I'm not your meal ticket!! [Hello Counselor / SUB : ENG,THA / 2017.10.16]

I'm not your meal ticket!! [Hello Counselor / SUB : ENG,THA / 2017.10.16]
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[@Repzima]

The daughter's "I love you, let's be happy" it's the saddest sound I heard today. That love is clearly painful to the daughter.

[@huffy6479]

Ikr

[@stapleskeri9811]

I feel horrible for the lovely Daughter. And I feel like this show will not change anything, and mom will continue being selfish 😔

[@kowsik22994]

I am having selfish father just like her

[@user-ex4ii5mw5q]

Your comment is so sad 😭😭

[@user-gz1qm4oo4m]

엄마가 어떻게 딸한데 너무하네요

[@fullmetalgaara2]

The fact that the daughter revealed that she considered taking her life, and her mother's reply to that was "I thought you were on a diet" was completely fucked up. I'm a complete stranger, and even my heart broke when she was telling her story. I wish for concerns like these, Hello Counselor would refer guests for free, professional counseling.

[@starlighteuu]

WWLD that just showss shes in her own world and is selfish. She has a child and refuses to grow up.

[@angelania8185]

ikr! that's not a mother right there. the moment my mom do that for me, our daughter mother relationship is over. i'm so proud of the daughter, she's willing to live for her mother. i'll be dead for sure or she'll be dead bcs i'll leave her depressed so she can leave the f*ck out me alone. i've never been this angry over a concern before but this wow! makes my blood boils and want to hunt that witch. any idea if she got sns or what? if you do let me know okay.

[@scottk3402]

Fuck that woman. Nobody should have such pain dismissed so easily..let alone her god damn "mother"

[@mikaelavaleros5687]

@@scottk3402 you're building a bad mindset for yourself. Forgiving wouldn't hurt, ofc bad things are hard to forget, ofc you have the rights to be angry. But at the end of the day you should also be forgiving. All humans make mistakes, others more than average, but ppl change. And that's why they decided to make this show, to help ppl change. To make them realize their wrong doings and start a new respectful life

[@Anaya-19949]

@@mikaelavaleros5687 But these type of people don't change, i understand u, we need to forgive, but forgiving is easy forgetting is not, this not how a mother should be, she should support her child, she should take care of her, be there when she needs her, if she can't do that how can she call herself a mother?? giving birth isn't enough, she should be responsible too, and the way her mother acts she seems so selfish, i hope she get alongs but her mother needs to get her act straight, she literally needs to get out of that toxic environment

[@user-to3to8ox5c]

나쁜 엄마가 평생을 걸쳐 딸에게 가스라이팅한 극단적 사례. 엄마는 절대 스스로 저 위치를 놓지 않아요. 딸이 현명하게 끊어내야함. 그러는게 내가 나쁜 건가 죄책감 느낄 필요도 없어요. 몇년전 방송이라 지금은 어찌 사는지 궁금하네

[@TV-zh3qb]

에효 딸 인생이 너무 가엽네요

[@user-fd3mn9hn9j]

이런 상황에서는 정말 딸과 엄마는 의절해야할 필요가 있어요!!

[@user-ni2qt3kh6d]

이건... 이기적인걸 떠나서 너무 무책임한데... 낳아놓고 내가 너 낳아서 인생이 이렇게 됐다라는게 말인가 싶네 ... 그와중에 딸이 너무 잘 컷네요. 정말 진심으로 딸을 위해서라도 조금씩이라도 변하셨으면 좋겠습니다. 자기인생이 있으면 자식 인생도 있다는걸 자각하셨으면 좋겠어요

[@snputri]

Even with that kind of mother, the daughter grew up so well is really amazing. Hope they will have better relationship

[@windawulandari8647]

Putri SN she has no choice but do well

[@someday29]

I am worried there's no man who wants to marry her considering that her Mom maybe will start nagging about money to her husband as well. I hope she'll find her happiness. She's pretty, nice and looks reliable.

[@niikocil4006]

@@someday29 yep, if i become man, even though she so amazing, and so nice, i won't married her, cause that mom even though don't have money, if spend over a bit like a month spend 400-500$ over sure, but 100.000$?? no, bye

[@user-lf5rx5eb8j]

¹1

[@hildasnails5961]

The fact that Dongyeop literally said that this was the toughest broadcast so far says a lot. I just can't stop crying. This is horrible. The daughter really thought of taking her own life and her mother isn't even sorry! This is so heartbreaking!😱😭😭

[@triffin77]

That mother is a sociopath with a personality disorder. Her daughter might be a grown woman, but somebody needs to save that poor baby. Shame on the dad and stepmom for allowing her to live with this crazy woman.

[@jinajina2692]

저렇게 순진하고 허상된 야망이 넘치는 유형은 정말 사기꾼들이 딱 좋아할 상임

[@BeauBeleth]

This was so hard to watch.. the mom is so selfish and needs to stop thinking about herself for once

[@jurabby]

wow beau :O

[@BeauBeleth]

Iman Dess :^)))

[@natalieho7282]

Jim Yaana oo

[@lee7737]

I agree

[@berribia]

I think she had a mental disorder

[@shirleygoh95]

I'm really grateful that my mom isn't like that.

