"I Don't Use SHE/HER Pronouns!!"

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[@marcusdib]

Happy Friday! What are your plans for the weekend? :D

[@rougefun]

Sleep 😂

[@PolishAxolotl]

Read books

[@Morbid_Freyja27]

Make good use of that MW3 double XP! How about you?? 😊

[@tessabiggs2917]

Walking the foster dogs. Probably taking them to the park. And boring housework.

[@CorgiAvenger]

Clinic Day at the farm. People coming with horses, camping, riding, learning about cool stuff. I'm exhausted already. Hah!

[@snows12152]

Ah yes, the septum strikes again…

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

😅🤣

[@ugandanfilmassociation5949]

The "Spectrum" too oml

[@venny4489]

we are not all bad 😢

[@velvetvulpix]

I actually really like septum’s they’re just being given a bad rap right now lol

[@velvetvulpix]

@@venny4489lol I support you I actually like them I mean sometimes they’ll look bad on someone (in my opinion )like anything else but I think there’s lots of people who look great with them

[@galacticunicorn6319]

I went out yesterday and I don’t think I used a single pronoun to address a stranger. These people just need to leave the house for a while and get offline.

[@Xaforn]

Don’t just touch grass, go roll in it!!

[@brithneynewberry]

I agree i’ve never once in my life have been asked my pronouns or have I had to ask someone theirs but I live in texas it’s very different here

[@LynMa80]

That's because they are used to talking behind people's backs, so they assume we all do the same, and they don't want to be misgendered when we trash talk them.

[@moe6906]

Better yet, smoke it 😆

[@megamegaO]

You wont find them outside...They stay in their houses or hang around managers

[@jakemansfield3486]

“Guess my pronouns” but if you get it wrong, you’re getting screamed at.

[@santorosan5848]

For real! No matter what you say, they will be mad at you anyways... They don't care! Since you're a bigot to them, they'll automatically see you as the worst person in the world...😒

[@norskawood]

I'm guessing "I don't care" isn't the right answer. 😏

[@SilverTheHedghog96]

Best thing you can do is just ignore them, they aren't worth your time or air

[@lorileeann7623]

No, thank you...I don't care, really....

[@_DROM_]

This is the thing, unless you're androgynous, we don't have to guess 😂

[@Ktakahashi18]

How did we fall backwards in thinking short hair= man long hair=woman? It's like the 80s and 90s never happened!? This is ridiculous!

[@helenetrstrup4817]

It's like everything is a circle. We somehow end up back where we started.

[@sluttymctits4496]

This is what I never understood. These TikTok kids want to "destroy the gender binary" and be unique but live by strict codes and outdated stereotypes. A man wants to wear makeup so he must be a woman, or a woman wants to wear athletic shorts and a jersey so she must be a man. A man wants to be "femme" so grows his hair out, and a woman watch to be a dude so cuts it short. What happened to people being well-rounded individuals with varied tastes?

[@Mistmantle88]

The new generation is re-creating all the problems that we solved over the past forty years, so that they can fix them again and feel good about themselves. They are hell-bent on reasserting gender stereotypes and seem to believe they are somehow “more real” than physical reality.

[@Cardinal_claw]

Or "I like stereotypical masculine/feminine things"

[@silenta6507]

They are seriously being so sexist with their idea of "Genders".

[@asherahalchemy5101]

Full breasts on a hairy male chest...evokes a primal feeling of horror and confusion for me. If a person needs to do that, fine, but calm the f down and stop trampling over the gay community, children and soociety in general. We need to make space for everyone, that means not trampling upon women or other people or groups. Respect. This is a big mess. Remember that social engineering is the mechanism here.

[@mariatomko4278]

YES while some are pushing to make laws REQUIRING others to address them as they wish and treat them as they wish and act as though their delusions are fact....where are the laws protecting the people who have to interact with them?!

[@user-kg5lq6nd7q]

It’s gotten to the point where They’re force feeding people their kinks and weirdness telling people they have to accept it. No, I don’t have to accept big burley men wearing lipstick and a short skirt. If you’re walking around looking absolutely insane, expect people to stare at you , don’t expect people to treat you with special treatment.

[@kellysouter4381]

​@@user-kg5lq6nd7qwhere's my freedom to choose?

