I lost my marriage because I could not give birth_ Infertility Struggles - Irene Wambua

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32-year-old Irene Wambua was married for 11 years before her marriage came to a sudden halt because she could not conceive. After numerous tests, she realized she was suffering from fibroids, blocked fallopian tubes, ovarian cyst, and severe endometriosis. Irene eventually lost her uterus this year.
She's been in and out of hospitals for the better part, even becoming a victim of medical negligence. Medical bills have of course stretched her finances to the limit but she's determined to push through.
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32-year-old Irene Wambua was married for 11 years before her marriage came to a sudden halt because she could not conceive. After numerous tests, she realized she was suffering from fibroids, blocked fallopian tubes, ovarian cyst, and severe endometriosis. Irene eventually lost her uterus this year. She's been in and out of hospitals for the better part, even becoming a victim of medical negligence. Medical bills have of course stretched her finances to the limit but she's determined to push through. Kindly support her emotionally and financially if you can. Her WhatsApp and Mpesa number is [phone]

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

Justus your channel is the best because you accord your guests total control of their story uninterrupted. This is the kind of quality guest hosting expected of such inspirational yet painful stories. Keep it up man👏👏

[@jaiyaalexandra144]

Her story is sad, co-habiting is a "No", no man will respect you if you act like a wife but you aren't. She keeps saying "my husband", but he was abusive and they were never married.She needs to love herself, people also like using God's name for their own purpose. We need to seek God's will above our own . She was delusional in so many ways. Did she expect her sister not to ask her to leave? I went through a símiliar thing, I was younger but I learnt my lesson and stopped obsessing over a human-being. She needs counseling, her issues were exposed by infertility.

[@angelnokosjourney]

I THOUGHT I HAVE PROBLEMS but this is just something else i can't carry😭😭😭😭😭GOD HAVE MERCY

[@georginaopati9587]

One thing I know ... I was poor but God made me to become rich through prayers . Your time is coming my dear and you will be testifying like I do.

[@tricksandbits9185]

Am hurt 🥺 and am ashamed being a man. Hearing the pain and pleasure you went through I can only say am so sorry. You're a good beautiful loyal woman. Pole Sana sana. I wish I would meet you . Listening from Sweden. All will be well.

[@KB_ventures]

The problem. With our men is that most don't stand with you when you have a complication. But women are expected to stick by them to through any challenges.

[@BeyondHighLife]

My heavenly Father I thank you for am a single mother, meaning am a mother, am sorry for the times I complained I was raising her alone, I conceived with so much ease, I gave birth the natural way, thank you God When you hear such stories you realise what you have been taking for granted is a prayer to someone like Irene, hugs mami, I can't say I understand your pain but one thing I know is our God isn't limited to uterus He is still able to fulfill your desires

[@valerievinaywa8634]

Your story reminds me of being grateful for what I have and to be contented

[@rebeccahabunga9949]

Never blame yourself for something you can't control. You are worthy

[@kbm241]

I love how she speaks, she is so eloquent.

[@alupoakol7731]

This lady still needs councillor ,she is not yet healed

[@sdachurchvideos]

Irene you represent resilience, hope and every good thing there is about life. So charming and energetic despite what you've gone through. Just love your personality. May everything work out for you 🙏

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Genuine and adorable

[@esthernakathingo610]

Irene I'm soo sorry for your pain. Myself I sufferer PCOS and infertility is one of the biggest challenge I'm facing. I'm not married. But after spending soo much money on doctors with no positive results and an unfaithful partner putting my health on high risks, I decided to walk out of the relationship, love and value myself more. I stopped focusing on having a child. For now I'm just leaving life and taking each day as it comes. Irene just love yourself and live life.

[@puritykawira56]

This is me right now bt I still have hopes😢

[@catherinehamilton4099]

Hugs. Kenyan nurses don’t know compassion. It’s easy shot of morphine. In the USA we nurses understand compassion and empathy. It’s imbedded in us. We hear pain we stop all else to attend to it. We stay ahead of the pain. I have children that once stole my peace and joy. And like you I had no peace no joy. I started praying for peace and little joy. So I understand that part. Here me out. I have 2 adopted children and 2 biological. To me they are all mine no exceptions no favorism. They are all mine and I defend them all equally. You can adopt and that child becomes yours because your all they have. When they tell their friends of you, they call you mom they speak highly of you they are happy when you show up they are yours you are all they have. They become cousins, they hold your hand. They tell you secrets and little things that make you a mother.

