My Meme Reaction Channel: / deebeauty / deeshanell Instagram: deeshanell ( deeshanell) I Got 7 Kids, But They're Not My Responsibility - Playback | Reaction
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@jadetaylor5191 Жыл бұрын
We need to talk about vasectomy’s just as much as we talk about women’s birth control.
@god-mage-ki7006 Жыл бұрын
Tbf, vasectomy is really for if you don’t want kids ever, not just contraception. Because even if it’s usually reversible, doctors will tell you not to get it if you want kids at some point or are open to having kids.
@jadetaylor5191 Жыл бұрын
@@god-mage-ki7006 but isn’t their an option to put your a sperm in a spent bank? That way, one can get the vasectomy after placing the sperm in the bank for later use.
@kennygwalk5328 Жыл бұрын
Seriously, you raw dawging and skeetin in all the women and not trying to be a father. Why in the Fck are you not tied up
@jadetaylor5191 Жыл бұрын
@@kikialeaki1850 Don’t really understand why them being equivalent or not is important. IMO, the important thing is that they both prevent unwanted pregnancies. I would even argue that vasectomy’s provide men autonomy in this situation they otherwise they wouldn’t have. It also just seems more sensical than advocating financial abortion, abandoning children and creating generational trauma or even putting oneself in debt or being jailed for not paying child support. Did a quick google check. A lot of PPH offer vasectomies and the cost ranges $0-$1000. That sounds a lot cheaper than paying a woman for a few abortions 🥴 it also sounds a lot less emotionally draining than an abortion..
@brxkdwn2905 Жыл бұрын
@@jadetaylor5191 birth control is something that can be temporary and u can stop using it while a vasectomy is permanent. A young guy might wanna leave it in a female cuz of the feeling and she allows it, but knows from the jump he doesn't want the child currently but definitely in the future, so in that case a vasectomy isn't an option. So really u cant compare the 2
@destinystarr3837 Жыл бұрын
If he didn't want to run into these types of issues where the women kept the children he should have used protection. Once these children are here and you choose to ignore and/or decline to offer any support for them you are considered a deadbeat. PERIOD. And the women are at fault too for willingly sleeping with him unprotected knowing his dumbass stance. Everyone is wrong. I just feel sorry for those innocent babies.
@hao9508 Жыл бұрын
@@soulaanvon lmao
@thalitha134 Жыл бұрын
Do pple think STD's and STI's don't exist anymore🙄. Our generation has normalized having multiple sex partners so much that pple aren't even scared of DISEASES😩🚮
@jadetaylor5191 Жыл бұрын
Imagine! If he’s this careless, he’s also probably not even getting tested regularly!
@ajat3202 Жыл бұрын
@@jadetaylor5191 he doesn't care. He itching & burning
@lorddj9910 Жыл бұрын
@@jadetaylor5191 definitely not getting tested 😂
@petrinegordon Жыл бұрын
And that's why things like HIV/AIDS is on the rise.
@winterrobot1942 Жыл бұрын
STDs only exist because of an excess of pre marital sex. Countries with lower rates of fornication have lower rates of STDs
@M2161 Жыл бұрын
People like him are genuinely dangerous to society
@cobus81 Жыл бұрын
and the male youth praise it too
@dragobender2459 Жыл бұрын
Nobody is praising this shit what are you talking about?
@vexaloe9435 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t say that they just stupid as hell
@crucial-_-sellz348 Жыл бұрын
@@cobus81 don't speak for us.
@cobus81 Жыл бұрын
@@crucial-_-sellz348 i just did ? lmao its not all of you but its a whole lot
@jadetaylor5191 Жыл бұрын
There’s SOOOOOO MANY measures both men and women can do to prevent unwanted pregnancies.
@sagittarius420cheefie Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@nayatarot777 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY. unless your birth control fails or you unfortunately get pregnant due to SA, there are no logical reasons or excuses for unplanned pregnancy. just recklessness. things happen, sure, but they’re most of the time preventable
@JeremiahWalton Жыл бұрын
Keyword ‘AND’ not or lol
@whobiggerthanhe Жыл бұрын
@@JeremiahWaltonwowwww u can read!!!! APPLAUSE FOR YOU
@JeremiahWalton Жыл бұрын
@@whobiggerthanhe *bows*
@IllumiNatetheOracle Жыл бұрын
Men really act slow in the head when it comes to sex. Babies ain't the only thing to avoid w/ sex. Dude must have all the diseases. Nuttin in randoms is super gross and risky.
