You raised them as princesses and are surprised when they start acting like it during adulthood
@markouljancic9754 күн бұрын
This is probably the biggest reason 4 most young ppl. Many parents say I dont want you to struggle like me but exactly this struggle made the bond with their partner strong. Now everyone wants instant "love" and nobody has tolerance 4 bad/struggle times. So be i but stop imposing your (parents) views on your offspring. Most of the times its your fault the children dont understand the value of a relationship and what you need to do (not only the pleasant stuff) to keep it. Times/ people are totaly different now...
@smcdonald99914 күн бұрын
You are absolutely correct.
@MabusTiefsee4 күн бұрын
It was never a problem to marry a princes, they where raised to be married off without asking questions
@lecorngod4 күн бұрын
yep. Exactly
@martinomarina4 күн бұрын
top comment, you're right sr.
@JohnSmith-nj4zq4 күн бұрын
I think the female parents are more into getting the bride price because their lottery ticket (daughter) is about to expire.
@PsyrenXY4 күн бұрын
This is it exactly. God forbid a child wants to stay single
@GlasbanGorm4 күн бұрын
And? what else are they good for, just a net negative burden.
@davidwinner69264 күн бұрын
Also no Grand Children. No support in Elderly life. End of your family line too.
@Chucky-w4 күн бұрын
@@davidwinner6926 you mean the kids that are raised by some step daddy after the divorce? no thank you, if your kid doesn't live with you, it's not your kid. There is no grantee, that yo our children will provide for you, most of the time they are the ones that need support, due to economy getting worse and worse. Are you a king, if you care about your bloodline? These stereotypes you mentioned dont work nowadays, maybe 100 years ago
@dw49564 күн бұрын
@@davidwinner6926three generations down, nobody knows your name nor what you did. They give zero F@cks. F the family line.
@TeryTrey-vt9er4 күн бұрын
To the lady who has dated handsome and well off men in the past, why did you not marry one of them?
@pandereodium4 күн бұрын
Also, why she thinks it is a flex? Stating she was banged by several handsome dudes adds her no value, or rather decreases it.
@frogbox41844 күн бұрын
Exactly, either she is lying or she didn't make the cut herself.
@Austenfan1774 күн бұрын
It wasn't an option offered to her.
@smcdonald99914 күн бұрын
Two reasons: 1. Like @Austenfan177 says, no one proposed. OR 2. She was always hoping for someone better. Someone who doesn't exist.
@John-c4r1o4 күн бұрын
Hypergamy, she always thought she could do better and/or a lot of high value men don't need to or want to commit.
@raymondlin87284 күн бұрын
I had 2, 3 jobs at the same time in 1 week, no women were interested in me. Now I retired mid 40. Enjoying my life, free time, money, family, etc
@alexvig23694 күн бұрын
I'm in my 30s and it's looking like myself and millions of other men are headed in that direction. Never even given a shot to start a family. So, might as well just live well and save towards retirement and the things we desire.
@Chucky-w4 күн бұрын
@@alexvig2369 dont feel like getting married in my mid 40's and lose all my stuff at 50. Well simps learn it the hard way
@Bantallas4 күн бұрын
What family?
@hermanbinngavionohermanbin83713 күн бұрын
Negativity aside living a single life is heaven..
@Mbo005263 күн бұрын
I am 21 years old this year, I am male please give me some advice .
@MegaRafaelloco3 күн бұрын
"Two single dogs living together." XD
@RetroPlus3 күн бұрын
The Chinese seem to have perfected the art of roasting
@milfanitofenito636Күн бұрын
Yes, it seems so. I too enjoy how they roast. The selection of those words. Perfection 👌🏻
@rexkenley4 күн бұрын
"It's not my fault." This is where I start LAUGHING.
@kokoyaro4 күн бұрын
Women are pedomorphically wired for hypoagency or lack of agency. In other words, biologically and psychologically the feminine energy is passive and only receives and/or responds to and/or conforms to an active energy like the masculine energy, authority or social structures/rules. Therefore, in the aftermath of an experience, her mind cannot go past the state of being done to or being caused to do, rather than simply doing. It is only natural that a woman does not make these decisions. That's why they (females) subconsciously desire decisive men, to override her indecisiveness and/or decision deficiency.
@kokoyaro4 күн бұрын
In general, females are pedomorphically wired for hypoagency or lack of agency. In other words, biologically and psychologically the feminine energy is passive and only receives and/or responds to and/or conforms to an active energy like the masculine, authority or social structures/rules. Therefore, in the aftermath of an experience, her mind can be stuck in the state of being done to or being caused to do, rather than simply doing. It is only natural that a female neither makes these decisions nor takes these actions. That's why they (females) subconsciously desire decisive men of hyperagency, to override her indecisiveness and/or agency deficiency.
