I'm 26 years old, and have never been in a relationship.

[@deborahbx_]

Hi Fam 🤍 I pray this video is a blessing to everyone who needs to hear this in the single season! I only briefly touched on those of you who have been separated, divorced or broken up. I just want to add that God wants to take you by the hand to nurture and heal you through the pain that might’ve come with it. He is close to the broken-hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit, psalm 34:18. Our God is the God of resurrected life and new beginnings! God doesn’t see you as a divorced person or a failure, he sees you as Christ who gave you his perfection. Don’t let the enemy torment you with his lies, he’s a liar!! May you experience God’s perfect love and healing like never before. May the chains of bitterness be broken over your life! I pray that over you in Jesus mighty name. There’s still so much to come, take God by the hand and walk in it 🤍🙏🏽

[@kafukibuyu971]

Wow! This is a great video with facts. As a single person I can attest to that. Currently by the power of our Lord Jesus Christ I'm free from any fantasy especially that perfect family imagination in my mind for years. The best ingredient is to cast out any evil thought by the name of Jesus and reading the scriptures.

[@paulmartin7053]

In my Christian faith I've been single in my Christian faith for 15 years my faith is more important than been in a faith Christian realashionship

[@paulmartin7053]

But in God's time if it is meant to be I would prefer to serve the holy spirit amen ✝️☦️🙏🌅✝️🔥🔥🇭🇲🇱🇷🇱🇷🇭🇲

[@misslulu8110]

Currently crying I cry out to him and he listens .

[@randycryer1214]

Amen to that in Jesus name amen

[@dexdzll6427]

This reminds me so much of my mom's story. her entire 20s she wanted a relationship so bad but God put her in the path of pursuing her career instead. When she turned 30, already well established, she met literally th most perfect guy for her (my dad). Who happened to be the kindest, most caring and responsible husband to her and honestly the best father anyone could ever ask for. True love is always worth the wait 💖💖

[@deborahbx_]

Ways sis this is so amazing to hear 🥹🤍 Thank you for sharing part of your mom’s and your story! It’s really encouraging and proof that when we wait on God he will provide the best of the best :)

[@justifiedmasagony3635]

damm thats rare. I wouldn't rely on it

[@agees924]

@@justifiedmasagony3635 It’s not that rare. Most women in my bible study group who recently got engaged are around the age of 30.

[@justifiedmasagony3635]

@@agees924 that ish is super rare. the Bible group is s very small sample size and most 30 YO women aren't in a bible group

[@agees924]

@@justifiedmasagony3635 I was talking more specifically about Christian woman.

[@rebeccasevere]

Ladies, ladies ladies! I was in my first ever relationship at 29 and married at 30! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Stay pure, stay in prayer, stay in God’s will and just as God is preserving you, He’s preserving your husband for you! Enjoy fully basking in God’s presence during your singleness; spend time fasting and in the Word. These will be some of the BEST & most memorable days of your life! Everyone’s path is different and some people will try to pressure you to move before God’s timing. Don’t worry about people: One day they say this; another day they say that. God is always constant. You can count on Him!

[@carolf24]

Thank you for sharing this!

[@Mapalo2-]

Thank you for thisss❤

[@dodosame]

Thank you !!! ❤️

[@MalihaMahjabin]

How did you know? I have had so many bad first encounters after my glow up and a devastating first experience, I just became scared and aloof. My fear is even if it happens I will not recognize.

[@gabriellastephanie8045]

I'm such a pretty girl inside and out, but no matter how good I am to whoever it is, I'm still lonely as fuck. Shit is getting real old. I'm 26 now and I've have never been in a relationship or been able to experience being in love with someone. It's real sad.

[@goldengirlblanche]

Im 33 and have never been in a relationship. The older I get the harder it is to keep faith but I continue to. Update: 34 now. I did graduate from RN school by the grace of God. After years of not giving up. ( I received a grant for both LPN/RN, thats how I know it was God's will, I tried in the past but funds were impossible). Still single. Keeping my eyes on God and going to church more than once a week now. Will update if anything changes. God's will❤🙏 Bless you all for your kind words.

[@VeeMich]

I'm 39 and same... It's just one of those things. But keep the faith regardless

[@Guevodou13]

We are not all made to be married...calling probably something else

[@Shatara_Styles]

Girl, turned 37 a few months ago and it's rough girl 😂 BUT please focus on how full you want to be for your husband. Mentally, emotionally, financially and especially spiritually. God really do have us on the right one sis, so stay strong 🫶🏾

[@goldengirlblanche]

@@GuidetteExpert i do...and just because I'm single doesnt mean I need a psychologist.

[@deborahbx_]

Stick to God sis! It's definitely not an easy journey. It's not for the weak!! But one day I hope we can look back and see why we had to wait. You're precious and special to our Heavenly Father. He only wants the best of the best for you 🤍 let him know about your frustrations and all! He wants to hear it. May he bless you and keep you sis, and when the time is right God will bring you an amazing man!! 🤗

[@loveetrish1]

1 Corinthians 7:32 “I want you to be free from the concerns of this life. An unmarried man can spend his time doing the Lord’s work and thinking how to please him.” Enjoy your single season ❤

[@deborahbx_]

Amen sis!! Thank you for reminding us of that verse. May we fix our gaze on Jesus through the single season 🥹🤍

[@dodosame]

Amen !!! I'm literally praying to God to help me enjoy everything I can in that single season, because I'm really realizing the blessing that this time is. I want to do many things with God and also for myself (for example, take care of my body to be in good health, skincare, pimple myself, learn how to love myself and see myself with God's eyes, ect..). I already heard all of this, but it's hitting now. I want to live everything without regret, and I feel like God is preparing everything, and when I'm going to be well established, everything will pour out. ✨🌷💓

[@Action713Jonathan]

💯

[@tonyenni]

I'm just 22 going to be 23 next month. As someone who has dreamed of love and marriage, I'm going to be honest, it's a brutal struggle and it's internal. I have a constant fear I'm never going to be in a relationship, some days I'm very ok with it, other days it's a battle. It is very comforting to know that it is possible to grow out of that feeling and completely relish in the season (even if it's for a lifetime). Thank you Deborah for the encouragement😀

[@deborahbx_]

Amen sis! I pray that you will see God’s goodness through this season. Trust him with that desire to be married. He knows you, and he’s got you! All in his perfect timing 🤍🤗 it’s definitely a rollercoaster, but God is with you every step of the way!

