#1 reason military members don’t stay in: FAMILY ❤️ The military will always be there, and if you get an itch to serve again, you can do so in the Reserves. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors and look forward to what’s next ❤️ Enjoy your time with your family 👍
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
That is so true. I’m working on getting into the reserves now to keep some of the benefits. Again thank you for your service!
@LauraZorza3 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 let me know if you have any questions in regards to the Reserves. I left Active Duty, like you did after several years, and retired on the Reserve side. It’s a completely different beast 👍
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@LauraZorza ok thank you so much! I will definitely let you know if I have any questions.
@BernieTTV2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you got out. Always put happiness first.
@theofficialdaveharris87942 жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏🏾
@ladeveontaewardlaw69422 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you bro, a lot. Been in 12 years and I can honestly say that I’ve had enough of the Navy. Missed way too many important moments and time I’ll never get back with the family. 18 more months and I’m done. Too many deployments being burnt out all the time wasn’t enough for me to keep pushing. Want something different and something I can enjoy.
@theofficialdaveharris87942 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro and I understand how you feel that’s exactly why I got out, it’s too much. I’m so much happier since I been out and I am doing well.
@nicoleandnico2 жыл бұрын
man you speaking sum real shit-like frfr i can relate to you on every topic bruh, my EAOS is april 23’ and again like you said, you can’t get away from the military and family time is taken from you
@theofficialdaveharris87942 жыл бұрын
Facts man do what’s best for you and you fam. I’m glad my video helps.
@DeckplateTone Жыл бұрын
Hey bro, you couldn’t use your DC qualifications for your fire fighting job?
@DeckplateTone Жыл бұрын
Oh by the way, someone can recommend disapproval for your requests, but they not allowed to disapprove it. Only the CO, usually they say yeah.
@j.c.83053 жыл бұрын
Much respect man💯 Thank you for your service and making a decision best for your life and happiness.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much and thank you for watching!
@NathanUrielMaico2 ай бұрын
I Thought joining active you are qualified for 30 days vaction once a year?
@hey68463 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your service bro, and thanks for sharing your experience. Best of luck with the next chapter of your life on the civilian side.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much and thank you for watching my videos!
@-narc-54953 жыл бұрын
Noo way wow well thank yo for your service much respect too you
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Your welcome and Thank you so much for watching my videos!
@EvasiveBlue3 жыл бұрын
They projecting their insecurities on you. You smarter than most and you move in silence when you not on here. I think that is a very rare ability. Keep being great! I knew you could do whatever you set your sights on.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
You are so right. They are scared themselves to get out, so they try to scare you. Thank you so much man I really appriciate it and glad I got to serve with you! You are an amazing person.
@dinky34263 жыл бұрын
Been following you for a long time. Thank you for all of your information, and I appreciate your service. Going in as MA in January. Best of luck on your future endeavors
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I really appreciate it! Good luck tonyou as well and congratulations on becoming a MA!
@AshLey-lq8ql2 жыл бұрын
currently an ma how is it for you 💀
@navysealteam55843 жыл бұрын
Wow 😳 thank you for your service brother. I’m going into the navy in a few short years I’m going to be a SEAL
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Your welcome and that’s awesome. Just make sure you stay in shape.
@navysealteam55843 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 yes sir thanks for the advice!!
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@navysealteam5584 your welcome
@solimennoles97172 жыл бұрын
Just know you cant be a SEAL as soon as you join it takes some time
@navysealteam55842 жыл бұрын
@@solimennoles9717 yes I know
@ayocam073 жыл бұрын
One of the reasons I’m getting out missing out my family especially my brother, get back to my own personal life don’t have to deal with entitled people 24/7 and enjoy my young life and not going to sea shit sucks fr. My recruiter lied to me too about my job which turns not what I expected.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
I was feeling the same way you feeling when I was in. I’m glad I got out tho. When are you getting out?
@ayocam072 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 in next few months actually lol
@lovet51773 жыл бұрын
Wish you all the best man, been following you all long and can't wait to see more of your videos after the Navy.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much and thank you for watching !
@RooManYT3 жыл бұрын
Proud of ya, it's hard to make a big decision like that! I'm sure you've got lot of support, and I'm personally excited to see how things go for you!
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! It really is a big decision a lot to think about but I just went ahead and did it before I hit my 10 year mark.
@RivetGardener Жыл бұрын
You look so much better and happier! I know the deal, brother. Hope everything works out for you. Take care of your daughter, be there for her. "precious time" ! Now you can put your own cooking style to your life and recipes if you are going to continue that path. Maybe even just make your own YT cooking channel, I did! Yep, in the military they own you 24/7/365.....welcome to the DepartmentOfDefense. I was so glad to get out and leave forever.
