She Tested Her Partner With a Childish Test and It Backfired！

[@winstonlim8]

I didn't hear a single word of regret for her actions, just blaming others.

[@purpleknight-z3n]

She also hid from her behavior after agreement. Does sound like her don't like his way and she something other way Connor. She didn't know his boyfriend take one step ahead her . Wish me luck to find date Chinese women. Will take me time.

[@camels9654]

They agreed on a price, then she didn't honour her original word. Test or not, you broke an agreement which signals to the man you cannot be trusted. Guy did the right thing.

[@hman069]

@@camels9654 I totally agree with you 1000% ! The women here in the West have an honesty problem !

[@nevion5533]

B1tch's a gold digger probably

[@minhlu3518]

He did it right. If a woman can easily be affected by others, she isn't the one to marry.

[@stevec3526]

Very true.

[@jstreets1983]

“True love shouldn’t be tested, once you start testing some things can’t be fixed.”

[@hman069]

How would women like it, if men were constantly testing them all the time ? We as men don't the energy for that kind of nonsense.

[@poodlescone9700]

The same goes for threats made in the heat of the moment. The man can call the woman's bluff.

[@jstreets1983]

@@hman069 They would call it abuse, we know how it goes.

[@jstreets1983]

@@poodlescone9700 and should, it’s better to walk away than argue with anyone, especially your lady all the time.

[@hman069]

​@@jstreets1983 Right on ! I got tired of women's BS, and went MGTOW back in 1991, which was unheard of. Since then, I've been watching the the destruction unfold with these modern women. 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

[@shinrinyokumusic1808]

Women always tests. It never ends. Tests have consequences ladies.

[@ThomasDavis-e4g]

For him to agree with an additional 100,000 yuan would be the biggest of mistakes. The proper reply would have been "No" and to walk away. Never let a woman violate a boundary or a contract. She'll think you're weak and make you pay for it.

[@poodlescone9700]

This. We see this in the West all the time. It never ends well.

[@raulrosas5068]

if only they knew how pathetic it makes them look

[@ThomasDavis-e4g]

@@raulrosas5068 Women rarely have the capacity for honest, factual introspection.

[@PsyrenXY]

The matchmaker woman at 2:40 and the other woman at 6:15 are against tests though

[@stolennimbus]

Women need to realize that a woman's worst enemy is another woman, and often times she comes in the form of her bestie.

[@stevec3526]

Judge a woman based upon her friends.

[@lepotdefleur9906]

@@stevec3526 and what she call family.

[@stevec3526]

@@lepotdefleur9906 Yes, I have to agree with you on her family. Often women are damaged by their family.

[@pauldwalker]

that man did the right thing. that woman needs to find better friends.

[@stevec3526]

You judge a woman based upon her friends.

[@helahola]

@@stevec3526 true for average females but not if she is stupid.

[@ontemp]

The woman was stupid to listen to her bestie's suggestion. This shows you trust your friends more than your man if you go to them for advice. Also, it shows that you are weak-minded, easily influenced by others, and need their approval to take action. No man can trust a woman like this!

[@acidkhmer]

Right but maybe it is just an story of maturity, she take it like a test or a game but his boyfriend not. if the relation was really sincere his boyfriend is little fast to quit before having a real talk with his girl? Surely there are something else negative in their story? and this story of test is the least drop who brake everything.

[@ontemp]

@@acidkhmer The problem is that she's not taking the relationship seriously when he is the rare prize, not her. There are many girls like her, she's not special. She should be happy and grateful that she has that guy, but she got greedy. Now she is miserable and in regret.

[@yokeshin1153]

Besties should mind their own business.

[@owusuafriyiedennis4386]

You got that right 😊

[@victorvazquez5439]

Test are signs of immaturity. These types of individuals are not ready for an adult relationship. Why would I purposely throw someone I love into a lion's cage just so I can test their strength? The only thing that it truly proves is that the person's curiosity is more important than the love for the other individual. These types of individuals aren't marriage material. Life is hard enough without someone purposely making life harder.

[@suisenzero1]

Testing men = Getting kicked to the curb.

[@TheRealPureBlood]

If I were to be tested, she should make sure I never find out. If I did, I'd ghost her instantly, regardless of how long we'd been dating.

[@ChrisHillOlympicRecurveArchery]

I am sure the bestie is single.

[@bobjacobson858]

I wonder if, in some cases, the "bestie" is hoping this happens so she can develop a relationship with the guy afterwards.

[@owusuafriyiedennis4386]

Yea 😊

[@zavvax]

No, she was just trying to get more money. This is a common practice with women.

[@purpleknight-z3n]

You're right . Women of Eastern always throw own gamble getting more money . Chinese women must not be too greedy or too picky to find soulmate . There one gold rule for chinese women 1. Never try estimate men physical level.

