I Don't Want to Hurt My Friend's Feelings

[@jjman533]

This is why you DO NOT do business with family or friends.

[@Stephensouraski]

Never lend your friends money either (family maybe).

[@thisisnotok2100]

@@Stephensouraski dont lend to family, give to them.

[@unscripted483]

my mom stole my car buy say she is "buying it" but i haven't been paid.

[@NS-pf2zc]

@ We've been there. It causes relationship issues. Just call her up and say, Hey, I love you. I want a relationship with you. How about Dinner and we can just forget the whole thing. And then never do that kind of thing again. $500 is not worth losing a sister.

[@sup_monica3597]

@@unscripted483 do you have the title??

[@fhuber7507]

If any realtor is not doing their job, they need to be fired. F . If the "friend" does not understand that... then they aren't a friend.

[@iamjulia_od]

Yeah my husband and I recently told his uncle we will not he using him as a loan officer and he’s no longer talking to us and deleted me off of his “family” on Facebook. 🤦🏼‍♀️ His reaction proved that we made the right choice.

[@eileeneclark9011]

8/7/20....I would MAKE SURE that his BOSS + his COMPANY knew about this relative's "sour 🍇" attitude!

[@Coolgiy67]

Wow I hope your husband also treats him the same way he treats you

[@666dynomax]

Ohhh my.. facebook

[@theconservationist5662]

The father-daughter dynamic is hilarious and reminds me so much of my dad hahaha.

[@victoriagarcia5533]

Exactly lol

[@Earthcitizen4609]

Love the combination shes the only partner doesn't look scared to talk next to Ramsey

[@CookingDelight]

Ohhhh I didn’t know they were father and daughter!😦 I would never have guessed

[@davidli6899]

Cooking Delight Recipes 😊 yea, cuz she’s cooler lol

[@Jessica_Jones]

Hahaha I was just thinking the same -- that'd totally be me on a show with my dad 😆

[@thekezzey95]

Rachel is like "please, Dad, stop being mean. She doesn't want to be mean."

[@kellyy9349]

I would never let my friends, relatives or coworkers sale or buy or rent my house. 1) a house is usually the largest investment. 2) if it didn't work out, it usually ruins the relationship. 3) Don't want these people know too much about my financial business. 4) vice-versa. 5)it will save you lots of headaches and relationships later!!!

[@notsocbr]

How true

[@Irene-gq4jr]

Maybe the exception to the rule, but I rented to an old friend and his lady, all above board with insurance, property checks and landlord licence. They played fair and even made some nice home improvements. Things can get strained when money and a relationship breakup is involved, but just maybe insisting on a legal contract helped us all. I'm still friends with both of them, whereas they never want to see each other again!

[@StevenLaneyGuitar]

I love the chemistry and contrast between Dave and Rachel's presenting styles. Dave is blunt and to the point and just says what he thinks, as does Rachel, but Rachel likes to administer a little bit of sugar with her advice to help the medicine go down. I can relate to this, as I'm in my thirties and my dad is exactly the same. As we say here in England, "I can't take him anywhere".

[@neetrab]

Sugarcoating things doesn't help people.

[@matthewgardner2144]

Dave is very emotional at times. Talk about Jesus or babies and he gets all gooey. He babbles about "being blessed". His advice is not always consistent caller to caller.

[@Je.rone_]

Dave is out here with f this guy attitude And daughter is like but be nice and keep friendship alive attitude 😂

[@bosshismoney4424]

Not too good of a friend. Real friends look out for their friends.

[@om617yota8]

If I was a realtor and a friend came to me, I'd recommend a trusted colleague and step away. I wouldn't put us in a business w/ friend situation.

[@dete503]

100% right here. You're doing your friend and yourself a HUGE favor by recommending a trusted colleague.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Agreed. You need that objectivity.

[@livefreewithcalebd]

Sometimes you just gotta be straight up! Don't be rude but let them know how you feel

[@transfer2007]

Exactly! 👍

[@twharpist]

I love the dynamic between Dave and Rachel in this segment! Don’t change! We need both perspectives. A good slap upside the head from Dave and a slice of hope from Rachel!

