I HATE MY VOICE....Let's Talk

[@joyrose2148]

Each of you ladies have beautiful voice, you blend well, harmony is exceptional, good voice control. GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU.

[@3B4JOY]

Thank you John :)

[@iammzparka]

I'm in this stage right now where I'm just beginning to appreciate my voice (it's low like Dominque's). It's still hard because when you don't hear compliments, you think you sound terrible but I keep thinking about all the artists (like Anita Baker) that were rejected for a long time until someone saw the beauty in what their voice had to offer. You ladies have really inspired me to keep pushing, stick with my vocal trainings and just enjoy singing for the Lord. Thank you ladies!

[@stevekluze3094]

KEEP PUSHING!!! BE WHO YOU ARE!!!

[@3B4JOY]

You're welcome :) Be encouraged!

[@nestorumanzor2049]

I'm a new singer, never sung before in front of people until I got saved. I had a ok voice but I hated it. I had to soon realise that this was pride. God resist a proudful person. After God humbling me, he had to show me that a good voice doesn't mean nothing to God if there is no anointing in your life and lifestyle. if I sing good and live a sinful life then I might get a praise from man but certainly not God. He says in 1 Samuel 16:7 that he doesn't see as man sees, because man looks in the outward appearance, but God sees the inward parts. if you still feeling with this, focus more on pleasing God first. and I guarantee he will have his way.

[@AshleyBarnesxo3]

MzParka I agree 100% and can definitely relate!! 👌🏾us singers and musicians gotta keep it pushing 🎤 🎶

[@rawreen]

I can really relate to the ‘low’ voice comments. I always feel ppl are pushing me to sing out of my range which doesn’t feel natural to me. When you’re singing in group setting it’s hard because they are always saying there’s a ‘girl’ range which is typically soprano. I’m alto and can also sing tenor. They freak out when I lead and ask for a lower key!! I am who I am though. 💕

[@karemlissette]

thank you girls! You made me cry. So true what you said. Comparison is the worst thing we can do :* blessings

[@3B4JOY]

Blessings to you too Karem :)

[@OsqaNageri]

For someone who is trying to learn how to sing, this video has given me great encouragement. I now know I have to get to know my voice, to love what God gave me. Thanks for being real.

[@laylah2148]

I'm seeing this 2 years later, however I NEEDED this! I've been a part of the worship team at my church for the past 2 years and am just starting to feel more confident. I constantly compare my voice to the others and it's discouraging. I'm a lower soprano but more comfortable singing alto or even tenor. Sometimes I feel insecure because I don't have the angelic voice like the two sopranos. Also they get to lead most of the "good" songs. (They are all good..lol). I'm glad you spoke about getting voice lessons or coaching. That's something I've been thinking about for months. Thank you for doing this video. It was conformation for me.

[@h230943]

I'm just now (7/2020) discovering you girls. Thank you so much for your tears and your open heart. I'm 65 yrs old, so really way past actually developing my voice... but I find myself being worship leader in my church. You have encouraged me in ways you'll never know. Thank you, and may God continue to bless and use you for His Glory.

[@rayherbst6655]

I have lived long enough to appreciate men and women who sing any range whatsoever and sing fearlessly.

[@3B4JOY]

#fearless :)

[@shysongbird2881]

Oh my goodness y’all just helped me!! I’m tearing up because like literally I’ve been praying to the Lord to help make my voice better so I’ve been binge watching your videos about pitch, and warm ups, etc and I listen to other people and I’m constantly wondering why my voice isn’t like theirs and why I am unhappy with my own voice.. constantly wishing for some different sound. I have been very slack in adding content for my own KZbin channel because I have writers block right now, for one, but also because I feel like I can’t sing that well.. Everyone has told me I have a gift from God and I believe that, I just sometimes wish I knew what people were hearing and feeling when they hear me sing.. I definitely agree with Dominique about not understanding my voice.. it’s not that I hate it, I just don’t understand it nor know how to successfully sing according to MY strengths.. Praise God for all of you! I feel so close to you after seeing this video! Thank you for sharing!❤️😭

[@randypsppinkney739]

Powerful, my daughter really needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@3B4JOY]

You're welcome Randy :) much love to you and your daughter!

