I get so frustrated when I watch my son eat.[Hello Counselor/ENG,THA/2018.11.26]

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Hello Counselor EP.389
Kim Johan, Red Velvet's Seulgi & Joy, Faker, Seo Dohyun
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[@tdk1236]

I'm glad they invited junsu that was previously in the same shoes and he really gave great advices. This boy has a great positive character and loving parents, I hope he really gains the motivation to lose weight and live a healthy happy life

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

Water and coffee concern. Yay they sorta had a follow up. Bring back the ramen girl I wanna know how she is doing

[@letithonestly2525]

YESSSSSS PLEASE I WANT AN UPDATE

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

@@pryzylla7017 yes. They need to do more updates or bring back guests if the concern is similar like in this case

[@elris452]

YamiAlex224 yes yes yes

[@baldboyfriend8589]

OMG HER!!! xD.

[@areumdaphil3401]

We watched this program too much that we know and remember all the concern 😂😂

[@muntu4626]

I really hope he loses the weight. Hello Counselor should update us. Junsu coming on the show was sweet and helpful. But honestly he should do a youtube channel I would even watch it lol

[@amelzemmoura8142]

duh i would subscribe with no thinking hhhh he's so cuteeeeeeeee

[@abanir3772]

I would too.he is so cute 😍

[@amochi8796]

i would subscribe too lol

[@user-jo3cy3wz9r]

oK but why is his skin so much clearer than mine when his diet is so unhealthy 😪

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

Korean skincare is very good. Also men wearing makeup in Korea is pretty common as well.

[@SwimmerPrince]

His diet actually looks pretty healthy, he's just ate WAY TOO DAMN MUCH

[@oliverxhmll]

@@SwimmerPrince no he eats good food at home but the mother said he eats junk food at school. He said himself that he drinks 2L of sugary drinks at school

[@nonayurbeezwax]

What do you mean unhealthy?! All i see is veggies, protein, and more veggies. Non of the processed frozen microwaveable crap, grease, and lard we gobble up on the daily here in the USA. Unhealthy?!! What is you smoking?!

[@miki-log]

@@nonayurbeezwax they mentioned in the show that he doesn't eat vegetables at all, he picks them out; he tried eating vegetables and literally threw up

[@ally9862]

The more his pelvic bone is weak, the more they should manage his weight. Now his weight is too heavy for his bones to carry and it’ll only make his initial pelvic bone problem worse. It’s definitely a combination of his greed for food and his parents’ willingness to give in to him. If nothing works then I guess he’ll need a scare to wake him up.

[@rahman1314]

He kept saying 'not now'. I wish the cast asked him why not?. To find the root of his habit, his mom should personally talk to him about it instead of making everyone look down on him on the show.

[@Jessica-ql5ji]

Isn’t it I feel like there’s no need for her to bring him on this show , when he could have gone to a nutritionist or something .

[@hypnos1078]

he has a really cute smile n seems genuinely cool, I hope he succeeds in getting healthy

[@lizadaito3419]

My eldest son also liked this when he still young. I have to buy him an adults size shirt and pant when he only 9 years old and now he a Personel trainer.

[@Putri-ani]

Wow God bless your family ❤

[@lizadaito3419]

@@Putri-ani terimakasih!

[@BlasianChineseBoy]

It bothers me that only 81 people in audience that Minu's excessive eating was a concern. Should've gotten way more votes.

[@EsosaCheryl]

Honestly I think many decided it wasn't a concern anymore because he acknowledged the fact that he needs to lose weight and set a goal.

[@blacksheep1069]

@@athelane it concern..unhealthy habit

[@8M1Tpe]

Nowadays due to the "body acceptance" movement a lot of fat people are using that as an excuse to not lose weight thats why he got so little votes

[@andiuptown1711]

D1M12 *nah SK doesn’t have that mindset, that’s a western thing*

[@marie1701]

I think is was a really good idea to bring junsu to the show since he had a similar past. I think it was good for the guy to hear from someone else, who experienced the same, to hear about the risks. I really hope he gets the mindset to change something. Also Im happy to see junsu doing better. He's sounded so mature when he talked to the boy. I'm in awe

[@csoniah4432]

I will subscribe if he streams his process of losing weight somebody keep me updated please ! Let's support him !

[@hmmmyes1537]

Anastaciacl18 yes!

