I'm 40. If You're In Your 20's or 30's, Watch This

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Simon Alexander Ong

Simon Alexander Ong

Күн бұрын

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@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 8 күн бұрын
I didn’t expect this video to pick up like it has and so wanted to express my gratitude to you for taking the time to watch, to like, to comment and to share. I’ve read every comment and have tried to respond to as many as I could. Thank you for being part of my small community here and joining me on this wild journey ❤
@JvOnM28
@JvOnM28 Күн бұрын
I whole heartedly appreciate the time and thought you put into this masterpiece, blessings.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Күн бұрын
@ thank you 🥲
@LifeStories93
@LifeStories93 2 ай бұрын
Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Beautiful words ❤️
@BoatemaaPapabi
@BoatemaaPapabi 2 ай бұрын
Thank you , Wishing you same. ❤
@ksundermier
@ksundermier 2 ай бұрын
Aw thank you, I wish the same right back for you!!!
@milana2020
@milana2020 2 ай бұрын
Good luck to you too
@luisdelangel9071
@luisdelangel9071 2 ай бұрын
Likewise
@Mileage_
@Mileage_ 2 ай бұрын
if a british asian is giving me life advice im gonna listen
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@mistersir3185
@mistersir3185 Ай бұрын
Surprise surprise for you I guess
@callieblossomASMR
@callieblossomASMR Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@callieblossomASMR ❤️
@garrisonscott1769
@garrisonscott1769 Ай бұрын
British Chinese**. Stop using the A word.
@hendrikreuwig1743
@hendrikreuwig1743 Ай бұрын
I once heard: If you think the bill of growth is too high, wait for the bill of regret.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Wow! That’s deep and powerful ❤️
@rc_ilya650
@rc_ilya650 26 күн бұрын
And that bill of regret is generational
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 26 күн бұрын
@@rc_ilya650 👏
@fakhraafzal1528
@fakhraafzal1528 2 ай бұрын
Do everything that u fear because those are the things that u crave the most
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@Jayjaybills5030
@Jayjaybills5030 2 ай бұрын
Explain pls .
@bbygurlrav
@bbygurlrav 2 ай бұрын
I do not crave to go caving or cave diving I promise I don’t 😂😅
@君彦君塚
@君彦君塚 2 ай бұрын
​@universe21hehe takes action before thinking next, if you meet a grandma is having a hard time to cross the road, just help don't overthink it
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@bbygurlrav 😂
@catchupstreamss
@catchupstreamss 2 ай бұрын
“Sometimes it takes 10 years to get that 1 year that may change your life.” This hits different
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@lilianignatius
@lilianignatius Ай бұрын
fr!!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@lilianignatius right?!
@frogery
@frogery 6 күн бұрын
i feel like i'm living that year right now
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 6 күн бұрын
@@frogery 🔥
@luuuuuuuuuuuul
@luuuuuuuuuuuul Ай бұрын
it's crazy how he looks the exact same at 17 months old, 20 year old and 40
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@gardenoffaith_6983
@gardenoffaith_6983 Ай бұрын
“Look at someone for inspiration, not comparison” 👏🏾
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@asewejetosin5248
@asewejetosin5248 Ай бұрын
Yes!!!
@asewejetosin5248
@asewejetosin5248 Ай бұрын
Thank you Jesus! Humbly receive from the ministry of others wowww
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@asewejetosin5248 ❤️
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@asewejetosin5248 ❤️
@Lovediaryhb
@Lovediaryhb 2 ай бұрын
I was today years old when I heard that if you don’t know what to pursue, start by pursuing yourself. Everything then will fall into place. What a perfect piece advice.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@ha-mynguyen9468
@ha-mynguyen9468 2 ай бұрын
Can you elaborate on this?
@prakashchapagain1861
@prakashchapagain1861 2 ай бұрын
I didn’t get it can you explain plz .
@King10-k5b
@King10-k5b 2 ай бұрын
@@ha-mynguyen9468start by working on yourself, Health becoming a better version of yourself and the mission will appear
@Lovediaryhb
@Lovediaryhb 2 ай бұрын
I think it's a decision to finally choose yourself-choosing to be the healthy, happy, and healed version of yourself. When you choose yourself, others will recognize it, and I hope it leads to many great opportunities in life. We all have a little child within us, and I'm letting her come out, shine, and be playful. To be my authentic self and not let fear take over, it has to start with small steps: self-care, little rewards, and building confidence by achieving small tasks daily. In this way, I will also learn how to raise a healthy kid of my own, as I’m a single mom.