[@mulandicecilia1532]

I too needed this

[@boldenmywords]

Smooth glass of smoky, warm soul A young, bright & energetic soul The wind carrying the sweet, wise soul of the songbird Y'all are like that. You have no idea how your worship is helping me through a very rough time in my life . . . But it is well with my soul. May Abba Yah shower you with abundance and shalom.

[@shirley-anneguakun5194]

God bless you ladies. this video means a lot I was in a choir back in high school and I was one of the few girl that could sing tenor I felt wierd because all the girls could hit high pitches amd I couldn't I thought the coolest thing ever was to sing soprano but now I sing tenor in church and appreciate my voice just the way it is. thanks guys! Nuff love!

[@BillTony2]

I am 57 and have enjoyed listening to various videos from you ladies. Thank you for the class that you carry yourself on all the videos. P.easekeep it up. When I hear your beautiful voices, it is encouraging and I am not distracted by provocative dress. THANK YOU. I am grateful for your transparency. People need honesty. Thanks for your honesty.

[@keithmuncy2165]

Heather you have such an amazingly beautiful soprano tone like no other. I love all your girls voices individually but what you do collectively is tremendously gorgeous. Also I love your hearts because you are so genuine in your videos. I also have videos on KZbin under Keith Muncy and I have been singing for twenty years and your harmonies are such perfection. God bless you all for you sharing your gifts with the world. Keep singing for the Glory of the Lord and may his richest blessings fall on you.

[@EliMwalimuyiz]

This is totally relateable ladies. Like Dominique I've always battled with the fact that my voice was always not able to really hit the high keys, and especially after my voice broke, it was now even harder to keep up with my brothers who had really lovely smooth high tenors, and as a guy you'd thing that it wouldn't be such an issue, but every time i'd hear people complementing my brothers after we sang it would make me wonder whether i really even did have a gift in the first place. But just as you've said, it's my voice and it may not sound like pavarotti, but that doesn't mean it's not beautiful, i just need to learn how it works and perfect it and stop comparing myself with others because i'm me and i gotta love all of me. Thanks a lot for that...looking forward to the rest of the series.

[@3B4JOY]

No more comparisons Eli :) Embrace your voice!

[@nu8278]

Still listening in 2024. Love you ladies, miss you all. Love the background music, thank you for including it in the description box!❤

[@carltonjennings8747]

I feel like I was literally in the room with you guys while you were talking. God bless you for sharing and the encouragement that you may unknowingly give to others like myself. Love you sisters in Christ.

[@blackbeautydavis4653]

Thus Is so motivational to me, in many ways But one of the main reason is because, I never used to appreciate my voice and it affected me alot, being insecure of singing out, Always used to think that people don't like how I sing. Then after some time I said to my self" Girl you know what, God gave you that voice for his honor and his glory, you got to appreciate it, so now I really appreciate my voice. BTW am a very low singer. And looking at you guys gave me motivation to go on. Especially Dominique. I also have been motivated by Jessica Reddy and Travis Green. I must say I adore you ladies and the ministry God gave y'all, they way u guys harmonize is beyond exceptional. Claudette and Dominique your voices are amazing! I love Heather's voice but its just that the two stands out more for me. Ladies continue that mighty work that God have called you to do. And continue to minister to people out here. Am blessed by your ministry, every time I look and listen. Thanks for all the advice's and thanks for telling your stories. And it OK to cry, it was touching Much love and blessings your way You all are amazing

[@abigaili2004]

I JUST LOVE YOU ALL!!! That was SO MOVING and SO TRUE!!! You had me in tears! This is the first time I have ever posted anything on anyone's page (sorry if it's too long). We are the children of the MOST HIGH GOD, all Beautiful and Talented in our own right, just the way HE made us! We should stop right our tracks, when the enemy first begins putting those negative thoughts in our minds, and say, the Devil is a LIAR!!! GET THEE BEHIND ME Satan, THE LORD GOD REBUKE THEE! I AM A CHILD OF GOD, FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE, JUST AS I AM!!!!!!! GOD BLESS!!! 😘 😘😘

[@3B4JOY]

Aww, thanks for taking the time to share your comment! be encouraged Abigail :) blessings!

