I'm sorry you can't have a baby... but we'll make a family our own way [Husband]

I'm so sorry about the bad news, my love... but don't worry, a family is what we make of it, and we'll make ours amazing in our own way... together.
~~~
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[@lolenita10]

When you hit the feels too hard within the first couple of seconds ...

[@CardlinAudio]

oof. -_-

[@lolenita10]

+CardlinAudio don 'get me wrong though, I still loved it :) you have such a nice voice.

[@CardlinAudio]

+Ana Lorena Fuentes Thank you so much. =] I'm gad you still liked it! Sometimes feeling sad can feel good a bit too, eh?

[@lolenita10]

+CardlinAudio truth! I love how you take a sad situation, but blend it really nicely with the positive aspect:)

[@CardlinAudio]

Thanks! I didn't write the script, but I was so moved by it I wanted to record it. =] It's nice, no?

[@lunarg4697]

You should do more husband role-plays, like a wedding night experience or other things married people do. :3 there were literal tears with this roleplay lol. I love all of these videos, they actually make me feel less lonely :) thanks fluff muffin :3

[@CardlinAudio]

+Lunar G You're welcome. =]

[@jengabunny757]

KᗩᗯᗩII ᑭOTᗩTO Sometimes they can be annoying but sometimes they can be nice. It's okay if a baby cries because that's it's only way to communicate but I understand that you don't like kids

[@aspenlikesfood1218]

Fluff muffin lmao 🤣 idk why I find this so funding and cute I just do lmao 🤣

[@KibaRainesKRASMR]

T~T I'm crying! I have a similar problem because Im a carrier of a gene that might make my child not be able to live for so long and it brings so many tears to my eyes now that I have some form of comfort for that. Thank you Cardlin! *hugs*

[@CardlinAudio]

+Kiba Raines *hugs* There are always solutions. Families are what we make of what life gives us, and I'm sure you can build a fine family of your very own, regardless of its format and size. =]

[@KibaRainesKRASMR]

+CardlinAudio thank you so much

[@sabrinas7912]

I actually cried. I found out a month ago that I have endometriosis and have undergone two laparoscopies in the past month. The doctor said I will never have kids of my own. It's hard because I always thought being a mom was just in the cards for me. It was never an if... but more of a when. This audio really hit home with me and was very comforting. No one in my life right now is able to comfort me with this news and it's very isolating. So thank you for doing what you do. ((:

[@azlyanaazhar8849]

The greatest virtual husband ever!! ♡♡♡♡

[@CardlinAudio]

+Elle Byron Shakespearette D'aww, thanks, cyber-wifey

[@kaylaevans9031]

+CardlinAudio 😂😄

[@lindamehnert9154]

I don’t even want a baby and I’m crying my eyes out💀

[@Everchanging_m]

Same

[@katanamini1103]

I'm the complete opposite of petite, I have the structure of a guy lmao

[@elenav.5470]

Broad shoulders gang

[@destinee356]

elena v. Periodt

[@katakurischocolatedonut]

Tall and muscular is me low-key

[@aspenlikesfood1218]

Lmao same🤣🤣🤣🤣 even tho I am a girl lmao 😂😂😂😂

[@beautifulmisfit2000]

I have the structure of a hippo 🤣

[@erinjacobi516]

I'll admit that I cried lol I personally felt connected to it because there is a chance I might not be able to have children because of a medical condition. It made me feel more comfortable with the option of adoption, and for that I thank you :)

[@heathermoment]

It's the same here. This really touched base.

[@CardlinAudio]

+Erin Jacobi Adoption is a perfectly viable option. It's 2015, families come in many, many different formats, shapes and sizes. I wish you and yours the best on whatever path you choose (or whatever path life may choose for you).

