I’m Convinced A Lot Of Y’all Men Don’t Like Women, Y’all Like Little Girls - TikTok Comp | Reaction

[@aidangreyskies]

I've had grown ass men, like probably in their late 30s or 40s who approach me tryna flirt and then they ask my age and are surprised I'm not a teenager...like...YOU WANTED ME TO BE A TEEN?!

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

Same. I hate that according to some weirdos, I'm considered the legal version of what they are really looking for. I've had men thinking that I'm 15... like why would you even approach me if you thought I was that young?

[@aidangreyskies]

@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 right I've had men say some things that could be considered sexual assault and then turn around be like "oh I thought you were 16 or something"... so you normally like perving on children then? They're so gross 🤢

[@ambrogreen]

Same. I've even had guys the same age as me or 2 years older disappointed. I think it starts young in them. 😕

[@adt4025]

That damn porn plays a part in it too

[@lavenderllamamusic]

jesus christ, that's so out of pocket

[@syria0110]

The granddaughter one is so sick and disturbing. Same with the other ones.

[@LK-em2ly]

For real that caught me of guard

[@johnlaaapsm1647]

She should of just hit him with “and you remind me of my dad”

[@jachbo97]

@@bmgfrosty7089 they're definitely not exaggerated. you're part of the problem and the reason why people doubt women's very real experiences. stop trying to downplay it. this shit happens constantly.

[@vijzon3223]

It's really scary to think about. Like who thinks of their grandchild like that.

[@rodentcafeteria]

The woman who spoke of men finding younger women easier to control and manipulate hit the nail on the head!

[@kabelomakanatlengsundra456]

@@Renegade2786 bruhhhhhhhhh😂😂

[@jumbosensei8139]

@@Renegade2786 a 26 year old woman with a 22 year old man is not the same thing. She literally has a book on herself about what she does yet he chose to nut in her. Y’all are dumb asf.

[@nosoynegrosoycafe7811]

Why doh? So men can't have preference? Whats wrong with wanting something younger, better and have better opportunities to give birth without risks?

[@remi427]

@@nosoynegrosoycafe7811 Because that’s weird 🤨 Let’s say your 50, why would you be going after a 20 year old? Someone young enough to be your daughter, someone you _should_ be seeing as a child. Also you’ll probably have nothing in common and can’t talk like two twenty year olds can.

[@Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman]

@@nosoynegrosoycafe7811 Adopt a child. Leave them little girls alone to find men their age.

[@123reletive123]

The amount of men that walk to up to me, ask me my age and are genuinely disappointed when they learn that I am a lot older than I look is crazy smh. Then they have the nerve to say “oh I though you were 16/17”. If you thought I was 16 (I’m 24) then why are you even talking to me. They have no shame 🙄

[@keishalawson3995]

@Miss Elsalvadoras villianora how? What she said was the truth.

[@jumbosensei8139]

@@UndercoverSpill 24 is not even old enough to insist a younger age is flattering, especially not an awkward teen age. 24 IS young! Go touch grass.

[@cyntstancil4561]

I don't why ppl act like never witness this before we all been in high school when the Seniors will prey on the freshmen. This just doesn't start when we become adults.

[@pureshinobi1676]

@Doppelganger D but thats no weird when women do it, everyone is accountable in this chit it just men dont care we can get raped and not say nothing which is bad

[@brian_Austin27]

Exactly women do the exact same thing, why do u thing women are obsessed with looking younger if u really getting their body done, ribs removed lip fillers, dont blame this all on these creepy men say this yall do everything to they day. If u love ur natural bodies u wouldn't need to have to preserve ur youthfulness

[@dumbasssupreme4022]

@@brian_Austin27 Ok.. Women wouldnt do that if the beauty standards were not in place. Who put these beauty standards in place? Men in power, men with influence. Simple as that

[@bigfellamike1913]

@@earthing3696 LMFAOOO you're saying it's not NORMAL for men to find 17 year old women hot?! are you drunk or denying the truth and historically evident truths because it's convenient to act like 21st century standards have been the norm for most of humanity? you sound absolutely ignorant as hell lmao

[@quentinjones6877]

Most of the time, freshmen girls like senior guys because they think the senior guys are more mature than the freshman ones

[@lilrose7936]

As a teen girl this is true. I have personally come across creepy males and they think its cool to date younger girls because I’m naive, at times stupid, am obedient and easy to manipulate. Therefore they feel powerful and dominate. Also most older men like younger bodies for the look no stretch marks, young , adorable, short, etc. its honestly gross. And i remember growing up in elementary people use to glorify women being with older men but now that in older i see how a little weird that can be

[@kylonxsaiyan]

why as a teen girl would you even talk to old men? thats fucking weird to begin with. for you and him💀

[@eleven-hopper]

@@kylonxsaiyan I don't think they were imply that they know older men but have just come across them in passing. as a teen girl myself (i'm almost 18) while none of them have ever said anything to me since i'm usually with my mom all the time, i have noticed that ever since i was probably 14, maybe 13, there's always older men who look at me in like a certain way, recently as well, and i've gotten lots of compliments on my makeup and clothing and for most of them it's not just them being nice

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

@@kylonxsaiyan when I was a teen, older men would try to hit on me when I would walk home from school with my backpack on, or when I would be in the store away from my parents. Even old dudes in my neighborhood. I would never speak to them first.

[@mylesp89]

Why is it wierd to be attracted to someone with a nice younger body as opposed to someone old and wrinkly?

[@lilrose7936]

@@kylonxsaiyan i dont talk to older men, but i can see their looks, i can feel their eyes on me. Some approach me , its scary.

[@hikarireacts3815]

Especially in the anime and KPOP community...I know anime is fictional but the way some grown men comment on the young characters or characters who look like extremely young girls is disgusting and it just tells where their mentality is. Just imagine how they look at young girls out in the world.