@MabusTiefsee4 күн бұрын
They always talk about his financial situation but never about his character....
@Jaml3214 күн бұрын
Money talks, bullshit walks.
@HolyFire-bz2vz4 күн бұрын
In China we value financial situation. We can work on the character 😅
@FindingThumos4 күн бұрын
every chinese girl i've known was a spoiled little princess who expectetd everytthing and offered nothing in return one girl even told me her ambition was 'to live a lazy life forever' - and she had never had a job in her life. but she thought her friends' husbands were bad people becausse they were 'not rich enough' even though they had decent jobs and worked hard. No surprises, she's mid 30s now and still single 😆😂
@Ya39oub_G3 күн бұрын
That's the result of the 1 child policy.
@FindingThumos3 күн бұрын
@@Ya39oub_G yea I know. learnt the hard way 😅🤣
@Ya39oub_G3 күн бұрын
@@FindingThumos Even in the west they call it the "only child syndrome".
@ActiveAussie20243 күн бұрын
I met heaps of them when I ( stupidly ) lived there for several years.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj2 күн бұрын
I agree and had a Chinese friend like that. No one was able to stand her since she was a spoiled brat.
@RES-d5i4 күн бұрын
Instead of asking dowry they need to start paying to men to marry them.
@madbug19654 күн бұрын
These parents want them to get married because they see them as their retirement.
@deebeecooper86194 күн бұрын
Yes, a reverse dowry. I've been saying this for years.
@Hotpocketmountiandew4 күн бұрын
Boomers have to pay the toll for their progress.
@lecorngod4 күн бұрын
This was actually common back in the day in other cultures. Now we see why. Why would any man want to be responsible for these children in women's bodies?
@deebeecooper86194 күн бұрын
@@madbug1965 Very similar to single Western mothers. Recently, we have deemed these sons of the Strong & Independent™ We Don't Need No Man™ as "Husband-Sons"
@jacksongunner71224 күн бұрын
I’ll take the mother-in-law rather than the 34 year old daughter.
@user-gh8sg7oc9r4 күн бұрын
She seems to genuinely care. If, IF her daughter adopted that level of humility there should absolutely be no problem
@KS01024 күн бұрын
The 34 year old daughter has every right to live how she pleases. If she doesn't want to get married, that is her choice. Now y'all go mind your own business....
@macrick4 күн бұрын
I'm 40+. Think I'II split roast with my father-in-law.
@tuo12374 күн бұрын
@@KS0102why are you so pressed? Couldn’t we say the same thing about your reply? Mind your business, you are on the internet, shut off your phone, lay by a pillow and cry alone.
@squiggs10023 күн бұрын
@@KS0102 Sure but that 32 year old living at home sleeping all day and shopping online needs to be kicked out. IF she doesn't want to be married fine- but she can't just be a leach and do nothing.
@psa40263 күн бұрын
4:30 You think you're sleeping beauty? You're just a single dog and you're raising a dog. All you two know how to do is sleep. LOOOOOOOL 🤣🤣🤣 her mother is hilarious! And she even picks up the dog to show her.
@jamesharren38823 күн бұрын
lol 😆 💯
@vanessaroper30283 күн бұрын
Brutal
@Brandanmayhew3 күн бұрын
It's fake you dumb people. It's a voice over and the footage is of something completely different and unrelated. You absolute gullible clown 🤡
@Brandanmayhew3 күн бұрын
This is how dumb modern men have become, they see a video of what appears to be a mum yelling at her daughter for not getting married and they think it's actually real😂 hahahaha
@Ericwolf52018 сағат бұрын
Haha 🤣 that mom is not playing around
@vvcc-kg9dp4 күн бұрын
Women keep complaining about being urged to marry, but don’t men also want to marry someone who’s less picky?
@MabusTiefsee4 күн бұрын
Yes, but those women men want are below 25. And they have no problem at all. Those women here are above 30. This is like comparing apples with raisins
@Jaml3214 күн бұрын
Never marry a women that doesn't want to be married, she will make your life hell. And they are way to old for marriage anyway.
@Brandanmayhew3 күн бұрын
She is setting her daughter up for inevitable failure and doesent even know it
@markouljancic9754 күн бұрын
The mother speaks well and reasonable but her mindset will never be her daughters mindest.
@HolyFire-bz2vz4 күн бұрын
The same mother that when she brings a man, she will ask for big bride price. Please stop putting unnecessary pressure on Chinese women
@WayneARobertson3 күн бұрын
Facts!!!!!
@obitouchiha64393 күн бұрын
The mother refuses to accept the fact that this is no longer the 1950s. Nobody needs to conform to tradition anymore, because "saving face" is exhausting.
