I'm Attacked For Being Paralysed And Pregnant | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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AN INTERABLED couple have hit back at online trolls who have criticised them for their decision to start a family. Alyssa and Jimmy, both 30, from New York, USA, met online in the summer of 2013, and soon fell in love. But the couple has sadly had to deal with some judgement, because Alyssa is disabled due to a spinal cord injury. She explained how people make hurtful assumptions about her capabilities, and have even implied that Jimmy has a "fetish" for people in wheelchairs. Thankfully the pair also have a lot of online support and try to focus on the positives. But when Alyssa began documenting her pregnancy with their first baby, Luke, who was born in May, on Instagram, where she has 112,000 followers, she was met with some criticism, with strangers calling her "irresponsible". Jimmy said: "They don’t know our situation and how much she is capable of. She's an amazing girlfriend, fiancé, now wife and mother and I just can't wait to keep growing as a family together."
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[@justrollwithjesus]

I'm paralyzed due to a spinal cord injury and I hope I find love too!

[@lianasoares8052]

When you make love you use your legs. This woman is paralyzed. How was she able to conceive if she can’t move her legs? The struggle is real for her. If I was paralyzed...I wouldn’t have kids because I would have no idea on how to do “it” since my legs won’t cooperate.

[@chinchillamdgamer]

@@lianasoares8052 the ignorance shines through

[@trish5737]

May God grant you the desires of your heart according to His will

[@justrollwithjesus]

@Cassie Romeiro I'm a guy lol. I don't think women have fetishes for guys in wheelchairs lol.

[@justrollwithjesus]

@Cassie Romeiro and?

[@CL-ew7wh]

There are men and women out there (Who are not paralyzed or Disabled) that have kids but dont deserve them. These two sound like they will make great parents and thats all that matters

[@shereecewilson1720]

Well said!

[@JR-cooru]

I thought the same thing after that one comment about then being "irresponsible". I went to high school with a guy that was taken away from his mom when he was small because she traded him for drugs. That's irresponsible.

[@lianasoares8052]

SHE’S PARALYZED! You’re stiff. You can’t move them. I wouldn’t have kids if I was paralyzed because my legs wouldn’t cooperate. I don’t know how paralyzed people can spread them if they can’t move them. Like I’m curious...I almost feel bummed because she didn’t give up yet if I was paralyzed...I’d be like “honey, I can’t move my lower 1/2. I can’t make love to you. I’m stiff. Forget having kids. My legs won’t cooperate.”

[@mariannep7803]

Ma

[@msbanana7112]

I agree

[@tonyabomia7217]

I don't understand why people think that because someone is disabled their not allowed to have love in their lives or have any kind of life at all. I've seen plenty of able bodied people who should have never had children and some who've pretty much wasted their lives. I don't think this couple needs to worry about what a few haters think. They look like they're doing just fine.

[@Thais_jeffy]

It wont be easy for them, I tell you that...

[@tonyabomia7217]

@@Thais_jeffy No it probably won't be. Life's not easy for anyone. It doesn't help when you have others who make it more difficult than what it already is.

[@Thais_jeffy]

A child doenst need only Love! It is not easy taking care of a baby/child. How come taking care of him/her when the mother has lots of limitation? I am sorry but this history hasnt anything beautiful in it and for sure it wont be easy. Sounds like irresponsability what they are doing.

[@florencia2771]

Only the ones who are bitter

[@tonyabomia7217]

@@florencia2771 They'd have to be bitter if they disapprove of someone actually finding some happiness. Especially nowadays.

[@stela_7834]

The baby is going to be so lucky to have such amazing, loving parents. Congratulations!!🥰

[@vamnpyre]

Yeah

[@DY2784]

Selfish, selfish, selfish.

[@reshmitakhatun796]

Realy!

[@harbimidiyosunkanka]

@@DY2784 exactly

[@annika2272]

Why you think so? 🤔 Baby is well loved and cared.

[@omnium_gatherum]

"I can't wait to teach a kid right from wrong" love that. They seem like they're gonna be great parents

[@sammyk707]

My Aunty is a paraplegic she was told she couldn’t have kids had a daughter and now she’s 13 and thriving. What is wrong with these absolutely ignorant people that judge. Grow some brain cells come back and try again.

