You have no idea how much this video means to me. I’m going through this exact experience right now. It was so important for me to see this and your strength. Thank you 💗
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
Thank you MsKikin23 ! The reason why I decided to post this video, was to hopefully help some women who are going through the same thing. Thanks a lot for you comment, it means the world to me. Good luck in your healing journey. Sending you love and strength 💕✨💪🏽
@candacebrown16925 жыл бұрын
Hope everything went well and you're okay. This video is helping me too. Going through the same thing. Sending positive vibes.
@minnie27984 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same thing right now... I heard my baby's heartbeat at 7 weeks ultrasound and all was fine.. at 9th week I had spotting and had a scan again and my baby's heartbeat stopped.. I had a missed miscarriage.. feeling so horrible right now..I miss my sweet little baby..
@chernaethomas80754 жыл бұрын
I'm seven weeks pregnant I went to my 7 weeks OB appointment today and no heartbeat 😭😭as well Thank you for this video
@suellenfatimafsousa65463 жыл бұрын
@@chernaethomas8075 stay strong hunnie x
@anastasiatsurkan9615 жыл бұрын
Oh my God. This video is what I needed last 4 days after I found out... The fact that my body made a decision that I don’t have to... This healed me and I’m finally smiling and thank God that it happened!
@Chaotic_caitlin4 жыл бұрын
I was trying to find some kind of relief as today I went to my ultrasound appointment and there was no heartbeat at 10 weeks. The way you explained everything is such a positive way to look at tragedies like this. Thank you❤️ I needed this.
@xxblkcherri6 жыл бұрын
Going through The Same.. im Supposed to Be 7 Weeks But Doctor Cant find Baby’s heartbeat.. This Is My First Pregnancy So its Veryy Hard to Get Over this But This Video Helped Me Keep A Positive Mindset..💕
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry cherri g . I am happy to hear that this video helped you a little. Sending you love and good vibes. 💕✨
@candacebrown16925 жыл бұрын
Hope everything went well and you're okay. This video is helping me too. Going through the same thing. Sending positive vibes.
@isismoana74694 жыл бұрын
This now happening to me. First pregnancy as well.
@godsfavor60864 жыл бұрын
Isis Moana this happened to me this past week as well. I had a D&C today. It’s been hard but I’m getting through it and you will too. God is with you through this process.
@inikakuttii59383 жыл бұрын
Your baby is safe or not
@chikitazacatecana60624 жыл бұрын
I was 11 wks. Pregnant when when I found out my baby died at 9 wks. Of my pregnancy then top it off I was having twins 🥺 cried the whole day. I know what you Went thru 😔
@chloesmith47063 жыл бұрын
I just went through the same thing and I'm honestly just not coping. It's so hard to get passed this
@kyamcture89763 жыл бұрын
Just found out that I just lost my baby today. I was 11 weeks 1 day. Baby died at 9 weeks 😢😔💔
@tarahusul41093 жыл бұрын
Was 11weeks 2 days. Died at 8 weeks.
@samii1709926 жыл бұрын
That is a beautiful way of thinking of it. You’re incredibly strong!
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Samii McCaffery. We are so much stronger then we think. ❤️
@Lucy-go6cr6 жыл бұрын
I had a D&C yesterday, after finding out at my 16 week appointment that my baby died 2 1/2 weeks earlier, I had no idea , I watched this video the day before my D&C and again today. You don't know how much your outlook has helped my heart. I also refuse to live with guilt, and blaming myself , I will not drag , or let myself sink in to depression. I will accept what happened ,it is part of my story. I did the best I could do, I don't have control over what happened, I will give myself the opportunity to heal. Thank you , thank so much . ❤️
@rachelmahlako2604 жыл бұрын
Hi have you had mucus/ phlegm stuck in your throat after the surgery
@linneamickey65105 жыл бұрын
Today was my first sonogram, and there was no heartbeat. I'm 10 weeks pregnant and devastated. But watching your video, I feel a little better. I'm so. Hurt, been crying all day. My husband and I haven't been pregnant for 16 years. Our daughter is 16. And this was our " miracle Baby". But God had other plans. Hopefully we can try again and come out successful. Thank You for sharing.
@tia41606 жыл бұрын
This video helps me a lot and makes me look at my missed miscarriage differently.
@elemental-realtalk782 жыл бұрын
Same happened to my wife, the fetus was late, we went back 3 weeks to a month later and the fetus is now there but no heartbeat 😭😭 couldn't burst out crying then... Went back home re-looked at the ultrasound and tears started running down my eyes 😭😭 this truly hurts!! Wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy.
