I DIDN’T KNOW ALL OF THIS WOULD HAPPEN….

[@craftyessentials]

Tell the kiddos to not tell anyone anything as well

[@AviaAvia707]

There’s no perfect timing, you best believe you have to do what’s necessary for you and your family. I’m a 60 yr old mother of two daughters that I raised as a single mother, yes it was hard but I to put my back against the wall and moved accordingly. Things have to be uncomfortable for us to make a moves in life because if things are comfortable we will stay in the same situation and not make one single move. Stay focus and strong and positive beautiful ❤❤❤

[@PimplPoppr]

*EXACTLY!!!*

[@marilynawesomness2538]

@AviaAvia707 Ava and Jazzy I am 63, the mother of two sons, 47 n 43. I had to move with my sister and her 4 sons to get away from an abusive husband when my sons were young and in elementary school. Thank God they took us in. I worked and raised money to get my own apartment, which was a one bedroom apartment. Kitchen and dining room together. Large living room and one bath. I put a full-size bed and a twin size bed in the bedroom. One son slept with me and the other one in the full-size bed. We had no help with rent or utilities, but we made it till we could afford better. I divorced their Dad, and after even going thru a few things, we never let him move back in. I say this to say that you can make anything work for the time being just to get away from violent or toxic environments. Don't sell yourself short of your families safety. I pray over you and those children, Jazzy. I didn't see your cash app info, but I am going back to look. Sending continued prayers all the way from Arkansas!!!

[@jwillis1]

Good point!

[@teetawn9454]

​​@@BiancareneetvTrue. Even when arriving at the permanent spot. Don't even need to tell the area even then.

[@shadaeChevelle4737]

People are saying that to discourage you because they can’t afford to leave 💔 🤦🏾‍♀️ crabs in a barrel

[@best_life_becca]

Yes!!!! They're too scared to do it themselves so they're trying to talk her out of it.

[@oh9363]

@@best_life_beccayup

[@jenwalker9391]

100%!!! We upped and left and I was taken aback by how many of our friends had a hard time with it-based on the number of discouraging questions/comments that we got. I’m so happy that we didn’t take any of that on and stayed focused on where God was leading us! Update 6 years later-it was the BEST decision we have ever made!

[@08baby25]

Yes or they don't want you to do better than them.

[@CharismaMonaee]

When you move out of NY state there is no brokers fee required. ALSO don’t put in an application until your ready & set to move. I moved out of state & needed application fee$40, first month$800 security deposit $850 ($50 extra cause of bad/no credit) the clothes on my back$0 (we left everything!) 4 greyhound tickets$600 so in total I spent $2,290 to leave New York. So $6000 is reasonable DEPENDING on what state….3 kids & 3 bedrooms. Furthermore, I say all this to say JAZZY YOU GOT THIS! Anything is possible. NEVERRRRR pay a brokers fee!

[@JustJazzy]

Wait you got a 3 bedroom for $800? I’m on my way lol

[@toyam4144]

​@JustJazzy yes it's cheap out here in South carolina

[@quetta561]

Same I was saying $6k is mooore than enough I wish I had that for me to mine is only $1,590. Even with kids $6k is enough. Am u need us the faith the size of a mustard seed it can even me half of a mustard seed. Your journey is your journey let no man discourage you and don’t seek validation from no one but God. I have a feeling that this move is going to work out in your favor. I’m so happy for you Jazzy your amazing

[@MamaRobynR]

Ummm I’m moving there if that’s for real!!! I’m In Michigan (in the hood honestly) we stayed here cuz I was renting a 3 bedroom house for $700, then around 2020 it was about $1,000. Now we had to move into a 2 bed room apt and it’s $2500. It’s insane everything has like tripled in price since the pandemic. I can’t afford it. I’m like this is literally the worst place, zero perks to living in the hood in MICHIGAN!!!! I can’t find a job where I make more than $18 hr and it Don’t cover shit. I’m back on food stamps for the first time in literally over a decade. I’m caring for my elderly sick mother in my place and all my kids. In in a 2 bedroom!!! I sleep in a tiny walk in closet on a toddler mattress (I’m the shortest person in the house). But this shits insane!!!