[@lianasoares8052]

When you make love you use your legs. This woman is paralyzed. How was she able to conceive if she can’t move her legs? The struggle is real for her. If I was paralyzed...I wouldn’t have kids because I would have no idea on how to do “it” since my legs won’t cooperate.

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

@@lianasoares8052 good question

[@lianasoares8052]

@@tobiaslawrence8928, I hope you’re not being sarcastic. My innocent mind gets curious. That almost sounds impossible. Think about it: Your legs can’t move. Plain & simple...yet you manage to get pregnant. How? Unless he moved her legs slowly & carefully.

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

@@lianasoares8052 i'm not being sarcastic that is a good question i have a feeling that somthing is wrong

[@hanabee1247]

@@lianasoares8052 they can use in vitro

[@largeautomobile]

I miss the days of people minding their own business. Only a miserable lowlife would attack her for that.

[@iamthefuss934]

Yet here yu r. Not mending yours

[@southernsunsett]

Nobody has ever minded their own business they just didn't have social media lol

[@catapillargirl2021]

People can be so cruel & judgmental. Just because she was injured during her birth, why should she be denied the ability to be a Mother.

[@thedarkenigma3834]

Men are denied of being fathers if they become defective.

[@kikis194]

Some people have a family and they dont care, l think these people deserve to have family more than everyone. My congratulasions. 💌

[@lianasoares8052]

How can you do “it” with someone who’s paralyzed? When you make love you use your legs. This woman is paralyzed. How was she able to conceive if she can’t move her legs? The struggle is real for her. If I was paralyzed...I wouldn’t have kids because I would have no idea on how to do “it” since my legs won’t cooperate.

[@danielleoatway7717]

I absolutely agree ❤️ there are far too many babies born to parents who are so undeserving of the unconditional love children feel for their parent/s. Their baby is going to be so loved and is so lucky to that he has such an amazing mom and dad who clearly love each other so much. ❤️

[@Oversurge_]

@@lianasoares8052 gotta treat it like a living fleshlight

[@flxmkr]

Liana Soares fortunately for everyone concerned, this is their puzzle to solve. I'm sure they'll manage. 😁

[@Oversurge_]

@@flxmkr yeah... it's very unfortunate for the child. And... I'm sure the government will be helping them out. Using more tax dollars for their dumb decision. So..nah unfortunate for everyone else also

[@mewletter]

I'm sure she will be a great parent despite her condition. People forgetting Stephen Hawking also had and raised his kids well? Wish her and her husband the best ❤️

[@ginag8723]

I think his ex wife raised the kids, but I agree - they seem like a lovely, and loving family.

[@maidahaltrecht6577]

Sean Stevenson didn't have kids but he found love. He had brittle bone disease and was in a wheelchair too until he sadly passed away.

[@simosimosimoock5809]

stephen was very rich ..

[@wowtv101]

Yes you're right .... He had 3 children.....

[@SuperRussianGoddess]

I'm just wondering how she even got pregnant

[@bruppieo5118]

The happiest and most surreal moment of my life was holding my baby girl for the first time and ever since then she has been the biggest source of love and joy and she is now a toddler and I couldn’t and wouldn’t imagine life without her. There’s no reason she doesn’t deserve every bit of that as well. I’m so excited for her!

[@DY2784]

Selfish. What I feel... simply SELFISH.

[@bruppieo5118]

@@DY2784 but why?

[@dianajames4717]

i can relate. i dont have any interest in human beings but wheni hold a puppy or a kitten oh my God i feel like i am floating on a rain bow

[@WheelLifeInTheWheelWorld]

Thank you so much Truly for this opportunity! We had a great time and now Luke is 5 months old!

[@tonyabomia7217]

Congratulations!! Absolutely love your attitude about the people who were giving you grief over this.

[@mamapeppa3326]

Congratulations !

[@brendadickson9583]

Awww congratulations ❤❤

[@LolaJohnsonmusic]

Their love seems honest and strong, and their family will be one of happiness. My soul to theirs ❤️

[@vamnpyre]

❤️

[@mattie8371]

I swear this man( and all women) is what we need more of accepting men and women for who they are

[@Hannah-sg4sr]

Aw he is so cute and she is pretty I’m so glad they found each other 😍😍😍 happy ending

[@lianasoares8052]

When you make love you use your legs. This woman is paralyzed. How was she able to conceive if she can’t move her legs? The struggle is real for her. If I was paralyzed...I wouldn’t have kids because I would have no idea on how to do “it” since my legs won’t cooperate.

