I can't with the pronunciation, like when I heard that I'm like what
@plantlover2 Жыл бұрын
@@remirobot2000 lol same
@plantlover2 Жыл бұрын
@@goldenhanxe fr tho I was scrolling through the comments trying to look for people mentioning that
@kieralovesjaredleto Жыл бұрын
I’m not even Korean and I was confused lml
@starwberriez Жыл бұрын
"so im making tobokki" 😭😭
@plantlover2 Жыл бұрын
The way she pronounced it is messing with me. (Edit) why are people just now coming at me on a comment I posted NINE months ago like be so fr.
@Bilal_is_joking Жыл бұрын
Who asked
@plantlover2 Жыл бұрын
@@Bilal_is_joking me?
@Bilal_is_joking Жыл бұрын
@@plantlover2 I disagree
@mousehouse8119 Жыл бұрын
@@Bilal_is_jokingyou've been saying that on everyone's comment. Get a job...
@PersonWithStupid37 Жыл бұрын
Even as a non korean, I have never heard an Americanized pronunciation of Ddeokbukki and it took me by surprise 😅🤣
@plantlover2 Жыл бұрын
You say the t sound
@plantlover2 Жыл бұрын
Like tubolki like read this and that's how you say it
@DoesAngelsHaveWings Жыл бұрын
@@plantlover2 no it's not
@bbrobin1011 Жыл бұрын
@@plantlover2 it’s pronounce “Duck bow Key”
@plantlover2 Жыл бұрын
@@DoesAngelsHaveWings oh sorry I was trying to explain it but I explained it wrong my bad
@bwingbwinggwiyomi Жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping your daughters have a healthy relationship with food, and doing your best to not cause eating disorders in them 😊 you're a great mother and thank you for not neglecting them and letting them starve. Now I'm craving spicy rice cakes lol
@MyHealthyDish Жыл бұрын
Thank you ☺️ they actually had some of the steak too 🙌🏻
@Cmariiie3 Жыл бұрын
@@MyHealthyDishyay that’s amazing progress!! Little by little mama
@dezimonae1214 Жыл бұрын
My Grandmother was the same way with my dad. Never ate a meal that he did not desire. Now years later as a married man he expects the same out of my mom. She always, always has to cook two meals if she wants to cook something that he doesn’t like. Most the times she settles for whatever it is that he wants because she comes home from work too tired to do all of that. So I believe, because I’ve seen first hand what this can do to your children in the long run, is not the best decision for your kids. Not hers specifically, just any parent. And most people don’t have the funds to do this. Speaking of funds, the starving children are in Africa. Not these ungrateful kids who already have food on their plate and refuse to eat it simply because they don’t like it. The only thing good is supposed to do is fill us and keep us alive. It’s not a pleasure it’s simply fuel to the body.
@Perpetuallytrying Жыл бұрын
@@MyHealthyDish that’s a win! You are doing great
@monikapiatektheythem4501 Жыл бұрын
@@dezimonae1214 if you think so, read about the damage that eating food you don't like does to you. A lot of damage. And only because your father is a parasite and acts like a little kid doesn't mean, that respecting your children will will make them act like that. Also, making people guilty of their preferences because someone else is starving is like suuupeeerr toxic. don't worry, someone else will eat that steak. They are not ungrateful or something. If someone told you to eat, I dunno, a bug, would you do it? Because you know, there are people starving, and there are people on the earth that eat bugs. I just want you to know, that a lot of these children find some kinds of food just as disgusting as you do with bugs, to the point where they could literally vomit because they ate something they didn't like. so the next time you will want to shame someone and call them ungrateful, consider it first.
@mattiebird758 Жыл бұрын
My mom use to say, "I'm not a short order cook, what I make for dinner is what the family is having." (Not in a rude way of course) So this is rather foreign to me. It was impart that yes she wasn't a restaurant lol but I always believed it might have also had to do with us not having the money to make several different meals just because. You and your family are very fortunate to have the opportunity to pick what they desire like this.
@ITyraxI Жыл бұрын
Money and time are huge factors for sure in why what this lady is doing is not common.
@alostprincess1 Жыл бұрын
Exactly in normal circumstances this isn’t practical or realistic- maybe on a weekend or some special occasion but not really real
@bonsaibaby8257 Жыл бұрын
@@alostprincess1 everybody’s “normal” is different. I find it strange that people think if things aren’t done the way they do it then the others are wrong. It’s ridiculous. Why can’t people do things differently without being shamed??
