I'm Not Thinking About Her! [Boyfriend Roleplay][Calling You my Ex's Name][Argument][Apology] ASMR

Baby don't go, I screwed up.. x
[Disclaimer: Argument audio & work of fiction. Not the usual idyllic RP. If you're in a sensitive spot right now, listen with caution. There will be another regular audio soon. ❤️]
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[@ranjini1828]

9:09 K:"babe i came to say sorry " Go tell your Anne 😤😢

[@wintaiiya]

LMAOAOAOA

[@TheSweetForever]

Literally what I would say. I’d be so mad haha.

[@touchetaco4056]

BHAHAHHA LMFAO

[@ChebetKoech-ee4js]

I literally said that in my head

[@Starry_Joy]

I think I’m more insulted at the fact K would think I’d date a “Bob” 😭

[@lopsie7479]

LMFAOOOO

[@Victoria-_]

😂😂😂

[@aeri_taylors-version]

those are fighting words for real 🤣

[@uwu-sd4sf]

I read the tags and immediately got mad 😂

[@leena6681]

Me too I clicked so fast so he can apologise fast

[@gehandrirendon9054]

hahahahha x2 ​@@leena6681

[@estefany.dl7]

ME TOO 🫠😂😂

[@killerqueen6733]

i took it personally

[@nkatya.nachella9340]

Same 😂😂😂

[@zaviaaww7040]

"Divorce babe divorce " -- adele

[@alicebizzarri02]

6:28 “ Sorry Anne” The woman was too stunned too speak 👁️👄👁️

[@gennygen6269]

FRR 😭😭

[@Hopefully8554]

'Accidently calling you ex' s name ' How dare you ? 😢

[@revathy6745]

Calling us by your ex's name 🤨 It's time for some drama !

[@Bl4ck.h0le]

DID YOU SAY DRAMA? AESPA? I BRING I BRING ALL THE DRAMA-MA-MA-MA

[@zzluzzz]

​@@Bl4ck.h0le Drama you said?? WITH MY GIRLS IN THE BACK! GIRLS IN THE BACKKK 🗣️🗣️

[@fr0stal1na]

@@Bl4ck.h0le With my girls in the back Girls in the back Drama😜😜😜😜

[@seungminsnostrilhairs.]

🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 I BRING I BRING I BRING ALL THAT DRAMAMAMAMA I BRING DRAMAMAMAMA WITH MY GIRLS IN THE BACK GIRLS IN THE BACK drama 💃💃💃💃💃​ @@Bl4ck.h0le

[@aairahxx]

WITH MY GIRLS IN THE BACK GIRLS IN THE BACK DRAMAAA~​@@Bl4ck.h0le

[@nazwakayde]

3:11 K: "How can you reject this face?!" Also K: 👓 😭😭😭

[@A30NS.]

LMFAOOOO

[@alicebizzarri02]

HAHAHAHAH LMAOO😆

[@estefany.dl7]

I thought the same 😭 HAHAHAHAHA

[@skapie6895]

LMAO

[@starrr432]

THIS SHOULDN'T BE THAT FUNNY 😂😂

[@ranjini1828]

I love that he put the disclaimer in the description. I just wanna tell you most of us in here are not really angry . We are just acting angry just like we smile and blush when you say lovey dovey things in other audios . Except the people who really experienced this in real life and it hurt them, i am sorry, I hope you recover from this and find a person who love you right .

[@revathy6745]

That's is correct .

[@abumble2862]

We came from him accidentally calling us his wife to him calling us by his ex's name💔

[@vanillabean5294]

😭 💔

[@melissaalvarez655]

what can I tell you , it's a man at the end of day

[@valiiwhatasweetheart]

omg wait ur so right

[@AveryVeryyy]

Omg which audio was the wife thing on?

