I Learned This From the Filipinos in the Philippines

[@golftrekker]

I am naturally a positive person, Filipinos bring out the best in me.

[@EasternDreamer615]

Same!

[@joneespino4457]

Sounds like you've figured out what living a life is. Its not about the things, its about people and relationships. Real Life is Simplicity.

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thank you so much Jon :)

[@marierocher4422]

With all these natural disasters, we try to make the most out of everyday life. We have high hopes too and continues what’s the best and with Gods guidance. Money is not everything. Humility, empathy and gratitude are most prominent in Filipinos.

[@EasternDreamer615]

I agree Marie :)

[@Resmith18SR]

It's perspective and maturity that allows one to not sweat the small stuff. I've found the same things you're describing about the culture and the people here in Mexico. There' are many Americans unhappy making $20 an hour and there are Mexicans here that are grateful to make $20 a day and be working to have shelter and put food on the table. The people in the Philippines and Mexico tend to have a better Work- Life balance than the other countries.

[@EasternDreamer615]

I completely agree! It's all about perspective.

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

The scariest preoccupation to a Westerner is running out of money. The scariest to Filipino is having no family.

[@EasternDreamer615]

💯

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

@@EasternDreamer615 also wherever a Filipino has lived their life is "the best, the only place they feel safe" including Tondo stilt shack squatters. That's the tribal mentality still at the core of their life. Even when it's totally living in dire cr@p, it's their family, tribe, vibe, & they don't want to be anywhere else, even when they want to improve their situation, it's where they are not where they travel to work. Why 90% of offshore Filipino workers end up returning to where they grew up).

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

@@EasternDreamer615 you've probably met already the classic returnee OFW- a lot of them become Barangay officials & up in the system. Most telling character trait is an air of pride & the admiration of others around them. The usual scenario is 15-25 years work away living in bunk rooms eating like peasants at best, 12 hour days, 6 day weeks, 6 weeks off every 2 years & a trip home. They often are the only home owners in a Barangay. Usually their English is good, the law being in English they easily get into admin positions with local government. The sacrifices are huge.

[@stevesilver7437]

The Barangay chief comes right to and welcome me to the Barangay every time I go to the Philippines 😊 he was a OFW and speaks English perfectly 😊

[@fenderbend3r]

So happy to hear this. The more i warch your videos, the more i see the glow on your face. You are also a blessing for filipinos. You probably just do not notice it. God bless

[@EasternDreamer615]

Wow, thank you :)

[@limtseho3540]

Another superb video, Alex! 👏👏👏

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thank you so much 😀

[@AZ_Bill]

Your thoughts remind me of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fu&k. It’s a great book in which the author advocates for focusing on what truly matters by giving fewer “fcks” about trivial issues and instead caring deeply about a select few important things.

[@EasternDreamer615]

That’s a great book!

[@AdoboJoeRetire]

Arriving in Dumaguete February 20th, can't wait to tell my story. 😂 It's probably going to be multiple parts but I learned so much when I lived there.

[@EasternDreamer615]

I'm so excited to hear your story!

[@1100_Rebels_PH]

Good thing, that you are so open-minded. Not to be taken for granted with expats

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thank you :)

[@RobertFredman-ld6kc]

You definitely spoke the truth brother

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thanks so much :)

[@relicofgold]

Nice video. Gratitude is important and happy to see another person exuding it. Making better decisions is an important and significant thing. "Manufactured urgency" of the USA is a drawback, a handicap. Patience for oneself? Gawd, if I could learn that my whole life would be different.

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thank you! :)

[@Nancy-k7l]

God Bless you for coming to those realizations ..hope Filipinos appreciate their culture more.. the philippines may not be as rich & developed as other nations , but there are certainly a lot of values that we can teach the world

[@kc64cl76]

You slowed down !!! Great pacing imo. Much better , not that you asked. Keep it up and thanks for the content. Empathy for ourselves and acceptance. I can relate to a lot of this. Keep keeping it real..

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thanks, I appreciate the feedback!