[@adamandsethdylantoo]

Hairy boobs, he/him, has penis: ewww gross incel go be a creep somewhere else Hairy boobs, he/him, has vagina: wow you go king trans rights are human rights

[@MorayG0gol]

It literally looks so disgusting

[@chefnyc]

Hair/her

[@StefanReich]

Haha. Yeah. I was guessing body/hair

[@Mant111]

Be/Beast

[@BlxxdSpxrt591]

Shave/chest

[@user-px9nx9pc7k]

LOL

[@ashlynn7375]

Dog 😂

[@Bethoflife]

This whole fixation on gender/ sexuality is drawing us away from issues that really matter ! I have never felt compelled to be overt or verbal about my sexuality bc there's more to me than that.

[@AngelaHalo1307]

Yes! I was going to write the exact same ❤

[@silenta6507]

Exactly some make their sexuality their whole personality...

[@alicianieto2822]

I feel more like the fixation is us running away from issues we can't fix

[@naelyneurkopfen9741]

Creating hate and division. "A house divided against itself cannot stand". There's absolutely a method to this madness.

[@NiaLaLa_V]

@@alicianieto2822 Not with that attitude, anyway. When did everybody forget that we outnumber the rulers? Can you see me as just another american and want me to make it as much as you want you to make it? Can you demand politicians stop wasting our taxes subsidizing the industries that lobbied to them? We have clear solutions, and we are the bigger team. We just have to make the damn move.

[@goddammitalana]

They say don't assume pronouns but then when we ask instead of calling a man in a dress with makeup on "she/her/ma'am/miss" automatically they get offended and freak out

[@alecstardis]

when has this ever happened to u

[@clogs4956]

Watch social media. That’s sufficient. Personally, I’ve encountered a girl claiming to be he/him and getting freaked out that I addressed her as she/her. All her friends tried to shush me, in case the girl had a meltdown.

[@LuiMac1026]

All the time. I get called transphobic for not being attracted to vagina ​@@alecstardis

[@OhMakiroll]

But what about trans women who passes 100% and you wouldn’t know she is trans from looking at her. As soon as she tells you she is trans she is a man in a women’s costume?? Don’t make sense

[@howlingbeats2544]

Real trans people want to you to assume, that's the whole point. Even Marcus has said that before.

[@Kolby3185]

Gotta love the tiktok trend of people having conversations with themselves. It’s clearly the only way they could “win” such arguments

[@pmc2999]

😂😂😂true!

[@teelesynclair5902]

When I feel bad about myself, I realise it's not that bad, at least I'm not making up weird, imaginary scenarios/confrontations and then acting them out for the world to see on YT or TT 😂

[@susanfisher2581]

@@Kolby3185 🤭

[@nancymccarthy8914]

I have eyes, these ppl have eyes, they know whether they look like a female or male and yet they act as if we’re purposely offending them by using those eyes to determine their gender! I feel like the world has gone crazy I really do.

[@Shaved_Bunny]

I love how people just fight with themselves in these short videos like, they make things up and they get angry.

[@user-lv4ek9lk4l]

Lack of hobby syndrome

[@alecstardis]

@@user-lv4ek9lk4lcoming from the 7 year old with an anti rainbow pfp u little wuss

[@clogs4956]

It’s part of the abusive mindset. It involves creating a scenario in their head, getting angry about it, then giving themselves permission to rage. Rather than one victim bearing the brunt of this, it’s more topical now to vent on social media in order to get those sweet, sweet interactions (good or bad) which then validate the imagined slight.

[@bdavis4099]

Yes! Alone in their rooms!

[@NiaLaLa_V]

Going viral is so easy now. Be wrong and crazy on the internet, everybody will watch. We can't help ourselves, it's so damn entertaining.

[@AwkwardSappho]

Thank you for exposing the rampant sexism among these people. If identifying as "nonbinary" is freeing, it's only because the person holds deeply sexist, archaic beliefs about what it means to be male and female. Love your content so so much 💖

[@PungiFungi]

I do not what what non-binary means and I do not care or want to know.

[@antoniocarlosoliveira9146]

​@@PungiFungitrust me , dont , its a whole headcache , not even these people know truly what it means , as for right now , i've already heard 3 different definitions.