[@its.mmonie]

SINGLENESS IS A ONCE IN A LIFETIME GIFT AND SEASON THAT WE WILL NEVER HAVE AGAIN, WE SHOULD LEARN TO ENJOY AND CHERISH IT TO THE FULLEST!!!❤🙌🏿💯

[@deborahbx_]

Amen!!! 🤍🤍

[@love20804]

True!!!

[@magnetcrusher1193]

and this attitude when communicated to a man that is interested in you is a huge turn off and a good reason for him to move on to talk to the next women who will in some way make the man feel he is desired and needed. Then he puts a ring on her finger and not yours. You seem good there by yourself, don't want to get between you and you.

[@justacarat2638]

Sorry to break your positive vibes but what makes yall think that singleness season is once in a lifetime? There are tons of people who are single after being married. Divorced, widowed... some people have had their significant other's or children get really sick or disabled... singleness does not happen only in youth, but so isn't married life always flowers and happy times

[@roselinededua]

As a married Christian lady, I see the single season as a blessing. One to deepen our relationship with God without the demands and duties from marriage 😊

[@deborahbx_]

Amen sis!! It’s definitely a rollercoaster, but we get to fix our eyes on Jesus only and go where he calls us. May he fulfil his amazing purpose for you through this season. There is soooo much to come 🥰

[@RawSienna]

I think it’s a blessing too, and I also think it’s easier for marrieds to say it when they’re already married. Some people forget what it was like to be single when they haven’t been for so long!

[@msmelanin2425]

Yeah as a “married woman”

[@mangidenga9250]

I'm 28 years old now and never been in a relationship either but I know without a doubt that God has prepared somebody for me. I'm just taking this season to enjoy my time with Jesus without having to divide my attention 💗

[@nobodysperfect06]

Are you saying you never had a boyfriend?

[@mim-rw1ts]

@@nobodysperfect06yes

[@salvationmasinge4225]

I'm 27 and still single, thank you for this video.

[@deborahbx_]

We’re in this together sis 🥰

[@initiatorhater0688]

are you saying you never had a boyfriend?

[@salvationmasinge4225]

@@initiatorhater0688 Yes

[@oliwiakryczek32]

I prefer be alone and I don't want boyfriend

[@salvationmasinge4225]

@@oliwiakryczek32 may I ask, what is the reason?

[@fragrancedeparadiso443]

Someone said "Let a woman's heart be so hidden in Christ that a man would have to get through Christ to get to her." Had to learn bitter lessons to get to where i am as i discovered a side of Christ that nullifies cravings for male attention

[@MedMicroBioMe]

I love that saying ❤

[@phenomenonto328]

So powerful and so true. I’ve seen this for myself 🙌🏾

[@bethany1918]

Hi @fragrancedeparadiso443, how have you gone about discovering a side of Christ that nullifies the male cravings?

[@angelika3779]

@@bethany1918want to know too!

[@SharaFaithRun]

Thanks for the transparency. I love your attitude on this. I am in my 40s and was married at 25 then divorced at 30. I wanted to be married so bad and chose the wrong person just because he showed me attention. It was not worth it. Singleness is a blessed and painful road for me. It makes me so sad. I’m desperately holding on to God. My heart and prayers go out to anyone who loves Jesus, is a good , nice person but still find themselves without a partner.

[@deborahbx_]

Amen sis! I’m so sorry to hear about the weight of that decision that you can feel at times. It’s definitely not easy to be single and feel like you have so much to offer! But God sees us, he sees you. He hasn’t forgotten, and his timing is still perfect. I pray that he will comfort you through this even more so. You’re special, may you see that again. You’re not alone 🥰

[@its.mmonie]

GOD IS FAITHFUL AND SO WORTHY OF YOUR TRUST. HE CAN DEFINITELY DO IT FOR YOU - OLD THINGS HAVE PASSED AWAY AND BEHOLD EVERYTHING IS NEW. YOUR REDEEMER IS ALIVE AND RESTORES COMPLETELY. ✝️🙏🏿🖤

[@mikalabyrd1461]

Wow girl, I never comment on videos but this is my story to a t. I’m about to be 26 in a few weeks, single, grew up without a father and tried to fill that void with male attention/relationships. I have never heard a testimony so close to my own. The struggle with rejection, fantasizing, and lust. Hearing this has brought me such hope and peace. I’m still in the process of finding contentment in this season but I’m learning and trusting.

