I Had A Missed Miscarriage | Blighted Ovum

This isn't something that I thought I would be talking about but it is my reality. I have recently had another miscarriage and it was a missed miscarriage this time. This topic is not a pleasant one however I am hoping to share my story to help any of you who are going through this or who have gone through this.
I will forever love and miss this baby. Hoping for our Rainbow baby to join us someday!!
Thank you all for your love and support
xoxo Megan
Instagram: daysofmay19

[@sandramullen7804]

Just been reading through al! The comments, and my heart is just bursting for every one of you women and what you are or have gone through . I wish all of you the very best and hope you get your rainbow babies very soon thoughts and prayers to you all xxxx.💙

[@rebeccaellison9999]

I was a total mess there too... and had to walk out past all the happy moms. It was awful. Luckily despite having to tell our family and friends the bad news, I found comfort in listening to my friends stories of miscarriage and hope. Praying for y’all ❤️

[@lilysprouse3517]

Experiencing this right now. Its been a week since i knew that theres no baby. I dont have a baby. It was hard knowing i dont have a baby anymore. We were so excited about the baby, my husband and i were really excited and the family are so excited. It was hard, really hard to accept that there will be no baby anymore. And now i'm waiting for the 'blood' to come out before they do D&C. It is devastating. Every day i deal with the pain. This supposed our first baby.😭 thankyou for your vid, commenting feels like my outlet to this pain. And i pray soon we, that had miscarriage will have a healthy pregnancy soon and a healthy babies💖

[@raylaurence8849]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for making this video. Hubby and I are going through this right now. This has been a month of confusion. I also had a voice tell me something wasn't ok before the appointment. Sending love to you and your family. Also to the other ladies in the comment section.

[@DaysofMay19]

So sorry for your loss 💔

[@totalannihilation9065]

Too many people going through this. It's tough even for us guys. Thanks for sharing.

[@Ms_me914]

so sorry for your loss. i hope you get your rainbow baby someday soon. your in my thoughts and prayers.

[@kellylennox1062]

Girl I am so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage last year too. We now have a rainbow baby that was born this March. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers

[@DaysofMay19]

Congratulations on your little rainbow baby and thank you for the kind thoughts💜

[@Viridian_07]

Thank you for sharing this. I am experiencing this right now. It was at my 8 week that I saw an empty gestational sac. And had a D&C a week in half later. It has been helpful to me hearing others stories. Thank you!

[@egwillia]

Thank you for sharing, I am going through this right now so its nice to know I am not the only one. I hope you are feeling better!

[@triciatomkinson2050]

Everything you described in your story is exactly what I went through. Thank you so much for sharing helping me come to terms with my own experience and keep everything in perspective 🙏🏻

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[@cristinaocasio1506]

Wow, crazy! Your story is so similar mine. Such an emotional toll for sure. I’m going for my D&E tomorrow since I’m already 11 weeks. My HCG was at 75,000 and I’ve waited two weeks to let it go natural but my levels are dropping so slow. They told me today that I’m still at an HCG of 35,000. It’s just CRAZY! Our process as women is difficult but I’m praying for yours and my miracle baby as well. God has truly given me strength. I’m totally going through my grieving process and I know it’s normal. But it’s so awesome to hear that I’m not alone!

[@roxannagandia2297]

You helped me so much, I thought I was going crazy. I just went through this alone... didnt tell anyone and it was really hard. My bf thought I was exaggerating... but thank you... for sharing.

[@DaysofMay19]

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[@marlenetaylor5241]

I had a similar experience happen to me I’m still recovering. I am just glad I am not alone in this. I was one day away from being 11 weeks when I had the D&C procedure. I’m sorry for you honey stay strong!

[@Ebonyeyez7]

Thank you so much for sharing this you have completely explained my current situation. Devastated and broken!!

[@iLoveTheMuffinManJoe]

I just had my D&c today ): it’s just awful. I wish blighted ovum didn’t even exist. It’s the worst feeling and so mentally exhausting for us

[@StancyMwale-kb4gz]

It is hell my dear. I have experienced two😢

[@dinafox8619]

I'm sorry for your loss. You're so brave to talk about it. This happened to me a few months ago... It hurt so bad... And it still hurts. This is so hard to cope and move on... But I have to. I'm getting ready for mitochondrial donation. Hope it will work... Hope I'll become a mother one day.

[@annaoronia3500]

I'm so sorry. I had this happen to me with my third pregnancy. I found out when I was 3 months that I had a missed miscarriage. Just had a d&c yesterday. We just have to have hope that we will get a baby soon 💓

[@caitlyndasilva22]

I just went through this. I am 8 weeks pregnant and went to the ER yesterday all day because I started bleeding they did an ultrasound and told me I had Blighted Ovum. It is truly heartbreaking thinking you are going to be a mommy all those weeks and feeling full-on pregnant then all of a sudden you find out nothing grew inside of you even when you felt like you were growing something. I am devastated right now but I trust in God's timing and believe I will have a healthy baby and a healthy pregnancy in the near future. I am going to keep trying! Praying to God to give us strength and acceptance and to not give up on the dream of being a mommy. This is my first pregnancy so I am a little nervous about my next attempt but going to try my best to believe it will all work out next time! 🙏💛

[@kc11037]

As hard as I’m sure posting this was for you. Thank you. Currently going through this right now.

[@moshoodmonsur261]

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[@lillywood7296]

So sorry you have to go through this. I know how bad you feel. I've been through the same situation a couple of mnths ago. I had IVF in May. It was my second round. The first one failed... We've been trying for 7 yrs and nothing. When I've got pregnant I thought everything will going to be ok. I thought that finally, I'll become a mom... But I lost my baby… It’s so painful. It hurts so much... I cannot hold myself from crying. I want to scream... This is something that you don't wish anybody to deal with. Even to your enemy. It hurts to hear that you are going through this too. Be brave and I hope time and support will help you to overcome the pain.