@Brandanmayhew3 күн бұрын
It's fake. Wake up
@alexvig23694 күн бұрын
Don't feel bad for these girls' mothers grilling them for being too picky. You're no independent woman if you live at your parents'. You made your bed...
@YourHineyness4 күн бұрын
The parents are probably tired of paying her bills. She's a parasite draining their retirement.
@nerdiloo98634 күн бұрын
7:54 "hi quality men are too scarce". Can you imagine cavemen thinking like that in the stone age? Mankind would have been extinct before the dinosaurs.
@Midlemaudit3 күн бұрын
She's beautiful..what a waste
@coinsadventurer3 күн бұрын
don't be worry if you're single, millions of people are living in a single life, this is what we called modern society. enjoy life alone..
@campion043 күн бұрын
That First Lady should be thanked for getting in her daughter. 30 becomes 35 in a heartbeat. 35 becomes 40 just as fast. Many are already regretting how fast their 30s went by.
@mgtowmonger27293 күн бұрын
as terrence popp is fond of saying '40 to 80 is a really long, long time'... and pretty much all western and westernized women will be living from 35 to 85 single and alone with no kids and lots and lots of debt!
@RoRo077703 күн бұрын
I’ve been with my husband since I was 19 going on 20. I’ll be 42 in March. The past 22 years has literally FLOWN by! We have 2 daughters and a 6 year old grandson. It’s crazy how every year just goes by faster and faster.
@fabiourbano64044 күн бұрын
The mom is right she now has a lot less to bring to the table at 30.
@kokomo97644 күн бұрын
Why? As a Western man, that makes no sense. This seems to be all about the parents saving face, not what is best for the child.
@fabiourbano64044 күн бұрын
@@kokomo9764 realistically the older she gets more unnattractive, less time to give him a family, less time to just get the man interested. If the woman is over 27 for me is a nope
@HolyFire-bz2vz4 күн бұрын
She still has a lot to offer. Please don't demean women by their age. Remember that it is the mother that wouldn't want to accept a low bride price if she finds a man to marry her
@fabiourbano64044 күн бұрын
@@HolyFire-bz2vz By her age. Women don't have this infinite supply of time
@HolyFire-bz2vz4 күн бұрын
@fabiourbano6404 life is hard already. Don't stress the women who are even trying their best. I just want to remind you that our society is hypocritical. They say you are too picky but when you pick a man of low status they say you disappointed them. Your parents tell you to bring a man but when you bring the man you like they charge him exorbitant bride price. Let's reduce the pressure on Chinese women
@trinalopez5894 күн бұрын
Love isn't a price tag, therefore she will never find it. What if her one true love doesn't have a car? No date for him. She says love can't be forced, it needs to come naturally, yet she must have a high value man at the same time.
@ryantucker21664 күн бұрын
She's probably fantasizing over some white chad who gave her a like on one of her Tik Tok videos.
@Jaml3214 күн бұрын
A marriage has nothing to do with love. Its about a stable financial future and having someone by your side to help you if shit hits the fan. Disney fantasies are just that. If you wait for true love you will die alone.
@jackfavvv02803 күн бұрын
And they can't be less than her exes. I don't think she realizes that she was dating the top 10%. Men who have plenty of money and power, but have no intention of settling down. Plus, they have plenty of options when it comes to women.
@ryantucker21663 күн бұрын
@@jackfavvv0280 Every woman thinks that she has the golden V.
@Yggdrasill814 сағат бұрын
The love of her life drives a Rolls Royce to work and a Ferrari on the weekends in her mind.
@GardeDuCoeur4 күн бұрын
The ego is too big to have enough space for a husband...
@Ps7apple19 сағат бұрын
Parents should stop bullying their kids into marriage.
@mstp144 күн бұрын
Man these chinese women are reaching comical levels of childish entitlement 😂 That 27 y/o chic hit all the hypergamy/feminism notes: - dating experience gave her a “thot”. - she only cares about her criteria. Not ever thinking about his critiera. - she wants someone similar or richer than her. Not thinking why would he want her. - she wants a “generous man” - her exes gave her “x” so she expects the same from the next. - wants a “high value man” - men dont say interesting things so the conversation CANNOT go on. Never thinking maybe SHE could say interesting things or keep the conversation going. - men play around. - she needs emotional connection. - she is 27 y/o .. tried dating men she is not immediately attracted to twice and quit. Now thinks she is a philosopher in dating. - its not her fault. - She cant find “the right one”. Never thinking if SHE is the right one. - will not settle. - she either have all or stay single.
@WayneT004 күн бұрын
With a future mother in law like that, better stay away
@Chronoic4 күн бұрын
Woman in the 20-35 "I rather stay single and be happy on my own" Woman once they past 35 "Why are men so mean to me, they wont pick me over a woman in their 20's, I have experience that should be what men want."
