I left my marriage for two years but I went back to my husband and had to apologize and own up | LNN

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

How many of such women can swallow their pride, own up and be that courageous to tell such "FORBIDDEN " subject to the world? You can count. Lynn, this is a unique case told by an intentional, beautiful soul for many to learn and review their life. Disclaimer!!, my wife did exactly that albeit minus our kids and after two weeks, she realised her error of judgement. These things are in vogue in our society today but is never told. Leah is one of a kind. Leah, allow me to commend you for that move and remind you that you are so beautiful and authentic. You have taught many women out there that marriage indeed works if both parties put their efforts, purpose and intention to it. Marriage is so good guys, but its success must come from you not the other party. Leah came to her realisation that she had something to give in her marriage, interrogated her conscience and God revealed to her that this was the man that He purposed to her. A marriage with God's blessings can't fold. Guys, there is no pride or ego when it comes to marriage. Marriage brings in values and purpose then the rest falls into place. I also wish to remind us that the best and most successful marriage can manifest where and when both of you places your past aside and place your values to the table then agree on how, as a unit you can navigate and model life in the way you think best. What I am saying in simple terms is, outsiders will never help you build your marriage but destroy it. They weren't there when you met or when discussing and agreed on your trajectory. To that extent then, they are strangers to your marriage just as they are not part of your life journey or painful experiences. Leave 3rd parties out of your relationship and be nil or scanty in sharing anything about your partner and marriage in social media groups. Leah's story in respect of her father, is indeed sad and unfortunate. Leah, sorry for the childhood trauma you endured but God has it all positioned for you to your destiny. It is well. Men, when a relationship has failed, bringing another woman to your matrimonial bed is a big NO. There are several ways you can approach or handle your relationship without causing unnecessary bitterness or subjecting your children to such experience that Leah and many more go through. With the advent of alternative means of resolving differences like counseling, church etc, you can do it guys. AIDS, STDs, Traumas you inflict on the innocent children like Leah, and the shame that you alone go through among men, all these is unwarranted. It doesn't matter what anyone can say about women, but our mothers are awesome. Majority of women do a lot in terms of shaping humanity. Many women out there including my own mother are transformative to matters children welfare, albeit, away from public glare. Social media is exposing some stories of women power and how much they impact society at large. But the truth is, there are so many silent mothers like Leah's that have done wonders that never come to public gallery. We see other great women even here on Lynn's show. As we celebrate international women's day on Friday 8, 2024, I request all of Lynn's loyal fans to join me in Celebrating Leah's mother, Lynn the icon herself, and all women in the world for being wonderful mothers to all of us. I postmously celebrate my own mother for single handedly taking me to university through Busaa brewing, my wife for giving me 4 great men and women and my two daughters for making me feel the proudest and fulfilled father in the world. Happy international women's day to all.

[@irenewanjugu221]

Thankyou

[@stellahmarriswambuwah9919]

GOD BLESS YOU SIR🌹🙏🏾

[@josylinenjeru]

Thanks alot

[@beatricemathenge7500]

Excellent

[@susanwanguku]

Eeeeiiiish penned for every woman. Thankyou sir. God bless you

[@gracenjenga9053]

Lynn it's 22.50 as I write this. I didn't realize it was two hours and a half long. I'm an introvert and clearly resonate with her story. To be sincere, I was feeling like I was in a bottomless pit. I felt no one understood me and that my feelings were awkward. I held pain and confusion for as long as I can remember. I'm was very good at building blocks to prevent communication. I always related on the surface even with my own spouse,I always felt we were too close yet too far....I can write a book . But come the mid of Feb this year,I sought help. You have no idea how I felt when I was able to realize and analyze those patterns. I'm still walking this journey. And the most amazing thing has been self awareness and introspection. If you don't mind, I would love the April masterclass to continue learning more. Thank you for this authentic guest,Leah; for being vulnerable and sharing her story. Aki thanks Lynn.