@thenooboCOOL
@thenooboCOOL Ай бұрын
bro probably saved thousands of teenagers from depression
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@edwinhunnet2666
@edwinhunnet2666 2 ай бұрын
Picking the right partner is the biggest business decision you’ll ever make in your life time on earth.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@edwinhunnet2666 and is why I dedicated my first book Energize to my wife. She is without doubt one of the secrets to behind all the things I’ve accomplished ❤️
@type-dev
@type-dev 2 ай бұрын
It’s about being the right person. Not finding the right person. That’s what I’ve learned!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@type-dev ❤️
@bruh7220
@bruh7220 2 ай бұрын
Yup and this is why you see a lot of people living stagnant, paycheck to paycheck lives. Those people take whatever partner they could get that they find relatively attractive and just stick with them. And then wonder why theyre unhappy and unsuccessful
@jorgepadua5802
@jorgepadua5802 2 ай бұрын
Me at 29: "Hell yeah I'm in my 20s😎😎"
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
😁😁😁
@bennymahlangu8674
@bennymahlangu8674 2 ай бұрын
Me too 🥹
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@bennymahlangu8674 🙌
@Greenlights111
@Greenlights111 2 ай бұрын
I’m 25, single, depressed in my job and life. By every societal measure I should be satisfied as I have a great family, roof over my head etc, but I’m just miserable and lonely. Anxious it feels like my life is just slipping away but I don’t know what or how to change the path I’m on. I’m getting more and more anxious every single dsy
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@Greenlights111 a thought… if you were to speak to someone who is in exactly the same situation as you, what advice would you share with them?
@StridersBored
@StridersBored 6 күн бұрын
My biggest mistake was never believing in myself. As a medically disabled veteran, I believed my life was over and my confidence was shattered. I’m 23 so whenever I feel down and depressed, I remember how far I’ve come, the literal hills I’ve conquered during my time in the Army, and remember that everything will be alright. As a buddy of mine would say, “I’m not six feet under so I must be great.”
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 6 күн бұрын
Your best years are ahead of you 🙌
@luisalbertousugaguzman9074
@luisalbertousugaguzman9074 2 ай бұрын
"be patient with the process and impatient with taking actions" astonishing
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@Andreamussi
@Andreamussi 2 ай бұрын
“Be sure to take care of yourself first “
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely Andrea 👏
@shawnmatjiu2940
@shawnmatjiu2940 2 ай бұрын
"Extraordinary results come from repeating ordinary actions over an unordinary period of time"...
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@chasonwommack5023
@chasonwommack5023 Ай бұрын
Sounds an awful lot like what Alex Hormozi says.
@tryna23
@tryna23 Ай бұрын
read the slight edge by jeff olson bro!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@tryna23 adding to my list. Thank you 🙏
@kenasura3948
@kenasura3948 2 ай бұрын
I'm 23, mentally exhausted. I feel like a failure, stuck in an endless loop of unhealthy habits. Thanks for reminding me that its never too late and I can start changing my life today. Thank u very much! I needed to hear this.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
👊👊👊
@Light_Connect
@Light_Connect Ай бұрын
You are still very young ! The world is your oyster
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@Light_Connect well said 👏
@dantheman9050
@dantheman9050 Ай бұрын
i am 19 and feel this way to man
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@dantheman9050 ❤️
@ny2578
@ny2578 Ай бұрын
By the age of 25, I’m a doctor of pharmaceutical science and currently doing a PhD in neuro ophthalmology. I’ve been with my lover and best friend for 4 years now. I clicked on this video to learn. I just learned that I’ve been following these advice almost religiously (unless when I’m sick) because my dad educated me this way. Life can be tough and life is not perfect, still we constantly must working on ourselves for our loved ones, and Life is truly beautiful. Thank you for this great video, thank you for your honesty and this powerful teaching lesson.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Love it and thank you for your sharing ❤️
@charlieschurk
@charlieschurk Ай бұрын
Yeah right
@charlieschurk
@charlieschurk Ай бұрын
Uh huh sure pal
@felix2375
@felix2375 Ай бұрын
Luck is what happens, when preparation meets opportunity - so be prepared
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@justine851
