❝I don't want to marry❞ | Shaykh Hasan Ali

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[@nawhaalryklief2876]

Alhamdulillah my daughter got married last year and she was 19 years old. Shukr to Allah. A Duah from a mother is so powerful Subghanallah. All my Duahs was accepted. Alhamdulillah. Shukr to Allah ❤❤❤❤

[@mohammadkhan-vn9qq]

I am 45 i am doing everything my own and happy and no regrets...

[@ushadaimari988]

I will pray you get a beautiful wife in jannat

[@LifeIsATest4TheHereafter]

No wife, happy life - especially in the West. But make sure you don't fall into Zina.

[@comedyalbums7202]

Happy brother, iam also thinking not to get married,because almost all wifes now a days don't like their husbands and pray that they meet a new husband at jannah 😢😢😢sad, why we as mans waste time on women who will forget after our death and even now a days most women remarries after husbands death so saad,,,,,

[@mohammadkhan-vn9qq]

@@comedyalbums7202 Exactly bro my friend wife took khulla after 18 years marraige and she marry another guy within one month.

[@clementeen]

Good for you dear. I am 41, a female, and a reluctant to marry if it will bring me problems and pain. I would prefer to be happy and single. But if and ONLY if I find the right man, I will then marry. Otherwise, we are born free, no one owns anyone. No man or woman should own eachother.

[@ushadaimari988]

In Hadith it said whoever die without marriage will get a wife in jannat.and as a Muslim we all have iman and we do whatever to get in jannat.so my point why should we so worry about marriage.

[@daudalvi]

never, i mean i cant do it this generation is fucked up, marriage aint possible here

[@MOTHUG786]

I watch this legal advice show. On Bengali channel, the Bengali presenter is a barrister who deals with divorce... Khutub Uddin Shikdar.... He says "the women from Pakistan and Bangladesh, they learn "999" before being imported to the UK, and then they dial 999 and put a domestic ab*se case on the husband"... Marriage is a flight risk.

[@Free..Palestine....]

The society of West has fallen so Low that Protecting Chastity has become something that is uncool... Man I'm happy to be around people who views doing zina as heinous crimes... How much morally will you degrade yourself? Have faith in Allah because Allah the Almighty is the Best of Planner... Even if everyone around you are doing Zina or anything remotely like that stay away because Allah has promised you better... InshAllah everyone repenting to Allah and protecting their Chastity... Allah The Almighty will InshAllah grant us Jannatul Firdous and also give us happiness in the Dunya... Those who disbelieve in Allah they can do whatever their heart desires and that is none of the concerns for the ones who believe

[@MOTHUG786]

Shaykh... As a Muslim male, born and raised in the UK, I've been working since I was 18, I'm 34 years of age now.... I really can't afford to house my wife separately from my immediate family and I will struggle to pay substantial amounts of dowry... Do I marry? Or do I abandon marriage? These are the two factors that are stopping me from marriage. Dowry is the wife's right, and a private home to live in after marriage is the wife's right. However, I really can't afford either of these.

[@hariss8876]

Have sabr akhi do not give up on marriage. Some sisters do not mind living with in laws explain your reasoning to them, her and her family. Explain to them your situation, financially and what type of arrangements you can provide for the wife as well as the Mahr. You will find some sisters who are not very materialistic and will be happy with a low mahr, simple nikah, and expect you to provide atleast the basic necessities. Find such a woman, I advice myself with this too, wake up for night prayer, prolong your sujud and ask Allah to make it easy for you, complain to Allah that you are seeking marriage to guard your chastity, private parts and to fulfill the Sunnah of the Messenger peace be upon him and Allah will surely provide a way out for you and how he will do it you could not have ever imagined it. Barakallahu feek wa Jazakallahu Khaira

[@comedyalbums7202]

It's ur life there are two ways u can spend ur life they are 1--- firstly get married , invest all ur hard earn money to ur wife ( who actually don't love u😅) and have children and u love ur wife but sadly ur wife don't love u and pray to allah that she don't want u with her in jannah ,,, sadly in the end it's the man that's wasted his life on a stranger women 2 ---- Or u can remain single and spend time with ur parents who had done so much for u ❤❤❤ love them u will get rewards marriage is a lie , it's better in every way for man not to get married

[@clementeen]

I’m 41, muslim men don’t want to marry me. So this video is very upsetting. You need to address the muslim men to not have such extreme standards on muslim women

[@MOTHUG786]

I'm a Muslim man who can't afford a substantial dowry or a mortgage to house my wife separately after marriage, do I marry or do I abstain? I'm 34 years old and I've been working since 18. I still can't afford a mortgage/substantial dowry. Basic life in the UK is difficult and expensive. Add a wife to the equation and financial obligations on the wife... Life gets more difficult than it already was... I know plenty of brothers, they work, they survive, pay their bills, but that's all they can afford to do. Marriage gets expensive.

[@user-qb2lv8uo4x]

Find a sister who will understand and appreciate you and your sincere intentions.

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

what were you doing when you was 21? genuine question.