[@quetta561]

@@MamaRobynRgeesh thats a lot. Time to take a leap of faith that’s what I’m doing. They don’t want to pay but tripling everything I beyond crazy. I’m single no kids and it’s still hard. Praying for my and your family

[@nina2592]

Jazzy, you can move with 6k$! Don't let people deter you from moving!!!! I moved to California with a suitcase and that's it! I started from scratch and I made it! I moved back to the tri-state area where im from but again I started over on the east coast, with zero furniture and I got everything second hand from used furniture places.. you can do it! Id advise u to keep ur stuff but whatever is easier for you! Yal can get blow up mattresses! U can get rental furniture too. You gonna be in a house this year! I can feel it!❤

[@elishacolon9552]

And believe it or not GOOD WILL be having great home decor and more

[@elishacolon9552]

Yeah but at least the kids aren't over 18 or else you would have to pay for separate applications with the fees.

[@jenjones3356]

Move in silence! As the saying goes if you can make it here you'll make it anywhere. Being NYC born & bred is not for the weak. You got this sis!

[@Jenn.cleveland]

Move in silence! Best advice!

[@UrsulaRene_]

Don’t worry about people…..and I mean that. I’m 48 and was recently diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer! I am never going to live in regret, but hear me when I tell you, hindsight is 20/20 and I will NEVER worry about what people think and how they think they’re treating me. Please Jazz….GOD FIRST!!! Your children next and yourself next. Ok, enough of that! Brokers Fee!? No ma’am! Be careful. I’ve never heard of it. Contact the apartments directly or the person renting the home and do your research. Take your time! Don’t forget what I told you - start packing room by room and get yourself a head start on this process! Take charge of what YOU CAN control ahead of time so that the incidentals that pop up won’t take you out. You will be prepared for this move! Say it with me, “I WILL be prepared for this move!” Yessssss! My girl! Love ya. Lemme go watch this “long” (27 minute 😒) vlog! Hehehe

[@mrwrightdaughtr]

God Bless you on your cancer journey! You got this!! Your advice was spot on!!!🤗💛

[@marilynawesomness2538]

May God Bless you on your cancer journey. I ask God to heal you totally and completely that you may live a long and prosperous life. Thanks for giving Jazzy sound advice. ❤

[@lilliejohnson3450]

May God bring a healing to your body, from the crown of your head, to the soles of your feet, in Jesus name! 🙏

[@trinab.4911]

Blessings to you. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏾

[@Hunnyb1988]

God bless you Mrs Ursula and though this message was posted for jazz I feel you sent it to me too so thank you❤

[@princesssmith8628]

I’ve applied for several apartments and NEVER paid a brokers fee!! That’s crazy and definitely watch out for those scammers!!

[@timberleybrown3642]

Same

[@gypsy9933]

I don’t know why but it hit me SO hard when I realized that not everyone is happy for your success. I saw people watch me struggle as a single Mom while they all had nice things. I met a wonderful man, got engaged and moved across the country with my kids. We bought a nice house. Those people that said hateful things to me had their marriages fall apart over the years. Keep going forward and don’t look back. You and your kids deserve this ❤

[@mochabeauty09]

Amen baby, Amen.

[@thickgirlenergy]

I’m a single mother and struggling . I for sure can’t wait for my rise

[@iluvmycurlz5159]

I left NY to move to Fl with my 2 children with absolutely Nothing. You can do it love. We are praying for you

[@Oneeeofoneee]

Proud of you❤

[@iluvmycurlz5159]

@@Oneeeofoneee Thank you!!

[@CMarie-rf7ds]

GOD will show you who to take with you and who to leave behind. Keep him first and your path will unfold. Best wishes

[@Gojo.608]

Preach it my sister , you are speaking the truth .

[@jenniferliegeois5365]

Yes so true.🙌❤️

[@lindawoods1855]

Amen That's So True Blessings To You And Yours🤗❤🙏

[@lavernewc1128]

When my husband passed away, I was still in my twenties. My siblings were all telling me that they would ride with me, but none did. It taught me that God is all I want and all I need. Food for thought

[@Sheree-Sheree]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@witnessofchrist2524]

People love you when you're down and hate you when you're up. God bless you Jazzy. ✌🏾

[@rosalandmurray7608]

You don't pay the application fee until your ready to move... your wasting money applying If you don't have the rest of the money to move if they approved you.

