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Why Ex Girlfriends Contact Men & Why YOU Should Ignore Them

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Ex girlfriends contact men when you become better. Chase excellence, not women, and this will happen, comment below with your experiences.
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@EntrepreneursInCars
@EntrepreneursInCars 4 жыл бұрын
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@boyar1978
@boyar1978 4 жыл бұрын
why don't i just get some NaOH and some used cooking oil and make my own handmade soap. I am stuck at home thanks to the pandemic and might as well recycle something I would otherwise throw away.
@JustKnowz
@JustKnowz 4 жыл бұрын
:D LMFAO
@MikeJones-pf4wd
@MikeJones-pf4wd 4 жыл бұрын
Ex new boyfriend looks similar to me lol SMH!
@boyar1978
@boyar1978 4 жыл бұрын
@@nathan2813 my ex replaced me with a fat old bald guy who looks like he is going to fall over drunk. Then again she quit high school so she could travel to Malaysia so one could truly question her decision-making capabilities.
@erxfav3197
@erxfav3197 4 жыл бұрын
Entrepreneurs in Cars regarding hypergamy.. don’t us men do that too though? Aren’t we always looking to see if we can get someone better? Why does everyone say women are at fault in this when we also do so? Isn’t it a sort of checks and balances? Please correct me if I’m in error somewhere
@iAMJaws
@iAMJaws 4 жыл бұрын
"Don't kill them with kindness, torture them with success." - Goggins
@raw_si_siht
@raw_si_siht 4 жыл бұрын
WHO'S GONNA CARRY THE BOATS?!?!?!
@jft2nd
@jft2nd 4 жыл бұрын
@CHC4669 did this to my ex, she saw me looking good dressed up and going to college to play sports when me and her broke u0 and she replied so cold and angry I can tell she was pissed😂😂
@thecowboy9698
@thecowboy9698 4 жыл бұрын
The best revenge is living well
@Dance1617
@Dance1617 4 жыл бұрын
Depends, always gotta take into consideration who you're taking advice from. David goggins is an EXTREMELY introverted dude. He doesn't get along with most people. Maybe a good strategy for him, but if you are extroverted and like having amicable relationships it's not good advice. You don't have to do anything but be excellent. Set your boundaries and ditch people who aren't good to you. Simple.
@SCheco3
@SCheco3 3 жыл бұрын
And if you don't succeed? You're going to look really stupid, just do it for you and a few close people, not the bitches.
@aboutdoorsman4695
@aboutdoorsman4695 3 жыл бұрын
Never go back to old jobs or old girlfriends. There is a reason you left.
@tommak6516
@tommak6516 3 жыл бұрын
I have never heard of anybody going back to an old job?
@someonesomeone25
@someonesomeone25 3 жыл бұрын
If you have an ex-girlfriend you learned by experience. If you have ex-girlfriendS then you're a masochist.
@ainsleyreid1848
@ainsleyreid1848 3 жыл бұрын
@@someonesomeone25 Wym
@someonesomeone25
@someonesomeone25 3 жыл бұрын
@@ainsleyreid1848 Its understandable that from a place of ignorance you try a relationship, find it horrid, and break up. That is a learning experience. But if you have another relationship then that's just asking for trouble again, like putting your hand back into the fire after once being burned. Its masochistic to do that.
@ainsleyreid1848
@ainsleyreid1848 3 жыл бұрын
@@someonesomeone25 I see I see. I missed your implication that relationships in general are bad, but it makes sense now
@R_Thomp
@R_Thomp 4 жыл бұрын
They come back because they couldn't do better. If they did better they would never look back. Tomassi's Iron Rule #7
@francosamericanmusings1560
@francosamericanmusings1560 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@argonianaccount1876
@argonianaccount1876 4 жыл бұрын
Very true!
@temich1985
@temich1985 4 жыл бұрын
they always testing the waters, comparing to what they have now and see if they can find a better deal
@argonianaccount1876
@argonianaccount1876 4 жыл бұрын
Artem Morozov the BBD!
@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard
@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard 4 жыл бұрын
Let them reflect long and hard the rest of their lives about their mistake
@douglassmith2055
@douglassmith2055 3 жыл бұрын
If you still love your ex, you are actually in love with just a memory. an un real fantasy of what YOU thought it could have been. your own mind is playing tricks on you.
@nospoontobend2656
@nospoontobend2656 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent and real facts response.....100% spot on
@drewtakesprofit8897
@drewtakesprofit8897 2 жыл бұрын
yup. so hard to curb that though especially when they actually come back. has happened 2/3 of my serious relationships. they come back. im sure the 3rd one will at some point too lol
@keith3819
@keith3819 2 жыл бұрын
Wise words
@RJay121
@RJay121 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe. For me I keep trying to rerun what went wrong
@VONDOOM88
@VONDOOM88 2 жыл бұрын
Accurate
@elliotmeek3375
@elliotmeek3375 4 жыл бұрын
Once the trash has been taken out don’t go back and start digging around
@davidtamayo2045
@davidtamayo2045 4 жыл бұрын
Unless you like to recycle?
@geoffdavis9681
@geoffdavis9681 4 жыл бұрын
Yup, no need to dumpster dive.
@NYPATRIOTBX
@NYPATRIOTBX 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo excellent sir !👏👏
@alsimmons1650
@alsimmons1650 4 жыл бұрын
Once you put the trash out on the streets where it belongs It's time to clean your psychological house and focus on Masculine Goals Thriving Opportunities Wealth
@elkyrjamalaininen4445
@elkyrjamalaininen4445 4 жыл бұрын
@@alsimmons1650 that can not happen with a woman in your house?
@BoffinGrusky
@BoffinGrusky 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine how different a place the world would be, if women had even a slightly better developed sense of shame.
@djredrayne
@djredrayne 4 жыл бұрын
Thats deep.
@BoffinGrusky
@BoffinGrusky 4 жыл бұрын
@Peter Fairhurst I know in today's world, it's a very unpopular view, but I honestly believe that one of the most important roles a father plays in a daughter's life, is to teach "boundaries". With boundaries comes a sense of shame for bad behaviors. Couple the natural tendency of hypergamy, with an absence of "shame", and it offers a compelling explanation for the behavior of the "modern woman".
@thebesttheworst2277
@thebesttheworst2277 4 жыл бұрын
@@BoffinGrusky 👏 Great point well made.
@BoffinGrusky
@BoffinGrusky 4 жыл бұрын
@Peter Fairhurst We need to compare notes sometime! It's amazing how life takes completely unexpected twists and turns. I'm the same as you in that I don't talk much about private matters, but I have a middle-aged daughter who resisted and resented my parenting for years, but seems to be opening her eyes. Time will tell. :)
@BoffinGrusky
@BoffinGrusky 4 жыл бұрын
@Peter Fairhurst EXACTLY. It seems the female brain is wired to rebel at every turn! My ex was BPD, and you can imagine the challenge of trying to raise a daughter only seeing her a few times a month! A lot of "tough love". I never once won a popularity contest. :) Thankfully, the effort seems to have paid-off. She's doing well, but she's still very resentful. I'm in the US, "down South in Dixie".
@babyblue8214
@babyblue8214 4 жыл бұрын
going back to your ex is like reheating McDonald's French fries!!
@DamianRichardson1
@DamianRichardson1 4 жыл бұрын
I eat the chips first, then the burger. 😉
@armyparrot9353
@armyparrot9353 4 жыл бұрын
Or watching a regular season hockey game for a second time
@AssNuggett
@AssNuggett 4 жыл бұрын
When they get soft and floppy they must be discarded.
@theprogenitor951
@theprogenitor951 4 жыл бұрын
They become packing peanuts?
