I didn't hear a single word of regret for her actions, just blaming others.
@purpleknight-z3n16 сағат бұрын
She also hid from her behavior after agreement. Does sound like her don't like his way and she something other way Connor. She didn't know his boyfriend take one step ahead her . Wish me luck to find date Chinese women. Will take me time.
@camels96545 күн бұрын
They agreed on a price, then she didn't honour her original word. Test or not, you broke an agreement which signals to the man you cannot be trusted. Guy did the right thing.
@hman0695 күн бұрын
@@camels9654 I totally agree with you 1000% ! The women here in the West have an honesty problem !
@nevion5533Күн бұрын
B1tch's a gold digger probably
@minhlu35185 күн бұрын
He did it right. If a woman can easily be affected by others, she isn't the one to marry.
@stevec35265 күн бұрын
Very true.
@jstreets19835 күн бұрын
“True love shouldn’t be tested, once you start testing some things can’t be fixed.”
@hman0695 күн бұрын
How would women like it, if men were constantly testing them all the time ? We as men don't the energy for that kind of nonsense.
@poodlescone97005 күн бұрын
The same goes for threats made in the heat of the moment. The man can call the woman's bluff.
@jstreets19835 күн бұрын
@@hman069 They would call it abuse, we know how it goes.
@jstreets19835 күн бұрын
@@poodlescone9700 and should, it’s better to walk away than argue with anyone, especially your lady all the time.
@hman0695 күн бұрын
@@jstreets1983 Right on ! I got tired of women's BS, and went MGTOW back in 1991, which was unheard of. Since then, I've been watching the the destruction unfold with these modern women. 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
@shinrinyokumusic18085 күн бұрын
Women always tests. It never ends. Tests have consequences ladies.
@ThomasDavis-e4g5 күн бұрын
For him to agree with an additional 100,000 yuan would be the biggest of mistakes. The proper reply would have been "No" and to walk away. Never let a woman violate a boundary or a contract. She'll think you're weak and make you pay for it.
@poodlescone97005 күн бұрын
This. We see this in the West all the time. It never ends well.
@raulrosas50685 күн бұрын
if only they knew how pathetic it makes them look
@ThomasDavis-e4g5 күн бұрын
@@raulrosas5068 Women rarely have the capacity for honest, factual introspection.
@PsyrenXY5 күн бұрын
The matchmaker woman at 2:40 and the other woman at 6:15 are against tests though
@stolennimbus5 күн бұрын
Women need to realize that a woman's worst enemy is another woman, and often times she comes in the form of her bestie.
@stevec35265 күн бұрын
Judge a woman based upon her friends.
@lepotdefleur99064 күн бұрын
@@stevec3526 and what she call family.
@stevec35264 күн бұрын
@@lepotdefleur9906 Yes, I have to agree with you on her family. Often women are damaged by their family.
@pauldwalker5 күн бұрын
that man did the right thing. that woman needs to find better friends.
@stevec35265 күн бұрын
You judge a woman based upon her friends.
@helahola5 күн бұрын
@@stevec3526 true for average females but not if she is stupid.
@ontemp5 күн бұрын
The woman was stupid to listen to her bestie's suggestion. This shows you trust your friends more than your man if you go to them for advice. Also, it shows that you are weak-minded, easily influenced by others, and need their approval to take action. No man can trust a woman like this!
@acidkhmer5 күн бұрын
Right but maybe it is just an story of maturity, she take it like a test or a game but his boyfriend not. if the relation was really sincere his boyfriend is little fast to quit before having a real talk with his girl? Surely there are something else negative in their story? and this story of test is the least drop who brake everything.
@ontemp5 күн бұрын
@@acidkhmer The problem is that she's not taking the relationship seriously when he is the rare prize, not her. There are many girls like her, she's not special. She should be happy and grateful that she has that guy, but she got greedy. Now she is miserable and in regret.
@yokeshin11535 күн бұрын
Besties should mind their own business.
@owusuafriyiedennis43862 күн бұрын
You got that right 😊
@victorvazquez54395 күн бұрын
Test are signs of immaturity. These types of individuals are not ready for an adult relationship. Why would I purposely throw someone I love into a lion's cage just so I can test their strength? The only thing that it truly proves is that the person's curiosity is more important than the love for the other individual. These types of individuals aren't marriage material. Life is hard enough without someone purposely making life harder.