[@jackylifestyle]

I lost all my two Fallopian tubes to ectopic pregnancy 🤰🏼 but am believing God will bless me one 🥺🥺🥺🙏🏔🏔🏔

[@hellenwanjiku7500]

My sister also lost her fallopian tube at 26 right now she have a beautiful girl, she went through ivf do not give up.

[@Daisy-mm5wv]

@jackline Impossible is NOTHING to ELOHIM ALMIGHTY!!! He had heard your prayers

[@rosekhavetsa6521]

Amen Amen may you come back with a testimony

[@marthangoki6009]

​@@hellenwanjiku7500.....how much is IVF cost Hellenwanjiku

[@mkt872]

Here, lost in Feb, conceived in March. Trust in God more

[@ladydee5573]

I'm going through infertility problem right now...bt irine she has gone through a lot...,May our good Lord remember us

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

It shall be well

[@angelakrautkremer7913]

Doreen, the God who heard Hannah, Elizabeth and Sarah will hear you. He heard me, believe Him and he will surprise you.

[@ednawalubengo4205]

Amen.

[@gracegrace4164]

i used to be very emotional after my uterus was removed. i will cry a lot over nothing at all. they also left my right ovary. i had to fight depression and i thank God for giving me inner joy. and the pain just after theatre like you mentioned is so unbearable...i felt better after a shot of pethidine. struggled pethidine addiction after being discharged from the hospital...couldn't sleep for the longest of time......my dear...i understand some of the things you went through...its not easy at all

[@njeri1995]

“Just adopt a child “ The worst thing you can say to someone suffering from infertility.

[@betty541]

Yes! Please say it louder for those in the back!

[@ellenzodwa536]

She is such a good story teller.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Thanks you Irene. Such a strong lady. Send some love to Irene... Kindly support her financially as well. Her WhatsApp and Mpesa number is [phone]

[@angelnokosjourney]

😭😭😭😭Yah neh🤔life is not a playground..... Your story grieve my soul.. May God comfort you. Sending you my prayers from SOUTH AFRICA🙏🙏❤️❤️

[@RUMIDZY]

Nice show Justus but please reconsider the "coming up" section. It is sooo long. Could do a teaser that's a third that length and it would still create great suspense.

[@ashleyzviitei]

You endured and survived a lot in your life. I empathise. I had a hysterectomy a month ago but I only had multiple fibroids and non of all the other complications that you had. I wish you well. Hold your head high for still trying to be a positive person.

[@lornafiliki7335]

🙆‍♂️ I feel the pain you have gone through Irene. Infertility journey is the worst in any woman. I have seen it all during this journey. We have been called names, we have been rejected by our own family members. My Infertility condition has messed my mother's brains because she has always looked up on me to see me with a baby but all in vain. Please people stop stop telling us to adopt.

[@sarahmichael2957]

Adoption is the only way my sis because even God can bless u with yours by seeing u helping the needy

[@tabbiemwas7478]

@@sarahmichael2957 not the only option.

[@sarahmichael2957]

Which is the the option my dear

[@angulaaagula5926]

What makes a woman to be proud of babies is to raise up the kids! In your old day your adapted be there to take care! Is not pain of giving birth! Some time you can give birth to your babies and lose own memory own minds adapt always the best

[@ceciliakalafa7755]

Hugs, keep faith alive

[@xoxomacx2539]

Irene you are very right about people who work in hospital and health facilities. My friend back in 1997 was asked to do a HIV test for a new job. Those days there was no much counselling before or after test. When she went for the results they threw the paper at her. She looked and saw it said positive. She was shocked and asked them what does this mean? The lady at reception shouted at her and told her YOU HAVE HIV. my poor friend had to travel back to work as it was lunch time. She said till today she doesn’t know how she was not hit by a bus.

