I DON'T CARE if you have CANCER my child DESERVES your seat - r/EntitledParents

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About a year ago, I was diagnosed with a cancer of the nasal cavity (stage 2). The tumor was quite large. To get it removed, I first had to undergo agressive chemotherapy to make it smaller. Thanks to the chemo, I had severe alopecia (hair loss), which made most of my hair and even eyebrows and eyelashes fall out. At some point I had to go bald, but I wore a wig, because I didn't want to look like that.
0:00 I don't care if you have cancer give me your seat
5:46 My Family is pressuring me to give my sister my Wedding Venue
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[@LionerA.]

The old man has all of my respect by saying "Will you shut up, cow?"

[@manikanjoana3636]

me too he roasted her

[@Spyrobeamer]

@@manikanjoana3636 bro that cow was about to be spare ribs

[@theilluminatibenefactor]

The cop got my respect. I want to meet this cop.

[@gign_9891]

@@Spyrobeamer the cow became beef barbecue

[@Amy-uh7zr]

She got what was coming to her

[@joaopeixoto6224]

The kid deserves a better mom 😔

[@notdacatspresent9938]

Agreed

[@sougotokiwa8439]

Yes

[@littlestar8589]

And the second story protagonist a new family

[@Dashywashy__]

Yes

[@idiotontheweb]

At least he can ditch her ass as soon as he's 18.

[@Trisha_B_done]

Whew! You didn't get your sister pregnant, it's her responsibility, not yours. Kudos to your fiance for standing up for you. Bravo to you too!

[@maxmovv]

2 words INBREEDING!

[@stellakreutz8705]

And also for the sister’s fiancé, for recognising that she’s in the wrong

[@sougotokiwa8439]

Absolutely

[@marthagleeson4628]

Frrrrrrr

[@likethecolorgreen]

I feel sorry for the child and him. Happy he pressed charges. To many times women get away with this and hide behind their children to get out of it.

[@rochellemontevirgen]

"Will you shut up cow?" This man made me cackle

[@ethanwallis5678]

And then he pulled out the badge ah sweet karma

[@sougotokiwa8439]

Yes & love it. Tho calling her a cow would be an insult to an actual cow...

[@PinkyChibi]

"Also every dumb moron can see the dude have cancer" Says the man with flat emotionless voice Idk why the way he says it got me dying in laughter I keep replaying that part 🤣

[@kermot8150]

@@ethanwallis5678 yes the swet taste of karma

[@Alpha-ol9iu]

Perfect response 👌

[@anirudhs9975]

thats actually horrifying that a family member could do something like that, to justify taking something that the op was planning for 3 years and also using the family to gaslight her into giving up her plans and hard work is insane.

[@camiorkami]

I never would've talked to the nan or sister or even the FAMILY tho Im happy the BIL is against the sister but something that would've been funny is if she got pregnant to get back at her 😂

[@camiorkami]

I also love the husband's family they are all really good people 😁

[@kv2435]

@yuusuf jama original poster

[@Pepe-jt7ps]

Dio......za wardu!!!!!!

[@Gigachadd42]

@@kv2435 xdd

[@gerripearson9647]

I’m happy that the first story worked out so well. I’m happy that he is now cancer free And that the lady received consequences for her actions Story #2: I ran upstairs for my daughter to hear it. When you read have to share bday my daughter and I just looked at each other. I go through this w my sister and our family. It’s ridiculous I’m happy the sister is holding her ground and gaining a new supportive and loving family

[@bradleyhall4415]

yeah, but in story 1 we r never told what happened to the kid.

[@anmordi285]

The first story made me smile for the poor guy with cancer, I cant believe that people like EM (Entitled Mother) exist

[@smithbrosgaming6448]

Damn. Imagine having your parents being such a problem that the boy you grew up with, your brother walks you down the aisle of your wedding in place of your father

[@sgt_courier220]

idk man the dad being replaced is a very common thing😂😂😂😂

[@smithbrosgaming6448]

@@sgt_courier220 well I know but it’s just sad

[@bricklord340]

God that must be horrible, have your brother walk you down the aisle :( I feel bad for him

[@leomcshizzlepjocastdeserve1631]

well my uncle walked my mom down because my grandfather had died she probably would have asked him anyways she didnt have a good relationship with him

[@cosmicreef5858]

At least you have a chance for a better life! I hope that you are doing well!

[@reyesenigma7943]

My mom isn't a Karen or a horrible person, but whenever she started fighting people while I was around, it was a dreadful feeling.. Considering just how much worse the poor kid's situation was, I hope he got over that situation.

[@alexmcdowell8868]

Yup I have a mother who is mouthy embarrassing has fk

[@kenny_eats_many]

@David C lol me too

[@FuriousAntLion76]

satisfying to hit people back

[@Deezvii]

I hope that Karen lost custody and the child got adopted

[@pluviophile_abditory2507]

I get like that when my mum gets drunk, even to this day

[@Dr.JagCobra]

That first story is amazing. How the people on the bus stoped her from running, how she didn’t realize who she hit, how the kid was still nice even after being raised by her, the story was amazing.

[@ameliagraham7334]

Oh my god. If my mom did that, I would never forgive her. I’d probably have a panic attack! Seriously. If she punched a person with cancer for no reason I’d probably not talk to her and only stay by my dad for like- 6 months. That kid should have a good mother. Not some piece of garbage. Of course, I love my mom more than anything in the world and she would never do that!

[@sarahgump8225]

She waited 3 years because that's the only time she could get into her dream location. That's just messed up. So the family thinks she should wait possibly another 3 years for the venue SHE ALREADY PAID FOR. Guarentee the sister wouldn't pay for a thing.

