I'm NOT pretty enough in Korea!

[@MiKole86]

Your title for this video is hilarious! You are gorgeous, woman! I don’t know what you’re talkin’ about. This was fun to talk about. I enjoyed this video a lot!

[@juno1765]

@@itsjinakim lol

[@Bruno-lz8qp]

i think jina is one of the kindest , most intelligent, cutest people i ever knew. This "men" doesn't deserve you Jina.

[@89소피]

You sound like u have a good head on ur shoulders Mike!

[@M1Ck-23]

Come here Jina lets be friends.. you was awesome girl for what i see.. but the way you want leave from korea to other country because guy in korea not see as you want.. is like running.. if you want leave korea for a while for refreshing is good idea, but dont expect too much other country see you as you want to.. For the guy you be with my be he was still think does you was the girl for him so he my be still think 50-50 dont want lose you but dont know what should he do next if you become his Gf.. someday the one will come to you and he will accepted who you are.. Make a lot of friends from there my be you can fine the one who can accepted the way you are.. :)

[@Blue-rf3rc]

If you always look for thing around toilet, you will always find poop! This phrase is brilliant. I learn a lot. Thx Mikole 👍. I hope Jina also learn a lot from this phrase like I do. Fighting Jina dear, I know someday will come, someone who love you as you are. GBU dear.

[@RachelKim]

You ARE beautiful inside and out! 🌹I am glad we had this talk!!

[@joey9646]

Rachel Kim knows what’s up

[@adampaula1863]

Both of you ladies are awesome... . Thanks for sharing experience. 🤗🤗🤗

[@daisylovesnoodles2166]

jina is so pretty she should not be sad that an opprtunity is closed because im sure she has lots open

[@estrellassoliloquies]

You look like someone but I JUST CAN'T REMEMBER.... Is it Yeonmi Park, the Refugee from NK or I don't know.. It's like I've seen you somewhere... 🤔 and I can't relax unless I remember 😅

[@julietthomas6392]

Your English is sooo good

[@supdevan6413]

Sounds like thi guy was talking to multiple women at the same time and didn't want to commit to anything.

[@HmLys]

Fejita ESF wrong

[@cartoonhanks1708]

It could have been that they had a really nice date and things were going well. But he wanted to get to know her better and then when she started suggesting that they date he felt as if it was an ultimatum because in my experience when women have something they want to hide they'll try to date you early.

[@hannah4107]

Thelondonbadger What? Where do you live, lol? That’s definitely *not* how it goes. Your entire comment is kind of sexist and far from reality. Women don’t focus on married guys. And men don’t usually date up to 15 (!) women at the same time, even in times of Tinder, unless they are massive idiots with amazing time management. Stop generalizing.

[@Halvtooth]

That could be true but he could also just be afraid of commitment.

[@menot1]

Unrelated, but you are really handsome bro

[@lovelymonster4156]

Rachel and Mike seem awesome to be friends with. I like how they take the time to understand Jina's perspective, think critically, and provide insightful thoughts and feedback in a way that's comforting yet thought-provoking. Good job Jina for surrounding yourself with caring people! :)

[@aiviedalmacio]

"You just need to be patient. To not settle for average or mediocre. Because you are not average or mediocre. And you deserve to have the most beautiful love story in the world." Lauren Jarvis-Gibson

[@joshualee6765]

thats a total load of crap no offense or anything... thats basically saying dont settle for a average guy cuz ur better then that... maybe the average guy is better then the ones she is into...

[@iyananana5701]

@@joshualee6765 agree

[@NewCanadianTurtle]

So basically, be delusional until its too late and you've hit your 40s, and now even the average dudes won't date you. Good advice mate

[@aiviedalmacio]

@@NewCanadianTurtle lol

[@markalejandrox]

Bunch of white knights here....

[@Creek54]

My theory about the guy is he wanted 'some' and didn't know when he would get 'some' so he got impatient and gave up. And yes, you are very beautiful!

[@handsomedevil7547]

"Some" of what? Did he proy want sex?

[@Creek54]

@@handsomedevil7547 Yes. Some guys have 1 goal.