@Austenfan1774 күн бұрын
They don't like the idea of being stuck taking care of kids and their parents and being married to a man they aren't excited about. When they get older, they realize THEY will need caretaking and start looking for caretakers. It's a vicious cycle.
@AbcDef-s7r3 күн бұрын
the never ending victim narrative
@Yggdrasill814 сағат бұрын
Men want to have novel experiences with women, first times. Imagine if you drive a bmw and she has already dated guys with Lamborghini's, she is already spoilt.
@shinoame6 сағат бұрын
@@Yggdrasill8 with many women or with a woman? Sounds hypocritical to me to look for first times ( in plural)
@TellthetruthaboutChina4 күн бұрын
Women have the pressure to get married, but men have the pressure to buy a house. Whose pressure is bigger?
@goodfornothinghikkikomori69563 күн бұрын
It sad to say this but nowaday, girl do have more choices than boy. But just saying, some girl decide that they rather struggle to buy a house themself, than getting marry. That not saying all boy are bad, many Asian guy just really really suck
@TheMajor10244 күн бұрын
My sister is in the same boat. We not in China but I don't know where this mentality comes from. My elder sister married a poor guy for love and they grew together. My younger sister wants a unicorn. And she wasn't raised as a princess.
@catfoodmillionaire78384 күн бұрын
It comes from the Hive Mind she is hooked up to. All females carry a smartphone in one of their hands. Whatever is shown on that phone will be the values the female downloads and repeats. Example: She sees rich young males in Long Term Relationships on her phone = that becomes her minimum requirement(Hypergamy).
@mgtowmonger27293 күн бұрын
mentality has come from the cell phone... social media, her friends and feminism. feminism is the west's best export.
@fialee84 күн бұрын
For the 27yo... given you've had BFs before, that means you've been used quite a bit. Please keep your high standards till you are 60yo, and let men off with your demanding princess ways so they won't live a life of misery, and can enjoy happiness.
@ronelleoriabhaigh63524 күн бұрын
Then they are so confused when they see so many foreign women with their men
@xAznSkyxx3 күн бұрын
These moms are spittin fire 🔥
@hihellokitty854 күн бұрын
That future mother in law looks & acts very creepy. If that's your future mother in law, girls & boys please run far, far away.
@pandereodium4 күн бұрын
Every woman nowadays speaks with demands. I don't care what she wants, I have my own needs, if they are met, then I take action, if no - goodbye.
@Austenfan1774 күн бұрын
Tiger moms are well known by all the people there (men and women)... he would be used to it.
@jraulc4 күн бұрын
11:23 They are never in a hurry until one day they wake up being 40, single and childless, I met a woman last year, single, no kids, she never told me her age but I will say she must be around 35, once she said she doesn't care about having kids, a few days ago I was driving when I saw her driving in opposite direction, but I noticed that she was looking across the road so when I looked at the same direction where she was looking then I saw a man with a toddler boy, so I guess mother nature now is pushing her badly...
@HamzaAliGhallu4 күн бұрын
They want Elon musk and bill gates😂😂
@panliu78713 күн бұрын
No, on Chinese social media they think Elon Musk is ordinary but so confident
@mazharabbasbukhari73903 күн бұрын
In end billgates wife divorced him to marry another man in weeks.
@ironaston98584 күн бұрын
They keep saying they need someone as good as their ex's. B if they are so good why aren't they with you? Go to them! Don't waste our time!
@Hotpocketmountiandew4 күн бұрын
These women actually said. Because I have sooo many endless choices I can't have a relationship. Because a guy who is better than they are is the only one worth selecting. Its like some homeless guy begging for a burger. Hasnt eaten in 3 days. Then gets one. Spits out the first bite and says WTF ARE YOU DOING AHHHHH I HATE KETCHUP AHHHH (throws burger on ground and stomps off).
@youssefbabkrani25874 күн бұрын
nah your exemple is wrong a little "Its like some homeless guy begging for food but he want only to eat an expensive meal or die of hunger bcs when he was younger he tasted some good meals now he want to eat same or better"
@ryantucker21664 күн бұрын
Homeless guy only ests caviar coupled with a bottle of Don Perignon. That's how ridiculous leftover women sound.@@youssefbabkrani2587
@YourHineyness4 күн бұрын
Or a homeless guy saying "$20? That's the best you can do? I only except $50 or more. Get lost you stingy bastard!"