[@jellyfishbeans94]

It just means they’re misogynistic and narcissistic people who can’t seem to float with us common people.

[@Zarreth]

@@PungiFungi It's Narcissism. It's always Narcissism. If not a "trendy" delusion.

[@music0cool]

Well said!!

[@Tracylynn62]

Marcus, this stuff isn't conservative, democrats and moderates hate it too.

[@PungiFungi]

Let's not revise history, the democrats created this. It was under the leadership of a Democratic President, Obama to be exact, that all these misfits felt emboldened and shambled out wherever they were previously hiding and unleashed their illness upon the rest of us.

[@LoreleiLewisDesigns]

My grandpa used to say, the difference between a bad haircut and a good haircut is 3 weeks. I love your hair everyday, but it looks fantastic at this length!

[@BMCBroManClash]

I guess minotaurs are not myths anymore.

[@noladavis5085]

But that means someone shagged a bull( I say 'someone' because I don't want to assume their pronouns) and that's just icky. That poor Bull.

[@StephInOttawa]

Oh! That's a good one.. my mind went right to yeti.

[@ellenwhitworth337]

It’s not our job to make other people happy. I choose to make myself happy.

[@NiaLaLa_V]

I ain't even got time for that. I need to make money.

[@Girl-Next-Door]

Single mom traveling with a 2yo was kicked off of a plane (united airlines) because frustrated mom accidentally misgendered flight attendant while trying to subdue her child. The flight attendant felt that it's feelings were more important than trying to help mom with child. They can't be and shouldn't be in high position jobs because they can't do thier jobs properly, it will ALWAYS be about them.

[@dinara_safina]

Yes and the plane took off with the son's medication, but when the mom asked about it, the United Airlines workers seemed to care less. So pronouns are much more important than someone getting their much needed medication! Ugh, this world.

[@monicanavarro2906]

​@@dinara_safina Ugh, so-called first-world countries*... Fixed that for you.

[@jaijai5250]

And they wonder why people want to ignore and avoid them at all costs.

[@DragonWaffleX]

United should be embarrassed. Making people subscribe to something they don't believe in because it makes their employee feel better is madness. A grown adult should have far more emotional maturity. Especially one in the travel industry. Where you WILL bump into people that do not share your beliefs.

[@LaraLarissaSoares]

Hope this mom has already filed a law suit against UA

[@EllanaWolf]

Sorry but that is a horrible sight.

[@DaniStenko]

uglhe/ugler/uglselves

[@christinepeterson8097]

You don’t need to be sorry!

[@DebbieOldSchool-1442]

I refuse to be an enabler to just make someone happy. Reality is the anchor we all have. The bench mark , if you will. This will run its course if we all stay in reality and don’t humor folks.

[@archangel1547]

“What would you say my pronouns are?” “I don’t know. Ugly/uglyself?”

[@frishter]

I despise being asked "why does it matter". If it doesn't matter then they/them should stop policing my speech based on their own unpopular constructs. That gaslighting sentence is more common that it should be and only is directed in one direction only. It mattered the moment I became a villain because of it.

[@maniacmatt7340]

"it doesnt matter about grammer" that's entirely wrong.

[@pmc2999]

Indeed, grammer is part of what helps us order our thinking.

[@The_Nightsong]

At this point, I will just not talk to anyone. Because we can't assume someone's gender, but demand we use the right pronouns. Then, they are also offended if we ask what their pronoun is, because it should be obvious. Then... what are we supposed to do?

[@chefnyc]

This is exactly the problem. They/them wants inclusivity, but if people have to walk on eggshells they will completely avoid them. During hiring, teamwork, happy hour, mentoring, etc.

[@monicanavarro2906]

Ignore them.

[@jaijai5250]

@@monicanavarro2906it’s as simple as that!

[@KendraBarth14]

I kinda a tom boy. I dont wear makeup, or cute clothes. I mosty wear baggy guy clothes. You kniw hoooow many time i been as "sir" or "dude". I laugh it off and go on with my life like it never happen .

[@squoctopus]

Me too. I manage to correct people without having an emotional breakdown. That's because I don't need other people to "validate" who I am. And if they go talk about me to someone and use "the wrong pronouns?", who cares? Not me, I'm not even present, and I don't have friends immature enough to tell me about it. I would only think it's funny anyway, because it is. But then I'm not trying to bully people into denying reality.