[@TellthetruthaboutChina]

She set a trap for him and expected him not to fall for it. That's just selfish.

[@Aspire705]

And childish.

[@vvcc-kg9dp]

These tests will only push the relationship towards a breakdown. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, not constant tests.

[@hoozentroger]

I mean the test made sense, and the girl failed it! The guy dodged a bullet!

[@bobjacobson858]

That a different way of looking at it...and actually a good one!

[@purpleknight-z3n]

If she take play men physical level.. She wasn't think twice. Then she sabotage herself by tested his level.

[@NaturalDisasterObserver]

Why do women always use these childish tests to prove something? If you don't trust him, just break up sooner.

[@Aspire705]

Because that's truly what they are, giant children in small adult bodies.

[@francoistombe]

This is a breach of contract situation. You make an important agreement then reneg on it. This screams manipulation and unreliability. The straight honest party pulls out. Play silly games, reap appropriate rewards.

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

The way these people have everything about money is beyond redemption. Soullessness.

[@bvhia]

Exactly. Thats why their society is crumbling. Ours will too if we dont follow God

[@gmanlee575]

Its only the mainland chinese women, other Chinese dont practice this human meat market ideology

[@baiqi44]

@@bvhia Go visit there and see it for yourself instead of believing whatever is posted on social media. Their crumbling society looks a lot better than the West's. The big US cities like Chicago, LA, Detroit, NY, etc.. looks way more crumbling than any big city in China. Having said that, gold diggers are everywhere now and guess what... a lot of women in the West care about money much more than love... just like women in China. It's China following the West here (with stuff like this), not the other way around.

[@nemelendez]

Their not tests, they just wanna know how far they can go.

[@stevec3526]

Why is there ANY Bride Price? The whole concept is simply ridiculous, and toxic. Tests like this is “Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.” If you love a man you DON’T do stupid things like “tests”.

[@user-kg2ez1eg2y]

No women - no problems. FREEDOM and only FREEDOM brothers

[@smcdonald9991]

That's the way I have been living my life. Best choice ever. My wallet, my peace of mind, my self-esteem, my happiness.

[@OchiengMelisizwe5]

"emotional intelligence" is an oxymoron

[@Aspire705]

Only when referring to women. I'll give them "emotional hypersensitivity" all day, but "emotional intelligence"? Absolutely not.

[@ryanwing5785]

Its just empathy, but even they are failing at that. The "emotional intelligence" phrase is just projection for their inadequacy to make themselves seem like a bigger character.

[@helahola]

​@@ryanwing5785 strongly disagree on you saying that women have empathy. my reason is women do not need to understand men but men have to understand women to coax them so they could have sympathy but definitely zero empathy.

[@ryanwing5785]

@@helahola Lol, that is what I meant thus why I said they are failing at what they claim to have. In which, don't have a hint of empathy. If they did, they wouldn't involve themselves in the bashing and shaming of men that don't meet their high standards.

[@endtimeslips4660]

that is not marriage. that is a contract for a prostitution.

[@smcdonald9991]

Basically you need to buy a house, a car, and a bride. But one of the 3 depreciates real fast.

[@tech9803]

If you set a price, don't be surprised if you are treated like a purchase and replaced if a better purchase is available.

[@BrianLiamson]

With the additional 100k yuan trust test, if the boyfriend decided to say yes, then he would have to pay additional 100k. If he says no, then she will be angry that he doesn't love her because he's not willing to give another 100k. So one way or another, the man will fail this test. Therefore the smartest decision is to end the relationship.

[@SigynRegn]

I never did this testing thing on man. Life is the best test to a relationship.

[@NightmareManX]

Do women really think this will make a man love her more? It'll only make him lose patience.

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

0:20 Marry your best friend. That's what you should do.

[@xbman1]

Even when your best friend is same sex?😂

[@Soldano999]

I remember a story of a girl who asked her bestie to "test" her boyfriend, but in the end the Bf and the "bestie" got together.

[@roger10coutinho]

She should ask her bestie to pay her the money and marry her. Good luck.

[@roark8009]

Smart man. "The only winning move is not to play" Joshua

[@James670]

Those guys who broke up sure dodged some bullets.

[@rinzler9775]

Little did they realise, there was a shit test, and they failed it.

[@Chronoic]

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

[@santosakowski9846]

Wow, this video had some really good advice on it. It is worth listening to.

[@ironcladmath2401]

Top Gold Diggers 😂😂

[@sylvieschmitt-morel864]

Never, never mixing best friend in your love couple….💥💥💥

[@wl6020]

She and her family wanted that extra 100k, but once he said no, she made the excuse of just testing him. Its greed, her friend suggested it to her, she had the choice of asking or not. It probably scared the dude, he think, 100k extra, then on wedding day, would there be another 100k added on?

