I Find a Vintage Treasure Chest of a Thrift Shop by Pure Coincidence

[@LillianCenteno-u3r]

Elise, it's called block. That said, " We are here for the vintage, your gardening, your thrifting, your home decor and your beautiful spirit." Your love life is no one's business but your own. Thank you for the video. Hugs from across the pond.

[@andreaschmall5560]

In other words...who cares and I agree, but when youtubers make a conscious choice to share their personal life they are asking for the opinions of others whether they realize it or not.

[@barbaraspector6689]

She needs help.

[@hannaR_]

​@barbaraspector6689 Elise? Why? What sort of help?

[@Darkangel-A-c8z]

​@@barbaraspector6689maybe you and the others making horrid comments should mind your own... Just saying 🤔🤔😡. Leave Elise alone, none of your business

[@denisemeredith2436]

​@@barbaraspector6689Leave Elise alone, she needs no help so trot along and take your negativity with you. Didnt your mother ever teach you any manners?

[@Louisefenner]

I know people generally only want the best for you but some people cross the line and bring their own bitterness and issues with men unfairly into your life. Follow your heart Elise.

[@abundantlyinspired]

I agree❤I am always amazed and shocked at how people can take ownership of YT creators and almost want to force them to follow what they decide their life or looks should be. 🤦🏻‍♀️Lots of love to you Elise. ❤❤❤You are a very intelligent woman.😊

[@lynseypeters]

I came to same the same but you said it perfectly for me. Sh*t happens but amazing things also happen and you will never know unless you take that leap of faith. ❤

[@Maria-fd7re]

Very well said!

[@MoonOwlDesigns]

The unfortunate norm of the internet these days is people projecting onto others because they haven't bothered to find peace within their own traumas, and bad experiences.

[@ashleyrose1840]

I’ve noticed that a lot of the comments about the boyfriend come across as very bitter and resentful. I’ve even seen some that sound genuinely upset about her decisions, one person in particular was saying something along the lines of “you chose a man over your subscribers and I’m very devastated over this” like, excuse me? That is NOT NORMAL. It’s almost as if they are living through her and her content, and it’s unhealthy.

[@jillbartlett6172]

I am old enough to be your mother but am here for the thrifting, design & the Danish life. It is great to see you happy in your relationship, I feel like a proud Mum !

[@bergannon6585]

Me too and protective towards her. Let's hope the negative Nuala's take a hike.

[@annemiek6899]

So cute this comment ❤❤❤

[@nataliepowell3184]

I hope you see this comment, I would love for you to know that I am nearly 60 years old and I look forward to your video every week,my granddaughter of 9 years and I watch you together, it is our “ thing”! My grandaughter and I love thrifting and she will often comment and say " this looks like Elise" 😊 You inspire us both and Im grateful to you for giving me something so positive to share with my grandaughter, she wants to have a shop like yours one day! You are amazing, love from SA🇿🇦

[@beverlymartin1414]

Natalie great story . My grandmother was a very important part of my life. We lost her way to soon. Much love

[@tiggywinkle5933]

This is my favourite comment, so sweet.

[@veroniquetolmaci6669]

My grandkids go op shopping as we call it in Australia 🇦🇺 they love it. ❤️ sending you a huge hug ❤

[@janet-myspinonthings7016]

Op shopping is a part of my life too. Finding your own version of treasure is so uplifting. Elise is a young inspiration for this 67 year old. ❤️

[@nataliepowell3184]

@@beverlymartin1414❤

[@harbourhomestead9753]

Long time watcher, first time commenting. I was reading the comments on your last video in a little shock. People project there own insecurities on other people from their past experiences. I was with my partner for 3 months before we moved in together, everyone judged us. We have now been together for ten years, have two kids and own a farm in the countryside of Australia. When you know you know ❤ sending you love for your future.

[@PresidentEvilxx]

THANKYOU

[@debitz961]

Same with me. Been married for 30 years. When you know you know ❤ love to you. What ever you choose 😊

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so much for sharing! 🥰

[@01poppyblue]

Same with me, been married 24 years.