@justine851 Ай бұрын
it isn't luck, but a blessing from God
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@justine851 ❤️
@initialdluvr
@initialdluvr Ай бұрын
I’m 31 and consider myself a late bloomer. I’m only now starting my undergrad journey in nursing after wasting away my twenties getting high and barely getting by. I still live with my parents. But not all is wasted. My twenties is an example of how not to live life. And I had to pay the price in time, something I’ll never get back. Get your head out of the sand and pursue life with a purpose. If you don’t know your purpose, take the time to figure that out but stay productive during that time. Eat well, sleep well, exercise, pray, and work.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Well said 👏
@mapofthesoultagme7143
@mapofthesoultagme7143 Ай бұрын
there's nothing wrong with living with parents though
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@mapofthesoultagme7143 ❤️
@initialdluvr
@initialdluvr Ай бұрын
@@mapofthesoultagme7143 you are correct. What I was implying is that I am still not financially independent yet. There's a difference between living with your parents in your 30s by choice vs necessity.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@initialdluvr 👏
@Msal19
@Msal19 3 сағат бұрын
So much wisdom on this list! It took me many books, challenges, accomplishments, and failures to learn these lessons. Young people, listen to this more than once if needed and really pay attention. This is gold! Thanks for sharing!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 сағат бұрын
So glad to hear you enjoyed the video 🙏
@mimiq4383
@mimiq4383 2 ай бұрын
Mans said "If I could tell my twenty year old self something", then put up photos that look nearly the exact same. Bro barely aged. Thats a goal, too. 😂
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@aracystic28
@aracystic28 2 ай бұрын
LOL I swear I was like “huh?!” “Corporate wants you to tell the difference between these two pictures”
@Growordecay
@Growordecay 2 ай бұрын
That's health for you. Visual representation of why to prioritize your health
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@aracystic28 😂
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@Growordecay 👏
@autisticus1678
@autisticus1678 Ай бұрын
Man I’m 24 years old and I love videos like this. It’s so easy to get caught up in the clutter of life and forget to go after what you want.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@anaiseaudrey
@anaiseaudrey Ай бұрын
Love how you went directly into the video and didn’t waste our time with “hiiii welcome to my KZbin channel” kinda stuff
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@JayLatt
@JayLatt Ай бұрын
“The clarity you seek will come from the action you take” Wow
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Thank you Jay 🙌
@Urbfrnd
@Urbfrnd 2 ай бұрын
I'm 22, I've made a wrong decision that made me at the lowest point of my life, now I will try more harder to climb this life again, thank you for the advice sir .
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@christiannunagtorres2026
@christiannunagtorres2026 Ай бұрын
same sentiments bro, I stopped studying at 18 then proceeded to get a job. Quit my office work when the pandemic hit in 2020 and try to reason out w “health risk” (I’m asthmatic). I just recently had the courage to try and be better than who I was these past two years. I was jobless during those time. I’m 23 going 24 now
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@christiannunagtorres2026 👏👏👏
@deidarasmaid
@deidarasmaid Ай бұрын
⁠@@christiannunagtorres2026I did the same exact thing im 23 too and im back in school getting my degree its never too late and we can do anything we put our mind to. we are still really young and itll work out . start today
@Utent-d3n
@Utent-d3n Ай бұрын
​@@christiannunagtorres2026 I am in your situation,I left school at 18 and since 1 year I'm focusing on mastering editing and animation skills even if every day I have to hear insults from my parents saying im useless because im following this path
@SuraDoes
@SuraDoes 19 күн бұрын
This was the best advice ever. I am 28 and I am in the midst of a transition from my immature and impulsive era to my thoughtful and intentional era. I can feel it. Just working on changing my actions to match!!!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 19 күн бұрын
👏👏👏
@YusraELSawi
@YusraELSawi 2 ай бұрын
"Not everyone will like you, you are not ice cream" 😁 Awesome video, thank you.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
So glad to hear you enjoyed it Yusra 😁
@girlbossfromscratch
@girlbossfromscratch 2 ай бұрын
Well, I don’t like ice cream.