[@tiffanystevenson9237]

The state I live in you pay an application fee

[@Keish04]

Broker’s fee!? WTH ..I only paid an application fee and then one month security. I left NY almost 4 yrs ago. My kids and I Ieft 3 something in the morning with just our clothes. We slept on floor the first night we reached Ga. then we upgraded to blow up mattresses to now a house full of furniture. We moved to a four bedroom with 2 1/2 bathroom, 2 levels and backyard..It hasn’t been easy but we’re still here. I had a realtor help me with no charge. He FaceTime and showed me a few properties. You GOT THIS!!!

[@stephaniemartinez2653]

Wherever you end up with your kids, just make sure yall are happy and forget the rest! You got this❤ .

[@MyaLajae]

Jazzy work on fixing your credit because its gonna make it harder for you! and work on paying off your dept becuase its gonna be and never ending cycle you gotta get your stuff together for you and your kids love you jazzy!!😘

[@PimplPoppr]

*PREACH!!!*

[@jwillis1]

Yes CREDIT affects everything...you're young nobody ever told me about how important that is until I was grown, grown. Check your credit score often via your bank.

[@tenishabaker6986]

Sis you going to move it's in God plan and everyone can't go with you.thats why he's moving them out your way.sending positive energy and healing for you and yours ❤❤

[@julietteanne6570]

Yes ma'am, look out for scams. Always run the property past the treasurers office Before You give anyone money. You should no have to pay a broker's fee. You can always check with the chamber of commerce in the city as well. And you can always check with the Mayor's office. Check with these offices before you give your money away. PLEASE. You are doing the right thing, and don't let anyone tell you what you can not do based on money. Take the Lord with you on this mission. You are going to do well. Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin. You are going to do great!!!

[@PotentPondering]

I support you getting better for yourself and the kids 🙏🏾❤️ Houston is great too

[@JustJazzy]

I appreciate that 🙏

[@PatriotafVenise]

People are crazy - you definitely can move with 6k I did it . I moved across the country less than 5k Rented a truck too .

[@CharmDavon]

Me too!! I moved to Atl with 4K and a dream lol. Purchased a house one year later, got in my career and opened up my own store. 6k is enough for a fresh start

[@dianeross4522]

Okay I'm back from Cash app. I finished this video and I'm impressed with your focus on getting out dodge. My grandma used to say leave them in the dust...basically move forward no matter what or who for the betterment of you and yours. Peace is priceless.

[@marierose1980]

Unless you have a broker, there is no broker fee! Its a scam, Yup, Yup, YUP! Application fees yes but no to the broker part, they lying!! I love you boo! You gots this. Ask lots of questions during the process!! There is no wrong question! No money exchanges hands unless its paperwork signed sealed and delivered. Ya heard

[@UrsulaRene_]

Why we come right away when we see you done posted? Obsessed! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@racmit2222]

😂😂😂😂😂 ikr smh im glad im not the only 1

[@JustJazzy]

I’m grateful for you 😘

[@clairvoyant320]

@@JustJazzy yes me too I love ❤️ your channel ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@roncollins7217]

Yup yup yup me as well friend!!! lol.

[@michellebates8176]

Me too bookie😂

[@tawannapryor7035]

Friend, you can sometimes ask if there are applications pending before paying the application fee. I have asked places if there are applications pending approval and they tell me before applying. Those admin fee blows tf out of me. It’s just more money they charging to do their jobs. You got this ma’am!!

[@JustbeingCB]

Leaving everything equates to more expenses. Rent a truck and take the things that are in good shape. Go on task rabbit and hire movers to pack up your truck. I have heard states up north require brokers fee....not down south. Ready to see this moving video series. Good luck!

[@lnalxndr20]

Never heard of a brokers fee. I'm praying for you and your kids Jazz. Be careful letting people run your credit unless it's somewhere you really want to move to because it's a hard inquiry on your credit report. I can't wait for you all to move somewhere safe and affordable with good neighbors and schools. May God continue to bless you and your journey 🙏🏽

[@jwillis1]

Yes, everytime your credit is run, it lowers your score.

[@victorialove3463]

Jazzy, good for you, just breathe and just move and don't care about what those people who are trying to bring you down, however just keep in mind your you and children are the ones that need to have peace of mind and be safe, Good luck I'm praying for you 🙏.