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry for your loss. It was very hard to get through but I now have my rainbow baby. Hopefully yours comes soon 💜 sending love and good wishes your way

[@carolannferrer6909]

I am going through this right now. It is so heartbreaking and devastating. I feel so sad and I can't stop crying watching your video. 💔💔💔😭😭😭

[@DaysofMay19]

So sorry that you're going through this 💔 Sending love and good wishes your way 💜

[@butywbrainz]

I've had 3 blighted ovums. It's a traumatic experience😥.

[@doinitlive3015]

We had a blighted ovum too about 5 years ago. Never want to experience that ever again. We now have 2 beautiful boys. Be strong and pray.

[@DaysofMay19]

I had my sweet rainbow baby about 2 years ago🌈💜

[@kirsten-e8782]

I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. I had a missed miscarriage for my third pregnancy. Sending love your way ❤️

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you for the love and I am so sorry for your loss💜

[@makeupdelight4004]

Kirsten what was the reason ???

[@partyofnineM]

Kirsten -E I’m going through it right now with my 5th pregnancy. Can’t stop crying. 💔

[@haley2257]

Sending prayers for you and your family 🙏🏼❤️ you are so strong. Thank you for sharing.

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you💜

[@hopesutopia4458]

I’m going through this right now... I’m supposed to be around 14 weeks... the sac stop developing around 7.5 weeks. My body is starting to get rid of the sac... obviously it’s devastating because we won’t be having our second baby in January.... our little baby girl is 16 months we are happy in a way that she’s too young to understand right now... we will tell her about this experience when she’ll be old enough... my heart goes to you ❤️ we had told close family about this pregnancy... it’ll be ok... one day at a time

[@AnaHernandez-of2sf]

Going through this too. Sending healing prayers to everyone that's experienced this.

[@bethansaul7172]

I'm soo sorry you have gone thru this we are all in this together ! I have suffered a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks and 1 day I also had quite severe symptoms but never was sick and I noticed at the end I started to almost be sick it was horrible I also knew that something was wrong when I was at a private scan our baby didn't have a heart beat but we got to see our baby 💔! She was the most beautiful person ever !! We decided to name our baby after the nurse that looked after us soo much !! So our baby's name is Laura.

[@legoriel]

Thank you for sharing your story and emotions. This is exactly how I feel right now. I have lost two babies, the first one had trisomy 13 and the second one was a blighted ovum, had d&c a week ago. I want a child so badly and I am scared beyond measure...

[@cristinaocasio1506]

Ahhhh congrats on your rainbow baby!!!! Just saw your instagram!

[@mariahmanzo4325]

Thanks for sharing! I'm enduring this right now.

[@nisielovely10]

Going through this now my baby made it to 9 weeks and 1 day and baby didn’t have a heartbeat. My body was still feeling pregnant I spent 18days with my lifeless baby inside of me which was extremely hard This past Saturday I had to do the tablets at home which help your body go into labor the experience was traumatizing. It’s been a rough month my baby was also due in May. Thank you for this video❤️

[@ajleefan2123]

My prayers go to you ❤ i hope rainbow baby comes soon ❤

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you💜

[@teashawhitten4033]

I when thought the same thing was her

[@chengkai7776]

I have the same situation. Was diagnosed anembryonic pregnancy or blighted ovum. I had all the symptoms of a normal pregnant . I just had my d and c surgery yesterday.. I felt devastated I've lost mine.. But i guess everything happens for a reason. I cried weep and grieved too.. Let's just pray for another one soon.. This is cherry from Philippines

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry for your loss 💔 sending love and good wishes your way

[@krishnaprajaptati1935]

Is there any hope of pregnancy after anembryonic pregnancy?

[@tracyparrish93]

I had a missed miscarriage last month and just had a d&c on Friday. I’m sorry for your loss.

[@thelavishpartygirl]

Thank you for sharing this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@beautifanolovely3487]

I just went through this experience a day ago. It is definitely the most hardest process ever. The most emotional, painful and physically draining process one could ever experience. My son is 2 years old turning 3 in May. He started getting use to the idea of becoming a big brother. Tonight I broke down because he said mommy, is the baby hurting your tummy. Baby, stop hurting mommy I am going to give you a red card and u must go in the naughty corner. My heart sank right then and there into bits and pieces. And even though a baby didn't not develop, I was still pregnant. There was a yolk and a sac. But no baby developed. This would've been our surprise baby. We weren't planning. But we accepted the pregnancy and got excited to have a new member in our family. But God new best. I'm sure we will have another one that would develop. And I believe so will u and your husband. The strong baby will come into your life. Keep having hope and believe that he or she will enter your life and to stay. All the best. It is indeed hard. Thank you for sharing your story. It has helped. I've also had a Dr the first time I found out from. That didn't say much. She also said oh I don't like what I see. By my gynae was amazing. He went in depth and explained to me what could've happened and so forth. My sac went for testing yesterday and I will only hopefully get my result on Friday or this coming Monday. I'm from South Africa. I'm just hoping that it wasnt a Molar pregnancy.

