“I’m Friends With My Ex Boyfriends”

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[@jim-se5xc]

You'd be a good lawyer.

[@SiamoonMoon]

Huge red flag. The past is as it presented in the past

[@kronosbystander]

I once had a girlfriend who was quite proud of the fact that she was friends with ALL of her ex boyfriends. Well I broke that trend for her.

[@John-ih7gp]

Hah! Same here, a few months ago. Literally her only ex who broke communication from her

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

let's hope you broke that trend because the more likely thing that happened is she still stays in contact with them and doesn't tell you about it.

[@beetleything1864]

Legend !!!!

[@jwill9877]

​@@nickdipaolofan5948he's saying he broke the trend by breaking up with her and not being another ex who is friends with her.

[@roscoefields-li9cs]

Most of these men she is still friends with are guys she dumped or she did them dirty while in a relationship with them. These men won't cut ties with her hoping to get another chance later. And then you have the friends with benefits dudes she aquired while riding the cock couresel.All these men in these two categories should be memories if anything. Now days gentleman if you get on a woman's social media friends list there's men on there she's slept with. I call it the "Wall of Shame." This only goes to show a promiscuous woman can never bond with one man, but rather seeks the attention of many. I'm not friends with any of my EX's...don't want to end up on that" Wall of Shame"!

[@lovewhitey4462]

Huge Red Flag 🚩🚨🚨

[@salguodrolyat2594]

Females in the western world are red flags.🤣

[@wilkinsnl]

Is there a button where I can give this comment 10000 thumbs up

[@stranahanhigh8910]

Ya think.....????😂

[@NoOne-hq9cp]

Olympic size flag

[@aaronsalter5596]

She’s trying so hard. EX gfs are the easiest to sleep with.

[@w.s.2102]

Nose ring, tattoos, argumentative, male "friends" = NO THANKS

[@Ash-iv6dj]

What you was meant to say the farm animal look, bumper stickers, truckers mouth and secret pleasures.

[@Gunsight-One]

She was super reluctant to even contemplate the idea of ejecting all of her male orbiters over a man that ticked off all her other boxes. Prime example of a woman who will always be perpetually single without ever realizing why.

[@1younglock]

Exactly

[@juliend9495]

She belongs to the streets

[@David-wo9un]

Prime example of someone wanting her cake and eating it too!

[@timothygibney159]

There are 12 other orbiters behind Richard who are simps trying to get her to like them. She knows so why should she care?

[@bradley5973]

My ex got mad when i asked her to delete her ex's when we were together and she said she didnt want to hurt there feelings yet when we broke up she blocked me as soon as we were over 😂 dont fall for it guys

[@roscoefields-li9cs]

She didn't want to loose her f**k buddies to fall back on. Been in the same situation many times just like you.Modern women use these tactics to survive a cruel & unfriendly world. They use these men for sex, working on their cars, borrowing money, a shoulder to cry on, basically their around for a reason. Ralph might get a hand job for fixing her plumbing,she will let George bend her over a chair if he fixes her S.U.V. And the 300 # fat guy who lives with his mom down the street, who mows her grass & shovels the snow in her driveway for free because she flirts with him. These men you can run off, if you have the same labor intensive skills as they have. But Chad & Tyrone who she got nasty with & loved them blowing her back out is a different story. Promiscuous women usually have the same M.O.,when she cheats it might be a nabor or a co-worker but 9 chances out 10 it's going to be a man from her past. You did yourself a favor by parting ways!

[@arthurdevrome8925]

Chad always wins.

[@jaystevens8615]

that's immediate expulsion from any women I've been with

[@malone4735]

Nobody Bangs More Wives & Girlfriend Than The “Just a Friend” Guy -Rich Cooper 💯💊

[@therealjulez7886]

facts!

[@Ka_Gg]

hahahaahah. Never heard that saying but it's true.

[@JetShanghai]

They even made a song about these guys. You, you got what I need She said he's just a friend (x2)

[@dh12.]

A woman covered in ink screams hidden issues.

[@itadakihokkaido4305]

Mental Issues 1,000%

[@thegreatmightyd]

She wears all her mental problems on her skin.

[@briandiggs3508]

And shes a Nurse. Top 3 cheating professions for a woman

[@joeimbesi5361]

And that stupid nose ring!

[@rogerthornhill1491]

Not hidden, ‘advertised’?

[@Blaiyan]

Looking for a loophole but she knows it's wrong and unhealthy.

[@luckypapi87]

Amazing how some women believe keeping ex's around isn't a problem and therefore the man they'd want to date shouldn't have the problem either. I'd never date a woman who thought like this or did this.