[@alicemakochieng6147]

Leah, wow, so good to see you here. Leah and her family were our next-door neighbours in Tudor Mombasa, and I saw her parents get married and how their family started. Leah was an outgoing, lovely inquisitive child, and she loved coming to our house next door, and we'd carry her. Her Mom was a gem, and her father was a brilliant Accountant. He worked in KPA with my Dad, in different sections (our Dad was in Operations). We were sad to see how their family went. My Dad and all our siblings loved them. We remember when Leah's Mom came as a newlywed, after their wedding, from Nanyuki if I recall, with pomp and extended family. They were three sweet girls. Hugs and proud of you! Alice M. South Africa

[@authentically_you]

Thank you Alice. Its lovely to meet you once again

[@RuthBaetsiMbonani]

I really enjoyed the conversation but please stick to English

[@olgaanyokwu3555]

​@@RuthBaetsiMbonaniI enjoy Lyn's programme and guests. I'm South African & I don't understand the native language here, but I will not request or insist that they should record in English only. The are things in life that one can best say in their local language, the listener will have to catch up 😅❤

[@mariabaemedi3326]

I want to see Lynn's biological mother on that coach, she'd brought a gift to the world how she struggled to bring up this icon Lynn Ngugi.

[@Afrovazi]

Dear Lynn, the guest is right that you are a very authentic person even for us that have only met you on screen. These stories on marriage/relationships and womanhood are very eye opening. If only there was a subject at school on how to relate in society, family, marriage etc. I bet we would be very far as a society. My take home from Leah is, "when you see an opportunity, take it. God will bring you chances but it's upto you to go for it." Lynn, as you head to 1 million, which is around the corner, you have inspired us over and over to just get started on our dreams and keep showing up. I recently started out on KZbin, one day I will host you when you visit France 😊.

[@LynnNgugi]

Awwww❤❤❤ Thank you so much. Truly appreciate this:)

[@brigidawuor2125]

😊😊

[@stellakyongo3777]

​@@LynnNgugiHi Lynn! Bring Pastor Dr.Margaret Kenye to your show

[@morinekirong1832]

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[@morinekirong1832]

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[@Peninah-34]

Am a stay home mother of 3. Already separated and praying for restoration. Kindly vote for me to join the master class mentorship class in April. This story is an encouragement to me

[@mercyedith1383]

How do we vote for you?

[@angellaayebale]

Don't remove Prayer. It is from God that you will get ideas that will bring you peace and joy.... How do we vote for you?

[@alfredtech5218]

@@angellaayebale You Dont Pray and Expect Miracles to happen... as @kip1052 Said..Remove Prayers Use LOGIC To solve your problems ..Then You can Pray for it to stand

[@roselidahnyaberi6657]

Very encouragement. It touched me and made me think more of who iam and where i have come from

[@EichelTrocon]

go back to ur husband , no man will take a single mom of 3

[@thandekilenomthandazomhlon5515]

Thanks you stay blessed 🙌

[@haircrafthub]

Wow Lynn this interview is a blessing to me and I would really appreciate the coaching masterclass in this season in my life. Am literally stuck. I have been a stay at home mum for 12 years, learnt afew skills while at it and I now feel its time for a paradigm shift in my life. Kindly Lnn fans vote for me. Am Pauline ❤

[@evankya1955]

Lynn please bring her husband, we need to hear his story too. Who else wishes the same?

[@LynnNgugi]

Very soon❤

[@evankya1955]

Thank you so much.@@LynnNgugi

[@joisamedia1574]

I support

[@apionancylakareber4226]

I would suggest it should be his wish because some people are private with their lives.

[@Joyful-gu5bj]

Me too.