[@gplourdes]

You all are so precious. Thank you...for sharing your gift and the encouragement. I'm not "a young person" (at heart, yes), but y'all have encouraged me as well. My voice is divinely designed for me. May God fine tune it for His glory. That's my desire. In the meantime, train my vocal muscle as God does His work. Bless you all.

[@salmonjeez3903]

I’m really grateful you guys made this video. Literally, I am too afraid to hear my own voice without singing along to songs I truly love. This inspires me to make that change and explore the voice God gave me. God bless you all ❤️☺️

[@jilliansmall1815]

I started really hating my voice about two years ago when I got the opportunity to do bgvs for a popular artiste in my country. He gave me some constructive criticism and basically never asked me to help him again.. so I decided to get some vocal training. I am still doing the training and it is going really well cause I'm working really hard. I really want one opportunity to back him again though. Additionally, I write songs and never ever wanted to record any of them because I never thought my voice was ready. Vocal training is helping me with that now. Thanks for sharing yall. Made me cry.

[@winstonk6309]

I'm so late but I'm here. I'm a sophomore in High School and im apart of the Advanced Choir at my school. I'm so freaking shy when it comes to sing in that choir. All the Juniors and Seniors sound so heavenly and I sometimes completely break down from being such a nervous wreck. Ever since I was a kid I've been critiqued that my voice was so nasally. I went through a very hard time with understanding my voice and to this day I'm still a bit unsure but this video has helped me a lot. Because you guys have gone through some things that I have and I love that you are speaking on it. 💕

[@robertomisacriolla]

Great video. A million years ago I was told by my teacher to like my voice where it was. It took about three years to fully digest that. I have loved music of all genres and felt free to develop my voice to be the voice that was "mine". Made me able to appreciate all voices and still be free to be "me".Again what a great video.

[@Rochelle_Ballah]

I am an 18yr old female from Trinidad. I never hated my voice but i never loved it as much as i do now. I sing worship in church(youth group) and sunday service sometimes. I am an alto(I can sing very low) but i can also sing kinda high for an alto too(when i need/ want to). I found inspiration and motivation from Jessica Reedy, she is an amazingly low gospel singer. When she came to Liberation Day in my country(Trinidad) last year and sang, i was amazed at her very low melodious pitches.I LOVE ALL YOUR VOICES AND I LOVE MY VOICE BECAUSE GOD GAVE IT TO ME FOR HIS HONOUR AND GLORY #ilygsm #GodBlessY'all

[@3B4JOY]

That's right, love your voice! Btw, we love Jessica Reedy too :)

[@Rochelle_Ballah]

my other inpiration is Travis Greene (forgot to mention)

[@lavellekirby4673]

Love this video and all the honesty. Thank you ladies.

[@speakupspeakoutrealstories771]

Thank you so much for this video. I have definitely been feeling like that lately. I sing in the praise team at church and I have a softer voice and sometimes I have felt I didn't sound good because I did not have that soulful bold loud sound. I am also not a professional singer but I sing with professionals, so I had started to disqualify myself. I want to find a good voice coach who can help me understand my voice better. It's funny, the moment I started to doubt my voice, a man came up to me that I never knew ever heard my voice and told me how beautiful it sounds. Your voices are all so beautiful and special. We all need encouragement, so thank you! :)

[@320Alison]

I have just came across this video a few minutes ago and realized I am in the same position you all were in and to see how I can relate to you guys was amazing. I learned a lot during this video and it helped me to think differently about my voice when I sing. Thank you 3B4JOY

[@gailmahabir5135]

Hey girls I so love your singing . be encouraged , you're a great blessing . Dominique I do love your voice . I'm from Trinidad in the Caribbean .

