I Have Cancer Update 3: Going to the Sperm Bank

[@vikarworld]

Stay strong! Hoping to see another update video 6 months down the road with a different outcome!

[@journallinglove]

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[@Stanley1410]

My heart sunk when I saw the analysis saying zero sperm count. But this isn't the end of the world. Stay tough and be strong!! I know this will be very mentally and physically challenging. Take good care, will pray for you Jared. Have faith!!

[@idontcarei]

there r millions of orphans in the world ..but its so sad that most people dont even think abt that

[@banjiu10]

The doctor is a pro at speaking to camera.

[@epeng813]

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." - Isaiah 41:10

[@icecub3]

omg. my heart broke when the doctor gave the results; i can't begin to imagine what Marianne was feeling at that moment.. hoping for a miracle! /hugs

[@CJworksProductions]

Hey Jared, stay srong! Take care and we will always keep you in our prayers

[@RayMak]

Get well soon

[@SamanthaSmiley624]

It's definitely heartbreaking to hear what both of you are going through. Stay strong and positive. Its a big hurdle to cross in your life right now.. hang in there! Wishing you nothing but all the best. Take Care you two :)

[@RayMak]

Wish you all the best of luck.

[@jinyi1182]

hearing the doctor explain is like im in biology class

[@imairmeli]

I just want to share my experience about fertility. My hub do not have cancer so maybe things weren’t as bad. But my hub was diagnosis with almost low zero sperm count. It was like 0.3? I do not have a good womb too. My body dun produce egg regularly so I have irregular menses. We were labeled to be almost impossible to have kids given our situation. The odds is pretty low with us too and we gave up. We told each other we do not need a baby. 2 years after that check up, I got pregnant. I am pretty worried that since both of us are not healthy, baby might not be healthy. Now my boy is going to be 2 yo and everything is fine. He is really a handful but he is really a miracle to us. I share to let u know things may be bad but dun lose hope. Jia you!

[@chinadecobelgium]

Respect for you Jared! Respect for the doctor to be so honest and give the permission to record this all! Stay strong! We pray for you and wish there will be a bright side soon!

[@lildevil872]

Being a young cancer survivor myself I know how hard going through cancer is. I had to have chemo surgery and radiation and might never be able to have kids in the future but I've seen many other ladies that naturally get pregnant even after cancer so there's hope.. You're both very strong wishing Jared a speedy recovery. Sorry that you both need to go through this evil thing called cancer

[@joellim7010]

can I ask what is the difference between chemotherapy and radiation?

[@lildevil872]

little big big chemotherapy is a drug given usually intravenously and it is like weed killer it targets your entire body including your healthy growing cells. It is good because it targets even stray cancer cells that are floating in your body but bad cause it attacks the good cells too. Radiation is targeted treatment. You lie on the radiation bed and they radiate the specific cancer spot. The benefit is it targets specifically to one spot and doesn't attack your healthy cells however unlike chemo it doesn't get the stray cancer cells that may be floating around.

[@lildevil872]

little big big usually patients have both treatments as a safety precaution. To ensure that all the cancerous cells has been killed. But of course every treatment method has long term and short term side effects hence some patients choose not to have certain treatments if it is not absolutely necessary

[@joellim7010]

hi lildevil872, thank you very much for the precious info. God bless you and may God give you a complete restoration for your health in Jesus name!

[@wakikirazzz189]

thank you for choosing to share your journey with the public for the benefit of others as well as yourself! I'm sure everything will be alright in the end, so keep on pushing and stay strong!!

[@rachelt4046]

Stay strong Jared and Marianne !! Going through chemo and cancer may be hard but both of you are strong individuals and y'all will battle through this together !! All the best for tomorrow's chemo and wish everything will turn out fine after treatment . Will be keeping both of you in prayers

[@yc194]

Bro i feel really sorry for the unexpected result. I have been watching your previous videos and i know you are a fighter. Keep on fighting brother.

[@claudiang614]

I cant imagine how hard it feels if both of you would want to have babies. But hey, you will never know what happens in 2 years and worst case you can adopt :) plenty of abandon babies these days waiting to receive love.. Stay strong and push it through!

[@quektea]

Very heart warming to see both you and Marianne supporting one another through these tough times. Keep up the good fight!

[@coachcheah9799]

Stay strong Jared, ive been following your channel for many years now and i hope to see you recovering and feeling better!