@afirmos14295 жыл бұрын
Hello, Luisa! I’m just passing through the same and the way you think helps me a lot! You said something so important “I’m thankful that I didn’t have to take this decision by myself”! This changed my way of thinking about the miscarriage! Thank you very much! Wish you all the best!
@Jessica_Pettis4 жыл бұрын
You have a beautiful mindset. I am currently going through this as well, and the pain feels unbearable. But my faith is what’s getting me by.
@ladyskywalker27883 жыл бұрын
10 weeks no heart beat, I’m so heartbroken 💔 but I know god had a bigger plan
@perla75003 жыл бұрын
Same here😭
@jenniferramirez95473 жыл бұрын
Me too 💔
@MayaraMenzani3 жыл бұрын
Same happened to me two days ago 😞
@luhlezy64603 жыл бұрын
How many days of no heartbeat?
@ashestoglory23193 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video . I found out today at 8weeks 3 days no heart beat .. God bless you , me and all of us women who have gone through this or who will💕🙌🌹
@priyankaharbolacreatives95924 жыл бұрын
Im so at peace after watching this. You have really done a noble work by sharing this..Thanks a lot
@partyofnineM5 жыл бұрын
Wow, this really helped me. I’m going through this now. “My body looked out for me” this is so true. Thank you for helping look at the positive side of things at such a difficult time. 💕
@LuisaLouis5 жыл бұрын
thank you for your message Party of Seven. Sending you positive vibes and wishing you a healthy recovery.
@partyofnineM5 жыл бұрын
Luisa Louis Well, I’m going through the possible process. Monday the baby measured 7 weeks 4 days and had no heartbeat. I’m supposed to go back Monday for a check on heartbeat and or growth. Praying God gives me the honor of mothering my child. Thank you for your kind words. God bless. 💕
@mbubbles48082 жыл бұрын
Feel exact same. In same situation
@stephaniekay1124 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. Your positive outlook is exactly what I needed to hear right now as I am going through my own miscarriage.
@ingriraknes24062 жыл бұрын
Today was the day i was finally going to see my 9 week old baby. I have been so worried, but was beginning too feel so safe. After all there had been no bleeding, and missed abortion happens in only 3% of all miscarriages. After the ultrasound, we were going to pick up a "Big sister"-shirt for our daughter, so we could suprise the grandparents. On the ultrasound we did not even see the fetus. It had stopped developing weeks ago. I am broken. I wish I could have your positive attitude. Thank you for posting. It is healing to see that I am not alone.
@WHOtheELLEareYOU4 жыл бұрын
This is such a Beautiful mindset that gives me a Lot of comfort! I was pregnant with fraternal twins, lost one by 6 weeks, and lost the other by 11 weeks. So to hear you say that you trust your body so much that it was okay.... it gives me the faith in my Higher Power is taking care of everything. Thank you SOOO much! ❤💖💝💖❤ It was the hardest to tell my children- 9 and 11 years! Bless you and your positive outlook! 🙏💝💖
@mentalhealth40982 ай бұрын
This video just saved my life! Literally!
@stephaniemoya34956 жыл бұрын
I am in the same boat. You said it best, your body knew something was wrong and made a decision for you... that is a very important piece to the puzzle. You also said you refuse to carry more than you can.... true words spoken! You’re such a motivation. This video has helped me feel so much better. I am sorry you went through this. Thank you so much for sharing your story. 💗
@naghamfarouk39966 жыл бұрын
I had a miscarriage at 4 months and 3 weeks and just a month ago I was 5 weeks pregnant and had another miscarriage it hurts am sorry for ur loss. I have 4 amazing boys am so thankful
@jjpp16293 жыл бұрын
Your way of thinking helps me a lot to have trust in my body again....After going through 2 miscarriages this year I was a bit lost. And now 5 weeks pregnant...hope for the best (for you too)🙏🏽
@MrFatash2 ай бұрын
How far dear? Did U deliver the third pregnancy?
@veronicaramirezvasquez6755 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story. The way you have described how to take this made me realize and understand so much. Just this past Wednesday I found out that my little one didn't make it. No heartbeat! I walked in with all the hopes to hear it and finally be able to tell my family. Little did I know the news that was coming my way. It was so heartbreaking and I'm learning how to dwell on my own. This is my second miscarriage with a 5-6 year gap. I wish things could have gone differently but if it's meant for me it will be on its own time. All I can do now is grieve at my own pace and get back up without feeling like my entire world has ended. We all have a purpose in this life and if mine is not to have children of my own I will accept that. Most of us know the meaning of miscarriage but we have so little knowledge of the many different types there is. We should all learn to speak of our experiences as we never know how much we can help others. Again, thank you for sharing your story.