[@deborahbx_]

Wauw, it’s so crazy that we get to share so many parts of our testimonies! These things are not easy to have gone through, but it gives comfort to know that we’re not alone 🤍 I pray that our dad in heaven will be your comfort and provider like never before. The bible says in Isaiah 54:5 that your maker is your husband 🥹 let God romance you! His pursuit for you is so intense, he’s madly in love with you Mikala! I pray that you’ll get to realise this more and more. We’re so special to God as his beloved daughters and he only wants the best of the best for us. All in his perfect timing 🥰 sending lots of love and hugs xx

[@raquelmoura5549]

Thank you for sharing!❤

[@KaitlinJenkins]

I am 27 years old and still single! I needed to hear this message! It’s nice to hear others who are single like me talk about this. I pray our Hearts be hidden with God until he shows us who our spouses are. God Bless You! ❤

[@deborahbx_]

Amen sis!! And that is such a powerful prayer, for us to be hidden until the time is right. God changes seasons in his perfect timing, so may we trust that timing and enjoy our singleness with him. We will not lack a thing in Jesus mighty name. We’re in this together 🥰🤍

[@paulmartin7053]

Sister Kaitlin I've been single in my Christian faith ✝️✝️✝️✝️🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🔥🔥🔥🇭🇲🇭🇲🇭🇲 for 15years being so close to the holy spirit is far more important than being in a Christian realashionship in God's timeing amen ✝️☦️🙏🌅✝️🔥🔥🇭🇲🇱🇷🇱🇷🇭🇲

[@sharonfrancine5031]

Amen. Thank yo, Kaitlin. I am also 27 and in a single season right now. Hopefully we will be united with the one God chose for us 🙏

[@its.mmonie]

I AM ALSO 26 YEARS OLD AND I ONLY HAVE HEART EYES FOR JESUS🤟🏿😍❤...I AM ETERNALLY THANKFUL TO JESUS FOR THE GIFT OF SINGLENESS ❤💯

[@deborahbx_]

Amen!!! 🥰

[@magnetcrusher1193]

There is no man on this planet who can outdo or compete with Jesus. My recommendation is keep the two separate and not in competition, the moment you tell a man all you need is Jesus he will leave you with just Jesus. I'm christian and I have had a woman tell me that in the past and I respected her and went ahead and did not ask her out or take her out again.

[@satansuccessor]

Bs keep coping

[@promisemmango1280]

I was single for 8 years, and I just got married in November last year. He is a faithful God, and He can fill any gap in life.

[@ResoundingBeauty]

I really enjoyed this video. I can relate I'm 29 and never ever been in a relationship and also can relate far as growing up without a father figure. I lost my mom at the age of 10 and at 14 years old i loat my dad but around 11-14 up till he died my dad wasnt active in my life he had a hard time dealing with my moms death and that caused him to leave me alone alot so he really wasnt present in my life once my mom passed. At this age 29 well about 2 years ago God blessed me with a supervisor he is a male and shows so much compassion towards me like a father figure and teaches me alot of life lessons and advice and wisdom which is a blessing im very grateful to have a supervisor like that i know its not.my time yet but i know God is preparing me for marriage. I can relate about having your own place i felt like i couldnt afford it and everything's as well but just June 23 God blessed me with my own place after being homeless for 7 months its nobody but God i work part time and God blessed me with a 2 bedroom place more than I asked for cause I was believing for a 1 bedroom God is so good. Im content in my single season and not out here looking for love and i know when the time is right God will send my kingdom spouse. I can relate too when ppl think something wrong with you when we still single at a certain age like being single in our 20s and 30s is a crime or something lol. I know i do have stop comparing myself to others i do that alot not about marriage but just in general

[@bjackk1]

Little Sister D (because I'm old enough to be your father), thank you for your honesty, transparency, vulnerability, and willingness to share your personal feelings and experiences. You have blessed so many with this message, including my daughter. You are a future man’s “good thing,” as it is written: “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord. (Proverbs 18:22) KJV.

[@teabubbles4ever]

Amen!

[@luckyfriend82]

Yes!! This is the one.

[@olgaibeh1124]

‘God’s rejection is God’s protection’. Such a true in my life before I got married. Thank God for it!

[@gabriellaguerrero4561]

This is insane. I literally just got out of a relationship yesterday. I had to break it off after almost two years and I came to KZbin to watch worship but I saw you in my KZbin feed and I felt the urge to watch it rather than play worship and just wow. How perfect. God is so good.

[@deborahbx_]

Wauw, God knows exactly what you need when you need it sis. I’m so sorry to hear about the break up. But it sounds like you had to be strong and make the right decision. That’s not always easy! May our Heavenly Father pour out his presence and perfect love over you through this. It will probably be a rollercoaster of emotions, but I pray that you’ll be able to hold onto the steady rock that is Jesus. He’s holding your hand every step of the way! You’re not alone, he sees you. I’m sending you lots of love and hugs sis. You’re not alone 🤍

[@colleenr2]

Thank you so much for this. I’m 35F with 0 prospects for a husband. It gets me so stressed out. Your message is so encouraging though. It gets exhausting being single all of the time, but I will continue to make the most of my single season in Jesus’ name.

[@deborahbx_]

Amen 🤍 It's definitely not an easy journey sis, but we're in good company. Jesus is with us every step of the way. May he bless you and keep you through this season. You are so so special to your heavenly father 🤗 When the time is right, an amazing husband will come on your path!

[@its.mmonie]

MAN THIS IS A WHOLE FIREEEEE SERMON ON ITS OWN MA'AM - AMEN!!!! SINGLENESS IS REALLY LIBERATING !🏆🤞🏿❤

[@lorrainekaruga]

I am also 26 years and I have never been in a relationship. I completely understand and relate to what you are taklking about. It has been a battle to get to a point where I am now content and at peace with letting God do His thing. I am finally at peace with waiting for Him. My 25th year was rough 😅. I'd get jealous, I'd cry myself to sleep. I hated myself. But now , I'm good. I'm glad that we can talk about this openly and its good to hear thatI'm not struggling alone.

[@shesadiamond5167]

Sameee, being single and not desired romantically by anyone really breaks a girl.. I've never felt so alone and hidden.

