Im a married man and have been for 30 years but im thinking its on the last leg as i comment. Please keep me in prayer
@teffanyulmer-allen652 жыл бұрын
Amen! “It’s better to be alone to be married wrong!”
@SheriCarthan-MinistryHelp2 жыл бұрын
“She don’t need you for your money; she needs you for your ministry!” ❤❤❤🙌🏽
@juanitademaat93592 жыл бұрын
@cuttsupisit2 жыл бұрын
I love my selfishness but I have plenty of opportunities to help more than most and I love it.. I just wish my extended family stop trying to tell me that I need someone... They don't hear me and I stopped allowing that conversation on the table for discussion...I accepted their decision for marriage and family and I just wish I could get the same respect for my decisions on being single... I'm not missing nothing... Marriage is not right for some of us... I don't want that kind of work and trust me, I'm not jealous... I'm not made for that... I'm at peace with my life and love it..
@richpeeps5152 жыл бұрын
@@cuttsupisit I've been in the same position you have and your family is NOT going to let that go because they feel like getting married and having children is part of how you grow as a person.
@richpeeps5152 жыл бұрын
@@cuttsupisit the previous generations believed that we weren't a complete person until we were married with children.
@lindacarter80502 жыл бұрын
WOW!!!! you spoke the truth on singleness and marriage,, keep it going..
@WAMOEMinistries2 жыл бұрын
I stay single because I will not settle just for anyone. So I wait in His presence. I’m a divorcee was married to a preacher. Later realized the marriage was based on lies, deception and abuse.
@marshalea6632 жыл бұрын
I'm single and happy 😊 to be single I have been single for a while and l like it
@latonynapou11592 жыл бұрын
Most women are single because they refuse to settle! Its rough in these streets! I feel my patience will pay off and God is working on both of us!
@SheriCarthan-MinistryHelp2 жыл бұрын
Amen. I’m in agreement with you!
@queengirl92072 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!☺️🙌🏽 I feel ya! So glad that I can feel the joy and peace in God alone!
@BellaKayeLLard2 жыл бұрын
Amen ❤️
@nimo45032 жыл бұрын
I’m divorced so I know what it feels like to be married and miserable. I refuse to settle. I desire marriage with the right one. And I really want to be married. I’ve been single for almost 20 years. But I refuse to settle.
@MissMent2B Жыл бұрын
Took me a while but now I’m on it and got to do it with God instead of against his way(s) …. I’m sold!!
@MsDera812 жыл бұрын
This is the REALIST message EVER! I wish more Pastors were like this. For years I've been trying to get people to understand this. The ones telling people to "hang on and be strong" are the ones who have forgotten how agonizing constant sexual frustration can be.
@ahsiekli30042 жыл бұрын
Lord I wish I heard this years ago but I am divorced and glad I have peace. I rather be alone because I did marry wrong. Being free is the best thing in this season of my life.
@Bigtruck-em1gc Жыл бұрын
Stay with the Lord, praying for you.
@carolinthomasboyd2025 Жыл бұрын
Me too. I’m divorced and so much better for it!! Nothing better than getting your peace back
@macoshal.brewer42302 жыл бұрын
Amen! I'm single and I''ve been saying this for years! I refuse to get married and divorced.
@shannelnewton9236 Жыл бұрын
I would rather be single than married wrong.. I just want to hang out and talk about real life with the word, joy, laughs with the hard truth. Love you and your wife… this is real… 🙌🏾🔥🔥💃🏽💃🏽🙋🏽♀️ 5:16
@jhanelpalmer66255 ай бұрын
I’m from Baltimore Pastor ! I love this BibleCast ♥️
@AB2025-b9v2 ай бұрын
Loving this RAW teaching, Dr Vernon .?Thank You! And your family 🙏❤️
@ashleybrown74252 жыл бұрын
This was so good! I am single and just turned 29. I love being single but I am a devoted christian and believe in saving myself for marriage. I can testify it is hard! My husband will actually be my first encounter. I love that singleness allows me to better myself. I'm in graduate school and working on my real estate business. However, like the pastor says the desires are there. But I refuse to live in sin and marry wrong. God shall keep me lol !
@joycewatt8002 жыл бұрын
@Ashley Brown If you keep that mindset He will. Blessings to you 😊 31:09
@ashleybrown74252 жыл бұрын
@@joycewatt800 Thanks Joyce for the encouragement. Blessings to you to !