@hobah2937 жыл бұрын
I love your outlook on this experience. So positive! I'm sorry for your loss.
@LuisaLouis7 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙂
@OnsceneDC5 жыл бұрын
This just happened to me today. Your response and attitude is exactly how I feel and much of what you said I conveyed already to my BF. It sucks, but I refuse to feel any shame or guilt. Life goes on.
@shelbysummer38756 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting; I miscarried in the spring and am currently pregnant again, but was just told yesterday that my hormones are dropping. I am comforted by your outlook, and I can choose to trust my body now. I wish you peace, and send you light and love.
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
Hello Shelby. I am so sorry to hear that you have to go through it again. I am happy that my video helped you a little. That is the exact reason why I decided to go public. Thank you so much for your nice comment. Sending you lots of love and healing vibes ✨❤️
@christinarichards1226 жыл бұрын
You are an amazing woman. I'm so sorry for your loss.
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Christina Richards 🙏🏽💕
@tati46234 жыл бұрын
This is me exactly rn at 10 weeks 🥺. i walked into my first ob appointment knowing in my heart the outcome , its saddening but i am ok and i am blessed with a beautiful 11 month old baby boy . keep your strength my love .
@rozabasnet57327 ай бұрын
After ten weeks also there is possibility of heart beat please reply i am 9 weeks pregnant with no jeartbeat
@deanna16jeter4 жыл бұрын
This was the most beautiful video regarding miscarriage. I’m possibly going through one, I have to get my numbers checked again but they are pretty sure they are decreasing. But this definitely helped me put things in perspective, and for that I thank you.
@AnaAshraf-s8z3 ай бұрын
what a wonderful woman! I saw so many videos on this topic and no other woman said what you said!
@lovepurpose52102 жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful soul. I just went for my appt and am 9 wks and just found out there was no heartbeat 🥺 There were twins and neither had one. I am getting a D&C but I needed a positive perspective because I am torn up right now! Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
@a.g30155 жыл бұрын
You are so emotionaly strong and balanced. You are an inspiration to women. Keep sharing this side of you. Thank you for this time.
@TiMe-sj4hy5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for providing such a positive and honest outlook on something so devastating. I’m going to the doctor today because I am also 9 weeks but never had a confirmation ultrasound. Today I had a little bit of spotting and pain and I just had a feeling this whole time that something is off. Mais on verra! Merci!
@phenry19844 жыл бұрын
Man this video hit different. You just confirmed to me that my attitude about what I am going through is correct. Just trying to lead with gratitude and positivity. Thanks.
@RandomRads6 жыл бұрын
Never worry about things you can't control. You know what you can control? Your mind set, attitude, self-belief, emotions.I'm saying all this, but I'm pretty sure you are much stronger and braver than me.
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
Hello Praneeth. I completely get what you’re saying and thank you for your nice message. One thing I learned through this experience it to never underestimate your own strength. 💕
@sister_sagittarius62056 жыл бұрын
i just had my 10 week ultrasound... no heart or baby in the sack... i still need to get some tests but this video helped me already! thank you.
@LuisaLouis5 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry Zodiac Curlz. Sending you love and healing vibes 💕✨
@kimberlyhafey85947 жыл бұрын
So beautiful. I truly thank you for sharing your story. It brought me peace and strength. I'm going through my first silent miscarriage and will have an operation in the next few days. I thank you for reminding me to not judge my body and to give it thanks for all that it is doing. There is a bigger plan at work here and your story provided reminders and comfort. Thank you again. Much Love Always, K
@LuisaLouis7 жыл бұрын
Hello Kimberly. I am so sorry you have to go through this too. Thank you so much for your comment, it means a lot to me. I ended up having surgery too after 2 rounds of abortion pills that didn't work. I've been procrastinating on posting ma last miscarriage update, which is the post-surgery one. Thank you for reminding me that I need to finish what I started. Actually, I will post it right now! I hope you will heal well, physically and mentally. Sending you healing vibes. Best Luisa
@kimberlyhafey85947 жыл бұрын
This means so much to me. Thank you for reaching out. It's nice to have this communication as me and my partner didn't tell anyone that we were pregnant (wanted to wait till after 3 months) so you can imagine the lonely feeling i've been experiencing. I've never gone through anything like this. Your optimism was so help for me. In love and light, Kimberly
@LuisaLouis7 жыл бұрын
I understand, and I think its smart you didn't tell anyone. If I can give you a piece of advice, reach out to a couple women that you really trust and share your situation with them. It helps so much to have other women to talk too. I know that my husband couldn't relate to what I was going through and it was hard for us to stay connected at this moment. I talk about it in one of my "miscarriage updates videos". this is when we need to be present for each other and also reach out for support. After I went public about it, i was amazed by the love and support I got back. So many women go through this and no one knows. Much strength to you. Luisa
@kimberlyhafey85947 жыл бұрын
I will. Thank you for the helpful strength.
