I Love When Girls Do This | Love Language Quiz

[@selinaa19]

Dr Mike: “i got dressed up, it’s a date, me and you” Me: **wearing pjs** “I’m sorry kind sir, I’m not ready-“

[@antoniaPrince]

I laughed when he said it cause I am in my PJs making breakfast

[@addie-eileenpaige6460]

I dressed for Valentine's Day (basically wearing a pink 💖 dress for Mass)

[@jessicavt3849]

🤣 me too

[@samanthakoch4958]

Sameeee I’m eating toast in my pajamas

[@arya-lq7pj]

i'm in pjs too but i'm heading to bed (bcs timezones) 👁️👄👁️ guess i'm gonna have a date with him in my dreams instead lol 😂

[@nickking5427]

Mom is happy I finally went on a date with a doctor. She doesn’t need to know all the details. Thanks Dr. Mike

[@SabiLewSounds]

lol!

[@hollybelle8247]

Nick King lol mikes got a fiance'e

[@johnjoshuanadela2564]

Yeah

[@johnjoshuanadela2564]

😂

[@aryasrivastava7015]

@@hollybelle8247 no he doesn’t

[@rafamesiano679]

wow imagine how good dr. mike’s hugs must be cause he’s like so tall

[@rukhsarshaikh3942]

😀😀

[@saphiro007]

I would love to get a Dr. Mike hug. He would probably feel and smell great!

[@A_Banananana]

Happy valentine's day

[@thecube844]

@@saphiro007 definately not creepy

[@adyaawasthi8648]

Totally

[@lindsay529]

Interesting topic about hugging patients. When I went to nursing school 17 years ago hugging patients was a big no no. I work as a memory care nurse now and it is encouraged at my work. Most people need and crave physical touch and it helps me to show my patients that I care for them . I love the smiles that I get when I give them a hug before they go to bed at night 🥰

[@annaandrea8320]

I am a European. We don't crave physical touch unless we are intimate with someone. I would never expect a nurse or a doctor to hug me, no matter how attractive they might be.

[@SauronsAccntnt]

@@annaandrea8320 It's interesting to consider cultural differences in touch, but there are plenty here in the US who would smack a doctor/caregiver who tried to hug them ha. I really think this has nothing to do with how attractive anyone is; especially for a professional. This original comment is coming from a memory care nurse, so she may be working w/ patients who suffer from a lot of confusion and emotional stress & perhaps for those people who *are* soothed by platonic physical contact then that's possibly therapeutic and comforting. Sometimes physical touch is just a pat on the shoulder, maybe it's a hug for someone who doesn't have family who visits, or you read the room and see that touch isn't the right move for someone. Best to you :)

[@jaspercandoit]

Same as a primary school teacher. It was a big no-no to touch children AT ALL when I qualified... but little children want to sit on your lap, they want to hold your hand and they want a hug when they're sad. Thankfully that rule was relaxed but I still have to worry that a parent will take a well-intentioned interaction as something sinister.

[@laceyjaye1262]

Thank you for what you do! I've worked in a few facilities (only as a dietary aide/in the kitchen & dining room) and at some places I felt like people were so clinical with the residents. These people who are nursing homes are PEOPLE, having physical contact is really important. Even just holding someone's hand while talking can make such a difference.

[@laceyjaye1262]

@@annaandrea8320 where did physical attraction come into it? It's human nature, maybe not a hug but to hold someone's hand or a touch on their shoulder. It shows that you acknowledge them and are listening and can provide comfort, especially in this person's post. It helps people feel connected.

[@jessicamcelroy7879]

Mike running through the pigeons, “YOU WANNA RUN WITH ME?!” His soul is part dog. No wonder he loves Bear so much 😂❤️

[@meagenfrazier]

I laughed so hard at that part!😂

[@monkeymunchie9717]

Lol!

[@khatkiat-ong464]

I'm still laughing😂😂

[@kaylaports4449]

I was about to put a comment like this than I read yours I’m like great someone beat me to it.

[@gracejames5430]

I was crying 😂😂😂😂😂

[@charlottevanlangevelde1114]

Let’s be honest, as long as bear is around no girl will ever stand a chance with this man..

[@wainyyy]

@@mohammedbim6626 wtf

[@apillow666]

@@wainyyy exactly

[@okikartika5830]

@@mohammedbim6626 remember sir.. we know Tinder is exist, so pls use that rather being a nuisance on KZbin

[@KelseyPotlock]

Bear is best date. And I'm okay with this *heart slowly breaks* :)

[@anika9648]

@Fredrik Larsson Thats funny

[@courtney6526]

“I’m getting old. I’m tired. I’m in my 30s. I like to just hang out.” I felt that.

[@ThoughtfulPotato]

Yeah... I was getting out of my chair just as he said that and my knee crackled like it always does... Man, it's rough!

[@ariannecolondiaz8706]

I felt that too and it's funny cause I'm not even in my 20s.

[@gracedunlap567]

If you read the 5 love languages book, it says that they way we receive and express love may be different. Which explains why you love giving but not receiving gifts. While science may not be able to prove this, I have to admit that by taking the time to pay attention to the things that make my partner feel loved has strengthened our relationship. It is a 2 way street though, if my efforts aren’t reciprocated, then our relationship begins to show strain. Does that make sense?

[@ashtonsymons4660]

Came here to find or make this comment. You need to read the book to get the full aspect and appreciation of it!