[@NickSiekierski]

This "friend" sure doesn't sound like it. If he takes a hike after this it'll be a blessing.

[@I_amSal90]

😂 I swear I enjoy every minute of these episodes

[@alexc5369]

That means you had 6.28 enjoys with this episode

[@AaAa-ri4uf]

answer: Have Dave Call the realtor

[@katieonlyusernameavailable]

Always keep property transactions purely professional. Don’t mix friends and family into the equation. This story is exactly why!

[@crystalball2120]

Rachel was totally speechless at the end.. to funny! 😂

[@pep590]

Yes, that was a classic!!!

[@knucleballfreedom]

I was laughing loudly and all by myself. Her cheeks get so red!

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Too funny!

[@milkcowx]

I love Dave's attitude so much.. Inherently a good man who is a straight shooter. A+

[@clarifyingquestions]

This video is hilarious - father and daughter hahahahahah

[@CaseyBurnsInvesting]

Money and feelings don’t mix. Bad juju

[@luxurybuzz3681]

Right! This is why divorce happens

[@calebhoney6159]

I see your channel in every comment section!

[@born2reign90]

Just subscribed to your channel...keep up the hard work. 👍🏾

[@beesworld04]

caleb honey I just said the same thing to myself.

[@marcelosantana9311]

I am a Real Estate Agent in Florida. I think they got all wrong. At least here the standard association contract does not have a penalty for termination. The only penalty is if you buy a house the agent showed you during a set protection period. The buyer representation goal is to show that you are working for someone and will be paid a commission and it can also set a minimum commission that you will earn if you sell a property and the cooperating commission is lower than the agreed commission. Let say a seller is offering 2% but you have an agreement with the buyer that you work for a minimum 2.5% commission. The buyer will cover the 0.5% difference in the commission. The agreement also state that you are his sole agent during that period, people may not realize buy some buyers work with more than 1 agent in the same city without telling the other. I had an agent that found out her client was working with 3 agents, it is like a guy with 3 girlfriends. If they all know about the other LS and don’t care is fine for everybody, but when you hide you are been disrespectful and hurting the other party. RE agents don’t get paid until close a deal, if they know the buyer want to work with multiples agents at least they have an option to pass and invest the time in better clients.

[@kslucki]

Love this video! ❤ Dave unapologetically direct, Rachel motherly diplomatic and understanding, and the topic of a careless friend while the real friend tries to tiptoe not to hurt careless friend's feelings. Priceless 6 minutes right there 👍🏻

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

I get the feeling she knows how to handle her dad!

[@teesellz7692]

If he was so much of a friend he would do has job

[@Db20735]

That's exactly what I was thinking!!

[@koolandblue]

If he’s really a friend, he’ll understand and accept their decision to end the contract. He might be disappointed, but clients backing out is part of his job. On the other hand, if he gets mean and nasty about it, accuses them of wasting his time, or even threatens to press charges, then his true colors are on bright, blinding display and he was never much of a friend to begin with.

[@flisfinance5680]

So true!!! Don’t do business with family and close friends!!!! Just creates an absolute nightmare for everyone involved

[@donaldsentman9324]

Exactly why you do not do business with friends and family. The only business done with friends and family is bad business

[@777coffeelover]

It's not personal, it's business! I love Ramsey's bluntness..

[@JiisTube]

Lol, really great video. I wish they would list the personality names or categorize playlists by who is speaking so I could search by speaker. The Dave+Rachel ones are too good 😂

[@TeKnoVKNG23]

Never use a friend for any kind of business decision or major purchase.

[@jeanlenor1858]

I really dont see any future of this show after Dave is gone. No one has enough balls to say things as they are. Dave said "by then, the relationship is over". His co host is trying to save the relationship that's already over.

[@MMA-mh9uv]

agreed. Dave has a brashness that is absolutely refreshing and missing from today's generation for the most part.