@markuku2991
@markuku2991 2 ай бұрын
Yeah some people are that heartless, they dont like ice cream.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@girlbossfromscratch 😂
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@markuku2991 😂
@CaseyBowman7
@CaseyBowman7 Ай бұрын
People call other people talented or lucky or gifted without realizing that often it is a normal person that did simple things consistently that added up to their success
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Well said Casey 👏
@vaiman-bk3wf
@vaiman-bk3wf 21 күн бұрын
IM 15. I WILL COMEBACK 5 YEARS LATER
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 21 күн бұрын
Not too early to begin on them 🙌
@blackgirlmechanics
@blackgirlmechanics 8 күн бұрын
No buddy, use this advice now! It will help you so much more. Those of us who were younger wish we could’ve gotten this advice. Take it! Use it! 😊
@TheTektronik
@TheTektronik 2 ай бұрын
When you reach the point of being able to enjoy your own company and happy being yourself, the right people will come along.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Beautifully said ❤️
@Greenlights111
@Greenlights111 2 ай бұрын
Struggling with the so much. I’m 25, single, and seeing all my friends move away and get engaged or at least in serious relationships. I want a relationship so bad and have done so much work on myself, it’s frustrating seeing others with something I want so bad. I don’t like my job and it feels like life has just turned into the same thing over and over and I don’t find nearly the joy that I used to. Idk I feel so incredibly stuck but I know I’m not. I just have to decide to change and get better for myself. It starts with being comfortable on my own which is my biggest struggle, I fill all my time with friends or a distraction from being alone, even though I’ve lived alone for over a year now I’m still afraid to actually spend time alone and feel like I’m just wasting away my life and prime of my 20s. I just need renewed excitement and hope in my life.
@Lavinia-uz7ul
@Lavinia-uz7ul 2 ай бұрын
​@@Greenlights111 i'm 34 and single. Healing from only narcissist and avoidant relationships. Trust me, sometimes it's better to be single. Enjoy this time with no heartbreak, no attachment. Don't trust what you see, the perfect couples. I miss the days when I didn't have fealings for someone. I had enough of this pain.
@Greenlights111
@Greenlights111 2 ай бұрын
@@Lavinia-uz7ul I’m sorry to hear that. I get that it’s likely better to be alone than with the wrong person, however, I’m 25 and haven’t had a serious relationship longer than a few months while I watch everyone I know getting engaged and moving on. I know you can’t compare either, but I want a connection and deep relationship and it’s hard feeling like the days and weeks are passing by with nothing changing. I need to make a change but I don’t know what
@Lavinia-uz7ul
@Lavinia-uz7ul 2 ай бұрын
@@Greenlights111 I know. Same. That's how i ended up in this situations. You are really young, you still have time. Don't compare your life to others. A partner will not save your life. Maybe in the beginning, but the void that you feel right now will appear again after the honeymoon phase. And you will put all your happiness in their hands and you will end up codependent.
@lalulu697
@lalulu697 24 күн бұрын
27 here, and just two weeks ago, I began to stress out in the thought of, "You haven't done anything for your life" When, for God's sake! I am already graduated as a teacher and I am a graphic designer, I have a job (none of my careers) that is helping me save for my biggest dreams and I know that it is not a race against anyone but me... The fear of turning 30 someday and "done nothing" is because of the that damn phone
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 24 күн бұрын
👏👏👏
@retrospect3-2-15
@retrospect3-2-15 4 күн бұрын
"Sometimes it takes 10 years to get that 1 year that will change your life". Preach it brother!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 4 күн бұрын
👊👊👊
@anniebandana
@anniebandana 2 ай бұрын
I just turned 30 and i went through such a big life change with my father dying last year. Everything has shifted, but i feel like i will be OK, and i am hopeful for life again 😊
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@tommymoore1622
@tommymoore1622 2 ай бұрын
Keeep your head you will make it. Remember the strength that he had
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@tommymoore1622 beautifully said 👏
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@tommymoore1622 beautifully said 👏
@arandomyoutubeuser3471
@arandomyoutubeuser3471 2 ай бұрын
I haven't turned 20 yet, so I'm leaving a comment here so I'll come back in the future to watch this 👍
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
I think a lot of what is shared can still apply 😉
@Willi_Zhang
@Willi_Zhang 2 ай бұрын
I haven’t turned 40 yet, so I’m leaving a comment here so I’ll come back in the future to watch this 😉
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@Willi_Zhang 😂
@ashleybaker5450
@ashleybaker5450 Ай бұрын
Kicked out at 18, cancer at 19-22! Severely depressed & currently 22 & no education or career experience under my belt & im constantly stressing that I’m so so behind as most my hs classmates have graduated college by now! Thank you for this video, it’s never too late to get up! What I’ve learned most is that Health is Definitely wealth! I’m made fun of for saying that but those who do that have yet to run into issues with their health & just seem to think they’re invincible bc they’re young. Started dating my now fiancé at 15, he continued on to college & then PT school & is about to be a doctor of physical therapy soon 😅meanwhile I’m just starting to begin my journey of what I’m doing now! He’s my biggest supporter & always has been, but it’s definitely hard when those around me seem so ahead! Definitely a ramble & rant here but again thank you for posting this video! Idk how it came across my feed but I do know WHY! I needed it!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Such an inspiring comment to read. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏
@channel21111
@channel21111 2 ай бұрын
Allah give this man endless blessings 🤲🏽Ameen
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@KahHongTan
@KahHongTan Ай бұрын
"Extraordinary results come from doing ordinary things an extraordinary amount of times" I needed that
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👊👊👊
@cconqquerr
@cconqquerr Ай бұрын
watching this at 18 years old. I pray we all achieve all our goals and visions that we pray for.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@sidestreamGLX
@sidestreamGLX 2 ай бұрын
Honestly, I‘m turning 42 in a few weeks and witnessing other people aging, this advise would even be useful for a lot of people no matter the age. Wisdom comes with personal development, not years on the clock
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@falfoola606
@falfoola606 Ай бұрын
i'm 23 but i feel like i'm getting old really fast and i keep worrying about the future all the time instead of actually doing something about it. i hope i overcome this fear and get my shit together fast thank you for this video
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@Sam_clava
@Sam_clava Ай бұрын
@@simonalexandero Whats your advice for this age of ours??