[@sougotokiwa8439]

Yup. Premeditated.

[@auroragannon7727]

Yeah I bet she would just say "you already paid for it and I'm pregnant I can't pay you that back"

[@FuriousAntLion76]

sadly no karma I this one 😔

[@Yayarayaya]

I just can’t believe that the parents take her side too like wtf is wrong with all of them 🙈

[@cassettetape7643]

The whole story almost makes the pregnancy seem like a calculated move too... how gross

[@bunnyl0v3r45]

To be honest for the second story, I would be screaming. “I have planned this for 3 years and you try to take me away from this?! What type of sister are you? You’re so selfish!” But honestly, keep fighting for that venue! It’s the OP’s and the sister don’t deserve it

[@skywalkerjohn8965]

I have a sister which is exactly like that. But I don't bend to her will, I stand my ground till the end

[@nimeryaspawnbrd1049]

my brother used to be like that (thankfully, he outgrows that phase). the only way to deal with this kind of people on important matters is to set your foot down, in a polite but irremovable way. No, you can't have my venue, but if you wish I may help you find another location. No? Too bad. For you, I mean. You still can't have my venue, and you're welcome to ban me from the wedding. I'll also considered myself excused from the wedding gift. Oh, and you're also welcome to skip my wedding (at the venue I didn't hand down to you) and gift as well, along with all the other family members that wish to back you up with this nonsense. Please don't bother pressuring further, my stand won't change. End of story.

[@bunnyl0v3r45]

@@nimeryaspawnbrd1049 okay! Usually me and my sister are a lot harder with each other because if my sister puts her foot down, so will I. We will literally be at each other’s throats- pretty badly-. But I’m so happy that your brother grew out of this! I hope to never have a situation like this, but if I ever do, I’ll defiantly keep this in mind. I am not the most polite- as you can say- when it comes to people taking the things I love the most or have worked hard for. But I’ll keep this in mind for the future!

[@wolfieisacat13]

Punch her in the stomach to prove a point (DISCLAIMER THIS IS A JOKE DO NOT EVER DO THIS EVER EVER EVER)

[@Linoxism]

I got married last year after two years of pandemic nightmare planning, the fact that anyone stood by the sister as if she was in the right is literally shocking. Wedding planning is hard, there is so much to think about and consider, so much stress to deal with, and to just expect someone to handover the fruit of their labour, your own sister's even, is beyond childish, selfish, entitled and spoiled. Oof I'm seething.

[@ProbablyBacon]

For the second story, I just cracked up laughing. It was so funny to me that they genuinely thought she would give up her wedding venue.

[@carnngi]

gosh, her family is so manipulating and gaslighting, I could tell by the way they talked: "you betrayed us" "you don't love us" "don't be selfish" "she's your sister" "she needs it more than you" all of these comments have one thing in common: they are statements, not reasons, they do not serve as logical arguments and are simply just baseless words thrown out there to confuse, ridicule and pressure the recipient. a decent, logical human being would say "I think (this) and (this), because of (clear reason and evidence)" yet none of this is present in their words, they are just throwing insults around as without actually giving evidence supporting their opinions, the reason for this is clear. they simply just don't have any justifications. when presented with rock solid evidence and examples of past occurrences, they will: 1)Deny it/straight up lie if audacious enough 2)Twist your words or the situation to confuse you 3)This one I find particularly difficult to deal with: reply with something that is relatively incoherent and nonsensical, it sounds like they are attempting to state a reason of sorts but it vaguely makes any sense. This one usually leaves the you completely baffled and speechless and its sucks like hell to experience. 4) Respond with another groundless statement that does literally nothing to support their claims, e.g. ("you ruined my graduation last year, all my life I've been catering to your will" response: "wow you don't care about me at all huh?") I hope she stays away from those horrible toxic "parents" of hers and their awful spawn.

[@Eternalnight198]

I think the best part is when their dad says "it's not about the venue, but the person you are marrying" in an attempt to try to justify this insanity. It's so amazing someone can actually make this statement and doesn't stop themselves by realizing what a hypocrite they are saying that. The extreme lack of self awareness he must have that it does not occur to him that if he actually believed in that statement, maybe he should be saying it to the younger sister instead.

[@gamingwiththepros2057]

The father is a ass lol "I hope your happy your sister hasn't stopped crying" I mean I would feel bad BUT BITCH YOU THINK AM GONNA GIVE YOU MY WEDDING FOR 3 YEARS? HELL NAH

[@gamingwiththepros2057]

Woops I forgot I planned

[@EmunahFL]

Classic example of a narcissistic dysfunctional family dynamic.

[@naqibdaik7241]

@@Eternalnight198 god I wish I can retort back with "It's a venue that they already planned to marry their significant others they love for a long time, not for you to take it by force."

[@amberc801]

The wedding one really pissed me off. The dad confronted her and said the venue didn’t matter because it was about the person she was marrying…but took the side of the younger sister who could have simply found a less sought after venue during her new timeframe

[@John6-40]

Exactly. Either dad is a little insane, stupid, or he just favors the preggo sister and/or mother. Either way, this "logic" of his could be applied to either sister, yet he only applies it to OP.

[@thomasfplm]

I thought the same thing.

[@FhinxET]

Seriously! What a damn hypocrite, toxic father much

[@nigward8005]

Btw the op is the younger sister in the vet beginning of the story she said that she was 23 and her sister is 28

[@ahmetyavuz9437]

Same here

[@SuperMissblueeyes]

I'm sooo glad you're now cancer free & that your hair is returning. And good for you for standing up to that woman. She needed to be taught a lesson. I feel sorry for her kid as well.

