I Don't Believe in Dating | Dating Is Not The God Way | Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo

[@anulikaononye]

Someone I know well was busy dating a ready girl until a man that was serious went straight to the point asking for the girl’s hand in marriage; the girl immediately called the dater to apologize and break up then accepted the marriage proposal, few months later they were happily married and still happily married 15years later! So I totally agree 💯 % Focused men don’t waste time when they see their life partner, they haven’t proposed because they don’t think you are the one

[@akindele-oscarolorunyomi3144]

Very true ma🎉

[@hembafanishuwa571]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@elishapfute7349]

True

[@etokimandi7739]

Thank you so much

[@vataapimieze6721]

I find it funny you to say it's a focused man, what if God spoke into both of them.. plus in a way everything needs God's Righteousness.. I'm getting a message of if a man is patient you should rush it to whoever comes by.. and I hope that's not the misleading message.

[@deplacez-vousandresamuel7840]

Pastor K re'establishing the ancient Landmark that this generation has removed. God bless you sir.

[@arreyblanchebessem2834]

I pray I meet someone who's ready to commit to me alone and me to him alone,Amen.

[@elishapfute7349]

May yo wishes be granted

[@arreyblanchebessem2834]

@@elishapfute7349 Amen

[@otoabasibrown61]

please who is this, i'm single

[@OfficialHarmony_]

Same here

[@otoabasibrown61]

may i meet you?

[@Exhibit_Obedience]

Dating is a NO, don't even waste your precious time, Seek 1st the Kingdom of GOD!!!

[@Goodyoma]

I'm so happy this topic is being discussed today cause this ex's of a thing is too much. I don't believe in dating,it's friendships and courtship. Once you start dating,you are automatically taken yet you are single and again immorality will be inevitable. Remain fully single for the right spouse.🙌

[@ogundiranmartha4405]

This so true and all correct.

[@chevanisebeckford7457]

I have heard christian woman say they will date until them find right one. So they are ok to go out with different people at different time. No sex or kissing in it but going out getting to know the person. Can you explain that?

[@Goodyoma]

@@chevanisebeckford7457 then it's not dating,it's making friends which is okay. In this case there are no emotions or sexual activities,just meeting someone,keeping them as friends so you can observe and know the compatible serious one.

[@obiobi9378]

If you meet someone you are truly attracted to and just want to be friends, you will be jealous when you see him/her getting close to someone else. I think Christians should "date" when attracted to one another but cut out any form of intimacy until marriage.

[@Goodyoma]

@@obiobi9378 and for how long do you think you can stay with someone you are emotionally attracted to without sexual intimacy? At the cause of the dating, you then discover he/she isn't good enough for you any more,what will you both do? So you are preventing someone who is not your wife or husband from meeting other suitors all because you are dating her whereas you are not ready for marriage yet,is that not wickedness? Just answer in every sincerity. Thank you 🙏

[@ivyhammons6040]

I agree with this 100%. Moving with someone with no purpose can be a complete waste of time. No accountability, risk of sinning, and heartbreaks are high!!! Thank you, PK. The world needs more of you.

[@euchariaevi]

I wish I knew this years ago. I wouldn't have wasted 7years of my life. Thank God for dragging me out.

[@Thek_b]

Give context

[@oyizaelizabethodu449]

Glory to God

[@TheDailyBreadOfficial]

Thanks, Pastor K. There is no provision for dating in scripture, it is of the world. I am all for friendship instead of dating coz dating means you are mine and I'm yours. If thinking sexually of a person you are not married to equals sexual immorality, how is a romantic relationship even possible for unmarried Christians? [Matthew 5:27-28]. Even a courtship is for people who are preparing for marriage at a given date and getting pre-marital counselling, not people who are figuring themselves out. To be a Christian is to be set apart. It means we are not going to indulge in many things that the world enjoy and advertise. The word is our standard, not culture, trends, tradition, public figures etc. Amen

[@leilawilliams8175]

I agree that romance is out of place if the people are not fully committed. I advise betrothal, not courtship.

[@TheDailyBreadOfficial]

@@leilawilliams8175Hi Leila. May I ask what betrothal is?

[@SuziMuthee]

I went to visit my sister in christ some 16 years ago.Then she had a big brother.When her brother saw me,he loved me and he said am going nowhere.And immediately i got married.And i can assure you as I settled loves became stronger everyday.Am happy to hear this is biblical.Now we have16yrs in our marriage.