[@aleimstillhungry2317]

Japan has a huge issue with that. Actually Asian media has always had these types of problems. It’s unnerving that there’s people who actually think it’s okay to write and draw certain characters like lolis and shotas and real life people have these as their “waifus” and “husbandos” despite the fact that they clearly look like children and act like children

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

@@aleimstillhungry2317 I mean even adults in Japan have been known to marry high schoolers under 18. So until they change the age of consent, their media isn't going to change.

[@idontknowwhattoputhere5434]

This is true. There’s actually an anime, forgot the name, where it’s something about a little girl running off with the circus (?) and ended up being r*ped multipke times by the leader, and a lot of other shit. And Kris Wu and others getting exposed as well, how some K Dramas glorify this stuff, it’s just insane

[@nico_t_ne6708]

Right?! Their excuse is that they aren’t real, but ur still attracted to a drawing of a child.

[@aleimstillhungry2317]

@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 and it’s not gonna change anytime soon sadly :(

[@chanise2218]

The granddaughter one...that's so sick and the fact that she said that other men have told her she resembeled their granddaughters is just disturbing. And why would you even say that to someone your receiving a lap dance from??

[@xiamariansupreme72]

To me, that lets me know that those men lowkey want to DO their granddaughters. You don't just tell someone who's lap dancing on you that they remind you of your granddaughter UNLESS you have an urge to sleep with your granddaughter, aka, incest.

[@luikage_]

it’s crazy how stretch marks can be the deal breaker for some people

[@0FFXJAI]

Righttttt

[@stancinatti8198]

Honestly

[@jesuscuzz7299]

STRETCH Mark's are beautiful !! They tell me that ass has went thru some battles 🥺💀

[@versatilethearcane]

Facts...either you was big and got small, or you was small and got big....EITHER HWAY! **Katt Williams vc*

[@Feliciatanktop]

It’s crazy because around 90-99% of women worldwide have stretch marks somewhere on their body. That’s like saying women that grow hair on their body is a dealbreaker lmao

[@holyguacamole3893]

Some of y’all men really in these comments exposing y’all selves 🤣

[@kylonxsaiyan]

i havent seen any. ive just seen ppl actually defending themselves since females constantly send shots

[@holyguacamole3893]

@@kylonxsaiyan “defending” themselves from being creeps 🤣💆🏾‍♀️ whoo chile~ y’all out here openly admitting y’all’s creep behavior and views 😹 gtho my comments weirdo

[@kylonxsaiyan]

@@holyguacamole3893 who is “y’all” LMFAO. 💀

[@kylonxsaiyan]

@@holyguacamole3893 when have I admitted to being a “creep” you don’t know me. Like at all. 💀

[@holyguacamole3893]

@@kylonxsaiyan well you out here defending them is you not? 🥴 that lumps you in with them. If you ain’t a creep why you getting all defensive 🤣🤣😹 stg y’all entertaining ash. Go on ole boy 👋 go defend y’all creep behavior

[@titilayow9580]

I remember when I was 18 working at Nando, this new manager asked how old I was. When I told him he said that "18 is a RIPE age". I never felt so disgusted and objectified in my life. Just treating me like I'm some damn fruit smh. I wish I would have reported him but I didn't see him after that day thank God. He was also saying weird stuff to the underage employees as well....

[@xoxoxoxoxoxo2488]

@Doppelganger D fruits are ripe, not people. You can’t tell her that she’s “reaching” when you weren’t there to hear or see the interaction. And her last sentence would undermine the whole idea of him not being a creep even if you do think the “ripe” comment wasn’t offensive.

[@titilayow9580]

@Doppelganger D No. You were not there so you cannot make assumptions on what went on. He was very well trying to make advances towards me during the whole shift. When he asked me that question, it was when I was getting ready to clock out and I worked a double mind you. I didn't want to make the comment a whole novel but there is some context to this situation, you have to keep in mind. I used the fruit comparison because I deadass felt like an object. Trust me, I can decipher between someone being nice and someone being straight up creepy. I've experienced grown men trying to hit on me every since I hit puberty, so I know the signs. Another thing, even if it was a grown woman saying this to me, I would feel the same way. Hell, even someone my own age says that shit, it would be hella weird. It's the context that really bothered me, not that phrase specifically. Also did you not read how he was also being creepy towards other underaged girls or? I talked with one of my coworkers and she told me she had the similar account with him. Like c'mon now bruh.

[@titilayow9580]

@@xoxoxoxoxoxo2488 Thank. You. People love to comment on shit they were not apart of. Got me writing a whole ass book to explain myself when I should even have to...reading is fundamental!

[@xoxoxoxoxoxo2488]

@@titilayow9580 ikr, obviously if you said that he made weird comments or things that made you uncomfortable then we can infer that he wasn’t just trying to be nice. Use your reading comprehension skills people 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@cutienerdgirl]

@@vssss9018 Saying weird stuff to flirt with a teen as a grown-ass man is CREEPY. When someone says "18 is a RIPE AGE" is like calling a 17 yr old "Jail bait" or saying an 18 yr old is "barely legal". It's a not so hidden way of flirting with people who are underage or just legally became an adult.

[@reggiewolfpac7711]

I'm 33 I like women my age & in their 20s but yeah you do some creeps out here great video Dee like always.

[@mikeshark8869]

@The Guy You're really embarrassing.

[@mikeshark8869]

@The Guy 🤡

[@raymonds7492]

You are only attracted to women your age and up? Yeah because that’s how biology works.

[@KF3000-w7x]

@@raymonds7492 Not really

[@reggiewolfpac7711]

@@raymonds7492 Whatever age of woman you wanna date that's you don't get mad at my comment.

[@pretty-bi5sr]

I'm 20 and I get SO many dm requests from men that are 40-50 asking me to be their "little girl". like insane amounts. they won't even hide it, they will just straight up send a message describing how they want to be my daddy and how naughty little girl I've been like I'm not even being dramatic

[@winglessfairy564]

Fr they might as well dm u saying ‘I’m a pred’

[@kaseanballou1389]

There are a lot of weirdos out there. I'm 34 years old and I love a woman that's two years older than me. I can't and don't want to understand the thought process of these creeps.