[@Hannah-sg4sr]

@@lianasoares8052 I disagree with you you don’t really need to use her legs while making love 😂😂😂 she probably opened her legs he was doing all the work

[@lianasoares8052]

@@Hannah-sg4sr, SHE’S PARALYZED! You’re stiff. You can’t move them. I wouldn’t have kids if I was paralyzed because my legs wouldn’t cooperate. I don’t know how paralyzed people can spread them. Like I’m curious...I almost feel bummed because she didn’t give up yet if I was paralyzed...I’d be like “honey, I can’t move my lower 1/2. I can’t make love to you. I’m stiff. Forget having kids. My legs won’t cooperate.”

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

to bad they are in the minority cause that ain't happening

[@elliesharp401]

You give me hope that I’ll have a boyfriend one day, maybe even a husband. I’m not in a wheelchair but I’m chronically ill that can be terminal. So it scares all the guys off 😣

[@legacylo7895]

🙏🏼

[@ozkanakgun246]

what is your disease

[@kia0402]

You will I promise there is someone out there waiting to meet you too. I've had a rare thyroid cancer it's now terminal since 18 I'm 32 in Feb and I met my man 7 years ago he didn't know for the first few months and he didn't run he's my rock and the best dad to my 10 year old daughter. I promise you will be loved how u deserve to be which is with a whole heart.

[@toriladybird511]

My partner loves me and i have issues. The right person is out there... Good luck 🍀❤️

[@oliviamartini9700]

Take a tip from Kia's advice above and don't tell a love interest until you've formed a close bond, a few months at least. Maybe you can't entirely hide it but minimize it and change the subject when it arises.

[@estherblessingboakye977]

People can sometimes be really mean.We should rather cheer her on and pray for strength to complete this important phase of her life. May God bless you and your husband

[@ForeverGhibli]

I'm really upset at the doctor who accidentally did that to her

[@grape_ju1ce]

Same

[@Sophia-wz9qf]

I was looking for this comment, no one else seemed to mention it. I'm really curious what happened and if he took any responsibility, why was he using forceps in the first place? I can't even imagine delivering a healthy baby and the doctor accidentally breaks its spine...

[@grape_ju1ce]

@@Sophia-wz9qf I was thinking the same thing. So I did some research about the use of forceps while delivering a baby. It says that doctors do use forceps to grab the baby’s head and gently guide them out of the birthing canal (you can look it up if you want). I guess the doctor who was delivering her grabbed the wrong spot and when he tried to guide her out, he maybe squeeze the forceps too hard (I’m not 100% sure it’s just what it sounds like that’s how it happened but I could be wrong).

[@amalcandao9762]

Everyone deserves a family.. So happy for them both

[@xlivx7021]

@ProcreationCausesSuffering GoogleAnti-natalism I just really don’t know what to say to u.

[@xlivx7021]

@DontEatAnimals It CausesSuffering GoVeganPlease …

[@shraddhasingh41]

They are adorable together ❤️☺️

[@annettereid5437]

It's more like a birth injury, and it's not her fault, she deserves a family n she deserves to be happy. Am glad that she experience love and that husband is so understanding and loving. So for the haters: dont be jealous because u can't find love and get a good partner. Let them be! Love both, keep loving and supporting each other....its good to have a child, that child will grow up and assist ur husband with you....😊

[@Thais_jeffy]

I am sorry but I totally disagree with you. This woman cant do many things on her own. How come taking care of a kid? If her husband cant help her for a whole day, what will she do? I am a normal woman with 2 kids and sometimes I cant deal with them. Come on... lets be honest...it wont be easy.

[@linann96]

Love This 💖✝️💖

[@ashleyburbank3129]

@@Thais_jeffy she has complete mobility of her arms I don't see why she can't do it as a mother myself! Perhaps for a short while in his toddler years they might need extra help but what difference is that to hiring any kind of child care because you need to work or whatever?! You clearly don't understand how disability doesn't stop living! You simply make accommodations and carry on!!