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Glad that my story helped. It's so hard to explain to the little ones what's going on. I'm actually currently 17 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby. Another little boy to join our boy crew 💙 Sending good thoughts your way and hopefully your rainbow baby will come soon. Where in SA are you from? My husband is SA as well 😊

[@beautifanolovely3487]

@@DaysofMay19 I am so happy for you and your family that you are pregnant with you rainbow baby. All the best ❤️😃. I definitely believe that we will try again in the near future. We just waiting on our result from the lab, they testing the sac. They trying to establish why I miscarried. I'm from beautiful Cape Town. 😊

[@tialicia94]

This is happening to me right now. I went in for the first visit at 7 weeks today did an ultrasound and no baby just a sac. I have to go back next week to be sure but I’m just feeling hopeless.😢😢.. Update , I went back to the doctor just to be sure, and there was my little munchkin on the ultrasound. Apparently it was to early to see anything. So I’m currently 16 weeks along and due in September.. wish me luck 😊

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry that you are going through this 😢

[@mayramendoza7897]

They just told the same thing today and I’m 7 weeks as well 💔

[@mayramendoza7897]

Alicia Alex they just told me the same thing today and I’m 7 weeks as well 💔

[@tialicia94]

Mayra Mendoza I’m so sorry to hear you that your going through that😢send an update if you can

[@AM-qd7tb]

Did it at 7weeks also, Am in that waiting period too,...praying God for good news, after watching this video I felt sad n hopeless but after u shared ,I feel hopeful. Keep me in prayers, n thanks for sharing. Sorry to everyone going thro this, it's realy....

[@christianeakakpo8895]

Thank you for sharing your story❤️

[@jazzjohnson4297]

I just had my D and C today.. it is very not fair to go through pregnancy symptoms but then no baby. Your not alone.

[@Teema]

So sorry for your loss. I just had my first d&c two days ago. This however was my third miscarriage. It was a silent miscarriage and there were no signs anything went wrong. My baby should have been 11 weeks but measured at 9. I can't accept that it passed away at 9 weeks because my pregnancy symptoms were strongest between weeks 9 and 10 and I believe in my heart that it was due to delayed growth or that it shrank in size by the time the ultrasound was done at 11 weeks... This has been incredibly difficult for me especially since I didn't want to have a D&C and tried for four days to induce labour through cytotec (at the hospital) to meet my baby and say goodbye then send it for further testing because it's my third consecutive miscarriage (I have no children yet either). My body felt all the cramps but was not letting go of the baby (the cervix was not opening) and they had to do a D&C. I never got to see my baby since the procedure tore everything to bits... but a sample was shipped off for testing at least. I don't know what I want anymore. I feel crushed and empty. All I can do is look at other people's stories online because in my culture no one talks about miscarriages, and the blame is often put on the woman (by other women). A friend actually asked me what I thought I did that caused it and if I might have (possibly) been using dangerous cooking ware. One of my aunts told me it's because I have cats and I am doing this to my self. My cats are clean and clear of toxoplasmosis and so am I. They were also not with me through out this pregnancy as it so happened I got pregnant just before I moved to a new house so my father was taking care of them for me and they stayed there for some time. I feel guilty and horrible although I know (or should know) non of this was my fault. My previous miscarriages occured at 5 and 6 weeks, and there was never a heart beat... unlike this last one where my baby grew perfectly, we heard the heart at 6 weeks and it was going strong. I took all my vitamins and ate all the right things. My pregnancy symptoms were strong, so strong I even lost weight and got dehydrated and had to get IV fluids twice between weeks 8 and 10. My appetite was suddenly better at the end of week 10 until my week 11 appointment where I only felt some nausea but no vomiting and was in a better state in general... looking back that must have been a sign but I read that its normal for symptoms to taper off between weeks 10 and 12. I don't know what to say or ask or do I'm still shocked. I don't have my baby anymore. I'm bleeding and in pain and still very confused.

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry that you are going through all of this. There was NOTHING that you did wrong. Please don't let those negative comments from others, even if they are family, get to you. Unfortunately so many pregnancies end in loss at all stages. There is nothing that could have been done or should have been done and most definitely nothing that you did. I have had two very healthy children while living with cats. Having the cats around won't cause you to lose a baby just don't clean the cat boxes. It will take you time to get over the shock and then you will grieve. Hopefully your doctors are able to give you some answers as to why this might be happening. Sending good thoughts and love your way💜

[@Teema]

Days of May thank you I just had to relive my hell n i am in so muccj shock...i woke up with labour like contractions and passed large clots then they stopped and contractions got worse. Rushed to ER. Ultrasound showed my baby was fully intact as it was before the d&c n my cervix was still closed n wasn't going to naturally abort despite the contractions and clots. Was rushed into an emergency d&c. My second in a matter of day. God knows what that "sample" was from my first d&c it sure was not my baby. Seeingg it on the ultrasound screen shocked everyone...I felt like i had gone back in time like i got jt back and was about to lose it all over again like i saw a ghost... the tech even checked for a heartbeat, twice. I am so incredibly traumatized right now.

[@DaysofMay19]

Oh my goodness. I don't even know how that's possible. I'm so sorry. Hopefully the hospital you got the first d&c done at can explain it to you and be held accountable for it. That's horrible if them to put you though all of that. I am so sorry 😟💜

[@sabmolly]

Hi.. how are u? what about now? Are u pregnant? I'm still fighting to get pregnant. I had a blighted ovum on January 2024 and now May 2024 still got negative results.

[@Teema]

@@sabmolly Hi Molly. I didn't try again, actually. I am fine and doing well, I just made s decision to not have children. I hope you get the baby of your dreams and that any future pregnancy of yours goes well and without complications.