[@KayM1021]

Age of consent here in Washington, DC is 16 Years Old. That’s sick

[@itazuranakisu]

You will know a creeper when their defense for creeping is talking about age of consent when you call them out on it and often they ignore that some places there's a small print that requires the ages to be close to each other not some random 40 year old creeping on a minor.

[@vssss9018]

@@itazuranakisu in many places around the world 16 is an adult. I would never date a 16 year old based on how I was brought up but our morality is taught based on societies principle. People still think it is ok to mutilate baby boys genitals in the United States and no one bats an eye about it. Unless you have been educated on the matter, you may even do it to your son out of ignorance like my mother did. Humans are not these universally moral people, I try not to judge too much for this reason unless it is something too extreme but if someone grows up being taught that 16 is an adult in a certain country how do you realistically expect them to perceive 16 year olds?

[@King-zx4qr]

@@vssss9018 Agreed. My mother was born in the Caribbean island of Trinidad and Tobago and they graduate highschool at 16. She had a full time job at 16. So she was an adult at 16. Tbh some people really need to get out of this country for little while and learn about how other people live life.

[@KayM1021]

@@itazuranakisu A DC cop literally told my mom that if my sister is 16 or 17 years old, then she can consent to sex with a man 50 years or older. I’m not gonna go into details about that whole story. But idc how other countries perceive 16 year olds. I’m here in the United States where having sex with a minor under 18, regardless of age of consent in any of the states, is pedophilic.

[@KayM1021]

@@King-zx4qr And life experiences don’t make you an adult. That just means she had responsibilities brought onto her at a young age.

[@musicexplosionx4575]

Yeah, I remember when I was at my first job and and girls I worked with were frustrated from the older men who would say, “I can’t wait til you turn 18, baby girl.” And hearing things like that would make me feel so disgusted. . These TYPE of men need to be stopped.

[@imaniluvsu1]

Oh and I have daughters as well and I can't tell you the amount of times I've gone off because some dude was trying to talk to them. ESPECIALLY my oldest. And my youngest is neurodivergent so sometimes she doesn't catch verbal cues. Although as she's gotten older she's DEFINITELY better with it. Old men try to talk to her all the time and there have been times that she's put herself in danger without even realizing it. I'm thankful that my community knows who she is and looks out for her. She was almost kidnapped at one point and thankfully my friend realized what was happening and swung her car around. Thinking about that even now just scares the hell out of me.

[@kiarahall6670]

This is the vibe I get when tall men explain why they like short “girls” (didn’t even say women). Most of the men in the thread said that they preferred short girls because they were “cute” and appeared “more youthful”. They also talked about how they felt more dominant and more like a “man” with short women 🤔🧐

[@eeshaandrubra4234]

Girls is used as a word for young women (sub 35)

[@justhere7745]

Wym by short “girls”? Cuz a lot of women are short

[@dontworryboutmyname8934]

Dang so what does that make women who want their man to be taller than then?

[@florencee3324]

Yeah as a short/ average height woman who has a baby face I constantly side eye men who seem to be sexually attracted to me

[@imthebossmermaid3648]

I saw someone say that he wanted to date a short girl that was 4'9. 💀

[@jvmxv]

Im 21 & was with a 23 year old male who was "friends" with a 17 year old. I was very uncomfortable about their friendship & told him to stop being her friend if he wants to stay with me. He unfollowed her while we were dating. We break up. He refollows her the next day. She turns 18. Now he liking bikini pics of her. Thats grooming right? I dodged a bullet.

[@jvmxv]

@Miss Elsalvadoras villianora elaborate

[@Samoan_auntie]

I think you are over reacting about your ex, you guys was in your early 20s and she was going to be 18. I would understand if he was hanging out with a 15 year old or younger.

[@mittag983]

Having female friends as a dude in general is a red flag most of them want to shag them glad I'm into women

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

@@Samoan_auntie 23 and 17 is still a big age difference. One is in high school and one graduated college. If it was 18 (in college) and 23. I’d still side eye, but it wouldn’t be as big a deal.

[@ekuriking7143]

The age of consent was 13 in like like 10 states at one point. Y'all in the city just now catching on I was born in ‘94 and when we were growing up we would see the older men sitting around us with our uncles and fathers. As I got older I would notice how they looked as we developed in school. As soon as we turned “18 if not before by assault” they would be “calling”🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

This happens in cities too.

[@blackice7408]

Damn

[@michelle9445]

A 26 year old man wanted a situationship when I was 16. I was dumb, young and impressionable so I said yes but after 2 weeks I knew it was wrong so I stopped. Blocked him everything. And also he had two kids under the age of 5 and lived with his baby mama.

[@thatkidkgosi]

There's some guy on KZbin who says R Kelly is not a predator and he just has a specific "apatite". He talked about him fxcking many young girls for many years and shii. Basically he was self snitching

[@whoasked6696]

Glendon Cameron?

[@itazuranakisu]

Personal experience of walking down a street and two older men ogling me. I was in middle school at that time. I didn't want to acknowledge it but the person I was walking with did. I always looked younger than my age so they knew I was definitely a child. I've also was cornered by a patient who whipped out his junk in front of me. It was such a mortifying thing especially since the place I worked didn't do anything and it happened to other women there before he left. I remembered being so scared and shocked before getting mad and telling him off. I saw him a year or so later and it set chills down my spine.

[@nancyjada9406]

I remember I didn't hit puberty till 15, and the different treatment then and now?! I've become waaayyyy more confident in myself because of my height (5'9) since I didn't have older men cat calling me every 10 minutes. There was a time I was 13 and some men asked MY MOTHER if I was her sister, after watching me for the longest time. I feel for the shorter girls and ladies cause I can't imagine dealing with that all the time. Having the attention of an older male when your doing nothing is terrifying.