[@eunicenwanehiudo3866]

Wow 😍😍😍

[@OlajumokeMary-d1x]

Amazing

[@priscillafumadorh7186]

My key takeaways: Don't play with friendship Stop wasting time!

[@greatness_alliance]

I have been saying this for a long time. I am so glad this is being brought out into the open and being discussed. Young people are dying and ending up in the wrong side of eternity because of little lies and misconception they have been sold to by the world. Dating is a trap! You die in that state you will not make heaven. There is no boyfriend and girlfriend with God. Relationships with the opposite sex must be strictly defined. If there is no clear intention for marriage keep it purely platonic or wave each other goodbye.The standard of purity required to enter heaven is so exacting. People should beware.

[@oselueseakhimien1827]

True

[@OlajumokeMary-d1x]

Bitter truth

[@leahhaizel3416]

Lord I pray my next relationship will be courting and end into a beautiful marriage

[@Hadassahs_crib23]

This is not yet faded away, there are still some Christian institutions that still hold the value but there are many young ones rebelling against that to their detriment. I met my sweet husband in school fellowship, he was a final year student when I came in as a freshman, he reached out to the marriage committee of the fellowship and they guided us through and today we are happily married for almost five years.

[@lifeinsights7695]

It takes a lot of boldness make these corrections in our day..Ps K loves God truly. God bless your ministry till Jesus comes

[@nofuchu]

Luke 16:15 "for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God." The way the world detests friendzone, Made me realize friendship is the way of God

[@Goodyoma]

I'm telling you. One got angry with me ,saying I friend zoned him. I got confused 😂

[@johnalbert8210]

definitely it’s the way of God🙌🙌🙌 people avoid friendship like it’s a plague, I don’t get smh.

[@Gmuzic01]

They will date you until you are outdated

[@ladytamara1503]

Summary Courtship has a defined timeline. And then actions are out in place to achieve that goal.

[@masilelacalsile9056]

Straight to the point will be my portion when the time comes (sooner 😂😂😂😂)

[@beverlywilliams9690]

This is so true. This is why I dont date. Waste of time and its not of God. Boyfriend/Girlfriend isnt honored or recognized by God

[@ifedapoadeoye9878]

I've just finished reading "I kissed dating goodbye" by Joshua Harris and he talks about this so beautifully. Thank you PK for this timely message.

[@phanuelumezuruike868]

Hi! Do you have a link to the soft copy of "I kissed dating goodbye" by Joshua Harris

[@tinaa3459]

I think that guy was in his early 20s when he wrote that and now disagree with the concept..

[@phanuelumezuruike868]

@@tinaa3459 Yeah... I was wondering if the book was still in circulation and how to get it.

[@pelikannzwrap2606]

Hi. Please is there a link to the soft copy

[@DadaSophia-rk2kj]

The man separated from his wife. The blueprint of marriage is in the Bible,not in a human being. The pastor even said goodbye to Christianity.

[@jareya]

Very wise and balanced teaching as always. I listened to the marriage testimonies of all the children of Mike Bamiloye of Mt Zion Ministries and they followed the pattern of Godly courtship in meeting and courting their spouses. And it was really beautiful and refreshing to see how their faith in God led them to their spouses. Where there is courtship, even where there are mistakes along the way, it is easier to heal and move forward. Indeed God’s pattern is Godly courtship.

[@blessinganyanwu1452]

This is powerful. The very reason I love your channel Sir and that of your wife is that your teachings are unapologetically based on the scriptures. Thank you Sir for being a scriptural voice.

[@evelynjumbo2447]

How i wish had been thought this topic some years back.. I wouldn't have made certain mistakes 😢.. Anyway all things are working together for my good.. Thank you Pastor K. God bless you for this ministry ❤

[@IniWrites]

I love that you said everything is working together for your good because as long as you leave your past in God's hands, He will use it for your good and the good of others. Keep the faith.

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

You are very correct sir. I don't even like to hear those words e.g dating, boyfriend, girlfriend etc. The right words are courtship, finance,fiancee etc.