[@AngieB123]

Your vibe is so contagious…when you move your neighbors are going to love you! You’ll be out there waving GOOD MORNING NEIGHBOR and giving your kids the life you have dreamt of giving them and yourself! You so deserve to find a place to finally have peace of mind…can’t wait for this next chapter in your life! 💯🩷

[@AngelaValentine]

I could listen to you all day ❤ I’m older than you are but I can relate to sooooo much of this.

[@LovedbyYah]

Jazzy I’m trying to get out New York too someone helped when I moved out New York before I came back . I’m moving soon again and this process you going through is gonna help me too . I’m rooting for you jazzy girly 😊

[@Philly19122N]

Go through a realtor 💪🏾💪🏾

[@kristyluv7925]

I’m sorry you’re going through it. You’ve got this!!!

[@jazzi1629]

Sooo true! People love you when u stuck in the place they used to you being in and u in the same situation but as soon as you doing better and reaching a higher level … oh bay be True colors come out they don’t want to see you doing the same level or better than them .

[@rhondahall9886]

I'm so happy for you!!!! This brought tears to my eyes as you described what your future neighbors/community will be like❤ May God continue to bless you and your family!!!

[@luneeve]

Don’t say anything until the kids are enrolled in school in AUGUST. Lmao. Keep telling us it’s temporary until it feels permanent! Positive vibes to you! Theyre jealous! I’ve seen people get mad at folks for going to college, grad school. People do not want you to do better than them!

[@Just2Bonnies]

When you’re going through the storm and there’s a big change in your life and those are around you are not ready for that change or they can’t change yourself at that time you’ll see who your real friends are. Who real family is comes to the surface when you have to make life changing decisions specially ones that are for the betterment of of your children so keep pressing on don’t change. I’m so happy you got your drivers test in order. I can’t wait to see you blossom in your new place.

[@Chellie4854]

One thing for sure!! Folk who not doing it or making moves to do it will try to deter or project their fears onto you!!!! Sometimes you gotta move in silence, don’t tell nobody until you move!!! You have to. And don’t send nobody no money, def a scam. You got this though, super excited to hear more about this journey!!! Also, ask these apartment complexes of any promotions they’re running if you’re apartment hunting. If you’re moving to Charlotte NC area, I know a realtor who can help with your search!!! Much love from SC❤❤❤❤

[@mechi1838]

I’m sorry you are going through this. You will get through this with one hell of a testimony 🙏🏽

[@esther5242]

Of course we love you! THAT much!! ❤

[@nbrown9790]

Move in silence

[@dtwr]

When you get your goal Jazzy you will definitely make it work. If you can survive in NY you can survive anywhere. You got this

[@MichelleL95]

So happy you are moving. Those beautiful kids deserve a better environment and I'm glad you can give that to them! They will forever be grateful for what you are doing for them.

[@lizdixon1738]

Girl people are jealous of you when you are doing good go ahead on and move your kids away from that area take your time and look for you something good to live in in a good neighborhood for your kids don't worry about having friends friends are hard to come by do what you have to do make it better for you and your children❤❤❤❤❤

[@sixgahdess]

One thing about you friend is you are absolutely driven .. you have faith and you work your ASS off .. regardless of what happens with moving , trust and believe you are going to get through it and it will be much greater than your current situation… I’m proud of you and we are all rooting for you .. I love seeing your videos and it inspires us going through the same things and I’m sure humbles those that are not .. keep going because when you get to the place of comfort it will be so rewarding ❤

[@sixgahdess]

and the same people that are being negative are going to be the same people wanting to be updated after your move and get settled in .. 🙄 they want to see you do good but never better than them .. which is crazy

[@terricahoon7943]

I get really good vibes from watching you! Perfect personality! I love the kids and Kyesha. You are so real. Keep on being you, keep on Rising to the Top!🙏🏻💕

[@shaymar1397]

I moved to Houston, TX alone from Brooklyn, NY. It was scary moving cross country, i knew I would be upset at myself if I did not do it. It was the best thing I did. There's no place like home, but it's nice to live somewhere different to evolve. It'll be great for your girls to experience a new environment, new ppl. Life is different out of state compared to NYC. I was so excited to see apt. Complex provide window shades, apt are painted, central AC, washer dryer, and dish washer in all apts. If you know you know.😂 What an exciting journey it would be for you and your family. There may be some bumps in the rd. but you seem resilient.❤ I hope to watch and root for you.🎉

[@Salvationkelly]

I’m so excited to watch you start this journey!! Don’t let people or things deter you from what you’re doing, it will all pay off. Promise!!