[@nothanks1239]

My step brothers mum was like the first woman. She was a complete psycho, alcoholic, abusive and self centered. My step dad tried to get full custody, but the courts wouldn't allow it (joint custody). My step brother took his life a few years back and we all blame her. His death didn't stop her going out with her friends for a new years celebration 2 days after his death, or stop her from taking his money, selling all his stuff and renting his bedroom out.

[@brettholley7095]

I know I'm late but I would straight up dissect those toxic family members out of my life so fast they wouldn't even comprehend what happened

[@justafrogwithahat4615]

Lol

[@John6-40]

Story #1: Story played out as it should. Only jerk is the mom. Hopefully she learned her lesson and stops traumatizing her kid. Story #2: The older sis getting pregnant before marriage and being irresponsible (while also being incredibly entitled) isn't the younger sister's fault...and shame on the family for guilting her over it. The Dad saying "it's just a venue, the important thing is who you marry" could be said to the pregnant sister as well.

[@mr_box1264]

Yea next time just don't do love so your selfish and idiotic genes don't multiply

[@sarahalviz979]

You have the sisters age mixed up. The op is the older sister, and the entitled brat is the younger sister.

[@annoying_intruder4333]

I get that the older sister is entitled here but it isn’t always ‘irresponsible’ to birth before marriage? Maybe in certain religions but not always the case

[@katemiller7874]

Annoying- it’s always irresponsible.

[@TheLongDon]

@@annoying_intruder4333 Yes it is, marriage provides more stability

[@gigmcsweeney8566]

I was taught to always give up my seat to a senior. I can't imagine my parents or grandparents ever expecting someone to give up their seat for me. Disgraceful behaviour.

[@sbizaoui]

glad you stood your ground my wife is going through aggressive chemo for breast cancer and it is so hard on her i be furious if someone treated her like that. i hope you fully recover

[@x_.Ex0t1cButt3rs]

3 years? And she just expects them to say yes? If you were planning something for that long, you wouldn't want to give it away either.

[@xxhawryxxcrwn4145]

I would fight and throw some hands for a venue i plan for 2 damn months nevertheless, tf was the sister thinking??😭😭😭

[@asiletihw6993]

@@xxhawryxxcrwn4145 free shit! That sister is so sick n spoiled to not see how selfish she really is (n practically lied to her boyfriend too). What a vile person!

[@arandootsarandano]

And she wanted to excuse it with her pregnancy when it has nothing to do with it, literally if you don’t want to stress out why would you move the wedding sooner? It doesn’t make sense, the family is crazy💀

[@vivelespatat2670]

@@arandootsarandano Hmf, women

[@arandootsarandano]

@@vivelespatat2670 not just woman

[@themysteriousmarshmallow684]

For the second story, in my personal point of view is that the sister knew what would happen when she laid in bed with her boyfriend, even with protection you have to completely be prepared for the chance of you getting pregnant and having a baby. Just because the sister so happens to get pregnant doesn't mean she tries to steal a wedding from someone else. If having a wedding or planning one would be too difficult she can hire a wedding planner or put the wedding on hold until after the baby is born and they have the money to pay for the wedding. I feel like the sister did that because she would have a higher chance of op saying yes by putting them in the spot light and in a place where if they said no, it would leave an awkward situation. The way the nan and mother reacted is in my personal opinion annoying. A wedding is a big deal, let alone it being planned three years in advanced and most likely being married themselves. They should have never expected op to say yes along with accepting the fact that if someone isn't willing to give something away that they should be adults and not act like kids who were told they couldn't have something. Now yes I do feel bad for the sister, having a baby can be really stressful but she can hire planners to do all the worrying for her, she even has the mother and the nan to help with planning the wedding. This is not anywhere close to unfair, op planned 3 years ahead of time meanwhile her sister most likely didn't plan much and she ended up getting pregnant. There is also the fact that the sister blames op for potentially ruining her marriage but she did that all by herself after asking that question even after being told NOT to.

[@Razorrr_]

i hate humanity

[@Suisius07]

@@Razorrr_ honestly same

[@moon_is_beautiful_today]

I suppose the sister's fiance should reconsider his marriage with this sister Because if she is like this then it's going to cause a lot of trouble later on I mean she be acting like a kid with a baby

[@somebodyyoumayknow2280]

@@moon_is_beautiful_today I already feel bad for their child fiance too tho

[@-not-_-moss-4757]

@@Razorrr_ same

[@emmzwilliams5662]

I never realized how lucky I am to have such a nice mom! She treats all the kids equally and she doesn't have a favorite

[@jabodagameyplays6056]

You aren’t selfish. She also could have waited three years. She could have prepared before this. She just wants everything she wants direct. Only you waited three years she didn’t.

[@xianpaulosolis3822]

The fact that a man took a falcon punch to the face and was still calm was crazy to me

[@aishafortnitetips]

cop stuff

[@nightelf2487]

Cause the man gonna give her a free seat. TO JAIL XD

[@shace2932]

NIGHTELF 😂 thats so funny! Why I am tickling but not laughing

[@cyanideytandcuriousseadogg4160]

That’s being a gigachad in a good way

[@CrimsonJewel]

Oh gosh, I feel terrible for that kid. Well, you know what they say: "Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child."

[@manjudobriyal3907]

Sad

[@packersluke]

That's not what they say

[@packersluke]

Making shit up

[@CrimsonJewel]

@@packersluke What is it, then?