@dang2630
@dang2630 4 жыл бұрын
Quite nice actually
@Jazz-ch1fy
@Jazz-ch1fy 4 жыл бұрын
My ex girlfriend send me a text message."You can delete my number" Me:Who is this ? 😂😂
@YouTubeDeletesComments
@YouTubeDeletesComments 4 жыл бұрын
WTF, as she sends it to you...'Cause she was prob thinking you did delete it, so that was her psycho way of giving it back to you.
@robertedwards2453
@robertedwards2453 4 жыл бұрын
I have had this happen to me several times. Wow, it's crazy, they must have some sort of play book lol
@AnthonySforza
@AnthonySforza 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, you have to love the whole aspect where they think you're still sitting by your phone, waiting for you to call. That said, I had one I was involved with many a year ago and I have this weird habit where upon getting a new phone, I actually transfer over the numbers. So when I got the new phone, her and I were still talking... For about a week afterward. Turns out, I have that phone for about eight years. Around the end of those eight years, a call comes up from Shannon Gomez (Not real surname) and I'm kind of like... "The hell does SHE want?" We didn't end in bad terms or anything, but it was weird to see her name. So I texted her, with "Hey, what's up?" She responds the whole "Who dis?" thing, leaving me like "Seriously? You called me, Shannon, just now." I then scrolled up and saw the last time we texted was two years prior when she supposedly butt dialed me... Six years after we last had contact. I know how utterly weird it is for someone to have the same phone for eight years... But she seriously went on and on like "I don't even know who this is." My reaction of course was to read that and think (Rick Sanchez voice) "Lying, bitch." Seriously, who the hell just butt dials someone like that? Where the probable many phones she's had since we went our separate ways, yet my number is still in her phone, which means my name showed up whimen I texted her... Yet she then wants to get fucking attitude like she's so important that she calls people and than doesn't know who they are?
@DS-ft6sd
@DS-ft6sd 4 жыл бұрын
Will have to use that one on the ex GF,lol
@egemensuzgun4208
@egemensuzgun4208 3 жыл бұрын
hahaha
@cesar.arrano
@cesar.arrano 4 жыл бұрын
My exgf cheated on me long time ago, now she's married with 2 kids. She's been trying to set up a date with me for over 10 years now, LOL! Ignore the trash and move on guys.
@Josecito777
@Josecito777 4 жыл бұрын
10 years? Woow
@cubanorasta94
@cubanorasta94 4 жыл бұрын
Damn, your alpha energy has her hot and bothered that long? You winning, fam.
@kaptinbarfbeerd1317
@kaptinbarfbeerd1317 4 жыл бұрын
10 years!? That just reeks of desperation
@Theinsomniac826
@Theinsomniac826 4 жыл бұрын
Don't ever see her. She might be trying to get revenge by giving you a STD. All these years she probably has one. She might be mad at you. If not an STD, it might be a set up in some other type of way. Ex's are vindictive. Stay away from her. She cheated so she already proved she is cruel. There is no telling what other tricks she has up her sleeve. Beware.
@cesar.arrano
@cesar.arrano 4 жыл бұрын
@@Theinsomniac826 Thanks for the advice. I believe her ego got destroyed, she's still a 10 though.
@blinkingintensifies8212
@blinkingintensifies8212 4 жыл бұрын
My ex randomly hits me with “Hope you’re doing good.” Or “Hey how are you?” I’ve learned to ignore her.
@ZeoCrysis
@ZeoCrysis 4 жыл бұрын
That was me a few weeks back. I'm way too focused on myself to allow her to come back into my life. Sometimes they contact you to feed their own ego like "yea i still got him he'll response to me asap" i didn't response to a single message.
@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard
@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard 4 жыл бұрын
Good man
@JoMama123451234
@JoMama123451234 4 жыл бұрын
Just block them. Not even worth the door being ajar. Slam that shit shut.
@thevizkid
@thevizkid 4 жыл бұрын
block them!
@mattstorey7256
@mattstorey7256 4 жыл бұрын
Before you put it on block, respond thus: "I'm doing great, without you dragging me down, thanks." "I'm doing fantastic, life without your type of hurt has only gotten better, thanks for asking." Then follow up with "BTW, we were and still are over, why do you keep attempting to open dialog with me? It's not going to change status, we are over." After she goes off or tries to turn on the sugar with you, then respond with: " I'm sorry, I'm going to have to block you, goodbye, good luck" *block* She will not have gotten the attention/validation she was seeking. She will have had any avenue of potentially talking her way back with you thwarted. She will not be able to twist, alter or post to others lies or anything you said to further harm you and any future relationships. She will know, no matter how deluded she is that you have zero interest in her. Once blocked, that is the undeniable "NO!" she can't miss. It will be highly unlikely, unless she is mentally ill that she will seek other means to communicate with you. If she does, then seek legal means to make her stop, this text trail you generated will be good evidence in that regard.
@Ston247
@Ston247 4 жыл бұрын
Our time on this Earth is precious. If you don't respect your own life, she never will.
@glennhoddle10
@glennhoddle10 3 жыл бұрын
*There are 2 reasons why they always come back* : - 1. They got dumped by Chad & Tyrone and need their ego stroked . 2. To finish you off. Women HATE Men who are doing great without them.
@chaosdweller
@chaosdweller 3 жыл бұрын
Who's Chad and Tyrone ?
@philhelm1318
@philhelm1318 3 жыл бұрын
@@chaosdweller Chad is the slang name for an alpha chad. Tyrone is the black version.
@jackofclubs9252
@jackofclubs9252 3 жыл бұрын
That second part is especially true.
@BossItUp911
@BossItUp911 3 жыл бұрын
@@chaosdweller The dudes tag teaming your girl when you're at work.
@chaosdweller
@chaosdweller 3 жыл бұрын
@@BossItUp911 well depending on the entirety of the situation it might actually be all okay ........ Is she doing it to help me? Kinda like Gumps mom lol! Are we working something out were I got to play with her friend or sister ? Lol! Am I going to get rich from it ? Yes similar to the 1st but not a 100. Have I done something bad that necessary for revenge ? Lol! Does it have something to do with breaking free from slavery ? Similar comments yes,( but noteworthy). How well do I know them? It might be okay if they banged her when I wasn't with her,.... assuming there was a time we weren't together lol! If none of these ? That's a bummer bruh....., No idk why I just wrote this.
@Indubidably0
@Indubidably0 4 жыл бұрын
When they're married, I send the texts to their husband and tell them "Your wife is shopping around for your replacement."
@YouTubeDeletesComments
@YouTubeDeletesComments 4 жыл бұрын
And how do you know the Husband's numbers?
@dang2630
@dang2630 4 жыл бұрын
What a great idea
@HexMotifMusicUk
@HexMotifMusicUk 4 жыл бұрын
No you don’t tho
@YouTubeDeletesComments
@YouTubeDeletesComments 4 жыл бұрын
@@Indubidably0 When you say sending Texts, you make it sound like you get their Number.
@quietatse
@quietatse 4 жыл бұрын
That's cold lol
@Rob-ue6ij
@Rob-ue6ij 4 жыл бұрын
I was dark on my social media for a few years as I built my business, began having a lot of business colleagues ask to connect and got back on to join the group chats. The very first post in 3 years is me being tagged at a party at my massive new house and what do you know, THREE ex girlfriends and TWO former brief flings had sent me a message congratulating me and asking all kinds of questions about my life leading to them trying to get invited over. One was married, the rest were all clearly in relationships on their profiles. Once upon a time I was the cute guy who lived off ramen in a shitty apartment trying to build something, but women don't believe in anything, they want to show up at the trophy presentation. Suddenly it was all "I always knew you were going to be a huge success" like I somehow forgot they all drifted off to find men that had way more money to spend on them.
@Kawabongahlive
@Kawabongahlive 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your new house and I'm happy to see you did so well. Gives me hope too, recently moved and I've been living alone instead of with my mother for two years now (I'm turning 28 tomorrow) trying to build up my own life. Your story gives me courage and hope. Thank you.