[@kendregab7328]

People can talk the talk but can't walk and talk. You are doing both I'm so proud of you Jazzy I'm feeling so emotional because I've been following you since 2020. I've seen your struggles and pain and this is a super positive move and a new chapter for you and your family. Maybe sometime after you move you can consider throwing a virtual house warming party where you go live on KZbin and allow us to celebrate the start of another chapter in your life. Just a thought you don't have to of course. Love you always 😊

[@selenasierra9505]

Im so happy for you! You can do this!! Let their negativity make you push harder! Ppl won't always Praise your Blessing because of jealousy but NOTHING is too big for God!! You got this Jazzy we routing for you❤️🙏🏻

[@jeanesalong3614]

You deserve everything that’s coming to you this year. You’ve been grinding. Proud of you 😊

[@yolandap.8085]

Listen sometimes family and friends don't like to see their own evolve and be great! At least they showed their true colors, so you now know how to go about your business! Again.... MISERY LOVES COMPANY! Blessings on your new endeavors 🙏🏾

[@marionanndickson4155]

That’s the thing with moving, not only is it stressful but it costs a costs a fortune too. I genuinely can’t wait to see you all move & be in a happier, safer environment for you & the kids I support you fully. All I can do is watch your video’s ect & support you in that sense. Time to start the moving preparation 🎉🫶🏻.

[@sherrymalone7346]

I’m so happy for you Jazzy, with all the issues with the school it’s time to go. Good will guide your steps babe just keep walking.

[@estellejohnson1977]

You already have everything you need inside of you to succeed and God is with you. You are showing Courage by being stoic in the face of Chaos and your Children need to see this. Can't wait to see you on the other side of this journey❤

[@Ladiofthewoods]

Look up the news paper in the area you are interested in. The homes for rent should be listed and you can contact the owner themselves. Much ❤

[@yonna1855]

I definitely support you moving, just make sure you do your background and research and trust me you are going to be okay. I moved from Florida to Delaware and it was the best decision I’ve ever made. But I’m proud of you.

[@XpressByMKay]

I’m happy your plans on moving are turning out well. Transparency moment: I know some of your subscribers have already said this but I just want to remind you that every where you go there are going to be problems that occur. It may not be a NYC kind of problem but nonetheless that city will (whichever) have its fair share of problems. I had to learn this the hard way moving away from NYC , thinking anywhere else would be better (I’ve done it 3 times now) then after a year or so, I call it the honeymoon phase, is when the rose colored glasses I had on become a lot more clear. Wheewww, it has truly humbled me Jazzy. I am wishing you and your family well and cannot wait to see you all enjoying a new home and environment.

[@GinaRenaeRNBudgets]

Sometime you just have to do what you have to do! Whatever is best for YOU and YOUR children. I hate that you haven’t gotten the support you deserve, but you live and you learn.

[@kramer3845]

God keep your hand upon jasmine and her children. God bless the plans and the move for jasmine and her children. Let everything work out for their good. In Jesus name…Amen.

[@stephneydawkins-jones9391]

Discuss NOTHING STRUGGLE WHERE YOU ARE HAS TAUGHT YOU HOW TO SURVIVE WHEREVER YOU ARE HEADED I PROMISE YOU LISTEN MY HOME WAS 342 NEW LOTS WHEN IT WAS A TENEMENT LIVED THERE GREW UP ALL UP AND DOWN THE EAST NEW YORK BROWNSVILLE AND THE 90'S AREA AND ALL UP AND DOWN BROOKLYN THATS DURING THE HEIGHT OF THE CRACK ERROR I KNOW WHAT THE EXPERIENCE IS LIKE. MOVE IN SILENCE JAZZY DISCUSS MINIMAL WITH THE KIDS TO KEEP THEM AS STRESS FREE AS POSSIBLE AND STAY PRAYED UP❤❤❤

[@createwithlinda5181]

I can’t wait for you and your family to experience that peace…you deserve it🌺🌸❤️

[@createwithlinda5181]

Oh jazz, be careful. You’re so strong. You’re gonna do great..I have so much confidence in you…good luck I would pray for you….🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@tabbyc3970]

And when you leave please do not share your exact location. Maybe the state but not the city. And don’t let anyone hold you back. Focus on you and your kids. Struggles come and go. Don’t let it cripple you. You’ve got this!