[@torivalentine122]

I just miscarried my gestational sac due to a blighted Ovum. My hcg levels were at 22,000 + when I had my ultrasound done and miscarried 2 days later naturally. My progesterone levels were low, 4.6 .. I was 9 weeks, my gestational sac measured 6 weeks 3 days. 😔 so sorry for your loss, I've been able to get through this by just realizing we had the best worst case scenario. Like you said, I can not imagine miscarrying an actual baby, this is bad enough. It's scary how our bodies trick us 😔

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry for your loss 💔 sending love your way 💜

[@RidaBangush]

I'm going through the same thing right now. Blighted ovum, sac measuring 5 weeks and 3 days when I should've been over 9 weeks. My bleeding started and very tiny clots came out with no pain, like half inch clots. Did you have a lot of pain when you miscarried naturally? I don't know what to expect, is it over for me or not? Is there more to come?

[@torivalentine122]

@@RidaBangush I bleed leading up to the miscarriage for a couple of days in clot like form and then the day it actually happened I knew it just by the cramping, (unlike when I was passing blood leading up to it, that was painless) it was tolerable with OTC pain relievers.. just like what you would take for period cramps.. It didn't hurt when I actually passed the sac either, my stomach was upset in junction to the situation I guess because it was trying to expell it. Honestly just felt like a period to me, not any worse than normal period cramps. I am sorry for the news of your pregnancy, its definitely hard but I am now 27 weeks. I waited 2 period cycles to try again, per recommendations from my OB.

[@queenc8280]

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you get your 3rd baby. Pray and have faith.

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm currently pregnant with our 3rd 🥰🌈

[@queenc8280]

@@DaysofMay19 GOD IS GREAT! Congratulations!!!!!!💕💕💕

[@melissarose1814]

I just went through this. There was a gestational and a yolk sac but no embryo. Over a two week wait from hell. The wait was the absolute worst part ( it felt like an eternity ). I’m currently two days out of a D&C. The team of ppl that did the procedure were amazing and I was barely in any physical pain. Emotionally, I don’t know what to feel. During that wait I was numb, depressed, depleted, empty, sad and beyond angry. I did feel a sense of relief once I knew for sure ( as sad as it was) and now that the anticipatory anxiety from the D&C is over, I don’t know what’s next. Grief? Healing? I just have to be very careful not to fall back into a depression because of this. Unfortunately, I’m not in a long term relationship, I wasn’t with the baby’s father, so I can’t just start trying again. I’m almost 38 yrs old ( have always wanted to be a mom) and don’t know when and if I will ever be blessed with the opportunity to have a baby again and that terrifies me. I just have to stay hopeful, positive and believe that things happen the way they are supposed to happen. I feel for you and for all the women going through this. It’s extremely difficult, it’s complicated, it’s lonely but please know that you are not alone and it’s not your fault. You are stronger than you think you are and please don’t be afraid to lean on the people that love you ( they want to help). I wish you all the very best in the future and I’m praying for those rainbow babies. 💞

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 sending love your way 💜

[@melissarose1814]

Days of May Thank you 💞 Same to you! 💞

[@TallBirdAcresHomestead]

I just experienced a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks with my 4th and hearing stories from other women who have experienced similar things is helpful. Two of my 3 kids are named Liam and Nolan =)

[@DaysofMay19]

Awwww you have a Liam and Nolan as well 😍 so sorry that you are going through a miscarriage now 💔

[@MooreBasics]

Exact same story. Currently going through my 2nd miscarriage in a year. From someone who has had 2 natural miscarriages, I'd have to say my view on medication and surgery has changed. I held onto hope and believed God for a miracle.Passing natural is the most painful thing Ive ever gone through both times. I'd choose surgery if I could do it over. The contractions are hell.I don't have any children and I'm going on 34.

[@cherieteed7881]

🙏 I am so sorry you are going through this. 💔

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you💜

[@LilmissPinkaleen]

I’m currently going through exactly this. My doctor, lady who did my scan, and my midwife are all stumped. I’ve done my own research and this is exactly what I’m going through. I’ve had 2 ultrasounds and they can see a sac and yoke and that’s it. My hcgs aren’t going up the way they are supposed to, they are going up like they should but not as quickly as it should. I’m mentally drained and I’m supposed to be 9 weeks pregnant and I’m told I’m more like 6 weeks. Forgot to say, this is my first pregnancy

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry to hear. Hopefully this is just a fluke and your rainbow baby will come to you soon. Sending love your way 💜

[@LilmissPinkaleen]

Days of May thank you hun, just got the final answer, it is a miscarriage. Feeling like I can move on now. Looking forward to my rainbow baby

[@kimmilyrx]

My Gypsy DIY Life I’m currently goin thru this, had 2 ultra sound & 8 wks with sac & yolk but it wasnt successful i hope 🤞🏼 nex time it works out. Keep strong .

[@theresawilliams7712]

I am in the hospital waiting on my dnc now probably in 6 or 8 more hours and I am experiencing a missed miscarriage ... It's been 2 months the baby has been dead but I still have it :( I'm sooo soooo sad 😭 Thank you for sharing I had to watch this.. I'm in here losing my mind... I'm not having any symptoms... Not at all ready for the detachment I am weeping and sobbing all over my doctor's

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry that you had to go through all of that. Sending love your way💜

[@jacquelinem4828]

I'm sorry for your loss mama. I know this video is old. I'm also had a missed miscarriage at 10weeks my baby's heart beat just stop. I had to go thru 2 d&c. And waiting 8months to get pregnant thinking this is enough time to have a healthy pregnancy but at 4weeks and 3days I had bad cramps I thought I was losing the baby but it was just my Corpus luteum that ruptured. I'm now 5weeks and 3days my hcg beta is now 3033 which is good I started out on 453. So now I'm just waiting for my 7weeks ultrasound to see if theres a baby in the right place and not an ectopic. I know exactly how you feel.