[@lauraantic1384]

@@Thais_jeffy yes you need so much energy for kids somethimes i feel like running all day and night it is hard not easy at all if somebody have a nanny its a different story i was so tired 🥱

[@lesliedavis2449]

I follow her journey on IG & she just seems like the most wonderful person ever. Such a great couple

[@carolinegallegos_]

I have two questions. First, how dangerous is it for her to have a baby with her very tiny frame? Second, what if she is home alone with the baby and it started choking on something small it got it’s hands on or doing something dangerous like poking stuff in electrical outlets or pulls a bookcase down trying to climb on it and it’s crushing the child to death? How is she going to get out of her chair and start giving the baby the Heimlich maneuver or lift the bookcase off the baby? How will she chase the baby around when it’s a toddler and sprint to catch it if they’re at a park and it decides to run after it’s runaway ball into the street? Kids can be hard enough to keep up with and keep out of trouble when you’re able bodied. There are problems with having a baby when you’re tiny, weak and wheelchair bound. Saying that isn’t “jealousy” or “hate” just because it doesn’t feel good to hear. To me that’s just logic.

[@missdaydreamss]

no your comment is ignorant. her wheels are her legs. she can easily roll up to her baby and there are other options. a live in nanny. people like you don't see other perspectives at all. it's hilarious and she's not even that tiny and even if she is. alot of little people give birth.

[@carolinegallegos_]

@@missdaydreamss yeah because of the baby gets somewhere her chair can’t drive to or somewhere too low for her chair she obviously can’t get out of her chair to get to her baby. If they can afford a live in nanny then they should get one but someone who can’t even dress themselves will not be able to chase after a baby or toddler and keep them out of danger. That’s not ignorance, that’s logic. Sorry you can’t handle the truth. It’s easier to be delusional and attack me rather than accepting reality isn’t it?

[@sideshowkazstuff3867]

This is going to be a much harder challenge than ether of them realise. I really hope they are up for it and have a good support system in place.

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

it’s really not tho. as disabled people we know ourselves, our disabilities, capabilities, and capacity better than anyone else. that includes doubts + fears. i’m quite sure they are both fully aware of how much of a challenge it’s going to be. + you certainly can’t say what they realize or don’t realize after watching a 5min video.

[@yamomma8560]

@@hellaSwankkyToo right i’m able bodied and even i get this concept people swear they know you better than yourself

[@Ashley-ek5kp]

Right, I'm sure you, a stranger on the internet, knows better than this woman who has lived with a disability her entire life. 🙄

[@hunterivey]

People say the same thing to every person that has a disability, thinking that if you have a child that your responsible of and if you have a disability, they think you won't be able to take care of the child, but that's not true. People can do anything they want to that they want to do, regardless of their disability. I'm congratulating this couple, because they said the same thing about autistic people, which includes me, that they can't take care of a child. I'm happy for this couple to have a child, because they're working hard to become good parents, when this kid arrives, so I'm happy to see people with a disability like me is able to take care of a child and live a good life.

[@EmAmortentia]

I’m Autistic too and have been told the same thing. I couldn’t have worded it better myself xxx

[@alexisdixon1799]

Exactly and i think some people really need to worry about their own life instead of other peoples I am having my second child and I get judge for age and disability.

[@spiralpython1989]

I am autistic with CRPS which limits my mobility and causes chronic fatigue; I am also a single parent to 3 amazing young adults. And I have a job outside of the home. Yes, over the years I have needed some outside help, especially as I do not have extended family, but my kids are thoughtful, socially aware and they know they are loved. We are not a huggy/ touchy family, but there are many ways of showing affection. In my (significant) experiences, children of disabled parents are aware of their caregiver’s capacities and limitations, and they recognise that despite these limitations, their parent/s are often much more likely to be involved in supporting the childrens pursuits, the parents make significant efforts to stay abreast of school and extra curricular activities; but also the disabled parents in my network have foci on supporting their childrens independence, goal setting, and resilience. Further, expectant parent/s who live with disabilities or chronic health concerns have the tendencies to go into parenthood very well read, and extremely well prepared. The child of this family is fortunate indeed.

[@Brynn..]

@@spiralpython1989 I have CRPS as well, have had it for over 10 years now so I know the struggle. I hope you're doing well!