[@betty541]

I had a horrible experience in Nairobi Hospital of all places..and that HSG was actually conducted by women. My ultrasound guy was not very nice either..so...i guess it's common for some medics to be asses to women who are stuggling, as if they have not been through enough.

[@Kruzanzinza]

I have had my own fertility journey but Irene you are so brave, strong and I loved your authentic and eloquent way you shared your story. May you always feel God's love that you so much deserve

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Right. She deserves the best

[@Kruzanzinza]

Yes she does, I don't think I could go through half of what she has and live to tell the story...

[@lynlassiter5033]

" Shared Moments with Justus " I cried uncontrollable tears. Asante sana for sharing a powerful story. Honestly, how do we offer our help whenever we are touched with some stories? My heart goes for my fellow woman.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Hi @Lyn Lassiter much appreciated. In deed Irene needs support emotionally as well as financially. You can reach her on WhatsApp or send her something on [phone] (Irene Wambua)

[@lynlassiter5033]

@@SharedMomentswithJustus Asante sana.

[@lilyrutstrom3439]

Healing is your portion Irene. Everything is possible with God

[@xoxomacx2539]

It’s very sad through all of this no one suggested harvesting your eggs for possible embryos. This is a service that is available. Doctors should have advised you correctly.

[@momentswithvivien3302]

Irene am sorry you went through all this! You can still have your own babies if you still have one ovary! Don’t give up! May God help you and bring you a man who will love you truly❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

[@janicemacharia7847]

Did you watch till the end?

[@Faith-re2rh]

This lady is such a great storyteller .I sympathize with what you went through .May God turn your mourning into dancing

[@mskhumalo5118]

this story is so intense , so so sad . may God keep you strong , praying for you

[@vanessaedwards9065]

Oh Lord!! Irene Your story is very touching! MAY GOD STRENGTHEN YOU DEAR! AND GOD HAS YOUR FINAL DIAGNOSIS I BELIEVE A MIRACLE IS ABOUT TO UNFOLD WE SHALL STILL BE HERE TO GIVE GOD THE GLORY

[@kutesamanka5525]

When i heard what your dad said, i had to take off my gloves and type immediately. That was so insensitive, you literally kept most of the things to yourself and they still called you dramatic, even if someone has been dramatic as a child, when you hear that they are in hospital you should just try and see whats going on. My God. Btw your husband dint love you he should not have thrown you out like that of he did. Am so sorry for what you went through. Am watching this the second time

[@wanguikamau5428]

Irene, God has a greater purpose for your Life He has never left your side, time is a healer

[@saadiasheikh5744]

You went through a lot. Tanks you for sharing your are stories it will help a lot of people who go through the same thing. Love doesn’t harts he didn’t deserve you.

[@carolciku4863]

Irene, you're beautiful! Please concentrate on loving and taking care of thy sweet self. You're destined for greatness..

[@angelamuli4430]

Very beautiful eyes. The Lord will put a smile on your face a second time

[@gracewanjiru131]

Irene you are a very beautiful and courageous young lady. Your miracle is about to manifest. You are highly favored.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Amen

[@godsgal9640]

Good people, let's not just sympathize but help her out with the debts....I know how infertility can be expensive, just send her any amount you can afford.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Yes please. Thanks @Awuor Nyardaddy

[@sherrylawrencelewis2544]

How? I think that I might have found the correct lady but don't really know.

[@debbiethekenyan3274]

@@sherrylawrencelewis2544 check the first comment .her number is right there.

[@gracekariuki6688]

May God bless you Irene. You are a strong lady. For your family members, I wish they walked with you and understood your journey. You are an encouragement to many.

[@brendanyangure5350]

This is the second time am hearing ur story. And even though i have infertility issues atlist my uterus is intact i have something to thank God for coz there is still hope. May God give you the piece and joy you pray for.

[@euniceodera9484]

You are beautiful Irene and strong, and God has a purpose for your life. Hags dear.

[@tomlincoln4401]

Beautiful lady,God has super bright for you

[@dianaokinda8975]

God loves you my darling, your are not alone in this journey, love your self

[@ednawalubengo4205]

Hugs hugs hugs Irene,May Our Good Lord Be With You...

[@goddyrichie4185]

Very strong woman...Remain Strong Irene., all will be well.