[@shadowforce4]

@@ashtonsymons4660 I also was looking to see if someone commented about receiving and expression could be different.

[@GovindSharma-vq5mj]

Sure, it makes total sense. Reciprocation is important. My relationship with someone only ended up getting stressful (eesspecially when I was near them) exactly because of this. After some time it just felt like they didnt even have any feelings left towards me. Like they stopped caring about what I was feeling and it was as if they were completely distant from me, yet wanted everything from my side.... And when i confronted them about this, well, i didnt even recieve an answer. So yeah, it just confirmed my doubts. Im out of that place now, so its ok.

[@wendyowusu1342]

I agree when efforts aren’t reciprocated then it’s usually stresses one person. I love to do a lot in relationships but when I free unappreciated then I leave

[@kaitlyn5177]

dr. mike: “it’s a date, me and you” me, single & eating chocolate: *heart explodes a lil bit :,)*

[@vidushiagrawal7202]

kaitlyn I love your profile picture 😂

[@kaitlyn5177]

@@vidushiagrawal7202 AW TY❤️

[@nadiashireensiddiqi]

Haha 😆

[@o.m9514]

me; experiencing sudden violent heart palpitations (and lowkey gagging)

[@supersonic7605]

u sure it aint the chocolate?

[@pumpkin2127]

Sorry ladies but I guess Mike will spend valentine with his true love: Bear.

[@Johnnyapleseedh]

😅

[@heavin.]

i initially gave this comment a thumbs down.... just because he loves bear more than me!!!!

[@catwoman7102]

That's what I was about to comment😂

[@sarahstorr]

Quite right too. Your dog won’t answer back! 🤣🤣

[@danielle6228]

I can share bear. For a little while.

[@justacasualwatcher]

Dr Mike's future wife is gonna need to have a serious conversation with Bear someday 😂

[@sallymiller8460]

Indeed

[@anissabelhoul8529]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sarahw6747]

Bear is the first love. Future wife will love Bear as much as Dr. Mike does. No one can compete with that adorable fluff-face puppers! 😍❤️

[@GloriaRodriguez-rm8gp]

She's gonna have to date Bear and then date Dr. Mike 😂

[@spiritualsandy]

Bear would be the first baby of the family- not a competition.

[@hollymerkur-dance1919]

I’ve actually found it’s pretty common to have people have 2 different love languages - their giving one and receiving one. For example, I show love through Acts of Service, but prefer to receive Quality Time. My husband shows love through Gifts, but prefers receiving Physical Touch. And even though none of those match up, understanding that about each other is the key to our success.

[@tashaeats3221]

After being married for 10 years, something as simple as taking out the trash is definitely meaningful 😆

[@glgl1472]

Yeah she can tell our dear Dr Mike has not either been in very many relationships or in one for very long cuz I agree taking out the trash cleaning the house those are very meaningful

[@tashaeats3221]

@@glgl1472 agreed 😆

[@nightfury4805]

😂😂😂🤣

[@eszterkovacs908]

Yes! I love when my partner takes me out

[@leonies.6211]

@@eszterkovacs908 underrated comment :D

[@r0ni3_]

"you wanna run with me?RUN WITH MEEEE!" this absolutely just killed me 😂😂

[@rigtjeh]

Haha saaame

[@SarahSmith-pf7wp]

SAME

[@sprihajain771]

Yaa that was so cute! It was like my little cousins screaming at a park! 😭

[@brittanyd3173]

Did he reference “Netflix and chill” as literally chilling watching Netflix?

[@destroyer99612]

Same RUUNNNN WITHH MEEEEEEEEE

[@spreadem9159]

I’ve always been a firm believer that premarital squatting is a sin

[@DoctorMike]

LOL

[@sarahstorr]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Polihymnis]

The real Slav in Dr. Mike came to the surface. Choose wisely Dr. Mke who you squat with (you know, SquatTDs and stuff).

[@juliarunn5009]

🤣🤣🤣

[@shayknox1023]

💛😂😂😂😂

[@abbyjordan1300]

Dr. Mike: Hugs all the way! Me not having a hug in 12 years and wondering what a Mike hug feels like 😫

[@MLEWaller]

I know right I wonder how much a hug from Doctor Mike would cost the average person? Hell what’s the ticket for a response, can’t be that hard to choose. If you wanted to find the love of your life or your soul mate you have every analytical means to do so. So what why we wasting time ? I’m trying to do some … research but fr

[@catheryndodson4825]

"Don't hug your patients..." Dr. Mike "And I took that personally!" LOL My new fave Dr. Mike video!

[@tadejaskedelj2221]

I love this. We need a meme like this

[@jaydonbronstein4879]

@@tadejaskedelj2221 aggreeeeed

[@rubyblack4091]

"I'm in my thirties, I'm tired." Me at 14 never getting out of bed👁👄👁

[@andrewstell6648]

Relateble

[@gami_dami9364]

And having a crush on Dr. Mike like- 👁️👄👁️

[@instance3028]

@@gami_dami9364 tf

[@r_z_t_17]

@@gami_dami9364 i can relate completely

[@StarlightSkarlet10K]

I feel ya’

[@brittanywilliford5428]

“It’s a date. Me and you”. Me sitting on the toilet watching this 👁👄👁. Well this is awkward

[@tamara3724]

this cracked me up lmaoo

[@shenalyaajones2439]

SAMMMMMEEEE😭😭😭

[@Hydrogenelfin404]

@@tamara3724 *lol

[@franciscaarayarebolledo7776]

OMG ME TOO ahahhahhah

[@MimiMhair]

On the toilet as i speak

[@thefoxeshideaway]

If he was my doctor, I'd be so motivated, I'd never be unhealthy again. He's so funny! ❤

[@Moose2999]

Laughter is the best medicine

[@SkyBlueDevilsNest]

But if you were always healthy, how would you get in to see him? 🤔

[@alissan9377]

So basically what we learn in the first 3 minutes is that Doctor Mike is more into physical affection than verbal affection.