[@loumacdonaldl7600]

He’s so cute and cheerful my heart dropped a phat uwu I hope he can put his health first and be motivated to loose some weight :))

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

This is random but I would love to eat the mothers cooking it looks good. I hope he gets help. He seems fun and could be a great person to be around as long as there is no food

[@thangvuong9196]

SO frustrating to watch this, the mother is complaining about all the fatty foods her son is eating, the crazy thing is, she is the one making the food.

[@Doggiemix1]

She mentioned that she was also a very over weight child. That her mother would not feed her and hide food from her. She ended up just eating more junk when she's away from home. So she knows that taking food away from her son won't help. He will just go to convenience stores etc. to eat junk food. She did try cooking him healthy food, like vegetables but the father said the son threw up. I think the son's throwing up is just a mental thing. He's used to eating so much unhealthy food that he thinks quality food tastes gross so he kinda mentally forced himself to throw up. Don't get me wrong, the parents are totally enabling him. They also mentioned that this all started when he son was young. He has weak pelvis and had to hsve surgery. They babied him and gave him whatever he wanted to eat back then and that's partly how his entire thing started. The mother makes whatever he wants to eat even now and in the amounts he wants to eat. She's afraid he might go hungry if she cooks only healthy foods in smaller portions. In order to lose weight, it takes everyone in the family. He needs to want to lose the weight...which until now...he didn't want to do. And the parents need to be firm at home. Also not give him money to buy outside junk food.

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

Seulgi has a pretty smile. Like I hope we get updates on this boy somedag

[@crayons1584]

Koreans have such a twisted view om weight loss.. You can't just tell him "no dinner for days", you have to teach him how to make healthy choices every meal

[@yogurLAPIZ]

And difference between hunger and anxiety, eating because you are hungry is different than when you have anxiety, the last one you just need to flip everything in front of you, lost trash food, and when you are hungry you need something consistent and after eating you feel full.

[@rubinaislam3509]

ikr

[@babatunde805]

@@yogurLAPIZ sometimes there just arent many options. 5'9 and 240 lbs is pretty bad.

[@andrew11bravo11]

you need to word your comment more respectfully

[@tadikata]

handsome junsu is back gomawo kbs

[@BlasianChineseBoy]

This concern depressed me to no end, I really would like to see Minu get more healthy but he really has to put forth the effort, because eating the way he does can be considered a disease especially if he continues at the rate he is going. It's clear Minu is very depressed about something and his mother has to get to the root of the problem why. I hope Hello Counselor stay updated with this family, I feel so bad to the mother, i know she doesn't want to lose her son if he develops major health problems later in life.

[@reidesuga]

Why people diagnose other people having depression that easily? Life isnt always sad and gloomy. Me myself like to eat food. I am also like him, eating so much food till i am right now become obese. I dont have depression. I just love to eat so much.

[@simsrock9982]

@@reidesuga If not depression at least an addiction which requires just as much help and attention. Throughout the show Minu said that he drank milk to impress his peers he ate a lot in the eating contest to impress his peers to me it seems like he enjoys eating so much because to him it is an easy way of getting noticed he likes the recognition from it. He might not be athletic or artistic but he can eat a lot so he showcases this. Hopefully his mindset changes sooner rather than later cuz it can lead to low self confidence and health complications.

[@wheresmyrooptoff4056]

We need an update in the future for this, and we also need an update on the ramen lady! He has a great personality and I definitely can see him becoming a mukbang-gaming streamer. He definitely should stream his weight loss process, especially a more high intensity type. He could become another Banzz, but more gaming focused...

[@choohah5604]

*Seulgi imagining the size of chocopie box is the cutest thing ever* 😚😂😂

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

I have a box of choco pies and looked at the box the same way

[@In0suke]

I like how nothing convinced him, and then faker's like "if you lose weight I will play a round with you" so he's like "ok"

[@parisBIEBER]

Okay im going to be honest. He looks cute and stuff but I think if he loses weight his visuals will shine more. He will most likely be more handsome.

[@leahnelson4777]

Watching these makes me feel so grateful for my family. They feed and care for me. It’s sad that not everyone can experience this

[@alina713]

He’s so cute in my opinion ☺️☺️☺️

[@vrmalayali]

i bet he will look lik kim nam joon if he lost weight!! he has his cute smile!

[@LunAR-ic7uj]

Draganeel Daniel from lookism?