[@tsakanimathye3376]

As a married woman, this still blessed me. Indeed every season is a blessing. God bless you sis❤

[@segunadewale3]

I'm 29 still single. But I know God will do it

[@missteree2905]

Amen

[@deborahbx_]

Amen, he absolutely will! Trust his timing. In God’s arms you are safe 🥰🤍

[@kingdomcitizen4788]

Ladies, I know how hard it is. I was a born again Christian since I was 24, knew that I could pray about it so I did. Then nothing...when I was 36 I met someone who was not a believer and although I knew that it was wrong and yes many red flags I kept the relationship going. After 6 years we got married for 1 year and we got a divorce. So it's NOT worthed. Now I'm 50 and again I'm by myself but now I'm making the decision with Him so yeah the waiting is hard and I wanted children but never got it but I have peace. Be blessed ❤

[@rissajayy]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing

[@creatingchristina]

28 and never been in a relationship! Trusting in God’s timing and remaining faithful can be challenging but I know it will be rewarding.

[@deborahbx_]

It’s definitely not an easy journey, but when God brings the perfect partner along you’ll understand why it took a bit longer. The best things take time! God is reminding you and your husband to come together at the perfect time 🥰 God knows you, just rest in that truth!

[@daughterofgod3721]

As someone who wasn't saved until her early 30s, I want to let you know how blessed you are! I had many boyfriends/was basically ravaged by the world (and had no idea because I didn't know Christ)-it's so painful and of course caused so much regret once I realized the truth of God/Jesus. I've now been following Christ and single for the last 11-plus years, and while it's not always easy, it's definitely better than the emptiness of the world. If He has someone for you, you can rest assured, He will bring him to you. In the meantime, let the Lord be your husband. God bless you!

[@nikkic2710]

"God's REJECTIONS Is His PROTECTION "Deep😥 I can relate thus we gonna keep on pressin and wait on the LORD and continue to be of Good Courage 🙌🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@yeliena]

I'd never been in a serious relationship until I turned 25 and grew tired of it. The tipping point was someone who I thought was my friend making fun of me for "not having experience". I wasn't a Christian back then, so I went out and made lots of mistakes. Trust me, the grass always seems greener on the other side. None of my relationships have been even half as fulfilling as I have imagined. Most of them have left me with nothing but trauma that God has been healing lately. It truly is better to be single than to be in a relationship with the wrong person. I wish I've stayed single now, as I would have avoided so much heartbreak, embarrassment, and shame. None of my exes treated me right, and each hurt me in ways I didn't even know I could be hurt in, created new insecurities in me, and wrought all kinds of havoc in my life. If I have learned anything from that, it's this: if it's not from God, it's not worth it. The price will be much higher than what you're willing to pay. Be patient and trust God, and your patience will be rewarded.

[@misslulu8110]

I’m literally in Tears . I’m a codependent with Ptsd it’s absolutely frightening to be alone . But God’s with me I know he is . I will be Healed in Jesus mighty Name ❤🫶🏻👏🏼

[@deborahbx_]

Amen my beautiful sis! You ARE already healed in Jesus mighty name! He is with you every step of the way 🥰

[@misslulu8110]

@@deborahbx_Thank you Sister Deb ❤ God bless you in Jesus Mighty name 🫶🏻

[@LeChanel]

Story of my life. In a season of not looking but it’s still something I desire for..

[@deborahbx_]

I know the feeling sis 😭 it’s hard out here!! But God is there to comfort us when we feel lonely. Waiting on the Lord is ALWAYS worth it 🤍

[@melynaestrada2150]

I’m 29 and always felt the “need” to be in relationships to fill a void that I didn’t realize until now, never given myself the time to be single but now going through a breakup I really resonate with everything you’re saying. You translated everything so beautifully and giving many of us a different perspective 🩷

[@rebeccanumbi9538]

I can relate to this 100%...thank you so much sis, I'm 27 years old and never dated before. This is just confirmation for what God has told me. We need to walk in the truth of how God loves us and that void will be filled,

[@richardwanyonyi3333]

Single-hood is Divine ... it's meant for us to devote our self to God...💥💥💥

[@BiochemKay]

Im 33 still single, trusting God, and enjoying life. At the right time I know God will make it happen 😊

[@ericmiller8325]

I am also in a single season and have been for a number of years now. Early on I fully embraced my singleness by focusing on maximizing who I am spiritually, physically and financially so, when God grants me my kingdom wife I will have everything in place to love her as Christ loves the church, as well as everything I need to provide for her and protect the integrity of our relationship. Though I get lonely from time to time, I talk to God about how I fee inside - including a little whining from time to time :) - But ultimately, I then rest in his sufficiency. His grace is enough and I wouldn't trade this process for anything.

[@deborahbx_]

Wauw Eric thank you so much for sharing your journey with this season! The communication you have with God through this is something we can all learn from. To just be honest, and let him know when we are struggling! Because it is hard! But God admires our honesty, that’s how we grow closer to him ☺️. He sees you and delights in your obedience. May he continue to bless you through this season, may you know that you don’t lack a single thing! You’re not alone 🤗🙏🏽

[@tee6001]

Hi Deborah. I'm 25 and have never been in a relationship too. And the older I get, the more I feel like I'm ugly or there's something wrong with me, and fear I might never be in one. That is why I dwell in fantasies. However, hearing you speak about your experience, I find some comfort. Thank you!