[@vanillabean5294]

@@AveryVeryyy it's from a few months ago and it's called "Wait.. I called you my wife?" such a good audio haha ☺

[@queenofheartz2471]

7:30 never thought I would see a day were K gaslight us.. Damn

[@brightcloud4847]

Omgg I thought the same thing 💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@namelessmefacelessyou2138]

Ikr the perfect man actually doesn't exist

[@toriwilliams2828]

Anybody else instinctually turn their head to dodge his kisses bc go kiss Anne tf🤣

[@nazwakayde]

LMAOOO K really did choose violence today huh? He broke us all 😆 Like nuh uh sir, not now, not after you just called me 'Anne' 😒😩😆

[@gremblygunk7933]

FRRRR

[@amora4evrr]

ur so real for this queen

[@classicvy]

the amount of excitement i felt after seeing 'argument' in the tags is unhealthy 😮‍💨

[@baileyreadss]

you and me both

[@Likes_Mochi]

Same ngl it’s 11:30pm I need to sleep it’s gonna be a long day tmr

[@yourlocalsimp9909]

I live for drama

[@Bebee245]

If you're Ann/Anne/Anna or a similar name, congratulations K just said your name in an audio👑

[@AnnieKeke-dx6xd]

My name is composed but there’s a anne in it

[@sveltesoteric]

"Sorry-" *Closes my eyes* "Sorry Anne" *Eyes opening aggressively*

[@Junebug2908]

I actually would break up over this 💀

[@vote4688]

So, we had a bad day, we came home to him calling us by his ex's name and then calling us crazy 5 seconds later???? Nuh uh babe you bet i'm leaving and waiting for you to beg for an apology

[@habiba5994]

THANK YOU! I usually LOVE his audios but this one was a big no for me.

[@Tallarinesrojos.]

Apart from wherever we like or don’t this audio. Can we appreciate the fact that K is a really good VA, bc only by his voice make us believe that this scenario is soo real. Im so proud of K improvement along the years

[@alicebizzarri02]

Yes he is so good and i’m proud too about how far he has come🥹❤️

[@nightsstarx]

i don’t know why but i’m a sucker for the ‘arguments’ audios, i think i just like the drama 😂

[@jaz9891]

“Accidentally calling you my ex’s name” Id cry omg

[@alicebizzarri02]

6:50 Us : Who’s Anne? K: it might seem crazy what i’m about to say 🎶

[@nazwakayde]

*insert dramatic music 😭🔪

[@alicebizzarri02]

@@nazwakayde 🤣🤣 Actually i don’t know why when i’m replying to what he is saying in his audios what pops up in my head are songs and memes lol😆❤️

[@nazwakayde]

​@@alicebizzarri02ahahahahah sometimes there are so many opportunities for meme/songs refrences with K's audios its hard not to think of one so I dont blame you 🤣❤

[@random_9284]

AAHAHAHA

[@urinaaman]

Called us his ex's name and then said we're crazy OH WERE THROWING HANDS

[@Layla-mq6me]

This is so realll😂

[@kotaleartist]

i love how everyone is excited to get enraged. we are just here for the emotional rollercoaster

[@ks.glasses]

I just realized i now say “sorry” like he does 😭. I think I listen to his audios too much..

[@Angelin.25.]

8:05 “you can call me your ex’s name I don’t mind” Remember the audio (your said you ex’s name) You sounded different there :)

[@alicebizzarri02]

Yes hahahahah i thought about this too 😆❤️

[@nazwakayde]

Lmaooo I guess its fair between us and him now 😭😆❤

[@vanillabean5294]

Fr don’t contradict yourself babes 😂

[@Angelin.25.]

@@nazwakayde maybe 😂❤️

[@Angelin.25.]

@@alicebizzarri02 😁❤️

[@venus3967]

"I came to say sorry" Kay babes, go tell your ex 👀🤠

[@Angelin.25.]

9:48 - 13:31 I’m literally in love with your apology skills, the way you can reflect about yourself and how you know you messed it up IS INCREDIBLY BEAUTIFUL! 😭❤️

[@sunflowerpower321]