[@landonducharme7657]

But no negativity.? Why ask for people's opinions? Then you don't want negativity? Life is real,it's negative sometimes! Maybe people don't want you to make there mistakes, ever think if that? Maybe they don't want you to go threw it! Life isn't all flowers and hearts! At your age you should know that! Life really hurts sometimes and maybe, just Maybe there trying to save you from , more terrible heartache 😢. Take a second look Elise❤,

[@Shelia-b3p]

Truth well spoken knowing what right for your life. 💕

[@veronicahaleyeah]

Elise, I feel that 90% of the people who follow you, follow you because you’re just an endearing person. You have a beautiful aura and light around you and we’re all attracted to it. I know for myself I am protective of you. Like I am of my own daughter. My advice for you live your life and experience life the way you need to do it. Not the way someone else thinks you should do it. It’s your life. One thing I think your audience needs to realize is you’re a good businesswoman. You have a great head on your shoulders. You’re not gonna just be with some person who is not good for you so people need to respect your decisions and trust your judgment.

[@citygirlingraham]

Very well said.

[@siobhanbraithwaite4176]

Elise, I have only recently started watching your videos. I just want to say - you are totally inspirational. You are a beautiful soul. I know it's easy to say don't let negative comments affect you however it's not easily done. Stay strong and believe in yourself. I think you're amazing x

[@KylaPlanet]

I toyed with the idea of commenting last week as I could see the scrolling comments roll on saying you're making a mistake. Obviously I think those people are coming from a place of care, however we don't know you (only what you show us) and we don't know your boyfriend. You only have one life to live, so live it wholeheartedly. I know you know that Elise, but it's sad to see you feeling sad. It takes a lot of courage to stay open and vulnerable in times when you feel maligned or attacked, but yet here you are. Another lovely video, thank you for sharing. Wishing the very best for you.

[@darlenechandler2403]

Most of the longstanding subscribers, witnessed before our eyes on her videos, the heartbreak she went through with the last boyfriend she was moving in with and her escaping with her personal items in the night with the help of her mother and siblings and her depression after, so if you go back and watch what unfolded in the past buying a place with the boyfriend’s parents, you might also be thinking what the other subscribers saw with their own eyes and her having to move back with her mother. But she is an adult and many woman these days move in with men after not knowing them a long time, so to each their own, some people do it the old way and date, get engaged, get married and move in together. When you move in together you take chances after not knowing someone. I have a friend going through a bad breakup, moved in together after knowing each other a short time and now a real mess, so to each their own, but she did express to us her utter emotional drama she went through with the last house and boyfriend moving in.

[@stj971]

​@@darlenechandler2403👍

[@patriciamarrion6802]

@@darlenechandler2403 And?

[@rikkemeek1506]

​@@darlenechandler2403That was 2 years ago. Everybody has moved on execpt all you negativ people who keeps bringing it up.

[@keld6320]

@@darlenechandler2403 Hurt and mistakes are part of life but so is Love and trust. As long as she takes the necessary precautions to be caught if she falls all is good. She shouldn’t stop trying to have the life that she wants because she got hurt in one point in the process. So we should be wishing her the best in living her life to the fullest.

[@Pauline-d8u]

Thank you for showing up despite not feeling like it. Thank you for trying to focuss on the positive feedback, eventhough it's difficult. You brighten my week, I so look forward to your videos. So I am really really glad you found the energy and courage to make another video for us.

[@nancyw3086]

I think I understand how you feel. I have been married twice and divorced twice. Every little comment that someone made just stuck with me. It seemed like it lived in my brain and I thought about it all the time. Time has helped me. I wake up everyday and do what I want and have meaningful relationships. I learned everyone has an opinion and so do I when it comes to MY life. What they think is just words. What you are doing is living life. Live the life that brings you happiness. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Your friend from USA

[@roebohannon2818]

Don't defend anything to anyone. It's your life, your choices, and YOUR channel! If anyone has something negative to say, they can be silent and go somewhere else. It's not wanted or needed You've got this. Live your life on your terms, no one else's. Hugs from the US!! 😊

[@bergannon6585]

I totally agree. I wish they would just jog onto another channel and leave beautiful, intelligent Elise alone. 🌹❤️🌹

[@patleslie6878]

I’m sorry people are such turds.

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so much 🥰

[@Judy-n3m]

@@patleslie6878 Projecting?