@afrofriend9140 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 this man really exposed himself like this to the whole world.
@EricasPage Жыл бұрын
The same man that feels these women should get an abortion we asked to would be the same one not wanting to get a vasectomy when asked 🤦🏾♀️
@nayatarot777 Жыл бұрын
ik he itching and burning. if he doesn’t even care about protection he definitely doesn’t care enough to get tested
@nashad9349 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. That's scary because hes unknowingly passing stuff around.
@Remember_the_Time Жыл бұрын
They're talking like they can't wear contraceptives lol, men can wrap it up if they don't want kids. Don't put all your trust in the other person if YOU don't want kids. If you're not willing to protect yourself, you'll end up with the consequences to your actions 🤷🏽♀️
@azazelvalentine1762 Жыл бұрын
I mean women Can also make the dude wear one but no they let dudes buss In them raw, add on the fact that he tells them he doesn’t want kids, you have to put more blame on the women
@hubrisbrutus6805 Жыл бұрын
@@azazelvalentine1762 ur statement doesn’t invalidate what OP said lmao….if he doesn’t want kids he would take steps to minimize his chances of having kids…he is not doing that by putting all the responsibility on the women….that doesn’t make sense to give someone else full responsibility of something and when they don’t do it the way you would have to then get mad or ioset
@Remember_the_Time Жыл бұрын
@@hubrisbrutus6805 thank you! I always believed that putting all your trust in the other person is not the best decision.
@azazelvalentine1762 Жыл бұрын
@@hubrisbrutus6805 who said I was tryna invalidate what they said? My point was at the end of the day it’s the woman’s body and her life, so she should be more responsible with who she met buss In her😂
@cherrybxmb18 Жыл бұрын
@@azazelvalentine1762 and the MAN who says he doesn’t want kids should do wtf he gotta do to make sure that doesn’t happen? Instead of willingly going around putting his thing in anything that walks. Having 7 kids that you willingly made but don’t take care of bc you think words matter over actions.
@CuckMommy Жыл бұрын
Perfect example of LOW hanging fruit.
@vibez.no.cartel Жыл бұрын
literally......... And 1 vasectomy, which is reversable btw, is cheaper than 7 abortions.....just saying......because this man has clearly paid for more than 7 at his dirty rate 🤮.....7 women was just the amount that DIDN'T take the abortions.......either way these niggas aint shit women be smarter they're not gonna change any time soon... go watch the video The False Promise of Black Love by Mahogany Pink and her video on Accountability and KS....you'll thank me later
@imthetube44 Жыл бұрын
I see what you did there
@babytooty04 Жыл бұрын
He's not joking at all. There are a LOT of men who feel that way.
@vibez.no.cartel Жыл бұрын
@Toriel 1 vasectomy, which is reversable btw, is cheaper than 7 abortions.....just saying......because this man has clearly paid for more than 7 at his dirty rate 🤮.....7 women was just the amount that DIDN'T take the abortions.......either way these niggas aint shit women be smarter they're not gonna change any time soon... go watch the video The False Promise of Black Love by Mahogany Pink and her video on Accountability and KS....you'll thank me later
@sagittarius420cheefie Жыл бұрын
@Toriel But the crazy thing is he's still right, because no matter the evidence we see when it comes to the culture and behavior of black men, black women will still continue to birth them into reality knowing the results they have.🤷
@kennygwalk5328 Жыл бұрын
@Toriel yeah obliviously people period go by my body my choice...
@LiterallyAllNamesAreTaken Жыл бұрын
@@kennygwalk5328 gonna need a translation on that. what are you going on about?
@destinymcgowan5328 Жыл бұрын
I've become less attracted to Black men.