@Godzillaroll22-ry5iw3 күн бұрын
if you're a 34 year old unmarried women, you have zero rights to be entitled, demand anything, or expect anything. God gave you youth and endless choices when you were young and for any man to marry you is doing YOU a massive favor. I can see the mother at the 00:50 trying to negotiate terms and conditions but a used old car has no right to decide any price or who the owner is after all, a man marrying, providing, protecting, and sharing his name is a massive life long commitment. This mother says don't dare hit, scold, or discipline her daughter if she makes mistakes or is difficult? This is laughable, her daughter isn't even worth doing all those things to. Personally, I discipline my girlfriend because I love her, invest in her, protect and provide for her but in order to do those things, she must accept I have authority over her and if she truly trust my intelligence and judgement skills, I do what I want to her. She happily cares, cooks, cleans, and respects my authority and this is why I can never replace her and always have her best interest at heart.
@peterinbohol4 күн бұрын
You really haven’t been yelled at until a Chinese lady yells at you.
@muajin3 күн бұрын
Daaaam, that mom is really caring and spitting facts. This is rare to see, but oh how truthful it is. You don't see Western parents doing this, they should be.
@jackfavvv02803 күн бұрын
They need to stop using those air brushed, beauty filters. People aren't stupid, they'll be able to come to the conclusion why it was even being used.
@explorermike194 күн бұрын
The Chinese seem so desperate to marry, but it is only about money and having children. Ugh. Business is business and marriage is business. The bride's parents still require a payment from the grooms family. It is all business. What a prison.
@fialee84 күн бұрын
The future mother in law woman may seem nice... but what it really means is that she's deeply involved in her daughter's life, pamper her to no end, and will make the husband a living hell.
@nikolapantelic6414 күн бұрын
Let them film themselves without the beauty filters 😂😂
@xenxu264 күн бұрын
Marriage is the least of it. Sustainability. Would any marriage to these women last longer than a decade?
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj4 күн бұрын
I agree and you can marry but will it last is another story. One of my friends married at 25 and is now divorced after 15 years of marriage with 2 kids.
@Proj.A.Z4 күн бұрын
You raise girl to be like a man…or even better?!? No man wants a women who only wants a man to fulfill her criteria…especially if she doesn’t care to fulfill his…or only does so when she feels like it. Life is better spent alone as a man…renting a lay now and then… Then to deal with drama and delusions day in and day out-24-7!!! The three worst long standing mistakes I made in life? 1. Trusting my parents. 2. Believing in the value of Love and Sex. 3. Deciding to marry and staying married for 8 1/2 yrs. I am 53 yrs. old now. Whenever I can try to tell young men my story!
@deusvult12684 күн бұрын
Why did you include trusting your parents?
@Proj.A.Z4 күн бұрын
@@deusvult1268 I assumed My father…and Mother…knew what was best for me…in my youth. I can acknowledge wholeheartedly with the choices they made in reading me and sibling…They were very neglectful parents. If they really cared they would have taught us better about relationships! Dad was an overt narcissist, and my Mom was his co-dependent covert narc. playing US like a violin in a symphonic movement.
@Proj.A.Z4 күн бұрын
@@deusvult1268 If a mom and Dad can’t treat their offspring like human beings…?!? Might as well abort them.. Women and men have been lied to by past generations!
@dorianmouzone73134 күн бұрын
Well i would say don't trust your mother on relationship advice. The western woman was raised with feminist values and mothers teach you to put the woman first and happy life happy wife. Strong fathers teach you to put yourself first and focus on yourself and your success first and you will never have a shortage of women.
@Proj.A.Z3 күн бұрын
@@dorianmouzone7313 Sir, If past and recent history has demonstrated to me with little research is that that view is far from realistic… if there has really existed long term strong Fathers…?!? There would not be inherent in all civilization development levels of decline! There is nothing more prominent in all cultural decline of nations than three three modes of behaviors coming from the majority of men: The first, The love of mendacity over truth even at the cost of his own good sense even historical knowledge from past generations. Two, an overrated value given investing and validating women via gynocentricism. This is demonstrated time and time again via slavery to ever industrial age to the technological… Boys and men always used as doormats to placate to women…using taxation as means another means to enslave men to work and consumption. Or in other ways, via wars, legislation condemning the authority of men as fathers of their families, neglecting the problems of boys raised by single mothers, disparities of allegations between boys and men versus female criminality and not giving greater ability for male to have as much birth control as women. Lastly… The worst: promoting the lie that men as a majority are misogynistic when the reality is that men aren’t…if fact we want to love women more than women women can actually understand or believe! Men are in fact actually misandrists of a higher order than any woman can ever be! There is a myth that there was a golden age that so many cultures have promoted that work of strong Fathers and led to better times…I think, hardly. ….when I think it’s a propaganda of the most pervasive order! ….I am sorry but if such “strong” men really existed…? …. the world wouldn’t have become what it is today…in so many parts in the world. …countries with a bunch of men who consistently promote the most evil machinations supposedly to benefit women…when it’s social engineering to only use women to bring down men and the family in society! …Men such as politicians, those among corporates and other males as elites… …ambitious MEN who rather then leading society to the healthy standards of living and morals ….call out boys and men to either fall in line with women… …or be disposable nitwits for other men’s thirst for what I call twisted feminization of men… …such who care only for materialism and hedonistic living! Men who only care about themselves… …. above their children and their impact in the world and they don’t consider whose wallet it will cost and lives it will destroy? Such a man can’t be strong nor really be worthy as Fathers! That is the type of man my father was and I see too many men in power doing the same thing to not only boys and MEN…but unbeknownst to the majority of women, even to them!!!