[@sockm7192]

Younger generations are weak mind can not handle criticism from people. Go look at john stossel video about college students.

[@heroshyma69]

Maybe if Chris takes over. He's great!

[@usernameluis305]

This video is a good example on why the show will be "over". Rachel and crew are too nice and milquetoast to be real personalities, and they dont give it hard like dave does cause hes old and seen things but theyre all young and dont really know much.

[@usernameluis305]

You can see from rachel even the idea of losing a friend hurts her too much to make proper decisions, shes too spineless to be direct

[@LaDeeDah]

I love their segments together. He gets totally unhinged with her and it's so funny how shes like omg Dad please! Haha I love it

[@tnbsp]

I used a dave ramsey endorsed buyers agent. The agent was awesome. He didn’t make us sign a contract until we made an offer. We worked with him via trust. Definitely call the agents on dave’s list!

[@usernameluis305]

You can tell rachel has had a nice and pampered life, the way she thinks everything can just end peacefully and everyone stays friends and that the buddy's "feelings matter", 5:08 lol

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

She's obviously a very nice and intelligent woman. Dave's done a good job raising her, that's for sure!

[@wanda409]

When I start looking for a home, I will not be using my friend that is a real estate agent....first because she sucks at it and second would not feel at ease working with a friend or family member.

[@justinacase2623]

I can sum up 99% of real estate agents.....LAZY. They bring little value to the table yet want thousands or tens of thousands of dollars for shaking hands. No thanks! I've bought 2 houses fsbo, cash money. Plus if they are the listing agent they work for the seller not the buyer! Think car salesman! Not your buddy.

[@LoveToRead3]

I agree about he should let them out of the deal, but I also think a big part of the onus is on them for not speaking up sooner. They shouldn't have let It go on this long without sending him down and talking to him about what they expected vs. what they felt they were getting.

[@ktsterlin9304]

I was thinking that the whole time and wonder if Dave would say amything

[@JamesJamersonIsAGod]

Yeah. It’s also 50% their fault for not being like “hey man, I feel like you aren’t taking this business relationship seriously because we are friends”

[@grayandgray]

Is everyone out there signing "buyer's agreements" with realtors? I've never done it. I just work with someone and we both understand we can walk if we want.

[@marcelosantana9311]

Most people don’t but is a good thing when you are an agent. It shows that you are the only one doing that job and you have some commission protection and can set a minimum commission that need to be paid by the buyer if the offered compensation is lower. But they got all wrong on the show. There is no penalty, at least in Florida to end the Contract. The only thing is that the agent may have a claim to the commission if they buyer ends buying a house he presented.

[@SHADOW1414]

I signed one, it's a protection for the realtor so they don't do a ton of work for you, find you a house and then have you essentially buy it on their own so that you don't have to pay them.

[@musictomotion]

They speak the truth though. I've listened to Dave since ~1994 on a local Nashville station. He just can't explain things like a woman can at times :) God Bles his mission though as it has helped a large number of folks get their lives together and progress.

[@bettysmith7045]

You can politely ask the real estate agent to get out of the contract, just make him understand that you are not happy with his performance despite giving him more than enough time to prove himself. Be honest, and maybe it will be a lesson learned for both of you. There are A LOT of lazy, terrible real estate agents. There are good ones, but you have to look hard!

[@RoxiieSays]

Husband needs to man up and handle his business.

[@moxythepirate1281]

My realtor started out as my realtor, not a friend. After he got me exactly what I wanted in a house, we became friends. If I ever need him again as a realtor, I'll probably do it, as long as he puts in the same amount of effort along with the smart, hard work he did before.

[@RISH043]

Rachel is like ‘Dad, you can’t say that out loud’’. Great father-daughter moment.

[@ShakespeareCafe]

She probably enlisted him as their real estate agent when he regaled them at a party divulging the greatest secret in the RE biz, “location, location, location” and they were hooked

[@TinyMiniStealth]

Love this haha! Both Rachel and Dave made great points from different viewpoints.

