I’M BACK! Let’s Talk Toxic Family Culture in Pakistan!

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[@ladymallowyt]

Thank you for being transparent about this. Gossip literally ruins people's lives, that's why I never participate in it. Relatives gossiped about me when I was in my early and late teens. Now that I'm a bit older I really don't care what they say about me because I know none of it is true. As long as you're happy, a kind person and living life based on your religion, that's all that matters

[@beansxo1934]

Literally loved my mums side back home would visit ever year, wasn’t keen on my dads. Grew up in my 20s realised my mum side is toxic af and dads are slightly more sane 😂😭 is this a universal experience??

[@beansxo1934]

But I’m done with pk just sad bc the country is beautiful and the shopping 😢

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Hahaha me too!!! & Dont let them stop you from going and enjoying our beautiful country! 😭

[@Haleema_Queen]

@@beansxo1934at one point I was so obsessed with Pakistan 🇵🇰. Love the food , weather and scenery

[@noreenbi9079]

Aww yeah same. Why are they like that?

[@noreenbi9079]

​@@beansxo1934 Yes the country is beautiful. 😊

[@user-op4ts5nq7z]

Anisa please also read morning and evening DUAs to protect from evil eye

[@AllThingsAnisa]

InshaAllah, thank you 🙏

[@Saisangeta]

Hi Anisa, have watched your vlogs for a very very long time but first time commenting. So glad you are talking about this, toxic relatives and family, it is so important! This toxicity can extend into all sorts of abuse mental, physical and even sexual abuse. If people see red flags with anyone, even relatives/family it's important to do something about it or keep away etc. so many people would brush it under the carpet because they are 'relatives' but at the end of the day a person has to look after their wellbeing, safety and their kids wellbeing etc. Seen it happen to others and glad you are talking to openly about it in a public platform.

[@ff-mi6zc]

This is so true over there toxic people envy jealousy is raging in family relatives and even neighbours there, and if they got beef with your mother they will have beef with you also, there is same happening here as well in uk with pakistani families which are toxic and jealous and envy

[@JKH4N]

💯 hence i live far away from communities.

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Definitely, here in the UK too, it’s everywhere unfortunately!

[@noreenbi9079]

​@@AllThingsAnisa So true 😊

[@Zarri368]

I never usually comment on videos but I had to share my experience with my mums side of the family back home! When I went to get married in 2017 I got treated like complete crap and got spoken about in the worst possible way. A day before my mehndi ceremony I went to get my henna done and when I got back I had no pillow or bed to sleep on because I was late 😒 they expected me back within 2 hours knowing bridal henna takes hours! My mum reached Pakistan the day of my mehndi and her sisters were telling her I was very rude even though I didn’t even make a fuss about not having a pillow or bed to sleep on and just slept on a khatt opposite my nephews feet 😒 haven’t spoken to them since 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@user-zy7ef9sn8d]

Your so right. Ive got so many eniems coming from all direction people who i dont even know. Ive never understood it. All i do is read namaz and QUR'AN at work and home dont talk to any one . But Alllah protects me all the time AMEEN. Stay strong aneesa and keep your self to your self. Nice vlog . I stay away from toxic people mostley my dads side. May Allah give use so much barkart and happiness ameen 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍨🍨🍨🍨🍨🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲

[@Haleema_Queen]

😍😍😍 your backkk!! I understand what you mean by Pakistani politics 😢

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Yes girllll🥹

[@mariak9964]

I knew something was off when u guys were staying at the hotel… i have the same experience whenever i visit my inlaws 😢 I literally come back with so much bad memories n we barely stay there like 15 to 20 days but never againnn

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Ah that’s horrible, sorry to hear that

[@maiiiii4314]

I love your sit down video, you should do them more often 🫶🏽 and I agree ppl back home prioritise culture over religion witch is mind blowing to me 🤣

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Thank you, I’ll do more! & yes 😭

[@user-tb1mb9bn8u]

what blush and highlighter did you use?