@christinenadarajah5525 жыл бұрын
Thanks it encouraged me so much I am facing the same thing 9 weeks pregnant and no heartbeat. Your video helped me to believe in myself
@LuisaLouis5 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to hear that Christine!
@rcmnetwork4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing that. 3 days ago, I had a scan at 9 weeks and 5 days, which revealed a dead fetus of about 6 and a half weeks. Last night my body got rid of it. I‘m grieving but for the fifth time in the same situation. Thanks for encouraging me to stay positive and thankful.
@shelbynalepa73994 жыл бұрын
Rhoda Moramba I was 9 weeks and 5 days too when I found out 😔 This was on Wednesday. Fetus measured only 5 wks 6 days. It felt so surreal. My pregnancy symptoms were so intense. Did you have any spotting beforehand? I had some spotting start at about 9 weeks that got progressively heavier but I was told in the first few days it was normal until I knew something wasn’t right and begged for an ultrasound. I’m so sorry for your losses and I hope you have a beautiful healthy pregnancy very soon 💗
@taiblack39052 жыл бұрын
Your message here is so beautiful. In May I went through the same thing and i was devastated and fell apart in the OB office. We found out we are expecting again now and have our first appt in two weeks at 8 weeks. I have been so worried. This will be my last research/comfort seeking video. I am manifesting that I can carry your same outlook and trust my body as you have. Thank you so much for sharing. You have truly touched, warmed and calmed my heart with this video. ❤❤
@MelinaBering16 жыл бұрын
I am in the same boat now and I am so glad I am not the only one who feels the same way as you. I wish other women could see it this way too. It definitely helps to cope with it mentally.
@allysonplautz83275 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video. Im also going through this same situation right now. Went for my 8 week ultra sound, my baby measured 5 weeks, no heart beat, no symptoms of miscarriage. My husband and were devastated but kept hope. I went for a follow up at 9 weeks and the baby was still in the same position. I chose to take the pill and that was the hardest thing mentally, physically and emotionally. So many emotions and thoughts are going through me right now, but I never once had thoughts like you. I should be thankful for my body and trusting it. Thank you for this video and this new perspective. ❤️
@Leopordelectric7574 жыл бұрын
allyson plautz i too went for my ultrasound , no heartbeat .. said to go back cause they ruled miscarriage but she wanted me to go back for confirmation ultrasound.. no symptoms at all ... I’m so confused. I thought I would have bled or cramped bad!
@allysonplautz83274 жыл бұрын
NEstelle not having any symptoms of the passing is still hard for me to understand. A few weeks have gone by now and overall i do feel better, but still a few things, like this, that I have not made peace with yet. Have you chosen an option (if you want to share more info) and been given guidance about trying again. Prayers and hugs sent to you!
@Leopordelectric7574 жыл бұрын
allyson plautz It is so weird, I have no symptoms I still feel pregnant , me & my boyfriend are devastated, we had been trying & now it’s down to waiting two weeks to find out. I have no cramping or bleeding. Just very nauseas & fatigue. We have been praying so much to get through it, the doc said for us to wait awhile.
@allysonplautz83274 жыл бұрын
NEstelle I also had all my pregnancy symptoms. You may not bleed or experience cramping at all, I did not either. At your next appointment they will confirm if the baby is still the same or has changed. The waiting does seem like a lifetime, I pray for a miracle for you!
@Leopordelectric7574 жыл бұрын
allyson plautz really?! It’s such a hard experience cause you feel pregnant , now we are just waiting. . Did you happen to experience anxiety ? I feel mine linger but I don’t know if it’s just emotions.
@AngelaCancervive7 жыл бұрын
Very sorry for your loss sweetie. My sister in law is going through this. Went in for her 10 week ultrasound today and no heartbeat. :( we were due just weeks apart and I can't imagine her pain.