[@user-yr5mr7ob8n]

Actions speak louder than words

[@baconbits8375]

@@user-yr5mr7ob8n not always

[@W2CURPCOK]

I’m not mad about this 🤣🤣

[@Chaotic_Pixie]

And no one is complaining LoL

[@milajones4709]

I love that Dr. Mike is answering most of these questions in context of his relationship with Bear. ❤️

[@RBadie]

and weird too 😂

[@rebekah5429]

I'm pretty confident Bear's love language is quality time and touch too, perfect match with Dr. Mike.

[@lauran8968]

that's so friggin cute tbh

[@sayaligirnar5285]

Are we gonna ignore " Do you wanna run with me? Run with meeee". I am literally on floor, laughing.

[@applesauce1368]

It was cute 🥺

[@the_tomi_a]

OMG yes it was so funnyyyy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@taniskaborah4564]

🤣 🤣 Lol

[@darlenenacario4304]

Ikr I keep laughing about it 😂🤣

[@missmusicinmyheart]

that's a whole meme right there

[@alexistourand8058]

I took the quiz, and here are my results: 1. Words of Affirmation 33% 2. Acts of Service 27% 3. Quality Time 23% 4. Receiving Gifts 13% 5. Physical Touch 3% I'm not surprised that Words of Affirmation is the highest or that Physical Touch is the lowest (I don't react well to physical affection, in all honesty)

[@PetxoxoMyLife]

I was the exact same scores just in different orders lol

[@ravindri]

This is Dr Mike's Valentine's Day special.

[@keirahealy7082]

Yep looks like it I totally forgot it was Sunday so I don’t think dr mike is going to see or ❤️ my comment or get any likes on my comment but that’s normal you’re so lucky that you got a ❤️ from him!!! 😊😂👍🏼

[@dr.ayodhyaprasad7823]

Mike's hairstyle looks good in this video

[@keirahealy7082]

@@BruhLeaveMeAlonePleez I try every time!! If you find my comment you should like it 👍🏼 and respond to it I suggested something so I was hoping he would see it but I guess not

[@keirahealy7082]

@@dr.ayodhyaprasad7823 yep 👍🏼 his hair looks good 😌 in all his videos no matter what!!! 😂😊😌❤️

[@juliasmallwood4703]

REALLY?! A video about love on Valentine's Day is a Valentine's Day special?!

[@debcat539]

When my late husband and I were married, I craved physical touch (hugs& kisses) but he came from a family who weren't demonstrative. He was always doing acts of service, and it took me awhile to understand that that was his way of showing love. I miss him. We were married almost 35 years, and he died 8 years ago...

[@juliabrodin2686]

❤️

[@nikkiscorel9753]

My condolences about your husband ❤️

[@kitsune747]

Well rip

[@gracemcclean3940]

I’m sorry for your loss

[@evynnhood4961]

I’m sorry for your loss ♥️♥️♥️😔😔

[@fredmiriam313]

About hugging a patient: I had a physical therapist once, he tried very hard to take away the issues I had in my neck. After 6 weeks, 2 treatments a week, he finally succeeded. He jumped, screamed "YES!!!" And gave me a big hug! Absolutely nothing wrong with that, and a very genuine emotion from someone who doubted that it would work, but tried anyway because he wanted to help. From that treatment on I was his patient for 10 years until his retirement.

[@laceyjaye1262]

As long as the patient is ok with it then it is definitely great! As long as he can read people right. Congratulations!!

[@Lefleur290]

Aw 😭❤️

[@II-fd2pr]

Wow thats insane man. Congrats of having such a good therapist :D

[@TPWK216]

Yeah I work with elderly and I hug them often. Some want a good morning hug and others want a godnight hug. Some want a hug when they are sad and others want a hug when they are happy. There are alot of situations during a day when someone is in need of a hug. Im glad to hear dr. Mike say he can hug a patient. Most of doctors i seen just stare at a screen, and usually avoid something basic as a eyecontact.

[@weiyan5346]

Dr. Mike is a perfect man. Not only cute but also knowledgeable on almost everything. Not only knowledgeable but also has a great sense of humorous. You make me feel hopless

[@mr.anonymous3]

"I love hugging my patients". Covid-19: We got him boyz!

[@caitekat1018]

“Im tired, I’m in my 30s” Me at age 20..... I’m already tired 😂

[@noorashiraz9046]

I know, i feel like i am hitting retirement age when I just hit 20 lol

[@laura___elise116]

me, 18 and already done

[@deewilliams8363]

Me at age 19 and already tired of living😂

[@user-gg9jy1oi2n]

It only gets worse

[@sophie_n_1398]

Relatable😂

[@jujuuthebeastONYT]

Every question is like: Option A - ..... Option B - Gift

[@Hydrogenelfin404]

😂 Yup, If I took the same test I would’ve picked the same 😂

[@DS-qn7qg]

Can I just say as it relates to the "sit close to someone you love" question- there is nothing I love more than reading a book on the couch while my husband is playing video games. There doesn't need to be conversation or anything- just doing things we each love separately while being "together" is the best feeling in the world to me.