[@ellydeclifford2071]

Congratulations to this beautiful family! I can’t believe people would go out of their way to write something so horrible when it is NONE of their business! Let NO ONE steal your happiness in this beautiful new journey of your life. God bless you guys ❤️

[@CatholicBikerQueen]

Don't listen to all that negative energy because you are two beautiful people and God gave you a blessing.

[@lianasoares8052]

When you make love you use your legs. This woman is paralyzed. How was she able to conceive if she can’t move her legs? The struggle is real for her. If I was paralyzed...I wouldn’t have kids because I would have no idea on how to do “it” since my legs won’t cooperate.

[@alexisdixon1799]

@@lianasoares8052 IVF.

[@gabrielmoralesgonzalez6471]

My eyes are going to be filled with tears in a couple of minutes because they are so cute together. I wish I could find someone like him.

[@joandondero1736]

My thoughts exactly, Gabriel Morales Gonzalez! I married Satan’s son...!!!

[@lianasoares8052]

When you make love you use your legs. This woman is paralyzed. How was she able to conceive if she can’t move her legs? The struggle is real for her. If I was paralyzed...I wouldn’t have kids because I would have no idea on how to do “it” since my legs won’t cooperate.

[@deftones8717]

@@lianasoares8052 well… I’m assuming that he assisted in moving her legs 😂

[@lianasoares8052]

@@deftones8717, gently.

[@gabrielmoralesgonzalez6471]

@@joandondero1736 I am so sorry to hear that. I hope things get better.

[@gloriaziwaofficialtv9444]

Wow...God please bless 🙌me with such a caring man 😭🙏🙏🙏may God bless this couple 💑

[@SarahJeanCole]

I follow her on Instagram and their little boy is so cute and she's such an amazing mother. She is such a smart beautiful kind loving human inside and out and her husband jimmy is so kind and caring. They are wonderful parents also. All my love from Michigan ❤️

[@spulos1]

Very nice, uplifting video!! I congratulate you both for being strong, and overcoming some obvious difficulties! On the other hand everyone has some sort of roadblocks in their lives, you are facing yours head on and overcoming them. It’s nice that you found each other and that you are starting a family. Your child will be blessed with wonderful parents!!

[@starglowcruiser]

God decides when a child comes to earth through the mama, this is perfectly natural- please ignore the haters. There are women who smoke crack and drink alcohol through their entire pregnancies! GOd bless you are your family

[@lianasoares8052]

When you make love you use your legs. This woman is paralyzed. How was she able to conceive if she can’t move her legs? The struggle is real for her. If I was paralyzed...I wouldn’t have kids because I would have no idea on how to do “it” since my legs won’t cooperate.

[@lianasoares8052]

Honestly...what you said about women smoking crack & drinking, etc during pregnancy...I seriously think that when I see a child that mentally disabled of some sort. I always think the mother caused it (even though that’s not always the case). Why? I know 2 women who smoked during all their pregnancies. 1 of them had 2 boys (1 Autistic & the other a non-verbal Autistic). The other woman did the same during her pregnancies. 2 sons for her as well. 1 Autistic & the other a non-verbal Autistic.

[@Ge174]

@@lianasoares8052 I read a lot of your comments you are such a hypocrite you talk about GOD, if you even knew GOD, you wouldn’t say those things that you say .

[@azazello1784]

Really? God decides that? Not people when they have sex?

[@ninagezellie4206]

What's wrong with all those doctors malpracticing 😡 But even more, what's wrong with all those people thinking they have the right to abuse by making those low comments to her???😡

[@babybeauti96]

Disabled people are allowed to be parents too. They seem more deserving than other parents. They help one another, the child will be fine. So many parents do NOT deserve to have children.

[@svasianfilipiname6603]

They were probably just worried that with her disability, it would be more responsibility, but I think this young couple is very up to the challenge. They seem on top of things!

[@lukemeyers2451]

My mom had polio at 1 yr old, went through many operations, weird things back in the day like leeches being put on her legs to suck the bad blood out!! Anyway, she was very religious. She prayed to God, if I never walk please bless me with children. God blessed her with 8 healthy children, mom did everything in the home and taught us the same. God bless the both of you.

