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Janet Devlin

Janet Devlin

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@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Don't forget to give the subscription button a hug and the notification bell a tickle on the way out! Also, if you think this could help someone then please share it! 🌞💕
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
Janet Devlin love u so much Janet Ur so beautiful and gorgeous n I will always support you no matter what I’m bisexual to
@wizkid2000
@wizkid2000 6 жыл бұрын
haha "hug the subscription button". I don't think I've ever wanted to reach through a screen and give someone a hug more than this video.
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
wizkid2000 I agree
@TheNexusLord
@TheNexusLord 6 жыл бұрын
Who you choose to be as a person, the strength of your character; these are the important things about a person. NOT the sex of who you are attracted to, or love........Virtual Hugs! 🤗 for you Janet!
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
TheNexusLord amen
@williamlanglois9898
@williamlanglois9898 6 жыл бұрын
I don't follow you because of your sexual preferences. I follow you... Well.... Because of you. You shouldn't give a damn what others might think of your sexuality. Just keep being Janet Devlin.
@keewan100
@keewan100 6 жыл бұрын
I was gunna say that first! I believe this 100% as well. Be you always!
@williamlanglois9898
@williamlanglois9898 6 жыл бұрын
@@micklassen6344 I don't think I asked what your religious belief was. I don't go out trying to force people to justify to my God. They make their own choices just as you do.
@matthewhughes3749
@matthewhughes3749 4 жыл бұрын
@@williamlanglois9898 yes i am a christian also and i don't force people to talk about faith but you know if people want to chat about spirituality or anything i will always do that with compassion and love i just want to hear people's stories and share my faith story in a non confrontational way because people don't want to be preached at they want friends who listen to them and have a conversation with you know i think Jesus was very realational in all his interactions
@Therealmcdoc
@Therealmcdoc 4 жыл бұрын
Always be yourself. Unless you can be batman. Than be batman.
@GlaucioCoutinho
@GlaucioCoutinho 2 жыл бұрын
@@Therealmcdoc yes, of course...
@aoibhinndonnelly3690
@aoibhinndonnelly3690 6 жыл бұрын
As a lesbian from Northern Ireland, this video hit me very hard. I 100% relate to you saying how your upbringing and background has affected your acceptance of your sexuality. So much respect for you for making this and bringing these issues to light. Keep being amazing Janet, the positive will always outshine the negative 💕
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
I'm alarmed at how many people don't know it's still illegal in Northern Ireland! 😱 Thanks so much for the positivity Aoibhinn!❤️
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
Aoibhinn Donnelly amen
@teambellavsteamalice
@teambellavsteamalice 6 жыл бұрын
Janet Devlin Yeah, weird, you'd assume they'd have the same laws as UK?
@teambellavsteamalice
@teambellavsteamalice 6 жыл бұрын
Kabbaway I looked it up and it seems a matter of time. Apparently it doesn't just need a majority, but a majority in both political factions.
@m.vonfunnyname157
@m.vonfunnyname157 6 жыл бұрын
Aoibhinn Donnelly and Janet Unfortunate that there’s still places where this is a stigma, even where it is otherwise legal. One voice is enough to start acceptance, you two are lovely women for being big enough to wear it, nerves and all. Much love to you both.
@thegodom
@thegodom 6 жыл бұрын
Whenever ppl mention that they are Bi Sexual I always reply with this quote from Anne Rice's book Blackwood Farm because its so true "my dear child, all that means is that you have doubled your chances of falling in love" Love is love Janet you are who you are I wish you all the good in the world
@FeatherHaired
@FeatherHaired 6 жыл бұрын
At first I was like, jeeze why is she shaking so bad? There's legit nothing wrong with being bisexual or completely gay in general then I saw that it was illegal where she's from and living in the USA, me being very open about being gay, and never hiding that fact, I forget it's still illegal in some places and considered disgraceful so now I realize why she sounds so scared! Though I'm so proud of her for accepting herself and opening up! Especially being where she's from. Have to seriously give it to those who were born somewhere where being gay is illegal or very looked down upon or having family who do not support them.
@Sevau77
@Sevau77 6 жыл бұрын
What you said.... I don't see why people cant just love people.... isn't there enough hate in the world to go around without hating things people love?
@GraemeElliott
@GraemeElliott 6 жыл бұрын
one of the reasons why its still untalked about in Northern Ireland is there haven't had a government for 13 months but Northern Ireland would still be heavily influenced by religion compared to the rest of the island. people believe in a group mentality and until someone starts the charge for gay marriage in Northern Ireland people will be fearful
@chinesewhispers1
@chinesewhispers1 6 жыл бұрын
It may be legal in Southern Ireland but it's not legal in Northern Ireland.
@chinesewhispers1
@chinesewhispers1 6 жыл бұрын
Ireland's PM, Leo Varadkar, is gay but Northern Ireland's First Minister, Arlene Foster, isn't. There's a distinct difference between the two.