@KiJoHe
@KiJoHe 3 жыл бұрын
Woman tried to sell me her body for $25....if I'm a multi millionaire...that's like ,selling your body for a bag of .25 cents chips if that. It's so crazy right now
@aquiatic
@aquiatic 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kawabongahlive 3 months since you left this comment, have things started turning around for you brother?
@banglaverse8018
@banglaverse8018 3 жыл бұрын
congrats brother ,,respect that you had taught them a silent lesson
@SKBottom
@SKBottom 3 жыл бұрын
Even if she has enough money for both of you, this is true. No matter how well off they are, they are still looking for a provider.
@g.workingman4598
@g.workingman4598 4 жыл бұрын
Married women have no shame hitting on other men, its both unbelievable and disgusting. I figured if they're hitting on me they're hitting on others as well
@g.workingman4598
@g.workingman4598 4 жыл бұрын
@JJ Murphy they're crazy
@Mosaickool
@Mosaickool 3 жыл бұрын
@Ken Doe It usually leads to more-best avoid it as a sign of respect for your partner.
@Mosaickool
@Mosaickool 3 жыл бұрын
@Ken Doe if your thinking about sex with another person or lusting ,mentally you are disconnecting from your spouse. It's basically being selfish. The best way to avoid temptation is to remove yourself from the source or influence
@andersonboy620
@andersonboy620 3 жыл бұрын
So right!
@eric5164
@eric5164 3 жыл бұрын
Smart man.
4 жыл бұрын
The thing is, at the same time the ex girlfriend is reaching out to you, she's also reaching out to all her other ex's. Dont get a big head over it. It is what it is: more hypergamy.
@Arcyamen
@Arcyamen 4 жыл бұрын
The only thing you will get from contacting an ex is humiliation. Never ever do it ...the best revenge is to move on & as soon as she sees you with someone new she will want to die %100.
@khajiit8221
@khajiit8221 4 жыл бұрын
Well said. The past is in the past for a reason.
@marcoi7455
@marcoi7455 4 жыл бұрын
I had an ex call me up sayn she had a flat across the street from my job. Lol. Went over there she said shell follow me home we slept together and in the morning she left. Havnt seen her since
@TheUnkindness
@TheUnkindness 4 жыл бұрын
@@marcoi7455 Should've let her rot lol
@worthstover6691
@worthstover6691 4 жыл бұрын
SeparatioNxiety why if he doesn’t care. He hit and then she leaves out. I respect that lol
@danielrodgers6983
@danielrodgers6983 4 жыл бұрын
Nip it in the bud as soon as she starts calling back. I did and it saved me a lot of headache and I knew I was really the gate keeper. Had the power to move on and try better.
@Chad_Hart
@Chad_Hart 3 жыл бұрын
She's your EX for a reason. If you get back with her you'll remember why.
@andersonboy620
@andersonboy620 3 жыл бұрын
so true
@chrisduhaime5689
@chrisduhaime5689 3 жыл бұрын
But there is a large % that had to make shure
@RomanRoman-xi3dv
@RomanRoman-xi3dv 3 жыл бұрын
Why go back? Just ping her back with your ping device! Whats that all about that having sex with ex means you will go back in relationship with her?
@haydotzero3372
@haydotzero3372 4 жыл бұрын
They don’t appreciate you when they are with you and also they think they can find someone better but when reality hits, they want to hit you up
@miamitrancemissions6425
@miamitrancemissions6425 4 жыл бұрын
Ignoring them is the best approach. The fact that they will feel insignificant will sting them the most.
@bryanfews5295
@bryanfews5295 4 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@thumper2k174
@thumper2k174 4 жыл бұрын
Amen to that. Often times they don't want you, rather they want to know you still want them. DO NOT stroke their egos.
@kennethgibson1092
@kennethgibson1092 3 жыл бұрын
My counselor told me I only had one thing left to look forward to and that was telling her to go fuck herself when she called back.... I just didn't say anything and that makes it easier on me and she hates it.... She said once.... " I want my friend back" I didn't respond but I laughed alot about the idea of telling her if she got really drunk and hung out at the dive bar till closing she might run into him
@khajiit8221
@khajiit8221 4 жыл бұрын
The only time an ex contacted me was when their current guy ran out of money, or they heard I was doing better financially. Ignore them :)
@crni3379
@crni3379 4 жыл бұрын
An ex of mine didn't want to have sex with me after years of separation, but when I did a good job again she was suddenly out for a relationship.
@MrSerbian012
@MrSerbian012 4 жыл бұрын
I did better in Monet, than she contacted me. Funy.
@marcoi7455
@marcoi7455 4 жыл бұрын
Damn.
@danielrodgers6983
@danielrodgers6983 4 жыл бұрын
Same here or they wanted money for herself and the guy.
@kal7rider780
@kal7rider780 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah man, people in general who only call you to advance themselves or career are leeches.
@alexstraz
@alexstraz 4 жыл бұрын
The problem they often run into is they keep trading up, but then realize that they may have made a bad trade.
@paulnoecker1202
@paulnoecker1202 4 жыл бұрын
alexstraz trading "up" is trashy, they're ALWAYS a downgrade that's being predatory on her boredom with the current guy.
@midlifeparty
@midlifeparty 4 жыл бұрын
Yet wont be accountable
@marcoi7455
@marcoi7455 4 жыл бұрын
Ive done that
@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard
@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard 4 жыл бұрын
Let them reflect long and hard the rest of their lives about their mistake
@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard
@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard 4 жыл бұрын
@@nathan2813 I dont completely disagree with you. However, they do realize when they suffered a loss of a valuable man. And it stings them
@ChatBot1337
@ChatBot1337 4 жыл бұрын
Every single ex that I considered poor quality has come back years later. Every relationship that ended unfortunately and I considered a decent woman, I never heard from again. A girl that swings back on your branch should be ignored because they are absolutely a 'grass is always greener' climber. 💯 confirmed.
@andersonboy620
@andersonboy620 3 жыл бұрын
so right!
@dangusprime
@dangusprime 3 жыл бұрын
They would be back if you were pocketing 100G's a year. It's just a matter of tiers.
@SugedaBoss1
@SugedaBoss1 3 жыл бұрын
I felt this
@ApexMotow
@ApexMotow 4 жыл бұрын
Quotes: - Hypergammy has no shame - You've been bookmarked in her mind Good stuff
@saif9amar417
@saif9amar417 3 жыл бұрын
Hypergamy has no shame, no guilt, no remorse and no compassion.
@strikostriko9664
@strikostriko9664 2 жыл бұрын
Hypergamy is fancy name for personality disorder known as Narcissism
@eyeofthegods302
@eyeofthegods302 2 жыл бұрын
@@strikostriko9664 that's correct
@colbalt95
@colbalt95 2 жыл бұрын
@@strikostriko9664 Soloposism. It's an evolutionary trait.
@slumdogjay
@slumdogjay 3 жыл бұрын
My wife left me 3 years ago. I’m in a better place now than I was for 20 years. Best thing she ever done.
@freespeechisneverwrong9351
@freespeechisneverwrong9351 3 жыл бұрын
When your ex reaches out to you, be nice, have a chat and then walk away. They always think they can walk right back in. It kills them to know you know you don’t need them.
@voltaire5427
@voltaire5427 3 жыл бұрын
I've been thinking about that too. What if you agreed to meet her for a drink and were really charming. Then after maybe 15 minutes, finished your drink, politely excused yourself and never called. 😏
@alexkid1
@alexkid1 3 жыл бұрын
@@voltaire5427 I think that is the best thing to do. Take a drink for 30 mins so you don't waste your time and then walk up and say got to go after you've told her all your accomplishment that she isn't going to be a part of.
@captnhuffy
@captnhuffy 2 жыл бұрын
This. This! If the other commenters here were really over the Ex, they would be making comments like this one. Dudes: Move on already.