[@jamaimanalugya9602]

We need more of Jimmys in this world that is sooo judging….God bless you too…

[@austin_316]

That's insane that the doctor caused this when her mother gave birth.. the doctor should pay compensation for what he did. She should sue for malpractice

[@Javielle]

It's either the baby dies in the birth canal or they are pulled out with forceps. It's not malpractice. It happens as the infant's spine is like a noodle and bends easily... I had the umbilical chord around my neck and turned blue, pulled out by my head = life-long scoliosis. Do not attack doctors for saving a life.

[@therealmessygossipsho]

The woman that said, "she is irresponsible to get pregnant and be cripple", I'm sure she's a jealous woman who can't have a baby.

[@lianasoares8052]

How can you do “it” with someone who’s paralyzed?

[@florjean965]

@@lianasoares8052 Omg use your imagination!

[@lianasoares8052]

@@florjean965, got to be gentle, I guess.

[@abreakirkland9101]

@@lianasoares8052 I see you under every comment. Like come on man, they are happy and that's all that matters. Worry about your own life.

[@carolinegallegos_]

I’m a woman who can have a baby (I already have an 11 year old daughter and to me it’s just logic to question how she’s going to handle a baby and then a rambunctious toddler when she can’t even dress herself or get out of her chair. If anything happens to the child while she’s home alone with it she won’t be able to render aid or do anything to help it herself. How can you be a caretaker when you yourself require a caretaker? That’s not jealousy that’s logic.

[@bryantnavajo3738]

We all need a happy man that’s helpful like him:)

[@AStout-tf3ej]

Beautiful couple. Someone also has some great decorative flair. I love the way the rooms are decorated. Wishing a healthy, joyous family and life.

[@carmenmiranda8963]

People tend to be so mean at times. If people don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. I am very proud of you both. Congratulations to both.

[@poppymcgrath]

your woman your a wife and you are going to be a wonderful mother so remember there are some people out there who are very sick and know nothing feel sad for them. They dont have what you have Faith in yourself you know you can do THIS XX

[@elliesharp401]

You deserve everything in your life especially to be a parent. All you need is love and all a child needs is love!! ❤️ think of all the children out there suffering from non disabled parents that can’t support their own children properly!

[@davysmith8569]

who are these people telling them they are irresponsible? They got it together, leave em alone.

[@angelicas3844]

Some people are either just mean , insensitive or ignorant. I’m happy for them and they will make great parents.

[@lemab8971]

She's ABLED enough to have a baby and has a loving and caring nature towards her unborn child already! She's going to be an amazing mother. The baby will have two loving parents

[@lily-leacompassionforinnoc4691]

So wonderful to see such a sweet couple. I am excited for you both, all the best for the arrival of the little one. Keep us posted for when the baby arrives 🙂👍

[@azazello1784]

I hate that they have a dog, not a cat.

[@chrisdooley6468]

I’m disabled and was married too. I know from experience (I’m a C5-6 incomplete spinal cord injury) that her need for constant assistance paired with a child will be a major issue if they’re not careful. I do hope they succeed and show everyone wrong. He seems like a solid caring guy who loves her no matter what. It’d be interesting to follow up in a year or so

[@gabsgabbie]

What a blessing you found each other! It's so sad that there are people that, instead of taking care of their own lives, make sure people know how miserable and empty they are through their meaningless and offensive comments. Wishing you and your family endless happiness. ♥️

[@reebofmoon]

Exactly! Society is terrible now.

[@kaylinde2321]

I’ve been following them on ig for years now. They are the sweetest and she’s hilarious with her posts. Their baby is adorable!

[@cassieleigh8485]

As a mother, I say it's your life do what makes you happy. Is the baby going to go thru a stage of wondering what it would be like to not have you in that chair? And all the things your going to have to do from the side lines? Possibly! But it's all he's going to know. And the things he's going to GAIN, is Soo much greater than anyone that hates on your decisions could possibly understand! And I'm sure that he wouldn't change it for the world. You are brave. You are strong. You are an inspiration! 💜💪🏻💯🙏

[@leslie-annjones5321]

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉, don't let people get you down. You have a wonderful husband and you are a beautiful woman, wishing you a safe delivery

[@alissaesagbona3352]

So lovely I hope they’re happy and there happiness blossoms even further!🥺 but wow she is paralysed due to forceps being used incorrectly now that’s scary!