@grapesarepurple2636 Жыл бұрын
@@alostprincess1it is if you have the resources for it. You're using your phone rn, on internet and leaving comments. Someone out there doesn't have time to do that, they have to work day and night to survive. So by your standards, that person can call your way of spending time "not practical or realistic". But you won't call that. U might be unwinding after a long day at work or something. You would be offended if someone said you're being impractical. Isn't it? Think about this.
@NotAnotherHousewife Жыл бұрын
@@alostprincess1 That's actually not true I always make different things for my kids for dinner. Most of the time my little kids will not eat some of the things I make. I usually make something different for the little kids. It's not a big deal that kids are picky and they want to eat something else. I'm really surprised people make such a big deal out of it lol
@anusha__kr Жыл бұрын
At my home,whatever mom makes, we eat. We all see mom put a lot of time and effort to make us food, so I cannot even imagine asking her to make something else and she having to cook for me again. My mom will do that but me or my sibling won't ask her that..we might make it ourselves sometimes, but almost all the time we eat what she makes..and I'm grateful for all she does for us
@rara3039 Жыл бұрын
Same here!
@sama-ep5ri Жыл бұрын
Me too
@aishwarya.sxbsoundaryavb3638 Жыл бұрын
Sameeeee
@lisasternenkind646711 ай бұрын
Same here
@Anime_no_joō9 ай бұрын
My kids have the audacity 😂. I can make a 5 star meal and they would want chicken nuggets and Mac n cheese. But now that they are a little older they appreciate "grown up food" (as they call it) more.
@bonsaibaby8257 Жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one that made spicy rice cakes for my kid because he wouldn’t eat the dinner I made.😂
@fabiennemitchell2371 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for explaining what the food item is.
@bernadettecphehlo2053 Жыл бұрын
It's necessary for them to eat healthy and still have a choice. I love that, well done mothers. 💞
@Emma-Maze Жыл бұрын
Thanks for being so kind and not letting your kid skip dinner to "teach a lesson"
@FrogeniusW.G. Жыл бұрын
How is it pronounced and what is the spice in the box she put in first (before butter)? Thank you so much!!
@lalygamboa4997 Жыл бұрын
@@bernadettecphehlo2053 ttoboki it's not that healthy ...
@mousehouse8119 Жыл бұрын
Oh the pronunciation is crushing my soul 😱
@caseygreyson4178 Жыл бұрын
She is Vietnamese, not Korean.
@mousehouse8119 Жыл бұрын
@@caseygreyson4178 imagine if she was Korean and butchered the word that badly 😄 but seriously, I'm aware she is not Korean but she can at least attempt to pronounce words of foods she is cooking correctly
@Ebunoluwa13 Жыл бұрын
@@mousehouse8119 Right? I'm all the way African and I can pronounce tteokboki properly lol. She's at least Asian so close to the culture.
@Bilal_is_joking Жыл бұрын
Who asked?
@aestheticcc Жыл бұрын
@@mousehouse8119 right? Like she’s showing off her damn recipe but can’t even attempt to pronounce it 🙄
@StickyNote347 Жыл бұрын
Growing I couldn't complain what's made for dinner is what's made for dinner eat it or don't eat. It wasn't a bad thing it taught me well
@rubyblue7119 Жыл бұрын
Ok... But that's was your home and this is they're home so what exactly was the point of your comment?
@StickyNote347 Жыл бұрын
@@rubyblue7119 I don't know I just never saw a house hold where you could change your dinner like that. Interesting view for me and this is my point of view
@dezimonae1214 Жыл бұрын
@@rubyblue7119 You need to contact KZbins customer service immediately and then what is the point of their comment section.
@rubyblue7119 Жыл бұрын
Hmmm, sounded more like scrutiny than an opinion but whatever 😒
@rubyblue7119 Жыл бұрын
@@dezimonae1214 and you need to construct your sentences properly so that I can understand what your saying.
@SuperNova-nl5eb Жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ, if I was like "no I want this" when my mum cooked something else, I'd have to eat air for the rest of the day
@barchu83 Жыл бұрын
me too
@Leleche Жыл бұрын
Same but I ended up with an eating disorder because of that. I DID eat air lol... Now I have had a 25years eating disorder because I had genuine phobia of certain foods.