[@sophiakanja3315]

Lynn thank you for this guest. I was at the verge of quiting my marriage and this has opened a whole new chapter. I would really wish to be in her master class

[@Getty-x5s]

A kind request vote for me guys🙏 Sasa Lynn, I am absolutely interested in attending the mentorship class in April. Guys just briefly, I am a first born from a family not very far from what Gathigia has shared. Mine is even extreme to poverty and separation. I don't know the meaning of a family structure. I fear marriages.Servere traumas. I don't know myself yet. There is no day that has passed without me crying. I have developed something like a big stone inside my throat(heavy and painful).I have a routine I rush home to cry. Yes on a daily basis.Just caught the interview late due to being out of town in an area with shaky network. But i can't wait to join in and learn from her expertise. Please help.Thanks my people.

[@CateSiz]

Wooow this lady has changed my life completely so I was also depressed some months back yet no one noticed 😢

[@mwendwamarete1276]

Depression is real. I can reasonate with this lady. It's such a dark place to be. I agree with her that if you see your family or loved one taking seclusion, please reach out. For me, God got me out of depression through tears. To date, I grolify God. He is a healer.

[@margaretnjeri9964]

Amen,Amen🎉

[@jescarkainyu7366]

cecily mbarire is so kind and calm.she pick people's phones ata saa vile yeye ni governor.if you can one day invite her to this show. we need to appreciate her .me included.

[@evakarimi9693]

This was a masterpiece, I quit my marriage and I don't want to be out here alone and still confused about the things that made me quit to still there, I am confused. I would really like to be in the master class to learn because tbh I am drained. Thanks guys, kindly vote for me.

[@wanjikumunene1727]

Leah is wise beyond her years. This was one of the loveliest shows iv ever seen in a long time. She is brutally honest and the world needs more like her. Kudos to her and her family.

[@wambuicarter980]

Hey team Lynn, This has been an awesome conversion. The title doesn't quite express the gem that this guest is. Please bring her back because she's presented a lot in 2 hours. I believe that she covers topics across generations. 1. For the younger and generation that's growing up very entitled, she brings a beautiful story of resilience, determination and hard work. 2. To anyone who may have emotional issues, recognizing that mental health is key, depression is real, she can also talk on postpartum depression. 3. Transformational coaching!! I broke it down like that but will also reach out to the guest as well.

[@meshackyegon7143]

Abel Mutual,here again i have watched this episode with emotions, hajaanza jana the story started years ago.God is great Wamoyo, Mbarire and the rest

[@faithsonnie]

As a young person looking forward to marriage in the near future, there's a lot to learn. Insights from Leah: * Marriage works when both parties work towards it's betterment * Accept there's something wrong and then Work on yourself, focusing on your future, not stagnating in the past. *Conquer your fears. *The most that a person can tell you is a NO, you'll have done your part. * It's okay to make mistakes and move beyond them. * Apologize and mend the broken 💔 bridges even with no tied favours in return.

[@judynjerisilvanus6573]

Ongeza marriage is work, marriage is beautiful

[@rosengugi4150]

umesahau being hyper independent as a lady and instant gratification...

[@infopromocommunications]

a lot of masculine energy in women has brought marriages to its knees!!

[@Kiki_Karanja]

Leah I'm glad I call you my friend. Proud of you girlie...

[@annkariuki1108]

Aki kaschana unaniongelesha...you are younger than me ,but full of wisdom..keep imparting Us

[@charlesogeto3954]

Thanks

[@valeriedemba6623]

I know Leah at a personal level, such a strong, intelligent and beautiful lady. I'm so glad you chose your marriage. Thank you for inspiring us with your story. I came out with something.

[@JENFAHMUINDE]

Being a life coach is my calling. Please send me to this master class. What an amazing interview! ❤

[@joycewamuyu5660]

Finally I've heard someone talking of patterns which i realised recently was happening to me ...most of the things I've gone through sometimes silently, my mum also went through the same..from the choice of a husband and so much more but I'm glad that still subconsciously i was able to take myself out of a situation that crippled her life to a point she was not able to bounce back until date ...since then I'm taking everything in life very intentionally and making sure i have life conversations with my mum frequently to be able to make the right choices in face of adversity

[@RaymondKIMATHI]

Finally a story where the woman is accountable. @LynnNgugi share more of these stories and see if you can fix our country.