[@Matt-tt4cu]

I'd say most are like this. It's a safety blanket for their postmodern lazy ass ego's to keep non-related men that wanna fuck them around - for the validation on demand. Even 100% gay men will still give them that IRL validation (minus the sex part), and the woman doesn't have to do ANYTHING for it - with the straight guys she has to give them some hope at the minimum. Same thing for a woman's social media (majority of followers are thirsty men), although that's giving them only half-measures of validation, hence why they (women) get addicted to it at such higher rates. And you are 100000000000000000% correct in not dating women like this. If any adversity were to hit, like a mild argument that left her upset/angry with you, she has a roster of shoulders to cry on......... and we all know how the rest of that saying goes.

[@itsdavincidavinci]

The biggest red flag ever and im saying this from experience. Never date a woman that still talks an ex, NEVER.

[@thegreatmightyd]

"You don't have to worry about him, he's just my friend now"

[@fauxbro1983]

Lol. "I'm having a drink with an ex." Yeah that'll go well.

[@janetf3377]

I have been with my husband for 26 years. That would be very disrespectful of me to keep my boyfriends from the past around. Life is about our family. My devotion is to my husband and children, not to my ex boyfriends.

[@Leonhart_93]

Right, can you even imagine what goes through their head when they act like it's a very difficult decision to cut ties with exes? I bet family and stability is not on their mind there.

[@FRANCISPOLLARD-r3p]

Exactly.

[@jamespropane369]

Any guy that puts up with this is out of his mind. The only reason a guy would want to stay friends is they didn't want to break up in the first place or they are keeping the eventual hook up on ice. There's no point of asking her to cut them off. The fact that she didn't cut them off herself is enough to know she is keeping guys on the bench until it's time to start.

[@Leonhart_93]

Ex GFs sleeping with old boyfriends, one of the most common stories in the world. Don't fall for it men, she is trying to keep her options open, whether it's conscious or subconscious.

[@roscoefields-li9cs]

Absolutely right my friend.... there's an old saying that describes women like this that can't just say the truth "Don't piss down my back, & tell me it's raining".women luv using double talk in their vocabulary.

[@Leonhart_93]

​@@roscoefields-li9cs They learned early that their words are their best weapon against men, since they can't compare physically. Expect they will use those words in all manner of ways to get what they want. Another common trick is to shame men to make them feel guilty for easier manipulation.

[@peplsuk7635]

Every guy they've ever screwed is still in her phone, you can trust her.

[@gregprince5283]

How narcissistic can you be not taking into consideration how your actions might affect someone else's feelings. Why would any man feel good about you not being fully invested in him? Why would he feel comfortable with her hanging out with her ex?

[@GBU61]

I believe it was Tate who posed the question “would your father be ok allowing your mother to go clubbing, girls weekends to Vegas and do on?” Wives, in healthy marriages, do not act like a single woman.

[@KingLouisDaSaint]

I never ask em If they have male friends, I just don’t take em seriously

[@MatthewWhitty-fk5rq]

Exactly. That's confidence.

[@devinjeffrey275]

Rich is so patient. My hat is off to you man! 🙏🏼

[@inquisitor4635]

Tatts and facial/nose piercings always an instant no for me. No exceptions.

[@Danielle.0000]

Never trust a man or woman who is still friends with prior intimate partners, doesn’t matter of it was serious, fwb or happened one time. When you get into something serious with someone, all ex’s must be cut out completely, period! If not, then it won’t work.

[@FBICPS]

Tats = red flags!!! 🤮

[@wilkinsnl]

I will admit, I fell for this bullshit before. Now that I know things, never again.

[@Raptured_and_back]

There you go bro

[@donhurley5584]

Apparently at some point Kandice mentioned something about loving to travel. I noticed that women say this often and you see this statement “luv to travel” a lot on dating apps. This, fellas, is a window to a woman’s soul. They are never content. This is why the “I luv to travel” statement is so prevalent among women. Constantly searching, constantly exploring only to discover what they are looking for in most cases does not exist or cannot exist due to their very own thought process of “something better is out there and I must find it”. They are a victim of an illogical mind. Never content because of emotions they cannot control. These emotions skew their thought process and leads them down a path of unhappiness and mediocrity. If I’m wrong, why are so many on medication? They need to be lead but don’t want to be lead. I feel sorry for them, they are handicapped.

[@fredflintstone8569]

I used to feel sorry for them. I don't anymore.