@chinesewhispers1
@chinesewhispers1 6 жыл бұрын
I know, I wanted to differentiate :)
@ducrnd
@ducrnd 5 жыл бұрын
It so sad to hear the tremble in your voice....that hurts my heart
@Emzotic
@Emzotic 6 жыл бұрын
Well now I adore you even more!! Great job on embracing who you are! As long as love is consensual and legal ages are respected, colour, gender, ethnicity should NOT change what people think of you. Do your thing, Janet! We love you and your open mind and heart xxx
@jamiemitchell3632
@jamiemitchell3632 6 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. So emotional I hope your feeling better about your sexuality soon Janet
@shadowravenbk7116
@shadowravenbk7116 6 жыл бұрын
I like your name
@jamiemitchell3632
@jamiemitchell3632 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@dawnbutler3202
@dawnbutler3202 6 жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful woman inside and out. Accepting your sexuality shouldn’t be this hard. I hope you find your true self and you learn to love yourself as much as we love you xxx😘❤️😘
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Dawn! I hope so! Thanks for the support!💕💕
@BisexualRealTalkNow
@BisexualRealTalkNow 6 жыл бұрын
Congratulations for having the courage to be who you are. You just helped thousands of people. Welcome to the cool people! 😁
@ryantrue4844
@ryantrue4844 6 жыл бұрын
it doesn't change who you are. You are still Janet and that's who we all subbed to follow. Congrats on coming out though, I know it's not easy. Sexuality doesn't define who you are, your personality and what you do does.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Very true! Thanks so much Ryan! ❤️
@maneskinnnnn7190
@maneskinnnnn7190 6 жыл бұрын
it does change who she is, it makes her even better!!!
@Rick41632
@Rick41632 6 жыл бұрын
So true! Exactly what Ryan said :D. You are still you!
@F4R3LL1
@F4R3LL1 6 жыл бұрын
Just Say : Fuck them all I'm bisexual and I'm the only author of life" Damn I feel better everytime.
@F4R3LL1
@F4R3LL1 6 жыл бұрын
Every weird feeling we get was so natural inside lost society. Its 2018 but we are still simple humans. People shocked by bisexual or whatever are weird to me.
@cormacrobinson7110
@cormacrobinson7110 6 жыл бұрын
Janet it dosent matter what gender u like everyone on this channel will support you nomatter what
@HerkyHerk
@HerkyHerk 6 жыл бұрын
Dude I’ll be honest that was hard to watch you struggle through that. I feel so awful that you have to deal with that kind of vile judgment. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. But listen, I don’t care what you are. You’re an absolutely incredible person and I’d love you either way man❤️❤️❤️
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
I love you too buddy! This means a lot! 💕
@DadoPanda
@DadoPanda 6 жыл бұрын
I really hope you felt much better after sharing this with us as much as it made me feel better listening to it. You'd be amazed how many people are in the same situation as you, including myself. It probably makes you feel lonely even in a crowd. Almost all of us deal with that. Be brave, don't be afraid to be happy!
@harmonyVEVO
@harmonyVEVO 6 жыл бұрын
*dont worry you dont have to justify, We dont Care if you're lesbian, straight, or bi. A straight person doesnt have to justify themselves so... We love you for who you are, your sexual Orientation is a detail.*
@ahmedemad5820
@ahmedemad5820 6 жыл бұрын
So talent, inner and outer beauty (Even if outer is "fake" according to you), honesty, and courage to speak your mind... You don't surprise me anymore with how much of a good person you are.
@Jasmijnwh
@Jasmijnwh 6 жыл бұрын
Ooooh Janet, i am so proud of you ❤️❤️❤️ You are such a beautiful person and your sexuality doesn’t change that. It’s so hard when you can’t fully be yourself, and accepting yourself. I really know how it feels, I’m “queer” but even in the netherlands where gay marriage is legal for such a long time, I still don’t feel safe and that sucks. The whole world is so heteronormative and it’s sad, because not everyone is straight. You should only do things (like dating girls) when you feel 100% comfortable. You’re so precious, I love you and pleeeease don’t ever change ❤️
@muddyw0lf
@muddyw0lf 6 жыл бұрын
The growth I've seen from you in the past few years. I said this on a previous video but this confidence is making you radiant. Even though you were nervous in this video, I still see that strength you've gained. Keep growing Janet!
@10Juran
@10Juran 6 жыл бұрын
Ive never seen a woman more beautiful
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
🙈💕
@mariaabraham311
@mariaabraham311 6 жыл бұрын
As a parent who’s daughter came out I couldn’t be prouder that she is who she is! I felt bad that she kept it in for so long! Who are we to judge! Your beautiful for who you are & you have blessed us with your beautiful voice, stay true to yourself! Our love for our child will never change nor how we feel about you! Love is Love💕with who ever you want to be with!❤️🇨🇦
@jdrobbi
@jdrobbi 6 жыл бұрын
Be you. People are far too hung up on other people's sexuality. On a personal level I didn't need to know that you are bisexual. Sexuality has nothing to do with the character of the person. I know from your videos that you are a sweet, caring individual who puts others first and works incredibly hard at her craft. Those are the things that people should see and concern themselves with. Yes you are beautiful. Yes, you have a unique and amazing voice. But I wouldn't have watched more than one video if I thought you were a cold, selfish person. That you are so open about your life; that you share your frailties and insecurities with us only endears you more to me. Who you choose to share you life with is up to you. Just know that you are loved and worthy of being loved. 🤟
@VLoveTarot
@VLoveTarot 6 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you are sharing who you are. You are a person who loves with her heart. I feel relieved that you don't have weight on your shoulders anymore.