[@deotio2768]

Lynn for president 😅

[@TabithaWamara]

Truly need more of this

[@edwinmainye7488]

She is a virtuous wife and accountable to her flaws which she owned up like a woman

[@BusinessGuidesKenya]

VERY RARE..THIS ONE IS A GEM BROTHER

[@Lucy-x6r3e]

Sure

[@Celest.]

I love that our guest realized the cycle of wanting her to live a single life and decided to change the story💪💪👏👏

[@yvonnekwikiriza9107]

I love this new breed of women. ❤ Marriage is God ordained and can only function within those boundaries ❤

[@lillianndanu4843]

fact

[@charitymumbua4843]

I love how Lynn's guest understand the cycles in our lives. Jimmy gait talked about genealogical constitution and community constitution. Then Leah explains in detail how things keep on recurring in our lives because we don't deal with the root cause.

[@carolinekusimba8154]

Wow Hon Cecily Mutitu Mbarire is a blessing to so many people, this is one of the many tributes from people she's helped! May God continue to bless her and the work of her hands

[@DeeChahiru]

Hi Lynn. I am interested in the masterclass, pleases select me, guys, please vote for me. I love Leah, I connected with her in a previous Interview she did on NTV's Unscripted with Grace Msalame, and I wanted to really connect with her then but there no way of reaching her. Somehow I knew one day I would and I believe this is the perfect timing of the Lord. I really need transformation in my life, So Lynn, please select me.

[@MshauriPeter]

Very inspiring show today. The moment both parties in a relationship realise that apology and / or forgiveness is a virtue, the better. I believe that if 75% of women listening to this girl can take time to process the message deep down, many marriages at the verge of failure will make a complete turnaround paradigm shift. When stories are told by women who decide to be vulnerable like Leah, serious individuals listen using ears and hearts for the information to sink in for a better self. Each of Lynn's guests has a message that may impact each one of us differently. Let us not listen for the sake of it. I implore upon each of us to be taking these stories with the seriousness they deserve. Lynn spends so much time and financial resources to bring guests to this global platform. Its upto us to individually decide what to do with the message. Lynn, continue doing us proud.Someone somewhere is watching unknown to you. One day, you will get another global award on merit. We love you. I keep praying for you, for I know the sky is the limit for you.

[@elizabethmunene325]

God bless Leah and Lnn show team.Leah is such a blessed gem full of wisdom.She talks like a 45 year old,amazing vessel. I truly need a master class .

[@everlynemulumi2842]

Governor, wamuyu, Abel may the lord God increase yu guys

[@Doreenmistika04]

She’s very eloquent,Smart & made this interview not only inspiring but relatable ❤

[@JACKLINEMAHENGE]

I've come across Leah's story twice! At first you sat down with sowairina and it was amazing! I am glad you share it again with Lynn too! Your such a lovely soul Leah 🎉! To everyone who has lost their parents, may the peace of God comfort you'll! its such a painful experience someone can go through especially when their young 😭 But Thanks to God who turned your life around for his Glory! Lots of 💕💕 from Tanzania!!

[@katenjoki248]

I now get it, just felt that i have heard this story before but didnt know where exactly, thank you for reminding me

[@authentically_you]

Thank you

[@elisephafrancis687]

Overwhelmed . I understand you too well. I almost did a gravious mistake but I thank God i came back to my senses soonest

[@elizabethkoech2496]

This is awesome Lynn Marriage is sacred. I thank her for listening to the inner voice of God

[@miriamwangui3917]

Thanks so much to this woman... very strong to have delt with everything,,at some point I cried for her , especially the Way she explained about losing a mom and going through some things hardest way because of the same... about the hardship of persuing her degree ...but what broke me most is how she was all alone on her graduation 🎓 I really felt it ,,the marriage break up 😢was not good but how you connected to your failures makes me think that I also need to go back from my childhood and know what always makes me have anger issues ...I have really learnt alot ... thanks Leah ,,,thanks to Lynn for this show

[@monicawanjikuofficial5147]

A girl who cleared University like 10 years ago, looks like she has just turned 20- Her beauty is a gift from above. She is worth the admiration of everyone watching.