[@LuvSqx]

@@packersluke what is it then? HM UH(

[@mummyd1990]

Some people are just totally numb in the head,cancer is one of the worst things that anyone can go through,God bless you brother.

[@kurtphinney6158]

If my mom was acting like that, I'd be like "well I told you so", regardless of whether or not the mom actually listens

[@PhantomZ0027]

shout out to the brother-in-law, he knew that it was unfair to try to take the venue, and mostly want to have a private conversation about it, but the little brat wanted too much and thinking having a kid can make things move the way she want it, joke on her lives not fair lol. And I don't understand why parents favor one child over others. my mom wants all boys but still love the girls she haves, and make sure that we all were love equal, so it hurt to hear about this type of stories about family.

[@mr_box1264]

Yea as parents, they should understand that their kid is big enough to deal problem on their own, and they have to treat them equally

[@lawmsanga1575]

Yes, i laughed so hard and it was so satisfying hearing the part " That does it" and im happy that you are cured from cancer hope you live a long life

[@yourlocalhsisrtagent2554]

He's reading a storytime from Reddit, he wasn't the one that had cancer.

[@kermot8150]

Yea that taste of the swet swet karma

[@eznuke7013]

Weirdo, he never had cancer bruh

[@DanielXR_Edits]

@@eznuke7013 POV:

[@eznuke7013]

@@DanielXR_Edits lmao

[@winterweib]

Some years ago I was on an Open Air Concert. I sat in a Wheelchair. And some parents, it was after ten o ' clock p.m., yelled filled with hate at me- at ME, not at all the standing folks! I should hurry to leave, since three three - or four year old children should take my place. 'Don't you think you listened long enough?- I tell you you indeed listened long enough! '. I indeed felt awful ashamed and somehow a plage to the complete world. I am happy you are better now! May your life keep on being wonderful! My very best wishes!

[@dunkedidklol]

God bless the people who won against cancer and the people that are still fighting. I'm sorry for the people that didn't make it and I hope they are in a better place now. Edit: mom after making everyone in a bad mood because she was in one: 😉😊

[@dracodragon7483]

I just want to say I agree with the person reading this. I couldn't stop smiling and clapping out of joy that he got cancer free and that his hair was growing back. In my opinion it's the best part of all of the videos I've watched so far. No one should have to go through cancer. I haven't had it myself but I do know that it might as well be a living hell

[@astaldo2547]

Nice that your okay

[@NuclearFridge1]

It is. I had it. I have lost a kidney and I am no longer able to work because of it.

[@thanasisrbx1293]

Cancer is horrible, I've lost a person I loved cause of it, I don't know what it feels like but I am 100% sure it's painful. For the people with cancer out there, I wish you goodluck!

[@rashidskepple1277]

@@thanasisrbx1293 Yes, cancer is an extremely painful disease. I've never had it before, either, but I've come very close to losing a family member because of it. I'm truly, terribly sorry for your loss.

[@tickledonions9483]

You probably looked really weird by randomly clapping out of nowhere

[@koleswett5981]

Story 2: OP & Significant Other: *Plan their wedding for 3 YEARS* OP's Sis: Hey I'm pregnant AND getting married 2 so I should get your venue that you guys have booked for 3 years. Family: Yeah, this seems totally fair. OP, you should give your sister the venue. People with 1 brain cell devoted to common sense: Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, that ain't how life work tho.

[@garvgupta3567]

the parents had -1 common sense

[@legoman56.]

I am so glad they are cancer free! I can relate to them because when I was young I was diagnosed with Leukemia (A blood cancer) and was cancer free during quarantine.

[@anne-mariec.3609]

I live in France and this can't happen. In buses, there are seats reserved for the elderly, handicaped, pregnant women, etc. If there's a problem the bus driver will intervene. I too feel so sorry for that kid and so happy you"re doing well now.

[@luiscorpus7503]

Congrats on getting to be cancer free, I know what it’s like to have cancer and that it’s frustrating that others don’t understand that you can’t exactly do things that others can do easily

[@tianaantonie10]

You too! Take care!

[@lili_polisti]

It’s not his story btw🙃

[@KneecapRemover]

@@lili_polisti is it from reddit?

[@yez9475]

@@lili_polisti its not?

[@mizuki_369]

@@yez9475 they take life stories originally posted on Reddit by users and share them in the videos

[@mejustaverage9927]

Imagine planning a wedding for days, weeks, months, and years just to be asked to be taken away from you and then being looked at as the bad guy that's what really bothers me is how ppl can get away with being rude af and not giving 2 sh*ts about it🙄😒

[@ivana2609]

That second story is making me actually upset, like the first one is horrible, but it gets resolved in an instant and in a satisfying way. But the second story holy cow the entitlement of that sister is off the charts, and she's a family too, and NO ONE sides with OP aside from a few people, god that just makes my blood boil

[@scottbundick9949]

Story 2: Anyone with common sense knows better than to ask the question and a family gathering. They've waited longer than you did can't you just wait a few more months and let the people that have waited 3 years have a time to enjoy themselves.

[@ryliemarie401]

The first one tho..I just can’t with the person that said: “I don’t care if you have cancer, my child deserves your seat” that is very insensitive and rude to do that. I still don’t understand the ladies audacity to do that. People these days 🤦‍♀️

[@charlotteemily146]

Tbh I really hate those kinds of people who thinks they have full control over who sits where on the bus, a year ago I was taking the bus home from school ( and it was packed because there were a lot of school kids ) and basically this lady just came in with a baby so people got up for her and moved so she could sit ( which is fine ), but even when everyone was helping her she started going on about how all the kids should be standing and how the adults should be the ones sitting down. As if they deserved it anymore than we did? What’s worse is people were complying with what she said and started standing.