@suisenzero15 күн бұрын
Testing men = Getting kicked to the curb.
@TheRealPureBlood5 күн бұрын
If I were to be tested, she should make sure I never find out. If I did, I'd ghost her instantly, regardless of how long we'd been dating.
@ChrisHillOlympicRecurveArchery5 күн бұрын
I am sure the bestie is single.
@bobjacobson8584 күн бұрын
I wonder if, in some cases, the "bestie" is hoping this happens so she can develop a relationship with the guy afterwards.
@owusuafriyiedennis43862 күн бұрын
Yea 😊
@zavvax5 күн бұрын
No, she was just trying to get more money. This is a common practice with women.
@purpleknight-z3n16 сағат бұрын
You're right . Women of Eastern always throw own gamble getting more money . Chinese women must not be too greedy or too picky to find soulmate . There one gold rule for chinese women 1. Never try estimate men physical level.
@TellthetruthaboutChina5 күн бұрын
She set a trap for him and expected him not to fall for it. That's just selfish.
@Aspire7055 күн бұрын
And childish.
@vvcc-kg9dp5 күн бұрын
These tests will only push the relationship towards a breakdown. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, not constant tests.
@hoozentroger5 күн бұрын
I mean the test made sense, and the girl failed it! The guy dodged a bullet!
@bobjacobson8584 күн бұрын
That a different way of looking at it...and actually a good one!
@purpleknight-z3n16 сағат бұрын
If she take play men physical level.. She wasn't think twice. Then she sabotage herself by tested his level.
@NaturalDisasterObserver5 күн бұрын
Why do women always use these childish tests to prove something? If you don't trust him, just break up sooner.
@Aspire7055 күн бұрын
Because that's truly what they are, giant children in small adult bodies.
@francoistombe5 күн бұрын
This is a breach of contract situation. You make an important agreement then reneg on it. This screams manipulation and unreliability. The straight honest party pulls out. Play silly games, reap appropriate rewards.
@Ghekko-kw3zz5 күн бұрын
The way these people have everything about money is beyond redemption. Soullessness.
@bvhia5 күн бұрын
Exactly. Thats why their society is crumbling. Ours will too if we dont follow God
@gmanlee5755 күн бұрын
Its only the mainland chinese women, other Chinese dont practice this human meat market ideology
@baiqi445 күн бұрын
@@bvhia Go visit there and see it for yourself instead of believing whatever is posted on social media. Their crumbling society looks a lot better than the West's. The big US cities like Chicago, LA, Detroit, NY, etc.. looks way more crumbling than any big city in China. Having said that, gold diggers are everywhere now and guess what... a lot of women in the West care about money much more than love... just like women in China. It's China following the West here (with stuff like this), not the other way around.
@nemelendez5 күн бұрын
Their not tests, they just wanna know how far they can go.
@stevec35265 күн бұрын
Why is there ANY Bride Price? The whole concept is simply ridiculous, and toxic. Tests like this is “Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.” If you love a man you DON’T do stupid things like “tests”.
@user-kg2ez1eg2y5 күн бұрын
No women - no problems. FREEDOM and only FREEDOM brothers
@smcdonald99915 күн бұрын
That's the way I have been living my life. Best choice ever. My wallet, my peace of mind, my self-esteem, my happiness.
@OchiengMelisizwe55 күн бұрын
"emotional intelligence" is an oxymoron
@Aspire7055 күн бұрын
Only when referring to women. I'll give them "emotional hypersensitivity" all day, but "emotional intelligence"? Absolutely not.
@ryanwing57855 күн бұрын
Its just empathy, but even they are failing at that. The "emotional intelligence" phrase is just projection for their inadequacy to make themselves seem like a bigger character.
@helahola5 күн бұрын
@@ryanwing5785 strongly disagree on you saying that women have empathy. my reason is women do not need to understand men but men have to understand women to coax them so they could have sympathy but definitely zero empathy.
@ryanwing57855 күн бұрын
@@helahola Lol, that is what I meant thus why I said they are failing at what they claim to have. In which, don't have a hint of empathy. If they did, they wouldn't involve themselves in the bashing and shaming of men that don't meet their high standards.
@endtimeslips46605 күн бұрын
that is not marriage. that is a contract for a prostitution.