[@87handmedown]

The dynamic between Dave and some of the other radio personalities, especially his daughter Rachel, is fantastic. I love listening and watching the interaction between father and daughter. However, I don't see a single one that will be able to carry this program if he retires. They just don't have the blunt but accurate way of distributing personal advice like Dave does.

[@victoriagarcia5533]

So for a year he couldn’t find you a house? 😂

[@usernameluis305]

In one of the best times to find a house

[@natmansfield1173]

He's not a great friend to begin with, since he's been lazy about finding his friend a home for his family. I wouldn't miss a friend like that.

[@cybertrk]

This is your best cohost... it’s equal and un-intimidated. It fits well.

[@SilkyG917]

Because she's his daughter...

[@Ch3zzy]

The answer is obviously to sell the car

[@marcboulware6242]

And Rice and Beans and beans and rice... for the foreseeable future. ;-)

[@robertstewart8330]

Bro this made me laugh way harder than it should of. Im literally in tears

[@neetrab]

Lol obviously!!

[@untouchable360x]

Don't ever mix business with pleasure.

[@jamesjazzy8040]

Dave you should have asked him how many houses has he shown you if the buyers have looked at 25 houses it’s not his fault it’s the buyers fault. You didn’t go into all the right detail and therefore gave the wrong answer you didn’t do your job....

[@joeydionne6628]

If the agent doesn’t meet the fiduciary and contractual responsibilities then you are not obligated to pay them any further fees. You can actually take them to court for not fulfilling their duties and as long as there is enough proof showing that they aren’t meeting the requirements in the contract then it will easily go in your favor and you can break the contract

[@natnielsen8472]

The first BIG mistake was signing a buyer's agent contract for a year - nobody does that. The so-called friend had them boxed in from the start! Never sign a seller's agent contract with an agent for over 3 months. Most important - never sign up with a "friend" to buy a home or to list your home.

[@pattir5967]

This was one of the better episodes because Dave's sidekick (Rachel) didn't just completely agree with everything that he said.

[@joshuatate5671]

This entire thing was hilarious 2:29 had me rolling

[@MOBMJ]

Dave can be so inpatient sometimes

[@azucena7castro]

I like how the invites try to reign Dave in from his reality check sermons. The father daughter makes it that much more interesting too

[@usernameluis305]

2:34 "the situation is to not lose a friend over a home" this is woman talk lol, someone screws me over with business like this and i dont really need that guy in my life

[@shaldana]

Lordy, his daughter. Always about saving feelings. They're being USED, but hey, let's save the friendship. No, Rachel. Sometimes, you can't.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

It's good to hear both perspectives. Dave made me LOL, though.

[@jimroscovius]

The only friend we used in a business agreement was a lawyer we knew who served as our real estate lawyer. Otherwise, no.

[@NS-pf2zc]

Lol, Dave's face!!! We used a friend to buy a house, and he didn't put us in a contract at all. Of course he also bent over backwards and tromped out to every crazy property we wanted to look at. I literally mean tromped through wet fields and everything. He even helped us with a contract in the past when we bought a house sold by owner out of his area. And we thanked him by compensating him. He has an excellent business built on referrals primarily. Either this guy she's talking about is a friend wanting to help, or not. A friends either does what he says, or let's you off the hook if he can't follow through.

[@todd2456]

Rachel's self control is something else.

[@MisterModder123]

I love when Dave and Rachel are on together...the father daughter bond is so funny

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

I'm just dead!

[@sucramsucram3558]

5:45 pure gold

[@Supplychainpapi]

I really like they both give their takes on what she should do.

[@1.5Koreans0.5American]

Thank you for sharing 🙌

[@theklrdudeoo9173]

sign a contract for a year ? how about 3 months max.

[@richthepup]

I love Rachel and Dave's opposing dynamics. THIS is the co-host I want to see next to Dave (plus AO and Chris Hogan), throw the rest out.

[@genxx2724]

I’ve never heard of a contract with a buyer’s agent. I like Rachel’s approach to getting Dave’s idea done. Dave’s right. If necessary, complain to the broker and get released.