[@talentebubedike4503]

In as much as there is nothing like “dating” biblically, the meaning of dating in itself is like a form of courtship. Society will always want to misconstrue terms and ideologies to suit themselves. i don’t think there’s anything wrong in dating if you see it as a form of courtship and friendship that it is. What should be discouraged is “dating” the worldly way which comprises of those negatives pastor K mentioned. Dating itself is more like courtship today for people who know what they are doing. You must not engage in sinful acts during dating.Its a choice. The goal of dating/courtship is romantic friendship and not a regular friendship you can have with just anyone. If you have to be casual friends with someone you have intention of courting to marry then he/she might never show you enough if you don’t define why you are getting close from day 1. dating and courtship both demand some level of commitment so if you are claiming to be just friends with someone you hope to marry if things work , then that person doesn’t owe only you time and attention. Again, i don’t think the term dating is the problem, what people make of it what matters !

[@hbachristinme7442]

Well said

[@timmygee9989]

❤❤ precise

[@womanofgod2948]

Thank you for addressing and speaking on this dating culture which has crept into the church. As Christians we need to have accountability and to be led by the spirit of God. There are too many broken hearts and unmet expectations. No one in the Bible practiced dating and the wooing of a woman was seen as something very serious. The only man I want to date is my husband ❤😊

[@daniellaokangba4308]

And by the Grace of God, you will Amen. This is my prayer as well. May God grant is all grace and may God’s will be done.

[@EpistlesOfLife]

After listening to this: I sent the link to the lady am courting. It is an insightful teaching.

[@TolulopeAkinlofa]

My eyes has seen hell in this dating too,i prefer friendship to courtship to Marriage too

[@stellaadimchinma2529]

I want to use this medium to thank you Pastor K, ever since I started listening to your teachings and preachings my mindset changed, alot of things I did in the past I saw as normal I now know that they were abnormal and also things I was confused about were cleared by you. Thank you very much, may God bless you and your wife Pastor M for the good works you both do. I wish I can be around you both alot because I really have alot to learn from you. Thank you 🙏.

[@delphinanwaeto5727]

Don't be around😮... Just keep following beautiful😍✨ messages on media📺... You will definitely get it right❤

[@SomaPrecious]

PK just changed my mindset, I've been praying to God for a beautiful relationship but PK has changed my orientation. Everything must be done intentionally. Bless you sir

[@EmanChuks]

Accountability is a key word

[@viboksings]

A few years ago, an acquaintance in our neighbourhood saw me one morn while I was doing my morning run. She told me how that Christmas which was less than a month's time, she was planning to travel to her state, she had ordered Indian hair from India, had bought a few clothes, she planned to not repeat dresses while there, and lodge in an expensive hotel. She said that she believed that many abroadians were coming for the holidays and that she could start running into them right from Abuja airport, and that she was going to lodge in an expensive hotel to run into a few. She said she was ready to do traditional marriage with anyone interested. When I asked what she was going to do when he returned back to the abroad. She said she will stay in their family home, no need to know each other before marriage, and that she was quite aware that he may have a wife in the abroad, but that "SHE" will be the "REAL WIFE" because that was the one with and closer to his family. I felt like I was watching a Nollywood movie. She told me over and over of her plans. It never worked out for her. She eventually got married about 3 years later to a Nigerian based man.

[@AtlasCorry]

So what's the point

[@merocode1821]

Na wa !! Sounds like nollywood indeed . How can one do that to herself .

[@AtlasCorry]

@@merocode1821 where are you from

[@MsRaziaKimani]

Thank you for this teaching, Sir. I discovered you and your wife’s teachings and messages earlier this year and I like that they are Biblical and dealing with real life issues!!! I also appreciate that you both share your story authentically to help others. As one who became a believer and follower of Jesus as an adult before I got married and who had dated in the world, it would have been great to have teachings like these from the outset. It is only as I matured in Christ that I concluded that dating was not God’s way, but courtship is. I am glad to see this confirmed through this teaching.