@smcdonald99915 күн бұрын
Basically you need to buy a house, a car, and a bride. But one of the 3 depreciates real fast.
@tech98034 күн бұрын
If you set a price, don't be surprised if you are treated like a purchase and replaced if a better purchase is available.
@BrianLiamson5 күн бұрын
With the additional 100k yuan trust test, if the boyfriend decided to say yes, then he would have to pay additional 100k. If he says no, then she will be angry that he doesn't love her because he's not willing to give another 100k. So one way or another, the man will fail this test. Therefore the smartest decision is to end the relationship.
@SigynRegn5 күн бұрын
I never did this testing thing on man. Life is the best test to a relationship.
@NightmareManX5 күн бұрын
Do women really think this will make a man love her more? It'll only make him lose patience.
@NickM_FirstofHisName5 күн бұрын
0:20 Marry your best friend. That's what you should do.
@xbman15 күн бұрын
Even when your best friend is same sex?😂
@Soldano9995 күн бұрын
I remember a story of a girl who asked her bestie to "test" her boyfriend, but in the end the Bf and the "bestie" got together.
@roger10coutinho5 күн бұрын
She should ask her bestie to pay her the money and marry her. Good luck.
@roark80095 күн бұрын
Smart man. "The only winning move is not to play" Joshua
@James6705 күн бұрын
Those guys who broke up sure dodged some bullets.
@rinzler97754 күн бұрын
Little did they realise, there was a shit test, and they failed it.
@Chronoic5 күн бұрын
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
@santosakowski98465 күн бұрын
Wow, this video had some really good advice on it. It is worth listening to.
@ironcladmath24015 күн бұрын
Top Gold Diggers 😂😂
@sylvieschmitt-morel8645 күн бұрын
Never, never mixing best friend in your love couple….💥💥💥
@wl60205 күн бұрын
She and her family wanted that extra 100k, but once he said no, she made the excuse of just testing him. Its greed, her friend suggested it to her, she had the choice of asking or not. It probably scared the dude, he think, 100k extra, then on wedding day, would there be another 100k added on?
@apexcapital13285 күн бұрын
It’s not a test because we all know her ass will take his money if he say, yes; lets keep it a buck.
@catfoodmillionaire78385 күн бұрын
💯
@redknight60775 күн бұрын
Women sabotage each other relentlessly and yet they all blame men for it. Nothing short of madness.
@wtan18514 күн бұрын
He did the right thing. As for bestie's advice, it can't beat good advice from the right people.
@aztec01125 күн бұрын
Women keep women single.
@homeytoyer83034 күн бұрын
Try dat.
@Nony_Amous1015 күн бұрын
few seconds in and already it's ☕ keeping other ☕ single
@catfoodmillionaire78385 күн бұрын
☕
@doubleohriser5 күн бұрын
Probably bitter single friend wanted to keep company
@nerdiloo98635 күн бұрын
I always have had the "Do NOT test me, life is hard as it is, here's why.." talk with any girl I had in the past. I also let them know what will happen if they do. Period. Guys, you are the MAN. You must set the standards/boundaries that girls must meet. If you don't, the childish mind of the female will always be prone to ruin a good thing.
@stevec35265 күн бұрын
Sadly yes…
@tambourinedmb5 күн бұрын
friend jealous and sabotaging
@tambourinedmb5 күн бұрын
women looking for frame control see if they can control their future husbands or not. that’s the test
@stevec35265 күн бұрын
Manipulation technique absolutely.
@onglingyeow5 күн бұрын
Kick such greedy women out of our lives, guys! This is just pure greed. A relationship that is built on such transactional values will not last long at all. The guy is right to get rid of her. This should send the correct message to all the women out there not to play with fire. This bride price is a relic of the past when women in this modern era have the ability to work and support themselves. It is more like a courtesy gift to the future parents-in-laws instead of becoming a financial and emotional burden for a guy in a couple's marriage. Ridiculous! Excellent job in dumping this greedy woman!
@touayaaj845 күн бұрын
When you learned the hard way that single people want to keep you single. Misery loves company. 😂
@kyliechen52635 күн бұрын
When trust is broken, its the end. Northing can fix it back.
@acidkhmer5 күн бұрын
So True, even if we go back togheter, something is broken it can not like before ever again!