[@babyorchid8778]

Me too

[@jaminazhang7112]

Me too. I could never call a person like that my mom. Awful

[@alfiyanisbored5766]

Me too.

[@huffy6479]

Same

[@gssabitha6969]

If she was my mother I would have suicide, her daughter is really very brave

[@user-pp3fo7et5d]

각자 인생 살아라 그게 답이다 어머니 절대, 안변한다

[@user-bo7bl5rs4n]

엄마라도 저러면 당장손절~!!

[@user-ji6qs8mn6e]

미친 엄마 맞는 듯.. 저게 실화면 도른년

[@rachel1948]

인연끊어야해요. 평생 짐이에요.

[@user-yesicanpark]

ㄹㅇ

[@chayw0225]

저 엄마는 죽을때까지 지가 멀잘못했는지 모름

[@koo1day]

따님분… 연 끊으세요 계속 해주니까 자기가 사고쳐도 당연히 우리딸이 해주겠지 하면서 사고치는거에요 ㅠ 아 진짜.. 딸덕분에 이정도로산건데 ㅠㅠㅠ 지인생 죽창난걸 딸탓하다니.. 얼마나상처였을까

[@user-kw5ec2ql5v]

제가 하고 싶은말 속 시원하게 해주네요

[@Athenawhy]

Yea

[@user-kc3pm6kk3p]

답 없네요. 정말 안바뀌더라고요. 그냥 일년에 한두번만 봐도 너무 힘들어요

[@cupcakekittysly4641]

Oml, I ended up crying. The amount of emotion in the daughter brought me to tears-even more so when the mother disregarded her daughter's emotions.

[@user-cj4yo5my4q]

저게 진짜 엄마가 맞을까 딸을 그냥 돈으로 보는것 같은데 저런 여자랑 결혼했던 남자도 대단하네 애가 초등학생 될 때까지 같이 살고.. 딸 정말 대단하다 저런 사람이 어디에 또 있을까

[@user-mh6mj6zn7r]

딸이 살길은 엄마를 버리는것. 엄마는 절대 안바뀐다. 딸이 죽는다해도 죽음을 슬퍼할진 몰라도 바뀌진 않음.

[@user-sw2ou9lo9q]

슬퍼는 해 그러나 바뀌지않아 정답

[@user-to4zh6cw7j]

동감

[@chayw0225]

저 엄마는 만약 딸이 잘못되면 딸이 죽어서 슬픈것이 아니라 돈 나올구멍이 없어서 슬픈게 아닐까요?

[@kairos-lt1th]

@@chayw0225 와..무섭..ㅠ 정말 그럴것같아요

[@user-iw9yf6vm2z]

@@chayw0225 보험 들어놨으면 만세 삼창 할듯

[@chayw0225]

엄마하고 연을 끊어야합니다. 사연자가 마음독하게 먹어야합니다. 아니면 이런 악순환은 뫼비우스띠처럼 죽을때까지 안끝납니다.

[@chasmish89]

I wish sometimes the hosts would stop beating around the bush and open a can of whoopass and tell it like it is. I wish they'd tell the daughter to leave this toxic relationship. I know family is important but this isn't what a mother should be.

[@karin9797]

Tenzin Ngawang Agree 1000%

[@ariskaraihan3965]

but the thing is, the mother can't leave without her daughter... they need real psychologist/counselor for advices. her leaving her mother or not is actually really up to the mother's personality and whether she wants to change for her daughter or not. and tbh it's really great that they air their problems on national tv, the mother now realizes how messed up she is and now feels kind of apologetic for her daughter, but i think they still need professional assistance.

[@ngandang96]

They are supposed to help both sides doing that would be heartless

[@syd1197]

Flaky 96 it really wouldn't be

[@carlamolina695]

if they did that people would be afraid to go on the show

[@user-lr7mj8hg2y]

저두 26중반의 딸이 있는 엄마입니다 . 저엄마의 눈물은 악어의 눈물같이 보여요 ! 딸이 엄마랑 연을 끊고 사는게 맞아요 ! 그래야 세상이 그래두 살만하구나 하는 생각이 들겁니다 !

[@rainbowmauntain237]

울엄마랑 거의 똑같...가수지망생에 다남매에 막내인거까지..서로 따로 떨어져서 남남처럼 지내도 저어머님은 절대 미안해하지도 아쉬워하지도 않을거에요. 자식보다 자기를 너무나 사랑하는 이기주의라서..멀리 떨어져사는게 답

[@user-ip4ij9mt6i]

엄마라고 불러주지마세요. 몇년이 지났지만 따님이 지금은 어떻게 잘 살고 있는지 궁금하네요. 낳아 줬다고 부모가 되는게 아닙니다. 따님~ 기왕 세상에 태어났으니 행복하게 잘 사시기바랍니다

[@mayesunshine]

I appreciate how the daughter has been so respectful and patient towards her mother even after everything she has done. She's a better person than a lot of other people I know, and her mother ought to be grateful to have an understanding daughter.