[@deborahbx_]

We’re in this together 🤍 There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you! On the contrary. You’re special to your father in heaven. Trust me, when it’s not the right person, it’ll only lead to pain. Trust God with your love story. He’s written something beautiful for you! His timing is perfect 🥰

[@tee6001]

@@deborahbx_ Aw thank you so much for the beautiful, kind words. I pray God blesses you abundantly❤

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

Thank you for talking about this! I'm 21 and never had a relationship before. Sometimes I would get so discouraged and feel down, but I'm using this season to strengthen myself in God, discovering His call for my life, and bettering myself 🙏🏿❤

[@mosunshine9265]

I put this in my "watch later" folder for so long and needed something to listen to while i oil my scalp tonight lol and im so glad it popped up and i decided to click. God knows what you need and when you need it & He always provides 💜

[@Shayiamiam]

I thank The Lord so much that you posted this video. Wait this is going to be a long comment. Sorry on advance! Thank you for sharing this with us. I am in the exact same place as you. I'm 24 never been in a relationship. I've never been asked out or pursued. Nothing at all. I have been wrestling with my mind so much over this. Seeing everyone else and how it's seems so easy and I'm like... What is wrong with me! But it's nothing! I'm single during this time to better my relationship with The Lord. To become who he's made me to be. To know myself as a person. This time is so, so precious. I need to be thankful for this season I'm in. When the time is right. The Lord will make it happen! This video encouraged me so much. The Lord and I go on "dates" all the time. He is my best friend. I'm thankful again that you shared this 💛

[@deborahbx_]

Amen my beautiful sis!! This is so incredible to hear! It's a hard season to walk through for sure because we don't know when its going to end. But our Heavenly Father knows us inside out! You are sooo loved it's crazy. I love hearing about the dates with God you go on ☺. May you continue to do that and see his goodness in your life. You are beyond special, only the best of the best is laid aside for you. One day we'll understand why we had to wait a little longer 🥰🤍 Love you sis! Sending lots of love and hugs xx

[@antsharp22]

I pray for everyone in this season, may you all continue to strive, thrive and continue to trust in God. Amen 🙏🏾 🤍

[@bevblaise]

That is so real - I found myself day dreaming often as well and had to come to the understanding that God doesnt like when we fantasize and we mss out on so much in resent day.

[@sajahmjones]

Thank you for being open about speaking on this. It feels difficult at times. I’m in my isolation season, so it gets lonely at times. Walking with the lord alone is nice, but sometimes I think of sharing it with someone else. Patience and faith is definitely key.

[@deborahbx_]

Hi sis 🤗 You’re so right. It is very difficult sometimes. We are created by God to be relational beings so it makes sense for us to desire a partner. But I’ve had to learn the hard way that if we force things to happen before our time it only ends in heartbreak 😭❤️‍🩹 May God help us to be patient within this season. And when we do feel lonely, and we get in our feelings we can let him know! Just cry out to him so he can soothe your heart in those moments. He’s always there with you sis 🥰 we’re in this together!

[@sajahmjones]

@@deborahbx_ Thank you!❤️

[@JQ_StaySunny]

Girl I need a big ol’ hug right now.. wheew, thank you for the reminder and the encouragement because this single season IS INDEED a blessing because GOD is THE provider

[@wendyloza7784]

Although all of your faith talks are all so amazing, the past few have been resonating so so much with me. I have recently gotten out of a 6 year relationship and have been struggling with the "newness" of being single again. Your words are always so inspiring and serve as guidance and affirmation of my need to get closer to God. Thank you Deborah! ❤

[@deborahbx_]

Ahh this is such a blessing to hear! God knows exactly what you need when you need it, and it’s so incredible to hear that he’s speaking through me to reach you! I’m sorry to hear about the loss of that relationship. I can imagine that it must be so hard to all of a sudden be by yourself again. But I pray that God will reveal himself to you through this more than ever. May you experience his presence and perfect love! You’re not alone in this, he’s your comfort and partner! There’s so much to come for you sis, don’t forget that. You’re safe with God🥰 sending lots of love and hugs!

[@paulmartin7053]

Sister Wendy I've been single in my Christian faith fore 15years I'm so use to being alone it's in God's time and growing in my faith amen together amen sister Wendy ✝️✝️✝️✝️🔥🔥🔥🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇭🇲🇭🇲🇭🇲

[@trinitykaihir]

Thank you for this video!!! I just turned 20 in July and although i’ve been in relationships before none of them were ever fulfilling. I am so tired of seeking love and validation from people. i always end up in a relationship when i should just be able to rest in my single season. I’ve been in such a rush to get married, have kids and “start my life” that i couldn’t just rest and be single. i really appreciate this video because it touches so many things i struggle with. I want to be able to be content in my singleness and to wait until God says it’s time for me to be in a relationship. it always feels like being single is a burden but i want to flourish in this moment and focus on God and focus on the dreams he placed in my heart.

[@deborahbx_]

ahh lil sis! I'll be praying for you. You are beyond loved by our heavenly father, and like with me he's blocking the path for now. It's not time yet. He's saving us from more heartbreak and damage then we can imagine. May you be content in him, may you focus your eyes on him and know that he's all you need. You won't lack a thing in life sis!!! We're in this together 🥰🤍

[@tobibabalola3143]

I’m so happy for your faith. The best is yet to come.

[@medjida]

Thank you so much for your story. I would like to tell you there’s so many women who regret wasting their 20s with men that only wasted their precious time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. The man that is destined to you will be so honored to have you

[@Kenesha_]

Deborah 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I needed this message, I was at a college alumni event this weekend and it hit me hard I was the only single one but I have so much faith that I’m in this season for a reason. I know God is all knowing and I know it is written that he is preparing himself as well. Another great episode! I will continue this season 🥰🥰🥰

[@thewellnessrecipe8905]

Deborah you are so full of wisdom, I thank God for you. You have such a special anointing for this season. Thank you for your obedience and allowing God to use your ashes and make them a beautiful tool for us to continue to heal and grow. Blessings to you sister!

[@kaykaycreation061]

I am 25 years old and still without a boyfriend! So much to relate from you! You're such a blessing to subscribe to your channel and follow you for a while now! I am content being Single!