@heatheredworthy6077
@heatheredworthy6077 6 жыл бұрын
So proud of you Janet! I’m bisexual too and I know how hard it is to come out in person let alone online so this is amazing of you to do! Hope you feel better for this. Love you! 💙💜💖 🏳️‍🌈
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
It took many tries over the years but I finally did it! Thank you so much Heather!! ❤️❤️
@Th3Vampir3Knight
@Th3Vampir3Knight 6 жыл бұрын
Who else thinks she's going to write some really deep songs after this? (If you're reading this Janet please do if that's what you're already thinking).
@emwatchesthings
@emwatchesthings 6 жыл бұрын
As a bisexual girl from Northern Ireland (Tyrone) also, this hit me in the feels. Although, I've found if you look in the corners, you'll find some very accepting people- I came out to my friends and then one of them came out as Pan. You're strong Janet. Never give up.
@sari9645
@sari9645 6 жыл бұрын
I’m 13 and a lesbian, and one thing I’ve learned is never be scared of who you are. You deserve to be proud of who you are and happy. If worst comes to, just move. Surround yourself with happiness and support💜
@HeyItsShanley
@HeyItsShanley 6 жыл бұрын
Janet, I’m so proud of you! ❤️ I am Bisexual as well...although I haven’t really come out yet... 🙃 you are so strong, and such an amazing person. I really am proud of you and so should your family and loved ones. It shouldn’t matter who you date were all human and all deserve to be happy no matter what. I enjoyed your ramble 😊 ALWAYS keep singing and think positive. Your voice is truly amazing and beautiful 💕 Thank you for being you!! ❤️
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
This means so much Shanley! Thank you so much! 💕 I hope you're okay!🙏🏻
@maneskinnnnn7190
@maneskinnnnn7190 6 жыл бұрын
you shouldn't have to 'come out' straight people don't have to come out as straight to why should gay people have to??? !!!!
@DanSoendergaard
@DanSoendergaard 6 жыл бұрын
Hope you’ll be comfortable and gather enough courrage to come out! One day! 🏳️‍🌈
@tvadakia
@tvadakia 5 жыл бұрын
You’ve received a ton of support here. Let that carry you forward. Cheers, stay beautiful.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 5 жыл бұрын
thanks so much dear! ❤️
@4713Caine
@4713Caine 10 ай бұрын
@@janetdevlin "but theres a hope that's waiting for you in the dark, you should know you're beautiful just the way you are......and you don't have to change a thing the world could change its heart....no scars to your beautiful, we're stars and we're beautiful....oh, oh-oh, oh"
@Rat1364
@Rat1364 6 жыл бұрын
Who cares. You are you. You do you. I tense alot of passion. But you do you. Dont be afraid and push forward into your future
@Cristiano48239
@Cristiano48239 6 жыл бұрын
agreed
@ZAOLSsb
@ZAOLSsb 6 жыл бұрын
As long as you stay true to yourself. You're still the shit to us fans(you're AWESOME in singing, laughing, smiling, crying, loving, and so many other things that make you extraordinary). I hope you stay happily strong Janet. Today is still a beautiful day. No matter what we do in this world, we will always be judged no matter how normal we seem to ANY society, but please remember, we're only here for a good time, not a long time. You do not owe an explanation to anyone. At this point of your life, embrace each and every part of you in EVERY happy day you live Janet. What color is love? It is every color in the rainbow, ocean, land, forest, and every face you meet. For those who mind, don't matter. Those who matter, don't mind.
@ThatJessKid
@ThatJessKid 6 жыл бұрын
Hihihi I say this all the time but I’m genuinely so proud of you! Like do what you want ... date who you want ... kick people down the stairs... don’t actually kick people down the stairs. Imma support you in whatever you wanna do. Imma go cry some more love ya muppet💙
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
ThatJessKid I agree
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
I love you too Jess! ❤️ thank you for being supportive!💕
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
Janet Devlin love u so much
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
Janet Devlin u mean everything to me Janet
@ThatJessKid
@ThatJessKid 6 жыл бұрын
Johnny Moon Do you ever take a break? Wow you really are a troll!
@brendanmaccall761
@brendanmaccall761 6 жыл бұрын
Do you know what is even cooler about this? Because of your shaking like an aspen leaf in a hurricane self, other people will feel safer and allow their loved ones to love THEM and show it is "okay" to love whomever you love for no explainable reason. Have you COUNTED the "plus" compared to the "minus" comments and likes/dislikes? You are a voice that is not over the top stridently militant, yet you took your little stand and told the entire world who Janet is...I'll stand with you every day and twice on Sunday for that alone. Brave lass!
@DJC423
@DJC423 6 жыл бұрын
I Never post coments, but this is one of my first, I am so proud of you Janet, for posting this video, it'S what make you happy in life, don't, worry about what other people think. I was honered, to meet you and your manager when you came to Aberdeen, YOU are always a superstar to me. ( beautiful irish voice) You will aways be welcome in Aberdeen Joe x
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for commenting!❤️ I really appreciate the kind words! Also thanks for coming to the show! ❤️❤️
@Pr0toc01
@Pr0toc01 6 жыл бұрын
You are who you are, and you love who you love. You are a person and you love. The most important thing is that you love, and keep loving
@Rakath
@Rakath 6 жыл бұрын
As much as it sounds trite and overdone, that was incredibly brave. It shouldn't be, accepting a part of yourself built entirely around love should be easy and wonderful. But this is the world we live in. People learn how to be cruel more than they learn to be kind, but hopefully a few people see this and decide to be a little kinder. And maybe stand-up to people who ridicule instead of just... letting it happen. Please be well, and know that one more voice in the world is rooting for you and who you are.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!💕💕
@wizkid2000
@wizkid2000 6 жыл бұрын
That's not trite at all. That was very brave of her. It reminds me of the meme "Speak the truth even if your voice shake".