[@markalejandrox]

@@Creek54 yeah bad boys. Not everyone is as holy as thou, sir white knight.

[@Creek54]

@@markalejandrox Thank you! :)

[@Ra1nb0wPuff]

@Thelondonbadger no it's not psycho and neither was it an ultimatum, she simply asked where they're at AND offered to take it slow if he wanted to. your attitude shows you're like him, immature

[@emiendafu645]

Listen to Mike, Jina. That was a great advice he gave at the end. It'sthe kind of guys we meet sometimes. You are a beautiful girl. Don't feel like it's your fault. We all face the sane issues with guys around the world. When youI meet the right guy everything will just be smooth sailing from there on. Come to LA Jina.

[@M0NDSTAUB]

I feel like most of the korean man arent ready for woman who are straight forward and always or mostly say whats on their mind. Strong womans sure have it harder finding a man that suits them and doesnt mind dating a girl like that. Keep your head up!!! 🤗🥰

[@leaSou--]

u so right! especially at the beginning communication

[@mfranchescaf]

My advice to Jina is spend some time being alone. Highly recommend the book 'what a time to be alone' and 'how to get over a boy' it will change your view on dating and give you back your power :)

[@seashore961]

Yesss!! These books are life-changing!!

[@yolandaanani5502]

For real? Lol just because one dating went wrong. Hahaha she spent time with her self.

[@purplefler4579]

I also agree with this! Spending time alone gives you time to think about what you really want from a relationship and how to achieve that... And you should start enjoying your own company first... Only then you are ready to date :)

[@michellemyers8583]

No, you just need to force yourself to get over it and move on a quick as possible. Life is too short. All the good men get taken quick. Your eggs are dieing as you get older. Time is ticking. My advice is get over is fast, forgive fast, and don't carry that baggage with you in the next relationship. It's not another man's problem. Everyone is different and it's not a man's responsibility to fix a woman. It's yourself that is responsible for you.

[@kimayak6013]

That guy didn’t deserve u and u are really pretty and brave

[@johnakerberg1849]

It sounds like he didn't want a relationship and wanted just a fling. You are beautiful and shouldn't sell yourself short. Don't move because of one guy, there's other guys out there who would be lucky to have you. I agree it's reasonable to after a few dates to ask if you two are a couple now. It was cute what you did.

[@jmsomps]

Back in the 80s and 90s, in Japan, they went through stages. When I met my girlfriend, they were in the Italian guy phase and she thought that I was Italian and the guy she had just broke up with was Italian. The next phase was the hip-hop / black guy phase and it was a fashion statement to have a black boyfriend or girlfriend, so this is what opened the doors to black people in Japan. I was living there through this whole transition and saw the change like a crowd doing the wave.

[@Pauline-su7do]

“You know what? Okay. Honestly.. the reason why I wanna go abroad is that because I want to experience some new guys” HAHAHAHA ILY JINA you’re a mood. 😂❤️

[@rizataufiqurrohman3850]

@@FoodforThought12345678dsds I think tha'ts a slang. means Jinna has lift up her mood/make her happy or something like that.

[@PaulineMitchell]

Hey another Pauline, nice to meet you!

[@11westgirls]

Hi, Jina! I think that everything is happened in the best way. This guy from another city probably just wanted to have some fun and you has acted just right to ask him for his intentions. This type of guys can be already in a relationship or even engaged, that's why they are looking for something out of their city. I'm sure you'll find soon the perfect man for you and he will love you the most. 💗💗💗

[@bero041]

Jina! You and so many women deserve so much love and care! I pray that you will meet a mature guy who know that you're worth more than gold and have intentions just like micheal says.. Just be patient lovely! i totally support you in trying to know where the relationship is heading.

[@JokerFlip213]

Mike dropping some straight knowledge! on another note I think Mike is onto something when we he was asking how and where cause Jina is a catch and is probably fishing in the wrong pounds if that makes sense???