[@markuswithak5084]

that whole test felt like 2 or 3 questions,tops just rephrased differently like 27 times

[@simplicitylost]

Yeah, it was actually really annoying. Who wrote these questions?

[@howtubeable]

Exactly what I was thinking. This was a bad test.

[@roshankyo4706]

Trueeeee!

[@melissarubio6507]

fr, gifts or hanging out

[@LynnTRoman]

Yes!

[@ashleybennett1350]

The fact that Dr. Mike’s talking about Bear for his love language is just so relatable 😂

[@nitishagiri.6640]

Bear is love of his life ❤️

[@ashaholic89]

I know that feeling too..my dog is my number 1 date ❤

[@essnjora9904]

😂😂

[@ashleyburch1338]

I was just sitting here, crocheting, enjoying my Dr. Mike video when he calls me a 90 year old. I’m only 27. Shots definitely fired Dr. Mike.

[@JuliaVSL]

Omg, me too! 🥲 I just recently turned 28, bu you get what i'm going through.

[@aschmi-mu9110]

Well, I'm 37 and I like to crochet. Still far away from 90.

[@jessicapeyton5444]

Currently 27 as well, but I’ve been crocheting since I was like 14🧍🏾‍♀️😅

[@ellencalandrillo6669]

My mom taught me to crochet when I was about 7. Currently 29 and still at it. Defs not 90, lol.

[@felicitymcgrevy]

Hahaha same here! I'm 29 and sat here watching this video with my crocheting in front of me 😂

[@thatbleepingfeminist]

I just took this quiz out of curiosity, and my results were that I'm an "acts of service" kind of girl. Which is pretty spot-on, actually. Here's what it said: "Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve you out of love (and not obligation), you feel truly valued and loved."

[@emeraldleece9738]

11 minutes of Doctor Mike being such a cuddler anything less than full body contact isn't enough 😂

[@WhatIsSanity]

Can relate.

[@TypicalFeller]

Cinema Sins Titles be like

[@undeadartist1564]

Mike: "Is this an innocent touch?" Me: **remembering** "Is this moderate intensity exercise!?"

[@dinazwitscher9872]

Hrhr

[@magdielburdiles.2000]

Thank u jsjsjsjs

[@RockeraMJJ]

yeees, that's my favorite Dr Mike line :)))

[@yaseminsahin3186]

I sometimes rewatch the outtakes cause they were so good 😁👌.

[@jessicaluk74]

😂😂😂

[@theamazingstarn]

Dr Mike: "it's a date, me and you" Me: *butterflies*

[@MsShellectable]

He is so delightfully unmaterialistic in his relationship goals. It's refreshing. AND clearly such a toucher/hugger. Lucky the woman who gets this mensch!

[@kmilfort]

Dr Mike: *This is a date.* Me: *Yes, finally.*

[@maryjc1805]

I sometimes forget he is in his 30s

[@a_gurl596]

@@maryjc1805 he is?...

[@maryjc1805]

@@a_gurl596 yes, unfortunately

[@SabiLewSounds]

Ha the only date I will ever have

[@mikesannitti6042]

@@maryjc1805 lol is that illegal?

[@annabellehelin7716]

Dr. Mike: “it’s a date! me and you” Me, a 17 year old: 👁👄👁

[@leannmartinez2507]

Me, an 11 yo: 👁👄👁

[@Sarahhh_13]

Me at 12 👁👄👁....🧐...😏 (except I wish I was older lol😂)

[@asiyyahmullen8777]

15 but why is he single in the first place 😂

[@nazanin1832]

Same 😂

[@ramontheranger7763]

Me, a -1 year old: 👁👄👁

[@daze2572]

No one: Not even Russia's Space Program: Me: questioning why was Mike saying "You wanna run with me?! Run with me!" to the birds outside-

[@eliana8878]

I'm dying😂😂😂😂(i mean out of laughter)

[@eliana8878]

@Stella no, I'm not Russian

[@keirahealy7082]

That was SO FUNNY 😂😂😂

[@sleepyote]

@Stella Dr is from Russia

[@ultraguy9819]

A great gift for Mike would be 10 million subscribers

[@kmart1396]

Dr. Mike: _makes joke about Shakespearean characters being innocent and chaste_ Me, with my BA in theater: _sighs_ , oh you sweet summer child

[@tosinakin2508]

Yep. Shakespeare was wild. Sounds more Victorian or Regency to me.

[@bookspensandstudy9152]

Ahhh same!

[@bemusedbandersnatch2069]

So many sex jokes. So many.

[@kmart1396]

@@bemusedbandersnatch2069 straight up though!! Bonus is the fact many of those were to belittle and make fun of the kings of the era, under the guise of ego boosting because a play was written about them. Also like reducing down one of Shakespeare most famous comedies, if we're being honest, Midsummer Nights Dream is just about hooking up in the woods.

[@bemusedbandersnatch2069]

​@@kmart1396 Well today I learned something new. That shouldn't surprise me but it does a little. Shakespeare did subtle well.