@deborahbrown8570 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Vernon. You are so real. Thanks to you and 1st Lady.
@PastorNancyPerez2 жыл бұрын
Keep it real, thank you. 😊 sold out not a sell out. Using my body as a living sacrifice . He healed me from perversion and prostitution. Hallelujah.
@DoctorCarrieHall Жыл бұрын
Tulsa Oklahoma, needs you and your wife Doctor Vernon.
@beverleyelliott-butcher4900 Жыл бұрын
IT'S ABSOLUTELY AN AMAZING GIFT !!!
@EvangelistCharlette Жыл бұрын
CHICAGO AREA................. ❤
@IAmStillGodsProverbs31Woman2 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! In 15minutes with these phones,apps,&computers….. devices etc!
@vickynakatana-r3o Жыл бұрын
Thank for the Gift.which God give you to teacher is paster be blessed all they time
@foxidee5 Жыл бұрын
I loved it! I am going to look at MORE of your Podcast! Preach that word & talk that talk! June 23,.2023....(Trenton, NJ). Blessing...😊❤
@estherk1558 Жыл бұрын
I love the way you love your wife and how you talk about her.❤
@ezershalom9690 Жыл бұрын
I LOVE THIS PODCAST.... BRINGIT Doc RAV...You Telling the 100% TRUTH!!
@teffanyulmer-allen652 жыл бұрын
Real Talk Pastor!!!❤❤❤❤❤Elkhart, Indiana
@shannelnewton9236 Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏾the question is will the brother bend his knee… any will bend you.. see you preaching the truth. Will he value you… getting the book. Looking forward to the conference tour… let’s talk straight.. I’m singled and saved and I care about sin.
@jenniferfarmer23202 жыл бұрын
My marriage is my gift to me from God
@edithhall78312 жыл бұрын
Singleness is a gift that I enjoy proudly and enjoy wealth and riches in my home blessed and highly favored thanks Dr Vernon great message for married and single people
@shildablakeney6576 Жыл бұрын
You Preaching I'm Single and Love my Singleness Saved Season Saints
@nzimadmz71312 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@AudriLew Жыл бұрын
One of the realest I’ve heard explain this in the most understanding context. Keep teaching us! 🗣️
@daphenernorwood2 жыл бұрын
Yes sir! It’s better to be alone….
@beemoore92582 жыл бұрын
But we're not here to be alone, "Help-mate"
@shildablakeney6576 Жыл бұрын
You in the vein, talking real good Preach the Truth /word... Amen
@mafabe1da2 жыл бұрын
I love this podcast. Georgia
@shondaeblessed Жыл бұрын
I love this podcast, The truth has been told...Dallas, tx
@pamelasapp5925 Жыл бұрын
I love this Podcast from Florida.
@annettebell1168 Жыл бұрын
Omg.this pod cast is soooo real . I thank you Pastor Vernon for explaining things from the spiritual side and carnal side and have scripture to show for those who are Christians. What a blessing
@teffanyulmer-allen652 жыл бұрын
Real Talk Pastor!!!❤❤❤❤❤
@darnellcollier8391 Жыл бұрын
YES, IT IS A Gift i value from GOD!!!
@angelladavis9154 Жыл бұрын
Good conversation Dr. Vernon
@angelinanelson7486 Жыл бұрын
Dr.Vernon this a bless topic of all levels as you talk about relationships of all ages and walks of life and cultures too I want to say you talk different from any other pastor no pastor ever talk the way you talk when it comes to all kinds of relationships but Dr.Vernon and your beautiful bless wife are a awesome bless couple so Dr.Vernon you and your family have a happy healthy bless happy new year of 2024 of your family stay safe and well in Jesus name
@Sheilzdarlingz2 жыл бұрын
"You right ' watching from South Africa
@sarahgoss2655 Жыл бұрын
So true rather be alone than married wrong.
@cloteamack428 Жыл бұрын
Break it down quickly, pastor!!! I am content alone until the RIGHT person comes. I see my friends who are married wrong, and it gives me even more strength and resolve to WAIT IF the Lord says HE wants me to be married....
@WAMOEMinistries2 жыл бұрын
On point about Paul’s teachings. Much of it is misinterpreted in the church. Thank you for clarity.