[@reidellis1988]

SHE has more chest hair than I do.

[@RichCooki]

😂😂😂😂

[@internecion-inator9000]

Why don't you have chest hair?

[@reidellis1988]

@internecion-inator9000 I said more. That wouldn't imply none. Do you understand genetics? Some MEN are hairy, and some aren't.

[@Mistmantle88]

“Guess my pronouns!” “I won’t, if it’s all the same to you.” 😐

[@Acehigh-Jenkins]

That answer is gold!

[@Apexpred1]

Hairy / scary

[@aporue5893]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kaliante]

When you are comfortable with who you are, how you look like, sound like....... you don't care too much of what other people see, hear or assume about you. Those people must not like themselves much if they are constantly offended by others just voicing what's in front of them. Accepting and loving yourself is a superpower.

[@FeralRat]

4:20 What. No. Literally no normal person would be angry if someone clearly used the wrong pronouns for them. They would just be like ?

[@hhoges9895]

As someone with a septum piercing I’m really really starting to consider removing it. But it looks so cute on me! I’ve already had to give up my coloured hair

[@mayamartich9866]

I think that's sad:( I also had coloured hair and piercings, wanted to dye it again blue or purple, but now I'm not sure about that:/ To me, it was artistic.

[@gigahorse1475]

Don’t give it up… break the stereotype! I have a pixie cut as a woman. I love colored hair and piercings (to be fair I don’t have a lot of piercings and I haven’t colored my hair yet due to expense but I want to one day).

[@mayamartich9866]

@@gigahorse1475 We should

[@Mikinaak2023]

Your choice. But yes, it's starting to look like guilt by association these days.

[@ginamarie2355]

I feel this. I stopped coloring my hair und wearing my septum piercing because I noticed so many crazy people wearing it too and I don't want to be associated with them. And I want to like myself just how am naturally looking. Stopped wearing make up everyday. Limited social media. My self image really improved, I can see myself much more clearly now. I wish you all the best :)

[@KnightOfTheWired]

I got my septum piercing 15 years ago before it was super popular. I hate that I have a chance to be lumped in with people like this. The reason I got it was because I could flip it up into my nose and its a facial piercing that won't leave scaring.

[@StephInOttawa]

Most facial piercings don't scar, unless they're surface piercings.

[@rhondawentzell6959]

Why do I get an increasing desire to live alone & never deal with anyone again?

[@helenetrstrup4817]

If someone came up to me and asked me what my pronous are, I know I wouldn't want to talk to them. I do not have the energy or the patience for it. I would leave as fast as humanly possible. Thankfully it has only happened through text... twice. It always ended up being so incredibly awkward.

[@RavenVargas27]

I agree and would do the same

[@Itsakindamagic]

I just turn on my heel and walk away if ANY of this stuff surfaces. I'm 75 years old have had a lot of gay friends, male and female. I'm straight but we still had lots of fun together and they knew me by name when I went for an evening at the lesbian bar. These people need to stop pushing their sex in everybody's face and get on with their lives. If you behave like a good person you will be treated as one. I lived through the toughest times of everybody coming out and the ones who had good lives in the end did just that.

[@user-qx4rx6ih8j]

“Ew I sound like Candace Owens” - Marcus

[@thefrybasket]

We cannot assume but they call every non rainbow coalition member cis and straight 👀 oh.

[@TroubledTrooper]

"Respect my pronouns" is a shield to not engage with their deep seated insecurity about themselves. They project that insecurity on everyone else. They are classic narcassists.

[@Tsuki0ni]

If you called me a she, I would think it was weird, but then ask you what you wanted to order because this is a Wendy's and it ain't that deep for anyone.

[@kayeragdull217]

In my misbegotten youth, I work in call center. Dumb terminal, main frame in the hermetically sealed room. Of course, land lines with wire. In short, I'm a dinosaur. I was a fairly well endowed female, strawberry blonde with green gold eyes...and a fairly low voice. It was a 50/50 bet if I would be a yes ma'am or a yes sir. I never corrected the caller. Why, you might ask. Because I didn't define myself by my job, it had absolutely nothing to do with the call, and it just wasted time for nothing. It just wasted my time and the callers. I know it's trite, but these hot house flowers need to drop a set and grow up.