[@erinjacobi516]

Well I'm not married or anything but I would like to have kids in the future

[@CardlinAudio]

I know what you mean. =]

[@erinjacobi516]

+CardlinAudio oh okay lol

[@DeadorAliveLover19]

God if only you could see the tears that are falling down my cheeks as I hear this. See I am not exactly a petite size woman...but I think...due to the oral contraceptive I had been on in the past...I think it may have caused me to become infertile...no matter how much my husband and I make love together...I still fall short...and I cant help but feel that its my fault. The thought of not being able to have my own child...its so devastating. But...hearing this...certainly gives me hope. So thank you Cardy Bear

[@bridges6648]

I’m so sorry that happened to you, and please know that it is not your fault.

[@abbykennedy1229]

I can barely type with the tears in my eyes, amazing work. You should consider acting.

[@racheld2913]

I'm crying but I'm good with it

[@joannaharrison7166]

This is great. I cried. I had a miscarriage 11/2016. Its been a year about now but I still get upset. I was in foster care so hearing this really hit home because I never had the family that your portraying. It's beautiful. I will donate soon.

[@Cherry_Bomb-gl5yz]

as someone who is adopted I find this really sweet

[@copiousamountsofcopia]

wow, I have struggled with infertility issues and was finally able to have 2 healthy children with my husband. This video made me tear up like crazy. I love your videos.

[@stephy8486]

Even though I'm only 20 and definitely not ready for a family, I already know that I have a slim to not a chance of being able to get pregnant due cancer treatments when I was 14-15. And I've been trying different revival treatments but they never really worked fully for me. I have have pretty much come to terms with not being able to carry my own children. But I have some days, like tonight, where I go back to the dreams of finding out and telling my husband and family and then imagining going through the pregnancy and it hits me hard. I am so glad that I stumbled on this video tonight because I needed it.

[@jordinkie]

even though i personally hate the idea of me having children i loved this

[@anangelstavern]

I got 10 seconds in before I had to pause and cry, we're going great

[@princessbambi2222]

I’m crying 😭 too many women on both sides of my family have had complications with having kids (although they still had healthy babies it was always a close call) and I’m worried that I will have difficulties too and that it’s be so bad I won’t have a kid of my own. Although since I was a kid I’ve always wanted to adopt so that makes things a bit better because even if I can’t have a baby I can still have a family. SUCH A GREAT AUDIO ❤️ continuing my Cardathon

[@shadowcat97fyi]

The moment I saw the title I was thinking 'Adopt someone!' Because this reminded me of my US History teacher and his wife. She could have kids but wanted to be a foster parent first to kinda train to be a parent and they started looking after a 3yr old and a 6yr old, brother and sister, and when our teacher told us how she was in happy tears when they started calling her 'Mommy' and she didn't want to go to a new family 'They belong here with us now.' She said. But to your audio it made me think again about how I say 'I might not kids.' and remember that so many wish they could and I should count my lucky stars that when I change my mind I can, but I might adopt before I push out one of my own because they need a loving home too! Damn this went on too long XD

[@sukindiamuzik]

shadowcat97fyi that is so cute

[@heathermoment]

This was extremely sweet. There is a high chance that I may never be able to have kids so this really touched my heart.

[@CardlinAudio]

+PROJECT RolLeafBird Comments like these are why I do this kind of stuff. =] I really hope I helped, if even in a little way!

[@heathermoment]

+CardlinAudio you definitely helped! People out there may depend on these sorts of videos. Good luck in everything you do!

[@CardlinAudio]

+PROJECT RolLeafBird thank you so much for your inspiring words!

[@ashleighdavis6717]

He sounds so different

[@presentlycrescent]

My mother went through something similar, but, she ended up taking the risk with my brother and I. It's really scary because she was medically dead at one point (there was a crisis issue with hydration) and it's terrifying that she could have died. I'm glad that she went through with it, but sometimes I sorta wish that she'd thought more about her own safety because it could have gone really badly to have us. Sometimes moms can be way too stubborn about having a blood-child. There are so many kids in the foster/adoption program and it's heartbreaking that so many of them grow up without a stable family. And a lot of the time State Homes can be really unhealthy places with bullying. It makes me really happy when people adopt.