[@thiagofrugis3539]

Hey Jina, i don't know if you're gonna read this, but, i've watched some of your videos, and i can say i truly enjoy your content. You're fantastic! And about the topic of this video, I just want to say that i think you're a wise, gorgeous and very confident girl. It's not everyone who could say things like this to everybody. To be honest, I think you really attractive, and there's NO PROBLEM taking the first step and asking a Guy to be your BF. You have my respect. Greeting from Brazil !!

[@geoffwitt4227]

I feel the same. Greetings from the US.

[@luvbeauhh]

Early Squad! BTW: You are beautiful and gorgeous. Some people just can't understand beauty itself

[@Rylynnslee]

I do think cultural differences play a huge role in dating. When I first found Jina on KZbin I couldn’t believe that she was born and raised in Korea cus of how openly expressive and progressive she is in life and dating. Although recently it’s starting to change, Korea is still very culturally homogenous and emphasize the collective “norm” more than individual expression (which is more emphasized in Western culture). There are a lot of heteronormative behavioural expectations for dating in Korea, and I honestly think they’re too rigid for someone who is as unapologetically, authentically herself as Jina. I really do think you should move abroad. I think you’ll have the best of times. ♥️♥️

[@Maddie-rv6sp]

i agreeee asian-american guys would loveeee jina!

[@plushykittykat]

I LOVE the messages: notice patterns of behavior in the same environment of people, work on yourself first and be the light. Each country and person finds beauty in different things, and you will inevitably increase the positive nature of your interactions by truly doing the work in yourself mentally, physically and spiritually. It's been an experiment of mine for s year of intensive study and new social environment to support such changes, it's hard work and we are each worth self development efforts.

[@donnamarkyang9764]

GIRL! you are fine! You are pretty enough! Lovemyself, love yourself.. you got this!

[@malu2148]

I feel you, Jina! I’ve lived in Europe for a while and for sure the guys there like me more than the guys in my country (Brazil). About you going to live abroad to experience different guys: JUST DO IT, girl 😂 it’s a great experience to be so different and special somewhere. But just to let you know you’re my fav Korean KZbinr and in my opinion one of the prettiest 💕

[@KitKatMEOWWW]

Wow your friends gave really great advice and insight. You have great friends that support and care about you because you are awesome Jina! We will always support you too. I'm also in the same boat as Jina and that message helped me too :) Thx guys! Btw, I think it would be a good idea to meet guys thru friends recommendations. Why doesnt Mike recommend some guys to you that he knows? He seems like a really decent guy, so he probably knows other really decent guys. 소개팅 해야돼요~! 지나 예쁘니 화이팅!! 힘업!업!업!♡

[@kedanpentia459]

I will be honest, this video was heartfelt, educational and comedy all in one.😇 And Jina you're so beautiful.😘

[@swathi8560]

It is so nice to hear about your story... It was like listening to my friend....

[@zennlotus]

I accidentally paused at 1:04 and I wanna say your friends looked so cute LOL. even squirtle at the back is making this "uh uh here comes some tea sigh". I really like the dynamics and chemistry between the 3 of you!! And Jina!! Yes, be the confident light!

[@ellisjason333]

I like your approach to confess your feeling. Travel to Thailand, Vietnam and Singapore after the covid. I’m rooting for you.

[@creepybeautiful3867]

Omg Jina !!!! You're so brave and a strong sensitive open minded girl you deserve all the best and the one that will try to get to know you more and try to feel how a big heart you have then, he will probably realise how a rare treasure you are ... so don't loose confidence it's just not the right guy I also met a guy that was so into me ( he's Korean too ) and then disappear the only difference is that I didn't see him more than just s friend at all. But I questioned myself about how if I was into him and just got ghosted ... Anyway, you are beautiful!

[@andyl4495]

Mike is so chill. Some real solid advice there.

[@MoonCherryLove]

Yaaay my fav 3 Kims agaiiin~

[@ChrsLee78]

I think that you should totally go abroad (when things return to “normal”). Not just to meet guys... although I’m sure that will happen too. But to learn more about yourself. When you spend your entire life in the same places, surrounded by people who think the same way, and only experience one culture it’s hard to imagine a different way of living. Also, I think that experiencing other cultures first hand can help us to see the strengths and weaknesses of our own culture more clearly. I’ve been thinking about moving to another country myself to expand my understanding of not only the world, but also of who I am and what is important to me. It’s a scary step and most people end up not doing it, but I think you can gain a lot if you are able to take that step. But that’s just my opinion. I’m sure you will figure out what is best for you. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

[@Nora-sw6uh]

Omg, I love Jina more and more! She is so honest and so beautiful from inside and out! She doesn't need to change! She is doing things her own way and this exactly will let her true love to recognise her!