@KingLatt Жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾Columbus OH
@611mellissa2 жыл бұрын
I respect how much he respects his wife. Nowadays these pastors sleep with everything moving
@ABrooksCupid2 жыл бұрын
Men AND Women!!!
@cococabana19322 жыл бұрын
@@ABrooksCupid This one here talking probably is too. You see what Bishop Eddie Long was doing. I don't trust any of them. These folk be using churches as storefronts.
@foreverhealed37572 жыл бұрын
My husband is a gift!
@jadastewart84302 жыл бұрын
Jacksonville Florida 📍 this is good
@louisegambrel84612 жыл бұрын
This is good teaching
@clairephipps1689 Жыл бұрын
Plain, Real, Biblical. 🎉❤. Wish every Christian was this honest and open. The TRUTH is always liberating and fruitful one way or the other🙏🏾👑💃🏾
@pattywashington4099 Жыл бұрын
You are really teaching about marriage and being single.
@LaQuandaBrabson2 жыл бұрын
Lord have mercy!
@fdoctor792 жыл бұрын
Yes being single is a GIFT and requires discipline. If a man want you he'll pursue you. What will he find when he finds you?
@tatianadaniel3569 Жыл бұрын
Is a man qualified for what he finds? It's a two way street.
@nikkiaasante83 Жыл бұрын
This message was so powerful. I’m divorced and waiting for God to send me my forever . 2nd time around…. Divorce will not be an option. I’m disappointed that I never had the chance to visit your church. From Columbus, Ohio and just relocated to Phoenix . AZ. Please come visit ❤
@louveniadavis Жыл бұрын
I agree with you on that matter
@sugarkanem.ed.67912 жыл бұрын
Yessssssssssssss, Dr. Vernon! Mic drop! Best Podcast/Bible cast on SINGLES ever! Why do I say this? You spoke the truth! You spoke biblical truth! I can identify with almost everything you said as a happy, attractive, educated, single, saved, satisfied woman. Thanks for dissecting the words of Paul. Thanks for that clear thesis statement. Bring us a part 2, Pastor. Holy Spirit spoke through you! I'm lovin' it!
@marygranke20410 ай бұрын
Sumter, South Carolina.
@paulineroberson73872 жыл бұрын
I love this podcast Sandersville, Georgia
@joycebrown47762 жыл бұрын
Amen, Amen, & Amen, Praise GOD
@sharonlawrence21242 жыл бұрын
Off the chain you are Pastor - real word for real people in real time ❤
@andrer13372 жыл бұрын
Amen Pastor
@oscarlanewhitworth64952 жыл бұрын
She needs you for your ministry, I like that Pastor!!! I like the rawness!!
@diahnn.lewoodie9699 Жыл бұрын
Amen, 😊 Can I Testify..? (GOD).. is more than Enough ,Jesus is my Companion my peace,my joy,Trust me His grace is Sufficient
@ms.brooks27292 жыл бұрын
Pop up on us in DETROIT, Dr. Vernon and Please bring your beautiful wifey!!! 😁🙏🏽🙌🏽💞 The youth need to hear this!!!
@bettydavis79042 жыл бұрын
It's a Gift that is valuable !
@cloteamack428 Жыл бұрын
FACTS. THANK YOU! I will definitely check out the in-laws in depth....
@hevinamber2 ай бұрын
This dude is hilarious ❤😂
@karenp79782 жыл бұрын
This is a powerful message. I'm divorced and waiting patiently for God to send me His choice for my husband to be. I married wrong the first time. The next time will be my last time. Until death separates us.
@victoriouspinkministries32792 жыл бұрын
Same☝🏃♀️
@kerrybullard76312 жыл бұрын
I definitely married wrong...now I will truly wait on God the second time around..
@harrietmoton19412 жыл бұрын
I was in a abusive relationship and marriage for far too long I finally got a divorce now I’m waiting on Jesus to pick the perfect man just for me and live my life with love to a man who loves me and I love him and we both love God🙏❤️❤️
@lisapleas15022 жыл бұрын
You married wrong cause God wasn't in it.that was your choice, but now you are patiently waiting . Ummmm.