@bonsaibaby8257 Жыл бұрын
@@Leleche there are many foods out there to choose from now that you’re an adult
@eunicer4107 Жыл бұрын
Yep! Same. Though I value that lesson as it taught me to not waste food
@nalgasdetitanbooty6476 Жыл бұрын
@@eunicer4107 Yes! Finally! These comment section is not a vibe dude 😔 like my mom would have killed me, cause 1 food is not free 2 I'm not taking in count the effort that she put in 3 it's important to be able to accommodate to what you are able to have 4 there is people that can't have what I have People like her are forgetting why parents where like this in the first place
@sabrinanabi3508 Жыл бұрын
People don't get how hard it is when you're cooking for family that don't like the same thing, I know exactly how this feels and you do an incredible job as a mom to make sure everyone is fed ❤
@sincerelyablackgirl Жыл бұрын
My mom hated cooking for us for this very reason. She just started letting us do it ourselves or ordering out. And when she did cook it was something that at least most of us ate
@bellarose7100 Жыл бұрын
@@sincerelyablackgirl your mom is smart
@grrgrr069 Жыл бұрын
we could never ask our mom to cook something different after she had alr cooked dinner 💀
@tsumebones13 Жыл бұрын
I would've been dead meat.
@ladyindaroom Жыл бұрын
Everyone’s parents doesn’t have it like that financially to cook an additional meal. Those of you who had parents who told you to eat what was cooked, was not being mean. They did what they could for their household and what financially worked for them❤
@jaeebaee2353 Жыл бұрын
100% agree with you. Especially multiple kids households. My mama was a single mother 5 kids. She, I guess you could say was "old school". Wasn't mean or forceful. But we always ate what was giving to us.. It wasn't a discussion nor a thought one of us would even have 😳
@Mmmtruk Жыл бұрын
Being grateful for the food you already have is such an important value. Once your kids get used to the parent bending over back for them like making a separate meal because they’re picky is not some thing I can see being healthy in the long run
@hamsterstyle6152 Жыл бұрын
you don’t know that at all, you’re speaking from your experience so don’t tell people what their parent’s intentions were when you don’t know. People can have enough money and just choose not to properly feed their children. Just keep that dumb sh*t to yourself because clearly you’re one of those idiots who had a sheltered childhood but you think you had it hard so now you go around telling everyone not to complain about their own traumatic experiences because you can’t fathom the idea of other people going through something worse than you. You are not the main character. You are not a template for how people live. You can’t just make a statement universally defending every parent. Just accept the fact you had a good childhood and stop trying to tell people to respect their abusers you dumba*s
@jaeebaee2353 Жыл бұрын
@@Mmmtruk 100% agree with you as well. . I do childcare, have for 9 years. All of my 5 kids eat fine for me. It's really no fight, yelling or anything. But they go home and won't do the same. I have one mom who complains to me about it alot how bad her kids are cus they won't eat dinner at her house but will eat for me and just want like snacks and junk. But in the same breathe, she'll be that mom who boast about being the mom who feeds her children waffles all day long. Literally breakfast, lunch and dinner I kid you not. It's so strange to me. I always think how that style parenting works for the long run. What does one do if you go to a friend's house? You really gonna expect your friend to make whole different meals for your kids.... yknow? Kinda sets them up for failure because no where else treats them like that. And that's not even me being mean. But you put your kid in a sad situation because they don't understand why things at home might not work for other places. Then you frustrate the teacher/babysitter/friend whose cooking for your child.
@bonsaibaby8257 Жыл бұрын
@@Mmmtruk my son is completely fine. He doesn’t expect his friends parents to make him something different. Cooking something different for your child doesn’t make them an inconsiderate brat. It’s how you teach them.
@heyyzle_ Жыл бұрын
As a fluent korean speaker (I'm Korean), it's funny seeing non-korean ppl complain about her pronunciation lol. It was not perfect but understandable and fine👍🏼 I don't know if she's korean or not, but I love that she's making Korean food and say 떡볶이 instead of korean spicy rice cake or something
@Cyourix6 ай бұрын
Also people be acting like the pronunciation was like the whole part of the video😭
@user-vk4cv6ut8x Жыл бұрын
“so i’m making tAboki for the girls”
@Bilal_is_joking Жыл бұрын
Who asked?
@user-vk4cv6ut8x Жыл бұрын
@@Bilal_is_joking i asked. im the guy who asked
@Bilal_is_joking Жыл бұрын
@@user-vk4cv6ut8x I disagree with you
@user-vk4cv6ut8x Жыл бұрын
@@Bilal_is_joking ok 🤷♀️
@Bilal_is_joking Жыл бұрын
@@user-vk4cv6ut8x ok cool 💙
@mi6135 Жыл бұрын
My parents would include us in what was being made, but we all had the same thing. They would say “so we were thinking a salad and stir fry for dinner - what do you want to include in the stir fry? “ we would chime in and help with the prep. Imagine having 5 kids and you let them all pick out different meals 🥲 I don’t get this at all
@Cinqp_ Жыл бұрын
I mean instead of saying this why don't u appreciate how she is doing all of this for her daughters
@Ebunoluwa13 Жыл бұрын
It's not about letting them pick but not letting them go hungry. Some fussy children will eat if parents refuse to make something else but genuinely picky eaters will just go hungry instead or cry through eating which will create an unhealthy relationship with food that will affect them into adulthood. The best way to solve this is to ask your kids what they want to eat BEFORE cooking. It's not a crime for parents to eat according to their kids once in a while rather than saying 'this is what we're having because WE (parents) want it and you (kids) have no choice'
@DoesAngelsHaveWings Жыл бұрын
Me neither, it's not healthy. It's how picky eaters are made. My family and basically everyone i know do it like you. I have some food aversions due to an illness but that would only effect part of my plate if it even did. Like swapping the vegetable or meat out. Not getting a whole new seperate dinner
@PotatoPieYT Жыл бұрын
@@Ebunoluwa13 but she said they didn’t want the steak not that they didn’t like steak
@arieanne3507 Жыл бұрын
@@PotatoPieYT But she also didn't include the reason they didn't want it.