[@kuirairene9590]

Just watched this now, I reflected back my life and cried a lot. @Lynn kindly give that chance. I

[@roselidahnyaberi6657]

Me too. The Cycle !!!!!

[@marionkariuki7776]

I've really Loved Today's show and deeply connected with it. I have a series of childhood traumas, and as I was listening to todays guest I realized that there are cycles in my life that keep repeating themselves. She has really affirmed me to start working on my self and that masterclass would be a great place to start. Thank you Lynn for the good work!

[@roselidahnyaberi6657]

I felt like she has been talking about me.

[@damariswafula9864]

This conversation has really talked am in a state full of emotions trying to figure out things but not getting them... since I gave birth on August my world changed...my marriage is falling apart I would to connect with her...I would like to be part of her class... thanks Lynn for bringing such guests

[@allround8056]

May God cover through for you

[@faithnjuki7101]

Wow, what a story. I love how authentic humans speak to us and we hget to learn from their experiences so that we even discover of issues we could be dealing with subconsciously. I would appreciate that master class to work on issues, not to vent.

[@alexmusinde7517]

Her story has really touched me especially the KU school fees challenge. Am currently at Kenyatta University on a self sponsored program. The struggle is really, I was supposed to complete last Dec but I deferred one sem of which am now concluding by April. The worse of it is that my spouse has never been supportive for the whole 5 years I have been in KU. I dont have a formal employment, I have really strained to make ends meet for my family and my studies. She has really spoken to my heart....

[@janetwagura7639]

God i really pray that i would attend that master class and polish up on what the school of the holy spirit is doing in me.

[@AnnMathenge-mu3ib]

Amen

[@janekogi6442]

This is the best person i have listened to.she has educated me alot

[@rachaelkim843]

Am so so so happy to listen- in to Ms. Leah Gathigia......Lynne you have blest us in this episode..........Thanks for bringing in Ms. Leah Gathigia........She has blest me............and I would be glad to sit in her class and be transformed........She is beautiful in and out.....

[@Mwende25444]

Morning Lynn your grooming the singles for marriage am learning alot much ❤❤ macha represented

[@Follow.TruelightJC]

And Lynne you are looking absolutely Hot gal..asituogopeshe juu wa watoi walahi

[@martinjacobtv9864]

Here is me sincerely looking forward for the sponsorship, guys kindly votes for me and save a soul, my story is exactly like her story, God bless you abundantly,,,,,,

[@ayebazibwebabra5368]

Thank you dear Lynn for that wonderful host...the guest is so wise and authentic...Thank you to her lovely husband for allowing the transformation to happen...he allowed the story to make more impact....I'm on a journey to transform myself...wish I can connect to her to hold my hand...may this show keep growing

[@wanjirudigital]

Cycles that keep repeating am the worst victim for this , am Soo inspired by this show today , have watched her content on Instagram it's awesome, I would also like to nominate myself... Am ready.

[@roselidahnyaberi6657]

This caught me and im already regretting for the choices i made in life

[@Karisma187]

@@roselidahnyaberi6657don’t regret , be kind to yourself and think about how to change your patterns and make better decisions

[@maryriel_00]

Am interested in the mentorship. Such a great authentic woman narrating her story.

[@fridahkinoti18]

Leah is an intelligent woman, i first heard her story from Cele's channel. Here she is.