@Blair16 Жыл бұрын
God guided this man to run his mouth. I kept telling Women we need to stop thinking that a baby will change a man or seal a relationship with men. When those kids get older and find out about their father, these kids will need therapy 🙏🏾
@frankiejones7858 Жыл бұрын
Is that what y’all think ? You’d have to have a convo with them bout shii like this granted we might lie I’m not saying I’m like bro I’d gladly take my child but ik other men mindset tbh y’all women a lil gullible
@winglessfairy564 Жыл бұрын
@@frankiejones7858🙄
@babytooty04 Жыл бұрын
Depending on the state, if he never signed a birth certificate, he's not recognized as the father by law and doesn't owe any money. Shit is fucked up.
@S6Ryujin Жыл бұрын
A good lawyer will be able to get around that, many times if she can prove that he promised to play a role and she has evidence, she can get his ass, way too many dudes with multiple babymamas running around scot free destroying lives, there should be some kind of fucking task force for this stuff
@ajat3202 Жыл бұрын
@@S6Ryujin she would waste her time. This dude doesn't likely have money that can take care of these women
@nayatarot777 Жыл бұрын
@Life O'Connell this is exactly what i was confused about, but considering how trash he is, i wouldn’t be surprised if he told them that after he found out they were pregnant. perhaps with no knowledge of the previous kids he doesn’t care for. if they did know before getting pregnant, then they’re just idiots and the only victim here would be the abandoned child
@imaniluvsu1 Жыл бұрын
Let any woman in ANY state go apply for benefits. If you get named as the father and don't show up to court, you are then the father by default. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
@candyqueencandyqueen2689 Жыл бұрын
Look I don't feel sorry for this many at all. It takes you 7 times to realize your need to be a responsible adult and protect yourself. He wouldn't be in this situation if he protected himself from the beginning and wasn't out here recklessly having unprotected sex with every woman he See's. Now he could be potentially be facing child support because he ain't protect himself from the beginning. Once you realized the first time you got a woman pregnant that should've been your cue to do something else to prevent it from happening again because 7 times really shows how irresponsible he is.
@hao9508 Жыл бұрын
He is sick in the head. That's mental illness issues as its finest.
@SSJKDotsSanctum Жыл бұрын
He's trying to get on Cannon and Youngboy level
@S6Ryujin Жыл бұрын
This dude aint able to do nun for these kids, At least cannon kids wont starve, the women can at least get some money out of him
@SSJKDotsSanctum Жыл бұрын
@@S6Ryujin 🤣 True
@austin3082 Жыл бұрын
"You need to get snipped" has me on the floor
@03bonnieandclyde Жыл бұрын
It’s always “she could’ve got an abortion” but at the same time it’s like she is the one that has to live with taking away the life that’s growing inside her not anyone else …that’s a lot to deal with for one person and on top of that you have to deal with an ignorant misogynistic man like this
@d-space1935 Жыл бұрын
True, but then like this dude should’ve done, make sure you only go raw with someone who is committed to you and family minded. If everybody did that then this would not be a problem.
@winglessfairy564 Жыл бұрын
@@d-space1935Go raw with someone who wants to have kids with you
@MoeDavinci Жыл бұрын
The sad thing is I can almost guarantee when a ‘jumpoff’ ask if he has kids, he says he has none, thus perpetuating the cycle.
@d-space1935 Жыл бұрын
Hey man this is a good example of trash people causing problems. He sucks, but so do the multiple women too
@shopece8807 Жыл бұрын
He said too much just to say he hates himself, wants to create broken homes and can't be bothered with a vasectomy because he don't want to keep it in his pants for 5 days to 6 weeks (recovery time varies).
@fernievens9088 Жыл бұрын
If he don't want kids, why don't he just get a vasectomy. But what he is going to do, if he's having unprotected sex. If he gets a sexually transmitted disease, it just takes once.
@clowneryhun6928 Жыл бұрын
Reminder that sexually transmitted diseases exist y’all! Be smart and safe about who you choose to be intimate with!
@happytobeliving7199 Жыл бұрын
You can reverse a vasectomy so it really isn’t as big as tying your tubes or something because those are permanent.