[@mwizaluanga8026]

Wow! I have been absolutely blessed! The single season come once in a lifetime...I needed to hear that. I've been rebuked, corrected and encouraged! Thank you so much again! God bless you ❤❤❤

[@ldm1917]

I am 22 and also never had a boyfriend... God is readying us for a beautiful soul one day. I love your honestly & being proud in your faith I'm so grateful I'm learning about my faith & found your content

[@kei-shandasaddler9284]

I very rarely comment on videos but I also watch with great intention and purpose! My beautiful Sister In Christ, I receive this blessed and timely word in the mighty name of Jesus! I am 44 years old and have been bending God’s ear pertaining to this specific topic. I feel like at this point in my life that I’m really ready to date and be in a relationship but I never ever in a million years looked at my singleness as a true unmerited blessing from GOD! I’m so humbled, grateful, and thankful for your obedience and your sacrifice. I truly felt in my heart that God had forgotten about me or that I wasn’t good enough or worthy enough to be someone’s better half. But your message spoke volumes and hit me hard. I will continue to walk in my singleness with my head held high, embrace God’s presence (because I know he’s there because I didn’t stumble upon your video by chance; it was a divine orchestration), and dwell in the blessings he has for this season of my life. You have so much wisdom and insight and I pray from the deepest crevice in my heart that God will continue to use you as a mighty vessel for the Kingdom so that you can continue to bless others as you have blessed me! May your abundance overflow in every area of your life as you continue to walk in love and honor God! Oh, and I subscribed! ❤️💃🏽🙏🏾🤗

[@karennofficial1531]

This is such a mature , perspective for someone who isn’t even 30 yet . I’m really inspired by your outlook. You are Gods special princess, and as His very own , He wouldn’t want you to just settle . If God has someone for you, He will bring him into your life at the right time , in the meantime, God will satisfy you in the season you are in right now You are beautiful, amazing, inspiring, and so godly .

[@itsjennyfromtheblock333]

Sis this video was sooo soothing!! I’m gonna listen to this any time I start feeling down which happens a lot these days bc girl it is has been hard being single for 34years! So many feelings come up and God spoke to all of them through your video. Thank you 🤗💞🙏

[@deborahbx_]

Ahh sis, please know that you’re not alone!! We’re in this together so we’re in good company haha 🥰. Good things take time, and God wants the best for us as his daughters. May we always be honest with him when we struggle so he can comfort us with his perfect love 🤍 it’s a blessing to have you here sis!!

[@girlnamed_ej2492]

Sooooo we need to start a club!! I'm 24 and never had a boyfriend either. And I fought against it tooth and nail for a lot of the same reasons you mentioned . And by the grace of God, I am now enjoy this season. Than you for your vulnerability ❤🙏🏽

[@Kizzyfran]

Hi Deborah I love this topic! I am divorced unfortunately I was married for 10 years , This was my first relationship and ended up in a marriage, I gave it my best but the Heavenly Father knew that it wasn’t for me , so I am now in my single season again , I did try to rush God and jumped into a new relationship that I knew wasn’t what God may have wanted for me ! Lesson learnt, now I am obeying and spending my days praying and getting to know him more! And it’s great I tell you😊 sometimes I do feel lonely and I’m a girl that likes dressing up and going to a nice dinner but I’ve been having my dinner with God these days! I am patiently waiting on Gods perfect timing for my forever relationship the second time around ❤️ I know he won’t ever let me settle again! I only wish the best for you and I know God won’t let you down! He will treat you just as the father treats you 😊

[@deborahbx_]

Wauw Amen sis! Thank you so much for sharing that part of your testimony. That can't have been an easy journey to walk. But it's so amazing to hear that you know the truth! You know that you're loved beyond measure, and everything will happen in God's perfect timing. For now, God is your hubby sis. And he's a really good one at that! 😭🤍 Praying God's peace and favour over you. You're so lovely, keep shining your light!

[@Kizzyfran]

No it wasn’t easy but God brought me through it 😊 and I wish you the same hun, Love , peace and God’s favor ❤️❤️

[@jeremiah61667]

Man I'm 22 and currently going through the same feeling 😅, it's tough seeing friends in relationships but Gods timing is all I need.

[@deborahbx_]

It really is! Especially when you feel like you have so much to offer. But God sees you. He’s with you through this. Trust him. He’s got you and knows the desires of your heart 🥹🙏🏽

[@beautifulluvprincess]

This is exactly what I needed and your video about validation from guys was an eye opener. I just burst out crying when I saw it because I have been doing that my whole life, due to being 29 and almost 30 and never have been in a relationship. Almost making me forget who I was while I was living in the second world in my head. I was breaking my own heart but each day I'm trying to find peace with being single but I fight it and I have already seen small changes. I Thank God and you Deborah for helping me change my mindset and for always having perfect timing for your videos 💜

[@angelayhyland]

Thank you for sharing your testimony. I appreciate hearing your perspective. I'm in a season of realizing how necessary it is for me to be single so that I can heal and finally grow into my calling. It's refreshing to see other single believers rejoicing in the Lord in this season as well as. 🙏🏾☺️

[@reneedavis6651]

Deborah, I thank God for you, It’s nice to hear a blogger speaking God’s truth. I pray you find strength daily to continue your walk with Christ, it is war out here. Take care Always remember greater is he that is in you than he that is in the world .

[@deborahbx_]

Amen sis ! Thank you so much for your encouragement and reminder. I really appreciate it. You’re right, the enemy is doing overtime in our day and age so may we always keep our eyes on God. May God bless and keep you also. Thank you for being here 🤍

[@jaja32807]

Wow!!!! The “stop fantasizing” part hit me hard because I was actually doing it at that moment 😂 That just confirms god’s perfect timing..thank you..(I have been single since 2017 - it was long distance..the last time I was in an actual relationship in close proximity was 2014..I have been abstinence since Oct 2020)

[@Asia-mk3yn]

Come throughhhh with the testimony. It’s such a sweet essence to know I’m not alone. So encouraging.