@bobjacobson8584 күн бұрын
Dr. Sun Yat-sen made this point very clearly: "Trust is earned by many deeds, and lost by only one."
@rgx420s4 күн бұрын
Women continuing to keep each other single LOL!
@brucelee36885 күн бұрын
She wasn't easily influenced. If she wasn't greedy, she wouldn't have tested.
@nonisidharta15455 күн бұрын
She can marry her bestie lol
@rendyajadech19575 күн бұрын
The cup as an example was a perfect explanation 👍🏻
@bobjacobson8584 күн бұрын
This rather reminds me of a time I was sharing a place with a roommate, but he didn't bother to mow the lawn because he was "afraid the lawnmower wouldn't start". A mutual friend said "No--he was afraid it WOULD!"
@jonathansmith53055 күн бұрын
Besties? More like worst enemy
@salguodrolyat25944 күн бұрын
Worsties.🤣
@somerandomguyfromtheintern4804 күн бұрын
I like that analogy. You buy a cup to drink. Not to drop test it's durability. Even if it survives the drop, it will be permanently damaged.
@elyfel11838 сағат бұрын
"One thing about the Chinese, Mr. Andrews... WE DO NOT RENEGOTIATE!!" - Roger Yuan.
@light59785 күн бұрын
even if a man passed the first test, the second test will come soon, and third, and fourth. the test will keep coming until the man finally fail, then the woman will satisfy
@andrewbaker58244 күн бұрын
A woman testing a man shows how insecure she is and he should dump her for a secure woman who doesn't play these games.
@jaypetz3 күн бұрын
Being easily swayed by other people without considering your partners feeling or financial disposition is a red flag.
@juliespin17725 күн бұрын
These besties might have an alternative reason to make her friend test her boyfriend with asking her to test him like stealing and make him her boyfriend when he brakes up with her . Besties will betrayed her friend.
@ThuTu-k8hКүн бұрын
Lesson 1: Never have a stupid bestie for a bestie. Lesson 2: Money should be a mutual blessing in a relationship, not something to bargain, dispute, or provide an ultimatum with.
@valentindimitrov82755 күн бұрын
Very strange that concept of a "bride price".
@user-hv7rt2zr1q5 күн бұрын
thank your FRIEND for that, not only does he have the responsibility to take care of you for the rest of his life no matter what happens but he has to upfront another 100k, he'll take his chances and find another woman to take care of for 50k upfront instead
@salguodrolyat25944 күн бұрын
The first female should just marry the bestie as that is who she obeys.🤣
@arion20003 күн бұрын
A lot of people can’t distinguish bad advice
@jameslim38504 күн бұрын
Women who have toxic friends who are secretly jealous of her will try their best to destroy her friend's relationship by giving very bad advice.
@youtubeviewer44724 күн бұрын
Women keep women single in every part of the world
@Russia-bulliesКүн бұрын
You should do a follow up on what the besties are doing,whether they are still besties/not & find out,if wives are testing too.Especially,if there was a bride price.
@brokenrhyme4 күн бұрын
Guys should start testing these women by pretending to be poor. That you've lost your job. Does she love you? Or is it simply your income and resources that she loves?
@rinzler97754 күн бұрын
Shit testing of any kind should have severe consequences.
@code-dredd5 күн бұрын
We don't get "scared away"... we get fed up.
@thomasyap36114 күн бұрын
Now we know why so many still single…two makes each other complete..
@greaterbayareahero14014 күн бұрын
This test shows her lack of respect for him. He did the right thing. A relationship is a serious matter. She is immature. There are things you don’t take likely.
@roark80095 күн бұрын
That woman need better friends but the friend has the same poor character as herself so she won't find. He ex-fiance walking away shows he has good character and is too good for her. He will become the diamond bachelor and she will become the orange at the bottom.
@leethomaskc33275 күн бұрын
First of all, paying a 'bride price' to marry your wife is already wrong and immoral to start with. Push your luck further and you get a backfire.
@kokoyaro5 күн бұрын
She tests because her mind is so negative. Even when the experience is perfect, she will not believe that she deserves that perfection so she'll sabotage it with her silly tests. I had a woman test me this weekend, just 2 days ago, and I ghosted her immediately. I'm sure she doesn't even understand why I'll never exchange another word with her ever again. She thinks it should be fun. I don't tolerate it especially from women over 30. It's just ridiculous
@tonytea2095 күн бұрын
It is advisable for modern women to desist from continually evaluating their partners' loyalty and devotion, as this signifies insecurity and mistrust within the relationship.