@lisapleas15022 жыл бұрын
@harrietmoton1941 Wow, waiting for Jesus to pick him ummm Sweetie Jesus isn't coming back anytime soon . Secondly, we all should have God in us to decide upon major things l. Now you need Jesus to pick your mate. What if he did do this favor for you? How would you know if there would be a letter sent to you first regarding his pick, or will your intuition kick in ? Stop it
@joettahouse26212 жыл бұрын
Amen, I did not get married until I was 30.
@miriamcropper52802 жыл бұрын
I was 55 & glad I waited until I was ready didn’t want to mess up!!!!
@kathymack56532 жыл бұрын
Come to Knoxville TN. We would ❤️ to have you and Lady Vernon ❤️
@estherk1558 Жыл бұрын
Lovin your content from Korea❤
@bettyhenderson20902 жыл бұрын
Thank God for marriage
@deborahbrown8570 Жыл бұрын
He is right.
@patrickvwilkins73642 жыл бұрын
Christ is definitely on his way back
@sandrawoods57woods89 Жыл бұрын
Been there done that. Married Wrong. Learn alot from that wrong marriage. Don't ever want to do that again. Singleness has been an interesting journey and a Blessing. Don't know if I want to be married again. What I know is this journey of Singleness fits me for now. Waiting on God next move in my life. Jeremiah 29:11.
@nekam.3216 Жыл бұрын
He's right!
@marchelleclark57714 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@Thenameisbri2 жыл бұрын
This was a word I needed this pastor thank you 🙌🏽
@DrbridgetteTJ2 жыл бұрын
This was truly a blessing Dr. Vernon! Thank you for your candid conversation. Come to Houston Texas!
@jamesjacobs5922 жыл бұрын
And after he's done in Houston Texas, he can come right on over to Birmingham Alabama lol. This was awesome Dr._B!!
@bluexhale42 жыл бұрын
Agree, but after Houston...DFW!
@chillycity88852 жыл бұрын
I receive the message I got from this content Amen
@fairburngordonstephanie53982 жыл бұрын
This is a Great biblecast! Blessings from Atlanta.
@kimjesus48292 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a gift 🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁 yes and the enemy wants to keep you single ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@therapymusictv68222 жыл бұрын
Pastor As a divorced man with children. Thank you for this real real talk for us. Thank you Bless you !! Luv u bro 🙏🏾💯😊
@shenquejames75982 жыл бұрын
Teach Dr.Vernon teach the word real strong!!!
@dawnpalmer72572 жыл бұрын
Such great words of wisdom. Bless you Pastor and your wife. ❤️❤️
@dawnwilliams76932 жыл бұрын
I’ve been blessed with a gift!!!
@aliymawalker36282 жыл бұрын
It’s a Gift…Gods Thanksgiving Blessings Word Church Family💜
@dennislee4868 Жыл бұрын
Love you Brun keep it real always especially on touching LOL!!!!!!
@deloresspruill13832 жыл бұрын
Thank u for this podcast! 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
@WAMOEMinistries2 жыл бұрын
Having intimacy with the Lord is a very beautiful thing. It’s that relationship with the Lord like David who danced b4 the Lord until his clothes fell off.
@annr82572 жыл бұрын
Excellent Teaching Pastor Vernon❤.
@antoniapinnix83212 жыл бұрын
I saw you & 1st Lady @ "10 Rules of Dating"Tour in Durham. NC a few years ago.
@yvonnejohnson50282 жыл бұрын
Such good teaching !!
@RubyDOW2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@roncooley4753 Жыл бұрын
Tampa Fl come RA
@gailgregg51782 жыл бұрын
Gonna forward this to my single 34 yr. Old granddtr' she needs to hear this
@shannelnewton9236 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂💃🏽💃🏽🔥🔥🙌🏾🔥🙋🏽♀️I love this podcast . Charlotte, NC
@harrietmoton19412 жыл бұрын
This is excellent Pastor I enjoy it so very much Thank you God’s Continued blessings upon you and your family🙏❤️❤️❤️
@EvangelistCharlette Жыл бұрын
❤ADVICE YOUNGER SAVED WOMEN .... KEEP IMPROVING .... I AM A SINGLE SENIOR CITIZEN .... DON'T DO LIKE ME - WAITING ON GOD LIKE THE OLDER WOMEN TOLD ME 😐AND STAYING AT HOME... STAY SAVED BUT DON'T DATE .... ❤BUT GO A LOT OF PLACES GODLY AND FUN .... SO YOU CAN MEET