[@patleslie6878]

@@Judy-n3m “projecting”, and what does that suppose to mean, JUDY? Those who comment negative things to her are…turds. I said what I meant and I meant what I said. One word statements are useless AND CERTAINLY ARE NOT HELPFUL OR UPLIFTING. Say what you mean or what you want, but at least SAY IT SO PEOPLE CAN UNDERSTAND YOU.

[@readingwithintent]

I met my husband at 32 after years of disasters relationships, I moved to different city and gave up a good job to be with him because it made sense to us. We are coming to our 40 th wedding anniversary. Thank goodness there was no such thing has the internet and KZbin or I would have missed a wonderful rich life. You have to listen to your heart ❤️

[@bergannon6585]

Well said ❤❤❤

[@GoWithDaFlowMo]

This made me cry, how beautiful... I'm truly happy for you..... ❤

[@gailbradford305]

Elise, when you allow people into your world, you become like family. Most people CARE about you and most comments are like a mother or grandmother who only CARE about your soft heart. Most comments are the same they would say to their own daughter or granddaughter. They aren’t meant to be negative, just a caring caution. Pray God will protect you always.

[@EliseBuch]

"This is so typical Elise, she's so impulsive and doesn't think" that is 0% care.

[@N-nannah]

Or maybe just stop justifying people's negative comments (even if they are well meant.) A lot of people hate it when mothers or grandmothers express caution and judgment.... Even if it's well meant, it is invasive and overstepping common boundaries !

[@angelikabatwoman]

Yeah theres a reason many youtubers keep their private life private... cause people just wont shut up and leave them alone... which is so sad cause its such a joy to share when youre in love

[@nancytaylor6956]

Please don’t let those people boss you around! If he’s part of your life, I’m thankful that you share him with us!

[@maryjeannelson1334]

Elise, The trolls who hide behind their keyboards should be blocked. You are a wonderful sweet person, please block those that hurt you.

[@laurieloomis7845]

Don't you think that that comes with the territory of going on the web. It comes with the good. Free speach and all. I love your blog and messages. Laurie

[@suzzane.notsusan.1078]

Those people telling u negative things about ur relationship dont know how ur relationship is they are not in ur relationship how dare they comment or say anything when they dont know anything about your relationship. So remember that and ignore them they dont know

[@threads_in_cahoots]

Elise, i’m sorry for the negativity. I think it’s hard for people to understand when relationships move quickly. My husband and I got married after six months of knowing each other. We just celebrated our eight year anniversary and have a beautiful relationship. I had to deal with a lot of outside negativity during the early stages of our relationship and even marriage, but you ultimately will know what’s best for you! 💙 I think a lot of times, the concern from others often really does come from a good place, but the delivery is often much more abrasive than necessary. keep being you! We enjoy your journey!

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you 🥰

[@wendyspears4707]

Elise, my daughter is 28 and she has been single for several years. I have seen her grow so much over her single years. She knows what kind of man she will allow into her life and the ones she won't. I imagine you have taken a journey very similar to hers. You are an accomplished woman and seem very much put together and able to make really good decisions. I look forward to your content every Friday. It's such a bright spot for me, and for so many of your followers. You do you and try to block out the rude, hateful people. It's your life and I think you're living it wonderfully ❤

[@jeanettemartin7502]

Don't let others negativity get to you. They are projecting their unhappiness on to you. If you are happy that is what matters. It is your life, enjoy yourself. Nothing else matters. I love your beautiful soul. You deserve happiness!❤

[@agaciatko4034]

I'm so glad you finally addressed the group of subscribers who felt that their duty is to push their opinions on you. They were hurtful and unwelcome. Be happy, enjoy your life and don't look back.

[@barbaraspector6689]

I say learn from your past.

[@ceciliac3261]

Great comment

[@arlenewatt5225]

Elise, you are young, courageous, and beautiful. Please do not give power to those who try to bring you down. Enjoy your new relationship. I, for one, am happy for you. I am 70 years old, and the styles you show bring back great memories from past decades.

[@zolaburgess8344]

We care and love you as part of our extended family! Stay as sweet and stunning as you are Elise.