[@authentically_you]

Thank you

[@goretyotieno6596]

Change is painful but change is necessary. can't believe that when Lynn asked Leah who she wanted seated on that seat next, I was whispering in my spirit Caroline Mutoko and when she said her name my heart skipped with joy. Thank you for this story Leah, you are truly favored by God since childhood. His presence has always been with you till now that you are transforming lives. God knows I want to connect with you so much because Iam also in the process of transformation, been going strong and solo for a year now and I feel like I want a circle that really understands this process. Been through those days of locking myself in the room for days with no light, switching off my phone and not talking to people, but I am grateful that God lifted me and brought me to His light. I have found myself and I know where I am going but I really need to connect with you, and I would love the April masterclass to continue learning more.

[@PeerLinkInitiativeUganda]

Leah your experience at campus your education journey speaks to what most of us went through and what students go through. Thank you for accepting to be vulnerable with us. You need to mentor first year university students. I used to run a Get on Board with Campus Life Initiative, im going to revisit it snd revamp it with some tips from your story. Thank you for giving marriage a second chance, for accepting responsibility for wrong doing. Be blessed.

[@rhonahimbisa3965]

Leah has spoke to me directly I would really like to attend her coaching . Please vote for me

[@Moseskinyanjui-r8s]

She is very intelligent woman and Lynn keep up the good work

[@asenahirungu6657]

I have gone through Soo much and still going through Soo much,I have cried behind closed doors long enough and don't know how to get out of the mess I got myself in to,I feel stuck and like a zoombie ,I hope one day I will be bold enough just like Leah to talk about my life without fear of how people think about me,,,I really need the mentorship Lyn,,,I could be one of the lucky 5 people,kindly vote for me.

[@preciousgabu5394]

This woman's wisdom is on another level🎉

[@user-on8hn1xj9b]

This is the best topic I have ever heard ... The rest was about divorcing and not turning back at all but now God is restoring these marriages. Ladies should learn from this woman she made a good choice to go back to her marriage instead of moving up and down with men ...

[@estherwatheri5506]

Not all marriages are worth going back to.

[@joanshitawa8035]

Not every marriage can be salvaged. Each case is unique and different.

[@tumuhairweolive8970]

Most of those stories you are referring to were toxic relationships. Her case is different. Let's be kind to our friends who are facing tough situations

[@kirathekibilai9498]

At the very least this story preaches the right gospel. Wonderful

[@electrapo1184]

I love this one. She's got a cool head....and she's a go getter.

[@ayuma4747]

The story is encouraging and i would say your mother died before going in all those offices with prayers. May God bless all the prayerful mothers. Lynn gid bless you

[@pmuthoni]

This conversation is full of lessons: starting from consequences of sexual immorality (father), determination, resilience, hard work, paradigm shifts, personal growth, marriage, forgiveness. OMG , just loaded with lessons. Keep up the good work Gathigia. Thanks Lynn for always bringing us these lessons. We love you Lynn ❤❤❤❤

[@judithtwinomugisha8917]

That moment after burying your mother and you find yourselves alone in the house with your siblings,young ,confused, everybody has gone away........I remember that moment vividly clear after 20yrs as if it was yesterday.I feel you sis,I know that terrible feeling. Thanks to God who heals us from childhood traumas! You are a courageous woman may God continue blessing you. Thank you Lynn for such conversations they teach us alot.

[@after30showdudal]

Waah! have just realized i was in this girls wedding at Langata and till today i remember her decor which was maroon and baby pink. Bishop Doctor N{ dad in law} had invited us from Agape Madaraka. Waoh, this is amazing. Happy to know you went back. Blessings.

[@IsraelMose-oo2tj]

Thank you Lynn and Leah,haki leo,Waa! Lessons I would have spent millions of shillings to learn which I would not even afford ,you have sacrificed to bring me just like that? Haki,am just lifting you up to God to enable you open the eyes of the world and set God's people loose from captivity.