[@natossiabrowner8154]

Praying your strength and peace on the move 🙏😇

[@dawnnickyword8269]

Don't give up. Also look at the reviews. Tells you a lot. Best of luck fr. Cali😊

[@CreateURWayOut]

Hi Jazzy, hope everything works out for you. It might seem like a stretch but try reaching out to a realtor in the area//this can really help your search. The realtor takes a fee but they may be able to help you as navigate different states. There are agents that specialize in relocation.

[@dreketorious]

Wherever you move to, your going to love new beginnings. Glad till have people you know in the area.

[@girlmeetsworld4062]

I'm rooting for you and your family Jazz!

[@rochellethundercloud346]

A word of advice,look at security buildings, elevators,in unit laundry. If at all possible. And,scout the area. Get a feel for the area. Check out schools. Employment, housing. What's around the area you want to move to? Is there good cell phone service? Is the Internet reliable there? What about transportation?doctors?stores? These are all things to consider before you move. You don't want to be in the middle of nowhere,no transportation,no cell service,no Internet,no nothing.

[@kiyam114]

0:12 YES I WOULD ALL DAY EVERYDAY I STILL GO BACK AND WATCH OLD VIDEOS I BEEN HERE FOR A WHILE ND GON STAY FOR THE LONG RUN

[@charmoneh]

We love you Jazzy❤

[@nishababezz]

Omg jasmine im so happy for you. CONGRATULATIONS girl its all ready yours. Claim it as if you already have it girl.

[@Andy-ss8dc]

SOOO VERY PROUD OF YOU .. FOR BEING A GROWN UP FRIEND ! WE ARE CHERRING FOR YOU ...

[@zrf917]

Yaassss jazzyyyyy get your license! When you get your full independence your vlogs finna be lit!!!!!!!!

[@leondrarobertson7140]

i hope its VA..DONT ASK ME WHY i just do love you and your family.. just want to see you win!!! praying for your present and future.

[@momlife1281]

Definitely keep your moves quiet until you reach your destination!! Consider CT! Lots of options!! Pay no mind to the people who said you are going to struggle, you pay NY rent so you definitely can afford something cheaper and still nice for your family ❤ Praying for you and the family!! ❤ Better days are ahead!! Wait on it 🫶🏾

[@ButterflyElsy]

Hitting that like button to help a mama out! Protect you and your babies! You are who and where you surround yourself!!!

[@Divineone444]

BRING THE LONG VLOGS LUV💙💜.DO YOU LUV💙💜.CONTINUE TO STAY STRONG FOCUSED AND BALANCED NO MATTER WHAT PERIOD LUV💙💜💜💜💜.

[@charityrocks]

I’m Canadian and it’s so hard to watch this be so difficult there for you. I wish you old all come stay in my community. ❤ There is so much peace here.

[@cutieepie8]

Yeah Brokers fee is the same price as 1st months rent. Some places charge for security deposit which is also 1st month rent. It’s crazy but I don’t get why you have to pay for a Broker if you aren’t dealing with one girl that doesn’t sound right at all. If you find your own place you shouldn’t have to pay. Now maybe if the Broker is listing it and you’re responded to the their listing then you are essentially working with a Broker which you said you haven’t spoke to one, so yeah be careful. I would also say before moving visit in person on your own to see if you really like the location. Find out where the schools, hospitals, supermarkets, laundry mats all essential things are. I’m from NYC and I also lived in two other states before moving back. I don’t drive and neither did my mom. Girl buses stop running early depending on where you live. Going to the store is a walk walk. Like the store isn’t down the block and around the corner. I had to take a school bus to school be there at 6:50am every morning. It’s different. If you can move somewhere near family do that, just so you can ask them questions about the area. Best of luck. I hope you find something you like.

[@rosalynfludd7986]

I left New York oct 5 2021 you can do it trust and believe the hardest part is fear of failure I left everything behind only brought clothes with me and my 3 kids you can do it I’m praying for you and your family and a safe move

[@shurry27]

Hiring a realtor is a good idea. You will pay a premium for their expertise, however they do all the footwork in locating legitimate apartments or homes - exactly what you want, where you want.

[@JacqlynCharles]

If you can survive NY you can survive anywhere. Facts. I know i’m now in ATL

[@DivaDivaFashionista]

You’re preaching to the choir. I’m so out I mentally in NC already I moved with a Shopping cart too This is a big stepI was going to mention getting a road test glad you’re on it.