@sarahroberts6328
@sarahroberts6328 6 жыл бұрын
Family is one of the hardest things. You can only do so much, go so far, to make people happy. If they truly love you they should be happy if you're happy, regardless of what or who brought that happiness on. I live in the most conservative county in the most conservative state in the USA... People, where I'm from, would lynch, tar, and drag people from the back of their vehicles through town... And no one ever got repercussions for those actions. So I understand where you're coming from. I have several lesbian and gay friends who had to leave their homes because it simply wasn't safe for them after they came out. Several moved to places like NYC, Miami, and LA just to get away from the ridicule. Hang in there little missy. Things get better. They people who don't or can't accept you will be replaced by new friends and family who do and will. Keep your chin up and stay strong and true to your heart.
@moomin54321
@moomin54321 6 жыл бұрын
Damn! That took a lot of courage! Coming from quite a religious background myself I can understand the kind of tunnel vision that gives someone with stuff like this. My cousin recently came out to me as gay and we're still trying to figure out how to tell the family. Seriously though good on you. I really do believe that in the long run nothing bad can come from being true to yourself 😁
@twosnakesonesword3299
@twosnakesonesword3299 6 жыл бұрын
Glad your cousin has you!! I hope it all works out and hope you find a way to tell the family. I grew up in a very religious home as well. My 17 yo daughter just came out to me as pansexual. I just love her!!!! I will keep you and your cousin in my thoughts!!
@RedHandedKojak
@RedHandedKojak 6 жыл бұрын
WE ARE PROUD OF YOU AND WE LOVE YOU JANET ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@samual94
@samual94 6 жыл бұрын
I think it’s important to remember that people have grown up with the belief that same sex relationships are wrong and therefore they pass it down to their children that it’s also wrong but many countries have started to grown and accept the fact that there’s nothing wrong with it just like you’re starting to accept it within yourself, I’m sure in time Northern Ireland will be the same in time! Stay strong and be true to yourself!😘
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
I hope they move with the times! It'd be so amazing to see gay marriage be legal in my home! Until then, I've just got to do what I can. Thank you Sam!💕
@scupakus
@scupakus 6 жыл бұрын
@@janetdevlin lol you are nothern irish,british and irish governments both accept homosexual marriage. This is bs
@olenolemattaystavasi1627
@olenolemattaystavasi1627 6 жыл бұрын
@@scupakus a simple google search will show you that gay marriage is *not* legal in Northern Ireland, sure she could get married in England or Ireland, but she mentioned she wants to get married (if she ever gets married) in Northern Ireland.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
you're on the internet, did it not for one second cross your mind to use the google machine?
@scupakus
@scupakus 6 жыл бұрын
@@janetdevlin as philosopher Jagger said 'you cant always get what you want' as i mentioned in other comment i didnt subscribe to hear about who you like to bed. Im here for music. So would you be so kind to explain how your sexual preferences affect your mueic, i would be glad. To me its a cry for lgbt attention as even them say that sexual preference is personal does not matter. So how long do you people will talk about abou personal irrelevant thing.
@Staci1994
@Staci1994 6 жыл бұрын
'I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.' -Bonnie Ware life will get even better now that you have some to terms with this :) always do what makes you happy
@benjaminjackson8713
@benjaminjackson8713 6 жыл бұрын
Good on you for being willing to talk about this! I feel like most of your subscribers are going to accept this about you. We all care about you and want you to be happy!
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
I hope they do and if they don't... well it's not really the sort of folk I need around! Thank you so much Benjamin!💕💕
@matthewhall3772
@matthewhall3772 5 жыл бұрын
My family and I lived in Savannah, Ga for years and when my daughter started dating her girlfriend, she was bullied so bad by classmates, their parents, the school staff and teachers that she tried to take her own life at 14, and she now suffers from such extreme social anxiety that she can't go into public without shaking. I'm in tears writing this because my daughter is the sweetest person you'll ever meet and an absolutely beautiful angel. I ripped into everyone that treated her wrong and eventually got the school, the staff and the parents on notice with the school board and eventually on the news. But nothing will ever change what those evil people did to my daughter. I can't imagine what it would have been like for her being in the public eye and having countries of people judging her. Be who you are and be proud❣ ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@Luna-ds4ww
@Luna-ds4ww 4 жыл бұрын
Please pray for her . I had many struggles many years. I started to pray , and Jesus has healed me. He took those anxieties , struggles away after few months of praying. I promise you ,you won't regret.