[@naeviscallin4675]

Wow i am happy cause junsu get mor confident now 💚💚💚💚

[@k-i-l]

Alright, get it. It‘s unhealthy and nothing wrong with changing his weight to get healthy, but his mom is a bit too much. She looks like she is fully ashamed of his son and that‘s sad. I mean, it‘s your kid, don‘t lift down your head when everybody is looking at him. I would feel terrible if my mom would be ashamed or embarrassed of me. Maybe I‘m too sensitive, but still.

[@humaira42000]

true omg and his mom was the one who caused him to be like that. she should feel ashamed of herself, not her son.

[@Doggiemix1]

I think she's more sad and frustrated. She wants her son to lose weight due to his health. She mentioned going to the doctors, his weak pelvic bone, not being able to the his own shoes. She said he has fallen over and tripped many times due to his weight. She's afraid his weight and bad health might kill him. She didn't say that she's embarrassed by him or that she doesn't want to be seen walking next to him because she's ashamed. She might be embarrassed for herself though. She knows she enabled him with his food obsession by giving in to him and cooking what he wants to eat.

[@babatunde805]

Why would you not be ashamed of your son if he was 5'9, weighed 240 lbs without muscle and refused to go on a diet. Sometimes you need to be harsh to get your point across.

[@anita-im2og]

Yes you're too sensitive

[@fatima8278]

omg he’s so charismatic and adorable!!

[@yukil2040]

He’s such a cutie his smile is so precious😂🤍🤍

[@esther1765]

i LOVE his character. I agree that losing weight would be great for him, not because of what other people say but for his own health. and I also hope he never loses that upbeat personality and confidence!

[@믿음-m9l]

어머님 너무 귀여우시다… 그래도 식탐 줄이고 운동도 하셔서 맛있는 식사 하시길:)

[@abanir3772]

I know he has some problems but he look such a good person...❤good personality

[@scarymm5796]

Hahah weird seeing faker here! I hope they bring him back on white day and we see if he has lost weight! 💕

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

That would be great. We need updates on this or similar Like the girl who only ate ramen and did not chew her food

[@aurivierrrodman20]

So any updates now? 😂 Except skt loses the worlds 😢

[@niccolomachiavell]

Haha, I had to look into the comments because I swear I saw Faker but I couldnt believe it 🤣🤣

[@iluvbears4861]

Also, Can someone be like a detective and find his social media? lol Losing weight is hard and maybe a few extra silent supporters can help motivate?

[@daughter_of_the_king_2580]

Yess i would love that! So pls someone find him on social media

[@yoonboomer607]

Omggg Fakkerrr 😍

[@bri9315]

Im so happy faker got to be on this ep with RV !!💞💗💞 My two worlds colliding!🤧

[@angelduly5549]

Did i just see faker?

[@Regina777.]

Yep lol

[@ompilohorung2445]

Yea 😂

[@hera_aj]

You can really tell a lot of people care for him and really just want the best for him. I felt bad for him when his mom would say something and then act embarrassed that that was her son. It also seems like he has a lot of dreams and he knows what he wants in life. Hopefully he can change his lifestyle a bit so he can be able to chase his dreams. ♥️

[@hiboishereabdi9393]

His mom is so kind and cute😊

[@christitheboss3683]

In my mind,I think that everything we have,the situation we are passing true have a reason.When you are not like others,people will treat you differently in a bad way but I know that one days things will defenetly change for good !

[@jingli5057]

Is anyone shocked that they only got 81 votes?! I thought it would be at least 125 votes!

[@Jinssoysauce]

Just for information NOT FEEDING SOMEONE WILL ONLY MAKE THE PERSON HUNGRY AND WANT TO EAT MORE. People should EAT RIGHT. neither more nor less.

[@ghinazahra6019]

his mum is so cutee

[@fatimasanchezp]

He is really cute❤❤ I hope he gets better ❤❤❤❤❤

[@_filtered2486]

He needs to realize that being healthy and fit is important, for any cases- doesnt matter your age, your races, etc. P.s : Kimchi tastes good, esp the riped one.

[@SumayaHarare]

I do hope he gets healthier for his sake but I love how adorable and cheerful he is!

[@youjinkim497]

아들이 성격 적으로 좀 문제가 있어보이긴 하는데 ... 본인이 깨닫고 노력 했음 좋겠다.

