Expert Marriage Tips You Need to Hear! - How to Choose the Right Person for Marriage?

[@Nemat.akbari]

I married 1 months ago I met the my spouse 1 time and then 3 days later nikah done And we’re still 19 and 20 years old May Allah put barrakah in our marriage and other Muslims also And for one year i used to dua after my payers اللهم ارزقنی جلیسا صالحا O Allah grant me righteous companion

[@OwaisIdreesi-tz1jt]

@@Nemat.akbari Ma sha Allah

[@OwaisIdreesi-tz1jt]

@@Nemat.akbari Smart guy

[@joannabialkowska]

Do you love him or did you fall in love that fast?

[@Shazia-or2vl]

Allahumma Ameen

[@mohammedmiah7554]

@@joannabialkowskalove is something that comes as you know the person, the most important thing is shared values and commitment.

[@mechlion6270]

Best advice: pray two rakats istikhara; and Allah is the best planner (dont forget to do your dua as well ;))

[@jadonmuller1576]

brother i made istikhara and my feelings became negative. are feelings also an indicator of your istikhara?

[@MA-or5wn]

@@jadonmuller1576yes! It could be good/bad feelings or things not going or going well. If your not sure repeat istikhara until your solid about your decision.

[@MA-or5wn]

I recommend praying istikhara for any minor/major decisions to get Allah’s Baraka. If you can’t pray you could just say the prayer orally.

[@ersinemin]

Yes, definitely the direction your heart takes is the right one In sha Allah

[@heenakauser1753]

@@jadonmuller1576yes but stay normal and let the time decide for you. Since you have prayed istekhara Allah will definitely 💯 make the best way possible for you. Either in or out but in any case it will b better for you.

[@OneUmmahh170]

Certainly! Here are the key takeaways from the video: - [00:00] 🤔 Understanding oneself is crucial before seeking a spouse. - [03:37] 🚫 Marriage doesn't fix pre-existing bad habits. - [07:15] 💌 Dating doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. - [11:20] 🎯 Look for compatibility rather than perfection in a spouse. - [17:45] 💕 Love is important but not the sole basis for a successful marriage. - [21:50] 🤝 Premarital meetings should prioritize religious commitment and character. - [25:10] 📜 Guidelines for premarital meetings include involving families and avoiding seclusion. - [29:05] 🤔 Quick decisions about potential spouses are often made intuitively. Sure, here are the key takeaways from the chunk of text: - [04:35] 🤔 Choose a spouse based on both your heart and circumstances, not just feelings. - [11:45] 🙏 Seek family blessings for marriage, unless their criteria are fundamentally incompatible with yours. - [17:12] 🚭 Bad habits don't necessarily change after marriage; careful consideration is needed. - [26:50] 🎨 Getting to know someone before marriage is important, but too much familiarity can diminish attraction. - [32:18] 🍲 Sheikh Yasir Birjah enjoys cooking, specializing in soups and salads at home. - [39:25] 💡 Marriage advice: Focus on love, mercy, and flexibility; accept the journey with its ups and downs.

[@Medicolifeshorts]

Thanks a lot

[@OwaisIdreesi-tz1jt]

Again I was thinking and struggling with marriage consideration. And towards eternity make a video according to my thoughts 😅😅😅

[@sallahudin7544]

Me too ..bro

[@OwaisIdreesi-tz1jt]

@sallahudin7544 Ok let's help each other. Where are you from

[@boblashli7995]

subhanAllah! Here's the same way too🖐🏻 Allah has signs at the perfect of times, everything happens for a reason May Allah SWT guide us & make our way easy Insha'Allah & grant us with who we looking for & beautify them for us in the way he pleased with

[@OwaisIdreesi-tz1jt]

@boblashli7995 Yes dear it is the most important task of person's life. If we get a right partner according to the teachings of Islam then it would be more beneficial than a diamond or gold. May Allah give us Taufeeq to act upon on a right path

[@joannabialkowska]

@@boblashli7995 but how do we know that things happen for a reason and Allah guides us while everything is already kinda written down for us and God knows what we will do?

[@nurulsolehah6801]

masyAllah, this is one of the most detailed and comprehensive marriage advice videos i’ve ever found on the internet. i love how syeikh included the daleel from quran and hadith. it’s so enlightening masyAllah

[@trinitytotawheed]

Beautifully said. JazakAllahu khair for this

[@ryeofoatmeal]

omg engineering student who loves cooking!! 😂 very relatable bcos during my study, when I'm bored or stress, I would just cooking. my roommate even said I always see you in the kitchen, never anywhere else lol

[@Abdur-rahman-alhamdulillah]

This was a very good Q&A. Mashallah tabarakallah

[@KJ-zb6xw]

Alhamdulilah for this essential conversation. Jazakum Allahu Khayran Sheikh Yasser and Towards Eternity❤

[@jannahhussain1508]

I found this talk very helpful. May you continue your good work my brother. Ameen.