[@jamess6853]

You're 21 and you had chemo done. I have had a cholesteatoma for 4 years, and while it's been a burden for the longest time (constantly popping my ear in and out, hoping to hear out of it better), there's no pain at all. I'll still take it over cancer. Tale care of yourself, stranger.

[@4xezk343]

I hope your doing okay i hope your doing good:D

[@jamess6853]

Doing good so far. I just had a CT scan done and the doc says there's only some residue. My surgery was done four years ago! I think my wisdom teeth have something to do with my ear blockage currently, but that's another story.

[@4xezk343]

@@jamess6853 well that's good that your doing alright just keep strong:)

[@Judge_0f_Everything]

@I don't really exist keep coping xD

[@mandolorian7884]

Its not him its a person on reddit but i hope your okay

[@ajudgementalsealnameddonat7903]

the second story made me wanna die, like honestly that sister is a bad sister and she thinks that if OP doesn't give her the venue then OP is a bad sibling, bruh OP out here was doing the most for you sharing birthdays with you and you flip out over this, like you could've asked OP for help on the wedding planning that would be okay, but asking for the venue why would you do this? Also wait until the baby is born for the wedding cause during weddings you get stressed and high blood pressure, and it's stressful as hell cause you gotta get ready, gotta make sure everything will go good etc.

[@sonyabantick1707]

What a heel mannered woman I'm glad you pressed charges an elderly man was a cop what a shock for her an I'm so please your cancer has gone 👍😊👏

[@Panthers7791]

One compromise would have been to offer to do a double wedding at this venue... But as I listened to the updates and such, I can honestly say OP is NTA in any way... The pregnant sister is an absolute monster... OP has nothing to be ashamed of...

[@Yayarayaya]

Yeah i thought about it too but if they would share the weddingday and venue then all the attention would go to th e sister since she is like that. Then the weddingday wouldn’t be a special day for the OP and her fiancé anymore

[@starchannel123]

Stories like these are one of the many examples for why being a parent does not make you selfless or a better person.

[@cosmicreef5858]

Exactly. This is why you should NOT be one unless you are a good person!

[@aqualemon6453]

Being a parent is just another normal human being, but... with kids xd. So, a good person is raised.

[@katemiller7874]

Some people shouldn’t be parents because they are not good people or selfless.

[@pen-nn5nk]

Congratulations for the guy that's cancer-free hope you have a good rest of your life now

[@jyotiradityashukla4569]

Respect to the officer, the dude who gave up his seat to op and the child for trying to stop his mother and apologized on her behalf in first part. And respect to the brother, aunt and in laws in the second video

[@KiiXii]

With everything the family says to OP could be reversed back to them. “You always get what you want!” Your parents are literally trying to steal a wedding for you. “You waited 3 years!” Yeah, and I’m not going to wait any longer.

[@John6-40]

Also the father saying "the venue doesn't matter, it's the person you marry". That could be said to spoiled preggo sis as well.

[@Autumn-pr2ln]

Applause for the older gentleman! What he did was beyond the right thing!

[@JohnDoe-ls1vd]

Family and friends are the one's who hurts you most. I'm 62, have neither..and I'm OK with that, and happier than ever.

[@JewelWildmoon]

For the first one, the second she said that her kid deserves to sit down, I would probably be fighting the urge to say either "He also deserves to *not* be embarrassed" or "He also deserves a good parent" For the last story, good god I'm so glad OP's in-laws are such amazing people, as well as her aunt and brother. That's what a family *should* be like.

[@Dashywashy__]

I feel so bad for the kid cause the mom just embarrassed him…

[@Venus_Voldaren]

A wedding is a once in a lifetime event, so it’s kinda important to focus on yourself

[@hugom.2571]

It is so messed up, the fact that the sister thought she would get the venue right after she asked just shows how messed up and spoiled she really is

[@EmunahFL]

The second one is a classic example of a narcissistic family. I would have told my sister that if she cared so much about _her_ wedding she would have waited *until* she was married before getting knocked up. I've been planning my dream wedding for three years, and you have *NO RIGHT* to try and take that from me! I wouldn't even accept an apology because an apology from a narcissist is just a non-apology word salad that _sounds_ like an apology, really to still manipulate things in their favor.

[@lelamartin6678]

If the sister was pregnant, I would tell the fiancee to break off the engagement and fight for full custody of the child, especially after the sister blamed the OP for "ruining her marriage" when they only got into an argument over the fact that the sister went back on the agreement and tried to go behind her fiancee's back like that. That way, the fiancee can find someone better who isn't toxic and not have to worry about being stuck with child support. Hell, I would be petty enough to slap a restraining order in top of it all once I had full custody of the child so that the family couldn't try to turn the child against me, either. Before any of you get mad, I come from an extremely toxic family and have been cut off from them. Because people are so insane, it's better to be safe than sorry, and my husband and I have multiple plans in mind in case my family ever tries to come back and make our lives hell again, especially if I get pregnant and get to have the baby after three miscarriages.

[@imnotrobot1118]

I’m sorry you had to deal with toxicity in your family. I have a slightly toxic biological father (HE GOT REMARRIED AND DIDINT SAY SHIT TO HIS LITERAL DAUGHTER) long story short I get the whole toxic family member thing and I cut him off from my life and my stepfather is currently working on making me his legal daughter. Good for you for cutting off the toxic family members, it’s hard because your related so like you don’t want to believe they could do bad stuff and act like you aren’t something to think about in a “how will it affect this person” type way. Point is I get it.