[@Nora-sw6uh]

But go and travel! Find your answers for yourself! We all learn best from own experience:) Btw, I've heard spanish people are very warm. But your soul mate could be everywhere around the world!

[@evilbankai5166]

in all your relationships you are the common denominator. i noticed that you heavily rely on other people's opinions too much and that fuels your low self-esteem problem even more. you should find a way to not care about other people's feelings and opinions and focus improving on yourself. i did that and i have been happy ever since. dealing with your issues instead of running away to another country should be your first priority.

[@belladonna7676]

Evil BanKai I don’t think she depends that much. She just choose to share a vulnerable moment with us.

[@AnRovik]

While it's a little cruel, I also think she isn't doing herself any favors here. If she can't find a good match after this long, it's really unlikely it's the country that's the problem.

[@loujaimegb6312]

Jina, just wait or sit back and relax the right guy for you is on the province. WHO knows we'll never know.Enjoy ur vlogs I know he's watching right now..😘🎁

[@pinkpantress]

side note, but aghhhhhhhh that hair cut, style and colour fits you sooooooooooo well omg I love it!!!!

[@Mitzukiflyhigh]

Hey, Jina, you're gorgeous! I really found myself in your story because i always tend to be the first one to ask the guy out or something like this and then i start questioning myself why i did it and why i didn't let him do it. Even so, i don't think it's wrong for a girl to ask a guy out or if he wants to be her boyfriend. I think guys these days are kinda layed back and are scared of serious commitment, at least in my country, Romania. Enjoyed this video a lot!

[@harmonyexists2834]

If a guy makes you feel unattractive, he's not the one for you. Not to mention, what kind of moron goes on a date with someone they don't find attractive?!?!

[@jedwards5061]

Well, Korea’s missing out. You’re definitely gorgeous here in the States 🙃

[@ligur6542]

Jina I like how you are open and honest talking about all the insecurities that you had 👍👍 you really have strong personality

[@monayunita6163]

I think Mike got the point. You could analyze more about where you found all these guys. If you keep meeting the wrong one, probably you should change the environment (not necessarily countries). You could learn something new that you always wants to. There you might meet someone nice. But it really doesn’t matter if you don’t because you are doing stuff you like. Being comfortable alone is the key to find the right one.

[@MIGHTYcbu]

The guy wasn’t ready, you’re perfect just the way you are 👌 Love the short hair btw

[@sweett1973]

Liked and enjoyed the Vlog. Sorry to hear you went through a bad dating experience from the Vet guy. That said, all things happen for a reason. He was not the one and you deserve better. You have some nice friends with good advice that support you. Liked the last statement at the end...be the light. Your "Mr. Right" is out there and don't worry he will find you when you least expect it. 😏

[@minminineha1]

Jina, you are a beautiful person! Don't ever put your happiness in the hands of anyone else. Whether you are with someone or not. Just keep living your life for yourself and keep improving on yourself. I think your friends are right that it's better not to rush things and just take it slow by really getting to know someone before you get into a relationship. Like if I knew a guy for a while and ONLY then he gave me flowers, I can take it as a cue that he could be interested for real. Cause anyone can do anything at anytime but HOW they do it really matters. And let time pass so that you can know for sure he actually likes you! If you are looking for a more serious relationship, I highly recommend this. Although in the end, it can really depends on the person itself, this is a more safer and assuring method. Just get out there in different activities around your neighborhood for YOURSELF first. Something which you would genuinely love doing or learning. If you emit happiness from the inside, you will attract like minded people! Again, focus on loving yourself. Don't worry, do your thing, everything will eventually fall in place!!