@S6Ryujin Жыл бұрын
You can possibly* reverse one, sometimes the process is not able to be reversed, so if you’ve been telling people that it definitely will be reversible, you’ve honestly been doing them a disservice bro
@chukwu_9 Жыл бұрын
@@S6Ryujin mf a doctor was going to say this anyways
@vibez.no.cartel Жыл бұрын
1 vasectomy, which is reversable btw, is cheaper than 7 abortions.....just saying......because this man has clearly paid for more than 7 at his dirty rate 🤮.....7 women was just the amount that DIDN'T take the abortions.......either way these niggas aint shit women be smarter they're not gonna change any time soon... go watch the video The False Promise of Black Love by Mahogany Pink and her video on Accountability and KS....you'll thank me later
@furquawn7067 Жыл бұрын
If you have a vasectomy for 3-8 years and get it reversed, pregnancy rates drop to 53% from 76% (If you've had it less than 3 vears). My point being vasectomies are not easily reversible, and that shit could completely fuck your ability to get women pregnant if not reversed soon enough.
@jadetaylor5191 Жыл бұрын
@@S6Ryujin what about putting the sperm in a bank? That way, if men decide they want kids at a later date, they have that option.
@jadetaylor5191 Жыл бұрын
This has to be satire. It’s almost like he’s getting them pregnant on purpose.
@camillelaurenmusic Жыл бұрын
Both him and the girls who let him hit are L’s . Its a shame society gotta deal with the foolishness of these 40 year old kids and their damaged kids 😩
@wholelottatay Жыл бұрын
I feel like both need to hold some accountability. If he is being honest about being upfront the women then those women should have never had sexual encounters with him, but I don’t like how people are trying to rid of him of responsibility stirctly because he’s a man. This “men are always right and can do no wrong and women are at fault for all things” is really draining these days. Why can’t it just be a people need to take accountability thing. He is literally saying he could have pulled out but didn’t want to because he doesn’t really gaf, because he feels that wether the woman gets pregnant or not he’s gone regardless, he got his nut and it is what it is. That mentality is disgusting. Just like men tell women if you don’t want a baby don’t have sex it goes the same for men. You don’t want kids but you are having sex frequently and casually and unsafely and think because you say “I don’t want kids” that should rid you of any responsibility to a child that you purposely made is ridiculous. And yes I say purposely because he acknowledges that he could have wore a condom and he could have pulled out but he didn’t because he didn’t care is enough for it to be okay from his part? And him assuming that because he had the money to pay for abortions the women were just going to accept it is wild. Both parties were reckless and both deserve backlash not just the women he got pregnant. I have seen people talking more shit about the women letting him get them pregnant then people acknowledging that he is purposely getting women pregnant and ridding himself of responsibility because he knows he can. Sad for the children in this case who will grow up without a father and one day see this video as well. These women should have picked better and he needs to be better and grow up.
@azazelvalentine1762 Жыл бұрын
I feel like They can easily say wear a condom or we’re not having sex but they chose to let him buss in them raw. Add on if the dude said he doesn’t want kids, why even risk being a single mother ? At the end of the day it’s the woman’s body and her life, so she should be protecting it no matter what. I just don’t see how you knew what you were getting but blame the man when you could’ve prevented it way more than the man when ultimately having a baby is 99% a woman’s choice
@hubrisbrutus6805 Жыл бұрын
@@azazelvalentine1762 at the end of the day it is his body and his life so he should be protecting it in any way possible but he isn’t he is in fact doing the bare min of just saying “I don’t want kids” but then not taking steps to not have kids…don’t make no damn sense “I don’t want std’s” but imma be having sex without protection with multiple different partners “I don’t want a criminal record” yet I’m committing blatant crimes “I don’t have friends” yet I don’t go out, I don’t socialize, I don’t do anything to get friends I’m putting all the responsibility for what I want of need on other ppl just so I don’t take accountability but I will be upset if things don’t go my way
@azazelvalentine1762 Жыл бұрын
