I have to be really honest with myself about LARP

[@heitorp.c.1327]

"I just want to be me somewhere else with swords" This is the purest form of my inner child.

[@cristiaolson7327]

This. This is why all my characters, both in tabletop and in LARP, are basically just me with extra skills and/or gear. Could I play someone different? Yah. I do that all the time for NPC's, including often-recurring ones, when I am DM'ing. But as a player, I just want to be myself, except somewhere else and with swords, a bow, or spells.

[@SethMast-he5xu]

honistly i relly do get it i relly do just want to be myself somewhere else with a sword the werd thing for me is i have one foot in ever bucket so i could be a bard or a shady ranger or a relly cool druid ..........i have the sirvivel skills and the herbel skills and the fighting skills and the archery skills and(in a not illegil way) the rouge skills soooo its difeacult for me to pick one or two or three parts of myself to put in a charichter

[@danielmaher964]

That's a great line, it deserves an ode. Someone else can come up with a better one, but I'll start: Greetings milady I am a hero A mighty hulking chad I fight alone and for myself Believe me I am bad Well not so bad, I am a ranger The guardian of the wild I walk alone, they can't keep up My beard is neatly styled Yes I am styled, a nobleman The wealthiest you've seen I have my pick, you might have luck I'll let you be my queen My lineage notable though wealth be notional A barbarous prince am I What should it be to plund'rers like we To have no means to buy? You are a tempter to this knight Templar My worth my holy blade My chaste'd love for thee alone From boredom you are saved Take pity I am but a nerd A warrior of words I just want to be myself Somewhere else with swords If you'll take pity I'll try hard If not I'll be so sad I'll listen to counsel from wiser heads To be a worthy dad.

[@RebelliousSquirrel]

I'd like to ad, "me somewhere else with swords and magic"

[@SpiderboyN2Jesus]

@@danielmaher964 Bravo! You're certainly a bard!

[@gummybread]

“Mom, Dad... I have a confession, I’m... im a bard”

[@LivingAnachronism]

(Father who is a Paladin): walks away. (Mother who is a Cleric): "Now look, you've upset your father."

[@DH-xw6jp]

The Mage Sister: [faints] The Rogue Brother: [snickers about plundering dragons]

[@zaqzilla1]

You're no longer my son! lol

[@deskgamesix]

No! You're going to be a geologist!

[@nickdeathpool9529]

Hahahahahaha

[@harbl99]

The charismatic theatre-trained guy with the knack for storytelling and the flowing hair is attracted to the Bard archetype. Surely not. Who could have foreseen this? 😆

[@robertjensen1438]

This morning was all about Shakespeare. This afternoon it's all about his poetry. Things are going from Bard to Verse

[@patrickbateman3146]

Get out

[@johnstuartkeller5244]

😂 Couplet with something. Make it a word and a blow!

[@DH-xw6jp]

[throws tomato]

[@TheMadPoetHimself]

This comment made me exhale slightly. Felt good.

[@Sylentmana]

That’s it. I’m getting me rotted vegetables.

[@MemoristCed]

"Trying to force reality to bend to my will" is something more people need to acknowledge they do, in RP and especially IRL. And conveying subtle wisdom in the telling of your story, as you just did, CONFIRMS you're a bard. You don't have to worry about expectations; you already know what you're doing. Bard kit lookin' sharp, since you asked!

[@ScribeAdept]

There is no reason you can't be a "ranger" or "Viking faction" or whatever else and not also be a bard, though. None of us are single-flavor, we are multi-faceted. But this video has a tremendous value in that it offers ways of thought which might not have been considered before. I've always told people that any roleplay character we make is simply a facet or element of ourselves we want to highlight or explore more fully in a safe way.

[@weedragonauts4729]

Exactly. Ranger/Bard multiclass. Your sword's sheath is a guitar!

[@knightofarnor2552]

I'd even go as far as to say being a Bard complements a Norse-style character. Egil Skallagrimson is considered one of the best poets who ever came out of Iceland, and his most famous work is a saga about his own viking career.

[@BreandanOCiarrai]

Skald! :D

[@nathanmartinez7823]

I always created characters that were a ranger that enjoyed playing music for instance. Like after a day of adventuring and fighting, he'd pull out his stringed instrument and play music into the night around the fire. I'd even imagined a post apocalyptic ranger character that had a banjo that he'd play when he had free time, especially at the day's end at camp. No reason a character can't have other interests and be multifaceted. Just like people in real life. You don't have to be 2 dimensional

[@grbdevnull5611]

This is part of why I like Faramir so much. He reflects the multi-faceted nature of real people: in Ithilien, he is a ranger, in Minas Tirith, he is a fighter, and the whole time he has the heart of a bard.