[@traorelauriedanielle6601]

GOD bless you girls this is so beautiful In order to become King David you have to be David the shepherd and many others like Paul, Joseph, Peter etc...

[@donicabest4566]

I love your honesty... thank you for sharing. I'm still in this position

[@mianaomipost9885]

You guys are so transparent here☺️Thanks for sharing

[@pepitajean3197]

You guys have no idea how much I enjoyed this video... even the tears(makes me smile). It exudes sincerity. Singing is not one of my many gifts but I love it... I will try and now have been inspired even more to continue. Thank you Ladies!!

[@fondawebb4527]

what a blessing it was to watch this. I have 3 daughters who are still young (13,11,9) but I can hear the oldest daughters voice beginning to change and my nine year old trying to adapt her singing style to others like Jamie Grace but forsaking proper diction. This should be very encouraging to them. They love your videos and we use them to learn how to harmonize. They just performed their first song using 3 part harmony (healer). Thanks so much for your ministry. I home school my children so this is very helpful tool to teach parts. THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU:).

[@kaishagirtley511]

I really appreciate your passion and honesty. I too have recently struggled with my voice and actually for me It was the opposite. For you guys the struggle came early. For me the struggle started after I gave birth in my late 30's. So I am now relearning my voice and what notes I can actually make. Anyway thanks for sharing, you ladies are beautiful and such a blessing.

[@liamclendon3270]

WOW THIS VIDEO WAS TIMELY! Thank you Ladies! 😘

[@3B4JOY]

You're welcome Lia :)

[@joana_stacy]

I relate to this so much. I used to sing in the church choir when I was younger. But I "hated" my voice because everyone kept saying that I have a pretty voice, but they couldn't hear me. I got so depressed, and I remember thinking to myself during the rehersal,"If only I could sound like Natalie Grant! I sound so horrible.." What you say in this video is so comforting and true.

[@realestateforgodspeople2110]

I love all your voices. Beautiful young ladies with a beautiful sound. God bless you all!

[@christonrichmond7106]

Christon Richmond,hear all the way from Trinidad & Tobago (Trinidad) its so ture to what you say and all have went through hating they voice and taking other people opinion and to some discourage people to reach their full potentol and some giveup and put down what God Give them, "BUT you KNOW WHAT" in all trying to become some thing that GOD did"t Make you for that way and beleiving what other people want your voice should sound like. "BUT not anymore GOD STEP IN AND SAY WHO MADE YOU YOU!!!!!!!! PERFECT IN HIS SIGHT, every one has a diffrent voice and if God gives you that voice LOVE IT BAD. I'm one of the sound Engineers for my church WoodBrook Pentecostal church and in choir rehersal just singing untail GOD STEP IN and NOW singing to their full self lso on the men choir to

[@TheJlb527]

ugh. this is a conversation that needs to be had and I'm glad you guys are sharing your story. cuz every now and again I get discourage cuz I don't have the vocal agility to make those colorful runs and stuff but then I just tell myself that's just how I am and that's that you know. Thanks for the honesty and truth.

[@godsleadingladyzionisabell4144]

Wow this video made my day. Just the way you guys are each one of you is different and you are beautiful each one in your own way. i cant say Heather is more beautiful or Claudette or Dominique , no i look at you guys and im just amazed by the beauty that you each have and yet its different and yet you guys are like a maze that comes together from your smilarities and your differences. its almost like you are alike but different or vice versa thats how your voices are and each voice is an integral part of the sum or the whole, The Holistic Approach i guess thats what its called. Can you guys also do a video about good vocal care i mean just tips on what to do to take x care of your voice and keep it in tip toe shape.Thank you

[@motherandson4402]

It's a blessing that you all sing.