[@nurulsaliah_]

MasyaAllah. Ini sangat bermanfaat. Jazakallah Khayran.

[@ag135i]

Very useful and practical advice and tips given by the wise gentleman.

[@The_reminder-j3h]

Aisha reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, would fast until we said he will never break his fast, and he would not fast until we said he would never fast. I did not see the Prophet complete an entire month of fasting except for Ramadan, and I did not see him complete more voluntary fasts than in the month of Sha’ban. Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1969 Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi

[@Poiusdeen]

Beautifully said ❤ sheikh yasir May ALLAH bless him 🙌 ❤

[@hasby1256]

Barakallahu feek, very interesting video.

[@minminoppa4652]

I learned so much, thank you!

[@maj1636]

⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️We really need to start changing our words along with our mentality. Marriage SHOULD include everybody. Not only YOUNG men and women.

[@smilingsue4444]

This.

[@TasmiyaAfrin-b6t]

Best channel❤❤❤. I have learn a lot from here❤❤

[@OwaisIdreesi-tz1jt]

💯 @TasmiyaAfrin 👍-b6t 💯 💯 Agreed 👍💯👍

[@doukoure3468]

For me i would love to meet a revert, because if she left everything for Allah, that's a good sign. Hope to meet her and support her

[@josezighe8631]

Hey 👋🏾 am a revert but I don’t want to have children of my own

[@doukoure3468]

@josezighe8631 Salamu alykum, JazakAllah sister, wish you all the best in life as revert. I understand that everyone has their own choice, I respect that, for me having children is something deeply important and I want to be honest about that. I wouldn't feel right pretending otherwise. May Allah bless you with happiness and success.

[@josezighe8631]

@ thank you for your honesty. Best wishes. JazakhaAllah khair.

[@doukoure3468]

@@josezighe8631 JazakAllah khayr

[@jxk926]

Please don't get me wrong but I feel intimidated right after I read the thumnails like "what about the imperfect woman looking for the perfect one?" But then I remember "be the best version of you and have faith that Allah is the best planner" 😊

[@HuzaifaINTERTENMENT]

Nice to listen to your speech

[@IstigfarTahajjudDarudrMiracle]

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said, "When a Muslim prays for his brother in his absence, the angels say, 'Ameen, and may you have the same.'" (Sahih Muslim) Note: Praying for others is not only an act of kindness but a powerful way to invite Allah's blessings upon yourself. When you pray for someone, the angels pray for you in return. This beautiful cycle of prayer strengthens bonds, spreads peace, and brings mercy to both you and the one you pray for.

[@dawah_power]

Islam is a solution to all problems 😊

[@AbuRaihan-i9j]

thanks for Your advice ❤

[@maryamk.5733]

Thank you very much Sheikh ❤

[@kubratirgil5836]

Thank you❤❤

[@ibrahimgalal9136]

لقاء جميل شكرا ❤

[@AliRaza-no5mq]

Mashallah best topic I am waiting translate to urdu thank you brother ❤

[@Legacy_of_the_Dawn]

Amazing Podcast

[@other7128]

18:00 - hmm I don't know. I've only met ONE person who I've thought "almost perfect" - the imperfection? *He's not Muslim!* 😂 Maybe I'm misunderstanding, but I feel like the whole "analysis paralysis" does not relate to me - quite the contrary. I have given absolutely awful men (on Muslim matrimony sites) too many chances. I knew they were not a match from the beginning - my gut knew, but they were insistent so I gave them my time and energy. And honestly, I do not feel any desire to get married or have biological children. The problem is people around me keep pressuring me. "It's half your Deen. You must get married and have children" - but I am aromantic, asexual, I have anger management issues, avoidant personality, and I am very lost in life. I do not logically see how marriage is going to fix my issues. I just want Allah to guide me. Marriage (and all the pressures of it) just seems like it'll make things worse! I wish people in my family would understand. Also I should maybe find a Muslima therapist, idk

[@afyanamoyo]

MashaAllah TabarkAllah thank you Sheikh for sharing your outstanding wisdom and experience. Some may not have a family member to chaperone initial talks, can also ask a trusted community member & meet at the masjid or another good place as many times as you need inshaAllah.. Agree 100% it's KEY to have a 3rd person present then to protect from shaytan & add barakah from the very start. InshaAllah that helper will get a big reward too.