[@moneypenny3050]

Pastor Kingsley you are right on point and thanks for taking the time to research information and make this video. These things were special to me: - outdated - university students don't say let's see how it goes😅 - checking people out (inspector) - youth are dating while somebody is still feeding them 😅 - spending on expensive dinners thinking she likes you - she likes joliff rice not you 😅 - don't downplay friendship - temptation, looking at a meal you like for 5 years before you eat it, too much pressure - relationship is not the destination. - do friendship instead of relationship. Friendship will be there long after the butterflies are gone - There are many options around you don't waste time - God didn't mean for it to be a time wasting thing He calls it the wife of your youth - Rings flowers and balloons are pushed by those who have a financial gain it's ok but it's not foundational don't kill yourself for a ring - we have a testimony to protect we are ambassadors for Christ don't move in together - statistics wisdom nor scripture favors living together - they got somebody servicing the engine 😅 - Mary was 13 or 14 and already espoused to be married - sexual purity in scripture didn't factor in old age singles 😅 - evil communication corrupt good manners be on the same page about premarital sex bad influence good easier than good influence bad it's the principle of life because we're in a negative world. You did a really great job pastor Kingsley.

[@olukemialatise5708]

God bless you richly sir for this topic: this so call Dating has wasted a lot of people time especially the ladies, if you’re really a believer there is nothing call dating, is either friendship or courtship, they can be global error, it is better you stand alone than joining crowd to sin against God, let’s do it according to the WORD OF GOD.

[@tahjashepherd5112]

I haven’t even watched the video yet but I want to say THANK YOU!! There is nothing like dating in the Bible. “Dating” as we call it in today’s culture is more closely associated with and more similar to prostitution in the Bible, than it is with the sanctity of marriage ordained by God. Save yourself the headache and know he/she is the husband/wife before you go past the friendship stage… Forget all of this boyfriend/girlfriend nonsense. In the stages of a relationship I’m either your Fiancé, your Wife, or Your Friend and nothing else in between…period.

[@Goodyoma]

Exactly. They just initiated dating for justification for pre marital sex. You can't be checking me out when I'm not a catalog.

[@paulakoka2373]

I have been contemplating on this topic for a while and even tell people that the so called “dating “ of a thing doesn’t seem right. It’s just a medium created for people to engage in sexual malpractices and nothing else. Thank you pastor K for making me know the thoughts I had were right

[@Abishaiah]

Love that apt description "sexual malpractices"

[@janetameyaw_gh]

Very….. it’s just a word that unofficial makes people think they should have all form of access to you. And that opens one up to so many unnecessary things that can become a garbage to deal with especially when the “relationship” ends.

[@sylviasworld9397]

Or people who are doing all the choosing themselves without even consulting God on his will. Even if someone is celebate but also a serial dater, its still not the plan of God to totally ignore his will for us in such a crucial decision . He knows our life's terrain and the purpose of our marraige afterall.

[@edithekeoma]

The right use for the word dating is having male or female friends and going out on dates to get to know them better without any exclusivity. It's just a friendship, and when you know them sufficiently and choose them among the others, then you propose/or accept. The actual relationship begins at this point with a courtship and engagement. I think the problem is not with dating but a wrong definition of the term. In its right usage, dating is not wrong for Christians bc every courtship and engagement begins with a getting- to -know -you phase without any commitments, and that is what dating actually is

[@greatness_alliance]

you are not right. The pastor did not mention it but dating always has a sexual expectation. That is where it is different from friendship. That is why people easily give in to sex while dating. So it is not an issue of definition but the nature of dating and friendship are fundamentally different.The pressure to have sex when dating is so intense because it is expected.

[@edithekeoma]

@@greatness_alliance you don't understand the comment.

[@leilawilliams8175]

The problem I have with dating is that because it's one-on-one between a man and a woman, which means they look like and often feel like a couple. They even get tempted to act and feel even MORE like a couple. All of this is not really helpful for making a choice to marry because that should be done through prayer and Godly council, not based on how comfortable you are with each other. My advice, as a married woman, is to act the same with all the single brothers-in-Christ. If one expresses interest ask him to go and pray to God for confirmation and if he gets it to come back with s proposal. If he comes back sure that this is God's Will then you do the same thing and take as long as you need to know God's leading. My husband and I got betrothed without any dating or couple behavior beforehand and we have had 12 years of delight together, thanks to God choosing us for each other!