[@renelynolis1350]

11:00 "Oh honey would you mind if i sit with you innocently?" And that look. Im dead HAHAHAHAHAHA

[@marsjpd1064]

THE TONGUE MOOOVEEEEEEE UGHHHHHHHH I'M DEAD

[@emmasimmons9150]

3:41

[@jessy-kkipirtoglou7217]

That reminded a Friends's scene when Ross wants to buy a new couch, sit down to test it and say the seller "I want a couch to welcome kids but which also would mean Come to me!" with the weirdest look! 😆😆

[@cxrruptedcarpet2968]

HAHAHHAHHAHA

[@GildroyOfficial]

Me: *looks at my 30 year old wife crocheting* “Dr Mike called you old”

[@ChristinaBambina]

🤣

[@abbyharris2560]

I’m 30 and I crochet too! Glad I’m not the only one. 😂

[@colleenbull14]

🤣

[@natashashort3194]

I get it. I learned to crochet in my teens and still do this. I am 38.

[@SabiLewSounds]

bwahahaa

[@Ur_aunty_squidward]

“You wanna run with me? RUN WITH MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE” ~Doctor Mike

[@arcanesidus_]

"YOU WANNA RUN WITH ME?!" "RUN WITH MEEEEEEE"

[@seymaloji7940]

Can you follow me? 💙

[@chinesewithmia2]

So funny.

[@nidashaikh1412]

If he hugs his patients ,I am ready to be a patient for my entire life.

[@tasujafar83]

Yes same here!!

[@charmayneash3430]

🤣🤣🤣

[@josephjoestar4633]

Starving

[@kaileyhamilton6788]

me tooooo

[@JaniceWithTheTarlovCysts]

My previous Doctor hugged me. The one I have now won't even listen to my chest on bare skin; he makes me keep my shirt on. The only bare skin he's seen on me have been my legs and arms when I'm dressed for hot weather.

[@sofiemoerman7333]

5:21 "Who has a partner that's like constantly saying 'I'm going to do nice things for you', but never does them" Dr. Mike calling out my ex

[@SabiLewSounds]

He never had a toxic relationship I guess

[@mrsfoss3368]

Totally!

[@spvvfmspvvfm7395]

I love how he's so mature but can still act like a 5 year old sometimes (I mean it in a good way)

[@kensleyk6762]

Seeing that a lot of people don't understand the love language of gifts and things of that nature, just thought I shed some personal light on that. An old boyfriend of mine loved to buy me things, flowers, food, gifts, you name it. When I asked him why he tries to buy me, he got so heartbroken that I thought that. He explained that he spends his time working very hard for very little money, so the way he sees it his money is his time and hardwork. He's wanting to give me hours of his hardwork, labor, and putting up with job stress just to show me he's thinking of me. I think it's beautiful when you see it that way. Anyways

[@anjaliekunwar]

if i think about this the other way where im the giver, it def makes sense.

[@Evija3000]

Giving good gifts also means putting thought into it and rembering details about the person.

[@angeladavidson2350]

"You get to sit next to them, maybe stand, and if it gets REAL SERIOUS you guys could squat next to one another!" I just SNORTED

[@playingmusic5693]

“You wanna run with me? RUN WITH MEEEE” Killed me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@racheljenkins_04]

The best part of the video 😆

[@Notatitanmain]

Indeed

[@outlineott5797]

🤣🤣🤣🤣😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 im dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MoonlitShoreWalk]

I believe in the book it says that the love language you're good at expressing is not necessarily the one you prefer to receive. My results were very similar to yours; quality time is my highest, and gift-*getting* is my lowest. However, I'm awesome at getting gifts for other people, while my husband is frequently frustrated by how difficult I am to shop for! 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

[@kalie1323]

Me, a 21 year old who crochets daily: *gets absolutely burned by dr. Mike*

[@pie1731]

Relateable. Exactly what I thought! hahaha

[@hollyl5702]

He wants to learn about your crocheting :P

[@izzyslids2118]

Hahaha me too! It’s not the first time I’ve been called an 90 year old though 😂

[@CocktailsCrochet]

LOL...That caught my ears immediately. Been crocheting since I was 8...lol

[@smilealot6322]

Me tooo, and i have a cat

[@pranavakurapati148]

People be like : “Ok, let me get my notes”

[@safsren]

I can neither confirm nor deny that I did that XD

[@emilydickinson5033]

Or boys and nb ppl lets be inclusive :) Have a lovely day!

[@sleepyote]

@@emilydickinson5033 🏳️‍🌈♥️

[@prettylibra]

@@emilydickinson5033 that’s the dumbest thing I’ve read all day.. he was talking about girls if you want to be gender inclusive make your own comment dont put it on him

[@emilydickinson5033]

@@prettylibra hello! I hope you're having a lovely weekend! I was referring to the people that might be thinking about him in a romantic way. Also, I hope everything is going ok for you. It sounds like you've a bit of frustration... I'm sending lovely vibes in case you need them :) have a good day!

[@Maxx-00]

"wanna run with me?" "run with me!" -Dr Mike 2021

[@aamienabreda8114]

10:19 it's not really confusing. Gary Chapman, who wrote the five love languages book, says that some people learn to love in the way their parent/parents showed love to them while growing up. So in some cases you learn to live in the love language of your parent or parents even though it may not be your primary love language.

[@yahyaali5779]

Dr Mike: "I'm a fan of PDA" Me: "It's time to get my membership of the Parenteral Drug Association. "

[@sheenpaul7129]

Wait....