[@whyllowfilms]

It can be difficult and and risky for both the mother and baby, but it's their choice they can have that. They seem sweet, I just hope they understand the difficulties and can get through it

[@TA-kb8yj]

I'm happy for them!! That is a lucky baby with two wonderful loving parents. I hope she have a safe delivery.

[@chongtay-voviet]

I have polio and married but I dont want kids. I am not judging her or anything. I dont want kids just because I cant take care of them the way I want to even though I can walk and do a lot of things. It's hard to raise children in today's world. I am trying to be happy without replying on others people to make me happy. It is a learning process. I wish her and her husband the best life.

[@CLOUISENELS42]

I think it is awesome you two found each other, congratulations on the new addition to your family, and know you will be great parents love to you guys God Bless

[@MaiMai-ys4yg]

They seem so loving and calm. I am happy for their new family ❤️

[@tammydavis770]

People should not judge. The two of you being in love is so refreshing. This baby will be well loved

[@hazelmaguire126]

Hi I am disabled and if I had got married I would have loved children. Rather than see it as a negative. Use this oppurtunity as I see you are already to ‘educate’ others. I have found that sometimes people say things out of ignorance. As you know no two disabilities are alike or affect people in the same way. I look forward to watching your journey into motherhood /parenthood and meeting your little one. 🤗

[@missadel20]

Mazal tov!!! Good for you I hope and pray that y'all was baby comes out one hundred percent happy and healthy

[@felicitymemela1963]

I swear we live in a toxic society where people just enjoy criticising & bullying people for no damn reason, like damn being kind doesn't cost a damn thing. She already gave birth I’m pretty sure I once browsed through her Instagram & they’re amazing parents based on what I sow on Instagram

[@lilyowen5756]

Congratulations!! I'm so happy for you.

[@karlsburgcorner6600]

People can be so cruel! Best wishes for you and your family. If you both are ready for this amazing challenge in your life I'm glad you are going for it!

[@chab1rd155]

Ignore ignorant people! I hope this baby brings you BOTH much happiness! Blessings! 🙏🎚💞

[@jaied8898]

This is awesome. Stay strong. Congrats on the baby. You guys make such a wonderful family.

[@sarahkelly3234]

Why people get so invested in others lives always will amaze me.

[@cassienorman6275]

I'm so happy for this couple I think it's wonderful

[@sarahm9813]

Love is so illusive and it comes in so many beautiful forms. They are blessed.

[@chrissmith2322]

You are a inspiration to young people congratulations on your baby

[@AndreDMalan1966]

I don't think physical mobility is a precursor for parenthood. I was at uni with a gorgeous young girl who was confined to a wheelchair. During renovations at the uni I used to houst her over my shoulder and carry her up the stairs to some classes while another classmate would take her wheelchair. She met a guy and was soon pregnant. I knew they'd make beautiful babies. Anything is possible if your heart is in it.

[@ms.krueger2660]

There are so many able bodied people out there that have screwed their kids up. They seem like kind, loving people and that is the type of people that make great parents. ❤️

[@r.r911]

Beautiful story of two beautiful people. My heart is happy. ❤❤❤❤

[@thebirdwhisperer5712]

A few years ago a mean lady I know said that I should never have kids because I’m disabled (I have a pretty severe case of P.O.T.S.) Our daughter just turned 3 weeks old on Tuesday :) I once saw a video of a mom who couldn’t use her arms and put on diapers with her teeth! I’m able to take care of our baby wonderfully so far, and I’m SO glad I didn’t miss out on getting to meet the little love of my life, because I listened to people who told me what I shouldn’t do or can’t do because of my physical disability. I just have to find another way to do something, sometimes. “Don’t let anyone who hasn’t been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces.” You rock, mama! Wishing you and your family all the joy in the world :)

[@ruenaomictin5022]

I envy you girl but truly happy for you both❤️🙏 congrats and godbless🙏🙏🙏

[@tinadrollinger3487]

My husband is also disabled ( Parkinsonism)and we now have an almost 21 yr old and 2 grandbabies, we also had some hate in the beginning. People assume I'm the caregiver. I'm glad you are living your best life just like we do 🥰

[@ceciliacosta8148]

Idk why ppl think they have the right to tell this woman how to live her life. She knows what she’s capable of. She shouldn’t have to sell herself short bc of what others think? I’m sure she will be an amazing mother. ♥️

[@deftones8717]

Exactly! People really suck :( it’s so sad how many cruel people exist on this earth. I don’t get it. I’ll never understand why and how anyone could be so cold and hateful.