[@TE.M]

Ho hae hahah,,, its good that you talk about it, we can find these kind of people everywhere. Even some of them move out of Pakistan 30, 40 years ago but still i find them the most toxic and don't understand how they live life, what upbringing they're giving to their children. But its good to see you are not taking things to your heart. Hope you're mum feels fine about it soon. Lots of love and duas for her. ❤

[@AllThingsAnisa]

100% agreed! & thank you! 💕

[@noreenbi9079]

So true

[@hopeful4]

This happens alot in Pakistan, especially close family members....i know 😢

[@Luvluna19]

FR i have few members in my fam and like you said they got nothing to do better

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Forreeaaal🙄

[@eimeniqbal28]

Hi anisa hope you are doing great. I met you on my way to pakistan at saudi airport and i must say you and your mum are the sweetest people. Specially how you gave me your seat as i was holding my baby was such a kind gesture. Loved your pakistan vlogs. Sending lots of love n prayers your way ❤️❤️

[@Hana321-]

MaSha’Allah you’re such a sensible person. I have the same with my dad’s side of the family. They don’t have the balls to say it to your face it’s the negative and undermining undertones and the sarcasm. Unfortunately after a while all the fakeness takes a toll on your mental heath

[@prowrestlingisreal5780]

The politics back home are the worse we're still fighting for our zameena and our haq but it's long process when your dealing with Tahya, Mammu Chacha, The next door neighbour who somehow gets involved. Kasam ki gaal the amount of bitchyness and back-biting stepping over you , going under you over their its divide and conquer you really know who your family are but when it comes to giving them lot just take take and take ! Pookeh shoddeh bundeh

[@zainabzafar5904]

You are right! These toxic people aren't worth it.

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Not at all!

[@STICKY_]

i can’t mentally take what my dads side have done to my mum. i’ve had such dark thoughts since february where things got 10000x worse where a lie was spread about my mum randomly. unfortunately my dads side live in front of us in the uk, i wish they lived in pakistan so we could get away from them. im not saying ‘my situation is worse so u shouldnt feel bad about your situation’ but i wish i was in your position honestly. soooo much easier when the toxicity is in a whole other country.

[@rookymalik863]

What brow tint do you use? Your brows look good!❤

[@Neha-xz9dq]

Omgggg girl, the hair in ur alone with ur sister vlog is the one for uuu, it's out of date but it's givingggg❤❤❤❤. Thanks for this vlog it lit relates to my mums side full on bare.

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Thank youuuuu!

[@Novause]

You m4ntioned BM, all Muslims need to protect themselves its very important we protect ourselves properly, there is a short Ruqyah you can do on yourselfasa means ofp4otection from bad things - protectionis all from Allah SWT

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Thank you! 🙏

[@tasleemRashid-i3o]

What shade CT powder did u use? Xx

[@tasleemRashid-i3o]

What shade CT powder did u use xx

[@mehakrasul42]

Pls do a what’s in my bag.. and more blogs ❤❤

[@Mrs_heena26]

You're videos are amazing, mashallah love watching them ❤️

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Thank you beautiful xx

[@Mrs_heena26]

@@AllThingsAnisa Ur welcome Hun xx

[@r.i7868]

After seeing the comment your family made and your reply, just curious to know, did they stop you from meeting your nano? Or make her go elsewhere so she doesn’t meet you? Because that makes me soo sad for your mum!

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Yes and yes 👀🤫

[@r.i7868]

@@AllThingsAnisa may Allah make it easy for your mum and all of you guys. May He grant you guys peace and blessings iA ❤️ and reunite you guys with your nano soon!

[@samerahussain999]

@@r.i7868 Which comment???

[@sunflower6006]

Hiya loved ur Pakistan vlogs , I understand stand how toxic relatives are in Pakistan are , my husband family are from Pakistan , ever since I’ve been married to my husband all they done is used him for his money , he used to send so much money to them , and that still wasn’t enough 😡 it’s more greed then need , and they are very jealous ppl. My daughters love ur mum n dad they think ur parents are cute 🥰 May Allah bless u and ur family and keep u away from evil eye Ameen

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Ah I can only imagine what that feels like, sorry to hear that! & thank you for your kind words 💕🙏🥹

[@noreenbi9079]

Yes they are all greedy

[@JKH4N]

Welcome back, did the cats miss you? 😁 in villages of sticky pan there worse, religion over culture 💯, everyone should strive to be a good human period.