[@ado198]

How I wish that Deborah can sing for us some day.I just have a feeling that we will enjoy her singing alot😊

[@deborahbx_]

Hahah maybe I will someday soon! 😁

[@ado198]

@@deborahbx_ can't wait 😄

[@alangiles776]

Hi Deborah 🙂 I believe in the saying, 'There is someone for everyone.' It is definitely much harder to meet someone new in the 2020's. More of us spend a lot of time at home, bars and nightclubs are not for everyone so many of us are left with the online option, but that can lead to new problems. Then there is the issue of trust. I have a lot of trust issues and if you date then you have to have complete trust in that person. We all know that there is only person who is completely honest and loyal to all of us and we won't find that person at a party, at a nightclub, at a pub, at a speed dating event. We will find this person in the Bible and in our Church. 🙏

[@jcjcayenne1234]

I completely agree! I also work a very demanding job so the last thing I want to do is search for men online. I definitely pray about marriage but I'm slowly giving up. I don't frequent bars and clubs, I would prefer a godly husband, but I don't see many available men in godly environments like church. It's extremely common where I live for the women who are pursuing the Lord wholeheartedly to be single for an extended time period. I have more faith that I will just be single long term, which is okay. I'm 29 and have never been in a relationship...and I will survive.

[@towerakanyenda646]

This is so relatable, all my friends are married now, and people ask me why I am still single, the pressure from society to get married is just too much. I used to get upset when people ask me such questions but not anymore because everything happens for a reason and when the time is right, My Jesus will make it happen. Right now, I am just basking in my singleness😇.

[@battlevain]

I know this life so well. I am much older and I can tell you that you are probably the dream girlfriend for so many people. Love will find you, just don't settle or devalue yourself. You are a beautiful young lady. God is guiding you to your Boaz !!!! Stay beautiful and keep walking in faith.

[@Monica_6521]

Let those that have ears, hear. Let those that have eyes, see. She's 💯% on point! Every word! Praise God for so loving us; that he says no to save us from pitfalls.🥰🙏🏽🕊💕

[@IamThankfullyTendayi]

You’re still so young, don’t worry about that. You’re doing so well , building and growing in your purpose. I wish I had an understanding of my relationship with the Lord at your age .. Anyways don’t worry keep going!!!

[@eriszme]

girl, you have just changed my life! i have listened your video walking home this was forgotten perspective of mine. absolutely right. god is here

[@deborahbx_]

Praise the Lord!!! All glory goes to God sis, he’s constantly speaking and loves you so so much 🤍🤍🤍

[@carmynovember]

You are so blessed😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ and God really know whats best for us. And thank you so much for your obedience and honesty by making these videos❤

[@deborahbx_]

Amen sis!! 😭🤍 We have such a good father who loves us beyond measure. He only wants the best of the best for us. Let's stay close to him. May he bless you and keep you. We're in this together 🤍

[@delightinYou]

I have been in two relationships in the past that I regret because I settled, so you are wise to remain single. It's infinitely better to stay single than to settle. I used to date to fill the void of my dad's absence, but eventually I realized what I was doing and learned my lesson. Trust in the Lord's divine timing! Once I finally re-committed my life to Christ and let Him take control of my love life, he brought me an amazing Godly man at the age of 29. It was until I genuinely enjoyed spending most of time with Jesus during my season of singleness that He brought me my person. You are totally right, we should enjoy this time to the fullest before the partner and kids come around. Thanks for blessing us with this message! ♥

[@deborahbx_]

wauw this is so amazing to hear sis! Thank you for sharing this part of your testimony and encouraging us singles! 🥰🤍

[@lindamakhanya5640]

I agree with you sis. The single season is the best season that one should embrace as in any season you are not alone but with the holy Jesus Christ. I can totally relate with you. You are spot on. This Faith Talks are really making a positive empact in my life. Thank you

[@jovieangel17]

Great video - same girl I'm 30 and never had it. been a lonely and painful period. So many nights I questioned my self worth I wondered if God had forgotten me or if I just wasn't worthy of being loved. But I still have hope that God will one day grant the grace to love me to someone and whoever he is he will accept. I pray to also accept the grace to love him whoever he is. Praying for everyone here!

[@luzolovundi6801]

Loved Loved Loved this segment! So many of us singles really need to hear this encouragement. What God has graced you with the wisdom of knowing now at age 26 has taken some of us even longer😂 Not that God didn't want to bring us into this place of wisdom and peace. But, some of us have lived so long in a space where we let past hurt, stubbornness and lies keep us in bondage and lack of understanding of who we really are and our worth. That seeking the kingdom of God and his righteousness is truly the best and comes with so much peace and joy! For the first time in 34 years, I feel truly at peace with God in not yet being married. I have so much trust in who God is, and what he wants for me that I trust when the time is right, my single season will come to an end. Until then God has so much for me already and I have so much to learn from Him. Be Blessed

[@JalenBrown7]

Amen!!! When the time is right the lord will make it happen ❤🙏🏿🙌🏾

[@deborahbx_]

Amen!!

[@anialafrance7492]

As someone who has been in one relationship I WISH I just listened to God and stayed single! I’m beyond thankful I’m in my single season and I’m staying in it until Jesus brings that man to me! haha 😂

[@ericawright4064]

Amen , for me personally I’m doing fine being single ❤

[@elishanain]

I recently got attention from a guy. I asked him if he takes Jesus as his Lord and savior. Haven’t heard from him since. God’s protection, I tell ya.

[@Cheri94]

Please be patient, God is in control and knows your heart. I married at 29, and I married the wrong man, and although we are still together after 29 years, it hasn’t been a great relationship, for starters he’s not a believer, he’s a heavy drinker, and hasn’t been easy, I would’ve left years ago, but found God and divorce is frowned upon by God, so I justified staying, but Deborah if I could go back……………….I trust still that God is in control and that gets me through each day! God will give you what is meant for you.