[@snoopy8mybaby]

I saw you pick up that painting and thought...she's saving that for her country house collection! I've started watching you years ago as a dreadhead myself. I'm still here because I like you, you're my little oasis of calm Elise. You do you my lovely, you're good at it. X

[@EliseBuch]

Thaank you 🥰 I'm glad you enjoy my work

[@lindajohns726]

Love your channel. It is a joy to watch everything you do. I'm 67 and I wouldn't dream of interfering with your private life no more than I would with my own daughter. You are doing very well, just keep doing what you do. Good luck in all you do❤

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you 🥰🥰

[@jillmozena5532]

Love you and your boy friend. Live it up. I am elderly but I made the most of my younger years and I feel so blessed and satisfied. Don’t waste your younger years worrying about what others may think or say. Believe me life is too short.

[@RtTrningGrl]

Big hug for you, Elise! Awesome finds this week, the ceiling fixture for the kitchen couldn’t be more perfect! It will lend a warm glow to the space while you’re cooking dinner and give you some much needed light for the Nordic winter ahead. ❤

[@TimeToEvolve101]

Your personal life n choices are no body else’s business you are FANTABULOUS 💜💜💜💜

[@carramplona]

I send you my most sincere comment, no one can live you life for you. It is yours only, so enjoy your love ones, enjoy your time with them and sweep the bad energy and keep on loving!

[@chriskiefel7735]

The "hip bit" is called a Peplum, and I remember how popular that was. I love that you bring the retro to now. Yay on finding a light fixture! That is a great start! Love your thrifting adventures. I haven't read your comment sections, so I am unaware of what people are saying. It's nice if people are concerned and caring, but it is YOUR choice, and it's important that YOU trust you. Make your best choices and live your best life. It is YOUR life, and I believe that you can take care of you. Shine your light and be you and choose happiness. 🥰 You are loved and supported.

[@OrianaAnjou]

so popular. I had a mint green and pink paisley peplum dress my mother made for a dance in the late 80s... it was LOVELY.

[@magpie06]

Oh, please don't bother with what other people say! I used to be very affected by others' opinions, and it took awhile to realize that it simply does not matter what other people think or say or do. Your life is yours alone to live. Live it beautifully and joyfully! 🌺🌸🌹🌻🌼

[@BERNIERULLI]

Hello dearest Elise, I have never commented on your channel before, but I genuinely felt compelled to say that you have grown so much as an independent woman. You overcame so many trials and have soared. Be proud of yourself and keep moving forward. You are an intelligent person that has found love and companionship. I am a mother of three men. I have experienced with their highs and lows . The oldest is 31 and a new father. The other two are on their journeys. Be happy Elise and don’t let ANYONE or negativity enter your life. You share so much with us, which you don’t have to. Elise, so many of the naysayers would like to keep you for themselves, they are finding it very are to share you with someone else. My suggestion to you is, just read the positive comments and skip the rest. You are positively glowing and happy, life is short, enjoy every moment. I would give you a big hug if I were able to.

[@citygirlingraham]

Very good advice, I agree 100%.

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so much 🥰

[@isabellebillie]

You are Totally right! The audacity of some people to be so arrogant to tell you how to lead your life! This is a very successful young woman with her own business, her own house… What makes you think she needs your negative crap? Elise, you are wonderful and very capable of making your own decisions in life. To all the commenters: if you don’t have something positive to say, just don’t say it at all! Elise, I am proud of you! Love from the Netherlands

[@everythingtraumaic5069]

it is no body's business about your personal life...Girl when you step into owing or obligation to any one but your self, you step out of your authenticity...don't let that happen to you...trust your self..you have got this ....

[@jalieeen]

Live your life girl! You are beautiful and know what you need. Encouraging words are the key. Whoever sent negative comments should realize that it hurts most people. I love your incredible sense of style. You rock! Please know most of us that follow you are amazed how together you are and to be so young. Keep up the good job.

[@nickiemoreno1261]

Your personal life is no one’s business, your relationship with your man is. Pull up your chonie’s and don’t respond to those jealous people. Your beautiful and you deserve happiness. Rock on girl!

[@jeanneorr7838]

You are a great person, don't let anyone tell you diiferent. You have style you have grace , one in a million😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@livingintentionallybymathe1333]

I personally think you are sensible and smart. For what it's worth, I am adding my thoughts here so you know there are more people who want the best, wish the best and allow the best for you. You are rocking it, girl! Also, I love the 80's collection segment.