[@ElviraMistress666]

I used to be ‘trans’. Blaire made a good point about trauma being related to transitions. It was after I had been molested. Now, I wear dresses, love pink and makeup and anything girlie and have my hair long again. Not related to this video really, but just soemthing I wanted to share. Some people aren’t trans but think they are. And it’s stupid that they’ll push these beliefs on others

[@batmanforpresident9655]

In THE HOLY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST, ✝️, I rebuke that demon!!

[@ThefrigginBatman]

Hey, it’s me! Hi me!

[@WritingRebel82]

What a joke! I had one of you cretins say that you're going to pray for me because I'm an atheist. 😂

[@vsanchez7158]

😂😂😂😂

[@thesamiminnellihour9685]

why you do this to me dimi

[@cathyyoung3285]

​@@thesamiminnellihour9685😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Apoc5k]

Before all this pronoun malarkey sex and gender were more or less interchangeable as the same thing and the choice was male or female.

[@raishakisaragi6899]

It/its

[@StefanReich]

Idon't/care

[@SV_OxO_113]

I support trans/nonbinary people, however, if you want to be addressed as the gender you want, you need to dress/look the part, like y'all don't need to get angry at me just because I assumed your gender 😒

[@shirleyelliott2985]

I would guess that you're going to bring too much drama to my life and not interact with you at all

[@epicone9255]

are nose rings a REQUIREMENT for these people???

[@Violetbunnyfish]

Yes

[@christopherdieudonne]

Yes! I believe it must be. They all seem to have them

[@WhoCaresAnymoreTho]

The Mid life crisis epidemic is crazy

[@Xaforn]

And mid life crisis are happening younger and younger

[@ras613pa]

What I find is the most straightforward argument you use in this presentation: If someone feels the need to create new gender descriptors, they are dismissing the reality that both males and females do not *have* to restrict themselves to gender/sexual constructs/stereotypes. As a much older gay man, I lived through decades when gay liberation fostered the view that one did not have to 'fit' into heterosexual norms for how a male or female should look and behave. They were also times when transexuals were individuals who felt that they would be happiest and most fulfilled if they altered bodies/behavior/dress/presentation/etc. It was simple, realistic and, most importantly, it worked. There was minimal in-fighting within our community and our joint focus as L, G and T was on civil rights for ourselves. Keep up the good work.

[@spddiesel]

Every day, every damn day, I relate more and more with the "what the hell is even that?!?" guy. Now get off my lawn...

[@micheleslowinski4405]

Sad, sadder, saddest

[@Kkorea-kanda]

People now a days act like being misgendered is as bad as being called the N word

[@tiinaselva7140]

I'm feeling so blessed- I born and live here in Finland. We don't have to handle this part of all that shit. Because we have only one pronouns in Finnish language HÄN=she/he (HÄNEN=her/his)

[@Golightly354]

As I am an old lady now, with increasing memory problems, most people (lgbt/whatever/straight etc) are 'thingy' now, or I pretend that I cannot hear, as I find even family names hard work now.

[@parading_panda1210]

My 1 year old is going through a phase where he asks "What's that?" ALL THE TIME. Even at the store, he points people and asks me "What's that?" If he pointed at one of these people, I'd be like "What is that?? I don't even know. They might not even know." At least people probably assume I'm not teaching him pronouns, but I am, I just don't have time for outside noise AT ALL. 😂

[@xfile1966]

The only thing that comes to mind is GROSS!

[@jayeclements6452]

Miriam Margolyes is a truly unique personality. And, generally, I agree with her that if it makes someone happy..... Like many people I dislike the full version of my first name and use a diminutive. I might correct someone who saw the full name (on a credit card or medical record or something) by saying "Actually I prefer Jaye...." but if they forgot I wouldn't berate them and in a one-off situation it's not worth the effort. The chances are I am NEVER going to encounter them again and people who know and care about me know what I prefer to be called. However, it's the people who DEMAND I know their pronouns through some sort of telepathy I find insufferable. If it upsets you that much, feel free to enlighten me but also please be aware that I DON'T CARE. If I cared about you because you are friend or family, then that's different but if you are a random person I have happened to encounter, I don't care. I don't care to play your ridiculous "Guess my pronouns" game. I'll take my best guess although if I am talking to YOU I will say "You....." One doesn't say "He....." or "She....." directly to the subject. In short, I don't care to feed your delusion. If you're emotionally traumatised because I won't feed your insatiable need for validation, I can recommend a good therapist.