[@camilamarquez1488]

I swear this is the closest that I will have to a relationship

[@suttershorty740]

I love all of your videos because they just...help calm me down and get rid of stress so thank you!

[@miniwolfsbane2407]

Hooooooly fraking crap, this was so sweet!! It would be a guy worth billions to pretend to be going through cravings and lamaze classes just to make his wife happy. I have almost zero desire to have children, for various reasons. (Like, the idea of labor and I'm not a "kid person"), but listened to this out of curiousity. You really did great with this one!! Uh, not to get weird, but your vids have given me some measure of comfort. I'm over 25 and because of personal life issues, and sadly no "real" interest from guys, I've never had a boyfriend and no romantic interaction (first kiss), so your videos have given me a rough idea of what it's like to have a boyfriend. So I just want to say thank you for making them.

[@harleyasmr8611]

Well I'm going to cry

[@deanwinchestersimpala6759]

Ironically there's nothing small/petite about me. I have broad set shoulders and a strong back (thanks to my German heritage) I think I could carry our baby fine. Great video though

[@ljr-w2596]

*married life starts playing quietly*

[@carleneabigail431]

Having kids is a dream for me and if I find out that I can't, I'd be heartbroken

[@shoutaaizawa6571]

"out of this sterile doctors office" me crying: StErile like meeeee

[@aurelie.m]

Daddy!

[@keep_dancing]

Omg! I'm crying! I had a hysterectomy 2 years ago because of a doctor's fault. Adoption is an important and wonderful thing

[@tropicaltuberculosis1379]

me: sees title Also me: (UP theme song starts playing)

[@waitisthisally]

has it really been FIVE years?? WOW

[@guacgirl]

Ive never desired children of my own, but my heart aches for women who truly desire it and can't have them. ❤ This audio is so perfect whether you want kids or not. Super sweet 🎀

[@cofficorgi7080]

This really helps me considering I was one of the unlucky souls who was born with a syndrome (MRKH) where I was missing my uterus, I have everything else but the place to carry a child. Though I’ll have to wait a little longer than most women to have a baby, I still want a child. Listening to this put a smile on my face and reminded me to not give up hope. Thank you. 💛

[@treatpeoplewithkindness9231]

This video made me cry only because I’m 13 and I have a chance of being infertile and I know adoption is a great choice but it kills me inside knowing that my body isn’t working the way it should. :( and bc my dream is to be a mom and be a labor and delivery nurse so this hits home

[@emmay317]

You should do a more husband boyfriend stuff. You should do rush to the hospital cause your girlfriend or wife is really bad sick

[@zaza1105]

thanks cardlin ... this one was really really hard to listen but... from the buttom of my heart ... thank you 💔

[@madhuritudas]

coming back to this, this really reminds me of Monica and Chandler from friends

[@lovelyllreaper7201]

i know this is really bad but i was laughing at this and i know its a serious matter but i cant stop laughing

[@thisaintit526]

I actually cried. ; -; oh my God this is so good

[@alexibuilez9282]

if this actually happens to me I couldn't handle it... all i have wanted since i was little was to be a mom and i have had so many issues not just emotional but physical things wrong with me this might end up being my reality. heaven help my signuficant other who would have to deal with me... it would kill me to not have the one unselfish thing i have wanted my whole life.

[@thatqueerperson9055]

Cardlin: You’re so petite Me: Looks at the fact that everyone in my family is about average height then realizes that I’m a 4’2 15 year old girl, flat etc. and starts crying because he’s right...

[@christenmerizan9446]

I struggle with PCOS and have miscarried 4 times and this hit home I started crying the first few seconds of this video. Thank you for making things for such a broad audience

[@finalfroggitapproaches6418]

... It's sad because it's true. For me, it's not so much I can't give birth, but rather I can't get pregnant. Ever. I produce eggs, sure. But, I have hormone imbalances that cannot allow those cells to multiply into a fetus. Adoption is my only option. Until then, I guess my mastiff'll have to do for now.