[@Allin-authentic]

You guys are so dope, i can't believe i'm still here watching & commenting a lot of your videos that's how great y'all are & so beautiful Your voices are wonderful they are a blessing to the World i'll always be ready to be blessed through them 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

[@mylaylay18]

My goodness. Ya'll got me crying too! 😢😂😍 Beautiful message! Thank you 💖💖💖💖💖

[@JRenee-Sings]

Hey, can you guys post a video of the competition you 3 were in if possible ? You are all Beautiful and all your voices are too🌹🌹🌹

[@raymalistens]

I happened upon "Thou O Lord" video just recently and can't stop listening to you! God bless you , ladies for sharing so honestly, you have given each person who sings, or is hesitant to sing, a gift. Everyone faces insecurities about singing and you have shined light on the way to overcome and sing to the glory of the One who gave each of us a voice for His pleasure!! Your training is evident in your sound and technique on these videos. As a voice teacher/coach /choral director, I applaud you for recognizing the need to discover and develop the voice with someone who can teach you how to use the instrument to interpret and express the song in your hearts. I will be sharing this video ( and others) with my students and choir. What joy your confidence brings to your offerings of song, for yourselves and the listeners!

[@Lano360]

The first video I watched I subscribed because of the sweet harmony of the voices

[@sharonrebello]

So true.. Thanks for making this video.. Got to show my daughter this video.. Yes our voice is unique & a gift from God😊

[@oluwanifemiaina5650]

You're all beautiful. God bless y'all for this videoa

[@anfalaljadlan7976]

Thank you wow I should understand my voice! That was good thanks for sharing

[@Ycecmc2011]

I am cryinng right along with you. Beautiful and encouraging. Not just your voices but your bond/relationship

[@3B4JOY]

Thank you Elena :) much love

[@JoyfullNoise93]

Thank you for the vulnerability here! More young ladies need to learn to LOVE themselves, voices included!

[@deebookoonmie5375]

This is for me ladies, thank you and God bless you. I don't understand my voice and I love to sing, hearing this just tells me to not give up learn to know your voice

[@irenemuloki-mcknight1362]

You all are so beautiful, God bless you. I love your voices. Thanks for sharing.

[@linnetasagi2006]

Beginning to love and appreciate the voice that i have this is an amazing video girls, God bless you so much

[@eagleyeseagleyes8135]

I am all the way in St.Lucia listening to you guys.You hit the nail on the head.

[@Nigel913]

God bless yall sisters. This was so inspiring. Yall are awesome. Love yall!

[@Zianzio123]

This interview will be a blessing to a lot of people of vocal insecurity. I have always thought I wasn't good enough to sing - no matter how many time I'd practice. I remember I use to try and sing like Tramaine Hawkins (Going Up Yonder, Look At Me, Holy One), Whitney Houston, The Clark Sisters (Is My Living In Vein, You Brought The Sunshine), Michael Jackson, and Aretha Franklin. I remember reading a book called "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren. Rick said in his book, as the soprano sister on the right said, "people are so use to comparing you to other singers." However, we should want to be an original with our own uniqueness and not another Whitney Houston, Beyonce', Aretha Franklin or Michael Jackson. I've learned that God has given us a gift with our own uniqueness for His Glory. It took me a long time to learn that. I do practice a lot to give Him the best that I got for His glory. Keep up the good work girls. I'm very proud of you 3 :-)

[@fondawebb4527]

You all are such an inspiration to my girls. I have three daughters 14,12, and 9 and they really love watching you videos. Is it possible that you could make a video covering the topic of your beginnings singing together, like how old you all were, what your harmony struggles may have been and how you were able to get to this point. Thanks so much.

[@strongcounsel3082]

Three beautiful souls... thank you so much for your vulnerability. This video just blessed me so much. For years even leading up to right now, I have had a hard time accepting my voice. I would pray all the time for God to bless my voice and to make it sound like this person and that person. It wasn't until recently that I realized that God gave me this voice and he loves it. This sound is not even for me, but for the Lord so who am I to judge it? This really encouraged me and I just really thank God for you three. Your voices are amazing and I'm so proud and thankful that you allowed God to use them for His glory. God bless you all 😘😘😘

[@pookbash20]

You all are so inspiring.