@tjesse66
@tjesse66 6 жыл бұрын
That took guts. I'm so happy that you are starting to accept that part of yourself. You go girl.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Anthony 💕
@robertjordan3646
@robertjordan3646 6 жыл бұрын
Much Kudos for having the guts to broadcast this! I think you're a beautiful young woman with an amazing talent and skill set. Your sexual orientation doesn't affect those aspects, I tout you because of your manner of doing business, and your approach to the songs you sing. I seriously haven't heard you do a bad one, that can't be said for all. Hopefully your public broadcast has you feeling better about this topic, now, get back on to your happy cheerful self and continue on with your music. I can say I have been truly inspired by your internet business, and I drop your name in a good way where ever the opportunity presents itself(just yesterday was Facebook and a sync music challenge). In case you aren't aware, much can be learned from you and your business, gay or bi doesn't really affect that. I could go on a ramble of why a straight male might appreciate your being bi, I won't do that here, just stay inspiring. Thanks!
@teambellavsteamalice
@teambellavsteamalice 6 жыл бұрын
Huh? I thought you were fully out as bisexual already? Ah, I get it, there is out and there is out. And various reasons to confirm or avoid it. For instance Camila subtly (or not so subtly) hinting at it always but never officially confirming it. Probably smart if interacting with some judgemental people. I think agents or so advised not to come out openly for career reasons, assuming others might judge. It took KStew ages to come out while everyone already knew. Maybe for career reasons (chance of getting heterosexual romantic roles may drops a lot?). Or she considered a label something private, not something you are obliged to share or even relevant for people to know. Taylor Swift might also be interested in girls, but either is only mildly curious (get intense bi-romantic vibes of her) or fears her fans and the people she works with are raised very traditional and wouldn't like it. I think Dua Lipa is also bi, but she's not sure of it yet, so she isn't ready to come out. Or maybe she will once she wants to date a girl and doesn't think it's relevant to mention until then. It's also a process, and it's all about how comfortable you are with yourself and how others view you. I think posting this video is a sign of big personal growth! 😍 Always be your best self!
@olenolemattaystavasi1627
@olenolemattaystavasi1627 6 жыл бұрын
Same tho
@davidnyboer4203
@davidnyboer4203 6 жыл бұрын
Love you for who you are
@SireJoe
@SireJoe 6 жыл бұрын
Janet! You posted the video! Just an FYI ;) It's always good to get things off your chest. Our shoulders need only carry so much.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
I did post it!! I finally did! aha very true! 💕
@mag8man
@mag8man 6 жыл бұрын
Janet, thank you for your very brave post. Your words and your obvious nervousness spoke greatly to your depth of feeling and your pain. I am convinced that there is no freedom without the freedom to be yourself. As a biologist I can say without exaggeration that sex is a matter of gradations in humans as well as many other animals. There is nothing unnatural, nothing wrong with who you are, despite what any person or people may say to the contrary. But I doubt that knowledge offers much comfort alone. So let me offer this. Obviously I know you only from your art and your videos, but both have brought me great joy. As I’ve aged (I turned 60 a few months ago), I’ve cared less and less about what others think of me and more about what I think of myself. This past summer I spent fighting cancer (successfully from what I can tell), andI was astonished by the outpouring of love from my friends and acquaintances. I always knew I was tremendously fortunate to have a wife I love more now than when I badgered her into marrying me 37 years, but I didn’t know that there was so much love in those around me. Janet you have that love from people you’ve never met, not because of your talents, but because of what you’ve shown of yourself to us, through these videos. Perhaps you can draw from those emotions to help you be secure in being who you are, and to follow wherever your passion, man or woman, takes you.
@stonealvarado3562
@stonealvarado3562 6 жыл бұрын
4 a.m. here on the East Coast, but there is never a bad time to share the love. Janet please never worry about disappointing us or being judged by us. Notificationsquad will always love you, and that love comes with out judgement, and it is for you. Who ever you choose to be and choose to love.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
💕💕
@deenajohnson1489
@deenajohnson1489 4 жыл бұрын
My heart aches for the struggles you face in the world around you. You are such a precious soul. I wish I could stretch invisible protective wings over all who feel judged and open the eyes of empathy in the hearts of those who judge. May enlightenment bring peace to this world so you may Love freely and without fear.
@DaiJuuichiHoshi
@DaiJuuichiHoshi 6 жыл бұрын
Please continue to be unapologetically you and accept yourself at your own pace
@yugao12
@yugao12 6 жыл бұрын
THIS
@chelseyminton971
@chelseyminton971 6 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you have to go through this. It isn't right that people can so easily judge. It definitely isn't right when your loved ones turn their back on you and want you to hide that side of yourself. Be Who you are NOT what they want you to be. We love your attitude, personality, and the sheer beauty you project inside and out!!
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
I will always support u no matter what
@paulhart8814
@paulhart8814 6 жыл бұрын
you are who you are, and you still have the best voice I have heard in a long time, I know it is difficult for you, especially where you live, but rise above it, do your own thing. I hope those that are close to you, will just accept, you, for you, and I am sorry that you have to feel awkward for who you are.
@lordruin123
@lordruin123 6 жыл бұрын
Janet. I am so proud of you and how comfortable you are becoming with yourself. I myself am bisexual and am fully supportive of people's rights to their own orientation. You will always find inspiration to be comfortable and open when you look to those who love and support you. I really hope that this has lifted weight off your shoulders so you can move on to better things. It is people like you and I that will help heal and teach this world to be accepting and a better place for people to live in. You are so personable and strong feeling and it resonates in your music so profoundly. I am proud to be your fan. Love you Janet
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
This means so much lovely! thank you for being so loving and kind! 💕🙏🏻
@lordruin123
@lordruin123 6 жыл бұрын
@@janetdevlin No need to thank me Janet. You have reminded me what love is.