[@ZariBankhi]

I'm going through this right now. Thanks for this video 😭💔

[@DaysofMay19]

So sorry you are going through this. Sending love your way 💜

[@ZariBankhi]

@@DaysofMay19 thank u so much

[@maryannuur5334]

I went through the same thing yesterday and my goodness did it leave me baffled. The lady doing the ultrasound did the same thing to me, she was like there's no baby there. She then started asking me questions about when I took the test and when my last period was like I was crazy. There's a sac there so how could I have imagined this. It was my 12 week scan and my first for the pregnancy and I was devasted. I told everyone the day before and they were all waiting at my mums house to see the first scan. My son who's 3 was really excited because all his cousins has siblings and he's the only child and he was really hurt from the news. Today the bleeding started naturally on its own and I'm so confused as to what happens next. I was mea t to go for a scan again next week to see if there's any developments but they did not tell me what I should do if my miscarriage kicks off before then. Does a check up happen to see if everything's out and my uterus is back to normal, is there anything alarming I should look out for. I've misscarried twice before this year but both were early but this ones a lot more painful. Any advice??

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry that you are going through this 💔 The only miscarriage I had naturally was my first one that was at 4-6 weeks along so it was just like a normal period that went on for a little longer than normal. I then kept taking pregnancy tests to see the hormone leave my body. With my blighted ovum I had a D&C so the doctor made sure everything came out. I'm not sure if they suggest a follow up appointment after a miscarriage but it wouldn't hurt to call them. See what they want you to do next.

[@torivalentine122]

I wondered the same thing. My appointment is coming up this Friday for a follow up on the blighted Ovum but I had a miscarriage, did you call your doc? Im just Wondering what they said

[@maryannuur5334]

@@torivalentine122 No I'm just going to the appointment as booked and getting them to do the ultrasound anyway to make sure there is no tissue left. I have mine on Wednesday and can let you know how that tactic works out for me!

[@shanteosborn8343]

Thank you for sharing im dealing with the same thing right now.

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending good thoughts your way 💜

[@valeriapinondiaz8533]

This video made me cry so much bcuz I’m going threw all this now !! 😢👼 my first miscarriage and 3 live births I’m so depressed and scared 😱 to go threw a dnc and scared 😱 to let it happen on it’s own... I’m so sorry for ur loss I’m so emotional 😭

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I will say that my experience with a D&C was really good. It was a simple straight forward procedure and the recovery was nothing. Good luck and sending rainbow baby vibes your way 💜

[@elbafuentes2877]

It's ok to cry. It's ok to be sad. It's a sad situation and you're greaving. I hope you get your rainbow baby. 🌈

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you for your support. I did get my rainbow baby 💙 A little boy who is 10 months now

[@sweetlife031]

@@DaysofMay19 - He's almost a year? 🙂

[@DaysofMay19]

@@sweetlife031 He turned 1 on September 5th

[@pattitamarie]

3 weeks ago, I lost my baby with blighted ovum. I had a dnc since it was a incomplete miscarriage, thinking that my baby will be just fine but I guess he/she is meant to be an angel. I’m so sorry to here about your loss too. I am still in the grieving process and what you shared is the same experience I had with the doctor

[@Roohdiroohtak]

Patricia Filio I’m going thru same thing but my doctors told me to wait for 2 weeks for another ultrasound sound and I’m lighting bleeding on and off every other day..confused and don’t know what to do 😣

[@pattitamarie]

Mandeep Kaur hi! The doctors told me the same thing, just make sure to get some rest and take care of yourself. And keep praying and talking to your baby ♥️ God bless you

[@Roohdiroohtak]

Patricia Filio already had a miscarriage yesterday

[@pattitamarie]

I am really sorry to hear about your loss.

[@teashawhitten4033]

I when thought the same as you girls

[@majocacayas665]

This is exactly what’s happening to me right now. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@mimihanh]

Thank you for sharing with us. U just don't know how many women you helped.

[@laurenduckworth4567]

hey megan i just got done watching your vidieo i am sooo very sorry you had to go through this i am a mama of my daughter. my heart gose out to you n your family. YOU are in my thoughts n PRAyers😇😇 i love you! 💜💜 STAY STRONG💪💪 KEEP☺☺ SMILING KEEP YOUR HEAD UP 🛍👜💄🍦🍨GIRLFRIEND!! keep up the AMazing vidieos. God Bless ALways 😇😇

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you💜

[@loricooper8995]

Thank you for your video going threw miscarriage rite now I heard baby's heartbeat 2 weeks ago not yesterday I so mad so sad so many emotions

[@georgik4882]

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I am currently going through a pregnancy of unknown location and trying to grieve. It feels so cruel to have all of the emotions (hormones) and symptoms of pregnancy while knowing that I will not get my little one. Even though I feel alone in my body, this video has helped me feel a little less alone in the experience. So happy to see you have your little rainbow baby now 💛 🌈

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[@sabaito5602]

No gestational sac in uterus?

[@hattylaird9756]

This is me. You hit it on the head. I have another child, so I can't just sit around and be sad all day. So when I heard it wasn't a baby, I was sad, then mad at myself. My body did this. And then I was upset that it took weeks to find out. I felt like I wasted time. I felt pregnant. I felt FAT and all the symptoms. And THEN I was upset because if its not a baby, I wanted it out, and my hormone low, so we could try again! It's all very frustrating. I just want a rainbow baby. That sounds so greedy. But I felt like I was tricking myself this whole time and it was the worst feeling. RIP my blighted ovum. 27/12/19 - 27/01/2020 @ 8 weeks.