@dogboyified Жыл бұрын
damn . . if my mom made smth for dinner and i said i wanted something else i simply would not be on this planet anymore
@tsumebones13 Жыл бұрын
🤣
@lilianaxs Жыл бұрын
I would've been screamed at if I asked for something else for dinner 😂
@rainbowwarrior5282 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@yeseniaortiiiz Жыл бұрын
Y’all are so dramatic..she pronounced it wrong, it doesn’t change food. She doesn’t need every single one of yall to correct her…she knows by now 💀
@pinkpalette Жыл бұрын
fr
@TheSeanathon23 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I lived in Korea for three years and no one there pronounces western food right either lol
@jessicaajirotutu525 Жыл бұрын
It just sounds funny the way she said it. I'm sure they weren't tryna be mean
@goldenxyoon702 Жыл бұрын
Fr tho cringey koreaboos be thinking they are better than everyone bcos they pronounce one word 💀
@Justthegoodstuff-gh2xx8 ай бұрын
@@jessicaajirotutu525 1.6k ppl liked the top comment, and people are genuinely angry about it. Everyone is geared towards being offended these days.
@BAMCarter1211 ай бұрын
Everyone talking about tabooki I'm here for the steak n beans 😋😋😋😋😋
@alexathebloom Жыл бұрын
If i told my mom that i wanted to eat something else instead of the food she made she would have yelled at me like "EAT IT OR STARVE OR COOK IT YOUR SELF" and would say all her history about the people who can't eat but only when she is mad but if she is in a good mood she would say " MAKE IT BY YOUR OWN and would help me a bit "
@yayjdjfjfbd591 Жыл бұрын
Yikes, it's really not the lesson you think it is
@ma.liaaaa Жыл бұрын
As a korean ive never heard tteokbokki so americanized lol i love it
@Brie-fi4ci Жыл бұрын
See as much as I do appreciate this parenting approach I think I'm going to do what I was told being raised like my parents never starved me but they were like if you dont want it make something yourself, which in my mind brings more positives which is learning how to cook, appreciate cooking, and if your like me and was too lazy half the time to cook just sucked and up and ate what my mom or dad cooked, idk now have a weird tolerance of food bc of my dad though lol😅
@Amy-dm5ih Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, me too. Like my parents always told me to eat my food or make something myself and now I will eat most foods , obviously some things I won’t like, but now I actually do like the foods that I do eat and I appreciate good food. It always frustrates me when I see kids who are really fussy and won’t eat anything and their parents are desperately trying to come up with new ideas all the time and it ends up in the child getting unhealthy food and just having their own way.
@Brie-fi4ci Жыл бұрын
@@Amy-dm5ih so true I've seen so many pickey eaters that expect their parents or people around them to cater to them to which I'm like what the heck, like I get catering to kids under 7 but 7 and up kids that are mature enough or are able to learn can learn to make a simple sandwich, salad, or mac n cheese. Bc if I cook something I'm not making anything else 🤷♀️
@crunchychicken2 Жыл бұрын
Yeah. I think the reason why I've never noticed a picky eater in my life is because most households in my country can't afford to cook separate meals for whoever doesn't want to eat the meal that was made. We all grew up being grateful for whatever is served and trying new ways to prepare the foods so that everyone can at least enjoy the one meal. That way nothing is wasted, money is saved, and we don't put even more load onto the parents.
@Treesina454 Жыл бұрын
Me too. Till now. My parents don't really make dinner that often. We do all eat together in the living room. But it's usually me( with the help of my sister or mum) that makes dinner. But that's only like 3-4 times a week. Other then that. We are free to have whatever for lunch, breakfast and dinner. If my parents do decide to make or provide lunch, breakfast or dinner . I'm free to just eat whatever we have in our pantry if I don't want it. And honestly, I think that it's a really good strategy. I get to explore new recipes and foods on my own. And it's made me mature much faster ☺️
@arieanne3507 Жыл бұрын
She's also a person showing recipes online. This was an opportunity to show another recipe..she probably doesn't do it all the time and as a cook she most likely shows them how to cook as well.