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@Sam_clava with regards to anything specifically? 🙏
@cestentoimeme
@cestentoimeme Ай бұрын
dude... you are so freaking YOUNG. I'm 27 and i wish i had YOUR age. And im sure people that's 35 will think 27 is too young. And so on. People that's 60 thinks 40 is young.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@cestentoimeme so true 👏
@verano21
@verano21 Ай бұрын
09:26 bro just casually dropped the answer to “what’s the meaning of life?” without even blinking twice
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@SoniaRaoVlogs
@SoniaRaoVlogs 2 ай бұрын
Indeed health is the most important asset. I didn’t care and was diagnosed with cancer last year
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Well said and hope you are on the mend now Sonia? ❤️
@feliciaflinders
@feliciaflinders 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ sending you well wishes
@Tony_K
@Tony_K 2 ай бұрын
Thoughts and prayers for a full recovery Sonia 🙏 x Tony.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@Tony_K 👏
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
@@feliciaflinders 👏
@inyourface127810
@inyourface127810 Ай бұрын
“Nobody is here to save us “ , that hit deep. But also as an adult , being saved by someone just shows how not independent we are .
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@Honerline
@Honerline 2 ай бұрын
I’ve just turned 25 days ago. This video is definitely a wake up call for me. THANK YOU
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@тысамыйсильныйудар
@тысамыйсильныйудар Ай бұрын
good advices. i lost everything because of the war. i am 25, i dont know where to go and what i want and i am just trying to survive. i am so jealous of you people whose lives were not destroyed
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@JohnnyVichi
@JohnnyVichi 2 ай бұрын
im 38 and this is the video that will finally push me to post mine! LETS GO GUYS!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Let’s go Johnny!!! 🙌
@withabbyjoy
@withabbyjoy 2 ай бұрын
I love how you said there’s no such thing as an overnight success. So many times we only see the result of someone’s success and rarely the work that led up to it
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
So true. We are blind to what goes on behind the scenes and focus too much on the things we see in public which are simply byproducts of the years of hard work.
@linaluna5514
@linaluna5514 3 күн бұрын
Having a mid-life crisis at the moment so listening to this helped. Thank you.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 3 күн бұрын
Glad to hear it resonated ❤️
@cgonzalezani
@cgonzalezani Ай бұрын
I turned 27 last week and it has been very hard to look back at my life not knowing where my twenties have gone. I feel like I haven’t achieved anything meaningful and I’ve been stuck at a 9-6 for the last 3 years and a half going into 4. I feel like my best years are gone and my time is ticking before I’m out of my twenties. I want nothing more than to leave my current job because I’m not passionate and I’m working for someone else’s dream and not my own, getting home when the sun is almost going down and watching my stay at home dad with dementia get older and not being able to spend more time with him. I have no direction about my future or what I want to build, what my gifts or talents are. I feel like the years are going by in a blink of an eye and I get overwhelmed at the thought of not having an answer, and not having a direction that gives me purpose and time freedom, while being challenged with getting out of the bad habits that keep me stuck further more.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
What small steps can you start taking outside your 9-6 that will help you eventually create an exit route to something more fulfilling?