[@sarahalviz979]

This is a great advice. I really hope the fiancé got to break free from that entitled brat.

[@pollymiller6370]

You did the right thing. I'm ashamed of women like her. And i shudder for her boy, who has a bad "guidepost" as a parent. I'm delighted you are well. I have cancer, and the family shit is more of a worry fir me than the cancer. God bless 🙏

[@rahelap3156]

First story: so happy that person become free from cancer and antisocial mother faced justice; the kid is blessed as he understands correctly what is right vs wrong; we need more officers who have courage to stand up to bullies; I was abused for 8 years and his sister UK police detective was preventing every my complaint to be investigated and has supported his antisocial behaviour and abuse of me. Second story: in all the horror, the op is blessed because this event separated her from narcissistic family; she is free to have happy life without these monsters

[@Fricker112]

With the first story. I am a kid, 13 years old, and my legs work perfectly fine. To the point in which I can and have hiked and backpacked some of the hardest hikes on the east coast of the United States. If someone can't stand easily, like if they have cancer or another condition, or even something like old age, I can 100% give up a seat (or not take theirs) without any issues. I try to understand the pain of having cancer seeing as my family has struggled with it in the past, however it's not something that is really easy to understand or to relate to. I give my deepest condolences to anyone and their family that struggles with this heart wrenching condition, or any other like it. Have a great day and thank you for reading my comment.

[@-namekuji-1973]

The first story was amazing. The older guy being a cop was the most beautiful karma moment ever

[@rolfrose4507]

Two Things for Story 1: First, i really feel sorry for the Entitled Mom's Kid, i mean he probably just wants to get Home and then his Mom just has to make a scene on the bus Second: the old man is a f*cking legend, seriosly the guy deserves an award for handeling the situation so well

[@bookwormwonder]

1st one reminds me of when I took a bus and someone wanted me to give up my seat on a full bus...I was 20 y/o but had a cane, even explained I couldn't stand as it wasn't safe for me as I had/have issues with balance, pain, etc. This is what the disability seats are for..those with disabilities, not those who just wanted to sit! They threw a huge guilt trip on me, making me looking like a selfish brat as they were older.

[@rcastle722]

being sibling with someone and having this happen must really traumatize you, but i hope your in a better spot right now and this wont happen ever again

[@dkf315]

First story: even if OP doesn't press charges, the OG officer can still book the mother for assaulting an officer (even though she didn't realize he was a cop). Second story: the mother was the jerk for forcing the OP to give up her wedding day and even lied to the wedding planner under the OP's name

[@shutterbug5519]

I'm dealing with a sister that's somewhat like this. She's helped me a lot during the years financially and I've done a lot of manual labor for her. When she did help me it always had to be on her terms. If it was for something she didn't think I should do or buy she didn't help no matter what it was. She continually throws up in my face what she's done for me. She married a man twenty nine years ago that not only made extremely good money but came from a family that had money. She hasn't had to work since they married. She's always been controlling but it increased tenfold after she married. After our dad passed she took control over our mother. Our mother had to go to an assisted living facility the being of 2017 and passed in the middle of 2019. Our mom asked me before she passed why didn't I move into her house. She said no one is there and your paying rent. I told her maybe I would. I offered to buy my sister out when our mom passed but she said no. Now she's wanting to buy me out except for one acre and rent our family home. She said I could keep an eye on the renters to make sure they're doing what they're suppose to do. The house I'm living in is going up for sale soon so I've got to move. She's still refusing to let me move in even though we own everything equally. She said if I moved in anyway I'd lose her and her family. She'd never speak to me again nor would her family. Apparently she controls them as well. With all this being said, would I be a jerk if I did go ahead and move in?

[@tatsuyahiiragi416]

you better do it

[@terrygiratd9082]

Now I call that victory you never know who your guardian angel is in the time of trouble who knew that man with a cop that's amazing your story is amazing and I am so happy that you are cancer-free may you always be victorious

[@leahernandez3208]

This hit so close to home, especially now for me. I didn’t exactly go through the same thing, but I did have a mother who had a form of narcissistic traits even though it wasn’t stated her sister had these. A person you TRUST ends up betraying you in the most personal way possible and essentially kills a part of ur reputation with the others you love. Pulling the “because I thought u loved me…” or “because we’re family…” is NEVER okay. The fact that her Nan told her she was being selfish really stuck with me. After my mom hit me and I was at my grandma’s, she told me to say sorry to her even though she did something like that. “She was just stressed.” Even my dad was asking why I screamed. It’s terrible. Dealing with the aftermath and standing up for yourself can make you feel alienated from the ones you trusted the most. Even now, my family is still trying to justify my mom’s actions. It can make you feel so lonely and I’m truly happy that she stood up to her sister and had support from her fiancé (at the time). Family really doesn’t have to be blood related. Family is supposed to consist of the people you love and trust the most.

[@JamesLard32]

I'd of replied to the sister: sure. You can have the venue. After you pay for everything. I'll give you all the receipts for it... And I'm tacking on an inconvenience charge for making us have to wait longer. After this balance is paid IN FULL I'll make the necessary phone calls. Oh. I shouldn't expect money from family like that? Great. Glad we're in agreement that family doesn't mean you get what you want just because you ask.

[@drifter2391]

I wouldn't because it's been planned for THREE FUCKING YEARS.