@flyingdordish1160 Жыл бұрын
Guys chill, I'm Korean and I have no issue with her pronunciation cuz it's not like she's native anyway
@victoriaaletaaustria2817 Жыл бұрын
Not all kids' whims are indulged. With my dad when we're growing up, we learned to appreciate and eat what was cooked on the table. My mom was a great cook so no reason to be choosy or go to bed without dinner plus a spank and no crying. We learned to be not choosy and be grateful. My dad said there were many kids who didn't have any food to eat so we should pray to God we were not in those situations and be happy and contented.
@treasure7278 Жыл бұрын
I'm sure she has parents who raised her too. No one asked for your family history. She's cooking for her family and that shouldn't be your concern.
@leila.7754 Жыл бұрын
You got taught that you can’t have foods to dislike or else you’re a bad kid💀what’s so cute about bragging that an adult put their hands on you whenever you were a normal person and had foods you didn’t like💀💀people these days Also there’s a difference between being choosy and being a regular person
@Yabdsfave Жыл бұрын
‘My daughter likes a lot of mozzarella cheese’ and then proceeds to put a normal amount 😂 I was ready to see those rice cakes covered in cheese
@tiad7453 Жыл бұрын
The way i just heard "They wanted -- the bokki" 😭😭 at least she spells it right 😭
@nolongerwoman5714 Жыл бұрын
I grew up in a home where I had no business complaining about the food. Eat or don't eat was the premise. Well, after 12 years of eating disorders, I'm finally starting to develop a healthy relationship with food
@Imanina-kh1ju Жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you!! ❤️❤️ Keep going !
@CarbonatedCondensation Жыл бұрын
My parents would never do this for me; they’d just make me eat what we were having. Only a few times, however, I really complained and had to make myself a sandwich or something. I find different upbringings interesting.
@ayy589 Жыл бұрын
I’m all in for not spoiling kids by unreasonable demands all the time, but the occasional fulfillment of what your kids want and going the extra mile for them doesn’t really spoil their whole personality imo. I think a lot or almost all of us have had our mothers go the extra mile for us, it’s how moms are and many times can’t resist doing so. Let her parent on her own terms and not boss her how she should. That’s where the internet goes wrong causing distress and feeling worthless/guilt for so many mothers.
@sunrae3877 Жыл бұрын
Definitely not "almost all of us" lol but glad your mom did that for you ! :)
@ilana1912 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for not forcing your daughters to eat what they don't want! I grew up being forced to eat things for breakfast when I was little (well-intentioned) but I learned to find ways not to eat or I hide food when my mom looked away so it looked like I was eating. Eating many things just made me feel sick and it wasn't worth forcing! No point in having a bad relationship with food or between parents and children over anger at them "choosing not to eat" when it makes them uncomfortable. I now happily eat breakfast in the morning. 🥰
@eclipwzeeeee Жыл бұрын
Ta-bow-ki HUH 😭😭🤣🤣
@christianc3032 Жыл бұрын
get over yourself
@eclipwzeeeee Жыл бұрын
@@christianc3032 🤣🤣🤣
@SweetCammieEyes1 Жыл бұрын
We have the three bite rule. Take three bites and if you don’t like it cool. We also don’t prepare meals that we all do not like. If the boys want Alfredo sauce but hubby and I want red sauce cool. If her girls don’t want NYStrip steak what’s the problem
@formula1fan359 Жыл бұрын
I actually would do that, I’m a picky eater and I feel like if my parents did this to me i’d be less of one lol
@Gfy165 Жыл бұрын
They said no to the food. If I didn’t eat the food prepared for me as a kid I didn’t eat. And my step mom would make me eat it for breakfast the next day.
@SP-LW.55.11.5 Жыл бұрын
But NO, carry on because you're clearly cultivating a HEALTHY relationship with food.
@matchamorphosis Жыл бұрын
You people are on your loser shit. shut the fuck up and get a life.
@xxnekonekox Жыл бұрын
How? by letting your kids be spoiled, lazy and entitled? unless her kids are like under 12 they can heat up some sauce and rice cakes in a pan themselves. This some enabling bs.
@Heartyisok Жыл бұрын
Honestly I can’t get over how good that steak looks
@khusbookhushi3974 Жыл бұрын
"Eat whatever is served or go make something" picky eater habits was gone in 3 days man lmaooo. Thank you tho mom.