[@GracefulKnots]

I totally agree with you and I thought that many people no longer hold this view. Honestly being in a relationship that doesn’t have head or tail doesn’t make sense to me. The lady will just be waiting and waiting for the man to become serious. Why should that happen? The relationship should have been defined from the start. In our time they come straight to the point and you will know his intentions rather than waiting for years to be proposed to. I don’t like this dating concept and I also speak against it

[@EgbujieFavour]

You are right ma

[@GracefulKnots]

@@EgbujieFavour thank you. I am always wondering how it became a thing cos in our time we were the ones who called the shots and decided whether we wanted the brother or not but the tables have turned around in this Gen z and millennial generation 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@EgbujieFavour]

That's what is going on in this generation having many ex's after free sex, wasting you life and time all in the name of dating

[@ekomzyuche3402]

A lot of women lost the plot of decisions or calling the shot in most cases cos for most women now money comes first....no fear of God anymore everything money ooooo...now men are so aware of this money thing....and men are doing a lot of menace to our girls....I always pray about this daily our women should wake up spiritually, its annoying even now that most women wouldn't want to associate with a normal working hard guy who loves the Lord and has given his life to christ....most women will friend zone this good brother and start following the one they call woke....so you see.....blessings ma

[@GracefulKnots]

@@ekomzyuche3402 yes you are right. Money and social media have turned some ladies into something else but there are still good Christian girls out there

[@christinefoster9177]

Thank you so much! This really helped me. I’m an extreme extrovert who’s ready to be courted then marry to my friend who I have built a friendship with! I’m m so, so tired of dating or a man says he wants to get to know me for what?? I’m going guard my heart by following your Godly biblical principles of getting courted to marriage! Thx a Billion ☝🏿❤️🇯🇲👑❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ekomzyuche3402]

Yessss That's the right way Glory

[@Chama447]

I totally agree with this analogy.. like as ladies we gotta' be intentional and serious because we have a biological clock

[@magaretcaroline4069]

Fact

[@adanwa8388]

Ugu to cook soup very hilarious 😂😢 I've been able to ease off the pressure. The pain of regret but thank God for Jesus who has redeemed us by his blood. I await my marital breakthrough (settlement) through the help of God, in no distant time (before this year runs out) asap. In Jesus name. Amen 🙏

[@evekembumbulu1599]

I don't believe in dating either. Its a male strategy to get what they want without commitment, yet false promises that are easily broken

[@ijewemeodiawa3394]

its not a 'male' strategy to 'get what they want'. its a culture amongst both men and women that was probably imported from the west, and is being buttressed by movies, music etc. Lets not but a gender label on it, or fall into the trap of vilifying one gender as being 'evil'.

[@mercyneufeld4029]

Thank you for such an enlightening and encouraging message. Could you please talk on relationships for people who have been married before with children. It’s a really confusing and scary place to be in…as a woman with three young kids who left a very abusive man, I believe that I don’t have to spend my life alone. Thank you so much

[@leilawilliams8175]

You don't have to live alone because 1. GOD is with you and 2. You can find a faithful community to be your family or rejoin your birth family. 3. Your husband can be changed and you two could be reconciled! Praying for you!

[@damilolaadekanmbi2751]

I always appreciate your biblical and balanced teachings on marital issues. The bible says we should ask for the old path, and this is the old biblical path as regards marital issues. God bless you sir.

[@la_Mvuleni]

My aunt also went through the same process, and it still done in my church where a brother presents his case to the pastor and then the pastor sets dates pertaining where they will meet and whether or not they will be accompanied. What I love about it is that it is well defined from the beginning and the marriages last till death in most cases so there is more success compared to when we do it independently. Personally, I think that it is not everyone who will be received like that but I remember Pastor Mildred's sermon where she said we should not bypass the structures placed by our churches because there, there is counsel and safety.

[@udohpele1696]

I've always seen dating a waste of time, unless you are ready for marriage.

[@flexfilmztv]

This channel is where i sleep from now. Thank you very much sir, this has opened my eyes.

[@TelcaFilmsTv]

Wow... this is very timely! I just talked about this on my channel. Friendship/talking stage, nonexclusive hangouts, courtship, marriage. Our generation needs to go back to practicing healthy relationships. God bless you sir.