@megarabluestories4916
@megarabluestories4916 Ай бұрын
I'm sorry about what happened to your father. I guess each one needs to duel on their own time. Don't rush that up. Don't beat yourself up because of societies expectations in life. You still a young woman. You can find your way to happiness, but is hard to find what passionates that heart when is broken. So take your time. 🫂🫂🫂
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@megarabluestories4916 👏
@jonathantovar6226
@jonathantovar6226 Ай бұрын
I'm in the same boat literally I have the same problem with myself it's hard to find that one thing u wanna chase after:/
@hndwkdm
@hndwkdm Ай бұрын
nah i got friends doing their dreams at 35 for a living and we all go out dancing and have fun, sometimes i feel like im older than them cuz they got more energy. i think sometimes im just lazy and then get sad about being lazy so then its a cycle i stay in. its hard to pull urself out of it but sometimes only you can get yourself out.
@arthurconinck9193
@arthurconinck9193 18 сағат бұрын
"don't overthink things, the clarity you seek come from action you take"
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 10 сағат бұрын
👊👊👊
@gcass888
@gcass888 2 ай бұрын
it’s my 21st birthday today. first year in my 20’s went by crazy fast but i learned so much. embracing the journey is key for sure! i wish everyone the best, God bless💗
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday 🥂
@Jay7.62
@Jay7.62 2 ай бұрын
I’m now that age about to be 22 already
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@Jay7.62 🙌
@LéonardK-z8e
@LéonardK-z8e Ай бұрын
@@Jay7.62Same, 22 next month and I am still anxious about life 😢
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 28 күн бұрын
@@LéonardK-z8e focus on what you can control today and tomorrow will look after itself ❤️
@stephaniejes4u6
@stephaniejes4u6 Ай бұрын
Inner peace comes from accepting what you can't control, and focusing your energy instead on what you can ❤
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@olivm3
@olivm3 Ай бұрын
Just turned 30 and time has gone by so fast. Its worrisome and scary sometimes but we take each day. make it better than the last
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@delacruzfamily3690
@delacruzfamily3690 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! I am 53 “ its never too late to make a change “😊
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Never too late indeed ❤️
@misslovelyynnt
@misslovelyynnt 2 ай бұрын
I just woke up from a scary dream on my life. You're the first video I watched. THANK YOU FOR THIS INTEGRITY AND HONESTY!!!!!!!!!! I'm so grateful right now ❤
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@yanyan9942
@yanyan9942 14 күн бұрын
Hi Simon, I just wanted to let you know that I'm 24 and have recently started my career path as a stage performer after my surgery. Your advice has really strengthened my determination. Thank you! ❤
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 14 күн бұрын
Exciting times ahead 🙌
@TechOutAdam
@TechOutAdam 2 ай бұрын
I started doing yoga because I wanted to try something new and a friend recommended it to me. I’ve already been eating healthy but then I decided to truly cut out bad sugar and treats over the summer and my health, vibrancy and mindset and so clear and positive. Especially because of yoga. Find something for your health you do everyday. Health is not a side hustle like he said. ❤
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Love it Adam 🙌
@Jgeetharealg
@Jgeetharealg 2 ай бұрын
What he said about health was the most important thing
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@warrenbradford2597
@warrenbradford2597 Ай бұрын
I follow Senca's philosophy of "Life is long, we just waste most of it," so I only agree with most of these things you said. I only use the "truths" I believe are real.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@itsyaboiwaevo
@itsyaboiwaevo 2 ай бұрын
Those magic words that you said literally transform my mind! I'm 19 and I'll make sure that I will climb the right mountain and leave no regrets! Cheers to anyone who wants to change their life! Good luck to our journey🥂🙌
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Beautiful words. Thank you and here’s to the journey ahead 🙌
@JohanFitFoodie
@JohanFitFoodie 2 ай бұрын
Public speaking, and finding something you're truly passionate about definitely were unknown skills for me until way too late in life. Underrated to enable long-term growth and leadership 😊🔥
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@Camille-v6u
@Camille-v6u Ай бұрын
wow. it is rare to come across someone who has mastered the art of communication in the way you have. I was glued to the screen and captivated by everything you said. thank you for this absolute masterpiece.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Grateful for the kind words and so glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙏
@suika_6264
@suika_6264 2 ай бұрын
I needed this so much 🫶 lost my early 20s to bad depression and gave up a fancy uni degree for a not so great relationship. 25 now and back in my 2nd year of a 5 year degree, finding myself ashamed of how “behind” in life I am. Your video reminded me to look back with gratitude for the life lessons and growth I’ve accumulated, and to cherish the present moments 🥺
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@carolina365
@carolina365 Ай бұрын
Don’t feel ashamed, timelines are just a social construct, the important thing is you’re doing your thing!! Good luck :)
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@carolina365 👏
@kendaljamie2765
@kendaljamie2765 Ай бұрын