[@AllThingsAnisa]

They did! & agreed 💯

[@hassan9311]

GOOD TO SEE YOU BACK ANISA........ I AM GOING TO WATCH YOUR VLOG RIGHT AWAY......... TAKE CARE........ ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Thank you!!! 🙏

[@asmadad9260]

Love how confident and I dependant you have become. Ur a lovely protective daughter keep shining ❤❤❤

[@zz4753]

It’s all jealousy sis that’s the truth

[@najuparker4726]

Hi Anisa Soo happy you back Love your vlogs Keep us posted Love your authenticity You do natural Love from South Africa

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Thank you so much!

[@samerahussain999]

The facts were so true Anisa discussed in video and pls can you do a another Q&A video next time ✌🏻

[@AllThingsAnisa]

InshaAllah

[@kz9620]

Well said 👏

[@AllThingsAnisa]

🥹🙏

[@raheelkhan8767]

U back and that's such a relief..... Welcome back

[@naj6988]

What eyelashes did u use?

[@N8D18]

Hiya could you please tell me where you stayed in Lahore and how did u book it Thanks

[@AllThingsAnisa]

We stayed at Royalton & booked through Booking.com 💕

[@N8D18]

Thank you for the reply

[@samip7357]

Im so relieved it wasn’t the gujrat relatives that were toxic cuz that’s where mine are from, we’re family remember ❤ I feel for your mum that she had to go through that because it would have really hurt her. Take care of her and yourself hun x

[@AllThingsAnisa]

They’re lovely! & yeah of course, it’s her own blood after all! But thank you 💕

[@zaibthebabe]

Too much politics in pakistan & their culture 😩

[@arooj_salamat]

aww no ma sha Allah, your mum is so sweet kind and so lovely.

[@AllThingsAnisa]

🥹💕💕💕

[@hira6625]

Its everywhere toxic family I'm glad to see it all unfold in front of me when I was 18 years old ever since I cant see them the same i have forgiven but not forgotten dont let a snake bite you twice

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Yesss!

[@Paris069]

All ways say Alhumduilliah ❤

[@shaziatahir1511]

Lovely to see your video as always

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Thank you 💕

[@noreenbi9079]

Exactly anisa how can these people givd badwa they are the evil 1s

[@manpreetkaur-il5ds]

YOU ARE ONE OF MY FAVOURITE YOU TUBERS ANISA. MY ROLE MODEL. LEARN ALOT FROM YOU. HOPE I CAN BE AS KIND AND A GOOD HUMAN BEING LIKE YOU. GOD BLESS YOU. PLEASE GIVE AUNTIE JI A HUG FROM ME.🥰🌹

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Awww how sweet, thanks so much! 💕

[@AnisaKhan-ky6kc]

Hi Anisa even my name is Anisa and we both have a the same spellings in our name would it be possible if you make a period = menstruation vlog tell us your story when you started your period and what you did and said to your mum

[@syed_ahmed18]

Imagine your cousins or aunties watching this lol. Anyways big ups to you!!

[@ahmadalraeesi3949]

فيديو جميل ❤😊

[@AllThingsAnisa]

Shukriya

[@sabaayaz444]

2:38 😂

[@AllThingsAnisa]

What’s funny love? Nothing better to do at this time?

[@nc600]

Ignore her Anisa clearly the same person who commented in your last video. It was a really good vlog and you are spot on on this topic! Watching you from Dubai 🩷🌟

[@hira6625]

Saba get a life your a waste of space honestly and waste of human

[@tasleemRashid-i3o]

What shade CT powder did u use? Xx

[@tasleemRashid-i3o]

What shade CT powder did u use? Xx

[@tasleemRashid-i3o]

What shade CT powder did u use? Xx