[@OutlandStation]

Sir, you ARE a Bard. Lean into it. You're telling us only what we've known for ages. You are engaging, interesting, and entertaining. Put that to work. Much love!

[@TheCaniblcat]

I can identify with never being satisfied with just one character and having an addiction to making new characters. I have entire folders filled with characters for various games I've never played, just to see what variations I can make.

[@samueltheblonde]

Agreed!

[@sarawahlund223]

There is too many choices

[@themanlymango]

You've really highlighted two issues that I see so commonly. First is when people approach character creation from a "stats" or "mechanical" standpoint and then struggle to connect to the actual "character"; this class-first approach CAN work perfectly fine, some people prefer it, especially when you're excited about a concept, but for some people it is much more effective to figure out the vibe of a character and then explore what mechanics best allow you to express them. Second is how often a "support" archetype is underrated; everyone wants to feel like they are unique, exciting, a hero, an overtly "impressive" character, because we're so often presented with a relatively limited style of protagonist, but the characters who fit into the archetype of secondary/supporting roles are actually some of the ones we love or connect to the most in a story, and consequently can be some of the most fun to actually play. Good on you for being so honest with how hard it is to deal with fluctuating interest and the process of learning your own preferences

[@darcraven01]

as a published poet i 100% agree with you on not wanting to play a bard because the fear of not meeting expectations. like, yeah, i've written a bunch of poems and have my own book but if im not in the right mindset and am not inspired im not going to be able to just whip out snappy lines, witty comebacks, or rhyme fluently.. but i always feel like if i play a bard people will want me to be suave on the fly.

[@mdksailormoon]

The bard look suits you well and this video was very enlightening! As a table top gamer, with a bit of main charactor syndrome myself, I definitely relate to constantly coming up with new ideas for characters. I have so many different original characters in my head at any given time, be it D&D, fandom OCs, or just my own personal characters. Whenever I try to write stories for them, I'm inspired to make another character, the struggle is real! As I've never been to a LARP, and am not a combat girl, what would probably be most comfortable for me to role play would be essentially a kitchen witch who cooks, picks flowers, knits, and sings....which are all things I love in real life! The idea of having a cauldron of soup bubbling at my tent and giving out bowlfuls to people sounds really fun to me! Also you mentioned wandmaking.... would you ever do a video on that? Because as a witchy girl, I'm very interested! 👀 P.S. Sorry for the block of text

[@RJ-cf8jq]

Honestly I have always thought of you as a Bard. You have that vibe about you. No matter what you have portrayed the Bard always seems to come through. I very much enjoy your videos. Keep up the good work and be yourself. Most of all enjoy yourself.

[@LivingAnachronism]

Thanks RJ

[@jackori6685]

I could not have said it better. I echo your sentiments.

[@skreelthebarbarian]

As someone who doesnt LARP, but enjoys class fantasy archetypes in RPGs and after watching your vids for a while, Bard honestly suits you really well. Foremost, you entertain people. That is the very essence of the Bard archetype. Anything else is just personal flavor.

[@chrissilo2386]

I think that outfit suits you really well!! Also very glad to hear you being so honest with us, you could've just rolled up with the bard character without saying anything but you chose to explain your thought process which now allows everyone to think about their own choices and characters. I hope you have fun playing around with the bard idea!

[@christopherdavis7069]

For me it’s always been easy. I’m a wizard. When I was in 5th grade i did a talent show in front of the school doing magic tricks. After that I was known as the magician at my school. and the concept of a glass cannon character had always been close to me. Scout in tf2 to start with. But if I ever have the chance to play a glass cannon spell caster like a wizard I do. My wizard character is me, and I am him. And with him he’s been changing and growing with me as I see fit as I get lost in my imagination about who he would be. He is a Half elf dhampir and these two things very much capture what I want to be and who I’ve been. Vampires have always been my favorite monster, and half elf represents my constant feelings of displacement and alienation along with my love for nature and my general sense of aesthetic I aim for. I’m 19 and I’m still learning who I am and Chrimith Seraphim Dreamveil the Crimson Wizard will always be there for me to mold with my story

[@MalloonTarka]