“tying your emotional wellbeing to future outcomes will cause you to live as if you’re never going to die, and then you will die, never having truly lived” this is the most profound message i’ve ever heard
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@nasg7805
@nasg7805 5 сағат бұрын
Straight to the point no introduction.. I love this ✍🏼
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 4 сағат бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@aaronmichael6895
@aaronmichael6895 Ай бұрын
I'm 37...wish I had knew these in my 20's.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Not too late to start living them 🙌
@teodorG98
@teodorG98 23 күн бұрын
The winterarc granted me the chance to work on self-discipline. Giving up on social media was the biggest step up in having time for sports, readings, outdoor activities, and quality time with my significant other.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 23 күн бұрын
👏👏👏
@veliana.kimberly
@veliana.kimberly 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video. I'm 25 years old and working remotely. I've just started getting full-time jobs this year, and it's affected my mental health to see others my age already achieve so much in life. I really need to hear this. Subscribed 🙂
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 5 күн бұрын
Thank you and I think you’ll also enjoy my latest video on feeling behind in life ❤️
@thecampaigner4553
@thecampaigner4553 2 ай бұрын
I’ll be 29 in November. In & out depression but trying to stay consistent with healthy habits to achieve a good life. Love seeing things like this. Thank you
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@P6intman-15
@P6intman-15 2 ай бұрын
Happy 40
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@Radjasss3
@Radjasss3 20 сағат бұрын
I have been spending my 20s feeling so out of place.. Everything you said made me tear Thanks for being you
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 20 сағат бұрын
So glad to hear you enjoyed. Means a lot - thank you 🥲
@FGBeatz_Official
@FGBeatz_Official Ай бұрын
That’s crazy, I’m 21 now. I hope life is going up. This year was the worst year in my life. I want to go up. But good Tipps.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Thank you and here’s to that 🙌
@Annes.Archives
@Annes.Archives 2 ай бұрын
Just turned 30 and im glad ive been practicing most of these. But still a ways to go. :)
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
We are a constant work in progress and to fulfil our potential, the focus must be on being a little better than who we were yesterday ❤️
@jadetarot7647
@jadetarot7647 2 күн бұрын
Turning 31 in a couple months and I found this video at the right time. Every one is so profound. Thank you, Simon!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 күн бұрын
So glad to hear you enjoyed it Jade 🙏
@mkpnjbh7296
@mkpnjbh7296 Ай бұрын
i was born in 1996 and just turned 28. still in my 20s tbfh i needed thiss
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Happy 28th! And so glad to hear you enjoyed the video 🙏
@LAIDOCKS
@LAIDOCKS Ай бұрын
the mountain analogy is so true. my parents and peers have always pressured me to go to college and get a 9-5 but i’ve always been a dreamer and i don’t want to be a work slave. it’s sad how brainwashed ppl are even when i explain over and over i want REAL freedom. always be aware and chose YOURSELF!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Spot on 🔥
@sonialeescostumecentral
@sonialeescostumecentral Ай бұрын
Wow! Great wisdom from a 40yo! Forwarded this to my 24 and 26yo son and daughter. Thank you for the 40 great insights!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Thank you Sonia 🙏
@drsallymanderchoi
@drsallymanderchoi Ай бұрын
I just put "you'll always be a better place by doing the work than avoiding it" on a sticky note in my work space. Great video :D
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Thank you Sally 🙏
@Spacecadetultra
@Spacecadetultra 2 ай бұрын
I already heard most of the stuff being talked about from mentors, friends and colleagues. I’m so grateful to be surrounded by supportive and helpful ppl. I’m in a slump in terms of career, starting again. I will do it again, correctly this time.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
You will come back stronger with wisdom gained from the experience 🙌
@Spacecadetultra
@Spacecadetultra Ай бұрын
@@simonalexandero this feels like one of those tycoon games! When you reset it becomes very very easy to blow past the easy stuff and still continue to grow! So far I have already got more done than what I thought I would do in months. Lesgoooo
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@Spacecadetultra 🔥
@ekronb5287
@ekronb5287 Ай бұрын
Thank you brotha. Especially as a Asian man in his early 20s, advice from an OG like you means a lot
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@leoaquino7646
@leoaquino7646 2 ай бұрын
Im 31, i encountered and learned most you stated. Will use this as basis before i turned 40. Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
So glad to hear you enjoyed it and sounds like you will have some strong foundations in place through your 30s 👏
@girlwomen515
@girlwomen515 Ай бұрын
People need resources, support and community. We need to have that conversation.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@oliwazzoliwek1
@oliwazzoliwek1 7 сағат бұрын
Thanks so much for that! Deep down we all know what should be our priority and that we only live ONCE but we also need a frequent reminder to stay on track and live simpler, happier life. Great video Simon!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 6 сағат бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@thehyle7966
@thehyle7966 Ай бұрын
Thank u so much im 26 ... feels like im 50 !