@Twinsal4 күн бұрын
The dowry thing is what kill most deal and break up before marriage as they are ASTRONOMICAL and unreal.
@mgtowmonger27293 күн бұрын
dowry is just the divorce and alimony and child support payments up front... then you get to multiply it twice when you divorce lol!
@HeWhoReplaysGames884 күн бұрын
Can someone me **tell how this bride price came to be? And how come only the womans parents can be taken care of, but not** the mans parent? Like is this custom or is this just a sad reality?
@HeWhoReplaysGames884 күн бұрын
@justdl thank you for your time to write this down. As a Latino, this is very much new to me. Arrange marriages do happen in the class system, but it is automatically assumed that the children will take care of both parents of each side. Again, thanks for the insight. I actually forgot about the 1 child policy. But I just assumed chinese women became too femenists and proud that I thought that was the main reason family priorities was given to the daughter side.
@penguinvic98923 күн бұрын
And another thing: Parents are correct that someone who hides away in their room isn’t going to find anyone. Now many years ago when I was a single man, I’d start to write ✍️ a letter to a pen friend and find I had nothing interesting to say. I’d simply go out for the day and then in the letter describe the weird and wonderful things I saw 👀. I’d actually meet people, talk to them, etc. Just by being out of my room I became more interesting to others and, well, me also. There’s millions of things one can do, even volunteer to do, that would bring you to the attention of others.
@bigdiscountparis71714 күн бұрын
Guys how her mother picked up the dog at #4:32 and how he shows up to the camera. She broke me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@JohnS-il1dr4 күн бұрын
So many filters
@jackfavvv02803 күн бұрын
Yup, I'm starting to wonder what they really look like without those beauty filters.
@mynde86334 күн бұрын
Where is prince ali to marry these princesses and show them a whole new world? Well maybe he's waiting another ten years when these ladies have finally learned to truly love themselves.
@smcdonald99914 күн бұрын
The prince charming they are waiting for doesn't exist except in their head.
@miketan48034 күн бұрын
Nah in then years time, such an eligible bachelor will detest those inevitable wrinkles
@sixwings82783 күн бұрын
TBH , i still do not understand the concept of Dowry in china or even in some part of Asia , it is like prostitution but the woman you buy is forever stay with you , very stupid , marriage is about the love of both side not about money , if financial support is not good then better stay single
@BobbyLoo-jr8ys4 күн бұрын
I love how their daughter yelled at their 30+ daughter. Awesome!
@farmerned64 күн бұрын
Bride money? For under 25yrs MAYBE 34 yrs? that's clearance price time
@Jaml3214 күн бұрын
Nope that's garbage disposal, they better pay you to take her of your hands. :D
@Caifanxx8963 күн бұрын
Thank God I got married at 19! 25 years later, I am still happily married!
@Benji-l4q3 күн бұрын
Where can we find the original video in Chinese? Can anyone drop a link? 🔗
@obitouchiha64393 күн бұрын
Generational poverty really corrupts the mind when combined with filial piety. The old heads come from a time where almost none of them had any opportunity to live life above survival mode, and deman that the next generation suffers for them so that yhey can have an easy, comfortable life at the expense of younger generations independence and happiness. That's why they demonize the following ideas: moving out of parents' house while still being single, investing one's disposable income to personal life and interests instead of giving it to parents, refusing to give grandchildren to use as additional cash cows. Had the older generations not been screwed over by yhe CCP, most of them would let go of these backwards and archaic ideologies that they try to forcefully indoctrinate the youth under.
@menopillion98534 күн бұрын
7:15: "That's why I'm single. It's not my fault." Everything listed earlier was about HER, so, yes, it IS her fault.
@kokoyaro4 күн бұрын
Women are wired like children. Biologically and Psychologically the feminine energy is passive and only receives or responds to an active energy (masculine energy or social structures/rules). Therefore, her mind cannot go past the state of being done to or being made to do, rather than to simply do
@sreed85703 күн бұрын
The problem is the parents that let them get too comfortable, living in the family home in their old room past their 20's into heir 30s. An adult whether man or women should be out of the parental home by 25. That's more than enough time to finish their education and get settled into a job. You can bet they'll find partners then
@Wolfatmebro4 күн бұрын
All women need to throw standards away, they're not realistic. Ask if guy has Job and isn't going to be toxic in her life. Throw away looks, throw away the chase for money. All you do to keep a man is bedroom time, cook and clean and don't nag. He'll definitely drop off the earth if you sit there and yell. You look at what you both can do for each other not "wants"
@YourHineyness4 күн бұрын
Would a woman rather have a wealthy man who cheats on her and treats her poorly or an average man who treats her like gold? Well, we have our answer: she wants a rich Bad Boy. And that goes for all women, not just Chinese ones.