[@susankarimi7386]

I would love to be mentored by Leah. As a recent divorcee myself, and someone who has yet to deal with the trauma that comes with the journey of divorce and childhood trauma, I would appreciate the chance of transformation under Leah's guidance.

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Oh dear...May you find her

[@miriamopiyo788]

This show is always ordained. In every guest you can never miss an insight. I need to find myself. Interested in the master class

[@barbaratambo5820]

I have listened to this story with tears. Its like shes just narrating my story (her past marriage). I know I have issues i need to face and be transformed but i don't know how.

[@authentically_you]

You can transform

[@Skin4839]

Please go see her. That's the start. God luck

[@alicemuthoni3452]

Lynn is veeery authentic and the way her conversations flow aaaahh, brilliant 💕💕

[@callaghan2632]

Heey I would really love to be part of the master class, I am a 22 year old, in my final year in the university and in the journey of self awareness, please vote for me.

[@carolmuthike5105]

Leah I know her from kyeni girls ,a schoolmate wow so impactful for sure ❤❤❤

[@Wanjamburu.23]

Oh my God I can imagine the pain this guy went through that moment. Why did I underestimate this interview haki i ignored for sometime and the way it is sweet. She self figured herself

[@karreyimani]

This lady has changed my perception of life.

[@mbeticate]

Marriages are not the same

[@roselidahnyaberi6657]

She has impacted me postively

[@lebogangtseke9921]

I have an 8year old daughter .smart just like you.shes a blessing to me. she loves God.

[@Lilly-l5e]

This is inspiring. An amazing show. I'm trusting God for master class. I need to have a testimony soonest.

[@vivianbahati]

Its a second born thing i tell you. We are very strategic and goal oriented. May God bless all first borns. I love the guest she is very eloquent and a good story teller too.

[@mildredmmbone1693]

Last year i had panic attacks, i could not even breath i had to remind myself so many time's that i have to breath and no one understood me i tell you depression is real but God is faithful

[@angelawambo2011]

Same here but mine seem gone , buy chamomile tea to help your brain come down if u are not on meds .. and avoid caffeine and alcohol ..

[@gracemuasa6381]

For two days am on the same page relistening, thanks Lynn, I believe the show has spoken alot to me and I can relate alot with Leah. Thank you.

[@glslatifahnsubuga51]

We should learn to own up our mistakes and the consequences that come with it because choices have consequences.

[@ethansamuel5671]

That man is a saint.. i would never take back a woman who leaves me. if she goes she goes. but he is a better man.

[@thehutpropertymanagers-rea1758]

This girl is me… confidence opens doors

[@daphinekandagor9122]

Me too

[@Malimum]

This is eye opening. ❤❤❤. Thank you Lynn for bringing her to your show. I really need coaching, she spoke in a way that I really understood.

[@elizabethbutiko6608]

This is a real eye-opener. One of the best lessons learnt through your shows Lynn. Keep bringing us such. You save lives and situations/relationships with such shows. Be blessed.

[@EdnahKE]

This interview got me right right.....I would wish to join the Masterclass

[@shiqsbintiwilson9381]

I know leah and Steve for a long time ...we used to worship together...I love leah so much ....

[@zennahmtoto1867]

Kila ki2 kinawezekana mm nikiachana na mume wangu 2011 na nimerudi kurudiana naye 2023 September nashkuru akuwahi kuoa au kuzaa inje na sikuwahi kuolewaa Wala kuzaa nashuku Mungu snaa amerudisha ndoa yangu na tuko very happy na mtoi wetu coz tuliachana mtoi alikuwa na 2 year sahii Ako na 15year hii ni ushuhuda😘😘🥰

[@McNgotonie]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Yummy_mom32]

😂😂😂this is crazy

[@EllyKorir-bw4mh]

Ala!