[@JamesLard32]

@@drifter2391 that's the point. Ask a ridiculous request in return

[@drifter2391]

@@JamesLard32 I'd ask them to pay double the price.

[@JamesLard32]

@@drifter2391 that's what the inconvenience charge would be. Lol equal to the total

[@drifter2391]

@@JamesLard32 LMAO

[@ShojiSkullz]

I hope the kid gets a mom that has something valuable to teach him or do in life.

[@Justin-A-Carter]

Story one. First off I'd like to say I'm glad he's cancer-free second off that was just awesome that she assaulted an off duty cop.... that's just instant Karma with whipped cream on top

[@hatari909nix]

Maybe word that diffrently

[@nintenjoe2734]

As soon as he said “And now assaulting a cop?” I started laughing

[@voidedflurry7312]

Kid eishes he was never born, Some dude: he has cancer Lady:no he doesnt Dude: he has no eyebrows, That litterally got me

[@auroragannon7727]

Man:lady he has no eyebrows Lady:and I took that personally

[@cosmicreef5858]

Also why would a skinhead hide under a wig? It makes no sense.

[@andrewwatkins4852]

I would have shown my throat scar it's super effective

[@doggo6442]

That girl in story 2 deserve another family same goes for the brother and the aunt, he and the aunt were the only nice people in that family

[@Katrn30]

I raised my son to always give up his seat for anyone who looked like they needed it. There is usually no need for a healthy child to sit while a sick person stands.

[@misslidi7186]

I'm happy that your cancer free. Yesterday april 18th my grateaunt passed away from cancer. Two weeks ago we found out that she had cancer and it was the last stage. This story makes me happy because your cancer free and that woman got what she deserved.

[@garvgupta3567]

my grandfather died of cancer I HATE CANCER AND IT IS A LIVING HELL FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

[@branflakes5917]

Solely relying on your sister to give up everything she's been working on for 3 years, as your plan for your wedding, is pure insanity. I'm starting to find out that there's a lot of people that lack empathy, and basic moral logic.

[@jenniferthomson3279]

You know that moment when you think "Where's a cop when you need one?" And then the older gentleman WAS a cop and the justice is soooo sweet lol. Happened to me once. I was walking the dog late at night and the roads were empty except for one a$$hole who came speeding down a residential street out of nowhere. I thought "Where's a cop when you need one" and in less than 5 seconds a cop sped past trying to catch up to the guy. It was awesome

[@SquidForSquare]

I can totally understand the angry sister. My older sister is entitled and narcissistic asf and my parents always justified her actions and made the rest of my siblings including me feel the exact same way as her family responded to her. Her family is toxic and when they do realize they ruined their entire family over favouring one kid is going to be too late.

[@toxiceyebrows]

I genuinely feel bad for the kid in story one which I do not feel a lot just imagine being on the bus with your mom and she gets in an argument and get arrested so the kid will have to live with the father or be fostered if the mother was single

[@totallyshatteredvids7446]

So WOW! Sounds like my sister. My parents enabled her for 43 years. Best thing she ever did was to die, sorry to have to say. I never had a relationship with my parents until she died and they noticed they had another child. I was 40 by then and not really interested in getting to know them. They borrowed money, stole from me, lied to me, and took my home and property that my stepfather had cosigned with me for. They gave it all to my sister so she (and her husband) didn't have to work or quit doing drugs. I've been blackmailed and guilted by them all my life to better my sister. All I got out of this was to rescue my sisters son from her and raise him as my own son. Before you ask, yes, he was born addicted to meth and has multiple issues related to it. He's eight years old now and doing an awesome job of rising above his beginnings! Prayer DOES work. As a side note, my parents believe they have done the right thing by all their children and don't understand my attitude.

[@georgedoherty962]

I was 55 years old before I realised that my own family were dysfunctional. I knew my dad told lies about me, that was the easy bit but much more damaging than the violence he inflicted on me before I turned 19. My younger sister was vulnerable and he controlled her to the point where she lost 2 valuable properties because he told her not to pay her debts. On the last occasion , I listened to him telling her not to pay the money. It was only £350 , but meant that all the goodwill that I had managed to build between the parties was lost. I could not believe what I was hearing, My eldest sister was is txt book narcissist and has no problem looking me in the eye and telling me bare faced lies.., I now believe that narcissism is hereditary, I know my extended family very well and our family is littered with angry narcissists mosty widowed or divorced. And of course I married a Narcissist but odd as it may seem , this is normal for someone like me. I an way on the wrong side of 70 and happy in my skin . I just don't bother trying to understand, I stay away out of the road, I hot divorced in 2003 and 2 years later met soulmate and married her. Life is good but my 2 daughters follow the tradition and there is absolutely nothing I can do about it, best of all, I don't even try. I just get on with life and stay out of firing range. None of these females ever use the word sorry.. That is the crazy thing about all this.. There is no cure. Just get out while you can. It took me long enough.

[@connordixon4893]

I was a cancer patient for two years. It wasn’t always like this, but there were some parts of my treatment that seriously impacted my physical endurance to the point where I could barely make it from the car to the hospital waiting room. A couple times, I had to borrow a wheelchair from the clinic. It was rough. I was lucky enough to have my parents to drive me to and from treatments, but I can’t imagine going through what OP did. Not to mention the increased risk of infection that comes with being on a crowded bus. If someone had gotten in my face like that, I definitely would not have been as calm about it as they were. For the part of my treatment where I was able to attend college, I had to physically restrain myself every time I was near someone who wasn’t wearing their mask properly. I’m sure the pandemic didn’t help - I just got done with treatment three weeks ago - but still.