[@MOTHUG786]

@@GokuBlack-sn5dr honestly, when I was 21 I was going through college and university and stuff, I was dossing, taking my time, not taking life too seriously, and then when I was 23-24, I had to accommodate my mum and dad's divorce (because mum don't speak English, I had to help with paperwork, appointments, etc), which is still ongoing because they're fighting for the house. I don't have many uncles (uncles from dad side I have 2 and both have mental problems), and uncles from mum side are in Bangladesh and Kuwait so both sides of my family can't help me, so I'm a qualified electrician in the UK now I'm 34 years of age.... My delaying marriage was due to road blocks in my life mainly due to lack of proper upbringing, my dad was nonchalant and he never worked, never prayed, wasn't dutiful, never advised his kids, never made moves, he enjoyed the benefit money in the 90s (child care allowance) and he imported his wife from Bangladesh (my mum), had 5 kids with my mum, I'm the eldest, I have 3 younger brothers, and here I am, currently I am looking for a job, had a few interviews, but nobody wants to hire me. So, I'm 34 now, used to being alone, starting to get back pain and stuff lol but it's not just my past and upbringing in the UK that is like this, a lot of brown boys and brown girls have silly parents that make life hard for everyone. I nearly got married when I was 28, through muzmatch app, I was working for Lloyds Banking group at the time, I met with the girl twice, I'm happy to marry her, but her dad is strictly looking for a "Choudhury" so I had to let her go. My experience is that parents make it hard for their kids. You know like life set up and marriage, their own problems between husband and wife, it all deters the progression and development of the kids. We see it around us.

[@LifeIsATest4TheHereafter]

You've gotta lower your standards! Also, most men in your age bracket are married. And what were you doing in your late teens and early 20s?

[@bc3779]

Marriage doesn’t work in 2023. Hasn’t worked for a long time. It’s a commitment that makes people vulnerable to abuse in many ways. Both genders will eventually cheat or wonder how to stay with the one person for the rest of their lives and perhaps even after death. The punishment for cheating after marriage is harsher then if you are not married. In my opinion, a healthy marriage is important when you have children or want to have children. Most people’s marriages are actually the opposite of the sanctity of what marriage stands for religiously. Marriage and divorce today is very different from its initial inspiration. For young folks to wait till they get married is unnatural. The Sheikhs have been complicit in causing many unnatural disasters in society because of un Islamic teachings. It’s great that we have sex education in all the schools now for the children to learn and practice safe get togethers.

[@Light_Slave]

Completely disagree if you don't marry you would eventually make yourself fall into zina. Marriage gives soooo much good deeds as well having children for example every teaching you give them and they do it you get a good deed for it and them teaching it to their children you get a good deed. Also about the cheating part you could just travel to a Muslim country like Qatar or Saudi Arabia and barely any cheating happens like pretty much never when your married in a Muslim country, and if your a non Muslim country don't worry as well you could still get married with a Muslim and they will prob not cheat because they got a moral standard. But the most important thing about marriage is it has to be halal or all of the bad causes that you mentioned will happen

[@Light_Slave]

Also the shaykh is saying of what the prophet teached which is marrying young so no it's not bad to marry young it's good

[@rabiabmk]

I agree with uh .. it can get better if society..and individuals focus on real knowledge ..real lifestyle to work on . Basic knowledge of handling relationships is compulsory .. which is only taught by our religion .. but no one has time to learn their religion .. to practice it will make both parties god fearing..so they will think thousands of time.nefore abusing anyone's right. Everyone is busy in degree.

[@rabiabmk]

​@@Light_Slaveuh didn't understood his comment ..read my reply to him. Secondly..marriage is necessary no doubt to safeguard one's chastity . He explained the point that in today's century the marriage has become a headache..a chaos.. a mental torcher and what not. Have you ever wondered why the ratio of divorce increased in so many years ? I have explained why ..read that comment.

[@awakenthegreatnesswithin]

Are you a Muslim? Marriage is a sunnah and Allah said get married. Your view is very negative most probably based on your life but islamically we are told to be hopeful and never give up Marriage is great if you learn how to be a good man/woman and husband/wife Life is about growth and learning and helping each other to get to Jannah The cheating part 😂😂😂 there are many loyal people around you just have not met them yet

[@clementeen]

This shiekh is saying that at 45 your family won’t be around. I’m 41, and I’m trying my best to find a normal muslim man but I can’t. I prefer to be with a non-muslim who doesn’t have unreasonable expectations. This video is total rubbish

[@islamyouth677]

Sister...there are nearly 2 billion Muslims. Surely you can find someone. I ask Allah to make it easy for you. But do not marry a non-muslim. It is not allowed in islam and the entire marriage contract will be invalid. it will be zina.

[@hafizmohammed8360]

If you send me your profile I can help you.

[@foreveryad]

what's your instagram, we can talk. the first problem is not the video it is you. From your comment alone I can tell that you are loud, and rude, and did not listen to your parents,and I. sorry you haven't found the beauty in islam. Wake up you are doing life all wrong.. Go back to islam, and humble yourself before allah swt. And don't leave negative comments, you must train your mind to think positively.

[@comedyalbums7202]

​@@islamyouth677bro she is western brainwashed feminist, let her marry a non Muslim, and let her be happy 🎉

[@clementeen]

@@islamyouth677 thank you I appreciate it. But a sheikh saying my family won’t be around at 45 is playing God. And also making women become co dependent on men. That’s not the life for me. I am a respected lady, I don’t wish to live life with a man who thinks he owns me or controls me. The problem with islam is muslims and nothing else

[@deadlysorrow9473]

salam sheikh vai la dizer isso aqui para os papas ricos de portugal que nao querem casar as filhas com muçulmanos convertidos