[@ChaosTyrant]

What a terrible day to have eyes.

[@RosPal-Tesao15]

I refuse to believe someone who has posters of two of the best manga/anime thinks that way 😢

[@chrishayden82]

As an elder millennial gay this is a new thing, we didn’t give af back in the day.

[@dinamoon9709]

I really wanted to fly in America when I was a child. Now I look at it all and I’m afraid of America, thank you for those people :/

[@rosegilliland220]

1:12-“I love my hair today.” Sorry that caught me off guard and I laughed. But yes, your hair is fabulous. 😂

[@TanyaRando]

I had to smirk at “doll” as I used to work with someone from the US who always called me Doll 😂😂

[@moonyfruit]

I'm all for self identification and self-expression, but the moment someone starts belittling others unjustified... no. Treat others how YOU want to be treated.

[@emjeispyder]

Can some cool conservative take back septum piercings please? I love mine so much and these stupid people make me want to take it out lol

[@esthelaheredia9664]

The random "I love my hair today" love it

[@alexs6250]

It had to be said!

[@WritingRebel82]

I don't care what their pronouns are.

[@Or3ooo]

"apparently you can't assume someone's gender no matter how obvious it is." That's the most realest thing ive ever heard for years.

[@hatoru17]

Honestly at this point I'm guessing they want to make something up so people can just ignore each other. And I am most certainly just ignoring these units.

[@i_brought_a_flower]

Bro that thumbnail 🤢 wtf. My innocent saphicc mind can't digest this

[@ShockerTopper]

I found your channel randomly and really like it. I feel bad for people like yourself, Blair, and Brad Polumbo who have known who you are for a very long time, but these activists have barged on in and are attempting to take that from you. You guys see reality and are rational human beings, unlike these lunatics who are trying to make a joke of your group. I don't blame you for not wanting to be part of their bullshit.

[@yasminister2011]

My Mum told me that when I was about 4, I asked her “why does that Boy have long hair”. In fact, it was a girl with long hair wearing blue. We laugh about this today but the truth is that I came into this world wanting to know typical gender roles and I enjoyed knowing I belonged. There’s nothing wrong with with me for feeling that way just as there’s nothing wrong for people who don’t feel that way at all ❤

[@patoneill8233]

My puppy has a more informed opinion. That's an insult to my puppy. Actual, an inanimate object

[@daniellewillis2767]

Yes. Let them fly...

[@squirrelgirl1853]

The need to label everything is a problem....when we label things we in a way lock it into place, limit the potential of said thing, person, situation....it is also a problem because we are none of the labels we give ourselves or others as these are just different experiences people are having....your whole being and identity is much more than any label and so in a way we reduce ourselves and others w all the labels and apparently drive ourselves crazy while we're at it......

[@cmlacour5414]

"It doesn't matter about grammar." Actually, yes it does. If everyone can make up their own rules, everyone becomes an island, and there is no society. At that point no one is calling you anything because this thing called society no longer exists.

[@0hffs]

That "Ew I'm starting to sound like Candace Owens" made me choke on my Cola cola. You're so funny Markus! ❤ 😂

[@Blake1720]

I was at Trader Joe’s yesterday and a worker who was very female presenting had a button by their name saying, “my pronouns are they/them.” Like how is that inviting to your customers? I’m only in there to buy groceries I don’t need to even think about your ideology. It’s like saying, “hi I’m a Christian” on your shirt. I don’t care! lol I’m just not going to ask that that person for help because I’m afraid I’ll mess up and cause an awkward situation.

[@marykuettner752]

Exactly, my beliefs are not important in looking for brown mustard.

[@jean_1893]

Marcus, you've been on a roll! I have been loving your content lately. Have a blessed day, handsome!❤

[@megamegaO]

I find it disrepectful as well, that some of these goons dont even BOTHER trying to portray their "preferred pronoun" they just straight up change their crap daily in hopes of targeting unsuspecting victims to cry about online

[@patiencechristian9497]

My fiance is always asking me why i watch this stuff all the time. Simple answer, because no one else wants to talk about it, they want to hide away or not say anything. These are current events and the things that are happening all around us. I want to be aware of these things so i can protect our kids.

