I don’t want kids, but life goes on

[@lethabowhereyouat6814]

I've never heard anyone explain my views on having kids the same way I do. Word for word

[@withlovekarabo]

The way you feel seen, I feel seen by you as well. Thank you for this comment because it makes me feel okay that I'm not going crazy. Thank you for watching the video 🫂🫂🫂

[@AyandaMthethwa_]

Your views on not wanting to have kids are absolutely valid💙. My family knows me as someone who doesn’t want to have kids. I haven’t come to a good enough reason why I’d want them. So, for now it remains an unknown.

[@withlovekarabo]

I hear you hey. I think when you start doubting anything, take it seriously because that is the start of something that can change your whole life and having kids is not a decision to take lightly. So you don't need to have a reason now, just let it all flow and thank you for sharing ❤❤🫂

[@malebosephodi6299]

i’m the first one yay 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@withlovekarabo]

Hiiiiiiiiiiii you are first!! haha ❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@ziziphostuurman4700]

Love love your vlog and your viewer are valid hey Warwick my fav estate❤

[@withlovekarabo]

Thank you so much. It has been so confronting having to accept how I feel about this ❤

[@C-Radebe]

As Viola Davis's character says on the Eat Pray Love movie, "having a kid(s) is like getting a tattoo on your face, you kinda need to be committed! I don't think there's a universal 'profound' reason for either wanting or not wanting. I just think there's YOUR reason that needs to be respected by the people in your life who know and love you. When I think about my reasons for wanting kids they always sound selfish to me because the bottom line is always about me. I can't put it on these unborn humans so I can't really say it's for them in any way and I'm fine with my 'selfish' reasons because I'm aware of them thus aware of the responsibility that comes with that. I love that you've prompted us to revisit this conversation with ourselves and see if our reasons still stand or things have changed. At the end of the day though I believe your reason is your reason and it needs to be respected.

[@withlovekarabo]

Thank you for coming to the conversation with this gem of a comment. You really have to be committed and I have commitment issues in general except if I'm getting paid and kids don't pay hahahaha. But yea my reason is my reason alone and whichever one it is, I have to live with it understanding the consequences of both.

[@C-Radebe]

@withlovekarabo ❤️❤️

[@mathapelomonale4687]

Boy am I happy to see your beautiful face. You just made my day ❤❤❤❤

[@withlovekarabo]

Staaaap, thank you so much! I'm glad I was part of your day and I made it better ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@AyandaMthethwa_]

What do you mean that is all of your hair??😍😍😍. Absolutely stunning!!!

[@withlovekarabo]

Haha this hair of mine eish. It can get so dry and painful. Thank you so much ❤❤

[@Being_Mandy-Jane]

Thanks for being so honest! ❤❤❤As a deputy parent myself, I resonate with literally all your sentiments!!! But I think in the end for me, I still have a desire to have my own family😅

[@withlovekarabo]

And that is okay. I like people who despite their experiences, they stay the course and do what makes them happy. I'm so glad that your experience as a deputy parent did not make you not want to be a parent. I'm excited for you! I think motherhood is an incredible job, it just needs heart, commitment and the desire for it ❤

[@Being_Mandy-Jane]

1000%@@withlovekarabo 💖💖💖

[@KunakaVlogs]

Finally watching ❤❤ let’s hear the gems 💎 this is an important conversation . And we don’t need to live life based on society expectations. I hate how women who don’t want kids must have a psychological evaluation but I feel those who want kids should have the evaluation too . Thank you for speaking your truth 🥹🌸🌸💖

[@withlovekarabo]

People who want kids need the evaluation. I think it would even be great to start with men 😂 but I love the women we have become/becoming because we have, in most cases, options.

[@KunakaVlogs]

Ha ha ha “that man is fine “ I’m soo dead 💀 she said hold on

[@withlovekarabo]

I'm sure he's married because he had a dog and I know that was not his idea 😂

[@KunakaVlogs]

That’s so true , about not trusting men to the point of creating with them 🤭

[@withlovekarabo]

Every time I think of a man trapping me with a baby, I get so naar 😂

[@JJJJ-he8bz]

I look at my older cousin as a standard. She just had a new born with her new husband they are both in their 40s but they each individually have established careers and make 100k plus a year. Together they are basically rich so they have all the resources take care of their new born. They both have kids from past relationships but all but one of those kids are already adults and my cousins two older daughters help take care of the new born. Now I would not want a kid once I get in my 40s but I don’t want kids now unless I’m making well over 6 figures

[@withlovekarabo]

I hear you and this is good. It is good to wait and be at least set because at the end of the day, if you don't make it work financially, your kids will suffer and that is something I do not ever want to go through. Watching my mom take care of us alone and working so hard to the bone for us is not how I aspire to live or raise kids. I was not built like her. It would break me. So waiting makes absolute sense.

[@Disemtion]

Yey. Team no Kids.

[@withlovekarabo]

Hahaha heeeey!!