[@reginaqueen7637]

So Beautiful ☺️ I am blessed to have found you. Thank you for sharing your sweet spirits. I love all of your voices separately and collectively ❤️

[@TheAzeezSquad]

hey guys I just started following you guys. but thanks so much for this video. people always tried to compare me to a black gospel woman, and when I didn't have that soulful sound, I began to really dislike my voice but this has helped alot

[@fredahshiteiko5478]

I GAVE UP ON SINGING, SIMPLY BECAUSE I DID NOT SOUND LIKE SOMEBODY ELSE. I GET IT NOW, I AM ME AND I AM ORIGINAL...AFTER WATCHING THIS, I'M RISING AGAIN TO PRAISE MY GOD WITH MY GOD GIVEN TALENT. THANK YOU LADIES, you are the best!

[@adelebouda1842]

Thank you. God bless you

[@mickeedmitchell]

Awesome sharing ladies! So grateful you all were transparent enough to share something so personal! Truly grateful for you all! ❤️ ❤️❤️ you all sooo much!!!

[@davidsaenz6458]

Thank you so much for this! Very genuine girls!

[@profesa977]

thank you ladies, i am encouraged

[@AhayahsProphetBahbahkuyah]

Bless you my Sisters, Shalowm. The Holy Warrior Shalowam Shalowam Louisville ky

[@danielmadrid838]

God bless y'all! I'm not a singer-songwriter, more of a howler. But I enjoy listening to y'all and admire the bond you have. I know God uses you and not just to be saying it, but I felt it. Pray for your subscribers and subscribers pray for these sisters.

[@3B4JOY]

Thank you Daniel :) blessings!

[@bradywood459]

Just this year I began coming out of my shell when it came to singing... the first time I had a solo with my youth group i felt free, God was telling me this is how you open up to people, this is how I can spread his word... it was amazing, now I'm not scared to have a solo or sing the bass notes or whatever... Thank the Lord that he showed me it

[@3B4JOY]

Keep growing :) Blessings!

[@ZD126]

3:35 Dominique I feel you that happened to me too but I've always had a deeper voice than most girls/boys at the time. And people would always tell me "you're a natural alto" and then "you sing alto so beautifully" and because I never heard any altos sing solos I thought everyone was telling me "your voice is better off in the background". So I honestly hated that. I'm a very... forward, dramatic person. I don't need to always be at the centre of attention but sometimes I like to shine and be given a chance to be noticed. So it was hell. But guess what? I decided to love my voice. I heard Beyoncé in interviews and her voice would be in the same register as mine. I'd think, "if she sounds so beautiful singing and I sound like her talking, then I can do it too. It's all about practicing with what you were given." I went to a school where there were girls with low voices like mine and higher voices as well. I would listen to them talk and be like "that's what I sound like? That voice doesn't sound annoying at all, it sounds beautiful". Melodic, you know? Calming. I learned to think good thoughts about my voice instead of look down on it or force myself to sing higher. Instead of being frustrated that g is my breaking note, I would celebrate the fact that I could sing lower notes BETTER than those with high pitched voices! We are all made to compliment each other and no one is better than anyone. Changing my thought patterns helped. Also hearing other singers with low, beautiful voices encouraged me. And there is a girl in my church with a beautiful singing voice who heard me sing with a trio (I was alto, duh, or tenor) and she said she wishes she had a voice like mine. I was like ??? But I realized that we all have to learn to appreciate what God gave us because He gave it to us so we could use it! We can't waste time and talent being insecure when the wisest, most perfect and beautiful Being gave us the things that make us unique for a reason! So thank you for this video. I honestly appreciate it and am blessed by it

[@joyrose2148]

love this session. I'm not going to finish listening before I hasten to say, Heather you have a very beautiful, musical voice, it is melodious.

[@3B4JOY]

Thank you! blessings to you :)

[@nu8278]

I agree, there's some history here...