@IlIamo
@IlIamo 2 жыл бұрын
Old feelings might come back plus mix that with alcohol and you've got a recipe for stupid decisions. Works only if you're mentally tough
@freespeechisneverwrong9351
@freespeechisneverwrong9351 2 жыл бұрын
@@IlIamo Never works. You either succumb to her and make a mistake again or you have a big argument or you can make a play, get rejected and look a twat. Just stay away from her. Walk away. For your own good.
@RickbladeX
@RickbladeX 4 жыл бұрын
I think of it this way. If a woman dumped or rejected you, you get on your mission, level up and move on. If she all of a sudden wants to talk to you again or even flirt with you "like old times", you have to think in your head.....there's a reason that she dumped/rejected you then all of a sudden wants to reconnect. That should tell you a lot about how she is as a person.
@mashleyred2180
@mashleyred2180 2 жыл бұрын
Its cause she can sense you don't need her.
@keanusimpson8785
@keanusimpson8785 3 жыл бұрын
I never forget the advice My late grandfather gave me. He said "Never lick your own vomit" kinda nasty but great point and stuck with me.
@josephzsoka874
@josephzsoka874 3 жыл бұрын
Grandfathers are the best.
@syedhafzal8617
@syedhafzal8617 3 жыл бұрын
but how abaout the twist situation.. i mean, they lick you back? not you lick them.... can it be consider? hey.. grandfather just remind never lick your own right?? hahahaha
@rpm6391
@rpm6391 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome! That saying is a keeper! LMAO
@dciccantelli
@dciccantelli 6 ай бұрын
Definitely gnarly. But that's why you remember it & will always associate it with ex gfs.....😁
@daviddegrote-ms8td
@daviddegrote-ms8td Сағат бұрын
proverbs 26.11
@28goldenboy
@28goldenboy 3 жыл бұрын
Went through a bad break up last year, not amicable at all. Shortly after she starts contacting me to talk about the aftermath. I politely declined her advances. Then she starts being more intense to the point where I blocked her from everything. Unfortunately, she has access to other phones and starts to send me messages again. Every single new number she contacts me from, gets blocked. Fellas, you need to have a back-bone. Your word has to mean something. The moment you play along after deciding to end things, she will think you can be manipulated, more than she manipulated you during the relationship. Keep strong and don't look back.
@69adrummer
@69adrummer 4 жыл бұрын
"Men age like wine, Women age like milk." Tom Leykis
@olechristianhenne6583
@olechristianhenne6583 3 жыл бұрын
I agree inn my exprince
@joeroot9142
@joeroot9142 3 жыл бұрын
White
@jesusdonjuan1509
@jesusdonjuan1509 3 жыл бұрын
I fucken love cheese tho 😭
@boetv7858
@boetv7858 3 жыл бұрын
If you stay in shape. I’m sure you’ve seen some out shape men before lol
@carbunkle9902
@carbunkle9902 3 жыл бұрын
Men age like Sean Connery. Women age like Sean Connery.
@aimtrue4540
@aimtrue4540 3 жыл бұрын
I had an ex that kept contacting me after she left me for the guy she was cheating on me with. I think she did it to try and get a rise out of me and it seemed to aggravate her that I was short and simple and hung up ASAP. She married that guy and 6 years later she contacts me on myspace and tells me her sob story of how she was a single mother now cause the guy cheated on her, asking how I was doing since she heard I just graduated with an engineering degree and was doing well. I showed it to my friends and we had a good laugh. Buh-bye.
@kopo7466
@kopo7466 3 жыл бұрын
I had an ex, who I had dated on and off for about a year, reach out to me a few months ago. Apparently she had married, got cheated on and was going through a divorce. I was and am still in a great, meaningful relationship with my girlfriend now. I respectfully put it out there that I am in a relationship with someone and I'm not available. She says cool, I just need a friend and then starts trying to entice me with all the things I wanted when I was in a relationship with her. I didn't even reply anymore because she clearly realized I was the best she ever had and wanted that back, but I'm not about to give up something great now, to something that was subpar then and now. Never backtrack guys, it'll end up the same way as before.
@jahbay
@jahbay 3 жыл бұрын
Once someone is out of your life don't ever let them back. It doesn't matter if there a man for a woman a friend family member or lover . Once they are gone make sure they stay gone. You will be the better for it trust me..... I made the mistake of letting people back into my life And suffered the Consequences...
@ohyabuddy12
@ohyabuddy12 4 жыл бұрын
The only thing an ex is coming back for is either she couldn’t do better or she wants moral support from u to feel good when she and most women these days struggle to find a better partner.
@deepdiver849
@deepdiver849 4 жыл бұрын
It’s the same for men. This is not a gender issue. It’s a human issue, they don’t know the worth of someone good until they hook up with a monster
@youtubesucks2755
@youtubesucks2755 4 жыл бұрын
@@deepdiver849 Yeah but it's that women have an infinitely easier time "hooking up with a monster".
@deepdiver849
@deepdiver849 4 жыл бұрын
youtube sucks I still think it is both ways, as men usually get stuck on the physical level . I have an ex trying to get with me, and wants to know me know after 12 years. He told me he got stuck with a narcissist and a baby! I always had healthy relationships and was never a drama queen, but realized men like women with drama , or women who ignore them . Probably I am too rational and open for most men to handle , and they only realize when it’s too late.
@DontbeF00Iish
@DontbeF00Iish 3 жыл бұрын
@@deepdiver849 Its very hard to find balance in being boring and steady vs psycho bitch and funny. Men want a psycho b in bed but Its hard to get with some steadyness for LTR
@johnsmith-kt7ef
@johnsmith-kt7ef 3 жыл бұрын
i dont do moral support to ex's the few i have hung out with after its either smash time or get out because im busy... Once a relationship ends for me, i dont care if i had feelings or not, they go away and i never think of them that way again...
@danielrodgers6983
@danielrodgers6983 4 жыл бұрын
Always turn a cheating ex down they don't care about you or they never would have cheated. Think on that my friends.
@Josecito777
@Josecito777 4 жыл бұрын
In her mind she didn't do nothing wrong, remember that
@danielrodgers6983
@danielrodgers6983 4 жыл бұрын
@@Josecito777 I believe they know they were wrong, they play victim. Only to seduce and fool a man to take them back. And then leave again. Like a friend told me when my ex wife wanting to come back, " go on and take her back so she can do it again, always gets easier for her."
@thulsa5218
@thulsa5218 4 жыл бұрын
The hard reality of it is if a person cheats on you they don't love you. It's harsh but move on.
@andersonboy620
@andersonboy620 3 жыл бұрын
so right
@ACEDIAMOND666
@ACEDIAMOND666 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@bodyemcal
@bodyemcal 3 жыл бұрын
I cant tell you how many text and calls ive gotten from girls talking about "we should go out" "what about us". When i liked you and you had no kids you didnt want anything serious, you wanted the perfect man. You found him and he left you, im a viable option now that you have kids? Well, you arent a viable option for me now. I always found it funny that magically i became the best option for them AFTER they have some other dudes kids. Ridiculous
@oneronin6186
@oneronin6186 4 жыл бұрын
I get tons of attention from women in LTR's and or married. Once in a while with thier guy nearby. It actually disgusts me, I feel bad for the guy but they signed on for that!
@GamerKidPlaysGames
@GamerKidPlaysGames 4 жыл бұрын
exactly, all the time i see this. makes me not want a gf
@elijaholing
@elijaholing 4 жыл бұрын
@@roas2 don't. Let them discover by themselves. Like we all did. If you tell them they get bitter and call you all kinds of names. Let them discover the red pill. It's a journey every man must travel alone - the journey of the discovery of the red pill.
@TheUnkindness
@TheUnkindness 4 жыл бұрын
@@elijaholing I think one should tell them. We need to stick together in this or women will always keep doing this because they will never face repercussions. No need to push it though, 1 time is enough and if the dude doesn't want to understand well at least you did your part!