[@saadmohammadjakaria]

Maasha-allah ❤ Alhumdulillah it helps to change my psychology. Tabaraqa-Allah Towards Eternity ❤❤❤

[@KashanQureshi-e8v]

Marriage become more difficult nowadays

[@PureTawhid1707]

Marriage according to the sunnah is not rlly difficult but its rather people who make it difficult

[@KashanQureshi-e8v]

@PureTawhid1707 I am talking about society makes

[@SitiAisyah-es5ho]

Hope one of her is me 😉🥰🥰☺️May Allah find us the right that we prayed for🙏Ameen ya robal alamin.

[@yghani1]

What is the name of this learned Sheikh and does he have a web presence? thanks

[@frozankhojazada596]

How about getting married again after two previous marriages failure and your parents don’t want u to get married again, and your really want to be married in order to be protected from fitna and your parents don’t understand that and still wants u to be single bcz two of your marriages failed, what should a person do at this situation?

[@arynbwr]

Sheikh, you mentioned the emotions and circumstances. If the emotions were there but the circumstances were not should people still get married based on the thought that Allah will provide like in Surah An-Nur? Thank you for your help and guidance

[@BeleniYara-ow2zq]

If can't find a partner you want from your ethnic group, just go look love from other ethnic groups Life is too short don't marry someone you don't love just because he/she is sharing the same culture,language with you etc

[@mohammedmiah7554]

Life is too short to marry for your whims and desires.

[@Maya_.._]

Assalamu alikum ❤

[@HabeebUnnisa-h8g]

Please dear Muslim friends read this 👇 SubhanAllah 3× Alhamdulillah 3× Lailahaillallah 3× Allah hu akbar 3× Sal-lallahu Ala Muhammad sal-lallahu Alaihi wa sallam 3× Jazak Allah Khair 😊 Allah bless you all 🤲 📌 pin please

[@johntravis7304]

Question: My family is Pakistani. ALL other things equal, if they are against me marrying Muslim from other country like Indonesia/Arabia, how should I approach this situation? salam laykum.

[@isaacshakoor]

"All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a White has no superiority over a Black nor a Black has any superiority over a White except by piety and good action." - muhammad SAW

[@AsmauAbdulNasir]

@@isaacshakoorsure 👍🏽

[@comsianmz182]

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[@HoneyKrisp69]

What if I want 4 wives

[@ABDULRHEEM-kr1kr]

Convey message of Islam to all people of the world and to everyone who will come also convey message of Islam to all world leaders.............

[@riseyourvibration9669]

I was shocked to learn that Muslims have a real nikah for engagement! They actually get married at the masjid first so they can continue dating in a halal way. Then, if they decide they’re the right match, they go to city hall to make it official. Wow! Anybody here knew about that?

[@seddjel5926]

Not exactly what you are saying, but.. ur close .. yeah

[@user-sx9hq7qwert]

We talk to each other too much so we r not satisfied? This is extremely dangerous thinking. It can normalize abuse, whether physical, sexual, verbal, or whatever. By talking to each other, we find out that some things r NOT good or healthy. "Just bc tigers eat meat does NOT mean I have to be dinner." N we need to see the meat-eaters n predators clearly so we can avoid them. Talking to each other is a key part of avoidance: what we don't know can destroy us.

[@Geniuschad]

First😂

[@Yemenia-girl3noteverythingokay]

والله العظيم ماكتبت هاذا المناشده الا من الجوع والفقر ياعالم حسو فينا سِالُتكِ بّالُلُُه انَ تْنَقًذَنَا قًبّلُ انَ نَمٌوَتْ مٌنَ شِدِتْ الُجْوَع انَتٌْخيَكِ انَيَ دٌِخلُةِ ْعلُى الُلُُه تْمٌ ْعلُيَكِ انَيَ فَيَ وَجُْهك انَـيَ اخـتْكِ انَـيَ اتْرَجْـاكِ اتْـوَسِـلُ الُـيَـكِ انَـقًـذَنَا لُـوَجُْـه الُـلُُـه. يَــشِــُهدِ الُــلُــُه يَاٌخـيَ انَ مٌنَ الُــصّــبّاحُ حُـتْا الُـانَ يَــحُــرَمٌ ْعـــلُيَـنَـا الاكل غير الماء ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' My brother, my first words are: I swear to God that I will not lie to you or deceive you. I am a Yemeni girl displaced from the war. My family and I live in a rented house in Al-Shahrab 20,000 Yemenis among us, and now we owe 60,000 for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of the people who does not have mercy, by God, my brother. He comes every day, insulting us, talking about us, and moving from the house to the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. The neighbors saw us crying and came back.They came back to talk to the neighbors and we were given the weekend. So we made him swear by God. He will take us out into the street. Have mercy on him and us. Our country is due to this war and we do not find food for our day, and my brothers and I live in a difficult life. Our father died, may God have mercy on him, and we have no one in this world who was with us in these harsh circumstances. My younger brothers went out into the street and saw...The neighbors eat and stand at their door in order to give them bread even if they break it. By God, to whom belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth, they closed the door and expelled them and came back crying. They are dying of hunger. No one has mercy on them and a holiday is returned. I have made a living, and now if one of us helps us with a kilo of flour, I swear to God, I am dying of hunger. My brother, I am an alien to God. Then, I ask you to help me for the sake of God. I ask you, by God, to love goodness and to help me, even if you can, by messaging me on WhatsApp.On this number 00967711500090 and ask for the name of my card and send it and do not be late and may God reward you with all the best, my brothers Sagar, see how they are and help us and save us before they throw us out in the street, you will be lost or we will die of hunger. My family and I ask you, by God, if you are able to help us, do not be late and may God reward you we π~ππ& ;;&☪π~>π>π💔😭😭π~^~°😭^