[@maisieannreyes6760]

Wow jina you are so courageous! Not everyone could share the experience you had. I enjoyed the talk it is full of wisdom.

[@dborahluisasebold6041]

the right person will show up, when you least expect it he will just bump into you and it will work, until then patience and don't get discouraged

[@Zoelove282]

You’re so pretty though🥺

[@didemt.6040]

It has been quite some time since You shared this vlog. still I would like to say this; You are a very smart, very beautiful woman who expresses herself well and know what you wants. Therefore, consider bad experiences as lessons he gave you. I'm sure you will meet someone who really deserves you. Also, this blind date thing caught my mind, I think they may have been hesitant because they saw you as more powerful and difficult there. And the uniform always attracts attention, even if it's an office suit. still I think you are on the right track. What went through your mind and what you said/act match so much that I admire your honesty. Loves from Turkey!

[@robertmarsh8334]

You are a beautiful and awesome woman! 힘내요, the right person is out there for you and you will find each other at the perfect moment

[@NanaSun934]

This was a really fun episode! I was laughing so hard! You are unconventional. I enjoyed it. thanks for sharing

[@artemis2luna]

I love your honesty in front of the cameras, that takes courage. Also, props to you for asking a guy out. I think that’s cool but maybe not ask for a bf after 4 dates. Give it a bit more time or like the guy said, ask where do you think this is going? Is kissing on a 4th date forward?!? My 4 yr relationship started with a one night stand...well that was the intention lol...somehow it morphed into friends with benefits and then evolved into a relationship. Many friends have started relationships like that...I didn’t realize kissing was considered forward. For the record, before people start with negative comments, that was in college.

[@ricardodefreitas5964]

Jina,do not put yourself down like that,ever heard that the beauty is in the eye of the beholder,well for me,you in my eyes ,you are beautiful and don't let anyone tell otherwise,ok JAGIYA if you are wondering how i know some words in Korean,is because i dated a Korean woman before,and i love your culture,thank you,JINA

[@Henryisvegan]

When I kiss a girl on a date I like to sing and dance afterwards and I assume we are now boyfriend and girlfriend. I was confused when your date ignored your question but we learn something new everyday.

[@SandyK7]

I love your enthusiasm and like the way you go for what you want... Go Girl 👧

[@256Gigabyte]

I think he's not just into you. Like he likes you but not enough to commit. It doesn't mean your not enough its just that he's not just into u that much. Just don't give up and give too much one day the right person will never let you feel confused. Everything will be clear even you wont asked, thats the man you deserved 😘

[@michaelaangelique504]

You guys are so supportive of each other!!!!

[@WardMikaela]

Jina i totally understand. In sweden people dont even "date".. we say that we "hang out". It is very confusing because i never know if we are friends or if he is interested. Like it has happened that i was hanging out with a male friend, whom i thought was just a friend, and then i suddenly got kissed.. shocked is the word.. I like when people are straight forward and say "hey, im interested in you", so that i KNOW. It is exhausting to go around guessing. But also i seldom get romantically interested in others haha. Thats why i kind of like the way koreans seem to date. Like after a few dates decide like "what are we even doing". In sweden it feels like that if you say that you are boyfriend/girlfriend the guy thinks like "OMG im not ready to get married". Like we are just dating, i dont want to marry you. I just want to know if you like me and i want to get to know you better.

[@justeve9122]

Dating doesn't exist anymore🤣Where Im from,you hang out,and then things happen 🤷‍♀️We even made a joke about it:It was easier before,you hold hands-its considered a relationship.Now,you give birth to his children and still wonder if he's serious about it. Also,2 dates are more than enough to know If you wanna date someone.The one who says he needs more time-is just tryna play you

[@CozyGameCat]

I’ve heard about that in Sweden! A lot of people in the USA want to know what the status is to be sure and we often have that conversation - whether it’s friends, friends with benefits, a relationship... just like Michael says.

[@titirb6624]

Mikaela I totally relate to this! 😅

[@MarcelGomesPan]

Personally i have always found that it works ( im Swedish too ). I have never felt confused about who are friends and who are love interests. I have always had the feeling that non verbal signals, as well as flirtig and things being said makes things clear enough. When we are girlfriend/ boyfriend both just seem to know. But thats my experience. Ofcourse, simply asking works too. Jina is really beautiful by the way!