[@DaysofMay19]

Sending love your way 💜

[@betinabanda212]

OMG!!!! Thanx for sharing I'm going through the same right now.....its really a bad feeling .

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry 💜 sending love your way

[@daasiacarmona6905]

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[@amymiller1782]

Thank you for making this video. Hope your doing well.

[@DaysofMay19]

My rainbow baby will be 1 next month so I'm doing amazing these days 💜

[@kristykiphart3749]

Sorry for your loss. I really hope you get your rainbow baby.

[@sweetlife031]

And I hope it's a girl

[@DaysofMay19]

If Liam has his way 😉💜

[@sweetlife031]

@@DaysofMay19 - He wants a baby sister? I think you deserve a daughter -- you have 2 boys lol

[@leahpintol]

Oh my God, Megan, I am so sorry. My heart hurts so much for you. I've been thinking about you a lot lately and now I know why. No one deserves this, but certainly not someone as wonderful and sweet as you are. You will have that rainbow baby soon. I'm so sorry

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you😍 I was thinking about you too. I was excited to tell you that I was pregnant with you. But yes we are trying to be hopeful that our rainbow baby is coming to us someday🌈

[@genevievedelacruz6608]

I think this is happening to me. I'm in that week and a half waiting period but I'm pretty sure :( thanks for sharing your experience. It's helping me navigate what's happening as this is my first pregnancy

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry if it is something that you are going through. Sending love your way 💜

[@dyinqmoon9172]

I'm so sorry 🙏❤

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you 💜

[@marymorgan6448]

Bless your heart dear ❤️❤️❤️

[@davidandstactheil3405]

I had two kiddos roughly a year apart. I had originally wanted 3 kids, but we did have a daughter and then a son. So we then just left it up to G- D as far as a 3 rd baby. When my daughter was in 1st grade I found out that I was pregnant and with both of my other babies I needed to be on progesterone suppositories for the first trimester or my body would have miscarried. Since I wasn’t on top of it I didn’t get on progesterone right away. So in my opinion that’s a big reason I lost baby #3. There was a heartbeat and then one week later I went back and no heartbeat. I was so devastated. I needed a d&c also and it made it even worse when I went back in follow up and he let it slip that the baby was a girl. Those words made it so real to me. I had always envisioned girl/ boy/ girl. So it really kicked me in the gut. I was such a mess I had/ have two beautiful happy and healthy kids, but I guess I didn’t realize how much I wanted this 3rd baby until she was gone. It sucks so much what we go through as mamas physically especially. As you know a d&c is no walk in the park. My husband was so there for me and I was just so hurt and kinda mad tbh. We didn’t have a 3rd baby, I was just never ready again to try. My family understood and now I spoil my grand nieces and nephews. Not that it is the same, but 3 years ago my husband got me a sweet, little girl maltipoo. I’d like to think that my daughter I lost about 6 years ago is looking down from heaven and is smiling. I pray that you get the 🌈baby, if that is what you guys decide is right for your family. For me I just didn’t want to try again. And a dog is never the same as a baby, but she puts a smile on my face multiple times a day and she is such a great cuddlier. I will always think what if etc., and you will never forget, but thankfully it does get a little bit easier as time goes on. I wish you and your family the best. And I’m truly sorry for your loss. 💜stacy

[@DaysofMay19]

Wow, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't believe that the doctor let it slip with the gender. That must have been so heart-wrenching when the heartbeat wasn't there. That was the only positive part about my miscarriage was that the baby never formed properly. There was never a baby to see. I imagined that baby and felt all kinds of pregnant but I didn't have to see a baby leave me. Honestly, my D&C was really easy it was just all the emotions that went with it. I am so sorry that you didn't get that rainbow baby but I definitely understand the not wanting to try again. I might have had two miscarriages however I still feel like that 3rd baby is still meant to be a part of our family. It might not be but I will try for a little while longer. Also, I definitely understand how you can have 2 amazing kids but that doesn't lessen the fact that you lost one. People who don't go through it won't understand. So many times I got people saying "well you already have two kids". Yes, I know that but there should be another one with me right now and they aren't here. Thank you so much for your comment and for sharing your story💜

[@davidandstactheil3405]

Days of May TY so much for all the kind words. We all need to have each others backs. It’s a really hard topic to share, let alone actually go through, let alone multiple times. I really hope you get that rainbow 🌈 baby soon. It just wasn’t in the cards for my family. It definitely still affects me at times, but I just have to remind myself that even though it sucked G-D had a plan and my baby girl is up in heaven. 💜💙❤️♥️💚

[@Forgiven313]

Oh darlin 😥 I've never even heard of something like this. I'm so sorry. I wish I could squeeze you. 😔

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you 💜 it was very hard to go through this but I now have my perfect rainbow baby who just turned 1 😍

[@christinenzamuranga9366]

@@DaysofMay19 aww congratulations to your rainbow baby

[@sananadeem1210]

I had a miscarriage at 5.5 months, where the baby was healthy and everything was going fine till that point. No words can express the pain we go through!

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry for your loss💔 sending love your way 💜

[@Curljunkie1]

I just went thru this last week. 5 mos, everything was perfect, I go in for the anatomy scan and they just tell me that there was no heartbeat. I had to have a D&E. Slightly different from D&C

[@user-ig5yo7tr4z]

Thank you this helped I am going through the same thing and haven't told my 3 year old daughter yet that there won't be a baby. She is so excited. I was 9 weeks and 3 days and started bleeding and when I went to the doctor they found a sac and no baby and they tried to tell me my baby was 5 weeks. Then 2 days later my hog went down 4,000. I have never had a miscarriage and I am at the third day of this and passing clots and in so much pain just wondering how long this will last. I am so sorry you had to go through this it is so confusing especially when they give you hope and there isn’t a baby.