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@junnaisamuel9374
@junnaisamuel9374 Ай бұрын
Me too 😅
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@junnaisamuel9374 😂
@stephcara2770
@stephcara2770 Ай бұрын
Amen to that 😂
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
@@stephcara2770 😂
@Sabooee
@Sabooee 2 ай бұрын
I'm 28 , I'm saying honestly this is the one of the best advice that I saw I'm really appreciate you.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Those words mean a lot. Thank you 🙏
@arisewithmae
@arisewithmae 7 күн бұрын
I like how there is no cut, no rattling moments and straight forward this video is!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 7 күн бұрын
👊👊👊
@shawnmatjiu2940
@shawnmatjiu2940 2 ай бұрын
"How you do things everyday is how you do things for the rest of your life ". I even wrote it down on my whiteboard. I'm gonna live by this quote. It touched me so deep I even paused the video to really meditate on that thought. Beautiful stuff. Thanks man
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Shawn 🙏
@Sam_clava
@Sam_clava Ай бұрын
i'm 23 now and all i wanted is this video to help keep me working on myself.......My mind should be my best weapon..📌
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
It must be 👊
@ViktoriaCampbell7
@ViktoriaCampbell7 27 күн бұрын
I am 26 and I so needed to hear that. Thank you!
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 27 күн бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@The_Unseen_Official
@The_Unseen_Official Ай бұрын
“Most people prefers to blame and complain rather than taking full responsibility of their life” and “Choose your life partner wisely” Thanks for sharing 🙏🏿
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
So glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙌
@ChillẘrLd-2001
@ChillẘrLd-2001 Ай бұрын
I’m 23. Words of wisdom come by a lot for me but hearing it from someone is very motivating towards a positive path.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@Tonytentoes666
@Tonytentoes666 2 ай бұрын
Please if you’re reading this, give yourself more praise, you’ve made it this far ❤️
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@JoeGuapo
@JoeGuapo 2 ай бұрын
I’m 26 & I’m grateful I went through all my life experiences to have already known these things..I live by these daily trying to be the first Millionaire of my family..everyone be safe in your journey
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 2 ай бұрын
Amazing work Joe! And I’ve no doubt you will 🔥
@cynnnfluence
@cynnnfluence 8 күн бұрын
I’m 25 and though I already have my Bachelor’s degree and keep to a consistent fitness & meal plan, I have so much work to do with taking action professionally and getting rid of social clutter. Thank you! Hopefully, a couple of month to a year from now, I’m handling these things well.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero 8 күн бұрын
Let us know how you get on 🙌
@JadeSmith-b5l
@JadeSmith-b5l Ай бұрын
i’m 24, turning 25 in 2 months…. thank you so so much. this video has me in tears as im visioning myself doing everything you’re saying. a fulfilled life
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@kristyx998
@kristyx998 Ай бұрын
I am so happy i found this video. Thank you so much! I feel so overwhelmed but i‘m just 25 years old. I‘m so young and sometimes i think it is already too late to change something.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Not too late Kristy ❤️
@selmagonzales6986
@selmagonzales6986 Ай бұрын
THANK YOU!! Thank you for these powerful words 🙌🏼 I am 25 and starting to change my life to a better one 🍀
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@LexieAsmr
@LexieAsmr Ай бұрын
I agree with all of this, I have been fairly successful and happy in my late 20s because I was doing a lot of this. I have some things to work on of course like anyone else, but I’m so proud of myself for taking risks, for staying motivated, and for being myself.
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Love it Lexie! Amazing work 🙌
@tyffg9798
@tyffg9798 Ай бұрын
I’ve challenged myself to watch or listen to this video daily until it finally clicks internally
@simonalexandero
@simonalexandero Ай бұрын
Love that! Exciting times ahead 🙌
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