[@adt4025]

I’m sorry that happened to you. Sends shivers down my spine too 😓

[@VampTwinkie]

never been attracted to anyone younger than me...infact (i know this gonna make me look/sound stupid but...) once i find out i immediately lose interest...i honestly dont know why

[@VampTwinkie]

even when i was younger i was always surrounded by "grown folks", and honestly, it kinda sucks now cuz Im still not into people younger nor around my age lmao

[@dontworryboutmyname8934]

I’d say the youngest girl I’ve ever been attracted to relative to my age was a year younger than me but I was in my mid-teens and she was in the grade as me. Nowadays I’d rather date someone that’s the same age or older.

[@Ennegro]

Also I always find it interesting that- Men ( adult cisgender heterosexual men) like to call their adult girls friends “ girl “ . Now here my out… Men make it a badge for women to be their girls but not for men to be boys. And the only time men like being referenced as boys is when it’s a identifiable deviant behavior aka the “bad boy” but most men use guy for that now at least.

[@darthmaul3311]

Your reaching with that one

[@thedarkdojo5115]

@@darthmaul3311 No.... No he's not...

[@darthmaul3311]

@@thedarkdojo5115 Yes he is very much reaching

[@chanelnorth1785]

Usually with me, I like being called baby girl. I'm a woman but being called that by my man (if I had one) would make me feel protected. And I would naturally call him my man but save the ''boy names" for home. Idk just me

[@darthmaul3311]

@@chanelnorth1785 At least your normal

[@no.5179]

Notice the trend where whenever a guy and a girl break up, the guy gets with a YOUNGER girl to make the og girl jealous? Always hated that trope.

[@__yklim]

What?

[@versatilethearcane]

Once I was old enough to drink i said she had to AT LEAST be old enough to get into a bar....and now I'm in my 30s I can't stand to be around women younger than mid 20s....they don't even think the same

[@winglessfairy564]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@davionstanfield9287]

As a man I do apologize. It’s actually embarrassing to hear these stories and disgusting

[@richierich2229]

Expect for the Leonardo DiCaprio one he dates models and most famous models are 18-30 so I don’t find that weird. He’s dating fellow millionaires

[@Kmama801]

Thank you! A level-headed comment.

[@chanelnorth1785]

@@richierich2229 to never date anyone over 25, is weird. He's not in his 30s, he's closer to senior citizen. But the woman are to blame as well, they know wassup

[@Killvminnati]

@@chanelnorth1785 How is it weird tho? They’re grown adults. With high status that matches his. This is only a question, not creating an argument.

[@chanelnorth1785]

@@Killvminnati this just personally opinion. I personally think it weird to not want to build a relationship with someone who can understand your generation, how you grew up, similar mindset, maturity, music, things in common, and etc. I'm 23 and I feel I don't have much in common with 19/20 years olds, so I can just imagine a 50 year old with a girl my age. I personally think it's weird to never want someone on your maturity, but to each it's own. I find it creepy, why wouldn't you want a woman who better understands you and your needs? Serious question.

[@tanishastidwell6316]

Yea I had plenty older men approach me as a teenager. I even dated a man in his 40's when I was 16. So that vid where the one girl says 'he does not see your soul sis' hit home.

[@Queen_of_Kingz]

I was just talking to my best friend about this! It's weird that men want woman to be hairless in their "area"😾! The only time in my life when my "area" was hairless was when I was 10 (pre puberty)! So when a grown ass man is requesting that I feel like a 10 year old, they shouldn't be allowed within 10 yards of a playground, school or a daycare! It's disgusting & a turn off! I'm clearly too much of a woman for you....Robert Kelly!

[@janeeyx5672]

This is true. When I was about 15 years old, this grown ass 50 something year old man tried to get with me and said that he thought that I was pretty. I told him my age and then he tried to say that he thought I was about 25.. which was a damn lie because I was out with a whole group of girls who clearly were high schoolers. He knew this and still tried to act as though he didn’t know I was a minor. I told him to get the fuck away from me. He was such a creep.

[@oscarthematerialgworl7496]

I always thought about this, but when I was in school, seniors did try and date freshman. It happened all the time and it was normal. I always thought it was weird. But for some reason theres so many shows and media that make this a normal thing. Literally when you get in highschool you're like 13-14 years old and for a senior who's 18 (or older if they were held back) to want to mess with them at that big of an age difference? Creepy

[@wisekrown864]

I never thought liking stretch marks and cellulite was considered weird

[@__yklim]

It isn’t these women are mad at men because they dont like them

[@Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman]

@@__yklim You motherfuckers created whole podcast to talk about women who won’t sleep with you what’s the difference? 😂😭

[@lilrizq]

(6:06 - 6:25) Only can speak for myself but I like women without make up mainly because they look natural and real (same reason stretch marks don't bother me), not because they look young. I feel like popular culture, celebrities and the unrealistic beauty standards of some of these dudes out here got women thinking they have to have pounds of makeup on to attract someone. I'm not against makeup either(as long as it's not too "cartoon looking"). Other then that... I think the rest of these people's experiences and points they were making are sound.

[@chris_r_art]

I feel like the only culture/ country that does kind of have the same „youth“ pressure on men could maybe be South Korea. Both genders make it their mission to look/ stay as young as possible be it surgery ( vline, aegyo-sal etc.). Now I know this is just a different Beauty Standard, but it’s still heavily focused on youth and for *both* genders

[@ajdc2142]

Japan maybe too. This video is just a bunch of girls with imperfections trying to say that the fault that they are not attractive is ✨patriarchy✨

[@adt4025]

Yeah and the school girl thing

[@bigfellamike1913]

every single country majority of men value youth and looks and health lol

[@Nana-wi4gi]

It's definitely not the only one lol what are talking about

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

@@bigfellamike1913 When it comes to relationships, America only cares about youth for women, not the men. I’m society, the importance of youth is still mostly placed on women, but it is also placed on men, especially when it comes to beer guts and male pattern baldness.