I am SUPER interested in the psychology of conflict mediation and have many thoughts about this audio so get ready for an essay 😅 First off, I am not writing this to invalidate any person’s experience. Triggers are very real. Even a sound or smell can trigger a PTSD flashback and I know this from personal experience. Does that mean people are not allowed to point out that you are overreacting when triggered? No. Some people here are overstating the harm of someone who accidentally mixed up a name. Human beings are allowed to think about their exes sometimes. Our brains are a collection of memories. Perhaps someone saw something that reminded them of their ex. Perhaps they saw their name somewhere or they appeared on their social media. Perhaps you are a forgetful person or Neurodivergent and often mix up names. This is not cheating. It doesn’t mean we are fantasising about getting back with our ex. I also think the double standards is interesting. In a previous audio where the listener says her ex’s name while sleeping on multiple nights: K’s character ignores the first few times and then brings it up after it continues. There is no exploding and insults from him and we have a relatively calm conversation until it is resolved. So why is the boyfriend being held to a higher standard than the girlfriend? The clinical definition of gaslighting is: “psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typically leads to confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, uncertainty of one's emotional or mental stability, and a dependency on the perpetrator”. That is NOT what is happening in this scenario. This is not a repeated pattern of behaviour nor is the intent malicious. The listener has never been called a gaslighter even though in multiple audios she pretends that her ex is not calling her or texting her or talking to her, even though he is. This is also not gaslighting: just being dishonest to avoid conflict (she tells the truth in the end). But I wonder why the word gaslighting has never been brought up in those audios when the girlfriend is being dishonest and yet it has been used multiple times in this thread. Yes, calling someone who is upset ‘crazy’ or ‘silly’ is not nice and can lead to further upset so not the best move by K’s character but he didn’t deny that he said ‘Anne’. I empathise in this situation because if someone exploded at me for saying another name by accident and was accusing me of thinking of someone else and then storming out of the room, I would probably panic in response and say the wrong thing or make a terrible joke while attempting to diffuse the situation. That is not gaslighting but just poorly handling someone else’s emotional outburst in a moment of surprise. If someone says something without the intent to harm and that triggers an emotional wound within someone, that doesn’t automatically put one person into the role of victim and the other of perpetrator. To clarify, I am not blaming the listener for getting upset in this scenario either as we can’t choose when we get triggered but we must have a process of identifying within ourselves when this happens and choose to not lash out at other people. I don’t agree with the listener’s character calling K’s character ‘stupid’ and an ‘idiot’ at the end as that’s mean and is meant to intentionally hurt him. People can be mean when they are angry and I’ll assume the listener apologised for the insults later. I like argument ASMR audios as much as the next person because I appreciate how kind and gentle K’s character tries to be but let’s acknowledge the listening character’s behaviour isn’t always perfect just because they are the listener. Neither is perfect in this scenario and both characters deserve empathy. So in summary: - Somebody being triggered doesn’t automatically mean an act of violence has taken place by the other party. - The term gaslighting (a form of abuse) is used too frivolously on the internet. - Feeling discomfort doesn’t always mean that harm was caused. - Conflict between two people is uncomfortable but doesn’t automatically mean abuse. I hope the people who are still angry with K’s character (even after all the apologies) read my comment, do further research and talk with their therapists incase this happens with a partner in real life one day. This is not meant to be patronising by the way- I’m in regular therapy myself! All the best with everyone’s healing journeys and I hope you found this comment interesting 🙏🏾

[@Angelin.25.]

3:13 “how can you reject this face” Oh honey if I’m mad, I don’t care about that 🥰

[@Angelin.25.]

11:57 “holy crap I’m about to lose the best thing in my life because of one word that slipped up” I’m crying 😭

[@vanillabean5294]

Ye so be careful what you say mister! 😤

[@alicebizzarri02]

When he said that i got sad too i was like nooo k don’t say that😭❤️

[@Angelin.25.]

@@alicebizzarri02 A tear came out 🥹❤️

[@Angelin.25.]

@@vanillabean5294 totally agree with you! 😌

[@nkatya.nachella9340]

I forgive you ... Eric

[@namelessmefacelessyou2138]

Bruh idk of I'm overreacting but if my partner called me his ex's name that's the biggest red flag ever

[@krisleyannetam4015]

noo, ure not overreacting!! that is completely valid huhu

[@meiphoriaediting6348]

I thought he said "Sorry and" like it took me a minute 😭 I was waiting for him to finish that sentence too lol

[@vanillabean5294]

Don’t worry you’re not alone on that I was also confused 😂

[@lovelyjuliexo]