@@hubrisbrutus6805 you have it backwards 😂 it’s the woman’s body. A man doesn’t carry a child, a baby doesn’t change a man’s body and majority of the time the man isn’t the one who’s stuck with the baby, that’s all what happens to women. So you should be saying women should be protecting their bodies not the other way around . But still it’s on both of them but y’all act like it’s solely on the man, again it’s the woman’s body and life that will go through changes, a man like in the videos his life doesn’t change cause he’s not gonna be there anyway. But hey if y’all wanna give y’all bodies up to irresponsible inconsiderate deadbeat men instead of doing what’s best for you and your body then go ahead😂
@hubrisbrutus6805 Жыл бұрын
@@azazelvalentine1762 they are both wrong based on his account. I wanna hear from these women really to get a better picture of what really happened. If neither want kids then both will take steps to prevent kids. Neither took steps to prevent kids therefore both are responsible. Simple but the simple minded don’t get it. I have nothing else to say when I feel like I’m writing to a brick wall or someone who has the intelligence of one. May you live in interesting times. 👋🏼
@azazelvalentine1762 Жыл бұрын
@@hubrisbrutus6805 yet you keep tagging me😂 you tagged me on two different comments that had nothing to do with you In the first place. You literally put all the blame on men then now tryna say it’s on both of them😂😂 like I said it’s a woman’s body and it’s her life, if a dude is giving signs thats he’s a deadbeat and says he doesn’t want kids why let him buss in you raw. It’s just dumb. Why would the dude care or try to prevent it when he can simply just leave? Then that woman is stuck with that responsibility while the dude isn’t. You’re just one of those people that hate women taking accountability. She had just as much to do with the situation as he did especially after he offered to pay for a plan b or an abortion and said he didn’t want a baby. That’s like a friend saying “ hey I rob people” and you let him come to your house and he robs you. Yeah he was wrong for robbing you but you could’ve easily avoided that so some responsibility is on you aswell. Idc if you don’t respond cause I never asked for your response In the first place. At this point you just scrolling looking for my comments to respond to😂
@_sintrell Жыл бұрын
Bruh this was deep AND SHALLOW🤣
@sebastianf6499 Жыл бұрын
Thank the Lord that I'm celibate! People are crazy these days, especially not taking STIs seriously.
@traxagenda3445 Жыл бұрын
Or just find you one person and continuously sleep with her
@wholelottatay Жыл бұрын
I also felt like when I first saw this that he was trolling and joking because at a time like this men are going to agree with him and say he’s right and the deadbeats out there are going to eat this up and it’s going to feed into “women deserve less” narrative that is being pushed right now. Regardless of wether he is being serious or not 🤢 if you engage into a sexual act ESPECIALLY so carelessly no matter if you say you want the baby or not, that child is your responsibility. He said these women need to chose better but in turn said he had to do nothing to fuck them lmao he’s clowning lmao
@destinymcgowan5328 Жыл бұрын
Vasectomies are also reversible, but it depends on how long you got it
@jessieis Жыл бұрын
Is this is a prime example of poor behavior on both ends. We wonder why dating is all jacked up when you got people like this that have zero discipline of their seed, and the women are no better sleeping with men like this. Yet again another broken home with no father.
@chopgotsauce6812 Жыл бұрын
BMs #1 and #2 get passes the other 5 that's they fault. We gotta put accountability on all parties.
@nadinedarien Жыл бұрын
After a vasectomy, semen will come out minus sperm. Nonetheless, the feeling would still be the same since ejaculation and orgasm are seperate but are often experienced by men simultaneously.
@musicexplosionx4575 Жыл бұрын
At the end of the day, no man should try to control a woman’s body.
@remembertolive3188 Жыл бұрын
About the condoms question they asked..there have been plenty of times where a girl wouldn’t even mention a condom or a girl will mention one then ask me to take it off soon after. But I will always wear one unless you are my girl and we really locked in
@ashleydavis2124 Жыл бұрын
Noo Dee😭 not the video surrounding my twitter now with north Chile I was getting pissed off and u right Dee if he could pay for all them abortions and after pill he got money to hhelp 😂
@sagittarius420cheefie Жыл бұрын
Some of the present fathers ain't ish either girl. Just saying
@Beetwate305 Жыл бұрын
When you’re stupid but think you’re smart!
@damanicarew7975 Жыл бұрын
Was in one of those lives when he was talking about this and he had one lady defending him while another was claiming “ You b$&ches ain’t 💩. It was wild in that live.
