spineless simp Charming White Knight doormat that blamed him rather than his cheating gf

[@cat_03tv]

Story 2: Man, the wife should be SO grateful that the guy wasn't the type to get physical... and I get the feeling she's full-on delusional

[@cornbread12987]

Story 2 is a real story in the sense that it could happen.

[@SJ-xh1li]

Her saying she “doesn’t remember”? Yeah, before the naked wake reveal it was obvious that she slept with him.

[@darkstorm5388]

Story 2: and thus, another man was broken by a woman that didn't deserve him.

[@rmhartman]

why would you ever bring that up in a fight??

[@alwaysright3943]

Story 1: Textbook desperate dude. If he had options he would leave her yesterday.

[@cj_.44._cf]

@secretvoices where did story 2 come from? I wanna hear more and laugh at the delusion 😂

[@Abuakasilkyjohnson]

The dad has himself to blame

[@andreavanhoof6047]

Story 2: You are an awful person OP! If you thought he was such a coward then you should never have married him! He is not overreacting; he will not get over it! He is done! He is not being dramatic, and you did insult him! He is angry because he was humiliated and belittled your spouse! Those jokes are not harmless! I love the fact that the older brother told off OP! I am glad that OPs family did not sympathize with her but instead gave her a stern lecture on how she treated Mark was wrong! No, you are not the one that Mark does not need!

[@minutemuse]

Story #1: I don’t believe the “blackout drunk” excuse for a moment. If that were the case why use it as ammunition in an argument? She cheated and was well-aware of it. And if she was able to cheat when they were supposedly madly in love, what’s stopping her from doing it again now that things aren’t sunshine and roses anymore?

[@sinpourmoi2765]

The guy was hot, come’on!!!?

[@willgroody5296]

Story 2 these stories make me laugh immature women don’t mind slagging off their partners when they’re round the cauldron with each other, but go mad if the guys do that. From what op says she has both heightened self importance with touches of insecurity. She said how she felt great being able to contribute to the group discussion for once, wanting her families approval, but then also overtly justifies her behaviour what’s funny is she goes on about having her friends, either they’ll distance or be just as bitter as can’t imagine their partners putting up with their coven netting’s of slagging off their partners either

[@VR00100]

S2 : OP is a modern woman wanting a trad man 😂

[@henryfebrino1873]

Women will be women

[@Sleepy-_-420_]

He didn't want to sit around and be insulted and for that he's a coward I mean I guess

[@Angel_Arika]

I would really hope to hear an update in the furture for the second story. Reality would soon set in for her when she realizes the only man that would want her with that kind of mindset are the toxic, abusive ones😭 11:35

[@Monkey_Fru]

W dad in second story

[@RobinRobertsesq]

Shifting POV shows its badly written AI.

[@VRDejaVu]

Story 1: so... No one is gonna talk about the age difference? About how he was in someone else's house without transportation? How the friend even left to let her have her way? She is a predator, pure and simple.

[@Killahbee168]

I'm sorry Story 2 got to be the dumbest op so he's a weak man because he don't accept disrespect and taking inspiration from your dad and brothers about being a strong man

[@cornbread12987]

She "blacked out"

[@DNAViation2097]

S1, didn't even give a proper ending. Did I just waste time listening to that one?

[@ShockWavelml]

S2: ☕️

[@MONKEYDZETS]

How weak can he be he left ur rude butt

[@Finn-po4kt]

Why are redditors obsessed with sharing everyones age? "The she woke up witha text from a friend 48F that said..." like come on

[@grahn3878]

Story 2 toxic woman

[@madsli]

I am unsure, was it during the honeymoon phase or not?

[@moniquegilder4419]

For the second story, they were not laughing with this woman. They were laughing at this woman. They are probably thinking that she was out of her mind to be making fun of her husband in front of them. I would be laughing because I would think that the person who is trying to embarrass their significant other is stupid And you are some of a stupid person to still be with someone like that if you are not happy with them. She is a dummy because how can you not see that disrespecting your significant other does not make your friends look at your significant other and a negative light. It makes you seem like you’re a hard person to put up with and you are the villain in the story that you’re trying to tell. And it makes it even worse that OP and her husband were only married for six months.

[@jimmy1329-l6e]

S2 What did she actually do wrong tho? Not lie?

[@ShockWavelml]

Videos do better when the OP is likeable bro

[@Redesign24]

Dump that

[@iwanttocomment8966]

S1 : Hahahaha, women. S2 : Hahahaha, men.

[@iwanttocomment8966]

2nd edit, nvm woman from S2 is an AH, it's obvious she shouldn't be inna relationship with anyone.

[@ianesgrecia8568]

@iwanttocomment8966 so its S1: Hahaha women. and S2: haahha women?

[@HeoBaby24]

yo can you stop posting fake reddit stories? or post the links to the stories?

[@hhMexicanJoker]

Lmao chick in story 2 will have a great future alone with her cats

[@CrystallizedBlood1]

S2: That's the spirit. Learn nothing.

[@roarkthehalf-orc6598]

Story 2 is a C U Next Tuesday

[@FreyjaRKim]

The story about OOP calling her (now ex) husband is wild 😂 my partner is constantly mocked by his childhood friends for being cowardly, but for me, it's so adorable and I am happy to protect him even if it was about a single harmless spider because I grew up too fearless for my own good. 😂 Her family is such a green flag, though. Who raised her because she is the only red flag in there 😂

[@jld12er30]

she was probably coddled by her family as the only daughter to two brothers and eventually became friends with the mean girls in school and never grew out of it. I think her ex husband might have just not been good with dogs which is why he was afraid of them and she might be good with them kind of like me, one time my mom saw this dog in our neighborhood and it was angry so she shoved me in front of it and i just knelt down and calmed it down in seconds and the dog turned out to be very loving it was just scared is all so maybe the woman is just better with dogs than her ex so he used that to try and calm it down. TBH i think that woman should stay away from relationships she is not ready for them if this is how she treats her partner.

[@Emil_LLscpfan]

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[@SecretVoices25]

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