@monicalopez8634 Жыл бұрын
Yup!. Thats what MY mom did!. Eat it or go to bed hungry. Period!
@zaina.a Жыл бұрын
I love to see mothers caring for their child’s needs especially the ones most don’t find necessary, ur food always looks amazing and also do u have the recipe of the tomato soup u made once the video where u talked ab one of ur daughters being picky and stuff I just thought that looked amazing and wanted to try! Thank u
@CactusJinx Жыл бұрын
That’s a really cool frying pan!😮
@delaneyyy813 Жыл бұрын
its a wok i think
@novawaffles2818 Жыл бұрын
@@delaneyyy813 girl, you must be crazy. there is no way in hell that can ever be called a wok. i have that exact same pan, and it’s just a nonstick frying pan lol. (sorry if this offended you, i just thought this was really funny)
@Mary-sh2bp Жыл бұрын
I don’t have kids, but I would probably tell my children in the future that I will make them that next time, but wasting food is not good. Eating dinner that you make will make you feel good and next time, ask them what they want for dinner, so you show them and validate and respect their wishes too. Parenting then and now is different, but you worked hard for that dinner and your hardwork need to be appreciated too. I have Asian and my parents would just let me starve if I didn’t eat what they made me, haha😂
@saymaislam1057 Жыл бұрын
tteokbokki is so good, but why are we turning down that juicy steak?
@Whispy_pawsАй бұрын
As an American I hear people saying it common in Asian households to eat what your parents make you but that’s still true in my family you eat what your served or you don’t eat but different things work for different families
@asugarholicslife Жыл бұрын
I'm following you because I like your positivity around food
@annalynnkoz2135 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been buying Korean rice cakes for a while now! And I eat them plain and dip them in soy sauce because I haven’t fully understood how to eat them so thank you for this!!
@susanreed8186 Жыл бұрын
That looks delicious 😋
@hustlegamefam1839 Жыл бұрын
I'm definitely going to try this with my kids! # 🙏🏾💛✌🏾& BLESSINGS!
@midorilee3700 Жыл бұрын
Never saw the sauce made with the additional ingredients. It looks delicious. Usually the sauce is too spicy for me. Gotta try this. Thank you for sharing!
@ViewingWhateverThisIs Жыл бұрын
I think it's really sweet that you went out of your way to make another meal for your girls even though you made a meal already. Both meals look really good. My mom wouldn't have done that for me unless one of my siblings wanted what I wanted then she would have made something for us. I just started making my own food whenever my mom made something that I wouldn't eat.
@SB-os8xk Жыл бұрын
“so i’m making tobokii” 😭 look i love her content but this just made me cackle
@vannagomez08 Жыл бұрын
Wow definitely different parents from when I was a child. If we didn't like it...TO BAD TO SAD..we had to eat it. But very thankful we were made to. I don't waste food and am grateful for all
@leila.7754 Жыл бұрын
Yikes. “Idc if you don’t like something, I’m gonna force you to eat it”
@vannagomez08 Жыл бұрын
@Leila. yup! And it has showed me to appreciate any food that comes to my plate. And I am not picky
@lilith3059 Жыл бұрын
I mean ,it just depends on how the child reacts to it too cause my parents for exemple were very much 'eat what youre given or starve so i would just starve' and if they did force me to eat id be sick. ended up faiting from malnutrition and cps got involded for neglect and only then did they try to cater to my liking of foods but it was too late cause anorexia developed as a toddler and never left. Both approaches can be very harmful to kids and parents should be more mindful to it if they can afford it. The approach will only work on some kids cause i definitely dont appriciate food i just hate it from it
@leila.7754 Жыл бұрын
@@vannagomez08 hope you get the therapy you need❤️
@vannagomez08 Жыл бұрын
@Leila. not sure why I would need therapy but okay.
@vcasxsnk Жыл бұрын
if i say this to my mom, a woman i love and admire to the core- would throw me out of the house.
@Leleche Жыл бұрын
That's sad. You said it as if "haha, joke" but it just sounds really, really sad
@vcasxsnk Жыл бұрын
@@Leleche thank you for your opinion on my life and such an amazing insight on my developmental psyche in light of a culturally contextual parenting opinon, random comment on the internet- but what do i know, i've been raised soooooooo sad that i have to sit here and write a comment justifiying my passing comment, i lack the ability to discern what constitutes a good parent and parenting styles, how unfortunate. im truly, incredibly, deeply, traumatized and i have internalised problematic parental behavior that has been normalised across cultures by respecting the meals my mother, after hours of chores, cooks for me with love and make her do double time. she is so oppressive, i can't even have chicken nuggies for dinner, i have to eat vegetables instead. this is so unfair for my rights as a picky eater. why cant she just make things i like? hail the permissive style of parenting guised as democratic i guess. but what do i know, i am sooooo sad and defensive about this mini comment that i just typed a paragraph. i must've been really hurt and have deep rooted issues from my childhood. truly tragic.