@LuisaLouis7 жыл бұрын
Angela ProudMommy omg! I am so sorry for you sister in law! It's going to hard on her and your relationship with her. I am not sure what her state of mind is right now, but may I suggest sharing my videos with her? I know a lot of friends and a few subscribers told me that watching my videos allowed them to have a different perspective on the matter. I hope she gets over this fast. Sending love and strength to the both of you ❤️🌸
@AngelaCancervive7 жыл бұрын
Luisa Louis thank you. I will. I am giving her some time to grieve. I told her that I understand that she may need space from me, and that it will be hard to be around me right now. I told her to take all the time she needs and that I will always be there for her. As someone who has also had miscarriages I remember how hard it was to be around other pregnant woman/woman with small babies. I wish I could help her, I just don't know what to do. Thank you, I will definitely send her your way. And thank you for being brave enough to share your story.
@dreyvyenielo61376 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I randomly watched your video- so meant to be. Thank you for the positive reminders -trusting in our bodies, nature has a way of knowing and making sure that all is how it should be. "The wound is the place where the light enters you"- Rumi
@imeldamenor41114 жыл бұрын
Just found out that my baby has no heartbeat..and i’m 7 weeks 2 days pregnant, so heartbreaking because we’ve been waiting for 12 yrs to get pregnant😥..this video means a lot to me right now..
@brittannih69353 жыл бұрын
Can I ask what ended up happening?
@sloany25483 жыл бұрын
Did you get a 2nd opinion?
@lalisessions98474 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being brave enough to post this video as you shared your own personal thoughts about what you went through. It definitely has made me see a different positive side to miscarriage and I am more hopeful than I thought I could be.💛
@TeamSugoiFrog5 жыл бұрын
Such a brave and intelligent response to this sort of thing, thank you for giving this perspective
@moumitaroy3418 ай бұрын
Such a positive way of looking things ! You are such a sweetheart ❤! God bless you and thank you 🤩
@LuisaLouis8 ай бұрын
Thank you! God bless you too 💕
@leratomabuela3661Ай бұрын
Thanks for putting it that way❤. I was devastated thinking my body didn't do what it was supposed to. But I choose to trust my body too. As I always say, I'm in tune with my body. Seeing this after 7 years. Thanks
@elizabethmensah26803 жыл бұрын
This is the video I need in this hard time of mine. Have been trying to conceive and when I did, upon my first trip to the hospital for confirmation was told my baby has no heartbeat, and am 8weeks and 5days pregnant but the fetus has no heartbeat. I also didn't have any symptoms of miscarriage, and am still in shock as this is the first time hearing such news. Am scheduled to see my doctor tomorrow for the next step. Your video has really given me hope to move on. Thanks for sharing.
@leiailin3 жыл бұрын
Wow such powerful words. I am having a miscarriage right now and your words are comforting yet strong. Thank you.
@francescapowell15385 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry. I went for my scan today and was told there is no heartbeat. I’m 11 weeks and currently in the same position about what the next steps to take are. Not sure as the news is still raw, but I think I want to pass my baby naturally. My body still thinks I’m pregnant and would prefer my body to catch up with the news rather than having someone poke around inside me.
@candacebrown16925 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. Needed to know I wasn't alone in this! Strong women vibes!
@alexandrathomas56945 жыл бұрын
Yesterday at my 10 week scan I found out I had a twin pregnancy and that both heartbeats had stopped: one at 6 weeks, the other at 9 weeks. This video has helped me process the science behind it. It’s still incredibly raw and I’m very emotional but I understand and have come to peace with it. They are double checking the heartbeat tomorrow morning but I know they have both flown up to heaven xxx
@chloesmith47063 жыл бұрын
I just went through this, my heart is really broken, to top it off my boyfriend dumped me after I told him I was pregnant (at 5 weeks), I have had the procedure and I'm still bleeding 5 days later and still getting cramps
@E.v.a.195 жыл бұрын
It is very hard for me as my feelings are the exact opposite of what you were feeling.... Now I see that there is a different way of processing something like that and it really helps me to move on... thank you
@sugahatch70264 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same thing as we speak I'm heartbroken but definitely thankful that I know that I can get pregnant being that it's my first time being pregnant . i thank God for always makes a way. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I also have to have D&C surgery
@misslala50344 жыл бұрын
Just found out today, at 7 weeks and 6 days, my first appointment that the baby has no heartbeat. I'm confused by my reaction, I'm angry, sad, calm, and many more emotions. The hardest part is that nobody knows I was even pregnant, so I have to deal with this on my own... As you said though it could have been worse... much worse and I'm grateful for that. Thank you for your video.