[@EliseBuch]

Thaank you 🥰

[@emmar3035]

You are so sweet and wise. I am a bit older, but have a very young mind and soul. I see you as competent and confident…make your own choices and trust yourself. Life life and enjoy! I may be wrong, but I think most people give advise, or advise caution because they care for you and want the best for you. They probably don’t realize how that sounds to others. I admire what you are doing, stay true to yourself 💕 Thank you for sharing - Emma

[@bettyjo2737]

I have a daughter your age. Elise, it is wonderful to see you in a new relationship and happy! You deserve the best the life! I understand what you are saying but don't let them steal your joy! My husband and I got married after 3 months. We have been married for 22 years in April. Follow your heart!! Great thrift hauls! I hope you have a wonderful weekend and a great week to come! ❤

[@annaladue1077]

People feel like they have the right to share their negative opinions especially to people who put their life on the internet. We watch what you show us and don’t see a lot of your life so you are the only one that knows what’s best for you. Thank you for making videos that we enjoy watching. Doing what makes you happy is most important!

[@janemelton9905]

I’m old enough to be your grandmother. I love the life style your videos portray. As far as your personal life it’s just that. Your personal life. You be yourself and live your life. I’m just here for the glimpse into your world that you want to share.

[@robinsabo6932]

I love watching your videos Elise. Your mini fashion shows, your thrifting, your decorating…all make me happy! Thanks for sharing and making it fun!

[@lakehousemama1955]

Feeling sad for negative comments is natural. Someone acts negative to me and I dwell on it. You are a wonderful person and I enjoy your videos very much. Just know you make this 69 yr old gal in the US very proud.

[@wickedartist1451]

...and this 57 yr old US girl, too!

[@SunshinesART]

And this 51 year old American girl as well. 🌞🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@mistformlady]

And this 48 year old US girl!

[@EliseBuch]

Thaaank you 🥰

[@joiedevivre2005]

I have been on this swirling world for 58 years & I think you are a smart, strong, creative, kind, lovely young woman. You should be proud of yourself because you are an awesome human being!

[@danastavney5687]

Wow!! a new thrift store! Don't you just love that feeling that you found 3x the best stuff you thought you would ever find?! Only a true thrifter can feel your thrill!!

[@lj401]

The whole time I was watching this video I kept thinking what a hard working, accomplished, creative, strong woman you are Elise, and that you've truly got your act together. But then hearing how you've been feeling down.. I wanted to say I definitely understand personally how certain things can have us feeling that way so easily. But I hope that feeling passes quickly for you, as you are truly a delight and an inspiration for so many!

[@mindmatters2922]

Don’t mind the judgy people. You live your life whatever way your heart feels! I met my husband 34 years ago, we went on a date and three weeks later we moved in together. We’re still mad about each other!😊

[@valtiel9]

Elise, people will give unsolicited advice, no matter what. I am 44 years old and if I very rarely catch a cold, some people still give me advice on what to do, like I was a toddler. :D I know it's not the same, but it can be frustrating too. If it affects you this much and makes you sad and anxious, as many people commented, just block them. Yes, they want the best for you and they are afraid that what happened before will happen again in your current relationship, but it's your life, your decisions and as far as I know you did not ask for our advice.

[@camcamillefolks]

The black frame with the painting inside is so stunning. It would look so so good above your couch. 💕 This is so true, you can't just ignore what hurts you but never forget you are amazing. Honestly we all should just be happy that you are happy in your relationship and just happy in your life.

[@carolinecheney2194]

Never commented on anyone’s video before on KZbin but felt like I should today. I have been watching your videos for years now, and you are a ray of sunshine. People commenting negative things are most likely pushing their own anxieties onto you. You are a grown woman and deserve to make your own choices while being supported through those. Keep doing you Elise. You deserve more than the negative comments! The real ones support you through it all! You’ve got this! 💪

[@lovelyskull3483]

Thank you for another wonderful video. You are young, beautiful, kind and successful, also in love. Nothing could be finer. Life can be brutal and such hard work, negativity from others is not required. Much love and cheers to you Elise and your lovely boyfriend.

[@elissadunford2867]

Thank you for your vulnerability. Keep listening to your inner voice, it won't steer you wrong. All is well and all will be well. You got this Elise.