@vcasxsnk Жыл бұрын
bye argue with the wall im turning off notifications lmao op's parenting is not my or my community's thing which a lot of the comment section agrees with and imma now dip have fun replying to my lil comment, ill check back in a few years
@Imanina-kh1ju Жыл бұрын
@@vcasxsnk pls go to therapy. Your mom's parenting is quite terrible if this is the outcome.
@bunda9937 Жыл бұрын
the way she said 떡볶이 reminded me of da vinky 😭 so cute
@hamsterstyle6152 Жыл бұрын
It looks amazing!! You’re such a considerate mother for listening to their feelings and wants instead of guilt tripping them like most parents ❤
@kelseyfarmer1473 Жыл бұрын
You’re such a good mom
@bee5919 Жыл бұрын
Tobokie is messing me up haha😂
@thatlldopig911 Жыл бұрын
My mother always made two options for dinner.. Option one: "eat it" Or Option two: "go without" I always chose option one! 💯
@Hooneydew Жыл бұрын
Looks great! I believe the pronunciation is closer to duck-bok-ki.
@tinasoblessed6350 Жыл бұрын
Everything look delicious 😋
@jasmineservais8689 Жыл бұрын
Everyone: She said Toboki nooo!!! Me: your girls dint want New York steak??!!
@dadeki1389 Жыл бұрын
Butter in tooeboki my Korean granny is mad
@queenkristine9590 Жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 good job making accommodations that are simple. everyone is nourished in the end & nobody had to fight about it.
@M1ASMM2 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could eat this right now looks delicious 😋
@allisonl.2568 Жыл бұрын
I will gladly eat everything 🥺
@9uiv._.1ynn Жыл бұрын
The pronunciation for Tteokbokki and Gochujang are killing me😭
@funlo.vingco Жыл бұрын
Love it❣️I was a picky eater growing up. NO veggies 🤦🏻♀️😬 Spaghetti with meat sauce was my favorite. Hated fried chicken (I woke up from that stupor). Asian household in Hawaii, you could feed me meat and rice ... Or spaghetti...all day. Mom always made more than one main dish and leftovers made for a perfect "mix plate"🙌🏽❣️❣️
@bonsaibaby8257 Жыл бұрын
I always have Nishiki white rice in the rice cooker and could eat spaghetti every single day! I never get tired of spaghetti!! 😋
@alohatvj Жыл бұрын
Looks very delicious 😋 😍
@alliem9404 Жыл бұрын
My kids can eat what I cook or wait until the next meal. If I’m making something extreme (ex, too spicy for them) I might make them a separate kid meal … but if I had already cooked perfectly nice steak for dinner and they didn’t want it they could wait and see what I serve for breakfast 😂
@PotatoPieYT Жыл бұрын
Exactly! I understand if it’s a dish her girls didn’t like, but it just seems like they didn’t want it lol. They can make themselves a bowl of cereal then!
@loomonda18 Жыл бұрын
LOL no way in my household would another meal be made after a first one was cooked. Kinda rude tbh to demand another dish bc you didn't like the original one...
@Keiko_SouthhoofАй бұрын
I made this and it was DELICIOUS i say😜😋 thank you soo much for this recipe😊
@rintintin4329 Жыл бұрын
My mom would never, my gosh I’m jealous of your girls. That looks so good!
@ashlynnhurley7438 Жыл бұрын
The childhood traumas are really coming out in this comment section. Maybe y’all should grow up and stop criticizing how someone else cooks for her kids- *just bc your parents didn’t do the same for you doesn’t make it wrong*
@hahahaha78382 Жыл бұрын
You should add garlic and sugar or 물엿 to thicken it as well
@bonsaibaby8257 Жыл бұрын
She did add sugar. And butter and soy sauce.
@roopkd Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to hear the better pronunciation of this food, songbyrds pronunciation was killin me!
@chai_lattes Жыл бұрын
This is better?!💀
@BAMCarter1211 ай бұрын
Ohh man ... That steak and green beans look soooooo good
@tubbymontana7090 Жыл бұрын
Can’t blame them the sauce sounds bomb 💣 I would eat both 🫢
@jadebayoba7073 Жыл бұрын
I would perdonally eat the steak with the tteokbokki oml
@marybass3673 Жыл бұрын
It looks delicious
@msistah247 Жыл бұрын
definitely making some soon.