[@plugen_]

Don’t worry god is by ur side ! Stay strong!nothing can beat u down ! Be positive !!!

[@koyuikishi1442]

Hey man, thx for sharing out ur experience and spreading awareness. All the best dude

[@tessaayuningtyassugito4041]

Despite of what's happening, I truly admire your courage to post this. Truly educational. I'll keep you all in prayers, let's hope the best for the chemo.

[@shirleyshirley9182]

I’m a cancer survivor. I got it treated early and life still goes on. Stay strong, you still got your family who will stand by you in tough times plus 1000s others (your fans/viewers) (not many people are lucky as you).

[@rockman1122]

Don't be sad man, otherwise your body will react the same. Think positive. Good luck next week. We are here for you.

[@erictoh84]

You’ll be alright Jared. Don’t worry too much on fertility. Your health is so much more important. Get everything up and well. Decide by then what you need to do.

[@benzeeyap]

Really sorry to hear that. By the look of both of your faces was going in with hope but coming back out with disappointment really moved my heart. My prayers will be with both you. May the guardian angels be with both of you through this tough time.

[@metallitai]

been watching your videos for a few yrs. and life is always a balance of happy and sad moments. in times like these, it will never be easy. but think of the good times and they will help you get on with life. stay strong jared and never lose being who you are no matter how hard it is.

[@bababoy5374]

Stay strong bro...

[@chiayeelee2363]

Oh my god... the moment marianne broke down and cried on your shoulder, no one can understand what you guys are going through, it must be really really devastating for you both. You both have brought so much joy to the people, you both are good people, we will pray for you and marianne, for your health, and may God bless you, give you both the strength to go through all the hard times.

[@HeIsAnAli]

I know I can't exactly say anything else that would be fitting since it will be coming from someone who has sired a son, but know that you will never, ever, *EVER* be alone.

[@3raLC]

Again, thank you for sharing your journey with us. We are supporting alongside you both.

[@eulene100]

My heart goes out to you both, Jared and Marriane. You both are in my prayers!

[@kvanheeson5358]

OOf, stay strong. Fun fact: You've left yourself in the right hands, Mr. Palaniappan is my dad's former colleague and good friend. His son and I have even schooled together!

[@princedirt87]

well.. i had been following you guys from like 3K subscribers and watching you guys coming this long way it's like a very very long journey. I lost my beloved father 7 months ago because of cancer. I been with him from the start of the diagnose until his last breathe with his hand holding mine. It do takes tremendous amount of will power to overcome a cancer treatment. What i can share with you is, don't give up no matter what. Be brave Be strong. And for Marianne, you can cry, its okay. But after you wipe your tears, fight along Jared side by side. Power of love can create miracle. Stay Strong.

[@andyandy913]

No matter what, we will always be there to support you, Jared and Marianne. I hope good things will happen.

[@Shinkai_Nim]

I'll pray for you guys. Right now i'm planning to go to fetility center . Thank you for the exposure. It's heartbreaking to see both of you try to stand strong for each other. Ganbatte

[@ms.evon596]

Stay strong, Jared & Marianne! Hopefully there will be good news coming to you both soon.

[@ferdinandcahyadi]

Hello from Indonesia. I love you both Jared and Marriane. Just wanted you guys know, you inspired every person and couple. Stay strong, there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

[@jacoblim2291]

Thanks Jared and Marianne, for sharing your life journey and the one of the most personal side of your life, for the blessing of others. We share your sadness and heartaches just like as we share our times of joy watching your vids. A time to mourn, a time to be glad. He has made everything beautiful in its time. Praying for you. God bless.

[@yuzhang1587]

I hope your analysis was because of cancer and was not permanent, stay strong!!!!!!!

[@alicethegolsfish]

Hang in there and be strong, thank you for putting this public for other's benefit

[@annachan3039]

Jarred and marianne, I m your video follower from HK. I cried when seeing the result... Never give up and always with hope. Let's hope the positive result for the next test!! Stay strong!!

[@hzboi]

Praying for you and your wife. May the Lord be your comfort and strength

[@sygmama]

Jared and Marianne be strong and never lose hope. My prayers with you guys.

[@lim4074]

I'm so happy that you're willing to share this journey with us. Supporting u all the way!!!