[@imaniluvsu1]

This is so disturbing to me. But I've always known it existed. I remember being a teenager and older men would try to talk to me all the time. It made me uncomfortable. I even remember a time when I was at a store and this white dude was about to talk to me. He realized he knew my brother. He was more concerned when my brother beating the shit out of him than the fact that I was 10 years younger than him.

[@afroboy18]

So true I was always was made fun of for dating or getting with chicks older than me at and I'm glad cuz some weird dudes be trying to get with HS girls in their late 20s and 30s and its criminal. Honestly like how.... they look like kids bruh and they annoying af what's the appeal???

[@EMARSIII]

It’s true. Women must be short, look/be young, naive. Can’t forget that women must also never have body hair - they must be ‘smooth’ like a child. It’s really disturbing

[@putaromason5234]

The thing that gets me is when older men date 18 year olds and vice versa. Like that one lady with the red hair said, I would never date anyone who is 17 or 18 when I'm like 24 or 25. And do you know why🤔because there are millions of people that are in the same age group as me. I'm just glad stuff like this is actually getting caught on and talked about more because it felt like I'm the only one seeing and hearing this stuff. Especially in school😒

[@Lienababy01]

I can agree because I’ve dated people about 3-6 years older than me and at first they are excited because they expect me to be the average teen no experience and just dumb as hell and when they find out I’m actually wise although I’m awfully young . It intimidates them and they run for the hills . 28 -40 years old and can’t find anyone your age to date is a huge 🚩. And I don’t care how much money you got if you’re damn near 2 generations older than me there is nothing that should be attractive about me to you we have nothing in common . 🤷🏼‍♀️ so this is absolutely correct not that they just like little girls they are sick in the head they want a toy they enjoy manipulation and control and they have low self esteem so the fact they may know more or be more advanced in certain aspects whether it’s physical - or knowledge based gives them a thrill because they feel more superior. Just not with me .

[@butnamjoonsaid6280]

Multiple older men have approached me when I was14-17 and when told my age, they sed they can wait

[@LittleAntiX]

My friend told me about a 21 year old guy who asked for her number. She was around 14 or something at the time but she told him she was ten because she wasn't comfortable with telling him her real age and was hoping that he would back off, but he didn't. This weirdo asked her "oh wanna go on an e-date?" So I confronted this guy and he told me "oh it's just a joke it was a pretend date" when he said that I went off on him to the point where he left the party and we never heard from him again thank God ( btw this was all on Xbox and I was 12 at the time yea just stay safe on the internet guys)

[@JohnnyHandsometm]

I mean look at Britney Spears. They made her do that baby voice her whole career when she really has a lower more soulful voice!

[@jaelove.bts7]

I had a friend who is 19 like me who had a coworker who followed her from her last job bc he thought she looked nice, had a nice body. He was in his late 30’s, I was so disturbed. I’ve also experienced older men staring at me before, its the weirdest thing ever 😭

[@thaistomp]

Respect the old men.

[@dt4654]

unless the woman is maintaining her say "youthfulness" out of her own choice, good luck finding someone way past 22 who is focused on looking like a teenager. some women could put on a crop top and short shorts and they still won't look "young" enough for these pseudo-pedos. (I am turning 27 and I don't look like a teen one bit LOL)

[@Ufb10]

All imma say is gyal between 18-24 watch out these old dragons coming for yall 😭🤦🏾‍♂️

[@latinoprophet]

Lmao bruh it’s so weird. Like cant y’all just be normal 😂😭. Sometimes I hear shit like this and I’m like bruh there’s no way dudes actually act like this but then I always see true proof in Twitter replies and comments like LMAO BRUH out in public like that? 😭

[@Jrocka7x]

Most of the women I’m attracted to are older than me. When I was 22, my girl was 26. I’m attracted to a 29 year old right now. Unlike most of the women I’m attracted to, she’s not someone’s mom. It’s a curse. Most of the thicc women are moms. Lol Also, I can’t speak for anyone else, but women remember the dumbest men and judge all of us from them. Most of us don’t like body alterations, and older women are often easier to control. Control isn’t an issue for the average man. People choose to be bitter about the minority, bad luck, and dumb choices they make.

[@ikeben400]

As long as the women are legal (over 21) and choose to date the older men, where is the problem?

[@sagittarius420cheefie]

I posted this video link all in the comments section of your last video about celebrities that are in paydofyles. Glad you got it.

[@camillelaurenmusic]

6:29 I have never in my life thought about that bruh sis is absolutely correct

[@makesmartTROYces]

I'm 23 right now, I'm not even gonna bother to be friends with someone that's 19. That's weird. Ever since high-school I wouldn't even look at girls a grade below me. Or try and be friends with dudes a grade below me. I'm gonna be a Junior soon (started school late) But I think it's weird as he'll for me to fw anyone other than Juniors and Seniors when I get back on campus. Something is just off about that to me. Even though 18'19 is "leGaL" that's high-school, freshman in college age. That ain't it.

[@willcee4966]

You trippin. If you can be friends with someone older why can’t you be friends with someone younger. You think your older friends are weirdos for hanging with you?? And basically you’re telling me that you never worked at a job where someone happened to be 1-2 years younger than you and you ended up becoming cool with them? You be asking people how old they before they’re allowed to conversate with you? You just sound ignorant my boy.

[@makesmartTROYces]

@@controlman7490 Nothing at all, I just don't think I could do it, 18-19 in highschool HELLLLLL NAHH, 18-19 in college maybe. MAYBE but she's gotta be different different

[@makesmartTROYces]

@@willcee4966 reading back, I was tripping tbh idk why I said that, I've been friendly and cordial with younger people, but I've seen those dudes who graduated college tryns fw the freshman at campus everyday, yes that's weird to me.