[@faliciah3363]

Wait is that a jk😭🤣

[@kassi4837]

🤣 nice!

[@thotspray415]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kitkatinnit2949]

Alternate title for the video: Dr Mike professing his undying love for Bear for 11 minutes straight

[@DeeEllEff]

@@environmentalnews6040 Who DOESN’T love all that? (See my avatar.)

[@BlueSkies30]

Can relate. Oof

[@RidaJuveria]

When he said "what kind of Shakespearian nonsense is this?" I burst into laughter 🤣🤣🤣

[@dubheasadalosair8928]

dude when you said you're getting old because you're in your 30's, I felt that! already have some health issues. & I would have struggled with this quiz for the same reasons you did. thank you for being my spirit animal today

[@rimjim-tf4hf]

"Oh honey would you mind if I sat next to you innocently😏😏😏 " This killed me🤣🤣

[@cheryl-lynnmehring8606]

Me too! But we wouldn't mind!! Hehe

[@mohit25]

@@cheryl-lynnmehring8606 But you ain't gonna win from Bear 🐻... Hehehehe 😂

[@read_to_me_a_book_with_samira]

Love needs understanding and acceptance before any language, action or anything else...

[@jessicaluk74]

Also trust❤️

[@ue1779]

How you doin?

[@alphaop4221]

True

[@priyushavallabhaneni8654]

Well said

[@abdouaimalgeria39]

@@jessicaluk74 سميرة Are u doctor أنتي طبيبة ؟

[@rickyshaw1617]

Dr. Mike: " I love chasing new goals." ( Clip shows the man chasing a bunch of terrified pigeons) LOL

[@Itstherealzara]

I hate how perfect he is. Makes me don’t want anyone if he isn’t Dr Mike. At least someone exactly like him.

[@ggred123]

I feel personally attacked by the “who has a partner who says they’re going to do nice things but they don’t” hahaha! My ex would do this to me all the time. That’s a big reason why we broke up.

[@McChoby94]

Same. Actions speak louder than words.

[@stefaniemelchger1633]

I know what you mean, mine went with me to a City once and once to a Golf game and for half a year he said that he already did nice things and i was to greedy (i just wanted to go on nature walks...) (wtf) And may I add that i dont even like Golf and he knew that but we went there for him.

[@Meiabell]

I think mine said he would do things just so I knew what he wouldn’t do. 😆

[@gwenzeezee]

SAME. My ex always told me he would take me out on a date yet he never did, but makes time to go out to eat dinner with his friends that are girls S M H

[@r.e.485]

Same! But mine only said it as manipulation to get me to get back with him. After that, promises were not kept.

[@sofiiasavchyn7539]

Dr. Mike: "I love chasing new goals and aspirations" *chases a seagull*

[@seymaloji7940]

Can you follow me? 💙

[@ering9484]

“I date 90 year olds” Hey, I could knit Bear a hell of a hat. Don’t knock it

[@NinjaFlibble]

I wonder if cross stitching falls under that umbrella XD Cause I was cross stitching part of my way through this video (the other part was eating...)

[@lollylolly8186]

Me too! And I’m not 90!

[@NinjaFlibble]

@@lollylolly8186 I'm about a third of that 🤣

[@josezuniga3747]

The knitting/crocheting/cross stitch fandom is heating up

[@sirislyurdumb]

Same.

[@linkhail6849]

He says “you and me” but he really means him and his camera man. 💖 💅 ✨

[@Julie-ki1xq]

This test would be hard to answer. I loved when my late husband and I would just sit and watch TV together, it also meant a lot to me when I would be washing the dishes and he would unexpectedly come help, sometimes gifts meant a lot too, like the time I mentioned that as a 5 foot tall woman the seatbelt always hits my neck and he bought me a clip that pulled it down so it would hit my shoulder. I miss him and all those little moments together.

[@XOChristianaNicole]

Thank you for sharing. It seems like you had a beautiful marriage. I pray to find that kind of love. I’m sure you miss him, greatly and it hurts, at times; though, it’s so wonderful you have such beautiful memories of him and your time together, and how even the simplest of memories bring you joy. ❤️

[@steggopotamus]

I've been thinking that what love languages calls, "languages" are actually parts of speech of one big love language. It's still beneficial to know which parts you care more about, but everyone is going to have specific preferences in each area. I also, added in another part of speech: Boundaries. When I get triggered the way someone navigates my boundaries and doesn't challenge those boundaries, even if they're normally a big hugger, is the number 1 way to get me to eventually calm down enough to access the whole "love language". But people who keep pushing me, inevitably end up blocked.

[@juliabrodin2686]

❤️

[@shinozsnow]

I feel like the clip for the seatbelt would hit me hard as my SO showing how much they care. One of my favorite gifts from my SO is a nice 3-hole hole punch. I had been fighting with an old hole punch for awhile that kept getting stuck, but I was being subborn and refusing to buy a new one. He surprised me with a brand new one that he had researched reviews for and everything. I almost cried. It made my days a lot better but mostly it showed he had been paying attention to my needs and wanted to help. Sounds like a dumb thing to treasure, but it's those kind of things that I feel shows how much you care the most.

[@laceyjaye1262]

@@shinozsnow not dumb at all! Your comment made me tear up almost as much as the original comment. It's those little stupid things that your someone picks up on that really makes you feel special ❤ I'll throw these little flippant comments out there about something/some issue and my boyfriend will get it or do it and I have these 'wow, he does care' realizations. A lot of times, it doesn't take much to show you really care but so many people miss that.