@Josecito777
@Josecito777 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheUnkindness If you do, he will (classic beta) ask her woman if that what you're telling is true or not. Imagine what his woman would answer. Then both of them look at you as an idiot, a home breaker or something like that. STAY AWAY and look your own path
@SennaSaopaolo
@SennaSaopaolo 4 жыл бұрын
I have the same. That’s why I do my own thing work sports etc.
@mojighol7yo
@mojighol7yo 4 жыл бұрын
Some girls don't even want to be with you but don't want you to be with other girls. If you are in a relationship don't ruin it over an ex. at this point, I almost feel sorry for them. it's a sickness.
@boyar1978
@boyar1978 4 жыл бұрын
i remember trying to get back with an ex once. After spending 15 minutes with her I realized again why she is my ex.
@StephenWestSyd
@StephenWestSyd 4 жыл бұрын
Some girls??? Try most
@Walamonga1313
@Walamonga1313 4 жыл бұрын
Ah man, I feel so stupid cause I met someone really hot that made me feel great but my ex got so scared I'd leave her that I stopped talking to that other girl. Well, of course I find out she has been cheating with me on some other dude that she'd been with years lol. And ofc she says "I loved you both, but I loved him more". Like yeah, sure. Yoi just had a rough patch with the dude and statted monkey branching. Then realised I wasn't dropping cash on you right away, the other dude probably started doing it and left. And here's the kicker, a month later she sent me one message telling me "she felt in her heart she needed to reapologize" Lol as if she had any to begin with 😂
@abemartinez9623
@abemartinez9623 4 жыл бұрын
It’s true
@ellar6491
@ellar6491 3 жыл бұрын
@@Walamonga1313 you met someone really hot and made you feel great...while you were in a relationship? What exactly did she do to make you feel great? Or better question...what did you let her do? It sounds like you're just as much of a cheater as she is. Remember, you attract what you are.
@LatestHour
@LatestHour 4 жыл бұрын
My ex contacted me when I got out of the Army and asked if I was an officer, and I said no I was enlisted, and she stopped talking to me.
@DrRock2009
@DrRock2009 4 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@AssNuggett
@AssNuggett 4 жыл бұрын
Girls dont care about military rank, at all.
@LatestHour
@LatestHour 4 жыл бұрын
@@AssNuggett My ex is an audiologist at the VA so I guess she can be picky, she's not too bas looking either, was in the college edition Playboy back in the day.
@awesomeerr8765
@awesomeerr8765 4 жыл бұрын
Yea they are petty like that. And officer women dont date enlisted. They think of enlisted as below them.
@ptrhome
@ptrhome 4 жыл бұрын
Jay K plus higher retirement for officer.
@akamidnighthour
@akamidnighthour 4 жыл бұрын
Her..."Hey stranger!" Me..."I don't talk to strangers" 🤣
@richardw3347
@richardw3347 4 жыл бұрын
good one ! lol
@markwhittaker6866
@markwhittaker6866 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Plainsimple67
@Plainsimple67 4 жыл бұрын
STRANGER DANGER??!!🤪
@MoltenMetalGod7
@MoltenMetalGod7 4 жыл бұрын
awesome
@t.b2923
@t.b2923 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@MrBullet888
@MrBullet888 3 жыл бұрын
The last relationship I was in was March 2018 to someone my age and we hit it off instantly. Both 50 years old, similar background and more. By April, 1 month, she turned psychotic over a small problem we had together even though she always touted, "Kindness and love". Ran away quickly. She called me every name imaginable and most were words I never thought she could say. Life lesson. June 2018, she contacted a mutual friend and wanted to see me. Absolutely not. Since then it has been me and my dog. That's it. Never talk to an ex.
@coelecanth13
@coelecanth13 4 жыл бұрын
You ain't alpha until you get psycho emails from girls you forgot with no difficulty.
@11cacoo
@11cacoo 3 жыл бұрын
if they use email thats a red flag lol
@cassidy5099
@cassidy5099 3 жыл бұрын
You ain't Alpha(cheesy) unless you're the head of your house and washing your wife in the word of God and raising Godly children . The world you guys live in looks exhausting to me. I would jump off a cliff if I was in your shoes( but don't do that) just repent from your sinful ways and let Christ make something of your useless life
@kirapoodle
@kirapoodle 2 жыл бұрын
@@cassidy5099 lol good one
@prod.cruzomg1782
@prod.cruzomg1782 2 жыл бұрын
@@cassidy5099 love it Brother
@dominofive5075
@dominofive5075 2 жыл бұрын
@@11cacoo they use email because you've already blocked them from every other form of communication 🤣
@jamie49868
@jamie49868 4 жыл бұрын
When ever I get misty for an ex, I just remember why they are my ex and not my present.
@clintcox4278
@clintcox4278 3 жыл бұрын
Se with me it's tough sometime but worth the effort
@TheDoctornaut
@TheDoctornaut 3 жыл бұрын
If I ever get misty about my ex, all I gotta do is remember that creepy smile she wears when she lies
@keithgeracijr.7785
@keithgeracijr.7785 4 жыл бұрын
This is not just Hyperghamy it is female narcissism.
@vibeworldmeta
@vibeworldmeta 3 жыл бұрын
When I found out that ex's do this for validation, as in, they don't really care about your feelings I was floored. It's all about how they feel, no matter what they did to you.
@vibeworldmeta
@vibeworldmeta 3 жыл бұрын
@Billy Corgan's Ego Exactly. Darius M says he doesn't take women over the age of 30 seriously anymore, nor sympathize with their new found loneliness
@emgee9775
@emgee9775 Жыл бұрын
Spot on; it’s all about them.
@rych7852
@rych7852 3 жыл бұрын
Dont let Exes stay on your socials. Whether that's Apps or in real life circle. Bin them off, never re-contact them. Like the meal you ate 6 months ago, it's over and gone
@naterock1
@naterock1 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! I dumped my ex because she was getting too close with her 3 kids dad. She couldn't stand that I had walked away so easily and her last words to me were... "honestly Nathan I can do better than you" she immediately got back together with her kids dad who FYI used to beat her up.
@TheBanjoShowOfficial
@TheBanjoShowOfficial Жыл бұрын
It’s clobberin time
@devilsadvocacy
@devilsadvocacy 11 ай бұрын
The equal important Takeaway here is that you never, do not ever, date a woman who has already had another man‘s kid
@gbessone
@gbessone 2 жыл бұрын
Almost every ex I had in the last several years texted me back 6-12 months later. They didn't value me when they had my full attention, and later they all realized what they lost. No point to go back to women who didn't value or respect you when they had the chance. Especially after you have done the work to get over them.
@JVLIVSPhoto
@JVLIVSPhoto 4 жыл бұрын
Going back to an ex is like “the dog returning to its vomit”. I’m good, tyvm.
@mattkochanowski6196
@mattkochanowski6196 4 жыл бұрын
my flatmate's ex GF contacted him once, he decided to invite her over. FFFFF $hit out of her to the point where books were falling off from the shelfs. Afterwards she asked about the future - whats gonna be with us now? He said dunno really and smashed front doors just in front of her face. Such a beautiful sight :)
@edb7742
@edb7742 4 жыл бұрын
if you ever do that be sure to wear protection!
@risinggamer3011
@risinggamer3011 4 жыл бұрын
What a nice sight
@lukedavis6711
@lukedavis6711 4 жыл бұрын
I'm guessing she was bad to him?
@mattkochanowski6196
@mattkochanowski6196 4 жыл бұрын
@@lukedavis6711 I don't know all the details just a highlights of this relationship. Dunno who's bad or good here. I know they had episode of living together at some point in the past and he told me that he throw her from the flat like 11PM on rainy spring day. She begged him to stay over night even on the couch. Butt hat did not helped, when she left he replaced locks in the front door just in case she had extra key or something - who does that at the midnight XD Other funny thing was that this dude was opposite of 666 - short, kinda broke and no muscles. But he had mindset of a fricking PIMP! He knew exactly which strings to pull, which buttons to press. He was treating chicks like a garbage and yet they clinged to him like crazy. 100% pimp material.