[@mahkayladiah6798]

When I was 12 an 18 year old senior from the highschool nextdoor asked if I wanted to be his girlfriend mind you ive never talked to him before and never seen him, He asked for my age and I said 12 and when he said his I wanted to get out of the conversation, He said and I quote "it's okay age doesn't matter to me" and I immediately blocked him but before I did I took screen shots and posted them and this one girl about the same age as me said he did that to her too and also to a 5th grader....So tell me why someone as old as you are is talking to girls younger then the 2 year age difference you're legally supposed to have as a 18 year old

[@imthebossmermaid3648]

That's gross, I'm glad you got out of there tho.

[@ginasta7575]

I'm 18 and I was seriously thinking this shit

[@myopinion3212]

I feel the same way with Diddy, yes Diddy call me out if you want and that guy from the Prince family (d&b nation)

[@mosesgarcia8971]

Im 18,and i cannot date any1 2 years younger than me,gross,1 year the max,ik girl tht r 16 moving in with 20 year olds,yes young ppl can be pedos to

[@jenniferwallace4618]

Thanks for sharing this.

[@jesseb280]

I think it’s more about grooming the young women. The older they are the more they can get into the younger womens head. Watch the video about the old dude in Florida that married his Goddaughter.. Its really messed up.

[@morganbean8477]

I just watched further and I feel like her comment made me feel like I wanted to amend the comment that the man said about her being younger and I think it is horrible!!!! I'm not very good at comebacks (unfortunately I'm one of those people that come back with come back a couple hours later LOL) I'm at disgusted about hearing it. 7:41........(also I will admit that I am watching your videos a little bit inebriated and trying to express myself while doing so and with my dyslexia it's not very easy so thank you for being patient with me)

[@petertarentaal734]

I dont even want a female under 22 and im 25 rn

[@jayguru1281]

The make up one was stretch, I like the make up but I like what I see when we wake up even more. I don’t see why some woman take as a diss.

[@tjr6900]

Yea that one was a bit wild, ofc not every guy that says a woman looks younger without it is a pedo, some guys like myself just like the more natural look bc of what we grew up seeing and that doesnt mean i'ma have a problem with them wearing make up tho, u do u

[@migwigpee0796]

Bc some men think women put it on for them when in reality it’s for the art itself. Not to please nobody

[@chanelnorth1785]

@@migwigpee0796 the art of altering your given look?

[@S6Ryujin]

@@migwigpee0796 women themselves aren’t clear on that either lol, they say that women do it because that’s what men and society at large want to see them doing, but then when men or people say they dont want it, they say it’s not for men or anyone else, just for themselves, it’s inconsistent

[@lovely1641]

But why should she have that when that should be reserved for her husband?

[@zephyr60078]

As a man-yeah I’ve been noticing this a lot as I get older and it is really weird, like a lot of guys really like this naive innocent acting little girl type personalities and I’ve always found it a little weird or odd Bc these girls (who are of age) act more like they’re 12 or 15 instead of their age and idk I just think it’s like weird

[@zephyr60078]

@@earthing3696 fr like Iam only 20 and I still found it weird talking to 18 year olds Bc the maturity level just didn’t click-I felt like a grown ass man talking to a high schooler even though we’re both in college and it’s only a 2 year difference-there’s worse age differences/situations I’ve seen out there

[@rashadgreviews1868]

Dee is my kinda woman. The total package 😍😘

[@DizzyDraco2002]

She not finna see this bruh

[@MidRangeBuckets]

@@DizzyDraco2002 and?

[@MULTIMEDIAKING94]

You literally dont even know her lol

[@AB3reyProductions]

Preach Brother, Preach!

[@rashadgreviews1868]

@@MULTIMEDIAKING94 So what....LIKE I SAID "My kinda woman" 💪🏾💪🏾

[@marierose444]

See as a 23 yr old woman.....and my boo is 50 lol his ex was 30 something but one thing is I let him know I'm grown I pay my own Bill's I have two jobs and who I am and what I do is for MY happiness he treats me accordingly...when you self respect no matter what once you see your WORTH you start seeing creeps and narcissistic behavior and mental manipulation not all men are like that but baby .....it ain't easy to be a woman PERIOD

[@Ennegro]

Who disliked this video ? Lmfaoo mmmmmm this video ain’t no lies. When I’d hang around straight guys I would genuinely think “ ew” y’all gross she’s in HS. And they had everyone reason why they’d look.

[@flighter7713]

As women gain more rights, pe_filoa increases to maintain power at all costs.

[@kene4151]

I think some of these women may be projecting a little bit. For the most, women are judged far more for their beauty and that has value attached to it and the more aesthetically pleasing your partner is ties to your value as a man for biological reasons

[@squiddlydiddly4411]

That’s exactly what I thought.

[@Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman]

@@DeezNutzzzzzzzzzzz Lol women are the villains to every story for you huh

[@Al7249]

That's fuckin insane dude. Really fucking gross and shit. Just....... really disturbing tbh.

[@jakeviouspollard9287]

Damn you were generally sad when you heard about Leo

[@antgal9467]

The makeup thing I disagree with... I prefer women without makeup but I usually only date older women.... Women in my family don't wear makeup that much so I grew up without

[@sedsa097]

The make up point is valid in the context in which it was mentioned.

[@sogokotowari]

I feel like the makeup one was kind reachin, I can admit that there are times we're it's exactly that, a very notable amount. However for me it's like if I can't hide you can't either, I wanna see what you look like when you don't try and if I like it, then I do. If I don't, then I don't at the end of the day you're gonna do you. I 100% fully agree with this video though and it makes me sick. If you can't handle what it takes to be with a real woman you shouldn't be in a relationship, and that's just the rub of it. Most men on the internet are teaching our sons that having a little girl for a wife is "cool" and makes you some sort of "Alpha", these types of men are extremely harmful because the weak minded ones look up to them like they have all the answers when they don't. I pray I raise my son to think for himself enough to see through the madness. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@teresam5199]

Makeup is not hiding...and if you are a man comparing yourself to women with regard to makeup, you're sus

[@MR.Rexx101]

Im just saying, I never once in my entire life heard someone say "You look younger w/o makeup." If anything I heard the opposite of that!