[@kevinpaulson-yb4cc]

You are more intuitive than I am for sure. As for rain...I've been soaked in less than a minute several times and all I can do is laugh at myself. I know I can't change it so I try to find the humor in the situation. Being happy is easier than being pissed and I always seek the path of least resistance for most everything in life.

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thank you so much Kevin :)

[@dannynicart2389]

For a Westerner considering retirement in Southeast Asia, particularly in the Philippines, it’s essential to embrace an open-minded approach and think creatively. Adjusting to life in the Philippines involves adapting to a variety of factors, including the climate-such as typhoons-along with the local culture, people, and cuisine. As a developing nation, the Philippines presents notable differences compared to one's country of origin. However, one significant advantage is the prevalence of English, which is widely spoken throughout the archipelago, helping to bridge any language gaps. Additionally, Filipinos are known for their warmth and hospitality, qualities that seem to be deeply ingrained in their culture.

[@EasternDreamer615]

I couldn't agree more! It's about being open to new experiences.

[@anthonynorris1016]

Kapwa....is the philippine word of the day...embrace the spirit of Kapwa..

[@EasternDreamer615]

Will do!

[@oscieestanislao5840]

Most of us Filipinos never bring out personal problems to work. We always work hard with a positive attitude. Money is always important to us but not become a hindrance to having a good time.

[@EasternDreamer615]

I absolutely agree :)

[@AdoboJoeRetire]

My first 6 months in Baguio was definitely an eye opener. Like you said, smiles, laughing and super nice to me for sure. I was like "Who are these people" and that's the moment I knew I'm going to live here permanently.

[@EasternDreamer615]

So awesome! I felt the same way.

[@mimisy9743]

Filipinos has a mentality of "at least" attitude. The job is hard but at least i have a job. My bag got snatched but at least im alive n not hurt. My house got burnt down but at least no one died. Its an attitude of seeing the glass half full. So we hardly complain. N if something bad happens, we move on n rebuilt life.

[@EasternDreamer615]

I agree Mimi :)

[@noone5014]

Life here in the Philippines is taking each day at a time.

[@EasternDreamer615]

Agreed :)

[@gerardpalmer4185]

Seems to me that you have acclimated to the Philippines successfully in a short amount of time.

[@chrisbunka]

I agree. The cheerfulness comes across in his videos.

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thank you both :)

[@douggilmore6355]

Looking good. New haircut. Beard trimmed. New shirt. If I noticed Im sure the women do too. LOL 👍

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thank you Doug :) New lady may convince me to shave the beard in the coming days.

[@jeffreyvlogofficial781]

why most of foreigner want thousand of dollar do they think that makes them happy then why philippines even lack of money are more happier than them ?? bcoz family really matter in filipinos even they dont have lack of money 😍😍😍

[@EasternDreamer615]

I absolutely agree Jeffrey!

[@jeffreyvlogofficial781]

@@EasternDreamer615 i know in other country they focus on work work work work just like a rat race keep on work until you die it is not correct you must give your safe a bit time to enjoy to unwind and stress free iam correct those things are not important anymore especially when you getting old

[@EasternDreamer615]

These are great points Jeffrey :)

[@tonybattaglio4625]

Im hearing you

[@EasternDreamer615]

Thank you Tony :)

[@Manila-sb3sn]

Have a great day.

[@EasternDreamer615]

You too :)

[@chrisbunka]

About things that we think are oh so important but are trivial in the long run: people years from now won’t care anyway because they have moved on to the next self-proclaimed “crisis”.

[@EasternDreamer615]

💯

[@RobertFredman-ld6kc]

We’re not going to hell because we made a mistake and who cares what the boss says

[@EasternDreamer615]

100%

[@atamaann]

IT IS SCAM VIDEO!!!! WHERE IS YOUR WHITE TSHIRT?!?!)))

[@EasternDreamer615]

Hahahaha

[@Busy_as_a_Bea]

Alex is probably wearing "The White Shirt" under the red one.

[@EasternDreamer615]

It's true Bea :)

[@jackschluckbier7051]

That’s the problem, you’re in Dumaguete lol

[@EasternDreamer615]

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