I'm 21 and I feel like a failure

[@paulkunal5586]

I am 30 and let me tell you, you will feel like this many many times in your life and mark my words it won't last long. You have accurately diagnosed the root cause of the problem social media.

[@BEACHDUDE71]

53 , I have failed

[@RuneToi]

24 here. You are not alone. Do not give up. You speak the truth and from the heart. Nothing about this is fluff. There are others like you. I respect you so much. Keep your head held high.

[@willlhutchinson]

It's great to know that there are others out there who can speak the trust like this. Everything is more simple than you think if you have the right person explaining it to you. Thanks for your kind words friend

[@Joe_Beezy]

I'm 24 and I fucking hate my life.

[@BEACHDUDE71]

53 I have failed

[@enzofranco4634]

Man I just found your channel and this video hit me a lot because it was like watching myself. I always wanted to do something with my life beyond what it's ordinary. Working 40, 50 or 60 hours per week for sixty years and then die. It felt so...I don't know, empty? So let me tell you that you are not a failure man. Quite the contrary. For what I see in this video, you're on the right path. You're young and you have a whole life in front of you. You are discovering yourself and that's great, because most people don't question their life's. So keep what you're doing. Going to the gym, educate yourself, discover your passion in life. Try to be the best version of yourself and I'm sure you will find what you're looking for.

[@willlhutchinson]

Hey man, thanks a lot for this comment it really means a lot to me. You are so right with what you are saying. Working at a day job definitely feels empty and you never get appreciated for what you are. Finding your passions in life is the most important thing for happiness. I wish you all the best

[@audread_]

I just turned 21 too. Unfortunately I feel old and a failure. I've been running a startup for four years thinking it will lead me to that point we call financial freedom and luxury. I wasted my social life and exposure very needed in a company by sheer ignorance. Seeing this video continues to give me hope. Thanks man.

[@willlhutchinson]

Hey man trust me. You can never give up. If you truly want to become something and believe it you can manifest and create it. If you just improve 1 little step a day you will be surprised where you are in a few years. That's how I'm taking it. I try to improve on myself at least 0.5% per day which doesn't seem like much but it adds up massively. I truly believe in you my friend

[@audread_]

@@willlhutchinson Thanks Man💪 I really appreciate that.

[@exonboom]

Im 22 and felt this way for quite some time lol, you are giving me hope

[@willlhutchinson]

I believe in you, just one step at a time my friend

[@dumitrusirbu9817]

a generation of men failed by the men they aspire to become , thanks bro for this vid , im almost literaly in the same situation as you, studying to become a civil engineer in europe.I aspire to change my life, quited instagram for almost half a month, and im trying to get rid of all these tiny fast and easy rewards that fry my neuronal connection.

[@willlhutchinson]

I believe in you my friend. The hardest thing to do is to make the change. Once you start it becomes do much easier. Just before you are going to these dopamine depleting activities think to yourself "how is this going to benefit my life 6 months from now". If you do this everytime I'm sure your chance will drop significantly. If this doesn't work you can also come back to this comment and read it. Some random person on the internet believes you are better than that and I truly do. Just from your words I can tell you are a great and intelligent person with all the possibilities in the world to do what you want. I believe you will have a great life my friend

[@OwnFall420]

I’m 24 and feel the same

[@Ahkziel]

27 here and I still feel this lol, keep grinding and keep going

[@willlhutchinson]

Its never to late to chase your dreams, thanks for the words my friend

[@kimb6508]

i felt like this at 18, im 33 now and i will tell you this mindset in and of itself will ruin your life. when you dont believe in yourself nothing will change, but when you do believe in yourself you will naturally take the risk and even if it doesn't play out how you expected it will still have been time used well. not to mention your quality of life will be better if you are happy.

[@Endless_sea_]

I am 22 this is what I think, heres my lessons learned: Feeling like a failure is a disease caused by not meeting the expectations of a group of people and it comes out of comparison to others also. Everyones got thier own life and choices and wants. Nobody is beholden to the expectations of others we are free to live. Success is stupid do what you want. Not even the rich lambo success living in dubai level rich you see online, i mean even the success your school told you was a win If you enjoy drinking water every day or eating a pop tart or smelling fresh air, like thats your best thing you love, thats enough Ideals are fucking stupid, and chasing them wont make you feel any different after its over. Itll only cover one insecurity you were sold, only for you to realize you couldve never cared and just moved on with your life. Theres nobody you have to be and nothing you have to do, let go of all of it. Let go of the outcome you could potentially get from the idealized success that people have sold to you that you "must become" and "realize your potential" If it stresses you and harms you this much, do you even want it? What youll be left with eventually is openness to everyday, like a child all over again before all your conditioning of this made up narrative school taught you, the intetnet taught you, social life taught you etc. You will be able to see the world clearly like seeing it for the first time. Fuck everybodys expectations. Most will backstab you when you dont align with how they want you to be anyway. Be authentic instead of caring what other people think. The fake people will fall away and the real ones will stay and be with you. Dont sacrifice your real honest authentic self for an attachment to people that was never really there in the first place, because the moment youre real they hate you. I think every life goal society places on you that you feel anxiety to persue that you never actually cared about is overrated garbage with no soul. Gain, material items, status, and ideals are the devil. Emotions, love, care no matter what no matter what that person does, loves and is like is really what matters. Meaningful people and connections that you love matter, authenticity matters.