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

@@MR.Rexx101 I've heard that. Not to me personally but to some of my friends. I've heard it about young celebrities too. Like Kylie Jenner for example, people say she looks younger without makeup and that she looks close to mid 30's with it.

[@vssss9018]

@Teresa M No matter how much you sugar coat it makeup hides your real face. There is nothing wrong with his preference on not wanting a women with makeup, that is his right, if you dont like it then simply go find a man who does, and stop complaining about people who have their own preferences. You are being immature.

[@bigfellamike1913]

@@teresam5199 lmfaoo if you're a man who's comfortable with himself like god made you, you're regular. But if you expect a woman to be that same exact thing... you're "sus" according to you? lmao

[@davesenatus5566]

If you’re old and dating a super young person then yes. But for people around the same age, it shouldn’t matter how she looks.

[@juggernautcz5368]

,, Age of consent is 16 in some states" Me: But in Czech republic it is 15, you can drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes and drive a car at 18, and you can work a full - time job at 18

[@jaymar6821]

I want to see a Stan twitter meme of “I was BEATTT when you met me” 😂😂💀

[@hakimking6104]

Just want to point out its mostly the celebrities and men with money that want lil girls. Us regular men want grown woman with tiger strip stretch marks

[@leekv2622]

Imma be completely honest I haven’t heard a single nigga around my area talking about they want a skinny girl with no stretch marks and etc

[@Golden_Teapot]

That’s actually crazy cause im 20 and I prefer women in their 30s-40s lmao

[@Ramvilles316]

🤣🤣 I promise it's better for yall women out there, sheesh. We, as men, gotta do better.

[@evans8245]

Face it, beauty is a fleeting treasure. Most young men are ignored for ages and when they find themselves in the world as they age, they wanna have an endless reserve of youthful gals, granted the larger the age-gap the larger the creepiness, Its incredibly difficult to maintain or even gain attraction for older péople. The reason is simple, we all like beings who are in their prime because its easiest to be attracted to people who literally embody our ideals for spiritual, mental and physical aesthetics. Some women notice their beauty fading and they resent the fact that they gotta compete in the market for people who are interested in younger gals than them

[@bigfellamike1913]

@@leilanirose3274 A mans goal is to spread his seed, he's not checking for the older woman who isn't fertile even if he's 60... because he can still shoot em off lmfao

[@theworstcatholic7247]

@@leilanirose3274 So you just going to ignore all science and biology over this? Men are designed to be attracted to fertility. Fertility comes with youth(to a certain degree, obviously after puberty, which would be around 16-18, hence it being the general age of consent for most countries). It has nothing to do with mental strength. You know what is true though? We do stop feeling a major amount of attraction towards women by around 30, that is true, but it's a biological reason. Fertility. Over 98% of your eggs are gone by the age of 30. 98%. The healthiest pregnancies happen within the early to mid 20s. This is a fact. Men aren't attracted to fat women, why? Because it can and does cause pregnancy complications including miscarriages. Men prefer lighter voices and less hair, why? Because we prefer women, not men. Men have deeper voices and more hair, therefore the less like us you are, the more we like it. SHOCKING. Someone doesn't become a child when there's an age gap, someone doesn't become a child when they are immature mentally or naive. Someone doesn't stop being an adult just because they date someone older. Also there are plenty of strong willed young women. However one point against older women mentally speaking is that you are more jaded and cynical, especially towards the opposite gender. Which you are proving here. However men do prefer more submissive girls, just like women prefer assertive men. Reason why? It's not control. It's because we prefer an easy life rather than a nagging life. We prefer a supportive and compassionate woman, then one that vilifies and condemns male sexuality because we dare be attracted to adults that are younger than you. You are denying science more than anti-vaxers by saying shit like that. Men prefer youthful ADULT women because it's fertile. Men prefer fit and voluptuous women because it's fertile. Men prefer submissive and feminine women, because it's less male like. We don't want to date little girls, we want to date women, we just don't want to date manly or old women, and the only reason older men can date younger women while older women can't, is because younger women are all for it. Which is something this discussion always ignores.

[@heartofvanillaice7443]

The whole make up thing it’s definitely not because it makes you look younger without it, I like girls without make up because it looks natural if anything most people look older without make up. That being said, you all have the right to wear anything you want.

[@kekewhatever]

Thanks I’m wearing it anyways 😂

[@jayadams6910]

I was about to say this. My wife actually looks older without makeup and I prefer that. For me, makeup makes a lot of woman look younger and like a plastic doll, so from what I see its the flip of what was said. Shes gonna wear what she wants and I have no problem with that. That make up thing is news to me. Never really heard of that one.

[@kekewhatever]

@Green G eh I’ve actually date one guy that made me throw most of my make up out so yeah lol

[@kene4151]

Preach. Honestly heavy makeup is a personal turn off

[@itsmem3]

@@kekewhatever Wait what? He MADE you throw your makeup away? How old are you? lol

[@GW-ed2we]

I’m a teen girl and it makes me so sad and disgusted whenever older men try to hit on me or when they approach me in general :/

[@shansalesman10]

I understand there's alot men who like younger women, even sick ones who like girls under 18. But the video Dee's watching demonstrates the lack of women calling out women. Women in general say they're more mature than men, so therefore a good percentage of them go after older men; sometimes alot older. Countless women under 18 lie about their age when encountering older men they may want.

[@ghost51085]

That chick with the red hair makes no sense. How is a guy accused of liking young girls because he tells a girl to take her makeup off. If a girl is 25 but looks 30 with makeup on and I tell her to take the makeup off, I'm attracted to young girls all of sudden. A girl's face without makeup is her natural look. If makeup didn't exist, would all guys be be accused of liking younger women or would no one care.

[@imthebossmermaid3648]

Clearly you missed the part where he was talking to a 17 yo.

[@daetyme998]

some men go overseas to get what they want, for some reason, people over there allow men with money to get with very young girls, I think it is a control issue; look at Sailor Moon, the men there like the school girl look, the body is young, and firm SMH!!

