I'm fat and that's ok

[@miroslavsaral8218]

Girl your eyes were hypnotizing me the whole time o.o

[@HeyyItsShae_]

Period!! It’s the same thing as a bikini body is a body in a bikini. No need to conform to one persons standard, just live 🥰

[@CarmelNicoleBeauty]

Thank you for sharing! I can completely relate to your experiences. My mindset only really changed once I had my first child. Then I realised how amazing my body actually was! I think those worries always remain, some of us just learn how to control them. Such an interesting commentary, thanks for this 🩷

[@HeyyItsShae_]

And that’s so true. We probably will hold on to all those thoughts but working through them is key. Thank you for watching 🥰

[@laela6289]

It disturbs me how the West (particularly, western women) have turned self-love into enabling and passivity. As a woman, its just really sad that I can mostly relate with other guys in terms of going to the gym, training, getting stronger, and fitter and meal preping than I can with other women, who openly celebrate in overindulging.

[@HeyyItsShae_]

I think there might be a better way to phrase this without bringing down women. It isn't the overindulging that is the root issue. A lot of women cope with their pressures through food because there is something missing. It is important to show compassion and not try and present one person or gender as better than the next.

[@tellercamille8080]

i have pcos so i will never have a flat stomach. i just try to counter it by having proprotionally bigger arms and legs from gyming. i dont think ill ever get over my ED unless i become too poor to buy snacks

[@HeyyItsShae_]

And that’s ok! As long as you’re comfortable and staying healthy a flat stomach doesn’t matter 🥰

[@diamondsandgoldenjewels]

As a teen I struggled with bulimia. Although I always felt it was a mental release, a coping mechanism to help me through angsty teen life aha (I was bullied a lot aha) And I remember as well, that first comment when someone told me I looked like I lost weight. It quickly escalated the necessity of doing it more and more. Anyway.... As a 27 yr old woman, I do struggle with binge eating. Honestly i think it's because I don't feel hungry or think about food throughout the day, but by 7pm I feel RAVENOUS and suddenly I want to eat everything in my house. I've tried to figure out ways to change this habit, and I think I struggle because my brain doesn't know what it feels like to feel full. Like being full from hunger means hurting a little, or my stomach is literally too full that I couldn't poSsiBLy eat more. Aha But as I go through this journey of healing, it's always nice to hear other people speak about their experiences. So thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us. :) And unrelated to the video, but I adore your eye makeup :)

[@HeyyItsShae_]

I totally feel you on that. I’ll almost crave the hunger because then I’ll feel “skinny” but then by the time the sun sets I’ve eaten everything and feel like garbage. I’ve tried to snack on fruit now and that has really helped me because it gives me a sweet surge. Thanks so much!! One of my fave looks I’ve done 🥰

[@nancyvalentin7851]

I swear the early 2000s were absolute hell. I remember Jessica Simpson got called fat and now that I look back I'm angry. She was so small.

[@HeyyItsShae_]

everyone was being called all kinds of awful things for no reason. A woman cant live without being criticized.

[@damilolaadebayo8236]

Please how are your videos so clear??😂

[@HeyyItsShae_]

I use a pretty great camera that shoots in 4k!