[@patriciamumbi1529]

Very encouraging and a lesson to tame our pride& ego..Kindly Lynn can we hear the Man's story...it could be a game charger to the male side too..much love❤❤❤💐💐💐🌹

[@gracewairimu937]

I don’t think she had any pride or ego , she say things with her parents that needed healing before getting into a relationship. Chidhood traumas are real

[@EstherLipenga]

Thank you so much Leah, you have really impacted my life also......sending love from Malawi

[@francisn442]

When one leaves a marriage, even if there is a reconciliation later, there're things that can never be the same. The partner will never forget that you can just switch off and on the marriage at wish. To avoid getting hurt in an eventuality of a relapse, they can never give you their 'heart' again. They can still reinstate the physical commitment for the sake of the kids, but they'll still never regain from the emotional ambush. Sometimes, they'll be emotionally preparing for how to live without you, just in case you leave again. Sorry, this is not the perspective that many would wish to look at it from, but I could be speaking on behalf of many. In my opinion, I won't advocate for the gentleman to be pulled onto the podium. Don't pressure him to speak at this point. Healing from such a turmoil would be a journey. Just when he thought that his family was together, it broke. Just when he was trying to get to terms with the unpleasant outcome, reconciliation. I know sometimes he's not even sure whether he'll find her when he returns from work. There're fears and mistrusts that were unlocked, which he might never speak about, for fear of being seen or blamed as an impediment to reconciliation. The same fear would compel him to join in to an interview and state how he's happy with the progress. At some point, the lady felt ready to leave marriage, but was he ready? At some point, she felt ready for a reconciliation. Was he ready? At a stage, she felt ready to speak it out and share the lessons learnt. Is he ready, and what has he learnt? Maybe he's still trying to understand the breakup😅. I speak from a man's perspective. Please don't rush him. You might leave him emotionally confused and stranded; a passive audience in a theatre of marriage.

[@TheJoker-qn6vw]

If anything, it's the gentleman, who seems like a loser in this, for your partner to decide to just leave, even after saying those wedding vows, then come back when things out there get tough...is just taking advantage of someone's kindness. This situation reminds me of a partner who's caught cheating or involved in infidelity....yes, it may seem that he/she has forgiven you, but believe me, things will never be the same again, either they switch something off, of what they thought/felt of the partner, or they are slowly thinking of how to end the partner. This is where you have two people living in a household like strangers, smiling in public but complete strangers in the house, just roommates. But let this woman, know, once a guy knows that you can/will leave when things get tough, trust me, when things get really good on his side, he will return the favor, let her not deceive herself, that "all's well, they have forgiven each other and they have moved on." This is just the cold reality.

[@bellaolum9768]

God can restore broken marriages and this is proof. And he heals broken hearts 💔

[@sashamario7465]

Well put 👏

[@Jack.254]

In my opinion, she will never settle with him. She went out, found that it was tough then came back. Meaning she can still go out if she finds better deal. A woman who has emotionally detached from you will never value you. No matter what. The guy is a completely finished man.

[@TheJoker-qn6vw]

@@Jack.254 a finished man kabisa. And those are the ones the church likes...manipulated effimated men.

[@virginiamaina2079]

Am transformed by this conversation lynn thanks for bringing us this one..as a married woman I was writing notes...soo much to learn in one sitting...kindly vote for me...I badly need the master class.

[@evangelistgrace5278]

Childhood traumas are very real.. i am praying that I will overcome it very soon.. very inspiring story.. I come from a very dusfunction family too, unloving, dramatic family, i understand her very well.

[@stelakantai2062]

This is probably one of the best conversations in this show. You touched my heart! God continue to bless ya'll

[@carolinaibelia2387]

Therapists may not have gone through your experience but they're professional to handle different issues thanks for your openness

[@Theirmum]

Leah was my classmate in kyeni . So powerful

[@anastaciahomijah2918]

Waaauh Leah's story has changed my thinking as i have always played the good one and seeing mistakes even when there'nt.

[@Kasweetie_254]

Self healing is such an important part in our lives, we need to heal first so as we can help others heal too, an hurting soul is an hurting soul.