i’m 35 with no friends and no family… not really

[@MoonlightMirage]

This appeared in my recommendation, I am thinking about you though! I get having discomfort around people in real life too - I opened up a lot more during college, but I'm still not big about larger gatherings (although I can make the occasional exception, such as a stadium). I don't have experience with motherhood, but I would imagine there are some other young moms who would love to reach out, and people with similar interests to yours. By the way, it's perfectly okay to talk about it! The addition of "...not really" in the title caught me for a second, but being able to reach out and talk about what's going on is a huge step forward, I like to think :)

[@ATinySparkOfGoodness]

Hi honey 💞 I think it helps to talk about it too, not just to make it less of a big dark scary secret you’re keeping to yourself but to help other who feel lonely as well and feel completely alone in this. Thank you for thinking about me 🙏🏻 I appreciate you caring 🤍 God bless you

[@ATinySparkOfGoodness]

Remember to be kind to everyone. We don’t know their life story. ❤️‍🩹 I feel better now 🤍

[@samanthakwait8782]

It’s hard to lose your identity in motherhood. It can be so lonely. My family is in Pennsylvania and I live in Alaska with my husband and 2 children, 6 and 3. My husband is in the military.

[@ATinySparkOfGoodness]

Yeah it really is! Oh wow our kids are both around the same ages 🥰 hugs honey, God bless you 🫶♥️🙏🏻

[@scottmoquin]

Maybe you could make friends. See if there is anyone around there that has similar interests. There are probably other mothers of small kids that would like to be friends with you. Also, you may be homesick for California. Just some of my thoughts.

[@ATinySparkOfGoodness]

Thanks Scott 🤍 I don’t feel comfortable with real life interaction with people just yet.. but it’s definitely a possibility for when I feel ready. And I am definitely feeling homesick especially when the winter rolls around. I appreciate you my dear friend 🙏🏻 God bless you!

[@samanthakwait8782]

Maybe you could get involved in a church. There are mom groups in churches.

[@ATinySparkOfGoodness]

Oh wow I didn’t know about that. Thank you 🙏🏻😊

[@Thendo-f7x]

you tried talking to jesus?

[@ATinySparkOfGoodness]

I do 🙌 every single day 🤍🙏🏻 Some days are harder than others but I recognize I am incredibly blessed in other areas of my life. Thank you 🫶

[@Thendo-f7x]

@@ATinySparkOfGoodness I have nice christian books i can share with you, if you are interested