[@gareyes11]

nicole!!!!

[@LexiePersonForever]

honestly one of the most frustrating stories. at that point, if i was the daughter i would've just kicked her out. idk how she had that much patience.

[@jasin1497]

i really respect the daughter. she has been endured all things because she loves her mom.

[@rahman1314]

Then you're no better than the mother tbh. i would never kick my parents out of the house, no matter how much shit they put me through. I wouldn't drop myself to that low level the mother is in, to prove a point.

[@LexiePersonForever]

blood-line isn't reason to guilt people into allowing themselves to be abused and manipulated

[@rahman1314]

That doesn't mean you should abuse them back, you have the choice to simply leave them ( in her case specifically). Ps This isn't really about guilt, more about how you choose to be better than your abuser.

[@LexiePersonForever]

it's her house, she doesn't need to leave her house. her mom needs to leave her house.

[@hfcnib2024]

저 눈물이 진심이었으면 한다. 살다살다 저런 엄마는 처음본다!!!! 바뀌지 않는 다면 절대로 딸은 결혼을 할수도 없을 것이다 저런 엄마가 있는 한

[@zalhanda]

저 눈물은 으례 흘리는 눈물이죠 저런 사람 원래 눈물 잘 흘림 ㅡㅡ

[@2cats1dog-my]

엄마가 허영심 끝판왕이네. 요즘은 어떻게 지내시는지 궁금

[@GreyCookieWeirdo]

The mom needs serious help. She is either very damaged, or a narcisist. :I Either way, her way of life will not end well, and she could/probably is dragging her daughter down with her.

[@hehawoowaheh6342]

Uhmuhh shes not a narcissist. On the contrary, shes very insecure, which is why she needs all the compliments to gain the self confidence, when it should come internally. It all boils down to insecurity. She isn't kind to others, in fact, she thinks she is kind, but that is very different from how she is. A kind person does things from the heart, but knows their boundaries. She does it all for her sake, because the reason she helps others is cus she doesnt know how to refuse them. That is very different from being kind. She is too passive, neutral and takes advantage of those who provides her with this excellent network of support system. She is fuelling people who are unnecessary in her life, instead of those she deems important, because no one told her that she doesn't need to please everyone. She is all in all, ignorant and still very immature. She doesn't have priority and she really needs to get her shit together, before she becomes the architect of her own destruction. Her daughter will leave her one day should she continue what shes doing. Look at her during the interview, she doesn't even know what she is preaching and talking about, because she doesn't have a definite moral compass

[@GreyCookieWeirdo]

Yeah, thats either damage or narcisism. She does things for her, because experiences or something inside her tells her she has to look good and powerfull to everyone, and please everyone, to be happy.

[@junenam145]

Narcissism is usually a symptom of unchecked insecurity.

[@wk8190]

Uhmuhh she is definitely a narcissist. My mom is like this too so I know what the daughter goes through, but atleast mine is financially aware and is self obsessed in other things.

[@wk8190]

HehAWo oWAheH hi do look up some videos about narcissistic people (parents more specifically) narcs are very insecure people so they are always looking for validation, compliments to feel good about themselves. They want to be the centre of attention and need empaths around them, they suck on their lives for positive validation, tolerate their drama and won’t leave specially when it’s family (kids) they keep guilt tripping them and blaming them for all their poor decisions and things that go wrong in their life. What you have said is all right, but all these are classic traits of a person with narcissistic personality disorder so pls don’t disregard it. Many people are unaware and might realise through comments that these are specific personalities it’s not normal and they need to seek help, counsellors and have a support group of sensible friends/family who are understanding and non judgemental to fill the void as narc will never ever provide you with that emotional support. Be it your mom/dad/ partner. It’s really sad

[@user-hi1bv3vi3w]

사실은 손절만이 답인 관계인데. 세상에 하나밖에 없는 가족이라는 미련때문에 엄마를 못 끊는 딸. 주변에 누가 있든 나의 허영심을 위한 도구로 보지 자신과 동등한 사람으로 대하지 못할 거다.

[@user-ln7ui4yf7v]

저런게 부모야? 대박이다 저런부모가있다는게 ㅎ

[@jmin6183]

저정도면 안고쳐져요... 포기하고 떠나는게 나를 위한 방법이예요.. 사람 쉽게 변하지 않아요 ㅠ

[@janiellemalicdem3504]

This makes me realize again how grateful am I for my parents..a mom blaming her child for a choice she solely made herself is unacceptable for me. It is not wrong to atleast live your life, but you should atleast think of your daughter and how much debt you are in and don't go beyond your means.