[@XLRXyt]

i turned 24 this year, everyone around me is already in a relationship, engaged and some are even married with children... im extremely alone and i genuinely don't understand what's wrong with me, im not even that bad looking, im about to graduate university and im hard working, but somehow i always fail when it comes to dating and finding the one. this is affecting me a lot mentally, im genuinely tired, and just the thought of it gets me depressed. no matter how hard i work on my profession and workout and all that, there's always is going to be a moment or day where the thoughts come back and that hits hard, especially in public where i see couples. my friends dont even go out with me anymore, they have gfs/bfs, other priorities, or even in group couple dates. they know damn well my situation of my loneliness and never wished or wanted to help me, set up w a woman or simply even recommend me one, cuz apparently i have to meet the one myself. i tried everything, dates, online dating, Instagram, but shit, nothing ever worked. anwys perhaps im meant to be alone, that old single uncle in family gatherings lol. i feel left out in so many things in life, i try to save but w this economy i want to help my parents and family more

[@willlhutchinson]

Hey man I'm sorry to hear your situation. I am no relationship expert or anything and you have more life experience than me by the sounds if it. The only thing I would say which I tell to a couple of my friends in the same situation is that you need to try not think too much about it(I know its much easier said than done). If you focus to much on it most likely you will not find what you're looking for. Some day it will just happen, theres someone meant for everyone. I think just try to isolate yourself less(it sounds like you might need some new friends). I wish you the best my friend.

[@XLRXyt]

@@willlhutchinson i gave it up long ago, in life we meet people that are 50plus years old and alone, not married or in rshs, and without children…. No matter how much we lie ourselves, that someone might come unexpectedly one day, or that “ the least we think about it or try, it will come”, all we have to is accept the fate that love and friendship are not meant for everyone. There was a time between 2021 and 2023 that i never thought about it, it was some sort of healing stage for me and all i did was work hard professionally and academically, the least of my concerns was dating, so in theory that should have been the time when it might have happened but no. So idk man, situations like these really do put a man down. When it comes to friends that’s another issue… idk anymore. I just gave up, gotta see and wait what life unfolds ahead U seem like a genuine dude, I appreciate and respect your words and i hope everything works out great for you as well 🙌

[@XLRXyt]

@@willlhutchinson one think i have to say is that never give up on your goals and aspirations, you are competing with your past self. Do it for the child you. Chase the bag as they say. Even tho money cant buy love and friendship. People will respect you for being a hard working and honest man. At least i hope so Life is a huge puzzle and we dont know what lies ahead. But lets strive for better days

[@ing6447]

Spot on, social media is ruining the youth, keep going bro

[@InvertedBread]

Im 16 and i appreciate you making this video.

[@willlhutchinson]

I hope you can get something from it. You are crazy young and can do anything you want in this world, just truly believe and never give up. I know society or at least mine will make you believe that you should just play it safe but it's not worth living with a life of regret. You will always be able to make a living regardless. Take risks and do what you love. I wish you the best

[@ミルク死]

man im just 15 but i feel you so much, just keep in mind that you're not alone

[@willlhutchinson]

Haha will do. I wish you the best, friend

[@yelezi7950]

are you male or female?

[@asdsdfadfsa]

@@yelezi7950 are u serious bro

[@K.R.P322]

Thanks for the video mate. It was a good and relatable watch since I'm in a similar situation, studying a trade whilst embarking on my journey trying to figure things out. Keep working at it, and God bless.

[@willlhutchinson]

@@K.R.P322 hey man it's good to hear from someone doing something similar. Good luck to your grind brother and never give up. One day we will make it I'm sure of it.