@TH-du8nc
@TH-du8nc 4 жыл бұрын
Your mother sounds like a wonderful woman
@S1MPLECAVEMAN
@S1MPLECAVEMAN 3 жыл бұрын
When you lose, say little. When you win, say less. Your success and personal growth will kill them from the inside.
@underclassh3r058
@underclassh3r058 4 жыл бұрын
My ex was 37 and thought she found a better option. She messaged me 4 months later. She was breadcrumbing me and I called her out on it. She said she wasn't really talking to anybody then the next message she said she was still seeing the guy she left me for and had feelings she couldn't shake and then brought up the terrible things I apparently did. I would've bought all those excuses had I reached out to her but she reached out to me. Basically she was full of excuses and none of them could be taken seriously. I was just a orbiter in her list of options. I could just tell that life wasn't as grand as she thought it was going to be or the way she was painting it after she broke no contact. Now she's 38 with kids and she'll get men to bang her but nobody to settle down with.
@DS-ft6sd
@DS-ft6sd 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my ex GF was doing,used me as a option when I met her didn't think of it because she was just getting out of a marriage and said she could not handle it any more being with me.did see her for a month and half and because she left me I found out about year and half in she was banging another guy when I met her and she did not tell me. Then she thought the grass was greener on the other side then she got dumped and came back to me and I took her back.she is a messed up person and her track record shows.
@underclassh3r058
@underclassh3r058 4 жыл бұрын
@@DS-ft6sd are you still with her now? My ex is on her 7th serious relationship. Like not just a few guys she's dated for a week or something. 7th time she's been with a guy for at least a year or more. Her track record shows how messed up she is and she's still doing it at 38 with kids and tattoos lol
@DS-ft6sd
@DS-ft6sd 4 жыл бұрын
@@underclassh3r058 no I'm not with her any more.but still in contact with her.
@underclassh3r058
@underclassh3r058 4 жыл бұрын
@@DS-ft6sd Right on. I'm curious to see what my ex does. Besides working on me and my personal life, I have nothing going on in my relationship life. My ex reached out to my sister about a week ago after I went no contact again because I don't really want to play her games. Why she's contacting my sister after being done with me like she said...idk? Maybe boredom? I guess I'll see if that grass was really greener here in a few months based on if she contacts me again. If she does, I'll listen and be cool and think about things but she'll only be a compliment to my life if I have any form of friendship/relationship with her anymore. Basically women are a piece of work and not worth the effort.
@underclassh3r058
@underclassh3r058 4 жыл бұрын
@UCpnSQgYPJwXZqsjyxZOh_sA sounds almost exactly like my ex. The drinking was a huge problem. The stories I could tell. The big mouth! Half naked at 3am throwing things at me and yelling. Good times lol. Well who knows? Everyone grows up at some point. You may be right about keeping tabs. If she cared about you before and knows you're reliable as a person, she's not going to just throw you completely away. At least you're still getting something out of her here and there. It sucks to say but sadly I think that's all women are good for anymore. Just to fuck
@tectons8371
@tectons8371 4 жыл бұрын
If your ex contact you back it means you are top 20% man,everybody is getting dumped even if you are already at your purpose hypergramy has no shame
@kalmtraveler
@kalmtraveler 3 жыл бұрын
Have to laugh at KZbin recommending this to me literally the week my ex-gf from 4 years ago suddenly started following me on Instagram and messaging me trying to reconnect as she's going through divorce with the guy she broke up with me to marry. Since that time her life did nothing but get worse, and mine has skyrocketed - finished university, got into a great career path and am making over double what I was when we split and am nearly in the best shape of my life. Karma :)
@dpurdie5256
@dpurdie5256 2 жыл бұрын
Just had 5 ex’s hit me up in the last 36 hrs, then this video pops up in my recommendations 🤣🤣
@1KongsDong1
@1KongsDong1 3 жыл бұрын
This is very real I was out of work when my ex girlfriend left now I'm back to work now she won't leave me alone. I haven't spoken to her since she left and it's driving her crazy. I changed my number deleted my facebook so now she is contacted everyone she thinks I still hang around. She can't wrap her head around the fact that I'm not begging her to come back. Never change for a girl cause when It comes time for them to do the same for you it won't happen.
@jpark7133
@jpark7133 3 жыл бұрын
My Ex had a friend who was dumped for being too overweight. After losing weight that friend contacted her Ex to show off and make him wish he never broke up. Hours later they ended up banging , cheating on her new husband (she had been married for 6 months). I told my Ex she should dump her friend, explaining she's a bad influence. She said no, so I dumped her instead.
@limitbita855
@limitbita855 2 жыл бұрын
based
@TheBanjoShowOfficial
@TheBanjoShowOfficial Жыл бұрын
Whole lots of banging and dumping action goin on here
@jpcolorado6593
@jpcolorado6593 4 жыл бұрын
One of the perks of an abundance mindset is dumping women with high SMV when their red flags start to show. I found it amusing how indignant they were when I wouldn't overlook their defects of character when they were willing to provide me with sexual access.
@Ace.0.0.0.
@Ace.0.0.0. 4 жыл бұрын
What kind of reactions did you receive?
@jpcolorado6593
@jpcolorado6593 4 жыл бұрын
@@Ace.0.0.0. Disbelief, then rage, then stronger attraction towards me. The first two reactions amused me. The last one was a complete surprise until I started consuming red pill content.
@K0msur
@K0msur 3 жыл бұрын
This is a coincidence that this came up, literally yesterday my ex from 2017 popped up to me asking how I was and tried to get me to meet up with her. If I were the same man I was in 2017, I'd of taken her back in a heartbeat, thank god I've grown up.
@nickf9392
@nickf9392 2 жыл бұрын
Best advice is to IGNORE them. Do not engage them in any way. Turn your back to them.
@jondavis2206
@jondavis2206 4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t let a message from an old gf go to my head. I have them contact me and I’ve never thought they want to get back together. They are just thinking about you & checking to see if you won the lottery.
@caseysimmons9578
@caseysimmons9578 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@caseysimmons9578
@caseysimmons9578 4 жыл бұрын
This comment made my MONTH bro cheers!
@Txig777
@Txig777 3 жыл бұрын
It depends on why and how the relationship ended. If she was shitty to you and then wants to check up on you, she's probably not doing as good as she thought she would and didn't care about you to begin with. If the relationship ended on a good note, then it might be a different story.
@MisterSinister47
@MisterSinister47 4 жыл бұрын
I was just saying this to a friend. Lol They always come back because they believe you still have the same feelings for them or they really hit the wall and they want that old "love" back. They don't care about you. It's all about THEM. Smh
@manuelhung7571
@manuelhung7571 3 жыл бұрын
When you escape from jail, you don't run back there. If another guys hotdog has been in the bread roll, throw it away.