[@namjin1358]

Janielle Malicdem you're right. I wonder how she turned up so mature when her mother degraded this way😨

[@hamtolyoon6610]

아무리 지역가수라도 행사가면 최소 50만원씩받음 그거 거짓말이던가 저것마져도 사기당한거 기본적으로 사람이 좀 그렇다;;; 이기적이고 철이 없다는 말에 그래 나 그런데 뭐 어쩔거야 니들이 뭔데 나한테 그딴말을해? 기본적으로 딸을 소유물로 생각하면서 우는거 가짜로 울면서 가스라이팅을하고 폭력행사 정서학대 하는거야 딸이 약자라서 노래도 발성도 약하고 목소리도 약한데... 겉으로 흉내만 내기 나같음 안녕하세요가 아니라 법원가서 친권박탈소송하고 연끊음

[@Lisa-md7mu]

저런 엄마 은근히 많습니다... "내가 이렇게 태어났고 이렇게 생겨먹었는데 그래서 뭐 어쩌라구" 라며... 금전적인 걸 떠나서 집 치워 청소해 뒤치닥거리 해줘 + 각종 정신노동... 감정의 쓰레받이 역할을 자식에게 강요하는 엄마요... 못 고쳐요. 절연 밖에는 방법이 없어요...

[@wonkim4447]

딸이 너무 불쌍해서 내가 눈물이난다

[@jenniferangjaya8482]

wow she seriously is so childish. The fact that she even say that her daughter ruin her life really annoy me. If her daughter decided to not pay for what she has been doing she would be suffering smh she should be thankful to have such hardworking and kind daughter. Its more likely that you ruin your daughter's life smh not her ruining yours She was born bcs of your own action how can it be her fault istg

[@nomad82912]

krupps i'm wondering why the dad left her with the mom

[@valencia3109]

It's just she ruined her own life and is ruining her daughter's too instead of thinking "my life has been ruined atleast I want my daughter to have a better future''

[@shine3331]

초등학교때 이혼한 남편분 탁월한 쵸이스

[@user-vq7gd6nj5c]

딸도 같이 안데려간거 킹받네요..

[@Wild601]

엄마가 저 모냥인거 알면 데리고 가야지…

[@iilililiiilliillilililil]

또 그건 자기가 키우겠다고 안놔줬겠지ㅋㅋ

[@user-vq7gd6nj5c]

@@iilililiiilliillilililil딸을키운게 개똥같은자존심이었을까요? 아니면 남편한테 쌓인 분노를 딸을키우면서 딸한테 갚으려했던걸까요?이정도면 거의 학대수준인데..딸이 안좋은 생각을 했을시기에 살이 엄청빠졌다고했는데..보통 얼굴색이 안좋으면 가족이 아니어도 어디아프냐고 물어볼법도한데 그냥 다이어트하나보다 생각하고 넘길정도면 딸과 대화도없고 관심도 없었다는 생각만드네요..저런쓰레기같은 인간도 엄마라고 생각하는딸이 대단하면서 너무 안탑깝네요.영상본지가 몇일이 지났는데 자꾸 머리속에서 이딸분 스토리가 생각나네요.;;저 엄마라는 인간이 자기는 이기주의다라고 자꾸 자기자신을 말로 도배하는데 저건이기적인게 아니라 그냥 싸이코페스같네요.옆에있는 친구라는인간도 뭐하는 인간이길래 그집사정을 1도모르고있었을까하는 생각도 들고 뭐잘났다고 방송국까지 면상들고 왔는지..아 욕밖에 안나오네 ..아씨발

[@user-yi9im5qo1x]

13남매중에 막내로 사랑받고 살았으면 형제들한테 해달라하지~왜 딸을 힘들게해 =ㅁ=

[@coco-th9dg]

딸을 사랑하지않는 엄마.. 그런 엄마를 못버리는 딸.. 제발.. 따님 본인인생 사세요...

[@harundaniel7705]

the mothers decision on having unprotected sex was her choice. and then to blame her daughter for running her life is sickening.

[@JujuBearHala]

Harun Daniel just a heads up! You can still have babies even if you have unprotected sex!! Abstinence is literally the only way never to have a chance of pregnancy.

[@sweetathegreat]

Roxanne Blair yes but the side effects of long term use makes the oral contraceptives undesirable! Like she stated the only effective way of contraception without any side effect is abstinence... but ovarian and uterine cancer is more in women who have never given birth.. I have my exam day after tomorrow .. thank you I got to revise😂

[@KingXBlank]

@@JujuBearHala Only in the case of consensual sex. A rape victim could get pregnant too.

[@sillycharm]

Exactly 💯

[@user-yesicanpark]

아 저 어머님의 눈물이, 일본에 아예 안 갈거다 귀닫고 울면서 단언하던 모습이, 지금 당장 자기가 억울하고 본인이 자신하던 모든 무기가 부정당하고 코너에 몰려서 슬픈 것이 아니고 진심 반성하는 마음이었길....