[@YZEtc]

Kandice, the girl at the top center of the shot, gives me the idea that she would see nothing wrong with making out or bedding down with an "old friend" while in a supposedly exclusive relationship. This is because since they are "just a friend", it's not actually cheating. Of course, she's going to break her own rule she said in this clip by not telling her man exactly what she's done.

[@Matt-tt4cu]

She might not just trip and fall on another man's dick without anything prompting her... But she'll certainly take it for a ride if there's any adversity in her primary relationship. "A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on" is not a new concept lol

[@LatimusChadimus]

5:07 boundaries are not up for conversation, they aren't up for debate and compromise, they are boundaries. It's funny how women think they are in control things that they have no control over

[@tomdrummy4984]

Friends with ex? Ok, bye bye 👋

[@UncleBen-h2y]

Women simply can’t see that these guys are just pretending to be her friend so they can get into her pants at some point. It’s amazing to me!

[@VilleHaapanen]

Deep down they know it and like it.

[@Raptured_and_back]

Here is the thing. The guy she and every other chick wants will have firm boundaries that she cant cross. No guy friend of a girl is ever just a friend, and she is trying to excuse her way around the issue. Women's loyalty only exists to the extent that the man tolerates no bs. If he tolerates her bad behavior, she wont be loyal to him, she wont respect him, and she wont want him.

[@seven92023]

Friends with ex 🚩friends with men 🚩tattooed nurse with nose piercing 🚩🚨

[@David-wo9un]

She is being dishonest saying she would be ok with it; she wants to justify keeping “friends” around. The relationship ended for a reason, if you still want him around, why even end the relationship?

[@Matt-tt4cu]

She wants the validation, that's why. She probably has next to nothing going for herself in life - hence traveling also being a high priority for her. Looking forward to that, and her orbiters, is what gets her by.

[@robertromero8094]

He ended it, and she sleeps with him here and there hoping he stays, but why would he. He left for a reason.

[@Slickvic968]

She is forgetting about the emotion factor. She can’t divvy up between two or three guys. I call foul on other dudes having access in my monogamous relationship, potentially being prioritized over me. Something is wrong at the core here.

[@antonthemanton3065]

The rebuttal is "Well I may want to hang out with my ex wife or ex girlfriend once in a while for dinner, or parties." If she is cool with that, then she is an idiot, or she knows she is going to cheat on you down the line...

[@briandiggs3508]

Leave them Nurses alone.

[@R0LLiND33P]

her: my ex is my fri... me: n'thanks

[@LariviereChannel]

It’s almost like it’s not in a woman’s nature to do what’s morally and respectfully right. They do what’s right for them. But expect the man also to do what’s right for only her. They are extremely self focused

[@jacktriggs6465]

Exactly this, the amount of "guy friends" women have while in relationships, turn that the other way round and they would break up with tye guy immediately

[@BucketheadChuck]

Women are extremely solipsistic. They’re incapable of seeing beyond their own internal experience. “Understanding” others is impossible for them

[@joebravetti3023]

Just look at the the girl, she screams unstable. Nose ring, tattoo sleeve, and wearing a red apron? Stay 6 ft away at all times.

[@briandiggs3508]

And a nurse

[@joebravetti3023]

@@briandiggs3508 HAHAHA universal fact stay away from nurses.

[@adohmnail6445]

Kandice just wants to be ran through till she ends up alone. She doesn't understand.

[@timothyrosman6371]

Willing to cut the guys out of the friendzone if the "right guy" comes along. So it is purely based on the caliber of man who asks and not her own boundaries or preferences.

[@timothygibney159]

When we set a boundary we are controlling. When she sets a boundary she is empowered

[@LatimusChadimus]

Title: aka "I'm a luuzer and I make terrible choices because I wasn't allowed to have a father and I was never told no"

[@danabelcher9891]

Well, if you're not first, your last. No future with old boyfriends in tow. Find a better exclusive, dedicated companion. That is another form of excellence to chase.

[@theanabolicviking]

Accommodations for past flames never work out well for the person doing the accommodating.

[@needmoney666]

Either she puts the new boyfriend first or not. If not he needs to end it.

[@Youngboss1024]

Kandice will continuously be run through by many more dudes, and unfortunately will die alone with her 15 cats.

[@ward7576]

This, what she describes on 3:15, is the basis for which she won't want to block these men, as I have noticed, as in - she would say "well, I tell you that we would only get coffee together, so why should I block him if we only got coffee and nothing happened?"

[@frozenoceanyoshimitsu6355]

After all of the ‘splaining and verbal gymnastics, she finally answered the question almost six minutes in 😂

[@willyhwang1059]

my ex tried to keep me as a friend sorry homie dont play that

[@garypelled6243]

She is so full of BS. She would freak out if a man she truly cared about, would not let go of his other women.