@andersonboy620
@andersonboy620 3 жыл бұрын
so true
@ricolaw1033
@ricolaw1033 3 жыл бұрын
I had an ex that wanted to stay friends after she broke it off and I did. Then after we both had kids we tried to have a relationship again years later. It didn’t work and I broke it off and wanted to be friends. She says I don’t believe you’re trying to friend zone me. It was ok for her to friend zone me but how dare I have that same audacity??!! 😂😂😂😂
@BJETNT
@BJETNT 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah the whole do is I say not as I do attitude that is the whole problem I have with attractive women nowadays. They have turned into what they didn't like about us and I've never been like that. I'm a good looking blonde hair blue-eyed bodybuilder that makes good money but I started out 100 lb over weight when I was a kid so I didn't always look like this so I'm actually a little humble compared to most. But I've had so many girls pull crap like that. And you know what everyone of them is miserable or they're with some chump that will let them treat them like a freaking lap dog. I'd rather die alone
@grahamodonnell4980
@grahamodonnell4980 2 жыл бұрын
The double standards crazy
@ricolaw1033
@ricolaw1033 2 жыл бұрын
@@BJETNT 💯💯💯💯
@ricolaw1033
@ricolaw1033 2 жыл бұрын
@@grahamodonnell4980 facts!! 💯💯💯
@emgee9775
@emgee9775 Жыл бұрын
Narc 101
@David-xc5pg
@David-xc5pg 3 жыл бұрын
Had an ex reach out to me one time and I decided to stupidly ONCE decided to let her in (in my defence I was genuinely in love); after that disaster, now any time an ex hits me up, I delete without even reading the message. Take it as a victory and delete.
@akhtaruzzamanjoy8524
@akhtaruzzamanjoy8524 3 жыл бұрын
My ex left me when I was about to lose job, discarded me and left me depressed. She even tried to blame me for her 2nd breakup after cause I was begging her and that's why she misbehaved that guy and that guy left her. Then within 3 months she married a guy who is 10 years older than her. Sometimes I think about revenge then I remind myself she is already crap and wasting energy on her will be stupid thing to do. Now I have enough time to focus on career and fitness. The way she left after 5 years relationship, she will regret one day.
@threethrushes
@threethrushes 3 жыл бұрын
The best revenge is to live well. Have no hate in your heart. Just be the best man you can be, every day.
@akhtaruzzamanjoy8524
@akhtaruzzamanjoy8524 3 жыл бұрын
@@threethrushes well living alone isn't that bad. She was abusive and I was co dependent. It was a toxic relationship all alone.
@threethrushes
@threethrushes 3 жыл бұрын
@@akhtaruzzamanjoy8524 Experience is a great teacher.
@darzero
@darzero 3 жыл бұрын
God I had this last year. Ex cheated on me with some wife beater “alpha” male and fell pregnant with his kid and wanted me to raise it. I didn’t ignore, but my response was less than polite when telling her what to do with herself
@a.j.d.p.8619
@a.j.d.p.8619 4 жыл бұрын
This type of situation happens with old friends, old coworkers, exes, and family. People are opportunistic. This is a fact of life. It sucks, but that is why we all need to be our own best friend and not look for validation from others.
@jt4369
@jt4369 3 жыл бұрын
Well said. You’d better be prepared to be lonely in life.
@oswaldofigueroa529
@oswaldofigueroa529 2 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@davidkeith7087
@davidkeith7087 2 жыл бұрын
Good point- Everyone loves a winner, right?
@CensorshipVictim
@CensorshipVictim 3 жыл бұрын
I've been contacted by exes because they heard that I was doing well in life and they just wanted to "catch up", what they really wanted was to see if I'd take them back, because now I was "worthy" and financially stable to take care of them and their kids. They only saw me as a provider, replacement parent, and emotional support dumpster.
@liamwatson6789
@liamwatson6789 3 жыл бұрын
Very true. I haven't got everything sorted out in my life at the moment and my GF dumped me yesterday- had been coming for a while and she said 'You'' always be in the spot you are." I just said 'OK.' If that's what she thinks that's fine. I do believe that dating a woman with kids isn't great if you've got goals that go beyond working 9-5 and having enough money for retirement. If your goals go beyond that then dating women with kids will not help you fulfil your goals. My now ex had kids and she was pressuring me to move in and at first I admit that I was looking at it was a viable thing but then I realised that my life would never progress beyond the standard set by many others- work, watch TV, eat, and sleep. Gym and education goals and the pursuit of my purpose would never be fully pursued. From this moment on things are changing- I am a work in progress and I will become better.
@Random-rt5ec
@Random-rt5ec 3 жыл бұрын
My ex-wife left me when I was 30. Ten years later suddenly when I came over to pick up my son she was jumping my bones - Turned out she was jealous over my hot much younger 2nd wife and financial success. It was tough though because I met her when I was 12 and had 15 awesome years with her & would have been happy to spend forever with her.
@sun--shine3296
@sun--shine3296 10 ай бұрын
Damn…. Not even snatching a virgin can prevent these potential hoe-bombs from hoeing out.
@dave2808
@dave2808 3 жыл бұрын
One regret I have is contacting my ex after a year or two, telling her I was sorry for what happened, try to "hang out" with her, crap like that. Back in March, she sends me a friend request on FB when the last messaged to her was I have a passport back in October of 2019. I think she heard through the grape vine that I was going to be a Mariner and no idea why she sent it. Just deleted it. Now like he said, don't let them re enter your life but also do not try to re enter their life. If you don't have closure, just accept that you never will. Don't try to get it. Her sending that request doesn't bother me, me trying to re enter life does. Go outside, get away from everyone and everything you know, quit that shitty job, play deaf, ignore people, etc
@TheBanjoShowOfficial
@TheBanjoShowOfficial Жыл бұрын
What do you mean? The closure IS her rejection of you, lol. That’s the only closure you need.
@alexanderalston3233
@alexanderalston3233 4 жыл бұрын
My high school ex from 1996 to 2000 who I really only hear from on birthdays contacted me a few weeks ago, she has just spit up with her husband lol and knows I’m single after a divorce. She was proclaiming how she was getting back in shape etc. My reply was ‘I’m really sorry to hear that, wow it’s so late and I’m really tired.. night!’ Haha not heard from her since.
@kellywsmar
@kellywsmar 4 жыл бұрын
holy shit bro, she's got the nerve to contact you 20 fucking years later
@admirlm1062
@admirlm1062 3 жыл бұрын
Ehrenmann
@emgee9775
@emgee9775 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@dhosea101
@dhosea101 4 жыл бұрын
ex girlfriends are like spoiled milk, they all have an expiration date and will hit the wall at some point. a friend of mine saw my ex gf on sunday and she texted me 'your ex doesn't know how to get her kid to behave" and i just died laughing and thinking i'm so thankful i'm not my exes, 2 single mothers that got smashed and dashed on by random guys, now they're struggling to make it work while I have my freedom and money saved up
@kevindunne4271
@kevindunne4271 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you!!!!
@KH-vv5dq
@KH-vv5dq 4 жыл бұрын
I tried to make some cheese but it didn't work out. I'll stick with my wines.
@williamsimmons3005
@williamsimmons3005 4 жыл бұрын
Revenge is sweet, lol!
@lezel4swarts
@lezel4swarts 4 жыл бұрын
Your friend is dumber for telling you about your ex and her kid
@chrisy6707
@chrisy6707 4 жыл бұрын
Top man! Inspirational bro.
@SpanishKnight1
@SpanishKnight1 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve recently had this happen. My ex-wife texted me a couple of months ago and said we should get together for some “adult time”. She has remarried, and I told her I didn’t want to become an issue with her and her new husband.
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk 2 жыл бұрын
At least you have a sense of honor don’t give that up.
@shanejones578
@shanejones578 2 жыл бұрын
Should’ve sent the conversation to her husband.
@dciccantelli
@dciccantelli 6 ай бұрын
@@shanejones578 I had the same thought. She's probably never had to face any consequences for her behavior.
@williamfarrell2958
@williamfarrell2958 4 жыл бұрын
Just had it happen to me and, she is 40lbs heavier and twins. Let me stick my hand in the fire and see if it still hurts.
@bootleg1514
@bootleg1514 3 жыл бұрын
I'm by no means the best version of myself yet. Chasing excellence and doing the work on yourself is the best way ive found to making an ex jealous. There is something very satisfying making it look like she was the one holding you back during the relationship. Ive only had 2 ltr's in the last 11-12 years. Put the work in on yourself. Being single, chasing your dreams and spinning plates is way more satisfying than any serious relationship in my experience.