[@Bitxushanty]

I have no intention of writting a letter to any of those people, why do i have to guess pronoums if they are defined in grammar... but if i had to choose it would be "it"...

[@Floratic]

Yay! A new video!

[@KK0-K]

Unfortunately, the two languages I speak don't work that way (exclude English). This whole thing is mental.

[@Kkorea-kanda]

Those people: people keep on asking me my prounons everywhere I go 😡 Also them: did you just assume my gender I’m going to cancel you on TikTok 🤬

[@AA-qt1hi]

zhim/zhair

[@clemdane]

I don't believe the subject of a conversation gets to dictate how she/he/it is referred to. That is the job of the speaker.

[@madamedex5989]

Marcus, your empathy for others is your strength. Obviously, gour transition was about being healthy and well and living your best life. Some of these folks seem more interested in subversion and conflict than personal wellbeing.

[@stevengosnell7034]

Gotta love how some people refuse to pass or socially transition or intentionally try to look confusing (ive heard them say it themselves) and then immediately turn around and get upset when someone doesnt know what to call them or calls them the wrong thing. Its almost like they do it for attention or something. *Sarcasm*

[@CaraHTheRealCie]

If anyone wanted me to play "guess my pronouns," my answer would always be the same. Who/gives/a-crap?

[@pamelot7040]

I have explained to a few people that they have probably used the they/them pronoun many times without realizing it because it’s actually a normal part of English You’re husbands coworker is coming for dinner and he’s bringing a guest with him. Nothing else has been said except another person will be arriving. You ask your hubs “do you know anything about them or what food preferences they have?” You used they/them because you weren’t told their gender. It is a natural usage of English that is so common most people don’t even acknowledge it. You have e to point it out when they say referring to a single person as they/them doesn’t make sense. This is when feelings interrupt logic.

[@pollyparrot9447]

It's unlikely that my husband would expect me to welcome and cook dinner for a guest without telling me the person's name, from which I could guess the sex. If I couldn't guess I'd ask. By the way - it's 'Your husband's co-worker', not 'You're husbands coworker'.

[@pamelot7040]

@@pollyparrot9447 I imagined a scenario where the word would be used, and you’re arguing about the imaginary part ? I guess what people are saying is true, people look for excuses to argue and dominate others. Forget I said anything since you can’t find a way to look at what I’m actually trying to say. Jeez. Edited to say you glanced over what I said and are responding incorrectly, but that’s the looking to be offended nature.

[@user-jy9mh8ku3n]

So many activists don’t understand that communication is build on a common code agreed by both sides, and want to rewrite dictionaries and grammars unilaterally.

[@nomadman5288]

"If it makes them happy, why not?" Would they just go along with someone's religious belief if they didn't agree or knew it was wrong because it would make them happy? We all know the answer. That's one of the stupidest arguments. I also don't have to justify why I won't do it. You see, they try to turn it around on you to make you go on the defensive, making themselves into a victim and you out to be the bad guy. Good ole gaslighting.

[@scrumps101]

This guys needs to speak on bigger platforms, at schools, colleges etc. This is the best representation of “trans” I’ve seen and puts so eloquently into words what we all are thinking.

[@melkgn]

You are 1 of the most calm, intelligent, well spoken creators on KZbin. Great vid!

[@jeffmurphy81]

It’s interesting. I had a friend that was transitioning mtf. We interestingly got misgendered more amongst the lgbt community. She dressed and identified as female. When I see tick toks like this it does take away a lot from her.

[@brot4155]

Either the people don’t want you to assume their gender or they expect you to know. I don’t get it and at this point I don’t even care about offending these people anymore

[@alexispaterson814]

I remember the days when having a conversation with yourself use to get a free padded room.

[@bdavis4099]

She asks questions and expects her phone to answer.

[@sharonlindsay7097]

I still remember growing up and being told its rude to ask and we should just know due to how they look.

[@tomemberton1546]

You are so spot on about this. Until we understand all the faces of Male & Female, we need to wait on new terms.