Funny, that explains why I've been perfectly happy with my single character the past ten years. I wanted to do everything, like you, so I made a character who could dip their toes in all the areas - magic, combat, roleplay, music, and more. Because that's what _I_ like. And since I realised I'd be playing this character for days on end, I decided on a personality that was close to my own, to avoid mental fatigue. I added some things such as an increased inclination to taking risks, boisterousness, and a willingness to take drugs such as alcohol and tobacco, which I don't partake of myself, since the consequences would be _in game,_ and I removed some skills which I thought would make it interesting, but my character is very much like _me._ And in the process, I discovered I like being some of those things that I aren't - or wasn't, I should say - so I've become more like my character than I used to be. I still don't take risks or drugs like they do, and never will, but I've certainly become more boisterous. Plus, I don't have the cash to reoutfit a new character, so there's that. Oh, and I discovered _after_ playing them that my character is closest to being the D&D class bard too. Which was funny, since it was the class I was least interested in playing before.

[@TheLastSoul]

Yes, I definitely think a swashbuckler bard is very fitting for you.

[@NicW76]

As someone who is not an actor, and is also in a wheelchair I totally went with a character that means I don't need to depart too much from me. I went with mage so I can just be like, me but with magic. 🤣 Plus it's cool being able to do stuff with our coven and be part it a group in that way, makes the RP much easier.

[@DH-xw6jp]

"Actor and storyteller surprises no one learning he's a bard" lol Doing something you know to allow yourself to fit into you character's skin easier is exactly why I played a depressed guard that took up adventuring to avoid his personal noose. Not glamorous, but the familiarity made getting into it easier. And he was allowed to evolve as I did.

[@urdaanglospey6666]

My first LARP, I played me but with magic. Because, I didn't want to have to deal with a new character (and everything that entails), a new voice and/or accent, real life restrictions, AND a new ruleset (I'd played tabletop before) all at the same time. As I got used to all of that, I branched out a little bit here and there. I'd have the character make a different decision than I would normally make. Plus, it's not a real world. The events of that world will change your character. You'd be surprised (or maybe not?) how different that character becomes from you over time. But, it feels much more organic. You don't really notice until you're somewhere and you, "How the hell did I get here!?" and think about it and go . . . Oh! That choice REALLY mattered!

[@Blaze21iz]

When I first started with Magnus, I let him build himself. I had no identity for him, just a “what.” “this is what he does, this is where he’s from” and that was it. He build himself out over the course of the larp, and I’m deeeeeply invested in him I think because of that.

[@sarawahlund223]

I have the same experience. I am the most invested in the characters I planned the least in advance and discovered in game.

[@maryhenry]

This is a great lesson for anyone (not just LARPers) to examine how they move through life and how true to themselves they're willing to be.

[@katherinec6031]

On self-critique-two things. First: all experience builds your skill and reference. Even if you make an acting/character/whatever choice you don’t like, now you know what goes/leads into it and can use that information for next time (to make an adjustment to the choice, create a new response to the choice, or try something else entirely). Second: play, art, self-expression-these are not graded. There is no inherent right way or wrong way. Obviously, there is curtesy to anyone else involved (abiding by agreed upon guidelines, not disrespecting, being collaborative, etc), but in terms of whether something is “too close,” “too far,” “not accurate enough,” or any “too much” or “too little”…these are arbitrary. Fun, satisfaction, and enjoyment are rarely results from only technical success. And waiting for them to come that way will frustrate and cause distance. But they are often found in being part of the moment one is in. We exist only in the now as linear beings, and though we must also plan and remember, neither can take the place of being, or supersede the power of it. Not to be too cliche, but follow your heart. What do you want? What does the story whisper to do now? What choice are you drawn to, when judging by arbitrary rules alone gives way to judging by what seems right? Anyway, it’s a little raw of an approach sometimes, but it will expose what is inside much faster and more strongly than constant self-editing will. And if the current plan includes being discontent sometimes one way, what is there to lose by risking another way? And after all, we might also accidentally find a kind of happiness we never anticipated either.

[@iupooiresa]

"But I judge myself" is such a mood.

[@TheMadPoetHimself]

Chronic Character-Change Syndrome Awareness Day needs to be a thing. And hey, no shame in being a Warrior Poet! Pretty sure there's some historical examples of that. Anyway, I'm off to fencing practice...

[@DesignerBerg]

Wow. That’s really insightful. I think it somehow applies to real life as well.

[@Serphion]

This is also rather fitting to your overall struggle, because at least in some versions of DnD the Bard is the quintessential jack of all trades. Heck, they even get a class feature called that in 5e, even if they're more of a spellcaster there than in earlier editions. In the archetype triangle that is Warrior (Might)-Mage (Magic)-Rogue (Finesse) where most classes find themselves in somewhere, Bards naturally fall rather close to the center. Meaning it flows very naturally for you to dabble in many things while still very much remaining a Bard, if you so desire.