[@deborahbx_]

Oh sis 🤍 I'm so sorry to hear that you feel like you've made a wrong choice when it comes to your spouse. May you continue to bring your marriage before the Lord. I will be praying for you also, and for your husband! God is the God of restoration and miracles. May he come through in your marriage. You still have so much life to live, and our Heavenly Father loves you too much to see it all lived in pain. I'm sending you lots of love and hugs xx Deb 🥰

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

Yes. Reading so many testimonials in the comments of women divorcing the 'wrong man', some even remarrying, is sad. That is an abomination to God the Father. 😢 I'll pray for them and I'll pray for you. God bless.

[@jwillis97]

Hi Deborah! So happy I found your channel! I'm also 26, have never been in a relationship and grew up without a father figure and I thought I was alone in this and I can relate to a lot of what you said. Thank you so much for your transparency and sharing what God shared with you. I have finally become comfortable with being in my single season and God has blessed me with so much peace, truly thankful for that and realizing that I need to focus and spend more time with God and being obedient. I'm at the point where if a man doesn't enter my life adding to the peace that God has given me, I don't want him. Also, thank you for sharing to take advantage of our single season right now. It took me the longest to truly realize that and that this time is special and that I'll regret not taking advantage of it. During this season, I've been able to spend more time with God (still working on being more consistent) and finding hobbies/things I like to do and it's honestly been fun! Self worth YES!! I've been working on that during this season as well. Also Matthew 6:33 is my favorite scripture! It has been able to guide me so much!

[@niriaantonio9097]

Girlllll you’re speaking Facts and Truth right there!! Thank you for this video. Your ministry is much appreciated. God keep blessing you girl ❤️🙏🏾

[@kesmodelo]

Turned 27 and I felt it this year that God really needed me to keep all the men away so He can restore my prayer life, It hasn't been easy but it is within this period that God is fixing me for the best!

[@barrygraves5324]

As an older widower gentleman who married again that only led to divorce, I now truly embrace being single. An adjustment, yes, but ohh it's all good! Only miss good conversation.😂 You're alright just know no guy has measured up, yet!! God keeps us, his children, from bad situations 😅 Stay UP!✨

[@deborahbx_]

Amen Barry!!🤗

[@reginae.1333]

Firt of all....YOUR MANE IS 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Second....thank you for posting this video!!!❤❤❤❤ sis, i needed thiiiiiiiiiis...."i feel like God owed me" i felt that!

[@deborahbx_]

Hahah thank you so much sis!! I love that you called it a mane 😂 that made me laugh. We’re in the single season together! And we’re in it with our amazing father. He’s preparing the best of the best husband for us. All in his perfect timing 🤍

[@teabubbles4ever]

your hair is so beautiful 🤍

[@Angela_cher]

I am 27 and also single for 6 years, never been in any serious relationship none of the ones I have been on felt right, so I decided to wait on God to show me the right person

[@shawnwithachance123]

as a young Christian woman who can relate, thank you for this video and encouragement! God Bless

[@luanaslense]

I love this❤️❤️I’m seeking god first and can’t wait to meet my husband when god reveals him to me💗 the only thing keeping me and him apart is time

[@Queenebunoluwa15]

I am 19 and this was insightful. I can’t wait to share this video with my sisters who are going through this single season. Thank you for sharing, Sis 🥰.

[@nooby165]

Amen I am so in sync with this mindset blessing and revelation in singleness, warms my heart to see thst God has gotten through not only me

[@deborahbx_]

We’re in this together 🥰🤍

[@icebriaaaa]

This is so real. Thank you for being vulnerable and opening up about it.

[@direfasi]

God bless you, little sister! This message will help many people

[@mercynjeri702]

Am married for now four years now and i can tell you to enjoy this season of your life coz you gonna miss it.Its just our human nature.I miss my single moments sometimes,so lets normalize focusing on the now❤❤❤. Always being blessed by your videos and much love from Kenya ❤❤

[@deborahbx_]

Hahah we always look at other seasons wishing we could go back or that we could have that. Thank you for your encouragement sis 🥹🤍 May God bless you in your married season also. Marriage is such a beautiful gift too! May you be strengthened and comforted by God through the trials and tribulations that come with marriage. Every season has its ups and downs. Be blessed sis! Thank you for being here 🥹🤍

[@MirandaMarie96]

I just wanted to tell you Deborah this was such a great faith talk. It felt so relate able, of how I felt growing up …I’m 27 a single mother so I did go through pain awakening love and ignoring red flags for it. It was painful but God has never left my side always been so good. I did have moments where I left him but I’ve been seeking him and hearing his voice again and it’s been so amazing. Yet I still struggle with worry and my faith especially being obedient. Recently I was at a event and I was feeling like I’m this old and I’m single and I saw couples and family’s and just felt left out and the next day the Lord lead me to a scripture that said “You’re maker is your husband” and how he has compassion on me, I literally felt like wow your talking to me, you find me worthy to be your wife. He is literally my everything. I just wanted to tell you what he told me. And you mentioning being single and the freedom yes, I regret not going in mission trips, travel so many things you do have so much time to just grow in him, be solid in him. At the right time God will bless you if that’s still a desire on your heart ❤️ love you sister please keep me in your prayers! I need to focus on the now and stop with my fantasy. I need to really job hunt, I remember you video saying that you didn’t want to settle. How did you know what was the right job for you? And to be obedient and trust he will open the doors for me!

[@dkimisharobinson9832]

Thank you for this message sis ❤ it was much needed and I can relate with you on getting into relationships with the wrong guys and only hurting ourselves. I’ve totally been there but I thank God for his Grace 🙌🏾

[@JustJazzyNJesus]

This was beautifully and perfectly saiddd 🩷🩷🩷 THANK YOU Deborah!!! 😍🥰 Amen

[@Siena.robby.-.-]

when u feel like getting in a relationship get even closer to God learn to love God so much that u won't even have time to want bf or gf , I Love you're podcast smmmm