@inikakuttii59383 жыл бұрын
Your baby safe or not??
@misslala50343 жыл бұрын
@@inikakuttii5938 unfortunately not. 2 days later I had a miscarriage.
@minshamin76784 жыл бұрын
Hi! Thank you so much for doing this video.. I'm going through the exact thing as you right now. Lost my baby at 11 weeks during my 2nd scan.. when sonographer couldn't find and hear the heartbeat. It was devastating as my husband and I saw our baby heartbeat beating healthily on the 1st scan when I was on week 6.. But then again like what you said, our body knows well than us. Thank you once again for this video. It helps me to get my closure and to move on. Thanks!
@JeanGenie922 жыл бұрын
Very very true and beautiful perspective. Just had a 10 week scan for first pregnancy and found out same thing, was the size of 7wk4days. Thank you for sharing, I'm completely with all your feelings of grief, gratefulness to my body for doing it so early on, frustration at having had to go through the worst part of pregnancy for nothing.
@Alicewoods0005 жыл бұрын
Wow what a peaceful approach you have about your miscarriage it makes a lot of sense , I love your quote “ I trust my body that much that I know this was for a good reason “ ... I just had a miscarriage yesterday and I still can’t believe it. Maybe it helps that you already have a child, still I know it hurts. In my case this was our first baby and all our plans and dreams were crushed all the sudden, my poor husband almost fainted in the middle of the appointment, and I cried so much that my eyes are so puffy. Your video, the way You approach this helped me lot , like you say maybe things would be even worse. Is so easy to blame myself but like you said: I did the best and this was something that Mother Nature decided, I’m going to move on , I know I will ...
@user-zv1pi2wl8i4 жыл бұрын
I'm currently 14 weeks. At 12 weeks my baby had a strong heartbeat on the doppler and today at my 14 week appointment, i couldn't hear a heartbeat...I'm extremely scared and my OB said that it's normal to sometimes not detect a heartbeat, but still...I'm praying my heart out for my little one to be ok❤
@cassylove82894 жыл бұрын
Maria how’s everything? Did you end up getting a heartbeat back?
@user-zv1pi2wl8i4 жыл бұрын
@@cassylove8289 I won't know for sure, until my next appointment on the 19th😭 But honestly, deep down, I'm starting to feel like everything is ok...❤ I've been having dreams that my baby is fine. I've had dreams of my baby's ultrasound and in my culture, dreaming of your baby's ultrasound means you'll have a strong healthy baby❤👶
@LuisaLouis4 жыл бұрын
Praying for you and baby.
@user-zv1pi2wl8i4 жыл бұрын
Update: We found my baby's heartbeat!!!❤👶 To all the women out there, don't lose hope!!❤
@LuisaLouis4 жыл бұрын
YAY!!!!! I am so happy for you Maria!!! Now is time to relax and enjoy this pregnancy 😃💕
@suellenfatimafsousa65464 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I was 9 weeks when I found out there was no heartbeat. I was feeling like you but then felt guilty for feeling relieved thats my body sorted itself. So thank you for making me feel that its ok.
@ghoshappy5 жыл бұрын
I am so glad I watched this video !!! Thank you 🙏🏻 for making this video !!!
@LuisaLouis5 жыл бұрын
🙂🙏
@savannahparks96407 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my first baby at 15 weeks this past March after two healthy heartbeats. I had a very similar experience where I went in for my 15 week appointment and there was no heartbeat. So we did an ultrasound and the baby had stopped growing. Let me just say, I was not as calm as you! I had to deliver him, but I was so thankful for the opportunity to hold him and be with him to say goodbye. We are currently expecting our rainbow. :) Prayers for you during this time.
@LuisaLouis7 жыл бұрын
Hello savannah, Thanks a lot for sharing. I hope you were able to heal from this tragedy. I am so happy to hear that you are expecting again! Congratulations!!!!
@AleahMiriah4 жыл бұрын
I am 11 weeks pregnant and my baby died at 8 weeks. This helps me so much. I feel so lost and scared. This is my first pregnancy and I’ve been so depressed. Im just waiting for my body to do its job, and if it doesnt happen in 3-4 weeks then i will do the pill ): the fact im just sitting here and waiting just hurts that much more. Your words have helped me a lot. 💖
@anishanawar3593 жыл бұрын
Any update
@XrenemesisX6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this, I’m going through the exact same thing at this very moment. Very uplifting
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
Thank you XrenemesisX. I hope you are recovering well. Sending you love and strength.