@christopherbuchwalter1674
@christopherbuchwalter1674 6 жыл бұрын
You are perfect! There is no reason to be ashamed or scared of who you are! Wear it boldly! True happiness comes from loving yourself and surrounding yourself by the people who understand and love the person you are.
@crazyferret9409
@crazyferret9409 6 жыл бұрын
You are you and you are beautiful. Live your life, be free x
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Gregg! 💕
@moorejordank
@moorejordank 6 жыл бұрын
You are such a beautiful light. I’ve watched several of these videos but this is the one that I’ve really identified with the most. You’re a beautiful soul, Janet! Be you!
@xmrstylesx
@xmrstylesx 6 жыл бұрын
I love you and I'm so proud of you 💛💛💛💛💛
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
This means so much, Thank you!❤️🙏🏻
@LegatusNavium
@LegatusNavium 6 жыл бұрын
Miss. Devlin know we support you and never ever would think less of you for who you are, you are an amazing talented angel on earth we are honored you share your talent and life with us in the way you do. Thank you for being you and for never backing away from what you believe in. You are strong.
@Belliol88
@Belliol88 6 жыл бұрын
Love has no gender and no race .... I think it's the most normal thing that exists. Take care of what people think .... Who does not understand love does not understand life. Normality .... in you I see only an exceptional and beautiful normality
@lordmonar
@lordmonar 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you that you were able to open up about and face the negativity! You are a strong woman and you have thousands of people who accept you for who you are and who you want to be! All my love and positive energy! You got this girl!
@Lucivar69
@Lucivar69 6 жыл бұрын
You are magical! Huggggggssssss on coming out darlin :)
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Hugs! ❤️
@brownbeard4088
@brownbeard4088 6 жыл бұрын
Always be you .... no matter what others ideas are. I love your truth, your words and nervous laughs, fidgets, darting eye glances while talking about this.... it shows how genuine, Honest and sweet you really are. Dont be afraid and hold back (run a mile as you say) but leap, laugh and fall in love. You are still so young. The world is a changing place... Be you and do what makes you happy .... Cheers from Canada
@banadverts3442
@banadverts3442 6 жыл бұрын
Always be who you are. You can't be anything else. We love you
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sam!🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
@banadverts3442
@banadverts3442 6 жыл бұрын
I hope posting this helped you. As much as it helped me. I think everyone has something they keep to themselves. And wether they share it or not. Always love who you are. This video helped me. So thank you x
@barbaracoleman6125
@barbaracoleman6125 4 жыл бұрын
Oh! Janet set yourself free and just be yourself and be happy. Accept dear Janet and just find your happy place. My daughter is a lesbian and it has been wonderful to see how alive and happy she has become since making the decision to say it, she is a free spirit, very much like you, and I have told her to do what makes her happy, never mind those who won't accept it. I wish I could correspond with you in person. Just do what makes you happy OK??💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
@ImJustMe39
@ImJustMe39 6 жыл бұрын
This took a lot of courage. Yes when it comes to gay,bi or trans people some things have changed. But there is still a helluva long way to go. There is still a lot of cruelty,hatred and discrimination in the world. All I can say is be true to yourself. Love is love is love. You don't need to appologise. I wish I could just give you big,sweet hug and in some way offer you some comfort. To just let you know there is someone who accepts you as you are,for who you are...no judgements...no conditions. A fan and a friend that you just haven't met yet in Pennsylvania,United States. Take care and stay safe.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Shawn, this means more than you know!💕
@ImJustMe39
@ImJustMe39 6 жыл бұрын
@@janetdevlin No need to thank me. I've been following your channel for a while now. And though I've never met you or know you well I personally think you're a real sweetheart who wears her heart on her sleeve. Also from what I've seen you are truly a good person with a big heart. You're compassionate, empathetic and passionate about your music and things that you believe in. This world needs more people like you. And in some ways I'm the same way. I also want to thank you for bringing some light,joy and a bit of laughter to my world. The past year and a half to 2 years have been a very difficult time for me. It started in 2016 when I lost my Dad,then a few months later I lost a dear friend to basically suicide by police and just a couple of weeks ago I lost another dear friend to cancer. Watching your posts has helped me feel a bit of joy/happiness when I've been feeling down. And when you started to tear up/almost atarted to cry all I wanted to do was hug you and give you a shoulder to cry on. To let you know there's aomeone who understands,who won't judge you and is proud of you for having the strength to post this video. You are amazing. Take care and stay safe.