[@Cassmari1986]

Thanks, its a reality for me. never can have a baby at all cause im infertile and have PCOS. I've never actually been with someone understanding and you sound so understanding and real, brought tears to my eyes. I always planned to adopt as a single woman but hope that comes true soon for me.

[@urrandometherian]

Same I can have a child at all... It brakes my heart..

[@Typicalwhitegrill]

I'm balling at this oh my gosh

[@morganmoonlite4222]

Geez it’s been 7 years you have grown so much

[@allthingsgirly9338]

This is such a sweet way to approach such a sensitive topic. I think it's going to help a lot of people. Well done, Cardlin!

[@CardlinAudio]

+Allthingsgirly93 I certainly hope it does. Thanks for the kind words =]

[@allthingsgirly9338]

+CardlinAudio no problem. :)

[@jenna03210]

Omg Cardlin's voice was so boyish omg xD kawaiii ❤🙊

[@andebrown3800]

I know, I’d love it 😍.

[@renfujioka9539]

too be honest this made me cry im only16 an been told i can't conceive which is a shame because I really want children one day It's a Hard reality two-faced when you can't do the one thing your created for.

[@leebae8605]

Looking forward for more vids, keep up the good work x

[@CardlinAudio]

+Lee Bae Thank you, Lee!

[@taylormae2996]

All of your videos are amazing! I don't think I should be crying about this at 1:55AM tho... 😅 Great job tho! Please make more!

[@CardlinAudio]

+Taylor Mae Sorry for the tears, but I'm glad you liked it! ^__^

[@veegames22]

Try 2:39AM 😂

[@secretrose5439]

+Naomi Evans Wright try 4 o clock in the freaking morning

[@phinelopeesquejo6660]

This made me remember UP😭❤️❤️

[@hades_loves_kore5369]

This made me cry the first couple seconds into the video

[@itsjustfluffy69420]

this hit me so hard because i just got told i can't even ovulate and I started bawling my eyes out... This actually helped me out a bit... Thank you so much

[@cinthiaromero9347]

I just stop crying, I'm feeling so sad right now

[@kikitv7778]

As some one who's adopted th is actually made me cry

[@jadethompson5698]

I remember when I first heard this it tore me apart

[@mariah5898]

Why is this so cute😭

[@louiseanderson1376]

This really hit home I can’t have a baby because of my body and when I saw this video I almost started crying till I watched the video and I couldn’t stop crying because ik this scene is going to be in my future and I hope that when it does happen it goes as smooth as this video did 😔😭

[@dakotastrachan9304]

You need to make more like these.

[@glitch5270]

Throwback to me adopting all of my friends and becoming their mom- also that time the guy I liked called me mOM-

[@megansh2255]

Well damn this hit me right in the feals. I hate that it's not safe for me to have kids so this made me cry so much. I'm glad there are other ways

[@makaylaschrad8828]

Let’s go shop for a baby!!

[@parkmochi2915]

IM TOO YOUNG TO HAVE A HUSBAND IM TOO YOUNG TO HAVE A HUSBAND IM TOO YOUNG TO HAVE A HUSBAND IM TOO YOUNG TO HAVE A HUSBAND

[@melodyjstyles4473]

Oh you poor poor parents 😢

[@beautifulmisfit2000]

I had suspicions that I wasn't able to carry babies because of my disabilities about 4 years ago and found out I was right a few weeks ago. I'm still trying to deal with it but I'm on my own, no partner snd I can't lean on my family because they keep brushing it off, I thought my mum would be more supportive since she's been through it herself but she seems even more unsupportive, she keeps telling me not to be over dramatic but it hurts, she had a loving husband and a family to turn to I have no one.

[@erinmarielangenfeld7941]

I love this! I love how you are so sweet and caring and understanding with the situation. I can totally relate,because even though I would love to have children someday in the future, I can't because of my Spina Bifida so I would have to adopt.