@JamJam-yp9zh Жыл бұрын
Dee react to AMP Love and Music
@OceanLily Жыл бұрын
He knows Vasectomy exists right?😂
@e.l.t.art. Жыл бұрын
Dee can u react to dee shanell being dee shanell I made it❤
@blankmandastankman Жыл бұрын
Bruh how tf did he manage to get into this situation 7+ different times with women? If anything, I can hold females responsible for having the worst standards when it comes to letting blatantly irresponsible men hit it raw
@blankmandastankman Жыл бұрын
He makes a good point, in the most irresponsible and insane way possible
@ashleymillian698410 ай бұрын
There is a lot you can to prevent pregnancies such as condoms, birth control, a vasectomy, or even pull out before your stuff comes out. People are dumb as hell.
@shadowmist9093 Жыл бұрын
If he didnt want the kids he shouldn't of done the kid making technique!
@reshadegaming6285 Жыл бұрын
Yeah never had a woman ask me to put on a condom. Or as Agent said if they do they do so very half heartedly. Like " oh it's gone take you to long to get it, forget about it".
@riles575 Жыл бұрын
If he truly did not want kids & didn’t wanna face the consequences of unprotected sex with women he don’t wanna be with then he would’ve taken the measures & precautions to prevent these things. It’s that simple. But he didn’t he decided not to & did it over & over & over again to multiple women & is now blaming the women for having the baby when he’s the one that literally gave them the baby like huh? If you don’t want no kids don’t give out your seed to women that you don’t trust or don’t wanna be with. And sure if he did tell them he didn’t want one before they had sex & the women had sex with him anyways & had the kid anyways she’s kinda dumb so she can’t really complain abt him being a deadbeat if she allowed it to happen but still he’s more in the wrong here morally bc he’s just openly creating more fatherless homes without giving a fuck & that’s kinda fucked bc he keeps doing it & doesn’t care.
@Whothegoat671 Жыл бұрын
I done dropped the whole spill in plenty of comment sections. Short and simple he got a point but I don’t think he saying if right
@kenanf92 Жыл бұрын
If a baby is born that was her decision. She knew she she was gonna be a single mom. Plus he didn't do anything to make you think he wanted to be with you but these are the guys you want to fathers 😂😂
@bulat128 Жыл бұрын
Condoms!!!!
@fjnemo Жыл бұрын
Agent is right, there are some wild women out there who even try force you not to use the condom. You just gotta be mentally strong as a dude coz you can't put that much trust in someone
@Remember_the_Time Жыл бұрын
If she's trying to force you not to wear it, then maybe you shouldn't do ANYTHING with her. That's how people end up trapped
@solaris5922 Жыл бұрын
@@Remember_the_Time these same dudes complain on social media about the $100 child support the state puts them on 💀
@imaniluvsu1 Жыл бұрын
Those are the ones trying to trap a man with a baby. Either that or they're already pregnant and want to trap a man who's NOT the father with a child. Those are the ones who insist and those are the ones you don't have sex with.
@sagittarius420cheefie Жыл бұрын
He is a deadbeat, but an open one. So, therefore I can't even disagree with his log. But I do agree that he is still a deadbeat.
@afrosamurai8755 Жыл бұрын
He a L and the females are too 😂😂
@Justcause0395 Жыл бұрын
ypu shoould watch damian and biannca
@frankiejones7858 Жыл бұрын
Nah bro this not coo fr some people don’t fw that abortion shii cuz of multiple reasons this not good for our people although most likely they’ll find someone that will want to care for the child but it’s not the same as it’s not theirs so the love don’t be there or they won’t want to tolerate when the kids get annoying especially if this hood shii
@jadetaylor5191 Жыл бұрын
His mouth is irritating me 😂
@Heart2016Sim Жыл бұрын
Wtf did I just watch
@moctezuma_2 Жыл бұрын
love how dudes brag about body count...all bodies ain't equal homeboy
@SAVAGEGaming-of7gh Жыл бұрын
No cap bro kinda was speaking facts about the abortion part 😂😂😂
@Mendejito Жыл бұрын
No he wasn’t
@deji8272 Жыл бұрын
First
@mouthdestroyer8847 Жыл бұрын
That man is gross AF but he’s right.
@Mendejito Жыл бұрын
Ah yes mouth destroyer, I’m sure your judgment is sound lmao
@mouthdestroyer8847 Жыл бұрын
@@Mendejito ah yes i’m sure a name and pfp is the same as a man putting babies in every women and letting the kids fatherless. Go buy a brain