[@Justin_Black]

Wow, this has got to be one of my favorite videos that you have made, and in fact very helpful personally.

[@LivingAnachronism]

Thanks Justin, glad it was helpful!

[@Segyl88]

I have "Made a new character syndrome" too. It's bad man, i have like a dozen of premade D&D Character line up, and i haven't played D&D in 5 years.

[@thulsa_dad8862]

I fully embraced my evil wizard side and created a LARP that really felt good being a caster. Granted, I think every class feels really good, but I am a wizard at heart lol.

[@benjaminblack4345]

That's an awesome deep dive. Be yourself. It's a good lesson we need to hear sometimes, and a rather unique application. I really enjoyed this video Kramer! (Still getting used to the shorter hair too, it works well though!)

[@eliabeck689]

Bards, unite! I play a bard in my D&D group, and I love it so much! I basically get to do whatever I want, and my DM gets to compensate for my chaos. ;)

[@saxonhermit]

YES! Play what you're most comfortable in! That is a lesson it took me far too long to learn. There is no wrong way to play these games we love, but there are ways that we can make it better for ourselves. It feels great to just be able to slip into a character that feels just as comfortable as your own skin.

[@GerardMenvussa]

If you are coming out, don't forget your hat. The sun is hitting hard today.

[@Ancient_War]

As an actor myself I feel we go into acting to be able to step into the shoes of other people. To live that person’s life…or as much of it as the script, the director, and our building of the character’s backstory allows. I’m also a RP Bard and happy in that role. (I refuse to seduce dragons. Not sorry.) You have way too high expectations for yourself. Have fun. If it goes poorly, it’s like life, you get up and try again. I’ve certainly crashed and burned in RP (and IRL). You can do this. I’ve watched your videos, seen what you’ve accomplished, and have faith in you.

[@wildweekly7304]

The thumbnail 💀

[@MrDowntemp0]

I think you should revisit that sword idea, maybe a bit more academically. I think you had some good ideas, but maybe took it too far? Maybe something closer to an arming sword with a slightly longer grip, and then consider the balance and rework the proportions until its usable. Maybe witha rapier style hilt that you're familiar with like a Munich Town Guard Sword too. Could be a fun project and probably one you could do some KZbin collabs with.

[@LivingAnachronism]

Yeah Munich town guard sword is what I've been looking at or a side sword. Something like an arming sword with a developed hilt

[@MrDowntemp0]

@@LivingAnachronism It's a very cool design. Feels like its tailor made for your run-of-the-mill adventurer. Especially in close quarter dungeons. I was surprised to find it has historic precedence

[@happytofu5]

That was very insightful - I think I have to face the fact that I don't enjoy fighting at all. I am small, I am weak and fragile, my face is at the right height to be smashed by someone's elbow or shoulder plate by accident. I don't have space to keep any weaponry too. I always enjoy alchemy in RPGs when I get the chance and like to work with herbs irl too, so maybe thats my true calling.

[@neoaliphant]

Kramer, remember that reenactment archery arrows are faster than larp arrows, i found a backquiver with renactment blunts quite quick and logolassy

[@johnstuartkeller5244]

I never got into LARP (outside of attending and, later, working at Medieval/ Renaissance faires,) but as a long-time tabletop gamer, I am familiar with and sympathetic to MAKING SO MANY CHARACTERS. And, yes, coming up with characters ove one's lifetime where you can both escape and be yourself is a fine line. Continue to have that fun, mate.

[@47948201]

Happy for your discovery! For tabletop RPGs, I've had near-identical symptoms, but somehow from the polar opposite problem. So I decided for my next D&D character, I'd play someone "easier to roleplay" -- much more of *my own* personality, goals, quirks, skills, and deficiencies. And now, this video has me even more excited to play that character!

[@trenwilson6613]

Kramer, all I have to say is exploration is good and your journey has led you to several places and each of them had things to teach you, maybe even things you have yet to discover. You have found your adventure, the discovery of yourself and how you may fit in these realms that you love so much. Enjoy you journey.

[@Aeolusdallas]

I don't LARP, but I totally have this problem with video games and role playing games.

[@dontaecamacho5780]

This bard costume is so nice already, looks almost exactly like the beginning bard outfits in bg3

[@joshuaward5498]

Closet bards unite! Awesome video. You said what I’ve been feeling without knowing it. Thanks for that.