@PeteMcCorvey2 жыл бұрын
Bro, best of luck to you. I've been in the Navy 8 and half yeas and get out in one year. It keeps changing for the worst.
@theofficialdaveharris87942 жыл бұрын
Getting out the the best decision I made in a while. Things are going great for me and my family now that I’m out.
@kavainrobertson6021 Жыл бұрын
Leaving for bootcamp 4 days as cs in navy. My dad passed away two years ago now just me mom brother and sister. Very close them will miss them . Our current situation is toxic and negative navy opportunity for me.
@deanwinchester65572 жыл бұрын
Feel you Big Dawg💯🇺🇸.
@theofficialdaveharris87942 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro✊🏾
@TheAllyson252 жыл бұрын
What do u mean by the rate is locked up?
@theofficialdaveharris87942 жыл бұрын
Meaning they wouldn’t let anyone change the rate there in.
@josepha93133 жыл бұрын
Thank you for serving, hope it all works out for you whatever you do from here.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@josepha93133 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 And just to add, I was in the Air Force; when I first went in back in the 80s, I had no car and never left the base much. The chow hall and the cooks and servers were very important to my life. I always said 'thank you' and tried to smile at them because I knew they were busy and had very long days. So, a little appreciation here, sent your way.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@josepha9313 that’s great we need more people like you. It’s a very thankless job and thank you for your service!
@jeffyjeffable2 жыл бұрын
im a cs as well... thinking about getting out
@theofficialdaveharris87942 жыл бұрын
How many years are you at? I definitely would get out if you have a plan.
@jeffyjeffable2 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 8 years. If I don't make 1st class soon I'm definitely getting out
@theofficialdaveharris87942 жыл бұрын
@@jeffyjeffable ok well good luck bro!
@carlmartin47313 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your service shipmate.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Your welcome bro anytime!
@Cj-ws9fw3 жыл бұрын
My gramma retired from the navy in ‘96..she was also a cook(they ain’t call it CS back then lol) but after she retired she got a bunch of contractor jobs over in the Middle East for cooking and she got RICH. Ik u said you wanna spend time w family and don’t wanna miss out but if you ever need money down the road check it out...also I myself am in currently and got 4 yrs left..Let me just say this shit is GHET-TO!! good luck tho
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank so much for the info I will definitely look into a cooking contractor job. Do you know the specific name of the job title?
@cavianguardian3 жыл бұрын
I would like to join the navy! I postponed my decision because of family. At the time it was just my mom, brother & me. They passed away than family members disown me. I don’t have anything going for me right now. Joining the navy might give me a boost of confidence. Idk
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Yes it will I would definitely join.
@TehMorbidAtheist3 жыл бұрын
Good for you, bro. What rate did you get out with, if you don't mind me asking?
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you and I was a E5
@TehMorbidAtheist3 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 Gotcha I'll be going in as an E-3 and I fear it will take a while to get to E-5. What rate did you go in as?
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@TehMorbidAtheist it took me 3 years from E1-E5 depending on your rate it won’t be that hard to make E5.
@TehMorbidAtheist3 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 Awesome. Thank you for the words of encouragement!
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@TehMorbidAtheist your very welcome
@mungers12123 жыл бұрын
Respect brother I’m a CSSN with a year and a half in started as an e1 and I already did a deployment and got home port shifted away from my family I can’t wait to get out since I know I’m probably locked as a cs and can’t be a boatswain mate like I want to be before I even joined the cs life isn’t for everyone I know what those 15 hour days be like or even longer I’ve woken up at 0400 and got off during midrats when my master chief fucked us up during a field day walk through
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Dang your on a roll! You probably will get a EP. yes CS is t for everyone I hated it. Early mornings and long days.
@justchance13463 жыл бұрын
I regret joining the Navy, I need help on planning on what to do after the military
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
What do you like to do?
@justchance13463 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 not to sound vague but I like helping people, so like I’m thinking something in the medical field. I’m an MA at the moment.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@justchance1346 that’s great. I’m in school to be a fire fight now.