[@kristens2769]

I just went through this. 7 weeks found out. I learned the ultrasound tech isn't supposed to explain or diagnose, which is why the bedside manner feels so cold. They have to have the Dr diagnose and explain things...so traumatic when all you want is answers.

[@Roohdiroohtak]

Hi I wanted to know last year I had the same problem as urs and I’m pregnant again 4 to 5 weeks and can we still have all the pregnancy symptoms and not know about the silent miscarriage? because I’ve been having pain but nausea and all is still here and I’m waiting on my ultrasound

[@DaysofMay19]

Sorry that you are going through all of this. Sending love and good rainbow baby vibes your way💜

[@snebbie79]

You haven't let anyone down. They all understand. My body never wanted to let go either. I had four D&C's but my second miscarriage was a blighted ovum and my body ended up expelling on it's own. My heart goes out to you. You will have another baby and you'll see your missed babies one day. I'm looking forward to that. God holds them for us. Praying for you.

[@DaysofMay19]

Thank you 💜

[@emmaashby7460]

I had a scan today that should of been 7week I wasn't allowed to even see the screen. It was my second scan first one was 2weeks ago had a gestational sac and yolk sac looked promising measured 5 wks. Todays scan it was empty but had grown to 24mm I haven't told my children or family this is my 3rd MC I have nausea food aversions I'm booked for a scan next week to see if there is any change haven't even been offered hgc blood test just a scan then D&C. I feel your pain I don't even know how or what to say to my kids this was meant to be my rainbow I'm devastated

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry for your loss😢 It is never something you think is going to happen especially if it happens more than once. If it helps telling my son that the baby wasn't strong enough really made him ok with the situation. Kids are so much stronger than we think so in time they will be ok. Also if you want a blood test stand up for yourself and make them give you one. I believe you can also demand to see a printout or the screen of your ultrasound. Sending love your way💜

[@emmaashby7460]

@@DaysofMay19 I asked for a picture they refused and said there's nothing to show I was desperate to have a pic just to say this was my little pinapple chunk so for the second time exactly a year apart I'm left with just an envelope of positive pregnancy tests and a broken heart I really don't want to tell my children because I never told them I was pregnant and don't want to needlessly upset them my 6yr old still talks all the time about our poorly baby that went to heaven in 2016 and always asks why it happened it's devestating also asked for a baby brother for next Christmas because he has 2 sisters.

[@DaysofMay19]

It's so hard. I'm so sorry and hopefully your Rainbow baby will come soon 💜

[@emmaashby7460]

I'm afraid not had a scan on 6th of February my gestational sac grew to 28mm and was empty should of been 9wks. I was diagnosed with an anembryonic pregnancy or missed miscarriage so had SSM (surgical management of a miscarriage) that same day. I wish the outcome had of been happier but I'm now grieving a third time and the last 2 mcs were 1yr and 3 days apart.

[@onlyonefeliciano7133]

I’m sorry for your loss. I also had a miss miscarriage 12 an 5 day I’m still hurting for my baby

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry for your loss💜

[@Rdelapena]

i can feel you ive been in 3 times miscariage and we dont have a baby at all.and until now im still graving.

[@DaysofMay19]

Sending love you way 💜

[@leighajones474]

Going through this right now with twins, this is my 4th miscarriage and first set of twins. I’ve never felt a video hard in my life than this 😭

[@DaysofMay19]

I'm so sorry that you are going though this 💔 sending love your way 💜

[@harvestingseason2725]

Leigha what week?

[@bossbeautymargie2512]

Everything u felt I felt. Even with the Gynecologist being annoying. I’m so sorry love. I’m currently still going through a blighted ovum miscarriage right now. It makes entirely NO sense.

[@stephaniefurno4889]

This video has helped me not feel so alone. My heart breaks for you though cause it means you have suffered so much when you can share like this. I was wondering how big your sac was at the time of full diagnosis (the second visit not the one with the crummy ARNP🙄). I’m measuring 9mm at 5w3d and going for another US at 6w2d but the first one didn’t show a yolk sac even at that big of a gestational sac.

[@DaysofMay19]

I was measuring 6weeks and a couple days I think and I should have been 8weeks.

[@gdm8627]

Thank you this really helped I don't feel alone and I feel a sense of relief. I have been diagnosed with blighted ovum and feel more positive about it all.

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry for your loss 💔 It's such a confusing and heartbreaking situation. Sending love your way 💜

[@mariahmanzo4325]

You ladies are seriously making me feel ok. I never heared of a blighted ovum until I got pregnant and it happened to me

[@Yo-yo-dt5ze]

I had experienced this once my body went through the whole process of me being pregnant morning sickness and all until I started bleeding unexpectedly went to the er and they told me I had blighted ovum didn't understand the diagnosis had to get a d&c because I didn't want to wait out for the miscarriage to happen this was one of the most hurtful things to go through I haven't tried to get pregnant again in fear of that experience happening again😩😭☹️

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry for your loss 💔

[@Yo-yo-dt5ze]

@@DaysofMay19 thank you so much!

[@alisalazar8849]

I just found out yesterday at my first appointment that our baby didn’t develop I’m supposed to be 8weeks I’m so crushed 💔 I was so excited to be having another one I still don’t have all the answers

[@DaysofMay19]

So sorry for your loss 💔 sending love your way 💜

[@worthyyou923]

Aw I’m so sorry. I just experienced this 2 months ago at 10 weeks pregnant after 3 perfectly healthy pregnancies (all boys) I was so shocked because I’ve had amazing text book all natural home births and out of nowhere a blighted ovum! We’re still trying and I’m believing it won’t happen again. What was the time frame between this miscarriage and getting pregnant again? Congrats on your 3rd little lad!