[@meghans.7886]

I’m a paraplegic mother of two. I’m a t4 complete and take care of my kids just fine. I think this is awesome.

[@inesespanol3388]

The people who are trolling the Internet and trying to shame or bully others have little to do with their miserable lives. Like the saying goes misery loves company. It’s sad 😞 that they are doing this to this couple. I want to wish the couple love, health and happiness forever.

[@camarojai6832]

People are so rude. What are two loving people supposed to do? Limit their lives to make others comfortable? I pray the little blessing arrives happy healthy and blessed

[@abrustanolfie2366]

Don't like those people attack you, and take it personally. They have insignificant lives, and live by hurting others.

[@melwilson4171]

The child is going to be so loving, kind and empathetic. My oldest has disabilities and my son is all of the above. They learn a lot when they are born into a different family. Bless them. ❤️

[@jennwoodard8365]

The dog says it all, so happy& relaxed with the way they operate

[@sharongranger5860]

Good on you for being a strong independent person who lives life to the fullest!🤗

[@SalviAlmighty]

I'm so sad at how mean and intrusive people can be... They ask these really inappropriate questions as if the couple hasn't thought this through? I'm sure they had extensive discussions among themselves AND with health specialists beforehand. People make me mad...

[@claudiaferguson5829]

That’s so nice, it’s really a blessing to be a mother, God allow this to happen, so don’t pay any attention to what some people are saying, there are some of us who are very judgmental, none of us know what God has in store for us, just trust God to carry you through, He sees you and even knew that you would be in a wheelchair and that’s ok with Him...He sees you as normal, God be with you on this journey and be the best mom and Dad you can ever be. God bless and we all are family and family cares...whether near and far. Peace be unto you 🌹❣️🙏🏾

[@HRwoeking]

They are going to be excellent parents and their child will be more open and accepting because of their parents’ situation. The only thing I don’t agree with is where the child bears the responsibility of “carer “ too young, before they are the child, and don’t get to live themselves. But it sounds like these two won’t let that happen.

[@Drusilla.dsquishmallows]

Such a beautiful family. So happy for them and the upcoming arrival.

[@felicitymemela1963]

They have the baby already

[@bethralph8307]

You all are just humans like everyone else, i wish people would quit bullying others. I have been bullied my entire life because im deaf my own mom never believed in me

[@daughterofelroi4369]

Congratulations! Many blessings on your new arrival.

[@gloriaonyebeke4458]

Congratulations! Just enjoy your life. Do not listen to unhappy people who thrive on bringing other people down. Wishing you a safe delivery and healthy and happy baby.

[@berthagreen1620]

I don’t know why some people are so critical. Good for you , to find each other and start a family.

[@joshuamartinez8588]

Truly I hope to see the episode where she delivered her baby and there both happy 😊

[@suziecharles8933]

What a lovely couple. Congrats on your pregnancy. 💜💙💚

[@Carriecleary1234]

This inspiring, elegant video has my eyes rolled many tears , my heart gone out, and me cry to be proud of the couples !!

[@debraduckett2200]

You have to ignore the haters. I was a teen mother and it was hard, but it was the best time of my life. You do you, I think you both will be great parents. Love IS all you need. My prayers are with you. God put you together for reason.

[@loritaylor1395]

I am proud of the both of u keep going no matter what people may say or do, may God continue to bless and watch over the two of u, peace

[@Porschesplayhouse]

Disabled women have and raise children all the time. Like anything else, it takes a little time to adjust. I support them in wanting a family!

[@helenbradley4638]

God gave her a baby because He knows she's fit to be a mom. That's for everyone, it's our free-will that makes us step up to the plate and accept the challenge or drop the ball. She will be a great mom!

[@tunishavance5339]

What a beautiful story! Congrats to you! Don’t worry about what other people say, God blessed you with a beautiful gift 💝!

[@Diana-uc3jh]

Beautiful people and couple! I wish there was more people who could see in others their character, soul and beautiful heart not just judge others by look. Many blessings for you and your baby.