[@joycewatt8289]

This is perhaps one of the best breakdowns of the DIFFERENCE between dating and courting and from a biblical perspective. Very good video!!! Thank you 🙏🏽

[@chikodilimaryrose2315]

Thank you sir.....this is timely for me....I've been getting to know someone....being friends.....but my stand and convictions on having it just friends is now getting loose....but listening to your biblical teaching on this has helped strengthened my stand......God bless you sir❤ Please sir where does hearing from God about who to marry come in in going into courtship or even friendship as a christian or does God not lead us and direct us on who to get married to or a life partner

[@bemdooatsua9814]

Thank God for CLC

[@TshepoReginaldMofokeng]

😥which time could go back

[@mercyokuonghae9915]

Thank you pastor K It’s high time we did what’s right and not what we think is okay and in vogue

[@ogheneochukometimothy6574]

Evil communication corrupts good manners, But good manners does not correct evil communication or bad manners necessarily - line to ponder on

[@AmazonEstherIbia]

I wish I listened to this message 5years ago because why am I dating till now? I didn't even used to think I'd date more than 2yrs but oh well. Lesson learned and time to course-correct.

[@davideseile2814]

Thank you Pastor K for the revelational knowledge. Most Christian Elders/ Pastors and organizations are becoming demigods in people's marital destinies by being stumbling blocks. They no longer pray with intending couples. It has virtually become a match- making exercise unlike what is obtainable in time past in the body of christ from my Personal experience. I believe that if someone is born again and have the spirit of God in him he will be led of God and have a good marriage after Courtship without falling into sin. The old method has been severely abused by the Church leadership. Shalom.

[@didimarcus277]

I have said this for years and years when I hear Christians say they are dating. I ask why must you date? They respond TO KNOW THE PERSON. I ask them, vyou know anybeyyer than the HOLYSPIRIT?

[@ebrubaowhin8163]

Wow, I love this! It is very clear now why dating is a time waster and tempter. I always love counsels that are backed up by the Bible.

[@teresacoombs1917]

Praise the Lord, Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo. I agree, the concept of dating is a route of temptation that gives way to the devil causing many to stumble. I myself have looked back over my life and wish I had been taught the consequences of not doing things Gods' way! Dating definitely does not honor a timeline. Thank you for this time of instruction. God you and the family!

[@karenboakye5008]

Really eye opening God bless you Pastor K

[@faridachande7063]

PK 🙌, somebody can date you, date you , date you until you are outdated

[@JohAnns-e3l]

😂😂😂

[@norxa_monxca]

So grateful that my generation and the next have such content to learn from! God bless you sir 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@obagoriolastephen300]

In my church, Apostolic Faith Church, the practice is to talk to your pastor first or the marriage counselor before you are allowed to talk to the sister, some of still still bend the rules sha and the church used to look away as long as the both has not done the do before bringing themselves to the marriage counselor.

[@esthermaloney1108]

Wisdom truly was greater back then

[@TenjaMack]

Amen! Courtship is God's way

[@kodangmodest5327]

Pastor sir thank you very much... you see what you've just said.... I think I'm out of this thing I'm in called relationship

[@johnsonjoy9959]

I was blessed by these words Relationship should be define That were most people missed it

[@emmanuelsamuel2283]

This can't get any truer❤

[@kingdommarriages23]

A timely and insightful teaching as always. Thank you PK.

[@patriciakasenge9927]

I 💯 agree from personal experience friendship is very important above all

[@Eniola-yh2hg]

This is so good. So sound, so helpful, so in-depth. Thank you sir!

[@deborahonyeka8903]

I 've had this understanding for a long time only for me to see it all painted accurately here.Thank you Sir!Kai I was deeply blessed ❤❤❤

[@prereloluwa]

Let’s 👍 the video as we get immersed and blessed in it. Thank you sir

[@thegreenerland9618]

Ive dated the most manipulative Christian ever. We were in the same church. We started dating and i said lets tell our leaders. He refused saying that if we are not sure we shouldn't tell our leaders.

[@IhuomaAmadi]

This person is Bro Felix on Just Us Girls the series, thank God you ended it 🎉

[@oluwakemisolaolayode1330]

Yes o he is devil son o 😂run for your life

[@Jessica_Maria]

@@IhuomaAmadi😂

[@maryumoh6247]

​@@IhuomaAmadiGbam!!! No long story. It's the direct picking on Bro Felix for me 😂😂😂

[@kellyamouzou7278]

Thank you Pastor Kingsley for simplifying these truths for us. Many of us wish we had been taught this earlier in our lives. So thank you for being a vessel. I still do believe God’s Love and mercy for the chance to enjoy marriage His way. Surrendering All to Him. Lack of knowledge truly does destroy. But God… Thank you Sir 🙏🏾

[@Global-voice]

*Dating is causal while courtship is 2 . Dating is undefined While courtship is clear 3, dating don't usually hv time line why courtship has a time line 4,they are little or no accountability, why courtship involved accountability 5, ppl user dating to check ppl out, almost 4yr without having any intention of marrying sometimes involve in kissing and sex . Why in courtship u alone do check with intention of marrying her (Date and dating is not the same.) Friendship is the best step to move in area of relationship , start a relationship .

