I Had a Bad Day • 10.27.24

[@bapdabo]

This is the most wild experience of my life, I'm the singer from lilium I'm so happy to know that you even remember that song and this is the exact intention of it as well obviously I still keep up with you and mal, I don't often comment but this made me lose my mind and thought it would be appropriate for me to thank you for all the hours of fantastic content you've put out over the years, and to thank you for even showing the song on that mail video all those years ago and making it feel like making music was worth it. Andrew and Pandora from England

[@PandoraAmberClaire]

I'd just like to add to this as well that you and mal sharing as you do in such a real way has helped us through many moments of our relationship for the past 11 years. How to deal with loss and various other difficulties is always hard but seeing the two of you support one another as well as an entire community of people makes everything seem possible. I hope your tomorrow is better and thank you for the videos -Pandora (from Andrew and Pandora from the UK)

[@stephenvlog]

That song has stuck with me ever since I first heard it! Mal too, because I've definitely walked into her office and she's been playing it, even this year. Thank *you* for creating something so memorable and meaningful.

[@wernt0]

For a good month or two after that mail vlog came out, I solely listened to Disappear and also Clearly Me whenever I could

[@kuenzign]

What was the name of the song?

[@Missingnoleader]

@@kuenzign Dissapear by Lilium. It really is a great song to listen to.

[@Swift4Sweeper]

This is a big reason of why I respect the hell out of the vlog: you guys don’t skip over the B side of life. You don’t paint a picture of everything being hunky-dory all the time. You are appropriate in acknowledging there are bad days. It’s why this is one of the most genuine channels on KZbin.

[@radiodread]

This has been said so many times over the years, but one of the major things that makes StephenVlog so loved by many and something that people can relate to is that you don't shy away from talking about things like when you've just had a bad day. You don't even have to talk about _why_ it was bad, and I mean that in a more general sense, too, of course. But like you said, a common idea on social media and the internet as a whole is to only show the good parts of life. Sometimes, life isn't that great, and that's just how it is. People can oftentimes relate to the good stuff, but also the not-so-good stuff, and I feel like that's why it's so important to talk about all those aspects of life. Good vibes and a virtual hug. ❤

[@twitchyswitchy433]

Its refreshing to see a content creator be in tune with their emotions and be comfortable enough to give a candid talk about them. Thank you for being so honest about it being ok to be on the strugglebus some days.

[@wasen_aeon]

This vlog and Jon's message from the socials earlier today is something so real that we need to remember our own value and admittance of having good and bad days and the reminder to support each other when that is needed. Remember, you are loved, and while bad days may come and pass, there will always be good days ahead.

[@HowlingOneify]

Wait what did Jon say on socials?

[@saoirse5816]

I don't watch much StephenPlays, but I do watch the vlog because it gives me hope. You guys are so real. I had brain surgery recently and recovery was really rough. I watched Mal's endo surgery and recovery videos on repeat because I knew that was rough and she overcame it. It made me feel hopeful for myself. It got me through. Just really appreciate you guys. Always.

[@Nemu692]

I appreciate your honesty. You can never really know from the outside what people are going through. I am going through some tough shit but mostly from the outside I seem completely "normal".

[@TJKoopa3018]

This vlog comes out to me on a particularly bad day for me. Just a lot of stuff going on personally and professionally and it's so hard to stay positive or pretend things are better than they are. I appreciate your guys' integrity and honesty with the vlog, and there's absolutely no need to divulge the issues. But a reminder to acknowledge the bad day, is helpful.

[@ericas8272]

Thank you for sharing! I've had some bad days lately myself and it's nice to be reminded that that's ok and normal. I'm so grateful for you and Mal sharing things like this (and the good stuff too!)

[@KiwiTiger]

One of the reasons I love your vlogs and even plays, you guys always felt real. Most other vlogs felt more like "were doing this crazy thing today!" But your sometime were just "we chilled today and made this". I may not watch everything but I'll always be a support and recommend you guys to friends :)

[@meghan9436]

I actually opened Bad Day by Daniel Powter in another tab while watching this video. It totally added to the vibe of this, I think. Bad things happen. Bad days happen. The best thing you can do is don't attach to the situation too much, or it will consume you. It was cool to see how everything kind of came full circle when you mentioned the Lilium song at the end of the video. I'm sorry that I haven't been checking in all that often these days. It seems life keeps getting away from me because I am so busy.

[@NightOwl2O]

You've always been there for us thru our bad days. Whether thru the streams or Twitter or just these uploads. So we are absolutely there for yours! Good Vibes and healing thoughts my friends. 💚

[@duelbraids]

I know it's said that misery loves company, but it is genuinely comforting to know that even the people you look up to have their bad days. Wishing better days ahead for y'all and everyone in the comments section.

[@doan2300]

relatable vlog is relatable. I'm glad you have a Mal to talk to and a Keppy to cuddle when things are rough :) also, Golden Axe music does indeed help

[@natcommon]

This is a video I needed to see today. Thanks for just telling us you had a bad day. It just helped.

[@DragonStorm089]

bad days always suck hopefully you feel better Stephen

[@Joshua8824Racing]

Whenever you have bad days. It's good to have some friends that are here for you.