[@tracey1099]

One thing I have learnt is that people’s comments reveal themselves not you. The beautiful thing to take from even the ‘negative’ comments is that your followers care about you and are feeling protective. That’s a sign of love seen in that light. You are loved Elise and that’s a gift to treasure - even when people might be afraid for you or not understand. Much love from Australia 🇦🇺💕🤗

[@brandiperelli4090]

Elise, this was what my mom used to say 'people say mean things for two reasons their jealous or have too much time on their hands'! I've found that to be true more times than not. These days everyone has an opinion and feels the right to give it even tho not asked. You are a beautiful young lady, an artist and your eye for fashion and decor is amazing and much more!!! Believe in you and what you know to be truth and let those hurtful words be as like dandelion seeds that blow away in the wind. ❤

[@janpixnow3369]

If you're happy, go ahead on! I'm happy for you!❤

[@gigilove1392]

Hello Elise,I want to say that I love your videos,the vintage items,your home,the thrifting trips you make into those fabulous shops,gardening and your style when you dress up,smile,love your boyfriend and live your life,be happy and don't get sad over some ppls opinions,blessings😊

[@nancylee533]

Hello🌸 I felt it important to tell you that negative people are fearful people. Do not take on other people’s fear. Trust yourself. Live your life. One time someone told me what other people think of me is none of my business. That helped. I like the old saying, live, laugh, love.💗

[@KittyLikesCrafts]

You nailed it!

[@spiritedsoulcollection]

I love the black framed art piece and everything else you thrifted. I enjoyed the 80's vintage collection❤. It is one of my favourite decades, especially the clothing and classic music🕺❤️. Greetings from Cape Town South Africa🙏🇿🇦.

[@robinbemman4858]

A huge HUG for what you have to put up with- my Grandma always said” unhappy people can’t stand it when somebody is happy and find fault (s) with the happy one”… I have found that people often feel they are actual friends with people they follow- and will feel you must listen to their advice- you only share tidbits of your life with us and the rest is private-people really need to get a life- hugs and enjoy YOUR life

[@annakapskaya1619]

Elise, I just want to let you know that your life and love are one and only for you to choose. Be happy, be loved, be yourself! I wish you a lot of happiness and fulfillment in this phase of life! You do not need to hide behind someone's acceptance.

[@pamheath7184]

You are amazing and strong. Please be YOU!! ❤ I made a snap decision when I met my husband. Best idea ever. Love your videos.

[@pattymarshall1190]

That great place you found, we call that a honey hole. Fabulous items.

[@tigermoon44]

Be happy and enjoy your relationship with your boyfriend! You don't need explain or defend yourself. Just be the beautiful and lovely woman that you are!! I'm a new subscriber and glad I found your channel!

[@GoWithDaFlowMo]

Dear sweet beautiful intelligent Elise... You're such a bundle of light and love, please don't let any jealous or bitter person dull your sparkle... It hurts, I know it hurts, but try to remember it says nothing about you and everything about them... I think you're amazing and you deserve all the happiness this relationship brings you... Sending you both so much love... Enjoy each other..... ❤❤

[@annedixon2528]

It’s like you have a world full of Aunties who love you and want to protect you 💕 But hey, we all have our own journeys-relish all the choices, it’s your life!!! 🤗 ❤

[@maryraymond8375]

Elise I am thrilled that you are happy in love. You can see the happiness in your face in these videos. I love it! Are you telling anyone how to run their lives? No..., don't give these people the time of day. You don't need them, forget them and just be you. Sending love from Nebraska!! 🙂

[@northernlassie2755]

No one knows the future. We live day by day. To love is a gift to cherish....even for a time. Thank you for your inspiring videos 💞

[@Vika_Fox666]

It's your life Elise you do what you want so ignore people that say mean things you know what you're doing so have fun doing it you go girl

[@virgomyst9]

There is a wise saying I love, it goes: “don’t cast your pearls before swines”. Simple means don’t share things with people who don’t know its value. It has served me well!!!! I pay it does the same for you. On Fridays I get paid and I get an Elise vlog 😊. Love from a Jamaican in Atlanta. ✌️

[@maryeliason1504]

Love the painting. You can always paint the frame. We love you Elise & want so much for you to be happy. You know what you want & need. You're so successful. Just be happy & enjoy life. P.S. love the clothes & those earrings!!!!?❤

[@briandusome8792]

Everyone needs a partner to love and share life with, you're so blessed you found someone to love, focus on being happy ❣

[@moonhunter9993]

no, not everyone. Often, the idea and fantasy of this partner is nowhere to be found for many women.