[@shekwonyagaladima4902]

God bless PK for this timely teaching. It's important for ladies to know what they want and ask for it from men who approach them. This way, you can avoid time wasters and heart breaks. For men,pls until you are ready for life long commitment, don't enter relationship with a lady and lead her on. Again,ladies even if he says he wants to marry, but starts to drag his feet or show contrary signs,have a proper conversation that will help you decide what step to take next. Summarily, nobody's precious time should be wasted.

[@Aghachiprecious]

Truth that sets free❤❤❤

[@etietopumana1279]

Pastor K, I'm really impressed with this, all that you said in this video is what I believe in, practice and advocate for.

[@Alabitimothy31]

This is a very balanced teaching. Thank you soo much Pastor

[@namugenyimartha]

Am soo glad i came across this video....i glorify God my life has a proper direction now!❤❤❤

[@jakesedayi]

I totally agree with pastor Kingsley 💯

[@ubakwemjoy8049]

Finally Have been anticipating a teaching with a clear definition and explanation as this!! Thank you PK

[@UKATSAN]

The Myles Monroe of our time ❤

[@taiwomusibau-kk8rn]

I pray may i see who is faithful and fear God man thats responsible and matured man God i want you to choose for me i dont want my own wish Lord let your will be done in my life

[@OyetolaOgungbile]

Thank you so much for this Pastor K, all on point Sir. Christians in the Canada and the US need to hear this!

[@_letsgrowtogether]

Thanks pastor, i hope i will come back here to testify about my wedding

[@michelleisaac7108]

Thank you PK. This is 100% timely.

[@ndivhuwotshivhase792]

Pastor K you are a blessing from God, I thank God for the day I came across your video your sermons are always real and impactful

[@madujoyn]

This is a blessing I hope it reaches out to many

[@victoriaodili-akpom4019]

💯 % I hope they are listening?

[@amaratv23]

Thank you so much sir! This video came to me just at the right time 🥰☺️ Went for a date for the first time in a long while last Saturday 🙈 And we were just "talking", all just about our ministry (we're in the same ministry but different branch) Now I know what to say when the time comes ☺️

[@Abishaiah]

Aww, that's beautiful. Hope it was fun and you enjoyed the date experience after a long while. May wisdom, peace and joy guide you as you get to know him, whichever way it goes ❤

[@amaratv23]

@@Abishaiah Thanks so much 🙏

[@patrickeles8437]

Thank you for this advice pastor. I also feel like some of this talks and topics should not be only given by people like you but especially from parients too. We leave at a time and age where parents fail to pass down wisdom they have gotten from their ancestors as part of their inheritance to their growing children and they shy away from their own responsibility to their children, leaving them to go to social media for advice that will destroy them before finding the one to save them. We should be very careful and learn to educate children at each stage they are growing up and stop being ashamed. Most of us have learnt something from here as Christians and is not for us to use it and die with the wisdom, rather is our duty to pass it down to the next generation at a stage in their life and not how we do this day of being ashamed to discuss with our own kids critical things when they have reached the teenage/puberty age for such. Am so sad that ave learnt some things which would have been given to me earlier. Lets try and make the next generation better as Christians and not worst.

[@TheDailyBreadOfficial]

Thanks, Pastor K. The Lord bless you even more.

[@bridgettesinthampi6844]

This is profound truth... Very helpful and vital for relationships 🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝

[@ladyshorty6989]

Greetings, New SUBSCRIBER here. Thank you sir 🙏. Amen

[@asueilouakuru7674]

Hmmmm... In my opinion, there's godly dating o and wordly dating, Godly dating is where both parties get to know each other. and where they will find out if they want to spend the rest of their lives with each other or not.

[@agathaunoma6980]

Thank you Pastor K for bringing this issue to the burner.

[@oluwasonaglory]

Thanks so much and God bless you indeed for this teaching. We need to hear this in churches more often.