[@user-qg7xp6xk9v]

보면서 욕이 계속나오네ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ진짜 뻔뻔함의 극치를 보여주는듯 도움이 안될거면 최소한 피해를 주지 말던가 딸은 전생에 무슨 죄를 졌다고 저런 엄마노릇도 못하는 사람때문에 개고생해야하는지

[@user-pv7xx2iy9n]

나만 이런생각하나 누구라도 저런사람하고는 이혼하지... 이혼하신 남편분도 인생 조지기전에 이혼하신걸 축하드립니다 다만 ... 니딸은 챙겨야할거아니야 너만 도망가면 다냐...? 따님이 썩을놈하고.. 미친X 사이에서 고생이 정말 많으시내요 힘내시고.. 엄마와 연을 끈으시고 아빠를 찻아가 욕한사발하셔야 모두가 사는 겁니다. 참고로 엄마라는 여자는 음반사기가아니랴 재비만나서 열심히 삽질하시는 겁니다. 나중에는 딸팔아서 삽질할겁니다.

[@iilililiiilliillilililil]

엄마가 딸은 자기가 키우겠다고 안놔준다는데 어카누? 이 나라는 엄마가 우선순위가 높아서 아빠가 못 데려간다

[@user-ps9nk4ob4l]

이런댓글 당연히 멋지죠 ㅋ 근데 이런댓글로인해 안녕하세요 출연진들이 안나오게되고 결국 폐지됨

[@user-kk5wv9bn8o]

ㅅㅂㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㄱㄱㅋㅋㅋ철이없다 나잇값못한다 이 말을 칭찬으로 생각하시는듯 미친거지ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 그냥 버리세요 따님,, 이정도면 스톡홀름 증후근 아닌가

[@skoco3864]

딸이 돈을 안대주면 사채라도 끌어다 쓰고나서 자기할일 다하면서 그 빚조차도 가족에게 부담시킬것같아요

[@user-th9nq9vn5u]

진짜 남편있음 남편돈까지 다 말아먹을꺼같네요

[@user-zv3tg2zt4q]

그냥 따님이 연 끊었으면 좋겠다. 저렇게 고혈만 빨아먹고 이야기 들어보면 엄마 역활도 그래 안한 것 같은데 말은 미안하죠 미안하죠 하는데 그닥 미안해보이지도 않은데. 그냥 어릴때 너네때문에 내 꿈 포기했어! 이 마인드가 너무 강하다

[@woonnz1933]

지금 이 장면을 보면서 저 여자분이 잘살고 있는지 걱정입니다 고생많 하고 엄마랑 연을 끊고 살더지 저 엄마가 따님의 행복을 위한다면 정신을 자리셨길 빌어 봅니다 따님 행복하게 살기를 바래요

[@urishabhujel2547]

Not to be rude but every mom in this world gives their child everything and places her child before her but the mom here is completely different. I am shocked. If I start to cry my mom will have tears without knowing the reason why I am crying.but this mom oh Lord 😫😫

[@ananyaneralla5382]

Urisha Bhujel Ikr? There are times when we see our parents giveup on their likings for our sake. But here it's the other way round! What even. I kind of pity the daughter but then again, I don't want her to abandon her mother. Afterall she is the reason why the daughter is here.I seriously hope the mom would mend her ways. EDIT: This "mom" said her daughter ruined her life.😱That's it! Daughter! You need to GTFO of that shit! Do you hear her??

[@bleaxh1924]

Urisha Bhujel Not every mother is a good mother or person

[@animeluver4291]

Mothers are people too and people are flawed and have issues. Some more than others. Some moms have the capacity to raise a child others dont. I had a bad relationship with my mom for years, wasn't till recently we actually started talking again tbh. I love her but I have healthy distance/boundaries with her.

[@Curlsl]

My mom is a toxic person so staying away is best for me. I call her sometimes and that's it, i love her but each time she comes back in my life she destroys everything...

[@myplateisempty.4292]

There are a lot more mothers in the world that are abusive to their children than what we think. People who have lived with a good family in a good home with a caring mother dont really understand. I myself also didnt understand how frequent this was until I came across a couple of friends in my school and university. One of my best friends from college, her story especially is very heart breaking and i dont know what to do for especially since she is a good kid. Her mother ran away with another guy after giving birth to my friend. The father always got drunk and verbally abused my friend for her mother's mistake. The entire family also bullies her and hates her except for the dad's parents. They raised her to be a good person until they died and she had to go back to her father. The dad remarried and the new wife always ill treats her because the dad started getting drunk and took everything out on his new wife and my friend. My friend finally got enough and saved enough money to go see her birth mother. The mother asked her to leave and said she doesnt want anything to do with her. My friend still didnt give up and kept trying to meet her. Finally her mother told her to go die like her older brother did from overdose. That was the first time my friend found out that she had a brother. After that she finally confided all of this to her close friends and honestly we never knew stuff like this even happened to her. She always covered her entire body to hide bruises given to her by her step-mother and father. Her fault was the fact that she was born with shitty parents. She didnt deserve any of it and she is soooo strong but it makes me sad that its happening to her because she is such a good person. Everybody that she meets easily becomes friends with her and she always helps people in anyway she can. Its too unfair. Now that she is of age she is soon gonna get married to her boyfriend that lover her for her personality...she hasnt told him of her situation but she is gonna tell him soon. I approve of the guy and I think he will still be there for her. She is gonna be a great mom. i know it.