[@apexcapital1328]

It’s not a test because we all know her ass will take his money if he say, yes; lets keep it a buck.

[@catfoodmillionaire7838]

💯

[@redknight6077]

Women sabotage each other relentlessly and yet they all blame men for it. Nothing short of madness.

[@wtan1851]

He did the right thing. As for bestie's advice, it can't beat good advice from the right people.

[@aztec0112]

Women keep women single.

[@homeytoyer8303]

Try dat.

[@Nony_Amous101]

few seconds in and already it's ☕ keeping other ☕ single

[@catfoodmillionaire7838]

☕

[@doubleohriser]

Probably bitter single friend wanted to keep company

[@nerdiloo9863]

I always have had the "Do NOT test me, life is hard as it is, here's why.." talk with any girl I had in the past. I also let them know what will happen if they do. Period. Guys, you are the MAN. You must set the standards/boundaries that girls must meet. If you don't, the childish mind of the female will always be prone to ruin a good thing.

[@stevec3526]

Sadly yes…

[@tambourinedmb]

friend jealous and sabotaging

[@tambourinedmb]

women looking for frame control see if they can control their future husbands or not. that’s the test

[@stevec3526]

Manipulation technique absolutely.

[@onglingyeow]

Kick such greedy women out of our lives, guys! This is just pure greed. A relationship that is built on such transactional values will not last long at all. The guy is right to get rid of her. This should send the correct message to all the women out there not to play with fire. This bride price is a relic of the past when women in this modern era have the ability to work and support themselves. It is more like a courtesy gift to the future parents-in-laws instead of becoming a financial and emotional burden for a guy in a couple's marriage. Ridiculous! Excellent job in dumping this greedy woman!

[@touayaaj84]

When you learned the hard way that single people want to keep you single. Misery loves company. 😂

[@kyliechen5263]

When trust is broken, its the end. Northing can fix it back.

[@acidkhmer]

So True, even if we go back togheter, something is broken it can not like before ever again!

[@bobjacobson858]

Dr. Sun Yat-sen made this point very clearly: "Trust is earned by many deeds, and lost by only one."

[@rgx420s]

Women continuing to keep each other single LOL!

[@brucelee3688]

She wasn't easily influenced. If she wasn't greedy, she wouldn't have tested.

[@nonisidharta1545]

She can marry her bestie lol

[@rendyajadech1957]

The cup as an example was a perfect explanation 👍🏻

[@bobjacobson858]

This rather reminds me of a time I was sharing a place with a roommate, but he didn't bother to mow the lawn because he was "afraid the lawnmower wouldn't start". A mutual friend said "No--he was afraid it WOULD!"

[@jonathansmith5305]

Besties? More like worst enemy

[@salguodrolyat2594]

Worsties.🤣

[@somerandomguyfromtheintern480]

I like that analogy. You buy a cup to drink. Not to drop test it's durability. Even if it survives the drop, it will be permanently damaged.

[@elyfel1183]

"One thing about the Chinese, Mr. Andrews... WE DO NOT RENEGOTIATE!!" - Roger Yuan.

[@light5978]

even if a man passed the first test, the second test will come soon, and third, and fourth. the test will keep coming until the man finally fail, then the woman will satisfy

[@andrewbaker5824]

A woman testing a man shows how insecure she is and he should dump her for a secure woman who doesn't play these games.

[@jaypetz]

Being easily swayed by other people without considering your partners feeling or financial disposition is a red flag.

[@juliespin1772]

These besties might have an alternative reason to make her friend test her boyfriend with asking her to test him like stealing and make him her boyfriend when he brakes up with her . Besties will betrayed her friend.

[@ThuTu-k8h]

Lesson 1: Never have a stupid bestie for a bestie. Lesson 2: Money should be a mutual blessing in a relationship, not something to bargain, dispute, or provide an ultimatum with.

[@valentindimitrov8275]

Very strange that concept of a "bride price".

[@user-hv7rt2zr1q]

thank your FRIEND for that, not only does he have the responsibility to take care of you for the rest of his life no matter what happens but he has to upfront another 100k, he'll take his chances and find another woman to take care of for 50k upfront instead

[@salguodrolyat2594]

The first female should just marry the bestie as that is who she obeys.🤣

[@arion2000]

A lot of people can’t distinguish bad advice

[@jameslim3850]

Women who have toxic friends who are secretly jealous of her will try their best to destroy her friend's relationship by giving very bad advice.

[@youtubeviewer4472]

Women keep women single in every part of the world

[@Russia-bullies]

You should do a follow up on what the besties are doing,whether they are still besties/not & find out,if wives are testing too.Especially,if there was a bride price.

[@brokenrhyme]

Guys should start testing these women by pretending to be poor. That you've lost your job. Does she love you? Or is it simply your income and resources that she loves?

[@rinzler9775]

Shit testing of any kind should have severe consequences.