[@motherandson4402]

Beautiful

[@brendice8280]

Wow, it took awhile for me to watch this video because of the title. That's exactly how i felt for the Longest time, even now. But this video is very very encouraging. Thank you Ladies! God keep blessing you ❤

[@furahaniyo9201]

i feel exactly like you felt in the past.insecure hating my voice and all or this stuff or self confidence ! am blessed keep on coing what u are doing. we do not dare showing To the Word our faith !!go go go girls

[@beverlysims807]

Thank you for this! Love YOUR voice because you are the original you! This I will keep.

[@godfreydamons9798]

Wow, ladies, I just recently stumbled across your KZbin channel and I was immediately struck by your honesty and humility, especially since you're so amazingly talented. I am super inspired by, and grateful for what you guys have produced to date. Thank you.

[@maejudz1]

You guys are soo inspirational. 🎤🎵 love the harmony n I appreciate n love each individual voice but bcuz I sing Alto u know who is my favorite lol...

[@like2sew181]

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!!!!I was tremendously blessed by this video. I am older than you all, but I can relate to EVERYTHING you all said because I went through it too. I realized that all of God's gifts are good. If a gift comes in something small, you may be surprised to find a diamond inside. I know you all have blessed many people by doing this. I will have my youth choir watch this. Be blessed and Shalom!

[@3B4JOY]

No problem! There comes a time in life when you just gotta realize what God has given you is beautiful. Hope your youth choir is blessed 😊

[@like2sew181]

Amein!

[@psychopathinthemaking]

I'm not a trained singer, but I've loved singing since I was little. I didn't like being heard by people though for fear of judgement so I often tried to tamp down my voice to seem inconspicuous and I often felt like I had had a fist in my throat whilst singing in the presence of people. I'm pretty sure I damaged my vocal cords in some way from doing that for years. Now I struggle with vocal control. Whenever I had to do vocal warm ups in secondary school, I'd cringe because I'd go out of tune and my voice would shake and everything would go wrong, despite trying hard not to mess up. In the few times I sang out loud in front of people outside of my family I'm usually greeted with silence. I was once told that my voice sounded broken and that I was difficult to harmonize with... It's been difficult trying to fall in love with my voice, especially with very little positive reinforcement but I think it still sounds melodic in a way, just horribly out of tune. I plan to find a vocal coach but who knows when that will be so for now I'd work on the simple vocal exercises I learnt from on youtube.

[@deedeedesir]

This is a powerful video. You all have beautiful voices that can stand brilliantly alone and together. Thank you for sharing.

[@3B4JOY]

Thanks sis!!! much love :)

[@momoflogan]

there are days I dislike my voice lol And I have to tell you ladies, a year ago I could NOT harmonize. Because of that, I really wanted to learn so badly!! came across you ladies, along with others and I just started trying and working at it. SO FRUSTRATING indeed. Then I tried out for the worship team at church, practiced ALL last summer with the worship team and doing back ups, lol i did HORRID but they never gave up on me. I wanted to throw in the towel MANY times. but one thing that was said to me that finally made sense was BE CONFIDENT! I started doing that while practicing ALL the time. This past Suday I sung, and Oh my goodness I nailed it!!! such a great feeling. DON'T give up, always practice, and be confident! Thank you ladies for inspiring and singing SO beautifully to the world and the Lord!

[@3B4JOY]

Congratulations! hard work pays off :) blessings

[@momoflogan]

Thank you!! I don't normally do this, but asking for prayers for my father. He was diagnosed last week with Type/Stage 4 brain cancer. Today, after watching this video I got a call from my step-mother to inform me that he had declined some, where as he was getting to a more stablized condition a few days leading up to today . While in ICU, earlier tonight, I played your version of "No Longer Slaves" for him and sung along, his blood pressure went up some :-) The bottom number reading for a BP should be around 80, his was 40 when I started playing and singing and it went up to like 52. We are believers, and we realize his health is in God’s hands. Please keep my daddy, Clarence, in prayer for God's will and no suffering. My father has been a faithful servant to the Lord for many years now. His church was founded by his grandfather many years ago. (I live in different city than his so my church is elsewhere) I thank you kindly in advance and God Bless.