[@JournalGingerbreadcookies]

I needed to hear this because I can’t have children and it sucks and my boyfriend understands me so much

[@edithg6983]

I know this is kinda an emotional one but when he said honey say something I couldn’t help but say something

[@jengabunny757]

I wanna have a daughter or son when I grow up so badly I don't want this to happen

[@bangtanitis7]

I'm crying but it's not bc of this, it's bc I missed the h&m sale 😭😭😭😭

[@chantelleboudreau8536]

this video is so sweet i love it its just so touching

[@jupiter2495]

This was really nice! Thank you I can’t have children but not because any medical disease but because I’m a man ..... but hey I still like ASMR

[@yukiizumiya7240]

This reminds me of Clannad…

[@secretrose5439]

This reminds me of when my mom had a miscarriage with my little brother. Oh boy here come the tears😭

[@bookish_ronnie]

this made me feel really bad cause i just realised a few weeks ago that i have pcod which is going to lead to some problems in pregnancy later in life

[@irenetseung]

Why do you delete your previous videos :(

[@CardlinAudio]

+tseung fk I actually just made them Unlisted; I'm reuploading them today with the new art. Sit tight! And let me know if you would like a link to a specific one =]

[@irenetseung]

+CardlinAudio I figured it out just now xp Actually I got the links in the history so its fine now :p thank you for your response tho, cause I need the audio to get myself to sleep!

[@CardlinAudio]

+tseung fk Oh, whoops! Sorry! I also put together a playlist with the old videos. =] Cheers!

[@irenetseung]

CardlinAudio Nevermind:p looking forward to your new videos and hopefully there‘re more made for insomniacs like me :D!

[@CardlinAudio]

I'll keep it in mind

[@tararmoth]

know that I’m only a teen and it’s not like I wanna get pregnant and have a child I don’t even know if I ever want one but the fact that I maybe can’t ever get one is kinda scaring me. And yes I have had s*x and have gotten c*m inside me many times but again I found out that when my parents was trying to get a child I took them 4 months till my mom got pregnant with me so maybe I have the same thing as her I hope that is only that and not that I can never have kids. And thank you for making Thai I really appreciate all that you do

[@magicisrealxx3029]

If I have ever kids there is such big chance I won't make it through. It would most likely be me or the baby and I would choose the baby everytime. I have always wanted to be a Mum and it's alot as a 15 year old girl to know I would most likely never be able to be apart of my family. I couldn't put a child through that guilt or thinking it was there fault and my partner would have to chose between me and his baby.

[@totallyanonymousbish9599]

I can't have kids and I couldn't do this to a loving guy...you know...ruining the chance of having his own flesh and blood.

[@sarahkendall6955]

I'm only a teenager but I worry about this I think what if I can't have kids or what if I can but they or me might not live I just worry😭😭😭

[@f_society1550]

Good thing i don't want children also Ha Ha 69 comments xD

[@lunakuner7409]

This is so sadddddd 😨

[@CardlinAudio]

+Luna Kuner :'C

[@thatqueerperson9055]

Cardlin: You’re just so petite Me: *Chubby, tall, average sized breasts, literally everything you wouldn’t consider petite* mmmmhhhhhmmmmmm suuuuuuuuuuuuure

[@erzhenatarnueva3603]

my biggest dream is being a parent and my biggest fear is childbirth so i guess this is the most perfect asmr for me

[@Ainprn]

Can you be my husband? This is a serious question-

[@rebeccarussell2921]

I don’t want kids but...GEEZ!! This is so friggin sad....

[@honeymilk3686]

NUUUU I AINT HAVE NU CHILD WHYYYYY

[@crystalcreekstables849]

I sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo dont want a baby

[@maya_that_girl-w1c]

Sorry but if i cant have baby i dont want anymore children .... 😭

[@klopia1]

FUUUUUUUUUUUCK

[@SiekoValantin]

This is so hard to listen to.

[@bidabellevonspreetz5459]

Please let me give you the phone number of my husband so he knows what to say to me. I can't have kids and he's sad and frustrated and I get it, but I feel so guilty...

[@mink9186]

Ew ew that audio quality ew