[@megaplayer1105]

Jesus Christ, hearing the first story was one of the most shocking and inhumane things I've ever heard, seeing this mother's attitude would make me lose faith in humanity if the man who defended you hadn't defended you. thank God you got better and now you can live normally, may God bless you boy 🙏😔

[@garvgupta3567]

only reason I have faith in humanity is people save dos and cats

[@brandyaase3427]

This is the best but also sad story and that elder gentleman was a respectful man I also respect him

[@itsjulia8202]

im sorry that you have cancer, i would never imagin what it would be like because i dont have cancer but i hope people give you more respect towards you, espiacally if you have terrible cancer

[@ughceline]

Got really mad at the 2nd story, I’m completely supporting the original poster You can’t just expect someone to give up something they’ve worked so hard and so long for just because you’re pregnant yk, doesn’t make sense. It’s kinda disgusting in a sense

[@charlotteemily146]

Yeah like how do people actually think this is okay? It’s crazy knowing there’s people just like her sister in the world

[@sarahalviz979]

Exactly. And she was being irresponsible as well since she didn’t plan for having a child.

[@Jake481992]

Been addicted to these stories, but this is the first one I finally sat there and actually got really upset by it. My best friend was the victim of a near identical story, to the OP of the story in this video. So, I have very close experience to what it felt like. The main difference between my best friend's wedding, and the OP's wedding, is that his wedding was booked 17 months in advance, and his own BROTHER tried to ask for the venue (for free, mind you, I won't get into what it cost), because his fiance (who was expecting triplets) and him needed it more, especially considering they both own a business and just don't have the time for planning their own. Yeah, sounds familiar right? Best friend and his brother are no longer on speaking terms (and haven't been for 11 years), and the fiance left best friend's brother, but still gave birth to the triplets, and has been an integrated part of our friend group for just about as long, and is one of the most lovely people I've ever known.

[@h.m.s.6043]

I also want to tell a story that happened to me in 2021 (around July). I live currently in Madrid and usually, I go with my prents to beach in summer. I was on the water soon at morning, my mom was buying things for playing, I was only with my dad, who was outside the water. A kid of around 7-8 years was just playing near to him, and suddenly, the umbrella flew away into it. His family was just on my dad's left, and his grandpa came in the situation and started saying: -What the hell are you doing you stupid grandpa?! (Him was older than my dad) Do you come from Toledo or what?! (Not sure if that was what he said, I wasn't able to listen because I was far away, my dad told it) And then, I came at speed of light when I realised, but it was too late for asking. The kid had a lot of sand on its eyes, and what I listened actually was him crying out. My dad excused a lot and grabbed the broken umbrella, and left it on his side. I asked a million times about what happened, but he said me ''nothing'' or barely told me anything. I had to force him (not on the literal meaning) to explain me. Like 15 minutes later, the grandpa came again, with a visible face of being regretted. He said aldo sorry because of going loud about what happened, and told him a tool to attach the umbrella better into the sand. My mom came back with the toys and we told her about it, and again went to the shop for an umbrella. That's all I remember about the story, I'll edit this if I remember. Thanks for paying attention to whoever you are listening.

[@roadsidecamper]

Yeah I've had to take the bus home after a surgery, was the worst experience ever. Had to be on twice the amount of anesthesia because they thought I wasn't out before the surgery so when I woke up I was really bad off. I could barely walk but somehow managed to get on the bus. Was lucky enough to find a seat. Had two women on the ride home come stand next to me, one with a kid and one without just staring at me and tisking (that noise made with their mouth out of disapproval) because I didn't give up the seat to them. Some people think the world revolves around them.

[@LightningCreatorSamYT]

you did exactly what you think is right, you planned the venue for 3 years, family are not meant to take from each other, there meant to share with each other, you didn't have to give the venue if you didn't want to and she shouldn't be asking for things if she doesn't give back. This honestly sounded as if you were in the right this whole time and you were basically were.

[@Memes_GUD]

I gotta give the Father in Law a W there knowing the amount of BS OP's family was saying.

[@dani6552]

Hey,same profile pic lol

[@Memes_GUD]

@@dani6552 are u sure?

[@dani6552]

@@Memes_GUD i just change my profile pic,I thought you've already read my reply,lol

[@plum6999]

@@dani6552 14 Mins ago 💀

[@Memes_GUD]

@@dani6552 ok

[@i_like_to_eat_food]

the sister was the jerk because she wanted to TAKE something from someone who had been planning something for 3 YEARS and was told to wait another 3 MONTHS. That is just messed up. And the parents are just very biased toward the sister. And also, the sister always got what she wanted, and she would throw a tantrum for EVERYTHING, whether she didn't get presents on her sister's birthday, to FORCING her OWN SISTER to fill out job applications for HER.

[@beth_m]

For the second story I think it’s unfair for the pregnant sister to want the venue when the narrator has been waiting literal years and has had it planned for a long time. Being pregnant doesn’t mean that everyone needs to give you everything :/

[@mandolorian7884]

Mama's girl also im mad she said "you always get whatever you want" i strongly believe the op and if hes right then that statement is the other way around shes a crybaby mama's girl thats kinda it

[@yanberman4580]

That's exactly when I will have a wedding it's gonna be just me and my fiance fly to somewhere else and do a little private wedding :)

[@charlotteemily146]

That sounds sweet and I’m happy for you

[@janecerrone6161]

I gotta tell you, I go out a lot and I have never seen anything like this happen. I live Massachusetts and people are genuinely nice people. My apologies to you for what she did. She had no right and I truely hope she learns something from this.