[@code-dredd]

We don't get "scared away"... we get fed up.

[@thomasyap3611]

Now we know why so many still single…two makes each other complete..

[@greaterbayareahero1401]

This test shows her lack of respect for him. He did the right thing. A relationship is a serious matter. She is immature. There are things you don’t take likely.

[@roark8009]

That woman need better friends but the friend has the same poor character as herself so she won't find. He ex-fiance walking away shows he has good character and is too good for her. He will become the diamond bachelor and she will become the orange at the bottom.

[@leethomaskc3327]

First of all, paying a 'bride price' to marry your wife is already wrong and immoral to start with. Push your luck further and you get a backfire.

[@kokoyaro]

She tests because her mind is so negative. Even when the experience is perfect, she will not believe that she deserves that perfection so she'll sabotage it with her silly tests. I had a woman test me this weekend, just 2 days ago, and I ghosted her immediately. I'm sure she doesn't even understand why I'll never exchange another word with her ever again. She thinks it should be fun. I don't tolerate it especially from women over 30. It's just ridiculous

[@tonytea209]

It is advisable for modern women to desist from continually evaluating their partners' loyalty and devotion, as this signifies insecurity and mistrust within the relationship.

[@jeffcee9457]

My ex fiancée sent her sister to test me. Unfortunately we both failed that sexual test.Do think I was wrong for falling in love and getting married to the sister ?

[@stevec3526]

Karma on the ex.

[@jeffcee9457]

@@stevec3526 can u believe she didn't as much as come to the wedding

[@chrisperrins8082]

😂

[@AbhijeetPingale-u8v]

😂

[@77loneranger]

Actions - especially stupid ones - have consequences. This woman is a future single cat lady.

[@DL-iy3lf]

like the example of testing as continuously dropping a cup to see if it will break. well once it breaks, it's goodbye.

[@darkstars-torpedoes-of-truth]

He sould listen to his "bestie" and employ a pump and dump scheme.

[@Rafael-rn6hn]

The role of a partner is to have your back, not to stab you on the back.

[@wilsontay5323]

All women should listen to this. If not, none are suitable.

[@jamessanders8895]

You can't have love without mutual trust and respect.

[@ironaston9858]

Bride price is stupid as F! Parents should have savings for themselves! Don't leech off your daughter's bf!

[@shadowdancertheredmage6798]

Women are broken...so they break the Man... then cry over the pieces. Make it make sense.

[@randomdigress]

Wise words from my dad "Women will say that it is a prank, joke, or a test but they fully meant everything they said", so fellow men dont get gaslit :)

[@Austenfan177]

He is better off... there is something very wrong with men and women who can be so easily swayed by a friend. Men are swayed to screw around at strip clubs, women are swayed to be irresponsible with money, etc... weak character is a bad thing to have in a spouse. Her bestie screwed her over, but she LET her bestie tell her stupid ideas, and SHE chose to act on them. Her bestie was always going to cause problems in her relationship.

[@BernieK2023]

If a woman play stupid games like that, dump her immediately

[@Wolffur]

Once you reveal the transactional nature of your relationship, love goes right out of the window. He dodged a bullet there.

[@skillbopster]

Any woman that says 'bestie' is an Americanised red flag.

[@danbuchner28]

Men marry for love, while women marry for money. The "bride price" and a stupid test to increase this price proves my point. Also, any test of a man should immediately result in the man breaking up with her.

[@PsyrenXY]

Another Bestie sabotage lmao

[@garrycoates2147]

"Low emotional intelligence" means the man is not an emotional tampon. Men do not expect women to have high logical intelligence...

[@darthlaurel]

He should have countered with a test of his own - "I will pay the extra 100,000 but you must give up this friend and never speak to her ever again. Never see her ever again."

[@Russia-bullies]

A better test=“Leave your besties/I won’t marry.”

[@pauls5745]

Love is blind trust. If you have to test your partner's commitment, then you are not all in, you don't have 100% trust in them and fail by giving them the test.

[@rajakghosh6602]

May be her friend wants to date her bf and caused them to break up.

[@Russia-bullies]

No & no.I don’t like testing women,either but,if they tested me,I may.

[@SuperNovaRider]

In Germany, about 80 years ago, it was normal, that married women only spent their time with other married women. It was believed, that a girl that wasn't married and in a stable relationship herself, would be a bad influence on women, that were. Again, it turns out that people knew what they were doing back in the days.

[@solice8844]

Modern western women here in the US can't even handle a prenup agreement but feel it's okay to continually test the man. What a double standard.

[@rssszz7208]

Always on filter 😂

[@krockettz3231]

Literally every single one is using a filter, crazy

[@visiti2309]

they always think its okay to test their boyfriend, but not the other way around. Once i know a woman tests me, maybe I passed the test but i still walk myself out