[@LisaMovado]

Shalom my sisters. I thank Adonai for placing it on your heart to share this heartfelt video of encouragement... I have always been insecure about my voice...for one reason or another. When I get good feedbacks... A part of me doesn't believe people are telling me the truth... in addition to the fact that I've always feared exploring my voice and cracking on high notes... I knew I didn't want to be another copy of what's already out there but I also knew that I wanted to use what God gave me... I hope God gives me the opportunity to explore my voice and gain an understanding of it and love for it. You ladies are blessed. May Adonai's face continue to shine upon you. Much much love and embrace to all three you. -Elizabeth

[@SuperMarkee]

Wow. You are sisters. Nice trio

[@deborahopeyemi6457]

Have learnt to appreciate my voice,when i sing i feel my voice is bad but others listening to me commend me well..God bless you....I love you guys

[@3B4JOY]

Thanks Deborah! much love to you too

[@crystalrangel4329]

Thank you so much ladies.I had a 2nd open heart surgery which dameged my vocal chords with the intubation for many hours so I can not sing the way I used to I'm mostly choir member.I just now am getting used my voice thank you for encouraging us.

[@shadowmaster41]

I really appreciate this. Growing up I listened to and mimiced alot of Chris Brown and Mario and such, and as I got older and my voice got deeper I didn't know anything about proper vocal technique and stuff like that so as I lost vocal flexibility and the ability to sing and sound a certain way I started to back off from the singing. I'd be asked to sing in church and the confidence was just never there. This is something I still struggle with even today, just good to know that there are people out there that overcame this same challenge. Stay blessed!

[@3B4JOY]

We constantly have to remind ourselves to never allow fear inside of our minds. Continue to love and care for your voice because you voice is a gifts that should be cherished. Everyday is a battle, but everyday we overcome, so you stay strong! :)

[@kidstimewithauntyanne9373]

I'm happy to find this video. I'm a female tenor, been one since forth grade.

[@joannelaventure2804]

Thank you sooo much. Tha Now I know to learn more about my voice. Bless you ladies!!

[@mayraj6349]

Wow how amazing that God blessed you all with a different voices but a singing voice! I hate hearing myself in a video or recording. I'm trying to be confident about my voice. I also worship and am working on being confident about that.

[@sosobeautiful7]

Thank you Ladies really needed this I've always song Alto or a low voice now I'm placed in a group as soprano( according to instructor I'ma soprano), and it has been creating an insecurity because it feels as though I'm not able to hit the notes expected from me. But even with my deep voice I've always thought I sounded like a man as well.

[@shawndavis2786]

You all are such an inspiration to me, and you have helped me practice my singing. I love how you support each other and minister to the world. Keep singing God's praises. You are a blessing.

[@ET-vk2lp]

Beautiful you got it too

[@ShanifaTheDiva]

Thank you for making this video beautiful ladies. I am currently stepping out of my shell and beginning to appreciate and learn my voice. You ladies definitely touched my heart. I was beginning to feel alone but when this video popped up I knew it was meant for me and now I will soar. Thank you again!!!!

[@3B4JOY]

We're glad this video touched you! many blessings :)

[@tatiannointed]

Wow ladies thank you so so much for sharing your life experiences. this is really encouraging

[@tatiannointed]

Yeeeaaaaaah!!! Thank you for noticing. M gonna be checking you guys every week. Love your work. Thank you!!!! thank you!!!

[@RuthAnn]

That intro of their vocals thou 🥺🥰

[@fatherjhoy3]

this is so touching truthful and tearful.the honesty of your expressions are valuable God bless,one love Shalom

[@3B4JOY]

God bless you too :) Shalom

[@cindygoblirsch9438]

I loved your transparency here. Thank you! Blessings!

[@Renes_Nook]

Thank you so much for this video! This has been very helpful, what you guys say is exactly what I've been experiencing, i felt like my voice ain't good enough and i started comparing it to musicians i love, whose voices are totally different from mine and that built up low self-esteem, but i'm workin' on that...Thank you 3B4JOY!! Love you guys!!