[@foxy_k9]

I heard that in Korea people can disappear without any reason even when they are in relationships and then appear again few months later like nothing happened, I read many examples in one blog on Instagram...maybe your guy hasn’t decided yet what he wanted and will appear again

[@minatasidibe1006]

Cheer up Jina, you got everything for yourself so if someone treats you bad, its him who's loosing an important person😌👌😏Plus I gotta tell that you got really good friends around you, so listen to them and keep in mind that we're all here to support you, so support yourself too😁😁💙👊

[@mr_antsis]

I wish a female tell me how she feel about me and tell me that she wanna be part of my life ..i will die of happiness if a female tell me that. But o well the expectation its that the male do all those stuff.. because u have to be the “alpha” but for real i know lots of awesome ppl that are big gentleman but also they are shy. I had a friend female that was in love with him but she was waiting for him to tell her. And yeah was late for her because he decided to leave the country. But awesome contents

[@usafan96soren20]

Yeah I feel exactly the same! We're expected to be the "alpha" type, I just wanna be myself. If you ask directly or indirectly and they don't reply straightforward, it's them who usually disappear in my case.

[@adettessubs444]

I'm a girl and I was the one who asked my bf to date me

[@BlackWolf-F-350]

Both your friends advice is solid. My response to your cute message would have been, “LOL, let’s meet for dinner for my answer 😉”

[@HappyGnoux]

i agree with mike! be the light, not the moth. watch some of marisa peer's video about " i am enough"...etc.

[@Liberty21]

Hey Gina! I really enjoyed this video. It’s nice contents. One thing I wanna share with you is that dating is more difficult than escaping from North Korea.lol But one day my phrase will be changed if I meet the right guy. It’s just not your guy. You deserve better😉

[@Nikomairi]

That was really entertaining. I laughed ... but ... it is because you are a good story teller. Liked and Subscribed.

[@roxannebarthus5252]

Hey Jinakim and Mikole . I love your videos! I'm in Korea and find your videos very interesting. Keep up the good work!!! It was nice seeing Rachel kim , too! You guys rock!

[@Jejwiwnsiehueb]

You are beautiful the way you are!❤🥀 Also i love your videos!!! Keep going!😊

[@Simon.0000]

Come on guys if a beauty like jina asked if you want to be her boyfriend you say 🙌 YES!!!! while dancing and screaming with joy

[@gingermaniac5484]

Some information on dating terms in North America and some parts of Europe if you need it (probably already know this) In America, it’s common for people to do what some may call a texting dance You don’t want to look desperate because that could be a red flag for a controlling abusive personality. so you pace yourself and if they don’t text back for a few hours you’re supposed to assume they have an important task or are taking care of their friendships/families or themselves and be respectfully grateful for that. However ghosting is also common which if anyone doesn’t know it’s where you don’t tell someone you’re uninterested and just kind of drop off the face of the internet or social circle, or if the person is very uncaring, they post photos of them having a really good time with other people. You as the ghosted can’t really say anything because if you loved them you should be happy for them. A common saying is “if you love him/her/them let them go” Ghosting is different from bread-crumbing where you stop contact with a few exceptions such as a birthday, a holiday or a bad day so you pity them, they write a heartfelt note and then just go silent or give one worded answers. Like leaving bread crumbs to a starving animal. they won’t leave because your feeding them and by the time your done they’ve been starved and can barely move on Both of these usually happen after lovebombing where the person shows lots of affection and says all the right things to get you hooked on them. *Lovebombing* can happen when a potential partner wants to pump and dump (when you pretend to be interested in a relationship just to use someone for sexual gratification and possibly an ego boost. The ego boost being from how they got to have sex with someone who wanted a stable relationship and didn’t have to commit to anything long term. These scumbags usually brag about it after. It is especially scummy because there’s entire “dating” apps that are designed specifically to commitment free one night stands that both parties agree to, and yet they desire to prey on innocent people who are expecting to find their life partner. Plenty of men are attracted to women who know what they want and say it. However those men usually are secure in their masculinity and don’t feel they have to prove anything by having affairs with someone they view as weaker and more vulnerable. That type of man can be hard to come by in more conservative countries and will generally be more emotionally free. These masculine secure men are prone to crying more and telling people when something is wrong. This is healthy even if conservative women aren’t attracted to it. It’s also common for both partners to split the bill in a relationship, take turns paying on dates, or pay for themselves.