@Mrlingual12083 жыл бұрын
@@justchance1346 Hey shipmate I’m also an MA! You can do anything in the security industry. Anything from private security, municipal police, border patrol, TSA, etc. Remember one thing shipmate employers look for experience, training and education. You went through A/C school in San Antonio you received the training right? Check. You’re at your command now and gaining the experience now right? Check. All you need is your college education if you don’t have it and some fucking motivation guy. I don’t have the best orders but you know something I come to work everyday and assert my dominance and acknowledge my capabilities. I’m confident in myself and proud of my achievements, both you and I have more courage to serve than the rest of the population in the United States. Do not fucking regret anything in life. What’s done is done. Move on, get your quals at your command make rank, show leadership even as a junior sailor and be an alpha male. Hooyah shipmate!
@Mrlingual12083 жыл бұрын
@@justchance1346 Hey shipmate I’m also an MA! You can do anything in the security industry. Anything from private security, municipal police, border patrol, TSA, etc. Remember one thing shipmate employers look for experience, training and education. You went through A/C school in San Antonio you received the training right? Check. You’re at your command now and gaining the experience now right? Check. All you need is your college education if you don’t have it and some fucking motivation guy. I don’t have the best orders but you know something I come to work everyday and assert my dominance and acknowledge my capabilities. I’m confident in myself and proud of my achievements, both you and I have more courage to serve than the rest of the population in the United States. Do not fucking regret anything in life. What’s done is done. Move on, get your quals at your command make rank, show leadership even as a junior sailor and be an alpha male. Hooyah shipmate!
@maxmax45113 жыл бұрын
You did 8 years active brotha?
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Yessir
@Iamkitkatbar3 жыл бұрын
Been out 5 years. Had a rough start but now its going great making $2500+ before taxes every paycheck
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
That’s great. If you don’t mind me asking what kind of work do you do?
@Iamkitkatbar3 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 Armed Security Las Vegas
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@Iamkitkatbar that’s wassup I need a job like that.
@Iamkitkatbar3 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 come down to Las Vegas we are hiring $1,000 sign on bonus. Overtime will make your paycheck. do you want to make $4,000 before taxes or $4,000 after taxes
@Quattro.Bajeena3 жыл бұрын
Damn you got out of the Navy a day after I got out of the Navy. That's crazy! How are you enjoying life outside the Navy?
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
It’s been great. I’m in school right now to be a firefighter. What you been up too since you been out?
@Quattro.Bajeena3 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 It's been a little shaky since all my plans fell through. Currently using unemployment while I look for a job and setting up to go to school to continue my degree in Computer Science.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@Quattro.Bajeena I’m sorry to hear that. I hope everything works out. Once you start school and find a job you could work part time things should get better. Did you file for va disability.
@Quattro.Bajeena3 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 Yes I did. I claimed my Sleep Apnea. I got a CPAP Machine just before I got out the Navy. Now I'm just waiting on the VA to get back to me about my disability claim and how much percentage disability I qualify for.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@Quattro.Bajeena that’s great man that will definitely help out. Good luck!
@shorewood532113 жыл бұрын
Join the Navy Reserves. Best part time job, nothing like the active Navy. And you still get a pension and health insurance when you turn 60.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
That is very good advice! Thank you.
@Smooch_XO3 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait to get out. Lol cranking was stupid 😂 I been in six, I probably got a couple left in me as a Mineman 2nd class (MN2)
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Man I ain’t going to lie life has been great since I been out. I don’t miss it at all.
@TheprogresBMX3 жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense. Theirs always money to be made somewhere else🙌
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Yes there is!
@brysctt723 жыл бұрын
I remember when I got out it was good but I felt weird being a civilian at first, I was a cook also, when I was in it was ms, not cs. Ya it sucked being a cook the recruiter made it sound good, but the long ass hours sucked. I was on 3 ships and they put me in the wardroom on all 3 ships, and the wardroom sucks bad.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Yeah I couldn’t see myself doing 20 years in the navy as a cook. I was a cos cook as well and worked in the wardroom.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank for your service. What year did you serve?
@brysctt723 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 1991-1995
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@brysctt72 man that was a while ago things have definitely changed since then.
@Nehaa183 жыл бұрын
Congrats and thank you for your service!! Can I ask you a quick question about Navy deployment calls? What are the caller IDs usually? Can they show up as “unknown” on my cell? What about 800 numbers (possibly from calling cards)? Thank you 🙏
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry I don’t know what the caller Id would say because I was the person always calling people I never had know one call me personally from deployment.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
But let me ask my wife and see if she remembers.
@Nehaa183 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 Thank you!! 🙏
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@Nehaa18 your welcome
@666BEEZYTV3 жыл бұрын
Great bro keep up the good 👍🏿 ❤️❤️❤️
@666BEEZYTV3 жыл бұрын
You speaking straight facts
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Always bro!