@PUMPSQUADATHLETICS
@PUMPSQUADATHLETICS 3 жыл бұрын
This is even more true today !!! I have yet to see literally any woman I went to HS school with or date in my early 20s do better than I am now at 34. They'll stalk your social media to see what you have going on and when they see you doing well here they come.. Say NO
@jsrrrmg
@jsrrrmg 4 жыл бұрын
I actually had the chance to date my high school crush 10 years after graduation. I had joined the Navy and moved back home 8 years later. While I was in i lost 40 lbs, got my appearance act together, learned a good paying trade, and learned some game with talking to people. She came with a divorce, two kids, and a lifestyle she couldn't afford, and the same attitude that I was the same pushover that I was in high school. after a couple of months I had to bounce.
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 4 жыл бұрын
you win, she loses--she may figure it out eventually
@drewtakesprofit8897
@drewtakesprofit8897 2 жыл бұрын
they always come back I swear.
@thomasconnors7511
@thomasconnors7511 Жыл бұрын
Got a Hi Stranger text from her after 6 months. I did my work and i moved on to a new healthly relationship. My reply was Who''s this? She said it was her and i said Bye stranger. "Revenge is a dish best served cold"
@tonyagos1172
@tonyagos1172 4 жыл бұрын
This is perfect during this pandemic since I’ve had 2 former ex’s try to rekindle. No thanks. As you said when trash is on the curb don’t go through it again. It’s all about “shelf life”. And the expiration date has passed. Thanks for the timely videos brother 💪🏽
@onerider808
@onerider808 3 жыл бұрын
I think most of my exes just do it to reassure themselves they still mean something to me. I can’t imagine why that would matter. They are the past for a reason.
@byteresistor
@byteresistor 4 жыл бұрын
You're a backup. never be a backup.
@loreenec8045
@loreenec8045 4 жыл бұрын
This one time my ex that cheated on me after lying about spending time in an institution when in reality she was looking for another bloke, came back to me a few months later to try and get back with me, telling me she had some story to tell me that was apparently 'really really important' but I was unwilling to listen at all to be honest, and told her I didn't care and to get stuffed. I feel much better about that now after watching this video.
@emgee9775
@emgee9775 Жыл бұрын
Men are just an option to these women
@Colyers
@Colyers 4 жыл бұрын
I always took it as a sign of flattery. Just don't get involved (again).
@bryanfews5295
@bryanfews5295 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@PawOfRizzo
@PawOfRizzo 3 жыл бұрын
Has happened here. Most recently someone I dated in college about 28 years ago! She went to the trouble of calling my employer, asking for me through reception, then they forwarded her to my phone. Thankfully, our office has caller ID. She left some voicemail about "let's get together and catch up". Sheesh.
@prod.cruzomg1782
@prod.cruzomg1782 2 жыл бұрын
Wow thats shameless
@sun--shine3296
@sun--shine3296 10 ай бұрын
Holy shit….. that’s a lot….
@ShinkuGouki
@ShinkuGouki Жыл бұрын
You NEVER go back to an ex. You will live to regret it.
@MadMaxx1977
@MadMaxx1977 4 жыл бұрын
A few months ago, a girl I dated 25 years ago contacted me. I couldn't believe it. I was crazy about her back then, but she crushed me when she broke up. I texted her and said I'd call but never did. I felt no anger or ill will towards her at all. Just felt nothing. Haven't heard from her since and doubt I ever will. Sorry babe. You had your chance.
@mikekas1411
@mikekas1411 3 жыл бұрын
Each time my ex has a break up I get a call and endless texts I love her and hate her if that's possible . I know if I ever get back with her I'll be in complete misery so I just wait a few days and it passes thank God .
@carlderossi6497
@carlderossi6497 3 жыл бұрын
best thing you can do with your ex is block them from contacting you. if they were worth anything they would of stayed with you. don't let them bring you down and if they hurt you once they will do it again not worth it to you. have some self respect and move on and live your life and never look back.
@Edvinas97
@Edvinas97 4 жыл бұрын
(3 min of reading) I was contacted by a girl, who wasn't my ex but i was in friendzone with her. At the time i had this delusion like many guys that one day she will be interested romanticly. Long story short.. I lost contact with her as she got married and had a kid, who was typical asshole (i didn't know the guy only what she described about him, he might have been cool dude who knows) i didn't even noticed any red flags with her.. So after a year she hits me up and complains how her life is boring now after marriage and child, and that she wants to meet up with me.That she wants to probably divorce the guy because she is bored or whatever I wasn't rude or anything, i just said i am not her backup boyfriend, she was flabbergasted that someone rejected her invitation to be with her Dont be desperate and do your own thing
@daneycm
@daneycm 3 жыл бұрын
Nice response Took less than a minute to read though
@elrickpenn
@elrickpenn 3 жыл бұрын
@@daneycm ... Ikr ...
@lukluk8844
@lukluk8844 4 жыл бұрын
resources, resources, resources, resources, resources She wants access to it.
@csw7861
@csw7861 4 жыл бұрын
Avoid their charms, their intentions are treacherous never go back to an ex it will end the same way ultimately
@thomaswalz3515
@thomaswalz3515 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a musician. I had a big show a couple years ago, and 5 ex-lovers showed up... one even said, "my husband is gone on business for the week." Nice... maybe later... Women want what they can't have.... "Leave em wanting more." - - PT Barnum
@ca9968
@ca9968 3 жыл бұрын
If you keep in contact with your ex then you are her back door to exit whatever relationship she is currently in... make the "Ex" in Ex-Girlfriend stand for EXCOMMUNICATED!
@cubanorasta94
@cubanorasta94 4 жыл бұрын
My ex saw my stories of me hanging with friends, being on my purpose and encouraging people to be better. She contacted me yesterday in less than 24 hours of eyeballing me on social media. Good timing, Rich.
@brakmaster
@brakmaster 3 жыл бұрын
My ex sent me a dm on instagram after having broken up over 4 years. I immediately blocked her. There's a reason it didn't work out no need to stir up the past just keep moving forward and you do you.
@MissingGingerSnap
@MissingGingerSnap 4 жыл бұрын
My husband's ex girlfriend sent him a message to let him know the dog she owned while they lived together was getting surgery and might die. They broke up like 5 yrs ago. 🤦🏻‍♀️ LMAO!! I don't understand what she expected and why she thought that was a good idea. Especially knowing the drama they had due to that dog. She purchased it against his wishes and he ended up taking care of the dog because she was too lazy. When they separated, she ended up giving the dog to her parents anyway. The audacity, she had no shame.
@andersonboy620
@andersonboy620 3 жыл бұрын
so true! low quality woman
@recyclespinning9839
@recyclespinning9839 3 жыл бұрын
The fact she didn't take care of the dog tells you everything ...
@andersonboy620
@andersonboy620 3 жыл бұрын
Thats kind of normal in that kind of people though
@darklorddragonslaye1
@darklorddragonslaye1 3 жыл бұрын
She was probably fishing for him to cover the medical bill.
@emgee9775
@emgee9775 Жыл бұрын
@@andersonboy620 oh yeah, it’s like they can’t see it
@godsnobody2915
@godsnobody2915 3 жыл бұрын
"Hypergamy has no shame..." Now that is something to always remember! Bravo! ❤
@aarongunnz9513
@aarongunnz9513 4 жыл бұрын
Ex girlfriend wanted to come coz she got a baby boy and the father dumped. But I refused her a re-entry
@vicpinto1970
@vicpinto1970 4 жыл бұрын
You're LA privileges have been revoked.
@thisismagacountry1318
@thisismagacountry1318 4 жыл бұрын
@@vicpinto1970 How's the butthole, Marcellus? Also, it's Your.
@thisismagacountry1318
@thisismagacountry1318 4 жыл бұрын
@The Droid I just borrowed it from Jussie Smollett to trigger Libtards. After they attack I remind them these 4 words were spoken by a DEMOCRAT.
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