[@alimama234]

Nina you are young,vibrant,pretty lady.... don’t rush things... u will find your soulmate... someone who will truly love you for who you are... if one consider physical attraction as love, the relationship will not last... beauty fades... it’s the character that counts...good luck n pray

[@creativeembargo]

It was interesting hearing your story. If you would have asked me out after just 4 dates I would be confused too. The reason is that I would feel like you don’t know me good enough by now. I would think that you are insecure and that the reason you want to close the deal after a short amount of time . I don’t know if you get it (because my english kinda broken) but I hope I can help you out in some way 😅 His reaction was still not okay do.

[@biellaspointofview2054]

then he shouldn't have had sex. That's all he had wanted

[@chayeon662]

It's when you're not searching anymore that you will find what you needed and not what you wanted and that you didn't need.

[@marklipierfan123lipier3]

You find someone better trust me💯❣️

[@javeriyahalee3030]

Jina you are a beautiful human inside and outside and its OK if you ask him out first if he was really interested in you he should have make you understand that it's too early or something like that but he was just pretending to be a perfect boyfriend but no one is perfect it's good that you asked him and got to know his real self it's like a filter you will get your true love soon and remember if someone love you he will never loose a connection or never leave you like this my good wishes and prayers are you Jina❤️ stay happy 😊

[@ITACHI_UCHIHA1016]

Dont let them get to you Jina, you are very beautiful and you will find someone who will appreciate you. Just give it time and everything will fall into place.

[@xZiDaM]

Off-topic but Jina’s merch looks like actual fire 😍🔥🔥

[@darkcyborgsuperman9521]

Mui caliente 🔥

[@its_taz6717]

Mike idk maybe you can set Jina on a blind date also JINA WE LOVEEE YOU so all the shit that people keep saying that your desperate you know you just want a committed guy and a happy relationship so WHO CARES love yourself and let them follow you , hopefully you get lucky and the right guy finds you 💜☺️ it doesn’t matter how many times they may say no you are you so don’t change that and man who cares your style is sick and we all inspire to be like you !! Leave those regrets and don’t feel to bad x

[@zamp7927]

A girl asking "would you be my boyfriend?" will be the greatest turn on for me. I like confident girls.btw, you are beautiful and i am going on a date with a girl whose name is same as yours.

[@norhaynaklaw3507]

Oww jina that was painful , I experienced it too so I feel you . . Just keep fighting ,I know someday u can find the right guy . Love yahhh❤️❤️❤️😘

[@Hrisii]

HIIi you should visit Bulgaria, because it is completely different ( I say visit not live there permanently) Here is just cozy and little in nice way. People are busy but not busy like in Soul .

[@niggatheechalamet]

ok jina merch is soo cute omggg also COME TO THE UK!!!!

[@kumariwijedasa6637]

Oh Rachel and Jina you both are beautiful and awesome from inside and out😍😍😍😍. You ladies are amazing!!! I understand that even in my case I find it very hard to find my dream guy. Coz I am very independent, strong and straight forward. Most of the men get intimidated by independent ladies. Don't worry loves. You all will find your Prince one day💞💞💞💞. There's nothing wrong about you sweety. You two are doing a good job. Keep it up ladies!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@Acceptheavenshelp]

Jina try the matchmakers, it’s really good !

[@vanaa0]

Hi Gina, I think Mike was right to the point of where and how you find those guys, I agree with him. You don't go to a club to find a good guy, because they themselves.. won't be there. Try to change your pattern, I wish you the best luck!