[@joshuarogue9345]

Man this video really represents how I feel as well, like this one hit home with me. I completely get where you are coming from, ironically I was trying to be a bard but I am only good at Lore lol. No acting, singing, or dancer skills lmao. On that note, glad you are leaning into the Bard role, as we need ppl who can actually play Bards well and not just LOUD Bards lol.

[@ojosdebambi]

this is why I also my go-to character is a bard, cus for a long long time I wanted a wizard or something, but it was not... translated well in real life, like, there are lots of theatrical effects I would have to use for it to be up to my satisfaction... and there's no budget for that... so, singing, poetry, talking with people, making people talk, story telling, be annoying, that's stuff I can do, and/or that can be a bit more than my usual quiet level-headed self in real life, being a bard I can be more free to be more, so to speak. it's fascinating to see how people come into their characters, like, it's the light bulb moment :D

[@demetrinight5924]

The way you have described changing characters based on shows you have watched reminds me of my Dungeons and Dragons characters or NPCS I have made running games. I can only imagine how expensive that would get if I had to make a costume for each character. I think that sort of thinking is better off in the paper and pencil world.

[@skjaldulfr]

What you're describing--character idea ADD--is an affliction I had as to videogames when I was kid. Whether it was Runescape, World of Warcraft, or Oblivion. All my friends got to really high levels, but I never did, because I kept being inspired to make different kinds of characters.

[@ArtemisDalmasca]

One Bard to another: Welcome to the band! I kinda realized a few years ago that i was a bard. I always wanted to act, but failing that, I learned to write, and can possibly sing. Just over a year ago, I started playing an ocarina, which i added to my kit. My problem is trying to figure out what to put together as an outfit. No matter what I make, I feel like its too... Much. I try making it simple, thinking about things rationally and giving each item a function, but it always feels like I have too much on my person.

[@TheSparda81]

Glad you are finding your niche in the world of larp and fantasy, kinsmen. I'll always remember Beryl and his kin fondly when I remember our days in the Schlosswald Garrison. God willing we'll be able to make more such memories in time. Skal, Vadurkin - Roryn.

[@sageandstone8977]

The lovely thing about being a bard is that you can explore any thing you want. Bards might not be rangers, but they can dress like one for "research" for a song or story. I have often fallen back on a version of what I might have been translated into a different world when I was feeling uncertain about a new game, or simply feeling somewhat vulnerable, and needing familiarity in an unfamiliar setting. They are wonderful "home base" characters from which to explore a world or system. It sounds like you might have come from the other end of this, but everyone needs a comfortable character they can return to, like a favorite set of kit, or a comfy pair of shoes that you know works no matter what else doesn't. And, yes, you look great. As a long time viewer, I have to say that you look comfortable, perhaps truly comfortable for the first time. Enjoy exploring the medieval version of yourself!

[@TheNerdyHomestead]

This really resonates, ive been working on a multi-use character for renfaire/larp/ttrpg and its taught me that swashbuckler/ranger/bard is my favorite combo

[@Hikertony88]

I felt the exact same way and it's great to see it put into words. Most games I use to be something like a barbarian or a ranger who's more focused on combat. Lately, as in the last year, I've been more into druids and still rangers, but more the nature lore and survival aspect. I love hiking, nature, and learning about the natural world as well as light bushcraft so those two just feel like, as you said, "me but somewhere else". In fact i just had a trip to the desert with friends where we did nature photography, observed plants, animals and geology, practiced primative fire making and slept in hammocks. A very druid-y, ranger-y few days

[@FairladyZ2005]

Very insightful. I don't LARP, but I cosplay. I've never done a "self insert" character before because nothing felt right. I'm always interested in being an actual character or something inspired by them. As an actor too, it's easy for me to be someone else. I've always wondered who "I" would be in a fantasy world though for like a renaissance faire or gaming campaign. Maybe I'm a bard at heart too. This video has given me something to think about. Thanks.

[@marcusfridh8489]

Do not think "who do i want to be, but who do i need to be."

[@danielhall5554]

It's often hard to find a character you connect with. I was 30+ before I found one, and I've been playing him for the last tweeellllve... years... Wow, time flies.

[@RebelliousSquirrel]

As someone just getting to the deeper waters of larping and character creation this is hugely helpful, because I was definitely thinking along the same lines of "well id obviously be this so I have to do something different to be interesting" so thanks for the bardic inspiration! And yes, the kit looks very good! I'll have to make a jacket like that!