[@cherylmedeiros6287]

Mom enables him by cooking so much food. Also don't take him to all you can eat places. As for lunch give him half the money to purchase a smaller amount of food. Yes mom is a good cook but cook less! He is not your boss, you are in charge!

[@barkbark5388]

You see here’s the problem.. he’s 110kg and 19 years old and I’m.. 81kg and I’m 13 years old. I’m done for 😂🖤

[@dianaruby5569]

I hope HC will show his progress ♡ I want see he lose his weight ♡

[@YurieSong]

omg junsu returned!!!! so happy

[@Regina777.]

0:32 faker messed with my heart rate😍😂😂💀. How dare he? He's so cute and nerdy. Ugh. And this was sad. Hopefully he can get better

[@midnightdreams8136]

He seems to be super nice and super funny! Wish only the best for him!

[@Jana_7]

I'm worried about this kid. I hope he doesn't develop heart problems or diabetes. I really hope he can lose the weight and be healthy.

[@iskotayo1]

if he cant do it voluntarily, do it forcefully by doing a bariatrik surgery to cut 2/3 of his gastric, and leave him with nutritionist and gym instructor. If his gastric has reduced to 2/3 even when his mom give him much food he wouldn't be able to finished it.

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

You can still overeat with gastric surgery if you force yourself

[@ot7sam461]

His appetite just like me. The only difference is our gender. He is man, i am woman 😂😂😂

[@elris452]

junsu! it’s nice seeing him doing well. i hope he looks after his weight because it could really be life threading also the mom needs to learn to make smaller portions. she’s partially at fault there but he need to look after himself now because he’s saying “i’m not worried about losing weight now” but what did there isn’t enough time.

[@fleabag6477]

He's so cute, what a character

[@janewow77]

Dear KBS, we need updates on this on White Day. If he loses weight as he said, let him play with Faker. It means, yeah, let Faker be guest again on White Day, pleaseeeeeee.....whether this son successful or not, let Faker be there. If he failed, seeing Faker will make him regret and he may feel guilty too.

[@amor4dior169]

The mom is complaining even though shes the one that fed him unhealthy stuff as a kid... she even cooks unhealthy food for him..

[@pathenry8622]

I wish they would go back to all the people they have on the show to see how they are getting on now

[@robotinarowboat3649]

the amount of food he eats for breakfast is probably what red velvet eats in a week lol

[@iluvbears4861]

It's cool to wanna look "better", but it should really be 100% about his health! Glad there was a sort of solution!

[@mahimahayat4698]

i clicked for the concern and will wholeheartedly pay attention but my gay jumped out when i saw seulgi. my queen i love her soooo soooo much. i forgot she was supposed to be on hello counselor and im ready. but also ready for this concern cuz lol my mom can relate yikes okay bye

[@itsjustjam]

im only 5mins in but im obsessed with how the mom talks LOL xx

[@kpopisdopeyass2088]

Is it just me but Joy looks like Hyuna in 1:20

[@saviralarasati9514]

same thought! I was surprised.

[@titansgurll6024]

Didnt read the guests names in the title and I thought she was hyuna

[@JiheonsWifeu]

*Sees Seulgi*O: SEULGI SHI!

[@navyasanthosh6331]

This concern ended real quick. He just needed to know the seriousness of it and the talk from the right person!

[@shira3944]

He just needed Faker to say „I‘ll play a round with U“ lololol

[@sakura20ify]

I hope he can become more healthy, good luck boy!! BTW I know is off topic but his skin is so clear even with that unhealthy diet, yesterday I ate a chocolate bar and today I have 2 huge pimples in my cheek 😭

[@patrickferry5262]

150 kgm's = 330 lbs being that overweight can lead to serious health problems why did his parents not put him on a diet or make him exercise why did his school not get involved where is child protective services

[@gede4204]

I m really interested when the concern is about eating because i can really relate myself

[@friedomelette2700]

Losing weight is a personal decision. I hope he will change his lifestyle for himself and for the people he loves

[@jasminegillen1696]

WHAT IS FAKER DOING HERE?? LMAO I LOVE THIS

[@mldw6071]

actually this is how much i eat when i was 17-18? korean restaurants are so good here, and i tend to go by myself. i just realized that it was a big portion for people out there....

[@waevy2510]

She is worried about him and that’s totally fine because his diet is unhealthy but the fact that she’s embarrassed of him being fat and eating too much isn’t what a mom should be saying. Instead just take care of his health and encourage him. The more you put down his self esteem the more he will consume because he would be so stressed out.