[@pennyblossoms]

Thank you for sharing. Its very brave of you. I am going through a tough time myself health wise. I tend to internalise and shrink into my shell when I am struggling. Sometimes it helps us stay strong knowing there are others going through things too.

[@sweefaith77]

Please stay strong and I will always be watching and supporting your videos. May the love and grace of God protect both of you ♡♡♡

[@chuadexter]

Jared , hope you are all fully recovered soon! i just watched all 3 videos at 11.22pm , I can feel it for you and your wife , because me and my wife went to the fertility bank recently for a casual check up, and we are waiting for results next week. I have the same fear and can totally feel how you are feeling now . I will pray for you in my daily prayers from now on.

[@yiwenkoh3519]

Stay strong Jared!!! You'll be alright!!!we're here with you!!! Fighting!!!

[@blinkbling7]

It’s not the end of the road. There’s always sperm donor option, adoption etc. Stay strong and keep positive!

[@MsDare17]

Man don't have the final words, but God does. Keep both in prayers, for health recovery and strength

[@sharon11223]

Hope marianne and you can go through this life obstacles. You are my favourite KZbinr. Stay strong.

[@anjannakukreja4278]

Praying for you both Jared and Marianne

[@TheEndoExo]

Hey Jared, I’m going through this whole cancer journey as well with my grandma (the patient). Keep smiling, one day at a time!!! I know its hard, and its okay to be sad! but hang in there! Will pray for you! All the best!!

[@SGJanice]

From Singapore viewer. Positivity keep you in improve health and Marianne too. Believe in yourself and your health that everything will be all right. Daijobu! Jia you and stay positive always!

[@jywong2367]

Never expect to watch any video like this before.. Sincerely wish everything goes well.. Stay strong! Stay positive!

[@9250td]

You guys will be blessed with children later. You both are still young; go through your treatment and before you know it, you will be healthy again. You have to be optimistic at a time like this! Sending many prayers your way....

[@viannleong7342]

Don't lose hope! Stay strong Jared & Marianne!

[@teoweilin2920]

get well soon, Jared. stay strong. hope that all will be well with you and your family

[@justinminpohchai6830]

Dat's not the end of the world.. stay strong jared! looking forward for more updates and great videos in future! Sadhu!

[@shermsin]

This is a very informative video! Thanks for sharing with us the journey. I feel so sad when the doctor reveal the results. Hoping for the best for the two of you!

[@blueiluei]

Hugs.. So sorry to hear the bad news. Thank you for the video. Appreciate your honesty and openness. When things looks down always remember to look up. He will also be there to comfort you. My mum died of stomach cancer in February 18. Just want to say that I understand how it feels. He gives hope to the hopeless - Romans 15:13.

[@mahnazsimon2140]

Stay strong, Jared and Marianne! This is truly a challenging time for both. Will definitely keep you both in my prayers ♥

[@3firebolt]

Jared and Marianne, know that God is by your side all the time and that you are in our prayers. Be strong and never lose hope. Take care and get well soon.

[@TVXQSoulForever]

God doesn't exist. If god exists, let god heal him and not go for chemo.

[@pennyblossoms]

TVXQSoulForever God can heal him through the chemo.

[@TVXQSoulForever]

pennyblossoms The doctor and science did.

[@wengfattwong8033]

TVXQSoulForever cancer is fake and doctor is fake too.

[@Bambiandgrey]

Will be keeping you guys in prayers. Just wish to thank you both, for committing yourselves in updating us details of your journey. For baring intimate moments and details that you could’ve kept private, I really appreciate and am moved by it. Thank you for doing what you’re doing, and I hope for the very best for you two.

[@WilfredLim]

You will get through this brother, stay strong !

[@Snoopyyy1999]

Wishing All the best to you dude! Stay strong! Will continue supporting you and Marriane’s Journey!

[@jessicateng6234]

Thank you, for this video and the ones before this. You provided updates on your condition which you obviously didn't have to. Each video needed your extra efforts to film and edit and with each edit, the playback simply reminds you and your wife of the undesirable outcome. For that, I thank you for sharing openly with your viewers. Many of us will not be able to understand how you both feel but please know that you are appreciated and my prayers are with you. Jia you, be strong!