@jeffcee94575 күн бұрын
My ex fiancée sent her sister to test me. Unfortunately we both failed that sexual test.Do think I was wrong for falling in love and getting married to the sister ?
@stevec35265 күн бұрын
Karma on the ex.
@jeffcee94575 күн бұрын
@@stevec3526 can u believe she didn't as much as come to the wedding
@chrisperrins80824 күн бұрын
😂
@AbhijeetPingale-u8v4 күн бұрын
😂
@77loneranger5 күн бұрын
Actions - especially stupid ones - have consequences. This woman is a future single cat lady.
@DL-iy3lf4 күн бұрын
like the example of testing as continuously dropping a cup to see if it will break. well once it breaks, it's goodbye.
@darkstars-torpedoes-of-truth4 күн бұрын
He sould listen to his "bestie" and employ a pump and dump scheme.
@Rafael-rn6hn5 күн бұрын
The role of a partner is to have your back, not to stab you on the back.
@wilsontay53234 күн бұрын
All women should listen to this. If not, none are suitable.
@jamessanders88955 күн бұрын
You can't have love without mutual trust and respect.
@ironaston98585 күн бұрын
Bride price is stupid as F! Parents should have savings for themselves! Don't leech off your daughter's bf!
@shadowdancertheredmage67985 күн бұрын
Women are broken...so they break the Man... then cry over the pieces. Make it make sense.
@randomdigress4 күн бұрын
Wise words from my dad "Women will say that it is a prank, joke, or a test but they fully meant everything they said", so fellow men dont get gaslit :)
@Austenfan1775 күн бұрын
He is better off... there is something very wrong with men and women who can be so easily swayed by a friend. Men are swayed to screw around at strip clubs, women are swayed to be irresponsible with money, etc... weak character is a bad thing to have in a spouse. Her bestie screwed her over, but she LET her bestie tell her stupid ideas, and SHE chose to act on them. Her bestie was always going to cause problems in her relationship.
@BernieK20234 күн бұрын
If a woman play stupid games like that, dump her immediately
@Wolffur5 күн бұрын
Once you reveal the transactional nature of your relationship, love goes right out of the window. He dodged a bullet there.
@skillbopster4 күн бұрын
Any woman that says 'bestie' is an Americanised red flag.
@danbuchner284 күн бұрын
Men marry for love, while women marry for money. The "bride price" and a stupid test to increase this price proves my point. Also, any test of a man should immediately result in the man breaking up with her.
@PsyrenXY5 күн бұрын
Another Bestie sabotage lmao
@garrycoates21474 күн бұрын
"Low emotional intelligence" means the man is not an emotional tampon. Men do not expect women to have high logical intelligence...
@darthlaurel2 күн бұрын
He should have countered with a test of his own - "I will pay the extra 100,000 but you must give up this friend and never speak to her ever again. Never see her ever again."
@Russia-bulliesКүн бұрын
A better test=“Leave your besties/I won’t marry.”
@pauls5745Күн бұрын
Love is blind trust. If you have to test your partner's commitment, then you are not all in, you don't have 100% trust in them and fail by giving them the test.
@rajakghosh66025 күн бұрын
May be her friend wants to date her bf and caused them to break up.
@Russia-bulliesКүн бұрын
No & no.I don’t like testing women,either but,if they tested me,I may.
@SuperNovaRider4 сағат бұрын
In Germany, about 80 years ago, it was normal, that married women only spent their time with other married women. It was believed, that a girl that wasn't married and in a stable relationship herself, would be a bad influence on women, that were. Again, it turns out that people knew what they were doing back in the days.
@solice88444 күн бұрын
Modern western women here in the US can't even handle a prenup agreement but feel it's okay to continually test the man. What a double standard.
@rssszz72085 күн бұрын
Always on filter 😂
@krockettz32314 күн бұрын
Literally every single one is using a filter, crazy
@visiti23094 күн бұрын
they always think its okay to test their boyfriend, but not the other way around. Once i know a woman tests me, maybe I passed the test but i still walk myself out