[@ericmette9106]

Man I have struggled with this problem for years and you finally put it into words for me. I don't LARP. But I play a bevy of TTRPGS, Roleplaying video games, and love going to the local ren-faire but I'm never able to settle on one character for all the reasons you listed. Definitely taking your suggestion and going on a journey of self discovery.

[@SagelStrider]

As a long half-up-half-down haired, saber-trained, ex-dnd-edgelord, who used to room with 5 actor friends in PA, and also try to over-curate my Bard-Rogue semi-self-insert. I very much appreciate the insight to embrace yourself in your comfort character from an inside-out approach. I've always been at the core of my character, piloting them via justifications, but it's time to get comfortable embracing that I shouldn't need to justify wanting to be 'a me that was born in a fantasy world.'

[@coalcreekdefense8106]

Well, I can't say I fully understand, but I'm glad you trusted us enough to be honest. I actually suspected this might be the case when you were so interested in theater. Don't forget that your fans will always love and support you. And if you meet a nice dragon, don't be afraid to bring them to meet us!

[@jackori6685]

Well done Kramer. Your videos have always led you to this role. You have such a way of bringing us into your world. Enjoy your role as Bard Excellence!

[@Sock-Monster-Simian]

The outfit looks really good already, so I'm definitely excited to see where it goes. (I also just love bards.) The LARP meta-talk is always welcome, especially for learning about how to get into that kinda stuff.

[@ranuelthebard3751]

When I created my longest running character Ranuel the Bard over 20 years ago for a tabletop game I was frustrated by the fact that I had put a lot of thought into my last two characters and then was able to play them for only a short period of time for different reasons. I decided to just have fun with the next one and threw in a few things that I felt were the opposite of me to make it interesting. She was a LOT more outgoing and willing to take risks than I was. I made her much younger than me and focused on superficial things like fashion. It turned out that the longer I played her the more outgoing I became IRL and the more willing I became to try new things including taking more chances with fashion choices. She did me a lot of good in the decade or so that I ended up actively playing her. It worked though because by not putting a lot of thought into it at first the rest of her was essentially me with pointed ears.

[@_tomatty]

I SWEAR EVERY BARD SOMEHOW GETS TO THE CHARACTER WITH RED/CRIMSON AND OLIVE GREEN COMBO WITH LONG HAIR It's funny cuz i have seen like 4 people with similar outfits (olive tunic and crimson hood) and i have gotten to the same archetype, it's so cute and funny at the same time! You're an inspiration to me, Man! Saludos desde Chile🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱

[@vittorioballeriocastoldi6171]

Me, who never play larp before, but who plays tons upon tons of ttrpg. I mostly play the same stuff adapted for every setting and usually is just me. Monday i’m an hobbit from the shire adventuring for the elfs, Tuesday I’m werewolf philosopher in Siena immersed in the world of darkness, Friday i’m a Shugenja from the dragon clan in Rokugan and many more from past campaigns, from talking to Apollo and pissing off Hecate to investigate in the rokugan as a Yoriki. Just me, an hobbit, malkavian from the dragon clan. At the end of the day i’m a mad man with a box of books, playing around with stuff

[@Sylentmana]

I thought about this before for a D&D campaign where we played isekai versions of ourselves. It took me forever to figure it out because I had so many of the problems you did. I finally figured it out. A Battlemaster Fighter with a musket as my weapon. My reasoning is that I’m very direct and straightforward in my life, I’m familiar with firearms including black powder weapons, and I have military experience including wearing modern armor in combat. I’m also tall, broad, and fairly strong and I work in asset protection. Seemed like a good fit.

[@jargoggle]

Loved the vid. Sometimes the most compelling story decisions come from places you have unique experience in. You have a perspective that translates beautifully into a fantasy setting.

[@sirencalloftoys9162]

Late to the comments, but I can assure you, Bards are some of my favorite people at LARP. I can't sing or dance or play music - I am an enthusiastic audience. The system I play in lets people who are Bards use their performances to Renew their audience (lets them regain skills used in battles). And we tip, so the Bard can then pay to renew themselves. I work in the tavern at my game, and one of my fondest memories is of two bards sitting in the corner working on a song together - a song about one of the characters. We have amazing Bards that write songs about things that happened in the game, and then sing them. It's wonderful. I highly encourage you to bring that wonder and song to any game you go to. It will be appreciated by other players.