[@steviraines1272]

No one: Mike: yeah i’m tired, i’m getting old

[@A_Banananana]

Happy valentine's day

[@HopeUnquenchable]

Also Mike: (wildly chasing pigeons) Run with meeeeee!!!!

[@sagnikpradhan3594]

Dr Mike: "You wanna run with me?" Birbs: *fly away*

[@kcoker9189]

@2:52

[@blueedreamsx]

Lmfaoo i died 😭😭😭

[@mesquitegirl2013]

I laughed hard

[@JoannaXu-x4k]

2:51 "YOU WANNA RUN WITH ME ? RUN WITH ME !!" -Doctor Mike

[@thememeestfilmbuff]

*Love Language* is the one language I wish they taught at school in order to help me get a date.

[@Noah_Giddens]

It doesn't really help you get a date but rather understand how to make others feel loved and recognized when someone is trying to express their affection.

[@clive...]

@@Noah_Giddens yep

[@clive...]

@@Noah_Giddens i learnt that on my school's sex addiction

[@clive...]

I MEAN SEX EDUCATION

[@duke-vx8xy]

I think that's called chemistry😎👉👉

[@HannaTejeda]

Mike: *Says it's a date, and that he's our potential mate.* Me: *Slides into DMs*

[@Mihad4322]

THISSSS.!!🤣🤣 I can relate to.!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jakehumphreys8356]

Came here to make this same comment 😂😂

[@jeseelsilva9383]

So we’re all in his dm’s?

[@namrata9235]

"You wanna run with me? RUN WITH MEEEE!" The next second: "Chasing new goals and aspirations." 😂😂😂😂

[@faolan2174]

I remember listening to a speaker on love languages, and he explained that for most people, their love language is usually the same for what they receive and what they give, but not always. Sometimes, you might have one love language for receiving, and a different one that you give. For example, I'm a Quality Time person, but I express my love through Acts of Service.

[@EuLiieK]

I’m a psychologist and I’ve looked into this for couples therapy. Love languages are mostly so you understand how you like being showed love and your partner knows what to do. That’s why your partner should do it too so you know how they like being showed love. It is important for both to understand each other what they prefer to show and receive affection or love.

[@mamac6836]

True. I like giving gifts to the people I love because I like to see them happy when they're opening them. I like getting gifts to an extent, but I like those kinds of gifts that make you emotional lol.. I've been with a couple of men who are the complete opposite and yet didn't seem to understand me, obviously it didn't work out.

[@mmendoza8935]

Dr. Mike: "I'm a fan of PDA!" Every Catholic School: "EXCUSE ME, SIR.."

[@estherpettigrew3042]

Hey, they’re totally fans of PDA...if you’re married. Good for a healthy marriage.

[@Littleone124]

@@estherpettigrew3042 marriage is just a piece of paper. If you love someone, you should show the same level of affection regardless of a piece of paper.

[@vibhu2004]

@@Littleone124 YES QUEEN. YESSS

[@estherpettigrew3042]

@@Littleone124 Marriages fail when they are considered just a piece of paper. Since you consider them just a piece of paper, then I highly recommend you not get married. And the benefit of that is you will never have a failed marriage since you will never marry. And to take your idea further, words are just words. Saying "I love you" is just words. A person should be just as affectionate whether or not the words are said. So, let's not bother saying the words. And gifts are just things. So don't bother with those either. You do you. In other households, the words, the gifts, and the public promise of fidelity and love that is celebrated by all those nearest and dearest has great meaning. And I also say, for people those households, you do you. Let them do their thing and you do your thing. Don't let their celebrations freak you out of make you feel less confident. Basically, I an joyful that you've found what works for you. And you can be joyful that others find what works for them.

[@lexigonzales492]

Dr.mike: “It’s a date, me and you. Hey.” Me: 👀 My bf: 🙄

[@lemaygaming6952]

@@mohammedbim6626 Stop flirting with people on KZbin, it’s hella creepy.

[@elleviathan9261]

@@mohammedbim6626 Shut up, get off of here,

[@AP-yt]

@@mohammedbim6626 aagh wtf!

[@Emil_Stoltz]

@@mohammedbim6626 Pretty good. How about you, daddy;)?

[@flipper5594]

@@lemaygaming6952 xDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

[@tadasuko8935]

I always called it "showing love" and "recieving love" because there is a disconnect. One of my missionary companions would give me gifts all the time to show that she cared, and she did best when I gave her words of affirmation. Of course, if you're like me and it's physical contact, that's just the best way to show me affection period.

[@LydianMelody]

A well-timed hug from a doctor can be absolutely huge for a patient. I spent months finding treatments for a medical condition with a specialist. My personal life suffered greatly and when that came up, my doctor embraced me in a warm hug. It really affected me for the better and showed me that I wasn’t just a number to him. He was rooting for me. 💕 I’ll never forget his kindness.

[@sabrina-ss6bu]

"Is this an innocent touch?" *puts hand on someone randoms face*

[@Mz.Marianne]

😄😄😄😄

[@iamzeyneb8056]

Single for ages gang where you at 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@berrineri]

present

[@jessicaluk74]

Life is better as single anyways🙄

[@hellbusterdragon]

Just here, 2:51 is exactly me

[@kristina-lovesxappoo2803]

The sky is falling, the sky is falling!