[@carlosalexander6448]

A lot or women tend to this if the proverbial “public eye” is on them at that moment, but once they’re behind closed doors & the “cameras” are off, you see exactly the same behavior you mentioned come to light. Ladies like to keep up these appearances because their social standing depends on it - even though a lady covered in tats and a nose ring already has significantly diminished ironically.

[@Drifter-tw4kt]

That male friend will always be more of a priority than you

[@karenoyama8950]

Past performance is a good indicator of future performance. Check the track record. ❤

[@NUKEzx10r]

Excuses. Gone. Boundaries. We all step up, it's a win for all. Have a great weekend!

[@beetleything1864]

Well just tell them your going for dinner / drinks tomorrow night with one of your ex girlfriends as you keep in touch with her and still really like each other - watch her reaction to that shit............

[@matrixbeastreloaded]

Yeah she’s a walking red flag. She has most of the red flags to walk away from. Her tone seems nice but sounds gullible and like some girls I’d have to explain stuff to that they wouldn’t believe me.

[@gerardoa9179]

Women need "friends" to lend them money, for attention, validation, errands, lend the car, use them as taxidrivers

[@Eric-kn4yn]

100%🎯

[@ravendronesolutions]

Solid no. Ask any woman if her man was still good friends with his ex how they would see it. They wouldn't be ok with it at all.

[@larryd9549]

Her hesitation tells you all she need to know. An Ex is someone your partner (male or female) can use as leverage to modify your behavior. Example - "Well, so-and-so thinks I'm right..." That's your clue that if don't agree with whatever they'll someone who will...

[@LifeTheExperience]

Would've loved to stay in touch with my ex-wife, but she went full on no contact. Probably for the best because I still have feelings.

[@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746]

Fellas, beware the soft innocent voice

[@shirtlesslager]

She talks like a dumb high school girl.

[@steveb8269]

Nose ring =red flag

[@JohnSkyLey]

Especially that bull ring, absolutely the worst lol

[@imheretochewbubblegum]

To every "Kandice" out there. If you meat prince charming and he has any self respect, it is him or them, you cannot get both.

[@itadakihokkaido4305]

Kandice is just the run of the mill "town bicycle" that can't & won't let go!!!! EMOTIONAL DAMAGED!

[@David-wo9un]

Town bicycle; love it!! It would be interesting to know how many have taken a ride; I am willing to bet triple digits.

[@dr.d3011]

I really hope that he gets through to that one girl. She really needs help, she seems like she comes to an understanding, but with women you never know

[@therealjulez7886]

friends with an ex bf still? Oh u mean a Peen in a glass jar u open when there's an emergency...

[@briandiggs3508]

She definitely banging her ex who comes on those family trips

[@mynock250]

These ladies are scary.

[@dinerotranquilo]

They want it all. Men hold the line. You have have earned it.

[@rebeccabrogden4971]

If your man (of 3 months) he is ny boyfriend and says he loves me, But keeps contact with his ex? Lives in her flat? Any help is appreciated.

[@daveblackman816]

Yikes. Time to run away. Not good at all.

[@burtongrimes2227]

My exes hate my guts

[@TheWinterShadow]

The most dangerous woman in the world is a woman who believes trust is given instead of being earned. - Me

[@mokeshe_robbi6828]

The Red dress is in her delulu mode! 😂😂😅😅

[@jasonbear1336]

The streets are calling!

[@DanielwKlasson]

Women in relationships can't have any male friends at all

[@Matt-tt4cu]

Best to figure this out before you even meet her (assuming dating apps are being used). Just work the question nonchalantly. Don't be dumb - have a real conversation with the chick. She'll be thrilled that she's having a real conversation, and not the typical "wanna come over and hang out durrrrrrr." Just don't lead her on to the answer you are looking for until she answers. If she gives you the correct answer, pry a little and manipulate her into letting her guard down (make it seem like you don't care if she has exes/guy friends around). Find out if the correct answer is actually the truth. If it's not, or she gave you the wrong answer up front, don't waste your time and money taking her out UNLESS you just wanna smash it for a bit (make sure she's on bc and/or bag it) while you look for a less deranged/irrational woman to explore something serious with.

[@robertc8176]

My ears hurt....bad

[@jackduplechain7592]

She really wants that back up plan, Rich!

[@stuford]

I think Aubri has the right view of things and seems a really nice woman!