[@deborahfoss904]

Great finds Elise, When you are going to talk about your relationship. try letting people know that negative comments are not necessary so please don't bother to post. Life is a series of lessons and its tough, you have a right to be happy and explore what makes you happy so enjoy your life and remember if people put on negative comments it is more a reflection of their life NOT yours. stay happy and keep hunting out those treasures. x

[@demagischeschelp]

Dear Elise, I'm sorry you feel misunderstood at times. It’s a shame that some feel entitled to judge your life choices and act as if they know you personally. People can become so focused on finding ‘right or wrong’ in everything they see and lose a sense of reality or what’s truly important. I would much rather thank you for your vulnerability and courage. It does so much more than you might realise. Your resilience and the way you share that so beautifully with us brings us hope and reminds us that we’re not alone. It’s a selfless act, since you don’t have to share - yet you choose to. Thanks for making a difference

[@werixwolf]

You are a strong, adult woman, you can love who you want, and it's no one's business ❤ We're happy you're happy. It's your life, your wins and your mistakes to make, no one else's! It's a privilege that you want to share your personal life with us, and people should not take it for granted, that they can comment and have an opinion. The audacity!😮 Love the new thrift shop! You just inspired me to next spring do a little thrift roadtrip from UK! That would be so good to find some furniture over at yours! ❤❤

[@gaenadasylva]

Sweetheart... You are a beautiful soul... Live your life as a beautiful story unfolding... You know what you desire and dream of... If you feel time as come to go on with that new chapter just listen to yourself... Others opinions are always tinted by self experiences, fears and all... Your life belongs to you... I believe in you... Hugs...

[@lh5677]

We are lucky to share a small portion of your life. The info from your weekly videos do not give anyone watching enough knowledge to actually make personal decisions for you. Do what you think is good for yourself.

[@joinky776]

Please try that black farm and print on brick wall over your couch I love watching a beautiful young lady living her best life

[@rhondachapman7136]

Yes, I was thinking the same! ❤

[@fotomagrol]

Elise thank you again for a beautful video this week, for sharing all this special moments with us, and about your relationship I only wish you the best always and just be you, we are here supporting and charing this moments all of us. Thanks again for this videos. From another side of the world.

[@petro3441]

Stand strong girl. I am proud of you and you can surely be proud yourself. ❤

[@Rebecca-dc1gc]

Don't worry about what other people say. Just know that people usually just project their own issues and a lot of people have relationship issues.

[@adamantiapapandreou6137]

Follow your heart dear,you are an incredible person, mature,sweet and live your life.Don't pay an attention to the negative comments.Go forward,only people who know you and love you have the right to express an opinion.You have a charming personality and as a mother,i say that your mother must be very proud of you❤❤❤❤

[@PattyPaints]

I just realized the gorgeous plant in the corner is a hoya! My favorite plant. 💚💚💚 I hope it flowers for you! I'm going to leave the negative comments alone because that's where they belong.

[@beverlymartin1414]

Oh Elise so very glad to visit with you today. We have had tornadoes and a hurricane since we last saw you. We are fine but many Americans have suffered great loss and tragedy. Good to see you.

[@Vampishpixiee]

I would love to see an insta reel of you styling the clothes you bought! I’m a long time viewer and I don’t comment all that often but I just wanna say how proud I am of you. I’m so glad that you were able to ignore those nasty comments. People seem to think they know you and your life based off of your videos. Thank you for continuing to post 💕

[@kayhenderson3492]

You know in your heart that negative comments do not reflect YOU. They reflect the VIEWER. So they say things THEY need to hear. It is hard to feel a change - especially when our only connection is this strange virtual world. We feel we know you, but we see such a small part of your world. You know this because you are brilliant at sharing only certain areas. So be confident that viewers who are reacting in a negative way are acting out of fear. It has nothing to do with you. Trust yourself - this 72 year old woman believes you are fabulous.

[@loissaedder2214]

So true. We see half an hour of Elise's life spread over a few days. Hardly enough to make any judgement of anyone's life. I enjoy seeing the different lifestyle, scenery and weather. The thrift stores are amazing. 74yo granny in Queensland.