[@user-cz4ot8qd6y]

저딸은 결혼해도 문제다...끝까지괴롭힐듯 너무안됐네ㅜㅜ 지금은 괜찮아졌을지...

[@xsteveconwayx]

That daughter is so pretty and I felt so bad for her. She's never had anyone in her life to help lift the burden she felt. And she continues to stand by her mom and help her the best she can.

[@comeoff5362]

정말 정말 요즘에도 저런 딸도 있나요...정말 내가다 감사하네요 따님이 이제 행복했으면 좋겠어요 ...어머니 제발 그만 하시고 딸좀 바라봐주세요

[@user-jp3vn8cc2l]

따님 엄마를 버리세요 따님도 살아야되지 않아요 엄마 자격도 없는 사람이 엄마가 되서 자식을 죽음을 모는 사람은 버리는게 답입니다 따님 행복을 위해서 엄마를 버리세요

[@yjlee5577]

와. . 이정도면 연끊고 살아야지 정신못차리네

[@happiness3976]

엄마 인생은 자식이 망친게 아닌데 본인의 삶을 의지부족으로 망쳐놓고선...딸 인생까지 멋대로 망치는게 과연 엄마인가?....

[@jinlilee4988]

남자가 이혼한 이유를 알겠네. 저런 사람에게 딸을 맡기다니. 아빠라는 사람 너무 했다

[@user-on5iw8lr8r]

아빠만 탈출성공

[@jj3661]

애들이라고 말하는걸 보니 애들 중 몇은 아버지가 데리고 간 것 같아요

[@user-lr1xk3lz6h]

이와중에 남편탓하는 개 또라이가 있네

[@user-ur7gw7eg9e]

남편 탓을 하냐..ㅋㅋㅋ

[@user-le4wu6yp2e]

남편탓을 안할 수 없음 낳았으면 책임을 져야지 엄마로부터 떨어트려야함

[@mylovechadoll]

사랑 받지 못하고 자란 딸이 이렇게 하면 엄마한테 사랑 받을 수 있지 않을까 하는 기대로 이렇게 된게 아닐까?

[@dnahubs]

Some people live irresponsible lives, get pregnant when they're not ready, then they blame the innocent child who did NOT choose to be conceived or born. I don't understand why it is that people who don't deserve to have children become parents and those who would be amazing parents sometimes cannot be. She's like a sieve full of holes. Everything you say to the mom just flows through without making any impact. The same thing can be said for her thoughts and words. They have no worth or meaning because there is no intent or care behind them. She does not feel anything for anyone but herself. It's a miracle that her daughter grew up to be such a good person. She doesn't deserve her daughter and her daughter definitely deserves better.

[@GenerationNextNextNext]

Societal pressure makes people want to get married and have children. Then everyone gets shocked when none of it turns out ideal.

[@neolgamjatanghae]

딸이 너무 힘들었을 것 같습니다. 영상 보는데 남자인 저도 딸의 까맣게 탄 심정이 간접적으로 느껴져서 눈물이 나네요. 노래는 취미로 하셨으면 좋겠어요.

[@hohoho7078]

우리 엄마가 아니라서 정말 다행이고 우리 엄마에게 한번 더 감사함을 느낌ㅎㅎ 엄마 사랑해요♡

[@iilililiiilliillilililil]

오냐 사랑스런 우리딸 엄마 미국 여행가고 싶은데 보내줄 수 있어?

[@RedFlyingFox007]

I think bc the mum had a kid so young and lived as a single mother, she never got the immaturity out of her system.

[@ny9296]

you're right

[@mimiehernandez3653]

A selfish mother. She's very good to take care other people stuff but neglect the feelings of her own daughter.

[@1.2438]

아니! 저 엄마 제 정신임? 애 땜에 본인 인생이 망가졌다니?ㅡㅡ 결혼도 본인이 원하든 원치 안든 본인이 한거고 애도 본인이 만든거잖아요! 애는 생기고 싶어서 생기고 나오고 싶어서 나왔어요? 부모는 자식을 만들고 싶어서 만들 수 있는 선택권이 있지만 자식은 부모를 선택 할 수 없어요! 부모가 만들어주고 낳아줬기 땜에 자식이 있어요! 이른 나이에 결혼했든 자식을 낳았든 그건 본인이 선택한거잖아요! 근데 왜 본인 인생을 자식한테 보상 받으려고 하는거예요? 진짜 보니까 열받네! 태어난 자식이 뭔 죄야? 노래 하고 싶으면 노래방에 가서 불러요! 그리고 본인이 무슨 공주야? 한번 입은 옷 다시 안 입게? 공주도 그렇게는 안 살아요! 나도 이른 나이에 임신하고 드레스도 못 입고 결혼 생활하다 이혼 하고 혼자 아들 키우고 있는데 애가 14살 된 지금까지도 아들 하나 위해서 희생하고 내가 돈 없어도 아들 앞으로 적금까지 들어줍니다! 어른되서 돈 땜에 고생하지 말라고! 난 이 세상 엄마들은 다~ 모성애가 넘치는 줄 알았는데 아닌 사람도 있다는 걸 첨 알았네ㅜ 딸이 넘 안쓰러워요