[@wisdomlife]

Being sick and being in debt is the worst thing I have personally experienced!

[@njeri1995]

Irene, Thank you for sharing your story, I can’t believe you went through all this alone ,10 years is long time Dealing with infertility must’ve been exhausting ,I wish I could give you hug💕. most people will never understand the pain and fear ,even close family members .It’s like losing a baby you never had, so it’s okay to cry. You have Nothing to be ashamed of ,you are beautiful strong woman and you are not alone.Join infertility support groups you will be surprised.you still have 1 ovary ( with your eggs) remember that.

[@fionajill4311]

You have my support. God be with you

[@wisdomlife]

My prayer for you my sister, you have overcome quite a lot, hang in there, God has our path planned

[@obalimnwaedozie6760]

God is your strength @Irene

[@nancyethare7161]

You are a very strong woman, May God come through for you.

[@christinenuwasasira3670]

This woman is strong.... Wow God will keep you strong... Its good to look at the positive side.. for all you went through from no enough blood etc..u could have lost life but God was faithful..

[@ruikaismail1985]

Dear irene this too shall pass and God got better plans for you never despair hny. You will be the happiest.

[@alexawren9758]

You are a strong woman.

[@zalwango73]

So touchy-feely story

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

Irene you are very bold, eloquent and purposed to impact many but still know that God has not forgotten you. He is not yet finished with you here on earth. I affirm you as I imagine what you are going through on the inside. Please consult God and hear His side of the story about you. He has the final say. We love you and pray that all shall be well in Jesus name.

[@aldamendes5024]

What a sad story! God’s great for those in need.

[@karungineisherreyes5101]

Oh dear Irene, I love you! Cyber hugs to you!

[@jeepkoech9450]

What a strong woman....I still believe Irene can still have babies of her own through surrogacy.with IVF everything is possible and I believe there is still hope for her with the other ovary.. Just love her,,hugs mummy 🌹

[@memorymalunga670]

Her uterus was removed. She can't carry a baby.

[@cornishtea32]

@@memorymalunga670 that's why she's mentioned surrogacy. They can harvest eggs from her other ovary then implanted into someone's else uterus though might be costly.

[@cathywaero6144]

Sending you lots of hugs Irene💜💜💜 You have been through so much pain but God is always faithful.... You are strong and very beautiful. May you experience peace and joy all the days of your life!!!

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Amen

[@joskyshams4758]

I'm going through a lot but through this testimony I feel encouraged. Hugs Irene 🤗

[@bobogitau5383]

Love is so stupid.....pole Sana Irene believe in God

[@user-ip9bw4lo9y]

Sending you lots and lots of love and blessings ❤ 💖

[@angelinemuriuki7384]

Such a heartbreaking experience...may God give you peace and strength to deal.

[@gertiestevens1929]

You are strong Irene and God loves you 💖

[@funtimeswithteachercaro2134]

Strong Woman! 👏👏👏

[@debbiethekenyan3274]

A beautiful lady with good story telling skills.God will make a way for you sister.its not yet over until its over.u will one day God will give you parmanent happiness.sorry for what you had to go through.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

So true

[@rooseijai2947]

May God always be with you girl be happy and all shall be well

[@boymom5918]

God will bless you 1000 times fold for your pain you will conceive in Jesus name

[@tabithakamau8075]

May God see you through..

[@gracemwangi9417]

Wao iam here.. You just an angel, a courageous girl... right to put back in order as you were. Wait upon God and he shall have mercy on you. The world is waiting for the sons and daughters of God to be revealed and manifest the glory of God. You will be a living testimony wambua.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

A living testimony 🙌

[@omareomari7806]

We all happy you live and well♥️👌

[@irenetoroitich6818]

Irene people, we're strong 💪 and loving ❤

[@rozabellkigotho2725]

Irene i love your dress.

[@mercykwame1436]

Irene you are so strong don't worry everything has reasons. One day you will see the wonders of God.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Amen

[@adelinebi6405]

Lady you are so beautiful and your coming on this earth is for a purpose. I can imagine what you went through, stay very strong and be blessed. PLEASE! please!! you can still have babies through adoption don't close that page, who will give you the joy of being a mother and crown you a queen. You were badly in love with someone who did not love you . He will regret one day for treating you badly. Love you.

