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I stumbled upon one of my older poems titled ‘Song For Soulmate’, from 2009 or so, and realized I’d changed my mind about the idea of a life partner.
There’s a few soul connections (if we believe on them) that we can seek, pursue or experience:
Soulmates,
Soul crossing,
Soul Ties,
Twin Flame…
I now find myself saying, what’s really important is stability, compatibility, love and other values/priorities. Without the element of ‘soulmate’ necessarily being a part of it all.
“Once you have a partner who gives you that sense of ease and comfort, try not to obsess over whether they fit every characteristic you imagined your partner would have. Are they not as tall as you imagined? Ignore it. Do they come from a different kind of family background? Talk it through.”
“You may find that building a team-like relationship to face life’s challenges feels very much like the soulmate you have been seeking. The difference is that you formed it rather than found it.” (Psychology Today).
I know relationships are very layered and complex; so consider this video one version of one angle 😀
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