[@user-kr9ew2wo7j]

저런분들 은근많으셔요

[@user-qc2dl9me8s]

제발 연 끊고 살아요 따님... 그게 살 방법이에요

[@user-ed7eg7wo4j]

저정도면 중증인데요~~~ 따님이랑 병원한번 가보시는게 나중을 위해서 좋을듯 싶네요~~~ 따님이 안좋은것까지 생각했는데 엄마라는 분이 그걸 다이어트 한다라고 생각한거는 정말 큰일날 생각이었네요~~~

[@user-dl9dn8tn4s]

저런 부모두 있구나... 딸이 너무착하게커준게 신기하다 엄마도 나쁜사람같지는 않지만 알면서도 자기가먼저인 이기적인사람같다 알면서 그러는게 더 나쁜건데

[@user-wt1lr6km7d]

살기 위해선 엄마를 떠나야 할듯요.. 부끄러운 엄마 딸이 불쌍 하지도 않나요?

[@fredkim01]

너무 천사같이 착하게 자라줘서 내가 고맙다 저 아가씨

[@highfive2580]

저 여편네는 이기주의, 철부지, 나이값 못한다 이런걸 인정하는게 아니고 자기 캐릭터성, 자랑으로 여기는거임 그런 캐릭터를 내세워서 당당히 뜯어 쳐먹음

[@Peudelumiere]

When her mother said to her that “My life is ruined because of you” I think she must be hurt a lot. But she still treats her mother well, she is truly angel 😇. I hope that her mother could be more mature, and she could treat her daughter well like a really mom❤️

[@belesschill9661]

im bawling my eyes out here for the beautiful daughter how do the usual hosts never cry

[@연우-e4h]

모녀가 눈빛이 장난이아니다..... ㅎㄷㄷㄷㄷ 보통사람들아님

[@user-dm6kj1sd5g]

저런 애미보다가 울엄마 생각하니 얼마나 감사한지.

[@meelomellow2590]

OMG I got goosebumps. My grandma was the 13th child as well and she really made life a living hell for my grandpa and my mom by lending strangers all of their life savings and even more. TT But my grandma wasn’t selfish she’s never bought anything for herself because she grew neglected as a child because she was born to a reallly poor family. My grandma, though too giving, was never selfish. On the other hand my mom, drunk out of her fucking mind, told me that I was what ties her to my dad and my birth made her want to commit suicide every day when I was 7 yo. I’m scared to have kids. I don’t want to continue the possibility of not being able to raise my kids with my utmost love.

[@analewis571]

Im sorry you went through that but by your statement of ""..told me that I was what ties her to my dad and she wanted to commit suicide everyday since." Im sorry to say this but it mighht be a possibility your mother was raped or sexually assaulted by your father and it resulted in her pregnancy with you. There are plenty of women in the world as well as men that do not want to have children but raise them because they feel like they have to even though they are not parent material. But for a individual to say 'you are what ties me to him' indicates she doesnt want to be tied to your father and there is a strong dislike even hatred for your father. But then to say 'i wanted to commit sucided everyday' that indicates something extremely emotional happened with her relationship with him. Maybe he beat her, or broke her heart or sexually assualted her. Have you ever asked her what your father did to her to cause to have those feelings towards him and yourself.?

[@user-it1cp3ux5r]

I hope you're happy now and living your best life☺️☺️

[@dramatv6645]

“I thought she was on a diet “ 😂 is this woman crazy ??

[@yuki46661]

이기주의를 넘어서 소시오패스? 나르시스트 같음..심리학자들이 나르시스트들과는 인연끊으라 하던데..

[@user-mp3rd1vb6e]

가족도 손절이.필요할땐 손절해라 엄마가 딸에게 너때문에 내 인생 망쳤다니.... 이기주의라면서 남한테는 잘한다 하니 뭔가 이상하다 이기주의라기보가 자기보다ㅜ약한 존재에게는 철저히 뽑아먹는 최악의 인간

[@user-ts3rp3ft4c]

보통 부모들은 자식들한테 뭐라도 더 해주려고 본인인생 희생하면서 사는데 저분 따님 너무 딱하시다 몇년 연락끊고 살아야지 안그러면 시집도못가고 간다해도 남편이못살고 이혼할거같은데

[@tavannkhean2586]

I think she should go to meet doctor 😐

[@fml3131]

Tavann Khean psychiatrists and psychologists dislike seeing this kind of patients. She is highly suffering from somatic narcissistic disorder

[@dms1207]

딸이 엄마 잘못키웠네...돈 주는거 버릇됨. 저 정도면 신경끄고 따로 살아야함.

[@tv-sl5ul]

엄마랑인연끊고 살어요!!아고 저게 엄마냐?!아고 이혼까지 하셔서...이미알고 남편분이 헤어졌구만..잘하셨네

[@user-il4cw1dw4g]

이혼한 남편이 현명 저런여자 평생못고침

[@Yuzuki56]

"I thought she was on diet. "🤔🙁 seriously u need to wake up..... U Don deserve bng calld 'mom ' just bcoz u give birth.😬... Act like it... 😠😠

[@user-bd2xl6bp8o]

나이값못하는걸 자랑스럽게 생각하는 사람있더라. 자신을 순수하다고 생각하더라. 저런 사람은 절대 미안하다고도 생각안해.