[@Mancer1980]

Rich why weren’t you around when I was in my early 20s?

[@stevendarbouze465]

When girls hang with ther ex boyfriend there is still some connection Somehow that makes it somewhat ok for her to messs with him sexually. And if not sexual than get emotional mushy or flirty with them and maybe get back together.

[@sauceboss7165]

She understands Rich’s points clearly but she doesn’t want to admit it, it seems

[@bkeepr4246]

The thing is, she should be automatically removing all other men from her life. If she truly deeply desires you then she will be totally focused on you and be very fearful of causing an issue that would lead you to dumping her. If you are having to have this discussion then she is low value, uneducated in the moral requirements of a good man and really doesn't want you... just what can provide. She should already know you don't tolerate other men around her because you should have enquired after the 2nd or 3rd date about if she is seeing other men. This is not about claiming her or getting her into an exclusive relationship already. This is a standard that you only date girls who are not sluts (don't use that word of course), tell her you not interested in joining her stud parade for selection, you only date girls who really are single, so if she becomes so in the future, then give you a call. Carry on dating a girl who is dealing with other men and you are telling her that you donot see yourself as worthy of being special, you are just a run of the mill guy. And you are ok with her having multiple men at once... you can't be surprised when she continues with that behaviour after you become "exclusive". Remember, to girls, what is yours is hers and what is hers is hers- that includes the concept of exclusivity, it applies to you only.

[@dalewhite5152]

I like how Rich listens but is thinking to himself.."this is straight BS"

[@Jakobslander]

These dilemmas are funny because exes being around is something that only women trivialize. Like if you have a drug addiction problem and go to rehab, the first thing you will be told, if recovering is the goal, is to drop any and all people associated to the addiction. It's not debatable or negotiable, it's a must. Yet, when it comes to women and their tendency to live in lala land, as well as their hypergamic tendencies, they choose to make proximity to exes something trivial. Well, TRIVIAL IT AIN'T!

[@councilestatelife]

Why would your ex be on your family vaction unless you invited him, that makes no sense

[@merdog3190]

This is another great feminist egalitarian idea that sounds good on paper but is disastrous in real life. Any man that's honest with himself does not want attractive female friends much less ones that he slept with before If he's trying to be in a monogamous relationship. It's pure denial of basic human sexuality bordering on insanity. The best case scenario is it's ignorance, the worst case scenario is it's keeping options open, and the truth is somewhere in the middle the majority of the time sliding toward keeping your options open depending how the relationshit is going. It is a relationshit.

[@stevenbrooks1243]

Lol oh ya I wouldn't even bother with that shit you can keep her 👌

[@josephrodriguez5200]

That girl is a lifer pump and dump

[@shirtlesslager]

No pump, lots of dump. This is not a bikini model.

[@EMCMCoaching]

and then u ask her: did you leave them or they left you? "I left all of them" and now she s giving up on "the one" brainless

[@GBU61]

Question to Kandice. If we are serious and she won’t let these guys go then that means she will be cool if she pays all the bills, assumes all the traditional male duties plus will allow me to see women from my past? What she really wants is some beta male weakling who she can control. She would be great for a side chick who I can string along and take on a weekend but that is all she gets. What man who has options (which is the guy she really wants) would take her seriously?

[@Ka_Gg]

You know a girl is going to lie or agrees with you but doesn't want to admit it when they pause for several seconds. Kandice does that crap so much then tries to think of a more extreme example to set the rule. Most people would use the regular examples to set the rule and then maybe adapt the rule to very rare/extreme situations. Also, arm sleeve tattoo and wearing an outfit that makes her look like a Barista. Easy pass.

[@Mcbevhills]

Kandice is a walking 🚩🚩🚩

[@scotthunt3860]

When Kandice talks about she thinks it’s fine aslong as you’re open and not secretive about it . I do wonder if that’s the first thing on her mind to tell a new guy she’s interested in ? Or does she just let him find out ? She’s a massive red flag 🚩

[@Piranha5150]

She would make a perfect side chick. Nothing more

[@sutats]

Oh Kandice.

[@damienfowler2358]

If her life and family is so intertwined that her ex is at family events, that's the guy she should marry. That's how it's been done for thousands of years. Its yhese modern women who give up stability, familiarity and what works for the temporary tingles.

[@randallbenedict8144]

RED FLAG!

[@Rence38]

For the streets

[@mezofit]

This Kandice girl .. spider web of nightmares dating her... pre-order 3 cats on a black friday discount..

[@kyprisdragonscale257]

that Kandice is so gulibble , that insane

[@jonathanLToronto]

Delusional