@Dekraakjes
@Dekraakjes 6 жыл бұрын
your a strong woman to tell us this be your self , friends will come and go the real ones will stay the fake ones you dont need for us your a great singer we love you for that
@CS_GOD64
@CS_GOD64 6 жыл бұрын
I love your accent 😍😅 Anyway You'll always be Janet Gay, Straight or Bisexual it really doesn't matter 😊
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you lovely!🙏🏻🙏🏻
@michellespencer97ify
@michellespencer97ify 6 жыл бұрын
🤗 biggest hug!! This just another reason why I love you so much! You are so sweet! I’m so happy you made this first step. I hope you get to where you need to be with your happiness. Don’t ever let anyone else keep you from being happy. I know that’s not as easy as it sounds. Im learning not to care as much about how others feel about me. The most important ones love me for me. To truly love someone you have to love all of them. Even the not so lovable parts. You’ll be in my prayers! Stay strong and keep on being you!! ❤️
@gabrieldutradeoliveira9639
@gabrieldutradeoliveira9639 6 жыл бұрын
As the song say: dont worry, BE HAPPY Love you
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Gabriel 💕
@redjaden367
@redjaden367 6 жыл бұрын
I am sorry that you did not get the support from friends and family that you should've gotten. We your youtube family will always love and accept you! Thank you for sharing your life, music, and poetry. Love for Tucson, AZ. USA🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
@lucazanettin7172
@lucazanettin7172 6 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget we all love you, Janet ❤️😘 wish you all the best ❤️❤️❤️
@alancarrick1541
@alancarrick1541 6 жыл бұрын
You are who you are, a beautiful person! You breath, you feel, you love, please be you!!
@Berg126
@Berg126 6 жыл бұрын
I like the idea of loving er person and not a gender, I can feel with age I understand it better, I am not my self, but really think the Bisexual thought are healthy, it makes a lot of sense, but I still Settle with woman 😊
@terryvankleek1770
@terryvankleek1770 6 жыл бұрын
You are who you are no matter what. You are a great, smart, talented human being and are accepted by many as that. Support from many and thanks for sharing such deep and personal part of you.
@Basilikinstinct
@Basilikinstinct 6 жыл бұрын
@connorwood1026
@connorwood1026 5 жыл бұрын
Basilikinstinct oh fuck off with your "Monosexual"
@midnytegoddess
@midnytegoddess 6 жыл бұрын
I came across this video by chance and I am a mother of a bisexual boy. I love him dearly and I am so proud to be his mother. I am so proud of you for having the courage to say this and express your reality and your truth. I am so glad you can be true to yourself. Don't listen to anyone who tries to dim your light or make you shine less bright to make them more comfortable. You are wonderful and special never forget that.
@kenkeep69
@kenkeep69 6 жыл бұрын
Though I am now areligious, I was also raised Catholic. The verse that I remember puts no limits on who you can love, be in love with, etc... "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails." ~ 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 Keep striving to be unapologetically you. And try to treat yourself the way you deserve, which is sometimes the most difficult thing to do.
@TheArtistJ777
@TheArtistJ777 5 жыл бұрын
I pretty sure that verse is out of context using it to justify something that God is clearly against throughout the rest of scripture. Just saying, the bible is against homosexuality. Not that they cannot be saved or that its worst than other sins, but it does still say its sin.
@johhnywalker6714
@johhnywalker6714 6 жыл бұрын
Awe hun, don't be nervous. You are perfect just the way you are! As my quote goes. It's not WHAT you are that makes you WHO you are, It's WHO you are that makes you WHAT you are! ~Johnny Walker~
@RantingNRolling
@RantingNRolling 6 жыл бұрын
You've always been unapologetically you. Don't feel like you need to apologize for the rant. Think of it as crucial to the betterment of your mental/emotional health. You have NOTHING to apologize for. Blood relation or not, the people who love you unconditionally are the ones you want to keep close to you. Definitely don't shut the other ones out but only keep them close enough so they are within a close enough eyesight to see that their disapproval does not affect you.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!💕
@RantingNRolling
@RantingNRolling 6 жыл бұрын
@@janetdevlin for whatever it's worth, I found your channel right after the death of Chester from Linkin Park (your LP covers) and I can't begin to explain how much you have been crucial to the preservation of my own mental health. You are an absolute treasure that we need in this world but are not worthy of deserving. I may only be speaking for myself but as far as your impact on my life since I started watching your content, I can say without reservation you mean the world to me.
@dragonoflegend8798
@dragonoflegend8798 6 жыл бұрын
Damn girl. This very obviously took a lot of bravery for you. I for one am proud of you. Stay strong J. Stay strong. That kind of pain is like no other and this a huge step in the right direction. Well done ☺️
@LayllasLocker
@LayllasLocker 6 жыл бұрын
Honestly, being bisexual is the best. You won't miss good things on all sides! :D I love men and women. ♥
@Paragon643
@Paragon643 6 жыл бұрын
First of all i'm so enormously proud off ye for opening up about! personally i know very very well how difficult it is to accept, deal with and especially open up about (i'm sure ye can guess why). If ye ever want to talk, chat, vent etc please feel free to hit me up. i understand the feeling! probably more than you would think.
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome video Janet Love ur videos Love u so much Nothing wrong being bisexual
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Justin!❤️
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
Janet Devlin ur very welcome Janet I’m bisexual to Janet There is nothing to worry about
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
Janet Devlin love u so much
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786
@thejustinmethvinvlogs4786 6 жыл бұрын
Janet Devlin ur the best n I love u so much ❤️❤️❤️
@jasonmero2245
@jasonmero2245 6 жыл бұрын
You said it out loud to the world!! You own it, it’s a part of who you are! You are amazing, such courage is awe-inspiring. *hugs and lots of love*
@josephandrews8330
@josephandrews8330 6 жыл бұрын
Janet I honestly don't think anyone that loves you, your videos or your singing really gives a shit less if your gay, straight, or from another planet. Just think about what my hero always says. "I am what I am and that's all that I am. " In other words accept what you are and don't try to be something that your not. God's Speed to you Janet.