6:21 the ex name part 😬😤 9:10 apology 😭

[@its.woyoung]

it took him 3 minutes?! 🙄

[@gremblygunk7933]

NAH SEE MY TRUST ISSUES COULD NEVER LITERALLY LEAVING

[@YujinLilMeow]

12:20 "period" 💅

[@jxnni_xo]

the heart at the end of the title is broken 😭

[@sarastrawberries]

Reading through the comments seeing how pressed we all are lmfao glad I’m not the only one

[@BibiMiku]

He said the name as things started to chill 😫😫

[@Freakey505]

Not gonna lie I'm still mad after listening this audio😂

[@melissaalvarez655]

me

[@nazwakayde]

Thank you to K for giving out a disclaimer in the description, we appreciate you a bunch ❤ My heart goes out to those who feels this audio has hit too close to home and those who are still healing from a past relationship ❤

[@youngmi852]

This audio stirred up so many emotions within me...my love for argument audios is concerning 😭 but K handled it cutely i could sense the nervous tone which made this feel genuine ♥️✨

[@lovelyjuliexo]

3:11 lmfao the shock from him 😂

[@Monaayy232]

So now all of us have beef with anne who prolly dosent even exist🙂

[@alicebizzarri02]

0:52 Ok but now i’m genuinely curious to know which book is he reading🤣❤️👀

[@ashleymarian24]

I was in midst of tears when he said my own name😭✋

[@nazwakayde]

I just realised there's a broken heart next to the title 🥺💔 I love the small details K always adds from time to time! ❤

[@alicebizzarri02]

I noticed too i didn’t noticed it at first 🥹🥺💔 And yes i love his attention to the details too❤️

[@Sanju_introvertgirl0410]

Isn't he just awesome?

[@nazwakayde]

@@alicebizzarri02 perfectly pictures our hearts during the audio 😆❤ And yesss, he always puts so much effort in 🥹🫶

[@nazwakayde]

@@Sanju_introvertgirl0410 100%! ❤

[@babyl.3475]

bro was trying to gaslight us 😡 i don’t like this audio 😒

[@AbcDef-yj9gj]

Ikr it made me so pissed like it's not the K that we know

[@aliyasexception]

Nah, him saying I’m being silly like I’d leave right after that, we’re not talking for 5-10 business days and you gotta do a LOT more to earn my forgiveness 😒

[@oriana8834]

That ex's name went pass me so easily, i thought he said "and" and not "Anne" lmaooo

[@tieraaxo]

Nahh you still didn’t give a good reason for you saying ANNE😒😂

[@izzybv]

That's what I'm sayinnnnnnnn

[@angel-le3vp]

imagine if there’s a listener called anne!!!😭😭😭😭

[@lily.f9485]

I was thinking the same😂

[@Honey-nx9cz]

That’s my nickname so… 🤷‍♀️

[@smileymel07]

I'm a very forgiving person... However, I already have serious trust issues with people so I'm not quite sure what I'd do in a situation like this... I'm more mad that he called her crazy... I would have needed to leave to completely cool down from that. 😤😅

[@Itz_faith.13]

Hey K its Faith here! and i js wanna say im proud of how far youve came and you've done so well with your audios, just remember to take breaks, i have a few questions, 1. Have u been drinking enough water lately? 2. Have you been eating enough? 3. Have u been taking breaks? Sorry if im Being annoying im just wanting to make sure ur okay!!🫶🏻

[@izzybv]

If your name is anne, HOW COULD U FUMBLE THE BAG LIKE THAT?????

[@vote4688]

BUT WHY ARE YOU CALLING ME BY HER NAME IF YOU'RE NOT THINKING ABOUT HER😭

[@vanillabean5294]

Fr there’s no other explanation 🙂

[@CERTIFIED_KNEEGAH]

whewww the way i would’ve been heatedddd😭

[@eva9092]

Oh wow, my insecurities could never handle this without breaking down😆

[@alhelibenitez2299]

Right? 😂

[@rinevei]

I love it, your videos are always so refreshing and well done, thank you for always giving your best

[@vanillabean5294]

“Part Viking” 😂 I know he’s part Swedish but I never made the connection to Vikings! That’s really cool~

[@alicebizzarri02]

Hahahaha yeees when he said i got excited 🤣❤️

[@Phoenix_Ash30]

I love how it's the first time I've seen K in like a childish (somewhat) role tho personally I wont be able to let this slide LMAO it'll be an ENDLESS argument cause bro who's Anne!!