[@pep590]

I bet Dave's wife let him have it, when he got home on trashing his wife's friend on the air. Lol.

[@jmc8076]

@5:50 so funny! Talk about making his wife’s life just a bit awkward! LOL! I could feel her eye rolling as she heard this! Real life is so not perfect but so funny!🙄😞😂

[@KRscience]

The problem is that the "friend" probably thinks he's doing his job.

[@TheDjcarter1966]

NEVER sign a one year contract with a realtor. When you know you are ready you have money lined up, you lease is up in 90 days you sign a 60 day contract and move on. These days odds are you are doing all the research online anyway

[@marcelosantana9311]

I would bet she is asking for a house in a desired area with amazing features but her budget doesn’t give the agent much options.

[@YPEFFLE]

Probably but he had to let our first realtor go, he would not put in offers we asked to put in, our 2nd realtor found us a great house, we had not signed contacts with either of them

[@moneybot7618]

A good argument for keeping secrets from your “friends.”

[@Kenobimoose]

If they're not taking care of you then there not that great of a friend.

[@linhaton4957]

Never heard of a contract for a realtor to show you houses. The realtor usually gets paid when you buy a house.

[@jameylane9196]

Sellers need realtor contracts not buyers lol.

[@josedanielportillo6058]

Dang Dave’s on fire 🔥. A monkey can get a real estate license😂. But I do agree with his advice

[@dogan6070]

Who signs a contract for 1 year and there is no getting out of the contract claw. I don't care if it's my father, always in the contract there has to be a getting out claw. Stupid or what.

[@slidegirl6005]

Clause

[@cffmailbox]

Great broadcast team.

[@linhaton4957]

Most realtors are in a hurry to help you find a house so that they can receive a commission from the sale.

[@marneycoleman4987]

There’s more to this story that she’s not telling. Have they been pre-approved? Are they wanting him to just open doors without a pre-approval?

[@amaze-on07]

are you sure a home is an asset not a liabilty?

[@jdm4998]

I love Rachel's face when Dave says " a monkey can get a real estate license" Lol. I can listen to Dave anytime of the day. 4:36

[@TheAmwroble]

Dave needs a snickers bar after this call he's growchy monster lol

[@geraldwalker7609]

How do people get three syllables out of real-tor?

[@beans2605]

A 1yr contract w/ an agent is madness.

[@jesusislord229]

Facts don't care about your friends!

[@Wall2000x]

Never ever sign a real estate contract. There is no reason to ever use a realtor. Bunch of BS. Wait until October.

[@UGOOMERO]

“Raise Cain” ... I like that! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@T22456]

Woman's touch combined with a man's no nonsense approach. This is a perfect example of the genders strengthening each other.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Agreed. If it wasn't so serious, then Rachel's points would be more persuasive. But you cannot let anyone mess you around on a house deal, friend or no friend. Before watching this video, I would have dithered as well, as I have had a long problem with people-pleasing. Got to thank Dave!

[@edwardlewis1963]

The price of friendship. That's the price you pay to find out who is not your friend.

[@cydra-evolution5623]

Success doesn't care about your approval.

[@lanceknuth5300]

Graham Stephan has pointed out in a recent video that the real estate market in Los Angeles is very tight right now, and I suspect that it is worse in a lot of places as people flee the metropolitan areas. The realtor should release the family, but if the market is oversaturated with buyers then this may not be his fault.

[@diannhazelton9808]

I love the difference between Rachel and her dad 😂😂 she just be like her mother 😊

[@uluvnic]

Haha they just played an American Express ad lol (not Dave, KZbin)

[@MrPowerpen]

The friendship is gone if he doesn't want to work

[@kowaliga163]

Friends don't do business with friends.......if they want to stay friends.

[@CRiver396]

I wouldn't say anything. It sounds like the husband friend doesn't want to work with her either. Just go ahead and find a new real estate agent. You don't need to beg him for his services.