@amishah30953 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much..I am facing the same situation right now..at 9 weeks..no heartbeat found. 2nd time miscarriage. Your video helped me a lot to change my perspective..god bless you.
@LuisaLouis3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Thank you and good luck to you Ami!
@tearasheriff33254 жыл бұрын
Just had a d&c last week this is what I need to hear thank you ❤️
@jo-annastephenson50232 жыл бұрын
I love this. You are an amazing woman.
@黄杰-c1z5 жыл бұрын
It really helps me and my girlfriend get through the same situation, we are in China, thank you!
@LuisaLouis5 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to hear that! Thank you for your comment.🙂
@ceeyouul8r4 жыл бұрын
i was just given the news yesterday that i miscarried my first child at 9 weeks...it does bring me hope & a little peace in knowing that just like you said “my body was able to know that something was wrong”...granted it does hurt but, i want to thank you for sharing your story...and giving me a new perspective on this. i’ll be able to have another baby when the time is right...and although it may hurt now....i find comfort in knowing that my baby will be watching over me, that my body was able to detect something & that i am not alone in this. thank you for sharing your story 💗
@smitathakuri63913 жыл бұрын
U got bleeding nd know u got miscarriage
@BabyGirl-dh6wb7 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate 😢 my hardest was accepting what happened and blaming myself. It’s a tough pill to swallow. 😔
@crystalliving9936 жыл бұрын
This video is so special. Thank you for putting out your point of view.
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Crystal Sims 💕
@nicolevolcy35116 жыл бұрын
This is just what I needed to hear. Different outlook.
@sarahk14122 жыл бұрын
This video helped me immensely. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@LuisaLouis2 жыл бұрын
So happy it did. Good luck 💕
@mimimukaranga90373 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much its now making sense to me...i also went to the doctor yesterday day and i also had a missed miscarriage with my first child at 14 week its so heartbreaking and am still crying
@LuisaLouis3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that 😔. Be strong Mimi. It will get better, I promise.💛
@yuddh81905 жыл бұрын
Merci beaucoup. Je traverse cette douloureuse epreuve en ce moment meme. Cette video est tres encourageante. Merci encore.
@carlamorales86387 жыл бұрын
Hi Luisa, sorry to hear that .. I had a mc too in november and I went for the 1st option, wait for the body to do the process.. it was difficult and painful but I believe it was a good option.. it was my first pregnancy, I hope I can get pg again soon ...
@LuisaLouis7 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your lost. I hope you will conceive soon. Clara! You are so brave! I had such a hard time going through my everyday life waiting for it to happen... You can see how it affects me on my next video.
@lukeandmixpelosi85396 жыл бұрын
Wow, I wish I could trust my body :( I just really don't :( infertility and my little boy was born early at 23 weeks but passed away after 4 hours :( I don't trust my body at all :(
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
LukeandMix Pelosi I am so sorry for your lost 😔
@isharapeiris22947 жыл бұрын
sorry for your loss, went through the same situation and I naturally passed the baby June 13th on my 4th Anniversary...toughest time since its my first baby we had so many hopes.. ur words gave me lots of courage .. thanks
@LuisaLouis7 жыл бұрын
Ishara Peiris I am so sorry you had to go through this. I hope you will be able to recover from your lost soon and more importantly, i hope you will find a way to not associate pain to one of the most joyful event in you life. I know, easier said then done... but when you feel strong enough, try to find the light in all this. Acknowledge the pain and celebrate life. Sending you lots of healing vibes.
@isharapeiris22947 жыл бұрын
thanks for the positive thoughts and good vibes.
@LuisaLouis7 жыл бұрын
You are welcome. Thank you for sharing ❤️
@faithchemurgor93246 жыл бұрын
i can totally relate with you Iam going through the same thing your strength is amazing ......my heart shuttered a million times went through the MVA process last week u inspire me to be strong....God bless u
@starlanokovich73984 жыл бұрын
I love your attitude. I am going through a missed miscarriage right now. I appreciate your positive perspective. I am have surgery in 2 days.