[@commom1]

I love this. Now, I’ll meet you in Patreon, and you can show me exactly how sorry you are. 😏💜

[@nkatya.nachella9340]

Yessir

[@namelessmefacelessyou2138]

This would trigger my trust issues

[@vote4688]

Mister K, come here to read the comments and see what emotions and reactions you have awakened in us with this audio!😤💔💝

[@alicebizzarri02]

6:00 Not him saying “ your butt it’s squishy” and then smaking it like he’s so silly lmaooo😆❤️

[@baileyreadss]

why am i actually mad 😂

[@Marblxrbx]

why is nobody talking about the little broken heart in the title? 😭

[@toriwilliams2828]

Honestly I would’ve loved if this was a two parter & we didn’t “forgive” K & make up right away I want him sweating & begging outside with a boombox trying to get us back talking to him🤣🤣🤣

[@aliyasexception]

you’re so real for this bc the way i still didn’t forgive him in the end lmao

[@nightsstarx]

YESSS

[@AbcDef-yj9gj]

Fr like there's not enough explanation or apology here

[@Angelin.25.]

I think it’s so sweet of you that you see the reactions of us and decide to write a disclaimer That shows that you really cares about us and the people who feels triggered ❤️

[@nazwakayde]

Yesss! I appreciate K for adding the disclaimer, my heart goes out to those who felt this audio on a deeper level, I hope they are healing ❤

[@Angelin.25.]

@@nazwakayde Me too! ❤️

[@alicebizzarri02]

Yes k it’s always so caring and considerate of our feelings it warmed my heart to see that he put that disclaimer🥹❤️

[@Angelin.25.]

@@alicebizzarri02 ❤️❤️❤️

[@alicebizzarri02]

@@nazwakayde sending them all the love and i hope that they are healing too🙏🏻❤️

[@nazwakayde]

6:56 "relaxxxx it's nothing to worry about" K, you say this after calling me by your ex's name?! 😔💔 K broke us all this one audio, our man woke up and decided to choose violence 🤣😭👏🏻

[@mellyatef3788]

This better be Anne with an e cause otherwise... You're ded🙄

[@busylovingmoon]

i don't think his audios will ever fail to surprise me in the best ways possible

[@endergem957]

Someone named Anne is going to have mixed emotions with this one...

[@alicebizzarri02]

7:52 “ Anne it’s kind of my ex” 😄🔪

[@namelessmefacelessyou2138]

When he was apologizing that i was like why are you apologizing it's literally your subconscious it's thinking about her u can't help it

[@murasakinokami9882]

Finally someone who gets it! I'm not mad about his Freudian slip, but I am mad he called us crazy

[@lily.f9485]

13:06 it was actually so sad my heart is broken 🫠💔😅

[@pamelaherrera2940]

No, because I’m still mad. You DO know why you said it, I’m leaving. Have a nice life ✌️

[@nazwakayde]

7:10 "No- Anne is just somebody I know!" Time to hunt for Anne! 😤 Im joking yall, but really this audio was executed so well, K you're amazing as always! 😩❤

[@abumble2862]

I saw the description change and K, our reactions were like this because we're just jealous and protective of our man and we won't let no ANN take him from us😂❤ but seriously, we know your audios are a work of fiction and you don't mean anything bad. Yes, your audios make us feel all the emotions but even for us with some bad past experiences your audios are always a safe space because we know in reality you're amazing K. We love you❤

[@alicebizzarri02]

2:53 “ i can definitly hold you and read at the same time” We love our multitasking king😌✨

[@AbcDef-yj9gj]

I have seen this idea in many other boyfriend asmr creators and never gotten this made mad it's bc i actually have a crush on K

[@AbcDef-yj9gj]

I need to touch some grass lol

[@killerqueen6733]

​@AbcDef-yj9gj you and me both

[@busylovingmoon]

i read the tags and my jaw dropped in disbelief

[@aleksandraprosvirkina5211]