[@cyifan]

I’m so sorry to hear this. After the surgery, I went for sperm freezing also. My sperms quantity was low and poor in mobility. No matter how, complete your chemo first. Chemo is a really important treatment to prevent cancer relapse. Everything will be fine as long as you are alive. You may contact me if you need any help. I’m going for a PET scan next Monday because suspect of metastasis/spread to lung. Good luck to myself.

[@itzvalerinevictoria2987]

dont worry, we are praying for u. God will provide his planned for u . I promise do not be afraid. We love u and we believe that the result will no longer be negatif but positif. A miracle will happen because miracles are all around. Stay strong and brave.

[@pattytpumpkin]

Soooo sorry to hear the set back. Whatever the situation God has plan for you both. Love and prayers

[@yusakmd]

the doctors they went are really the good one. how they explain and what they explain are really really nice

[@ncs211]

Stay strong man, things will be good if you have positive mindset!

[@cherylt7939]

I pray for the best for you and Marianne. Please stay strong!

[@tshyong89]

Stay strong and all the best to you. Thanks for raising the awareness here. You're doing good for the people, the affection is going to be eternal.

[@careenng1402]

Stay strong you both! I am very sure that you will be a testimony to those around you! I'll keep you two in prayers!

[@khersheonteoh5697]

This has turned so educational, thanks Jared and Marianne for sharing what you have been through with us. God bless, take care and stay strong!

[@wanderlust360]

Im amazed by your courage to share your experience with us, thank you. May you recover quickly, Stay strong bro

[@klxy0099]

nothing much we can do as subscribers here but stay strong, always have faith!

[@jsl8082]

I sincerely would like to thank both of you sharing this out! Honestly i can't convey how much gratitude for you two and i am very sorry to hear the news. We pray for you two , dear.

[@Darrenexoctic]

All the best. I believe God has your back. Take care n God bless Jared n Marianne. Everything will be fine.

[@ron_lee1427]

Hey Jared, stay strong! We will always keep you in our prayers. Take care

[@layminglee1935]

Please stay strong Jared....I know it’s difficult but please all the best for you and your wife..

[@jerrylim9260]

Take care and never give up, Jared and Marianne. Our prayers are with you. Do what you thing is necessary. Even after chemo, still, don't give up. Look for second opinion or third or more for treatment. Keep believing there is a way. Eat well, rest well, and stay positive. I think I need to do check-up after this. Thanks for sharing, really grateful for this vid.

[@Vakies]

Stay strong and speedy full recovery, Jared!

[@rueiann9715]

This video brought me to tears and I just want to say Stay strong! God have bigger and better plans ahead for you and always do remember God is in control! 💜 I will keep you guys in prayers. May you find comfort and peace in God.

[@michi82]

Stay strong Jared & Marianne.... you will be in my prayers...

[@anorange8]

Stay strong bro! Will keep you both in prayers. Don't lose hope! God bless.

[@dyahayularasati2496]

Keep your hopes up! there will always be chances of miracle. Prayers for you guys.

[@jeanchristie]

Stay strong.My heart goes out to both of you. Have faith. Most importantly is you are both well and healthy.

[@vonnnnns1]

We’ll be here with you!! 🤜🏻🤛🏻

[@jamesleethebond]

This video sadden me just to let you know that my prayers are with you

[@lokip9387]

Jiayou guys, stay strong! Thank yall so much for doing this video even though it is very private and difficult for yall to do so. Best of luck to the both of you

[@12569874301]

Stay strong Jared and Marianne!! Hope for the best for you

[@Mizz.Cherry]

Sorry that you had to go through this. I went thru similar challenges too & at my current age I finally realised that having a kid is just not part of God's plan for me in this life. I am still learning to accept & I think that's not the end as one door closes & another opens

[@stanleygoh4120]

I understand your feeling as I am too in your shoes. Stay strong together!

[@MrYamce]

Hope for your quick recovery and there will be a positive outcome in your sperm test

[@nicolsha100]

im so sorry. thank you for sharing this story. i know it must have been so hard.

[@myca_ezzra_5049]

Thank you so much for sharing this. I appreciate your transparency. Your journey is going to be a testimony and great inspiration to others! I will keep you and your family in prayer. I know it is very cliche' to say "stay strong". It is easier said than done. But here it goes, stay strong and most importantly, be positive! You are going to get through this!

[@shamong12]

Take one thing at a time guys! Focus on getting well first Jared and then work through the other challenges.. Hope it all works out in the end (one way or the other) gambatteh!