[@travisgilliamjr.491]

I'm 22 In America, and I've felt the same way. To know we are young and seeing the amount that's possible does do psychological work to feel like you're trying harder than the average person but Still feel like it's not enough. Khabib, Really emphasizes on us remaining humble and learning from our defeats. Which I think is another form of our masculinity in this broken society, It's easier for us to feel bad but it makes us smarter, more competitive, more resilient when we keep focus on learning ourselves. I really appreciate you making this video, you've helped me feel confident with just getting started with my S.I. Chanel. Thank you for being ambitious enough to post bro

[@willlhutchinson]

good luck man on your journey, you are 100% right!

[@theonlybigsmoke]

I'm 18 so I don't really know if I can give you some good advice But I try not to worry too much about what's to come Just doing the usual stuff such as school, working out at the gym, hanging out with friends and perhaps a job as well. You're not a failure man, you just need motivation and discipline and it's perfectly fine to feel this way sometimes.

[@faridgaffarlichannel57]

u need dicipline not motivation

[@willlhutchinson]

Hey man thanks for your comment. I believe discipline is a huge factor in achieving what you want to achieve. My point of this video is to tell people that they shouldn't let social media influencers who are extremely successful hinder their belief of how they are. You just need to focus on your own journey and do the best you can to be better. I respect your hustle and advice and I know you will do something great someday

[@theonlybigsmoke]

@@faridgaffarlichannel57 both can be good

[@theonlybigsmoke]

@@willlhutchinson thanks man you too

[@theonlybigsmoke]

​@@faridgaffarlichannel57 discipline*

[@nicholasford9086]

Bro no shit. You’re 21 you just started the journey. You can fail at the beginning of life. You have your whole life to fail at living your own life.

[@Dleck]

yo wth same birthday but I just turned 18 and you live in the same country. would be awesome to get in contact bro

[@thearbiter3351]

Orthodoxy will heal your heart, body and spirit. Consider looking into it G

[@Icarlyfan44]

no

[@thearbiter3351]

@@Icarlyfan44 why not?

[@Icarlyfan44]

@thearbiter3351 because you don't need some made-up figure to sort your life out

[@__Shun]

im 22 and also just started an electrical school plan on going self employed after 3-5yrs experience and grind hard.i also need to cut off youtube and use that time to watch stocks videos

[@willlhutchinson]

@@__Shun that sounds like a good plan. bro. I've been in the stock market for a couple years and made great profit so far. I think now is a great time to get into it. Keep the grind up brother

[@Sam-b7j5b]

just get to work bro I wish I lived in Australia or NZ, from the UK.

[@BEACHDUDE71]

53 unemployed single living with my parents, I am a failure

[@Nakedmolerat3552]

Glad i found this

[@willlhutchinson]

Hey there I'm not sure who you are or what you are doing but I believe in you. Try your best everyday and do what you love, it's the only things that will truly make you happy. Living a life of regret is one of the worst punishments a person could endure.

[@ibukunokunoye4795]

Damn I relate to this so hard. All the distractions with youtube shorts, reels and all; watching them while eating. Yes I noticed aswell recently that it is when you're firstly hooked that's the problem. I would love if you post more stuff if you can get more disciplined, so I can learn aswell. And if you have Instagram we can connect to!

[@willlhutchinson]

Hey man I will keep posting because I want to keep updating to see how my progress is going. If I can also help some other people make a change in their life that would make me so happy.

[@ibukunokunoye4795]

Please do bro, your progress will definitely inspire others!@@willlhutchinson

[@HalfLifeEnjoyer-yy6wj]

imma 100% go thro this for now i hope it gets better

[@AF22-j8g]

Me too, im 21 aswell

[@HunterLeaderPro]

Reletable

[@CreedOfLife]

I back the thing of tracking or looking back in 6 months nd I might aswl do the same

[@johnmaker1103]

I hear you. But damn you’ve had great results at the gym. You should show a before pic and your biceps now. Jealous.

[@benadams780]

icl I would love to get on a call with you, Im from the UK btw, reply to the comment if thats a shout for you

[@Asian_Kid]

Hi

[@TrevorHildicked]

15 books in One year is IMPRESSIVE- on books I’m at 2

[@willlhutchinson]

@@TrevorHildicked it's tough man! Don't focus on the number just focus on the journey and truly taking what you need from the book.

[@TrevorHildicked]

@@willlhutchinson that’s so true -

[@eduard_onunes]

Hamza effect

[@Syf_SEKA]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@Peyotecactus]

Real

[@kinga-635]

Cus you are 🤣😂😂😂😂

[@willlhutchinson]

@@kinga-635 that's coming from"kinga" 😂🤡

[@herps588]

@@willlhutchinson Don't listen to him, you'll never be as much of a failure as him

[@elbranlo4727]

No one is watching all that

[@willlhutchinson]

@@elbranlo4727 many people have so 😂