I usually don't write comments, but this video got me badly. Is it just me, or is the listener (us) toxic in this audio? The man was reading. It is a totally valid point to ignore everyone. I will ignore anyone who dares to interrupt my reading. Especially if the book is interesting. Also, all this fuss about ex's name... can anybody explain why that is such a problem? (it's a joke, I don't need any explanations😅). Just personally, I mix up names pretty much every time I speak, so I don't care about that. Despite all of that, this audio is amazing. As always. Thank you so much for your hard work❤

[@sunflowerpower321]

Yes the listener is being quite unreasonable and I’m disappointed in all the people in the comments not understanding this. I’m about to drop an essay in the comments later 😅

[@Angelin.25.]

5:08 “I need new T-shirts why didn’t you invite me” CAN WE GET A AUDIO WHERE WE GO SHOPPING BUT FOR YOU! ???? 😍😩

[@nazwakayde]

THIS IS A NEED!!!

[@alicebizzarri02]

Yeees it would be so good!🥹❤️

[@vanillabean5294]

YESS I’D LOVE THAT

[@mrspuff.]

if k was a little bit crazier this could’ve been a nate and cassie moment 🤣

[@itzzgacha_akari]

Y'all we had a fight with our man i can't believe it 😭

[@estefany.dl7]

I would actually have left the place if he called me by his ex's name AND ALSO told me that I'm being crazy because of it

[@user-do6bl9ro2n]

CAN YOU DO NEXT LIKE " MAKING YOUR GF JEALOUS" BUT IN THE END YOU APOLOGIZE AND MAKE OUT I'M DELULU I'M SO SORRY 😭😭😭🙏🏻💀

[@izzybv]

K: "I don't any feelings for any of my exes." Me: "guess imma be the first then 🤧🤧"

[@valiiwhatasweetheart]

“calling you by my ex’s name” the arab in me would not let you live to see another dayy😭

[@eva9092]

3:43 K embracing his Swedish origin🇸🇪💛

[@alicebizzarri02]

Yeees Eva i thought this too!🥹❤️ i really liked that he included this in this audio

[@nazwakayde]

Yessss omg! 😆 we gotta love our Viking boyfriend 😌👏🏻

[@Angelin.25.]

It just made it more real! 😩😍

[@w0rking1d0gs]

FORGET? NAWHHHH🤺🤺

[@youkyliux]

I love all of the dramatic argument audios, but this one is honestly so heartbreaking 🥲💔

[@ktaespetacular]

as someone whose first language isn't english, istg I didn't even realize when K said that name and I got confused for a quick second 😅 anyways, I loved the video as always! 💕

[@vanillabean5294]

English is my first language. Actually it’s my only language lol and I still didn’t realize he said Ann until he repeated it after 😭

[@carrot4574]

​@@vanillabean5294 i thought he said and, and I was waiting for him to complete the sentence lmao 😭

[@ktaespetacular]

@@carrot4574 same 😭 I was like 🧍🏻‍♀️ "and what?" but then I realized he was saying Ann/Anne and I felt stupid, but I'm glad I wasn't the only one

[@thaiane.]

Me too 😂

[@Bebee245]

4:46 i thought you loved girl's hair:( what's with this reactionnn

[@Oliredwd9cm]

*says another girls name* Me: “excuse me?” 🧍‍♀️ *slowly rises* 🗡️

[@AbcDef-yj9gj]

K was like a jerk throughout the whole audio i need my lovely K back

[@lllbeomgyu]

fr

[@limyumi]

God if you love me, i just want this type of husband

[@abumble2862]

.....is this a payback for when we said our ex's name in our sleep? K??? You got some explaining to do sir

[@killerqueen6733]

must be 😭

[@nazwakayde]

we need to know....I guess now its fair between us and him 😭🙏🏻

[@jjkomiz]

omg what audio is that

[@nazwakayde]

@@jjkomiz The audio is called "You said your ex's name..." from a couple of months ago

[@nazwakayde]

This audio lowkey broke my heartttt but the writing, the drama, the emotions 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 K NEVER FAILS TO IMPRESS, TRULY🙏🏻❤