[@chanmer1]

i totally get you girl. i think Mike was right in his description of where you are looking for guys. i think the problem was when you described him as perfect. if you didn't think he was the "perfect" guy his behavior may not have been as surprising. don't give up. but also if you are interested in moving to another country than do it. yes you'll meet news guys but you'd have an adventure and how fun would that be.

[@mackerelpike3445]

Yey you're with rachel kim and mike 💜💜

[@alienwolf3]

I love the honesty in this Video & I hope Videos like this follow 🤍

[@FakeJolie]

Don't worry Jina 😂 like most of the time guys in my country don't give me attention but when foreigners are in my country thats other story😂😂😂😂

[@randydean6515]

Jina please don't put your self down. You are a beautiful women, If i didn't have a gf i would want to be with a women like you. And no matter what you want to do with your life i would support you in that even when your change your mind. Please never put yourself down.

[@Gogoboy0001]

Gina you are beautiful and strong personality they become unconfident and try tactics to control you they already know you are worthy of something better even if you are humblest person

[@Acradus]

Speaking honestly here... if a woman asked me out in the way she asked the guy, i would have been sooo flattered but also flustered as its never happened😂, but then i think the other thing I’d do is say “I’m honestly off guard here but lets see how it goes”

[@jamonesmusic8398]

Really cool video. In some way I agree with Jina. Seeing her she looks more extrovert than most Korean women. In western cultures being extrovert is usually a positive socially, so she could have more guys interested in her in other countries.

[@lolawho8676]

For some reason it's true what my grandmother said: "Never ask the man out or show him feelings". Even guys say they love it, actually they always escape if you do it. I act even unfriendly to guys and they chase me as crazy... with 29 I was proposed probably more than 34 times ... So Jina, act cool, live ur life to the fullest, do your lovely work and the right one will come! Or more probably many will chase you ... Probably the dude you are mentioning is not even worth of ur attention and am sure he will come back of you completely ignore him... Plus in Germany or France you would be a star !

[@TheGretaoto]

Jina, you are beautiful and I really understand you. I think you did right asking him to be your boyfriend. Don't feel bad and thanks God because he ghosted, this was just a sign he doesn't deserves you. In Brazil, men(most of them) usually ask a girl out and says right away if they like her or not. It is not common to ghost here. At least until now I didn't see it happen to anyone I know. You have a very westernized mind it is not a surprise that you feel the need to go abroad. I think international couples have challenges, but the most part is more like an always learning environment, never boring. Don't forget Jina: the universe will bring the right person to you. Stay safe and follow your heart, Jina!

[@KPopPoison]

Omg mike confirming Jina was attractive was so funny! That was the least objectifying way of checking out a girl I’ve ever seen lol love mike lmao 😂. Atleast where I’m from people don’t define relationships for a long time, you can be seeing someone for months without being official.

[@StephanieVeeMusic]

This was a fun video to watch!!

[@puertoricoweekenddesalsa9891]

I think Michael's advice is spot on.

[@LiNa-fi1bq]

Why Do we care? That Was the most important statement in the Video. Thank you.

[@student166]

Ok i can relate... jina just wanna say Fighting!

[@KoreanChatterbox]

지나씨, 얘기 정말 쫀득쫀득하니 재밌게 잘 하시네요. 반갑습니다

[@KBowWow75]

Jina! Don't go abroad yet. Wait for me. I'm starting my TEFL course next week. I'm coming to Korea soon. Fellow Christian. 🙏 INTJ-A. 😅 🇮🇹🇺🇸 Gonna be in my 30s next winter too. I'll get a hagiwon in Incheon. You'll have a hard time finding someone as motivated and determined as me. 💪🤔😅

[@funfactsshorts65]

Lol

[@darklightangles]

Good luck

[@laus7987]

Lol

[@nadiaaguiar386]

Not gonna lie this made me giggle. How cute hahah 💖 hopefully you run into her when you move to Korea!

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

Why are you going to a country to date

[@squirrelc7770]

I think some people are intimidated by outspoken honest people who say what they really think. Men in general like to think that everything is their idea. As soon as they feel like they are being pushed, they bolt. I also think that really open honest people attract people who want to exploit that- e.g. people who aren't honest!! All best to you Jina xxx