[@hannahkathleen1876]

Do not rely on the comment section to give you confidence in life. People on the internet are keyboard warriors looking to give you unsolicited advice. KZbin is your job, but your subscribers don't know the real you. I am happy for you that you have found love and someone to share your life with. No one wants to be lonely. You are just growing, as we all are, finding our way, and getting by. Life is too short ❤

[@irisf.9355]

Elise, love the 80's collection! Please ignore the trolls as much as possible. You are a beautiful, intelligent, talented woman who is a joy to watch. Thank you for sharing with us and I hope you never let the trolls get you down again. Block them and go on with your beautiful life.

[@dawnstoughton698]

I watch your videos because I feel in touch with your style, personality etc. I feel you are a very genuine person. I also agree, you do not have to clarify or justify your relationship to anyone. Hold your head high and keep moving forward. Your path is yours. No explanation needed .Enjoy your life

[@ephphathaoracle]

Sending both you and your bf so much love ❤.

[@Optimist788]

I’m sorry that other people’s negative experiences are being projected onto your personal life. We are seeing only snippets of your days through your content. Sending you happiness and good vibes😊

[@janicerepass6996]

I'm sure people mean well, Elise, but at the end of the day, you do you. You do what you choose to do with your life. People feel like you're a friend, and so then they think they can say anything to you. Good for you letting people know how you feel and setting boundaries. Wishing you all the best. By the way, I always enjoy thrifting with you and seeing what you've purchased!

[@motherlover449]

Seeing you sad last week bothered me a lot. I'm very sorry about your boyfriends loss. Live life, laugh often and love lots. Xxxxxxx😊

[@LittleJenniren]

So grateful for another lovely, cozy video, Elise. I'm sure it's been a hard week, and you shouldn't have to deal with negative judgment. So many of us are here to support the life you work so hard to create for yourself. Don't second guess yourself - if you're happy, that's the most important thing. I hope you have a lovely weekend and find some ways to recharge your energy with joy, coziness and love.

[@ellies6563]

Commenting for the algorithm - you’re a treasure and you always make it very clear when you’re asking for people’s opinions. Everything else is off limits, however much we may feel we care about you ❤

[@EliseBuch]

Thaank you 🥰 I love that you think of helping me with the algorithm! ☺️☺️✨️

[@saikagyaru]

Awww Elise. Thanks for always showing up for us despite the negativity you see in the comments. Sending love and protection to your heart and mind. ❤ Bliv rask start! Hopefully, I said that right. 🤗

[@pamelalawyer7651]

Your a great person hon and its no ones business . I'm genuinely happy for you. No one who really cares about u wants you to be alone. You deserve the best.

[@ccjensen3630]

I may or may not have been one of the people you referred to, however, you are young, and I am a bit older. I am not bitter or hate men. If you had a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend, I would have given the same advice- keep your house, rent it out for passive income and put the new house in one person’s name. No one goes into buying a house with someone or gets married thinking of breaking up. But then no one has health insurance thinking they will be sick, either. You both need to protect your financial interests just in case. I can’t speak for anyone else, but I like seeing you happy and want what’s best for the both of you. I appreciate your videos, and I think you do an excellent job presenting your interests, your hobbies, your work, your country. You also edit your videos quite professionally, which is nice to see. So please know that what I said was with good intent. I apologize if my comments upset you. If not, and I may not be one of those who upset you, at least you know that I truly appreciate your videos.

[@EdelweisSusie]

Exactly right regarding her current home - protect what's yours at all costs. I noticed the vast majority of 'worried' comments were from people who are older and very much wiser who don't want what happened in their own lives to happen to Elise: I'm sure it was well meant for the most part. All I can say is that if I had listened to such sage advice in my younger days I'd have spared myself years and years of heartbreak, depression, financial ruin and a deep distrust of men.

[@moonhunter9993]

Patriarchy is real... too many of us have learned that it's happening to almost all of us during our life

[@ccjensen3630]

@@EdelweisSusie You are so right! If I had only listened...

[@AshleyJohnson-wi3fi]

I know exactly how you feel I was single for almost 7 years and now talking to someone that you have to do what makes you happy don't worry about what everybody else says it's not their life obviously they're unhappy with their own life but I do love your videos❤❤