@reacttime4953 жыл бұрын
DUDE. I respect you so much for getting out that takes courage as much as anything else. That really sucks they wouldn't change your rate, do you think you would have stayed in if they did?
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much and yes I would have stayed if I could have changed my rate. But I’m glad I got out it’s much better being a civilian.
@reacttime4953 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 facts bless you and your family brother i'll be tuning in to the videos. i'm about to start a navy journey of my own.
@ayocam072 жыл бұрын
Same here I would of change my rate I would of stayed also
@I_Use_Downerz3 жыл бұрын
Good for you bro 👏. I'm actually going to basic July 5th im going as css for now to get a law degree then commission in the af. I'm sure it'll be different for me since submariners have to do everything on the submarine not just their primary job.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Good luck out there on a sub. I’m not about that life. Seems like you got your career planned out. That’s great! Keep it up I see you going far in your career.
@LawlessYoduh3 жыл бұрын
Hey bro, i stumbled on your vids, from watching a random SHIM video on navy, I wanted to ask about the navy with ya, but not over youtube, do you have like a discord, side email you can reply to questions on? Just wondering, stay chill man and enjoy family for what it is, i don't have kids so i cant say i know what that is like.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
That’s for checking out my videos! You could hit me up on Instagram if you have that.
@richvarela96362 жыл бұрын
you did right .. your wife and daughter deserve to have you around…. the navy is a relationship killer…. you can now use your experience…. to get a good civilian career while still having your family life…
@loverofgod232 жыл бұрын
Yo need your help and advice bro
@asmrdave41053 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥
@theharrisempire34943 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
😎
@Innerquest4443 жыл бұрын
I just got out in August. Not due to the Jab..but thank Gawd lol. I'm making more money now than I did when I was in (LS). It just wasn't resonating with me anymore and the politics..ha stupid. Good luck on your journey!
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
That great. I’m glad I got out I was not feeling that military life anymore. I been so much happier on the outside! Good luck to you as well🙏🏾
@alexisbettis-jackson26763 жыл бұрын
I can listen to you talk all night, no disrespect to your wife lol it’s not like; that but I have anxiety really bad .. at night time and your voice is calming.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Your not the first person to say that. I’m told I have a calm laidback voice all the time. Thank you for watching tho!
@lilphantom52603 жыл бұрын
I had friends say don’t join the military and I still want to do it also they should of said bruh go for it
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
You should still do it I had friends and family tell me not to join either but it was one of the best decision I’ve ever made.
@bryanbaluyot67223 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 does the navy get better? I just graduated bootcamp yesterday and had liberty with my parents. Those were the fastest hours I’ve ever spent with my family and now I’m leaving to Florida today. It feels pretty lonely. Do you have any advice?
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
@@bryanbaluyot6722 I feel you. I felt the same way when I joined. It was lonely at first until I made friends. It does get better once you start to met people on the ship. Try to explore Florida and don’t stay in the house. What part of Florida are you going too?
@bryanbaluyot67223 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 thanks man. I’m at Pensacola Florida rn
@bryanbaluyot67223 жыл бұрын
@@theofficialdaveharris8794 I’m at Pensacola Florida right now. I believe for 2-3 months
@666BEEZYTV3 жыл бұрын
Teach me those skills
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
I got you bro✊🏾🙏🏾
@marcosburgos84913 жыл бұрын
Did not know you where from Georgia! Good luck with your future endeavors!
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Yep I’m from Atlanta. Thank you so much!
@marcosburgos84913 жыл бұрын
Am from down near Statesboro.
@666BEEZYTV3 жыл бұрын
Nice fucking mic 🎤 damn bro u need to help me build this set up
@666BEEZYTV3 жыл бұрын
Nice ear ring
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro trying to be like you!
@Aspire2Bsum13 жыл бұрын
Zero respect. You with your mic, earring. Wow Thank God we’ve got real men and women serving. What happened to quietly exiting. With dignity.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro✊🏾🙏🏾
@imanifest.2 жыл бұрын
proud of you. very similar story. keep creating!!
@theofficialdaveharris87942 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@911babygoat3 жыл бұрын
Do you have an email address I can reach you at? I’m in the navy myself, I want to talk to you about an opportunity.
@theofficialdaveharris87943 жыл бұрын
dharris1522@yahoo.com
@1533TodaVida3 жыл бұрын
𝟙𝟘𝟘𝕥𝕙 𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕞𝕖𝕟𝕥!
@1533TodaVida3 жыл бұрын
Oh, that was unexpected, well thanks, I also dream to join the US Navy at 18.