[@omarbouyafar]

👍👍

[@Bhhi45gthd]

Defoi je me demande si allah existe réellement pourquoi ma til pas aider à trouver l'amour j'aimais une fille su fond de mon ceour jetait amoureux sauf que sa a pas marcher jetait trop timide est j'ai pas réussi la deuxième pareille maintenant que le lycée est finit comment je vajt faire pour trouver alors que je sort pas beaucoup j'ai pas trop d'amis pas de famille je suis timide je travaille que avec des hommes c'est pas facile pourquoi allah ma pas aider il m'a laisser comme ça en sachant que tout mon entourage à déjà trouver l'amour tous tous sauf moi je croit je suis maudit ou j'ai pas de chance je pense plutôt que j'ai pas de chance!

[@Hududuudu]

Ne perds pas espoir. Allah sait ce qui est bon pour toi et Il te donnera ce qui te convient au bon moment. Garde confiance en Son destin, sois patient et continue d'améliorer ton cœur et ta foi. Ce qui est écrit pour toi viendra, in sha Allah.

[@Cholobio]

life isn't all about love, try to love Allah only. People will leave at one time when only He will stay and give you guidance. Indeed Allah is the best Planner

[@yasinoncel]

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[@mozydiaz8296]

what is the connection between video games and bad habits? it's like the shortcuts we took 20 years ago when a bunch of boomers didn't understand what they were seeing, a bunch of boomers who when they were young in the 70s and 80s were also seen as irresponsible and worthless because of the trends of the time, there's nothing wrong with video games as long as you play one to two hours a day and don't spend all your time on them. Also for me the most important thing in marriage is respect.

[@PureTawhid1707]

gaming addictions exist

[@mozydiaz8296]

@@PureTawhid1707 Of course it exists and like all excesses it is bad, excess of food, excess of speed, excess of power, but the image at the beginning of the video just describes the existence of video games as bad by putting it next to that of cigarettes while smoking is 1000x more harmful to health even if you only smoke a quarter of a cigarette a day! It must be said that in our countries we still have this aging mentality that video games are only bad while in other countries it has become a completely normal medium and present in everyone's life. Which is better between a man who is at home in front of his console and with his family or another who hangs around outside and whose gaze does not stop being carried by pretty girls who pass by him.

[@rxspr]

@@mozydiaz8296i personally don’t find the problem with the video game itself but the culture that is built around it. i see these men spending at least 3 hrs a day playing games and they barely spend an hour with the Quran, they know the names of 1000 games but barely know the names of Allah, they cuss and swear while playing the game but don’t use their tongue to spread a good word to other people. All that and the fact that some games create this subconscious unrealistic standard for women’s bodies and normalizing drugs and alchohol. That is the problem. You don’t see this effect for people who are addicted to playing a physical sport or board games.

[@observationsofayogi]

This genuinely looks like the religion of the nerds I have to say, lol

[@pearleunjoo5439]

Guys, why did you invite this man? This is not right. He did so many wrong things to his clients (I won't go into details). May Allah forgive us. There are so many people that you all could invite, yet you choose to bring this man. I'm loosing trust in you.

[@afyanamoyo]

For me, I have only benefitted and seen good from Sh Yasir. May Allah bless him and increase him and his family even further & help us all to deal with any issues in the best of ways Allahummah ameen.

[@pearleunjoo5439]

@afyanamoyo Search "Sh Yasir hypocrisy" & you'll know

[@minminoppa4652]

Well perhaps you should go into details? 😅 You‘re accusing the team saying they invited a bad person, but shouldn‘t you also share the reason? I never saw him before Will all due respect, right now you’re only looking like a hater 😅

[@KM-gi3mc]

Chill. He’s giving good advice.

[@zahoorsheikh6560]

We have look what he is saying despite what he has been in life , everybody has ups & downs in life

[@kubratirgil5836]

Thank you❤❤