[@sandrastapleton290]

God will Bless you at the right time. There women like you with the same problem and they have Babies. GOD WILL BLESS YOU FINANCIALLY.

[@angulaaagula5926]

They have babies not giving birth but adapted!we most appreciate what we have some woman has given birth and die after a while and left orphans kid hyymm

[@1on1withjune81]

Please consider counselling and adoption, you would be in great company with the likes of Caroline Mutoko who has given two kids the best mother they could wish for. There are babies from birth who need loving mums and you would make a good one

[@jamiemo6568]

Hugs🫂 .You are a strong queen🙏❤️

[@eunicekhamali7268]

Irene, you are a strong girl God will see you through.

[@lesngugi]

wow, Irene, believe it or not , despite all that you have gone through, you are a blessing, sharing your story has opened our eyes to soo much especially me, my late sister suffered from fibroids and I had no clue what she was going through but now thanks to you I have a much better idea , God is using you as a vessel for good and please don't give up, your blessings are on the way , remain hopeful and continue trusting , you are beautiful in more ways than anyone can see , thank you again and God bless

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

Well said

[@shareand_inspire]

I get touched by every story shared, but this story is just different form others. I was thinking the story line will change and end by saying you finally conceived. You're a wonderful story teller. May the grace of the almighty keep you strong my sister

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

You're right @ISHAYA ZACHARIAH This one was one he'll of a journey for Irene. But I love her determination, her cheerful spirit. She's a soul to behold

[@irinemose9995]

Am so sorry for this lady! l feel her somehow!

[@cynthiacammy8133]

May God comfort you

[@Krizadh]

This is so sad! May the LORD Hug you tightly

[@Krizadh]

Pole sana dear, you went through hell! Hugs to you

[@judeisuzu]

I feel your story and I pray God grant your heart desires.. This goes to anyone that will read this message, hapo kwa doctor was rude kidogo naona kuna twashwishwi Sometimes human being tuko na issue zetu wenyewe and we want to send that bad energy to people, when people send back the same energy to you you call them rude noo wayy People it’s time to check out ourselves fast before checking on others It’s time to deal with our own insecurities before judging people Don’t be too quick to judge maybe your the problem thanks..

[@ericmwanzia7054]

Lots of love and hugs

[@sochlill2825]

Pole Sana. If you have money in future consider surrogacy. I pray that you find peace in your heart

[@user-dt4tz9fg3e]

Ooooie Irene.So sorry 😞

[@sarahmichael2957]

The same story applied to m we are together BT God is there for has

[@atienoodera]

#Hugs# God Bless

[@graudianyambura9654]

Thankyou for sharing your story .You may not know what it has done.🥴

[@paulineandala2863]

Irene, don't give up yet. When you carry greatness, the enemy will come after you hard. We have Jesus. I haven't gone through what you have but when I put myself in your shoes, I imagine God has picked you up. Don't limit God, even when it seems like it is getting late, He is still on time. Big up Justus, your Chanel has really widened my perspective on life.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

You're right @Pauline Andalia He's never late. And thanks for the compliment

[@jaiyaalexandra144]

We also need to apply wisdom as children of God. She even called this man's wife a babymama. She was very delusional about the state of her relationship. We should seek God's will.

[@anniemimo3209]

Can't wait for New premiere of Shared Moments with Justus 8:00 PM EST. Gonna be lit 🔥

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

This is huge @Ann Wairimu Karibu sana we're just a few minutes away. Keep sharing the link

[@anniemimo3209]

@@SharedMomentswithJustus Asante Sana kwa invite me here 🤗❤️. Am very grateful for God 🙏 has done for me.

[@faithchileshe1076]

Hugs Irene

[@dearsister8473]

Hugs 🤗 dear

[@merrilybrave3256]

I feel your pain Irene , you can still have kids remember you can adopt it’s just a process to start adoption all shall be well with you

[@odoblackstar]

This story is soo painful, soo painful

[@sophianasiekukatampoi7824]

Would love to know how she's doing now

[@alicewanjiku8558]

waaaa i have cried