@bokurakyomoikiteru61304 күн бұрын
yes, my parent did urged me to get married but i rejected them with 1 answer. 'how can i support a family when i cant even support myself?'. they gave up. problem solved.
@jackfavvv02803 күн бұрын
Bragging about being a failure is not good.
@HolyFire-bz2vz4 күн бұрын
She is afraid that when she brings a man she likes, they will tell him to pay a 300k yuan bride price 😅
@LiveForShineyCards2 күн бұрын
the Chinese version of pookie dosn't have 300k LMAO
@zhv30623 күн бұрын
honestly ladies if you arent married by 25 - you are going to end up as a Statistic. Spend ages 16-21, trying to find out about yourself while hunting for the kind of Boy/Man you can tolerate and grow old together with. Then ages 22-24, courting stage and get married by 25, have 2.5 kids and not have to rely on medication, cats or your fake social media friends to keep from the dread of true Loneliness that comes for all women.
@babakbabak53294 күн бұрын
The mother is tormenting the girl. 0:37
@kylemose8874Күн бұрын
its a mutual feeling
@Ericwolf52018 сағат бұрын
Crazy how the daughter is acting she has the body language of a 10 yr old girl
@PureYang03 күн бұрын
Lmfao these moms are hardcore with their rhetoric. She told her daughter - “look at you still pretending to sleep in bed what do you think you’re sleeping beauty!?” Hahaha
@Ericwolf52018 сағат бұрын
She also told her all you’re good at is sleeping 😴 lol
@martingrey22314 күн бұрын
8:23 Who is recording these high resolution non shaky videos??? Why do the parents never yell at them for recording for Tik Tok??? 🤔🤔🤔
@ritzrn6304 күн бұрын
Acting
@MG-rh4zo4 күн бұрын
Looks like these girls' family can't wait to cash out on their daughter's dowry. The older they gets, their dowry value will slowly deminish. They know it as well as we do. Men have the time. They don't, pity them.
@bknghiem4 күн бұрын
IF the mother in law is marrying off the daughter without asking for bride price. It is reasonable. But is too much to spoil the daughter after giving bride price.
@anthonyju63924 күн бұрын
Ahh this brings back memories. I was laid off in October of one year and I decided I would look for a job in January where I finally got one in February. Those 5 months was pure hell. Every day it was like this. Even before while I was working I would get this occasionally but after I was laid off this ratcheted up to 100. I completely hated it but from my mother's perspective I found a job, a few months later I moved out, a couple years later I got married. In many ways it worked. As bad as it was my brother had it worse if you can believe that. Basically kicked him out of the house.
@YourHineyness4 күн бұрын
If I was a parent I wouldn't have a problem with a grown child moving back in as long as they pulled their weight around the house helping the parents get their chores done. It would be good training for if they later got married. A son would help Dad work on the cars and house, the girls could help their mother with cooking, cleaning, and laundry. If, however, they laid around scrolling on their phones and playing video games all day...OUT THEY GO!
@rgx420s4 күн бұрын
What happens when parents make their kids their retirement plan. They obviously don't care if their kids aren't happy. It's all about what other people will think of them and keeping face.
@Nomad-XA4 күн бұрын
These parents are only concerned about money😂, pimping their daughters
@ryantucker21664 күн бұрын
Same thing with Indians, Africans and Muslims.
@YourHineyness4 күн бұрын
It's a socially-acceptable form of human trafficking.
@peterc16334 күн бұрын
Unwanted single women and divorced women should and must pay dowry to find and get their husbands. If the husband divorce his wife he must pay back double the dowry. If the wife divorce the man after paying the dowry to get a husband she forfeits the paid dowry.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjКүн бұрын
People fail to think about whether the marriage will be happy and everlasting if it is just based on money and materialism. If they divorced, then it will be another big disaster to deal with.
@rhircyn4 күн бұрын
My parents are happy they have one 'normal' grandchild. I am concerned for him as he gets older but he is his own person and I'll be happy to give him insight on female behavior and the like.
@You-o2b1b4 күн бұрын
The match making agency should focus more on man's want or requirements on his chosen life partner, instead of entertaining those women's request... mainly about money and materials needs.