[@danboomhower43]

My first larp event was Summer 1989, and I'm mostly "retired" at this point. I'll go to the odd event every once in a blue moon, more to hang out with old friends around the campfire than to actually swing swords. But the Friends bit is what's important. And I'm guessing that when you go to larp events, you're primarily participating with the people closest to you in the game. I'd wager that those people will be supportive of your RP choices and character development. So I would suggest trying not to worry so much about choosing the "perfect" character. And just let yourself have fun. You're gonna be among friends. And if you're not among friends? Then you're in the wrong larp.

[@OwlskiTV]

This is accurate to how I feel too, albeit I never struggled with finding my identity/character. In the instances of RP/D&D I've done (albeit limited), I've always just been "myself". I am Owlski the Fighter, or Owlski the Ranger, Owlski the Bard, etc. Who I am is inherently me, but as if I was placed in that scenario/situation. Talking to others who I partied with, it seems they all take some part of who they are and apply it to their character in some way. I think it's integral into feeling and connecting with that character, as the interactions and behaviour of said character is more genuine. -------------------------- I often joke how I'd be terrible at heavy RP, cause if I ever built connections/friendships in said RP, I'd feel devastated if said friendship didn't continue to build/grow after RP was over (like it was all a lie, and thus feeling like I lost a friend). Me seeing someone as a friend in RP and getting along with them is (once again) genuinely and inherently me building a friendship with the character, even if the situations are fantasy or make believe.

[@charlessamson7668]

Well, that's funny, I am just starting a bard character because of almost all the same reasons. I did fencing (épée) for like 10 years, I play piano, bagpipes and recently tin whistle. I just ordered a rapier larp sword and a dagger for my off hand / tavern defense from villagers who are sick of my bagpipes. Happy shenanigans in your next adventures!

[@mitchelltravis1187]

I always recommend: ▪︎Lean into what you can't change ▪︎Change things that are a challenge, but not jarring if you slip ▪︎Build 'Stats Last', figure out what 'CoolDude' you wanna be first ▪︎Pick 3 Positive traits that define CoolDude (loyal, savvy, polite) ▪︎Pick 3 internal Challenges for your CoolDude, things that your character can struggle with, or be used against you (Paladin with alcoholism, Rogue that brags too much, Caster with literacy issues) ▪︎Write some stories, simple one offs instead of a linear block (One time i drank so much I passed out & got robbed, took me weeks to get my sigil back and everyone in town knew it was a child) ▪︎Build as you go, know the idea of CoolDude and make calls on the fly as they come up

[@Eindkaas]

Greetings and good travels Bard on a path to learn the crafts of the Ranger, from the Ranger watching you to learn the finesse of a Bard ;)

[@Valkanna.Nublet]

An addiction to making new characters, aka Altoholic.

[@Don-Scrima]

I’m going to Fayhaven this year and it makes me more comfortable I used this approach for my character. We’ll see how it goes!

[@cmpiepho]

Thank you for this incredibly insightful mini existential crisis I didn't know I needed to hear but am so grateful I did! I'm so happy you've found what works for you! The new kit looks great!

[@BluestoneGargoyle]

You're not alone. I, and a whole lot of others who LARP or SCA or other, have found "character drift" or changing characters a lot to be a ...fun problem. Finding the ONE character that fits you perfectly takes time and exploring other characters. I haven't found a LARP that will allow for the character I have found fits me perfectly. Still looking for a LARP or something where I can be that character.

[@WhisperingWisp357]

I could easily see you as a picaroon or musketeer type character, but that's only if the ruleset isn't conducive to bards. I'm glad you're able to get through this introspective journey on larping and come out with a truth about yourself. What you do is really cool and I hope your satisfaction with your journey continues and that your adventures never end.

[@marissabulso6439]

This video was both very dear and very helpful. Thank you, Kramer. ❤ I never realized it, but I have been held back by the same thing…afraid to embrace a character that is too much like me because criticism (real or perceived) can hit too close to home. Now that you’ve helped me realize that, it’s going to be so much easier to move past it. (And you look GREAT in your bard outfit!)

[@joshuawallen8112]

It is always good to see someone find their Class/Archetype. It might be the GM in me, but someone finding their thing like this gives me the fuzzies. Or that might be heart burn. Hm... Anyway. This Arcanist wishes you well on this quest. May your steel be ever sharp, and your voice ever clear.

[@Hazama27]

After all, a journey of self-discovery is a fantastic story element.