[@Yoshilover46]

I too had one of those bad-ish feeling type of days too, and this is many a reason why i enjoy watching the content a lot because it helps me escape reality for a few minutes, maybe even a few hours depending on the content that's on my feed. Sending all the Good Vibes to everyone in the hopes their days get better too

[@joshsleezetube]

bad days are part of life. and they don’t cease to exist just because we don’t talk about them. I’ve had many bad days, I’m having one today in fact. For me if I don’t talk about it, I’m likely to have another one because I couldn’t get things off my chest when it happened. Always listen to someone who needs to talk about it. And put trust in those who care about you to hear you out when it happens to you.

[@MariogamingMario]

Staying positive does not mean everything will turn out okay. But rather, it means you will be okay no matter how things turn out

[@Deevster]

That message at 3:47 nearly made me tear up. something about knowing people go through things really resonated with me.

[@storms002]

Good vibes, while having a bad day is never fun I do appreciate that you're willing to share that rather than burying it away.

[@Surl9596]

This vlog has made me want to shine a bigger light on having a nice mix of being aware of and highlighting emotions so they don’t control you and you can control them and bringing in the tomorrow is a new day mentality. It’s easy to get caught up in the present and forgetting how easily and quick things can change externally and thus letting that be an assisting spark plug for the coming days to start off on a below your median note. Days and even weeks and months might as well be microscopic in the grand scheme of a lifetime so may as well just do a hard reset when things are grim in the very present

[@alexiscosmic]

Good vibes to you both. Here's for better days.

[@johnnycurl]

Good vibes, this kind of genuineness is why I love this groups content. It's very human and very comfortable in pulling away the internets "everything is fine" Vail. Good vibes to all.

[@SupermanMFL]

Kep kep is one relaxing boi ❤😊

[@FroIsPower]

Man, that lyric was helpful for me today. Thanks. Wishing y'all well.

[@tinmandw]

Whatever caused the bad day, I hope the next day will prove to be better.

[@KillFriskey]

It's a warm feeling to know that we're all not alone when it comes to having our bad days. I can attest to that myself. I have felt like I've had the worst year. Got let go from my job back at the beginning of the year, I've been doing side hustles just to survive, trying to help out my wife as she goes through her troubles, I just sprained my ankle and calf last week, and it's going to be 5 years this holiday since I lost my mom to cancer, so a lot has been on my mind this year (and don't get me started on tomorrow...). And I know there's always a light at the end of the road/tunnel. An old English teacher of mine once told me that "the smallest of lights can always brighten up the darkest of rooms" and I've always kept that in the back of my head. Things are tough, but I also know that things will get better. Even if things aren't completely sunshine and rainbows, we have the best support systems one can ask for in friends and family and loved ones that can make sure the sun peeks through every now and again. And that's all that matters. Good vibes to you all. ❤

[@enesevanderwalt5900]

Good vibes! Hope you are doing better now. 😊

[@supermariogamer1757]

I've had bad days a lot at work

[@zobrantley6672]

I feel that friend. I hope it turns around for you ♥️

[@Wildwolf99-d9m]

I'm sorry you have and mal had a bad day, but tomorrow good vibes are coming your way.

[@ocean_mage]

i hope that no matter how hard your day may be, that when nightfall comes, it’ll be better. i hope nothin but the best for y’all :)

[@bjam89]

Been a not fun night. Tried to change the sand in a bird cage Currently the cage is in two parts cos the walls noped out of their placement The bird that was in there wanted some attention so he played sick so that stressed me out. He is currently in a "travel" cage while i wait for help with the cage cos my brain just cant deal with the cage Not a fun night

[@JakeRaymanVideoProductions]

:( I’m sorry!!

[@Fries101Reviews]

As someone who has Depression I too have bad Days 😣

[@stephmufffin]

ngl I thought you were going to reference Pitbull instead but still a nice lyric!

[@nyahanaru8899]

I’m not trying to say this to be mean, but please try to understand, but it is nice to know that other people have bad days that it’s not just you. I have had a week of nothing but bad luck from a broken porch door from landscaping, then cutting my Internet wire, so I was out for days on end, and the rest of the whole week was I was almost in a car accident and someone was not paying attention so I’ve been really feeling down on my luck and feeling alone, so even though I’m not happy that you guys are having a bad day I am happy in the sense of I’m not the only one you guys are not the only one, I really hope that everything gets better for you guys!! I hope you understand what I’m trying to say

[@RikouHogashi]

So much Describing the existence of bad days as a whole and not enough Explaining what kind of bad day you had so we can either Sympathize or Empathize for your situation but I guess you just want to keep things vague instead I can respect that but there will be a bunch of Speculation instead just to find the point of this video so we can Care about the situation

[@enesevanderwalt5900]

If you need someone to spell out their difficulties to be empathetic, that's a bit weird. How hard is it to say "hey man. Sorry about whatever you were dealing with. Hope it is better now."?

[@RikouHogashi]

@@enesevanderwalt5900 its a matter of understanding really perhaps advice could be issued or convey a similar circumstance? But not as a mean of one upping but only as a matter of compassion. I'm also indeed sorry for whatever he's dealing with but i feel like we just got baited by saying a vague negative video that explains nothing about it perhaps I'm reading too far into this its just as shame being left in the dark about it