@LordSkella3 күн бұрын
The mother in law looks like she’s 30, can I pay the bride price for her instead? 😂
@BobbyLoo-jr8ys4 күн бұрын
These single mature women are always looking for someone that is better than their ex, yet their time is ticking, reaching 35+. THey don't understand that men only care about their age and beauty, especially age bc beauty can be fake and hidden with all that makeup. Yet, they still demand high standard when they are 30+. Yet, why would a man want old/used car (had many bf and already stretched) when the man can go after early 20, when 20 yr old
@NgChuan-gw9kk3 күн бұрын
. What is wrong being single?
@light59783 күн бұрын
every picky woman that think she better stay single and happy, i hope you are consistent with your word and keep being single and grow old and old
@dw49564 күн бұрын
What are all these adults doing still living with their parents?
@royn53494 күн бұрын
Sensible parents, keeping these girls in line.
@ejam11173 күн бұрын
Everyone here on the planet comes from a lineage of winners, of survivors. It is simply amazing to me how many in the east and west are voluntarily ending their line. In the end, one persons feelings makes or breaks the entire line.
@SagatClan1084 күн бұрын
😅 here is the problem. Children can update. Tradition does not. The older women looks like they seem to be choosing to look for overwhelming support and status before getting married. Want to know the real reason why they stay home. It's because they're happy to please their workplace but not please their home. And it's backwards it's good to have a career but it's only meant to give you stability. It's not meant to socialize and that's the problem because that's where they're looking. We can't correct the problem with the current generation. All you can do is edit the future generation by making sure that they understand that building a home is Paramount. This education should start prior to menstruation. The only problem is that society and social standards encourages them to do it after school emphasis on family building. In other words. Young men are only interested in women who are capable of taking care of the house immediately.
@SagatClan1083 күн бұрын
A long time ago I heard that the ratio for men in China was 3 to 1. It's my belief that in China, men have to pick of the litter. It sounds like he's older women really needs to understand that men are not emotional creatures. You're trying to find an emotional connection Without saying a word do you understand the logic in that concept? The heaven will not give Earth face if you don't understand the failure in this logic.
@chrismichael6048Күн бұрын
Geez! When the mother scolded her daughter,I laugh 😂🤣😄😁😂🤣😄😁😂🤣😄😁
@taniamartinez44923 күн бұрын
Don’t get married stay single children are so expensive and survival is so difficult in a world we’re is unaffordable and slavery of work force is worse to put on a child!
@kenwawa-art4 күн бұрын
They don’t want you unless you are super rich, not everyone is like that so good luck finding one 😂😂
@fialee84 күн бұрын
I think the common denominator is social media and smartphones. People are easily swayed by stupid "influencers", and unrealistic expectations... especially for those who are poor, middle-class, and only average or less looking. IMO, I think social media has impacted women much much more than men when it comes to dating, and relationships.
@Setubal3214 күн бұрын
The controlling stepmother is the dragon behind your marriage 😂😂 the daughter isn't the problem, her mother is 😂😂😂 my advice for all daughters: separate your mother first to be free for your forever man and never look back at the old witch 😂😂😂
@fish_tails55573 күн бұрын
The first girl should move out and find a place closer to her workplace in that circumstance since they don't even understand that she isn't obligated to marry anyone.😂
@rh83384 күн бұрын
The video starting at 8 min is from 2014 ?!
@4evertrue8304 күн бұрын
No thanks. Your brideprice money is usually so outrageous. Never thought crony, predatory capitalism exist in China at the family level..😕
@PlateletRichGel3 күн бұрын
First mom laid it down fierce.
@miketan48034 күн бұрын
When she gets older she still wants the handsome, generous guys with a good income? Why didn't she hold on and marry one of those ex? If they're not good enough for the younger her, will the same caliber of men want her when she hits china's mothball age? I don't agree with materialism, whether it's from men or women. How about character?
@PricefieldPunk4 күн бұрын
If all these women are considered "old" whys there a bride price still. The feels like such an ancient concept but idk i aint in China
@veelor94572 күн бұрын
As an asian, I'm 33 still single and my parents tell me to get marry everyday or else they gonna kick me out of the house. 😅 What they don't know is that modern dating is not the same back then. Girls are picky and gold diggers. Lol
@jamesmk20039 сағат бұрын
I am a guy and I love to wear woman lingerie. I guess I must be compatible with Chinese woman.
@kokoyaro4 күн бұрын
3:17 Mother of the Year. They all deserve this type of mom
@AbcDef-s7r3 күн бұрын
if the parents cant guarantee their daughters purity until she is 18y old, then the best decision for these teen women is to get married to established 20/30y old men with good character, who want to have a family, they shouldnt fool around with men their own age, so they turn into bitter old catladies in their 30s thats how it always worked, thats how everybody wins
@MrWood-qd6krКүн бұрын
Yo, I thought us black people can roast..until I saw Chinese parents!😂😂😂