[@hermaion8888]

순수함이 허용되는 범위는 남들에게 폐 끼치지 않는 선까지

[@Chrissy.o_ov]

결혼도 몰래 하셔야될듯... 사위까지 벗겨먹을 분이신데요 ㅠㅠ 따님 분 행복하시길바라요..

[@nasroslan99]

i got so upset on how her mum speaks without the sense of guiltiness. she's being being harsh and selfish. she's the one that's basically ruining her daughter's life and future when no mum would do that.

[@user-cf4rb7ky5k]

사람마다 장단점이 있지만 보통 막내들이 받는데 익숙해서 당연시하고 더 못 받으면 억울하게 생각합니다. 그래서 주는 것에 인색하고 모습을 보면 참 답답해요. 퍼주는 것도 한계가 있어요. 막내들이 대체적으로 귀엽게 행동하지만 그만큼 이기적이예요.

[@user-wz7nf9rh6u]

사이코패스 네요... 딸 너무 불쌍함...영자언니 말씀이 맞아요.공감이 안돼는데 어떻게 관객에게 감동을 주겠어요...그냥 앵무새지요...

[@ysh7657]

저 엄마 제정신이 아니 미친 인간 딸이 힘든걸 알지도 못하고 제발 연끊고 살아라 세상에 어떤 저런 엄마가 있나? 딸이 불쌍하다 부모가 자식 발목 잡지는 말자 거기다 뻔뻔 하기까지ㅜㅜ

[@user-lv8kn2zn9k]

가스라이팅 전문가세요 어머니 자기 인생만 인생인가 봅니다 혼자사세요~ 딸분은 제발 탈출하세요!!! 지금쯤 탈출하셨을지 궁금합니다 ㅠㅠ

[@manytwo3963]

철이 없다 이기적이단 말을 칭찬으로 생각함ㅋㅋ

[@mingxinmei4845]

Despite knowing the fact that her daughter almost died her reaction doesnt seem much caring or suprised! I mean how could she just be so calm knowing that her daughter almost died!!! And How could someone be so shameless as to the point of asking her daughter for her savings account?! How is she even going to pay the money back when shes non-stop leeching off her daughter??!! Get a job is what she should do and what the daughter said was right she’s raising her Mom!!!

[@superstarj9599]

대화가 되야 대화를 하지

[@eley90210]

It’s like the mother live in her own bubble and not thinking of the real world, she seriously need help. Her daughter is not her provider she is her daughter.

[@nyoomi5659]

Because it’s not her money, she doesn’t care about how reckless she’s spending it. Her daughter wanting to kill herself because of the mother, while at the same time being ‘chained’ to the well-being of the mother really broke me. She doesn’t see you as a daughter, but a bank. Please get professional help/counseling and if it still doesn’t work, leave the toxic relationship. I really hope the daughter is doing well nowadays :(

[@user-pm2zv9fs5r]

My family is pretty well off. My mom's a doctor and my dad is a construction worker who can literally fix anything. He can build houses if there is free land. He does piping too. However I don't get to see my dad when he builds houses. Sometimes I don't see him for half a year and I complain about everything. I am very grateful for all I have especially after seeing this. This is making me see that there are more needy people in the world. Thank you for letting me realize that.

[@user-vz7rz4ui2j]

와 진짜 역대급 인간이다…. 와……. 할말이 없네요

[@floraleeminli]

I clicked this because I saw a rare mad Chanwu 😂

[@VaishnaviBarthwal]

Her mom is toxic but she still loves her wow ! After watching this I thank the heavens who've gifted me with such great parents I'm just thankful at the end.

[@user-fv8qw3gh4i]

딸이 엄마와 인연을 끊어야 합니다

[@VK-ep6wi]

어려서 부터 딸을 안돌보고 돈벌이로 데리고 있었네... 아동학대로 고발당해야하는데.....아주머니..

[@ShwetaGhosh95]

I understand the mom why she becomes like that but she is a mom she needs to understand her daughter she is too reliable on her daughter She take her daughter for granted

[@BlueMoon_Night]

even as a person...you should never do that to a family member...it's not just about being a 'mom' or elderly...

[@tofusius27]

There are actually people like this in this world. Those who don't want to look poor to others.

[@euniceong595]

sonia jayanthi I think it's not poor , but wants to look rich

[@miralosman3351]

And here we are forcing my mother to live for herself for once and that we are grown,.this is her chance to live the way she would have loved to but couldn't because of my siblings and me , this show makes me grateful for many things I take granted for in my life. The daughter grew perfectly and will be an awesome, amazing mother 😍😍😍😍

[@user-ow9yq8po9x]

지짜 안녕하세요 보면서 저런사람도있구나할때ㅈㄴ많았는데 이거에비하면 애기똥수준이였네