@sarahlove98304 жыл бұрын
My dear everything will b fine,I know of a powerdul mam who can help you remove every spirit of miscarriage and you will never experience it again
@priyasen70074 ай бұрын
I just learnt today that this may be a possibility for me. I have some more tests to confirm. This was my first pregnancy after trying for 2 years. Thank you for this. Maybe God has a different plan but I'm heartbroken
@shernandab67532 жыл бұрын
Wow your words are giving me such a different perspective.thank you for that. I am going through a miscarriage now and it’s so hard .
@bose9414 жыл бұрын
Samething happened with me 6 months back. Featus heart beat could not be traced. So I had to take pill procedure. I was so much devastated and sad. Ur video gave me a ray of hope dear. Now I am trying to conceive again. Wish me a good luck. Thanks for d video 🙏
@mirdybinda47444 жыл бұрын
I was to the hospital today , I'm 9 weeks pregnant and i just found out that my baby's heart is not beating I'm so emotional right now but hoping that i'll feel better Thank you for your video 🙏🏽
@brittannih69353 жыл бұрын
Did they end up finding the heartbeat? I’m going through this too and 9 weeks as well
@mirdybinda47443 жыл бұрын
Hi no they didn’t i had to go trough an operation unfortunately
@maggiem19956 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video I am going through exactly what you did right now I had that ultrasound two days ago and you have given me strength to proceed with this pain I had in my heart
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Maggie Boo. I am so sorry. I hope all goes well with the rest of this painful journey.
@annabananerzzzz6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video I just found out today I lost my baby as well and it’s so hard going through this as a women and as A mother as well..I feel the exact same emotions you just mentioned as well. Thank you and god bless girl!
@LuisaLouis6 жыл бұрын
Hello annabananerzzzz. I am so sorry to hear that 😔. I am happy that you found this video and that it brought you a little confort. Sending you love and strength.
@naomacurtis48034 жыл бұрын
You are so brave for talking about this, I am sorry about your loss
@AddiePsRealEstateTea5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I too myself am dealing with a diagnosed missed abortion now. I really can relate to your feeling and explanation that your body knew something was wrong and made the decision that at times us as mother's cannot make. Many blessings and baby dust to you and your family ❤
@Carolegavinriley7 жыл бұрын
SO sorry to hear this Lusia. My prayers are with you and your family.
@LuisaLouis7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much The Simple Momma. 🙏🏽💜
@laurenconconi60814 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, your strength has guided me to a better place. Trusting your body is really healthy way of rationalizing your emotions. I found out at 11 weeks that it stopped growing at 8 weeks 💔
@lucylillianCW4 жыл бұрын
Me too, yesterday xx
@mjferrer94054 жыл бұрын
@@lucylillianCW hello whats your plan are you going to have the dnc surgery. Me also have the same situation 😭
@lucylillianCW4 жыл бұрын
@@mjferrer9405 Hi, I had to go back today for a confirmation scan, they also found a fibroid which might have caused it, I'm not allowed to take the medication as I have a heart condition so I'm booked in for surgery on Wednesday. How are you? Xx
@vladimiraszegenyova15094 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me 4 years ago I was devastated I know how you feel I am so sorry for you loss. Now I am pregnant again and had scan 10w 2d and there was a heartbeat now I am waiting for my 12 weeks scan and i am still very scared of missed miscarriage but i hope everything is ok .
@tazshamma15033 жыл бұрын
I understand, I am going through the exact same experience right now. I found out today and to be honest...with pregnancy hormones it’s really hard to fight emotions.
@ethereal60633 жыл бұрын
It is so true that our bodies are wise beyond our emotions. Most pregnancies end due to chromosomal abnormalities. Doesn't hurt any less, but it's the only rational way to look at it.
@rinag44704 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, your words speak wisdom and life to me and really touched me right now. I had my 8 week ultrasound today and had bad news the baby measured 6 weeks and no heartbeat or blood flow. Very devastating as this will be my second miscarriage but doctor did say there could be hope because i am also over weight so BMI is higher than normal so doc is sending me to a different location that specializes in sequent ultrasound and will know more in a few days. Your video gave me hope to be as strong as you
@shayanngail51523 жыл бұрын
Did the baby survive?
@gvang1365 жыл бұрын
I am going thru thus right now and I am so happy I came upon this video. Thank you ten thousand times.
@ashleybows52895 жыл бұрын
I have my first ultrasound in two days and I’m so worried about this :( so sorry for your loss
@savannacilingir3195 жыл бұрын
Ashley Bows mine is tomorrow and I’m so scared
@marycuevas12062 жыл бұрын
I just came across with this video - I really needed this 😭😭😭 We just found out at 7 weeks & 6 days that our baby has no heartbeat 😭