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry that you are going through this. I had my D&C in November and conceived in December. So I believe I got pregnant on my first real cycle after the missed miscarriage. We really didn't try to get pregnant again so soon after but it definitely was meant to be. It was a very scary pregnancy for me but my sweet boy is 18 months old now so it was all worth it.

[@costeen6749]

I know exactly how u feel..I had a D&C last month with baby #5 after 4 healthy pregnancies and natuaral births ..We were shocked and devastated ..I just got my first period a month after my D&C ..my doctor told us to wait about 2 cycles and then we can try again ..I'll pray you get ur rainbow baby ..I pray all mamas get their rainbow babies💔💔❤❤💜💜

[@shannonkendrick865]

So very hard it was a roller coaster for me I was in my late 20’s I’m 55 now I did have a successful pregnancy afterwards blessings to all who have had a pregnancy like this it’s heart wrenching at first they saw a fetal pole then they didn’t then they did 😢then no.

[@tifflovemyfamily2160]

Hi I'm going through this now 😖 I was about to turn 9wks and to find out no baby ☹️ My levels were 46,000😖I'm almost at the end of your video and you messed me up when you said the 16th because I found out I was pregnant on the 16th and end up having the miscarriage on the 16th, I was like I hate that number 😖

[@torieturner3771]

I went for a ultrasound and there was a gestational sac and yolk sac with fetal pole starting to form but we didn’t hear the heart beat. I was 5weeks.they told me to come back in a week. What do u think?

[@DaysofMay19]

5 weeks is really early so there is definitely hope 💜🤞 sending good thoughts you way

[@ayshaali9254]

Hi I wanted to ask after a miscarriage does it still show up as pregnant on a pregnancy test... docs told me it's a empty sac but am not bleeding am in the 2 weeks wait... can some1 help me its still showing up am pregnant

[@amberkrygowski5636]

Thank you for sharing this I am sorry I am currently going through the same thing went Monday for an ultrasound also 8 weeks and couldn’t find a baby or heart beat just the yolk sac and gestational sac and I lost it last night and it’s also my first time being pregnant was so excited to finally be a mom 😭 but I guess it wasn’t gods plan

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry that you are going through this. Sending love and good thoughts your way💜

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[@keezykey241]

Im sorry hunny ❤️❤️

[@jaznoor2106]

I’m so sorry you went through that. I just had a missed miscarriage with no support from my family my sister who’s my only dad my mother passed away wasn’t even happy when I told her I was pregnant she didn’t even message me when I miscarried my only supports was my husband my mother in law n sister in law who are in dubai n I’m in Toronto. But I’m praying for you please pray for me 🙏

[@glamomdaniels1881]

I needed your video today. Went in last Wednesday for my 7wk 3day us and all that was there was the gestational sac. They did blood work and my hcg levels where 7wks 3days. Was told exactly the same thing as you. Going in Friday for my next us praying for the best expecting the worst.

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry you are having to go through this. Definitely understand where you are at. Sending love your way 💜

[@GloriasVlogLife]

I just had a d&c 3 weeks ago. Its my 2nd loss as well & we really want our rainbow baby but I'm scared this night happen again. How soon after ur D&C did u start trying again?

[@DaysofMay19]

We started not preventing instead of really trying right away. So I didn't track anything we just relaxed and let it happen. I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 sending you good rainbow baby vibes

[@GloriasVlogLife]

@@DaysofMay19 yeah that's kind of how we got pregnant this last time. Thanks for the response hun

[@kohuwellbeing6113]

I've had 3 healthy babies. And yesterday was told that the baby has no heart beat and the lady told me it was a missed miscarriage. Today the nurse rings and tells me it might be because the baby is so small and might be alive. Waiting on tests to see what my HCG levels are.

[@DaysofMay19]

Sending good thoughts your way 💜🤞

[@brigiddonnelly8565]

My daughter had a miscarriage just gone in June you are so brave

[@Roohdiroohtak]

I’m going through this at the moment and it hurts because nobody is helping or saying anything...they told me to get a another ultrasound in 2 weeks..they keep telling me it’s early but I know my numbers and according to that I’m 10 weeks and I’m keep bleeding but very light and nothing is happening...

[@DaysofMay19]

I am so sorry that you are going through this. Sending love and good thoughts your way 💜

[@zainabzain1471]

Sun shined with heavy tears when she felts the pain in her soul.waking up caused fear and facing things made tears.All the dreams vanished baby dust turned to dust and mixed in the air with pain of a soul. Relatives would ask how? Neighbours would ask why? Rumours would fly backbitters would spy. Let the relatives ask how?let the neighbours ask why?let the rumours would fly,let the backbiters spy. Babies of heaven!!!may be this world is not worth for them to cry!

[@Gnarkill1700]

I'm going through this right now and the doctor was the same way. She kept saying she didn't know and that it is probably too early which makes no sense. I have to go back next week to find out what I already know... 😭

[@mommabear2646]

Can someone tell me how long to expect to bleed after a D&C? Had one 2 days ago and my bleeding is picking up again, not to mention the pain.

[@DaysofMay19]

I bled for about a week and a half but it wasn't painful after the first day. Were you given pain meds to try and help? Also if it gets to be too much you might want to check with your doctor to make sure everything is ok. Good luck 💜

[@VanessaLujan-kc1di]

I had a missed miscarriage back in Sept 2022. It was so emotionally painful being told that my baby had no heartbeat at 9 weeks. Then having to go through a blighted ovum right now. It is all so emotionally painful.