[@gizmomeredith]

Idk about the stretch mark thing, because I know some thick women who take care of their skin and don't have stretch marks. 🤔

[@teababy2810]

Having stretch has marks doesn’t mean you don’t take care of your skin. And there’s nothing wrong with having them but some girls can avoid them/get rid but some can do everything and still have them. It’s just a preference

[@justlissa8192]

I’ve had stretch marks since I was 13 years old, I went from being super skinny to having wide hips and thighs, it literally depends, each person body reacts differently to skin stretching 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@gdesiree29]

You're so dumb. Stretch marks is when your skin can't keep up with the growth so it stretches

[@teababy2810]

@@gdesiree29 re read my comment. I know what stretch marks are. I’m saying some can get rid of them and some can’t but that’s okay! It’s natural!

[@nnachi9203]

That one white lady definitely projecting, the one with make up doing it too.

[@oniz1000]

Modern women equals high milage, high body count! Sooo... Young girls, how young we talking it all depends!

[@oniz1000]

@@earthing3696 real talk...

[@A.R.DaVision]

I'm not saying anyone in this video is wrong but also don't ignore the fact alot of women want a man that can take care of all their needs ( and mean all) as if their daddy or something. That a lot of what I been seeing most of the time.

[@sashn2108]

This has nothing do with the video

[@A.R.DaVision]

@@sashn2108 actually it does because it's grafted into young women to be with man that can take care of them. As of now most women make more money than men of the same age range .

[@sashn2108]

@@A.R.DaVision no it doesn’t

[@A.R.DaVision]

@@sashn2108 how? Young men/women goes after older women/men is just as bad as the other way around

[@jerryjohnson2741]

@@sashn2108 yes it does

[@Iron_Dub]

I just want an average looking girl with a good personality. I’m 17 btw and slightly below average in looks and I have a decent personality

[@dundee7631]

I would recommend upping that confidence

[@michaeljordan7733]

I'm a man and since I was 17-18 years old I was and still is attracted to older women

[@jerryjohnson2741]

with the logic used here in the video, you were attracted to creepy women, who are okay with dating a barely legal teen boy, considering you were 17/18.

[@michaeljordan7733]

@@jerryjohnson2741 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

[@jerryjohnson2741]

@@michaeljordan7733 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@TheUKisThere]

If someone wants to wear makeup that’s fine. But saying someone also looks nice without is also okay. There’s nothing to be defensive about. And for me, it’s not about youthful. It’s more about me being okay with the natural human look. I’ve never told anyone to their face and have no intention of doing so, but I do try to appreciate the way we look, to begin with. It’s similar to the whole “stretch marks” thing.

[@TheUKisThere]

Also, this is me. I don’t speak for other men.

[@imthebossmermaid3648]

I doubt you even know what a natural look even is.

[@TheUKisThere]

@@imthebossmermaid3648 what the heck are you even on about? Get out of here lol.

[@imthebossmermaid3648]

@@TheUKisThere What an intelligent response. 🙄 Men say they want natural-looking women but what they really want is a woman who wears makeup that goes for a "natural" look. Y'all see us with our bare faces and think we're either ugly, mannish, or sick lmfao *you* GTFOH.

[@morganbean8477]

Women look beautiful with or without makeup. Some women for me, look even more beautiful without makeup even though I know they also look beautiful with makeup. I don't know if men have the same feeling. Right now I'm at 7: 30

[@jesuscuzz7299]

This shit is hilarious 😭💀

[@jhayabusa9344]

Vetting of the weirdos is required.

[@bigahk86]

She triggering me by keep saying woman...😑😑🗣 its women! How you get children right but not women 🤷🏾‍♂️🤣🤣 ...that's just some of the funny parts I disagree with...I can could make a mean rebuttal against this 😄

[@daddyishere1908]

The “a lot part" needs to be removed I like older girls

[@tman4090]

as true as it is for alot of men to prey on younger girls.. As a man myself I think its strictly preference in any other case.. Because when man dates a girl anywhere from 8-20 years younger than him he is shamed but when a woman does it its oh let her live her life and leave her alone.... As far as older people preying on younger its the same way.... they say its the patriarchy but dont realize how much power women really have over men in this world, yeah men in the same proffession may make more money in todays society but thats a different story.......Honestly a big double standard alot of women dont understand . Which is another reason why men have all these standards for women, Because its the same way with women having alot of standards on men, It might sound like these tiktokers are saying something but they are in fact not , they just happen to find a video they agreed with and stitched it without thinking heavily about it.

[@squiddlydiddly4411]

I hope that one video wasn’t trying to say that being 37 and dating a 22 year old is wrong🤔it’s legal and there’s nothing weird about that and if you think there is then you’re just straw manning. Being over 20 definitely makes you legal.

[@H8theartist]

You ain get the point at all lmao

[@squiddlydiddly4411]

@@H8theartist yeah I do get the point but that woman was counting from 16 to 22 like wtf💀22 isn’t barely legal. You’re more than legal at that point.

[@squiddlydiddly4411]

@@earthing3696 I’m not sure what made you convinced of that cause it wasn’t anything I said in this comment so thank you😁

[@teababy2810]

Just bc something is legal doesn’t make it right.

[@squiddlydiddly4411]

@@teababy2810 there’s nothing wrong about the age gap I provided. You’re just applying something to the topic that has nothing to do with it.

[@lol-ot4pn]

If its patriarchal why does it also exist for older women? Or even homosexual older men to younger boys.

[@snowchymes4399]

As a 19 yo I didint have a lot of options but now as only 5 years older there coming from way younger than me. Why as a Young men do we get no attention from same age women, I asked my copartner and mentor about this (Age 70 married to 46 Wife) and he said young men have little value to young women. Young men have nothing at young age and its only as they get older and acquire security in life that they start to get attention.He said that it was also like that in his younger days until he hit about 33yo and started his business and not mind the internet and just chose who I like because I'm stable enough to take care of anyone I choose.