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Joseph!💕
@v6nce
@v6nce 6 жыл бұрын
This also brought a tear to my eye. Just wanted to give you abig hug and tell you everything will be fine. Such an open and raw video, the most beautifully honest thing I think I've ever seen I really felt the turmoil in your every breath and every word. Well done you x
@franqueee
@franqueee 6 жыл бұрын
Why are you worried Janet? Chill 😊👌 Its hard im sure. But you need to know that we are here for you and will continue to support and send love
@69pilon
@69pilon 6 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine how much guts that took to post, you are one amazing lady, surround yourself with those you love and who love you, and hopefully one day you can do what you want to with the love and support with those close to you.
@deathowl6947
@deathowl6947 6 жыл бұрын
And makes me like you even more
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️🙏🏻
@Rhowski
@Rhowski 6 жыл бұрын
first of all, when i saw the title i went with 'even fucking better' xD secondly, i see people talking about how they had subscribed for what you do, not who you are and ect, and that's totally fine, whatever they meant by that, *but* as a bisexual myself, I'm very proud of you. even if I randomly come across a video such as this one, it is still important to me personly. keep blossoming!
@Ayrodynamic
@Ayrodynamic 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Janet. I've been a long time fan and I wanted to personally thank you for your video and sharing that part of you with the world. I came out as gay at the age of 17 (About 20 years ago), so I can appreciate the way you feel about accepting yourself, especially given the environment that you grew up around. I know that these days, coming out to some people is just like ordering a pizza, but it's still an issue that scares a lot of us. All I can say to you (and I know that I may come across as kinda preachy, and I apologise for that) is embrace who you are, don't fight against it. Allow yourself to love and to be loved - No matter who! It's not all about being straight, bisexual, gay, trans etc.... It's about being human! We ALL deserve to love and to be happy!!! Much love to you! We got your back, girl! xx #Wonderful
@claimsandwarranties6121
@claimsandwarranties6121 5 жыл бұрын
Just love who you are and the world will follow.... Never feel shame of who you are... You are a child of the universe.... No need to be nervous or defend who you are soul deep.... You are pure of heart and it shows... be well-Jennifer
@m.meansmusic
@m.meansmusic 6 жыл бұрын
In Germany its legal
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Thankfully a lot of places have made it legal!
@bianca9094
@bianca9094 6 жыл бұрын
Same in The netherlands
@maynardzman5o35
@maynardzman5o35 6 жыл бұрын
Awe Janet. So happy for you and proud of you. The strength you possess is astounding. It must've been hard for those things to happen but in the end you're giving others courage to break free and embrace their hidden selves. You're a good example to follow honestly and you are so great no matter what anyone says. We love you. ❤
@jeremyshearer3885
@jeremyshearer3885 6 жыл бұрын
Okay a lot of people are bisexual that is the norm today
@janetdevlin
@janetdevlin 6 жыл бұрын
Yip, I mentioned that aha
@arthurcormier1252
@arthurcormier1252 6 жыл бұрын
Keep true to yourself you are a beautiful person inside and out
@madziamix
@madziamix 6 жыл бұрын
You’re so brave Janet! You should be proud of yourself! You’re such a beautiful, honest, wonderful and kind person and we all love you!
@michaelgoodman7830
@michaelgoodman7830 6 жыл бұрын
I think you're so very talented, and such a sweet person. I'm from USA and I know it's more open here but I'm an older man I'm 42 I was raised in a Christian family I still think you're awesome sweet person with a beautiful gift. The reason I'm telling you my background a little is because I don't want you to be hard on yourself. I know you don't know me at all I'm just a fan but I just want you to be happy and not apologize for being you. I'm probably close to your parents age too and even if they might get angry I'm sure they will always love you and want you to be happy as well. sorry this is so long I just want you to keep putting out amazing music with you're amazing voice and be happy and know you have the support of your fans. you always deserve to be happy. I hope you have a great day. Thank you for sharing with us.
@superchuck3259
@superchuck3259 6 жыл бұрын
What do you mean more open? It is out in the open. If you have been living in a major US city for the past 20 years being Gay or whatever is nothing new and accepted. Frankly it is getting to the point that no one cares. Consenting adults can do as they please. Get married too, fine with me and good luck! Actually kinda like it when gay guys buy me drinks. So do gay girls buy other girls drinks to be nice to get them to talk and hang with them cause they like em and want to get to know them?
@twosnakesonesword3299
@twosnakesonesword3299 6 жыл бұрын
@@superchuck3259 more open in some places, not so much in other places. Depends on where you live in the USA. Where I am it's not as accepting :( A friend of my daughter was kick out of her home when she came out as gay. :(
@kylestewart59
@kylestewart59 6 жыл бұрын
Be proud of being yourself, and not having to hide you from others. I do hear the fear and pain within you. I wish it wasn't so hard, but also understand the issues coming from such a conservative place and family as well. Your family, regardless, would be so proud of you. You are such a beautiful, open and honest person. It is just so unfortunate in this world that it is people like you, that are often hurt by it. You have a lot of support around you - even if you may not feel it at times.
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