[@millie4689]

I'm really interested in the weight related concerns idk why

[@NA-tb1cw]

When he said "not now" I thought maybe he wants to become a sumo wrestler

[@makedawarrington4350]

Well, i hope he succeeds in his weight loss mission

[@sugassuwag7513]

wheres the update? Its already past march 14 I wanna know his progress!

[@nonaegepanhaesso]

this lowkey reminds me of my boyfriend. we started living together a couple of months ago. and man, he eats a lot! doesn’t matter how much i cook - he eats it all. now he started to complain that he gained some weight and i’m like: how about you try to eat less? like i am not saying you should eat everything as if tomorrow will never come. leave some for tomorrow maybe so i don’t have to cook every single day, considering that i am pretty tired in the evenings cause of work? but he says that my meals are always delicious and he just can’t help it. so i suggested i stop cooking at all. and he kinda got offended and asked what he’ll be eating then. and when i said “well, you’ll cook for yourself just as much as you need” he was like “huh?..” ugh.

[@peko7446]

If he didn't see you cooking that much food, you can set aside half of what you cook and put it in the fridge where he won't notice it. Then just serve the other half for your dinner.

[@hungle3497]

Who come for faker?

[@crimsoncrow3082]

not sure who said it but there is a rule that you put weight faster after quitting exercise

[@konikan6398]

OWHH LOOK AT HE SAT...LOOK AT HIS MOVE...FAKER...WHAT WAS THAT!!!!

[@Gracelyn98]

koni kan translate please

[@SagePearls]

I don't even eat breakfast

[@vlee7025]

Cause i woke up in the afternoon lol (if i have no class) hahaha

[@Regina777.]

Same. I don't eat breakfast and skip lunch sometimes🤣.

[@Jabbs666666666]

Here is the thing. It's 100% his moms fault, SHE COOKS for him. She could easily have raised him on less food instead of letting him eat whatever he wants. Stop being embarrassed of your son when you made him that way.

[@ughnotyou]

please, kbs, stick to kg. I can't understand the pound system that you use. A majority of us don't.

[@ashminley]

Kbs is korean and korea uses pound system. Why would they change it lol

[@ughnotyou]

Chimiie no they don’t. If you look at the korrean captions they use KG. The pound written in CC is for Americans.

[@ashminley]

@@ughnotyou oh okay

[@Doggiemix1]

Each kg is about 2.2 pounds

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

They probably changed it based on viewership.

[@riyashah7614]

woah faker is also there he is famous T1 player and he also showed in bamgtan TV

[@코코아빠-i7s]

너무 철없는게 계속 보는게 짜증난다. 뚱뚱해서 한심한게 아닌 진짜 철없는 모습이 너무 한심하다

[@macncheese137]

WHAT ARE THEY TALKING ABOUT??? I could totally eat all of his lunch meal... In a day.... :P

[@hamzasr6501]

he is cheerful and so sweet, but he needs to take care of his health too. he doesnt need to be skinny, but just within the healthy range

[@Brit15102]

I would only bring vegetables in the house and if he wanted something else he would have to buy it himself

[@peggykim3007]

i was like 20kgs overweight so nowhere near this guy and i saw a nutritionist. he needs a professional imo

[@jennykalenga6479]

i get that they pity their son because he was sick but the mother can't complain about his health if she's condoning him by making him all this food

[@daor775]

Poor young man is addicted to food!

[@patana7454]

he's adorable, i hope he can fix his habits;;

[@tadokoropilled]

bruh i get teased for eating a lot but just that breakfast and i would throw up edit: the son is so cute tho

[@m.o4936]

What kind of mom tells her son to skip dinner ? Just cook him healthy balanced meals that he will love and start reducing the quantity little by little until he can be saris with normal portions. Never make hkm eat alone and let him appreciate the food that is given to him. Don't blame your son for problems that you created or were not caring enough to notice in an early stage

[@vickychen7611]

I’m sorry but I don’t even have the time to boil egg for myself in the morning and skip it altogether! How does he find the time to eat

[@ashleynguyen2801]

If he can manage his weight, he can become more handsome. Let's support him

[@사쿠라나무]

*Seulgi the vaccum has left the chat*

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

When she heard whole box of choco pies I think she broke