[@samlal3618]

Single forever, love has way to much commitment and responsibility...🙃

[@floor.smorenburg]

My love language is a HUNDRED PERCENT gift giving. But not expensive things: crafts, things that are inside jokes, things that i remembered them talking about half a year ago just in conversation. I'm not the best at remembering things, so this is essentially my way of showing the people i love that i DO care about what they have to say and i DO listen attentively

[@patrickandrianopoulos7036]

Dr Mike: "Do you wanna run with me, RUN WITH MEEEE!"

[@pompomsarts]

Finally, yes! I've been looking through the whole comment section to find this!

[@sharonlin1755]

Oml yeah 😂 that moment was so funny idk why more people aren’t mentioning it

[@emilyfaith556]

Alternative title: Dr Mike being a cute bean for 11 minutes straight

[@mariastreetdance2711]

Lol true

[@TheAviationChannel]

*Dr. Mike's shirts hug him hard to show him love*

[@Silkencira1710]

I love getting to know to love languages. In my relationship it helped a lot because we had completely different love languages. We actively try to do more of what the other one loves. We also made a list of activities and rated them on how important they are for us to do. That gave us a lot of insight 😊

[@stephanier2165]

I love that! That would create so many fun date ideas. You could switch who gets to choose the activity every week. Sounds super fun, definitely stealing that for the future 🤗

[@nonamenis]

Unexpectedly i have the same love language as dr mike. Quality time and receiving gifts is last. Maybe the doctors just like quality time after a long exhausting day

[@MikkaMishka]

Me too! I think just being able to do "nothing" with someone is important. Like, just spend time with and cuddle me haha. But I'm also definitely a gift giver and hate recieving anything.

[@amandakron5445]

My love language test was basically the same as well, but I'm not a doctor, I'm a lawyer. I guess dealing with people and their problems is just exhausting. We're always tired and just want to chill and eat some good food. I actually think I'm a 60 year old grandma stuck inside the body of a 26 year old. I mean, besides being grumpy and wanting attention at the same time, my favorite things to get are pjs, mugs, different types of teas and books.

[@kaitlynwright2190]

Mine is words of affirmation, then physical touch. But receiving gifts is also my last one.

[@txnyafrmhawaii]

“oh honey, would u mind if i just sit next to you innocently” 😭😭

[@erincarroll9412]

LOLOLLLL

[@InezDeG]

I felt really nice and validated for a second there when he mentioned crocheting, only to be called 90 years old a second later! I'm 24, I'm not that old.... We have a bad rep with crocheting sadly

[@SatanEnjoyer]

According to this I've been 90 since I was 15 xD I'm not even 30 yet hahah it's funny.

[@Noodles-_]

Yea :(

[@marthahawkinson-michau9611]

I’m only 36, and I crochet all the time.

[@furanjibun]

IM ONLY 16

[@Noodles-_]

Oop umm im only 13?

[@paygethompson]

Mike. I swear we’re the exact same person!! I agree 100%, honestly, with every single thing you said! Especially the part about my love language being physical touch mainly & quality time, but I LOVE to give gifts to the people I love!!

[@c.2974]

mike: "i date 90 year olds" me: *a 15 year old who is crocheting while watching this*

[@nahidparvin7077]

I can feel your pain😂😭

[@shahdmaki761]

plz not u exposing us 💀😭

[@amandac.4326]

I can’t tell you how good it felt to see that there are other teenagers who crochet out there

[@haasini.m]

me 11 crocheting

[@Grace-tk5vz]

Same

[@ashleygrazutis4203]

I just took the test myself. Here was what I got in order from most to least: 1.) Quality time (30%) 2.) Words of Affirmation (27%) 3.) Acts of Service (23%) 4.) Physical Touch (20%) 5.) Gift Giving (0%) I also did not expect for quality time to be the highest and expected words of affirmation and acts of service to be above it as well. Great video 🤗

[@iamzeyneb8056]

"what kind of shakespearian nonsense is this?" ✍️adds✍️to✍️the✍️ vocabulary ✍️for ✍️ special ✍️ occasions

[@angelinalenz5803]

Dr. Mike being Shakespeare: To PEEWOOP or not to PEEWOOP that is the question.

[@A_Banananana]

Happy valentine's day

[@iamzeyneb8056]

@@angelinalenz5803 🤣🤣🤣

[@Matt-sc6gg]

@@angelinalenz5803 comment this separately so Mike can see🤣

[@truebornseeker9767]

Mike making fun of the “someone just sitting near me” answer is very funny to me cause, as an autistic person, someone just sitting in the room with me makes me so happy I constantly follow around my parents just so I can be in the same room as them and listen/watch them talk and do things Being in the same room as someone is amazing There’s autistic/ADHD versions of the love languages! - Infodumping (ranting about your hyperfixations or special interests to each other, listening to someone do that, or wanting your partner to listen to you do that) - Parallel play (just being in the same room with each other, engaging in your own activities separate from one another, aka ‘being alone together) - Support swapping (reminding each other to do tasks they struggle to do or remember to do, like taking meds or brushing teeth, or even just eating!) - gift giving (but it’s slightly different- it’s usually giving a small gift that has no use and isn’t especially sentimental, like a rock or a leaf, or a bead that you found! Just sharing small useless things that you found cool) There’s others but I can’t remember them rn! Also! Your love language doesn’t have to be both giving and receiving, you can be on either side!