[@chaneldub6355]

When I moved and bought a house with my husband in florida moved 3k miles away to Florida and I told ppl about a month before . So many ppl oh what of this happens oh why are u buying a house there making faces and everything but guess what I said leaving because there is nothing here for me ...right in their face like you don't support me in any emotional "family" way if anything I'm tired of seeing my past right infront of me ... I left a few ppl came to visit but im really done with my old life and the past don't want to let me go. The one thing people don't tell you if all you have is yourself in life , look at nature they don't even take care of their own forever . Nobody got you nobody is supposed to, that is why you live for YOU .

[@leleedaniels2413]

I believe in you and you got this! Move in silence!

[@Jazzy.jae1]

Not all apartments charge a brokers fee...but i avoid apartments with brokers fee. But once an apartments is listed with a broker (person who lists the apartment) you gotta pay the fee

[@Godsangels1970]

Be careful you are absolutely right about scammers.. Blessings to you and your family.

[@kathy1mama]

I was told you first look at the apartment and then you pay for applications fee but that’s if you want to move after looking at the apartment/property

[@Unapologetically_meh]

6k is more than enuff to move; wishing you much success an a smooth transition❤❤❤

[@chanel10m93]

Congratulations you got this God got you and your family. He has the final say 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@RoseGolden0]

Ima watch alllll your videos and run the ads. You’re getting paid paid this month. We alllll gotta do it!! I’m excited for you!! 🎉

[@best_life_becca]

You can & and you WILL do this! There's always going to be someone trying to talk you out of your dreams, your goals, your hopes of bettering your life - leave them in the past and move on to a happy future. Also - never paid a brokers fee in my life & ive moved plenty of times. Maybe its a NY thing?

[@cdanieldance]

You pay app fee only if you decide to apply for the place. Brokers fee, no maim. Don't do it. Dble. Security yea, if credit not in a great place, but you only pay that if approved and a lease is offered. They will give you a list of all up front cost. If approved the app fee somtimes is put towards your security deposit. Some states do offer security assistance with deposit as well

[@natashajones9923]

I'm so happy For you and the kids!!! God is Good All the time !!!And All The Time God Is GOOD!!!! I Been thinking about you and the kids . I'm glad its working out for you!!!

[@ltowns3271]

You got this girl. It's your time!

[@keishathomas5061]

I’m rooting for you Jazz!! I’m so glad you came up with a plan suitable for you and your family. And you are absolutely right it’s always the people you think that would be so supportive showing their true colors when you’re trying to evolve. Ignore them all. And yessss omg application fees while trying to move are the biggest pain ever. And definitely watch out for the scammers it’s 2024, People are trying so many different ways to scam people out of money.

[@kimt.6322]

Change scares people. Move in silence!!! ❤❤❤

[@vanessamurray5378]

I'm so glad to hear that you are serious about leaving NY. You won't regret it. When my children were 11 and 14 years old, I relocated to Decatur, GA. I was like you. I had lived in NY my whole life, in the hood, up until that point. I had never been anywhere. So, when I relocated to Georgia, because I simply wanted to experience a different and new life, I didn't know a soul, and I didn't have money, except $900 in cash, and half of that was for rent. What I did was obtained an apartment in Georgia BEFORE moving out there so at least I knew I had a place to stay, if nothing else. I left my income based apartment in Brooklyn and all my furniture. I only took our clothes. I would suggest you do the same: get an apartment before you move. If not an apartment, they have lots of extended stay hotels that are not expensive, especially if you pay monthly. By the next week, I was working temp jobs, some of them long-term. So, you can do it, girl. Sometimes you got to step out on faith and trust that everything will be alright. All the best!!!

[@kasper941000]

I’m so proud and happy for you making a plan and getting started immediately!! And you right bad credit they charge over the head for everything and for no dang reason smh. Also thank you for hearing us out about keeping some things private private…. Cus not everybody truly happy for you

[@carmenlo2391]

Blessings, no worries u are going to move forward with God by ur side. Moving is always scary but it’s a matter of adapting to the new. I left NYC 27 years ago and I adapted. Same reason for leaving. I was tired of my child getting bullied and the principal never doing enough to keep him safe. 💜👍🏽