[@YepImThatGuy66]

Years ago I did civil war reenacting. As time went by I began to portray a confederate gen. Now when one is one the field and wearing wool and ex.. ex.. one gets heated fast. I decided to carry with me a copper cup at the events. It worked will with the ice and kept me on my feet. Someone asked one day.. "Did Gen. Morgan carry a copper cup like that round?" I said "I don't know, but it works for me." Your story made me remember this.. always allow for some room to move in your character and don't forget.. Have Fun. Peace

[@jeice13]

This is why i dontbuild characters (tabletop not larp) until i need them. Once its ready you want to try it

[@zephyreon4]

im glad to find another person with the same problem as me. im so good at making characters! ...as long as they're for other people

[@LobotomyPatient14]

Ive never been more intetested in a bard's tale than now. I wanna know Kramer the Bard.

[@AnotherDuck]

The more you talking about yourself wanting to be a bit of everything, the more I thought of the DnD Bard. And that's besides your acting skills. It's one of the most jack of all trades classes, along with the Cleric.

[@dawsonehlke1290]

You are the perfect casting for Will Treaty from Ranger’s Apprentice. You match his description and he’s a multi class ranger/bard. Also spends a lot of time with Vikings.

[@ChrisOToole89]

I do the same thing, my characters are just me as a wandering swordsman because that's what I'm interested in and I want to have a good time as my character. Love the new hair btw

[@j.nereim9055]

you are wearing the new kit with relaxed ease. For reasons I won't go into, the subject of this video could not have been better timed. Thanks.

[@michaelevans7464]

Not an actor or larper but I have a piece of advice to build on what you said. The way I approach a character like this would be to create a personality that is your idealized self. The who of the character. Name the character something that can work in different scenarios. Then you can adapt the backstory to create the past to get your character where you want to go in the particular larp world. I'm sure there where Vikings like yourself. But when it came time they would still pick up a sword and shield and go and fight. The idiealized part is the key. It's you. But a you that can be adapted to fit the world. What kind of past and influences would get you to the point your character is at. I hope I explained myself well enough. Love the content. Keep up the good work.

[@jenniferc2597]

I gotta say, you *inhabit* that outfit with so much more... soul? flair? depth? The other outfits were cool, but this one - sword and all - just seems so natural. Still looking forward to more ranger content of course, but I'm digging the bard. :)

[@Saber64]

I feel this. Its why I constantly bounce between Fighter and Paladin because I don't really know which of the two I fall into. On the fighter side, I've got the training and I'm always seeking to improve my swordsmanship. On the paladin side, the Oaths are a massive component of the class that I can't really pick just one and it frustrates me to no end.

[@gabrielpoch7935]

Finally! Kramer has come to redeem the bard class from Scanlan Shorthalt!

[@journeyman7189]

An excellent look at your thought process and self reflection. The rapier is a pretty badass weapon to boot. Perhaps a bard who has been wronged and is on a meticulous path of revenge. And tells the story about it and what he is going to do for the world to see. If only they new! Nate

[@Lillyluri]

I think this might be my favourite video of yours. I love the insight in the development that you allowed us / me here. I've come to see LARP quite strongly as an opportunity to grow as a person (not exclusively of course!!), and a learning opportunity in general. And you have spent so, so much more time going it, and showing how essentially your approach to role playing developed - was a wonderful story. Thank you. Also, don't worry that teenage you didn't have things figured out. Who had. You're supposed to go out there and learn by trial and error! I would be interested in hearing how playing a bard works for you. Personally, this is my second LARP season (and it might be that you had some influence in finally pushing me over the edge ;) ). And I actually didn't play my go-to default class. Instead, I took the easy way in and played... Something simple that didn't have to know how to do anything, but who could grow with me. What I'm observing is that she's collecting experiences, and that those experiences begin to shape her into someone who has world views that begin to differ from mine. Well of course, the world we are looking at is different as well. But it seems like simply by living, my character may just end up becoming more different from me over time. I'm not even sure what I think about that yet.

[@annapajak5116]

Listen you are good at creating different characters and great at encompassing and looking like those characters so just keep on doing what you're doing because you are loving it and enjoying it..

[@terradon852]

24:31 I think you look fantastic Kramer, really fits you well!

[@bionodroid547]

This is why human fighter is the best, u can be whatever u want or need and no one questions it. U can be into alchemy or be a part time entertainer or whatever, then when you’re in fights, u get to flex all your niche arms and armor lore u learned from hema

[@TylerFlynn-dp3xu]

I really liked this introspection! It makes a lot of sense to have those fears and anxieties even while LARPing. You’re so good at what you do though, there’s no way you won’t be a good bard. Your bard outfit looks great btw. Where did you get the jacket?