@netra7383 Жыл бұрын
she's a great mom for creating a healthy relationship with food to her kids but those parents who made their kids whatever made that day weren't actually being mean... it's either they gave the best of what they had or they go on a policy of being grateful to eat food or they don't want to waste food they've when some parts of the world is dying of hunger. also my personal opinion is the more you eat the more nutrition we get... but again some has sensory issues... it can be a trauma to them to eat everything
@Narwhal-uz9ih Жыл бұрын
If I didn’t like what my mom cooked and I wanted something else she would say “eat or starve” 😂😂😂
@gussygatlin3093 Жыл бұрын
It ALL Looks Good!!!
@leeyotcankok6626 Жыл бұрын
Looks delicious with the steak
@ivanl7731 Жыл бұрын
Went straight into the comments on this one
@victorialam9044 Жыл бұрын
Just my opinion, I feel like when I’m a mother I wouldn’t just let my child go against something I’ve already made for them like dinner, for me personally I think respecting what’s made for you is very important and if you want something else you can wait for next time or ask for it so it can be prepared for another day and not just make someone scrap their finished work to make something new cuz “you didn’t feel like it” That’s just my opinion, there’s nothing wrong with what you’re doing pls enlighten me maybe this is some kind of soft parenting???
@lilith3059 Жыл бұрын
I dont think is even soft parenting she doesn't do this every time, you can give your child what they want once in a while. Especially if is maybe something they really dont like at all and she probably doesn't want them not eating at all
@izzyolanrewaju809 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing my parents don’t really cook dinner so we make it ourselves. Looks super yummy though.
@kokorywood9036 Жыл бұрын
Hey this looked delicious!
@nolacsanail Жыл бұрын
Lucky daughters! If our mother cooked us something to eat, whether we like it or not, my sis, dad and I say thank you and eat what she prepared to show our appreciation for the time and effort.
@Leleche Жыл бұрын
My parents forced me to eat what I didn't like or else I starved. That turned into an eating disorder. After 25years I still have an eating disorder. Just because your parents didn't give you options doesn't mean this parent can't. Maybe if my parents gave me options I wouldn't have this disgusting disease.
@mack_valenzuela Жыл бұрын
At first I was like what's wrong with them. Now I want some of that 😂 looks like so much more flavor than steak
@BlowUpTheOutsideWorld Жыл бұрын
Looks yum!
@manflynil9751 Жыл бұрын
I've never seen this food before. But when said rice cakes, I understand what it is. I think it's pureed cooked rice piped into cylinders and pre boiled. Which is the same method for cooking Gnocchi Parisienne. Except the gnocchi are made with choux paste which is piped into boiling water.
@bonsaibaby8257 Жыл бұрын
Rice cakes are made by adding water to rice flour to make a dough and then rolled into cylinders.
@manflynil9751 Жыл бұрын
@@bonsaibaby8257 thank you.
@ruthlessrays9761 Жыл бұрын
not the “tteoboki” pronunciation lmao I’ve never heard someone says it like that
@khadyluvsmsc Жыл бұрын
The boki😭
@icajunwoo4 ай бұрын
That steak looks really good 😋😋 You're a great momma
@Sapphire_lynxxАй бұрын
"Só I'm making doboki, for the girls" HELPPP ICONIC
@ruthlalhruaitluangi6229 Жыл бұрын
it is so heartwarming to see you help your daughters have a healthy relationship with food I really hope i can be like that too in the future🤗
@ismahanali952 Жыл бұрын
What does she plan to do with the steak now? Being considerate of your kids is great, but try asking what they would like to eat ahead of time to avoid wasting your time, energy, and tossing that food now 🥴
@lunarcottage Жыл бұрын
Can I have some? Xd looks so yummy had it before and it’s really goood
@vithevee Жыл бұрын
i love how you’re not forcing them to eat what you make them
@ms.nebraska Жыл бұрын
I'll have the steak if nobody wants it 😂😂
@pinkpalette Жыл бұрын
if you’re not Korean don’t tell people how to pronounce korean words… unless you’ve fully studied the language or are actually korean don’t criticize people’s pronunciation.
@ryenu Жыл бұрын
bro she didn't even say that was how it's supposed to be pronounced. also, kinda hypocritical that you're telling her not to tell ppl how to pronounce tteokbokki when you yourself prob isn't a Korean and here you are telling her what she's not even doing is wrong bc she isn't Korean 💀 Koreaboo spotted
@ryenu Жыл бұрын
also, are you deaf bc she never insulted ppl ever in this short for pronouncing tteokbokki wrong.
@pinkpalette Жыл бұрын
@@ryenu I’m not taking about her I’m talking about people in the comments attacking her.